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STAFF Rev. Lynwood Wells Pastor Tee Nou Youth Pastor Dreama Johnson Office Administrator Christy Kuhnle Pianist, New Celebration Director TommieWheeler Custodian TEAM LEADERS Pam Cooke Moderator/ Vision Team Tara Borton Finance Team Denise Vassar Facilities Team Bob Spiers Mission Action Team Robbie Ayscue Worship Team Tim Humphries Outreach Team Dwight & Lisa Godwin Discipleship Team Joe Wircenske Deacons Roger Cooke People Support Team 101 Main Street Newport News, VA 23601 757-595-3300 Weekly Newsletter October 12, 2015 THE HOPE OF GLORY! WEEK THREE: “GET YOUR HOPES UP!” We continue The Hope of Glory with a message about finding hope in the most unlikely of circumstances. Like Abraham, we can face the facts of life and still access the hope of glory every day. THE STORY BEHIND THE GLORY - In Romans 4, the Apostle Paul refers to Abraham, who never wavered in his faith, despite having no real reason to believe he would see God’s promises fulfilled in his life. The book of Genesis records the story between God’s promise to Abraham and the hero of the faith we remember him as today. Along the way, remaining faithful was not as easy as it may have sounded. This reminds us, “Everyone has a story behind their glory.” Often times, the promises of God don’t seem to make sense in light of what we see. When that happens, it can be difficult to keep our hopes up. YOUR FAITH NEEDS A FIGHT- For your faith to be strengthened, it has to have something to push against. Nothing gets stronger without resistance—not a marriage, not a church, and not a dream… Faith needs a fight in order to grow. When God promised Abraham that he would make him the “father of many nations,” it didn’t make sense to him. Abraham was 100 years old, without a son, and his wife was too old to conceive. Against all hope, however, Abraham still found a way to believe in hope and thus strengthened his faith. In the same way, our faith grows whenever we can push against all odds and find a hope to cling to within us. THE FACTS, THE FAILURES, AND THE FEELINGS - Still, it can be incredibly difficult to find our faith in the midst of seemingly impossible or hopeless situations. Throughout his life, Abraham was forced to work through numerous limitations, mistakes, and circumstances that worked against the promise God made to him. Today, we live as recipients of many promises of God. However, many of our struggles can seem to weigh down our hopes and keep us living in discouragement. Sometimes, the facts of our present circumstances stand in clear contradiction of our hope. Other times, reminders of our past failures can come back to haunt us and cause us to lose hope. In all of this, our feelings, perhaps the biggest challenger to our faith, will drive us further from finding the hope of glory within us. THE WEIGHT OF GLORY - In Romans 4:20-21, Paul wrote that Abraham was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God, believing that He was fully capable of performing all that He had promised. In Hebrew, the word “glory” means “weight.” Therefore, to say that Abraham gave glory to God would literally mean that he gave weight to His promises—more weight than he gave to his facts, failures, or feelings. On the grace journey of faith together with you, Lynwood

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Page 1: Weekly Newsletter October 12, 2015 - Hilton Baptist Church€¦ · New Hampshire– Dipa Biswa New York– Beverly Falnnery, Josh Johnson, Norman Cannada, Vasha Nelson, Natarsha Roberson

STAFF

Rev. Lynwood Wells Pastor

Tee Nou Youth Pastor

Dreama Johnson Office Administrator

Christy Kuhnle Pianist, New

Celebration Director

TommieWheeler Custodian

TEAM LEADERS

Pam Cooke Moderator/ Vision Team

Tara Borton Finance Team

Denise Vassar Facilities Team

Bob Spiers Mission Action Team

Robbie Ayscue Worship Team

Tim Humphries Outreach Team

Dwight & Lisa Godwin Discipleship Team

Joe Wircenske Deacons

Roger Cooke People Support Team

101 Main Street

Newport News, VA

23601

757-595-3300

Weekly Newsletter

October 12, 2015

THE HOPE OF GLORY! WEEK THREE: “GET YOUR HOPES UP!” We continue The Hope of Glory with a message about finding hope in the most unlikely of circumstances. Like Abraham, we can face the facts of life and still access the hope of glory every day. THE STORY BEHIND THE GLORY - In Romans 4, the Apostle Paul refers to Abraham, who never wavered in his

