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Warrior WelcomeDeerfield High School
Class of 2023
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CounselorRole
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Social/Emotional
Post-Secondary Planning
Academic
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CounselorRole
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Counselor all 4 years24-hour turnaround on phone calls and emails
Student Meetings - Pre-arranged or during walk-through hours
Advisory - Vehicle for getting to know the freshmen
Average counselor caseload - 255 students
Students not in my assigned advisories
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Contact the teacher first
Resources: Meet with the teacher; ARC
03 If the problem persists, please reach out to the counselor
Academic Difficulty
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Problem Solving
Peer Issues / Peer Pressure
Emotional Concerns
A Place For Your Students
To Vent
Concerns You May Have About Your
Student
Support Groups:
Meet Weekly
Social/Emotional
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Homeroom4-year program that meets 4 times a week
AdvisoryAlso meets 4 times a week throughout freshman year
A program to help freshmen with their transition into high school
Advisory team consisting of teacher, senior advisors and counselors
Getting Connected: Support Systems
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Student-Counselor Relationship
It’s important for your student to develop a working relationship with their counselor.
If your student contacts you in crisis,
please encourage them to go directly to
the Counseling Center.
Allow the student to self-advocate first.
They will soon be adults, so it is vital
they begin to practice taking on more responsibility.
Encourage your student to utilize
counseling walk-through hours
(available on a daily basis).
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Starting Out Strong
There is a direct correlation between attendance and
success in school.
Help student to get off to a strong start with homework.
Students usually have homework on a nightly basis.
Be aware of certain times of year with
increased workloads.
Encourage student to get involved - make friends, extracurricular activities.
Maintain balance (academics,
athletics/activities, friendships, family
responsibilities)
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Deerfield High School Cycle Template
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How To Raise An Adult:Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success
Julie Lythcott-Haims
Recommended Reading...
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01Get up and ready for school on their own?
02Manage their homework, project, assessment prep
on their own?
03Contribute to the
household by doing regular chores?
(i.e. laundry, cooking)
Does Your Student...
04Manage challenging
situations on their own?
Are You Raising An Adult?
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By: Julie Lythcott-Haims
Takeaways
The 18-year-old checklist
Let your kid be who they are,
let them chart their own path.
Check your fears.
Teach them to think and prepare
them for hard work
“Over- parenting” leads
to increase in anxiety,
depression, and substance abuse
in adulthood.
Self-care is good for you and your student
The college admissions
process is broken (read
Frank Bruni!)
Normalize struggle to build
resilience
How To Raise An Adult
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Reasonable Academic
Expectations
Sleep Phone Usage / Screen Time
Healthy Eating
Exercise
Finding Balance
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Phone Use Research
Research shows happiness and mental health are negatively impacted by over 2 hours a day on personal device
Twice as many heavy users of electronic devices are unhappy, depressed or distressed as light users.
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Tips For Reducing Screen Time
Family charging station - curfew for phones
Research parental controls / apps that set time limits
03Monitor Chromebook usage. They need it for academic work, but can also use it for social media / messaging.
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Teenagers 13 to 18 years of age
should sleep 8 to 10 hours per 24-hours
on a regular basis to promote optimal
health.
Sleep: American Academy of Pediatrics
Adequate sleep duration on a regular
basis leads to improved attention, behavior, learning, memory, emotional regulation, quality of life, and mental and
physical health.
Work with your teen to help them stay on
a consistent schedule throughout
the week and weekend.
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August September October Additional
August 19First Day of School
September 4Open House
October 23Freshman Parent Meeting
MondaysLate Start
See Handout for DetailsFor all programs hosted by the Counseling Department, handouts and information will be available in
the Counseling section of the DHS website.
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Have a great year!