faith, despite having no real reason to believe he would see God’s promises fulfilled in his life. The book of Genesis records the story between God’s promise to Abraham and the hero of the faith we remember him as today. Along the way, remaining faithful was not as easy as it may have sounded. This reminds us, “Everyone has a story behind their glory.” Often times, the promises of God don’t seem to make sense in light of what we see. When that happens, it can be difficult to keep our hopes up. YOUR FAITH NEEDS A FIGHT- For your faith to be strengthened, it has to have something to push against. Nothing gets stronger without resistance—not a marriage, not a church, and not a dream… Faith needs a fight in order to grow. When God promised Abraham that he would make him the “father of many nations,” it didn’t make sense to him. Abraham was 100 years old, without a son, and his wife was too old to conceive. Against all hope, however, Abraham still found a way to believe in hope and thus strengthened his faith. In the same way, our faith grows whenever we can push against all odds and find a hope to cling to within us. THE FACTS, THE FAILURES, AND THE FEELINGS - Still, it can be incredibly difficult to find our faith in the midst of seemingly impossible or hopeless situations. Throughout his life, Abraham was forced to work through numerous limitations, mistakes, and circumstances that worked against the promise God made to him. Today, we live as recipients of many promises of God. However, many of our struggles can seem to weigh down our hopes and keep us living in discouragement. Sometimes, the facts of our present circumstances stand in clear contradiction of our hope. Other times, reminders of our past failures can come back to haunt us and cause us to lose hope. In all of this, our feelings, perhaps the biggest challenger to our faith, will drive us further from finding the hope of glory within us. THE WEIGHT OF GLORY - In Romans 4:20-21, Paul wrote that Abraham was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God, believing that He was fully capable of performing all that He had promised. In Hebrew, the word “glory” means “weight.” Therefore, to say that Abraham gave glory to God would literally mean that he gave weight to His promises—more weight than he gave to his facts, failures, or feelings.

On the grace journey of faith together with you, Lynwood

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The Hilton Baptist Church Record

October 12 , 2015 101 Main Street

Newport News, VA 23601

Youth and Young Adult

Outing

Mark your calendars now.

Saturday, November 21st

9am—8pm

Hiking in Charlottesville, VA

No fee for the trip...just

bring money for lunch and

dinner

See Tee for more

infor-

Sunday School and Worship Report October 11 2015

Sunday School Enrollment…..………….……....…….……..….....104

Contacts……………………………………..... ............. ...................47

Visitors…………………………….………........................................0

Total present...……………………… …….…....……….……. ….51

One Class did not report

Worship Attendance…..78

HBC Counting Report for October11, 2015

8-200 Future Growth……………………………………….........$75.00

8-106 Alma Hunt…………….……………………………..…..$100.00

8-102 Wednesday Night ……………………………………….$142.25

8-403 Food Pantry……………………………………………...$175.00

8-145 Bazaar—Chairs …………………………………………..$71.00

8-145 Cash in out– Youth Minister…………………………....$200.00

8-145 Cash in / Cash out—Coffee Fund…………………………$16.00

8-404 WMU– Pure Water Pure Love.

In Memory of Marlene Carver……………………$20.00

8-104 Annie Armstrong Offering………………………………..$125.00

8-520 Hilton School of Music……………………………… ……$68.00

Budget………...……………………………………………..…$4755.00

Budget In Memory of Neil Grinnalds……………………………$40.00

Budget In Honor of Jeanne Surber and Denise Vassar………….$200.00

Budget Designated—Thanksgiving Dinner……………………….$50.00

Total Deposit………………………………………………….$6037.25

We would like to keep in touch with you

by email when there is a special

announcement or urgent need in the

church. If you have not registered your

email address with the church or if you

have changed your email address in the

last two years, please contact the office

so that it can be updated.

We want to keep you up to date on the things that are

happening at HBC.

Send an email today…[email protected]

Youth Fund Raiser

The youth will be having a

fund raiser for WNS on

October 21st. They will be

preparing Spaghetti and

meatballs. Please come out

and support our Youth.

Tee is doing a great job

and the group is growing in

size. Don’t forget to make

reservations by Monday,

October 19th if you are

coming…

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OUR ON

GOING

MISSION….

Don’t forget to bring those

printer cartridges, old cell

phone, MP3 players and

cameras and drop them off in

the church office ! We will

recycle them and get a little

money for the church.

Alma Hunt State Missions Offering

Alma Hunt was a native Virginia who was known world-wide for her missions service and her unswerving

dedication to the cause of Christ.

When you give to the Alma Hunt Offering for Virginia Missions, you are claiming God’s command to give and to serve. Through this offering, you and others are able to do something special— “Across the Street, Around the

World”

Church Goal $2000.00

Collected to Date $2055.00

October

Youth

Challenge

Dish soap,

Spiral notebooks,

Laundry Soap, Shampoo

Church Pantry

Please pray for the following Missionaries this week:

Arizona– Rik Danielseen

California– Jorge Mendoza, Shauna Pilgreen

Colorado– Adam Young

Florida– Carlos Alberto Rodriquez– Ramirez

Georgia– Sandy Hafex, Angie Peavy

Hawaii– Ikaika Higa

Indiana– Maranda Nichols

New Hampshire– Dipa Biswa

New York– Beverly Falnnery, Josh Johnson,

Norman Cannada, Vasha Nelson, Natarsha Roberson

Tennessee– Joseph Ledford

Vermont– Brandon Rogers

American People– LH, Patricia Malphrus

East Asian People– Barbara Dunbar, DM, DS, TS

European People– Kayla York

Global Resource Team– RA

Sub-Saharan African People– KC

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Weekly Assignment

Schedule This week at HBC

Serving our local community with the love of Jesus!

Children’s

Christmas

Workshop

Plans for the Work-

shop are already

starting. We need

everyone’s help. Please see

Cathy Childs if you can help in

anyway! Lots of fun will be had

by all. We have a place for you

to help!

Singing Saints!

Monday October 26th

Chesapeake 2pm

November 2nd

Mennowood 2pm

Greeters/ Ushers October 18– Joe and Kathy Caskie October 25– Roger & Pam Cooke ,

Robert Overman

Lock Up October 18– Tim Humphreys October 25– Charles Vassar

Bus Ministry

October 18– Stan Langdon October 25– Joe Caskie

Deacon of the Week

October 18– Joe Wircneske October 25– Robbie Ayscue

Nursery Helpers

October 18– Hope/ Tribble Class

October 25– NC/ New Visions

SS and Children’s Church

October 18– Kathy Caskie

Pat Schell

October 25– Tracy Venable/

Margaret Upole

Food Distribution this week

October 13- Jean Parker

Ann Nichols

October 15– Kathy Caskie

Dreama

WNS Support

October 14– Joy Class

October 21– Youth Fund Raiser

If you can not be present for your date, please contact a

Tuesday, October 13th

10:30 am Happy Hearts

6:30 pm Deacons Meeting

Wednesday, October 14th

5:00 pm Wednesday Night Supper

6:15 pm Children in Action

6:15 pm NC Practice

6:15 pm Bible Study

6:00 pm Youth

Saturday, October 17th

8:00am B– Men’s Breakfast

Sunday, October 25th

9am Sunday School/ Life Groups

10am Worship Celebration

Happy Birthday in October

11– Hilda Laubach

11—Tee Nou

13– Moriah Nou

14– Kathleen Hankins

Virginia Stoop

15– Carrie Ripley

17– Marilyn Hargrove

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Prayer or Praise Report-

If you have a special prayer request or Praise Report, please email them to the church email and Pastor Lynwood will be sure to pray for them. If it is a personal request that you would not like mentioned, He will be sensitive to this matter, just mention it in the email. [email protected]

Wednesday Night Suppers

October 7 Baked Ziti

Adults $5.00, Kids $3.00 Family of 4 or more $15.00

Everyone is invited!

Dinner is being served from 5pm– 5:45pm

HBC Fall Craft and Vendor Show

The amounts have been tallied and are listed below to the amount of money that we raised. Thanks again to everyone who gave of any and all capacities. It took us all to make this a great success. A special thanks to Denise for heading up the event! Your time and resources are so appreciated.

Vendor Spaces $1800.00

Quilt Raffle $482.10

Silent Auction $1682.00

Food $877.08

Bake Sale $661.37

Chair Sale $186.00

Donation from Tribble Class $25.00

Total $5713.55 GREAT JOB!

We will be having a follow up meeting on Monday, October 19th at 6:30pm to review the show to see what we did good and ways we can improve.

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PBA Annual Meeting– October 26th and 27th

Sixth Mount Zion Baptist Temple

Monday– 4pm Breakout Sessions- Information will be available on the

sessions next week from PBA

Tuesday 3:30pm Business Session

Monday Night Service- Music led by worship team at Sixth Mount

Zion Church. Melanie Lassister and Jerome Barber are the speakers

Tuesday Night Service- Music led by Immanuel Baptist Church.

Charles Cheek and Chuck Harrison will be speaking.

More information will be published once it becomes available.

October is Clergy Appreciation Month

Please take time out this month to thank Pastor Lynwood for all that he does for HBC. He is always there for each member individ-

ually and also for the church body as a whole. We are truly blessed that he is our pastor.

Don’t miss your opportunity this month to express your love and appreciation for this special man of God.

“Let the elders that rule well be counted worthy of double honor, especially they who labor in the word and doctrine” I Timothy 5:17

Thanksgiving Community Dinner

Thanksgiving is just around the corner and we are starting to collect dona-tions for the Community Dinner that will be held on Thanksgiving Day. Anyone that would like to donate a turkey, please place it in the freezer in the kitchen and

let Jeanne, Denise or Dreama know that it is there. Also if you would like to donate monetarily just mark the envelope Thanksgiving Dinner and we will be sure that it is used for that. We are asking everyone that can to bring a dessert on Thanksgiv-

ing Day for the dinner. If you can do that, we would also need to know so we can plan accordingly.

All the HBC Family and friends are invited also. Looking forward to

A great day as we give Thanks to the Lord

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Trunk or Treat Community Outreach

October 31st from 4pm until 8pm

4-6pm Games for all ages, crafts, music and food…

6-8pm Trunk or Treat from your own decorated car

We need volunteers for all areas!

There is a sign up sheet in the Connection Center !

Please plan to decorate your car and come be a part of all the fun as we reach

out to our community.

Due to the activities planned, we need everyone who will be decorating a car to PLEASE

sign up so we can make proper arrangements.

Contact Tim or the church office if you have any questions.

It is not to late to fix a shoebox for Operation Christmas Child. This will be the only thing that some child around the

world gets. We have had 50 boxes already prepared and ready to go. Please see the Mission Table for labels. If you can not fill a box but would like to help, the shipping to send each box is $7.00. Please mark your offering and we will be sure it is

used for Operation Christmas Child.

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We Become His Son

There is a story that comes out of the Bedouin culture. “Bedouin” is the Aramaic name for “desert dwellers.” These people live much as the characters of the Old Testament did. During a heated argument, according to this story, a young Bedouin struck and killed a friend of his. Knowing the ancient, inflexible customs of his people, the young man fled, running across the desert under the cover of darkness, seeking safety. He went to the black tent of the tribal chief in order to seek his protection. The old chief took the young Arab in. The chief assured him that he would be safe until the matter could be settled legally. The next day, the young man’s pursuers arrived, demanding the murderer be turned over to them. They would see that justice would prevail in their own way. “But I have given my word,” protested the chief. “But you don’t know whom he killed!” they countered. “I have given my word,” the chief repeated. “He killed your son!” one of them blurted out. The chief was deeply and visibly shaken with his news. He stood speechless with his head bowed for a long time. The accused and the accusers as well as curious onlookers waited breathlessly. What would happen to the young man? Finally the old man raised his head. “Then he shall become my son,” he informed them, “and everything I have will one day be his.” The young man certainly didn’t deserve such generosity. And that, of course, is the point. Love in its purest form is beyond comprehension. No one can merit it. It is freely given. It is agape, the love of God. Look to the cross. At the cross we encounter love in its purest form.

“Mercy there was great and grace was free, Pardon there was multiplied to me,

There my burdened soul found liberty, At Calvary!”

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A Glass of Milk One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry. He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it slowly, and then asked, "How much do I owe you?"

"You don't owe me anything," she replied. "Mother has taught us never to accept pay for a kindness." He said, "Then I thank you from my heart." As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give up and quit. Years later that young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room. Dressed in his doctor's gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to the case. After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room. She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her attention on the side of the bill. She read these words... "Paid in full with one glass of milk" (Signed) Dr. Howard Kelly Tears of joy flooded her eyes as her happy heart prayed: "Thank You, God, that Your love has spread abroad through human hearts and hands."

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God Makes It Grow

Paul wrote his first letter to the Corinthian church to correct several problems. The Corinthian's needed instruction in marriage, Christian freedom, worship, and various issues which tended to cause division. He rebuked the church for quarreling about whom they followed: "You are still worldly... For when one says, 'I follow Paul,' and another, 'I follow Apollos,' are you not mere men?"(1 Corinthians 3:3,4). Apollos was a good teacher, but Paul reminds us that all minis-ters of the Gospel – all preachers, teachers, parents, and anyone else who desires to share Biblical truths – are simply servants through whom God accomplishes His work. We become worldly and fail to live according to the Spirit of God any time we become followers of a specific minister or feel personally responsible for someone's growth and maturity. 1 Corinthians 3:5-6 says, "What, after all, is Apollos? And what is Paul? Only servants, through whom you came to believe – as the Lord has assigned to each his task. I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow." We must always remain exclusive followers of Jesus Christ! Though He may use many others to assist in the process, God must receive ALL the credit and glory for our growth. In the same manner, God uses each of us to ASSIST in the growth of others. We can teach truth with our words and demonstrate truth with our lives, but we can never cause someone to accept the truth or even grow to a deeper understanding. Our instructions are to plant the seed of His Word and water with discipleship, prayer, and encouragement at every opportunity; "We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making His appeal through us" (2 Corinthians 5:20). As we plant and water, it's normal to want to see some growth. We may desire to see blossoms overnight, but God is growing a mighty shade tree with deep roots and wide branches that will not break in the wind – and this kind of growth takes time. We may NEVER see the eternal results of our effort, but we must patiently continue to plant and water, and trust God to accomplish His work; "My Word will not return to Me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I have sent it" (Isaiah 55:11). Each of us knows someone who needs to know our Heavenly Father in a more personal way. There are great ministry opportunities placed in our path every day. Let's obediently follow by being well nourished and casting forth the seed and water of His Word without becoming discouraged. Let's remember we are the servants through whom He works, but let's ALWAYS remember that God makes it grow!

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Choosing Your Identity In Christ Sometimes you find somebody else has conveyed a thought or idea you have been thinking about better than you can. I read the following devotional from Rick Warren that spoke to very directly to me. And thought I’d pass the same along to you! “Anyone who is joined to Christ is a new being; the old is gone, the new has

come.” 2 Corinthians 5:17

Ultimately, your identity is based on your choices. Here are five winning choices you can make that will help determine your destiny: 1 - I can choose to get healthier. Instead of bemoaning the fact that you don’t have an Olympic body, find ways to increase your energy, lower your stress, get more sleep, and have more power. Psalm 119:73 says, “You made me; you created me. Now give me the sense to follow your com-mands” (LB). Improving the controllable factors in your life helps you reduce the impact of the un-controllable factors. 2 - I can choose to deepen relationships. The fear of rejection prevents connection, and the only way to get rid of fear is to do the thing you fear the most. Learn communication skills, replace bad relationships, reach out and risk connecting with someone. “Let love be your highest goal!” (1 Corinthians 14:1) 3 - I can choose to trust God no matter what happens. “I will always thank the Lord; I will never stop praising him” (Psalm 34:1). When you get to the point in your life where you can say, “I praise the Lord no matter what happens,” that is a confidence that you won’t find anywhere in Hollywood, on Capitol Hill, or on Wall Street. That is a confidence built on a relationship with God! 4 - I can choose what I think about. Throughout the 20th century, scientists believed the adult brain could not be changed. When the 2002 Nobel Peace Prize winner finally proved that you can rewire your brain, science finally caught up to the Bible: “Let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think” (Romans 12:2). Your self is created by your memories, and your memories are created by your mental habits. Feed your brain with truth — God’s Word.

5 - I can choose Jesus as my Savior. I’m not just talking about Jesus saving you from your sins. I’m talking about letting Jesus be your savior every day. Letting Jesus save you gives you the power to follow through on the choices you make. “Anyone who is joined to Christ is a new being; the old is gone, the new has come” (2 Corinthians 5:17 LB). You get to choose how much God blesses your life; He is just waiting on you to use your wild card.

It is never too late to change!

Rick Warren is the founding pastor of Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, Calif., one of America's

largest and most influential SBC churches.

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Stop Complaining and Start Gaining

"'Do everything without complaining...'" Phil. 2:14 Isn't complaining really just about words? No, it's much more than that!

First, complaining hands your power over to the people and circumstances you complain about, making you feel like their

victim. It diminishes your ability to think of solutions, conditions your mind negatively and blunts your ability to receive creative ideas from God. Positive outcomes don't grow in negative soil! You can't complain and create simultaneously. "Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring...can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs?..." (James 3:11-12)

Complaints are verbal expressions of negative beliefs. They cancel positive intentions and confessions, rendering you powerless to reap the gains God offers. Complaining focuses on a past you can't change. It keeps you scavenging in yesterday's debris, searching for evidence about "who did what" and "when" and "why," while your present slips fruitlessly away.

Second, complaining is toxic to your relationships. "...Do you not know...a little leaven leavens the whole lump?‘ (1 Corinthians 5:6) Complaining invites others to complain. Injected poison toxifies every part of the body. Subtly, your relationship, your family, your workplace, your church and your environment become polluted. Complaining polarizes relationships. People who don't like stress, anxiety and negativity begin to distance themselves from you.

"The tongue has the power of life and death..." (Proverbs 18:21) – your life and death, and the life and death of others. So pray, "Set a guard over my mouth, O Lord...‘ (Psalm 141:3); help me to avoid complaining. The Last Impression

A middle-aged man was waiting for the bus. While he waited, he watched a young boy eat five candy bars, one right after the other. He said to the boy, "Eating all that candy is bad for your health and can rot your teeth."

The boy replied, "Mister, my grandfather lived to be 97 years old!"

The man said, "I'll bet he didn't eat five candy bars in a row."

The boy answered, "No, but he sure knew how to mind his own business!"

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THIS HALLOWEEN – October 31st FALL FESTIVAL -- 4:00pm – 6:00pm

“TRUNK-OR-TREAT” – 6:00pm – 8:00pm This is a “family event” for everybody!

Food, fun, music, games and prizes in the back park ing lot of church! Invite your friends!

Seven of our HBC leadership team attended the 2015 WAVE Conference in August…

and found it life changing!

The next 7 Weds Nights at 6:15 pm in our own HBC Media Room you will be able to hear the same!

PLAN NOW TO COME AND BRING A FRIEND - Join us 1t 5:00pm for Family Night Supper!

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Our Youth Group keeps getting better and better… Sunday Mornings 9:00am

Wednesday Nights 6:00pm

“Real Life, Real Issues”

Join us for these dynamic Youth Bible studies with the best of contemporary small-group interaction. Helping students identify distortions in vital areas of life, and see with greater clarity and truth about God, themselves and others… in terms to which they can relate!

"Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example

in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity." 1 Timothy 4:12

God is doing some

exciting new and

powerful things through the faithful

people of God at HBC

Please remember

your tithing commitments and giving and be part

of the