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UNIVERSITY OF TECHNOLOGY, JAMAICA Mentorship Manual “Mentoring is a brain to pick, an ear to listen, and a push in the right direction.” John C. Cros Volume 2

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UNIVERSITY OF TECHNOLOGY, JAMAICA

Mentorship Manual

“Mentoring is a brain to pick, an ear to listen, and a push in the right direction.”

John C. Cros

Volume

2

UNIVERSITY OF TECHNOLOGY, JAMAICA

Mentorship Programme

The Department of Student Services Tel: (876) 927-1680-8 Ext: 2267

Fax: (876) 970-4713 Email: [email protected]

The Alumni Relations Office Tel: (876) 512-2087 Fax: (876) 970-2225

Email:[email protected]

Table of Contents

I N T R O D U C T IO N … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … . . 1

M E S S A G E S … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … . . . 2 - 6

U N IV E R S I T Y R E G IS T R A R , D I V IS O N O F S T U D E N T S E R V I C E S & R E G IS T R Y

A S S IS T A N T R E G I S T R A R , S T U D E N T S E R VI C E S

C A R E E R A N D P L A C E ME N T O F F I C E R

A L U MN I R E L A T IO N S O F F I C E R

T H E C O N C E P T O F ME N T O R IN G … … … … … … … … … … … … … … 8

T H E N A T U R E O F U T E C H ’ S M E N T O R IN G P R O G R A M ME … … . 9

E - ME N T O R I N G … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … . . 1 0

E X P E C T A T IO N S … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … . . 1 1 - 2 3

M E N T O R S

M E N T E E S

B E N E F I T S IN A N U T S H E L L… … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … . 2 4

G E T T IN G S T A R T E D … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … . . 2 5 - 2 6

B U ILD IN G R E LA T I O N S H IP S … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … . 2 7

C R O S S WO R D P U ZZ L E … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … . . 2 8

M E N T O R S H I P P R O G R A M M E

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INTRODUCTION

The Mentorship Programme at the University of Technology, Jamaica, is a

collaborative effort between the Department of Student Services and the Alumni

Relations Office. The programme is designed to develop and fine-tune the skills of

third and final year students with a view to aiding their integration into the

professional world of work. The Mentorship Programme places emphasis on the

development of the students’ life skills outside of the classroom through one to one

interaction with specially selected professionals who will perform the role of

mentors. These mentors, selected from the University’s alumni, staff as well as

other professionals, will provide the positive motivation necessary for the students

to become well-rounded individuals, assist in developing leadership skills and form

linkages in the professional community. Participants may enjoy mutually satisfying

relationships as they seek to develop a better understanding of people and form life-

long friendships. The programme supports the University’s commitment to

providing a holistic approach to the education of its students and therefore seeks to

develop the whole person through this channel.

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University registrar’s Message

Mrs. Mercedes Deane

It is with great pleasure that I extend a warm welcome to

all mentors and mentees of the UTech, Ja. Mentorship Programme. We are in a time

where students need guidance and counselling on how to navigate the uncertainties

behind, among other things, career planning and professionalism. Most importantly,

self-development is of tantamount importance as we seek to undergird students

through the Mentorship Programme.

As you actively participate, I trust that this experience will be mutually enriching

both professionally and personally. My sincere hope is that you will benefit from

the programme and find it to be a rewarding experience.

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Assistant Registrar’s Message

Mrs. Dorrset Gabbidon-Pottinger

It is with great pleasure that I welcome you to the UTech,

Jamaica Mentorship programme. You have made an excellent decision by choosing

to be a part of this programme. The aim is to foster and develop professional

relationships and lifelong friendships between mentees and mentors.

The university’s mentorship programme is an unintrusive transition and support

programme aimed at preparing students for real life work experiences ahead.

Mentoring is a strategy for development at any age, and benefits both mentees

and mentors. Therefore, we urge students to use this opportunity to gain

knowledge, advice and wisdom from their mentors in order to become valuable

members of the UTech, Ja. community, the nation and the global workforce.

Likewise, it is our hope that our mentors get a chance to share their experiences

and knowledge, whilst reflecting on their own career and personal development.

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Career and Placement Officer’s

message

Mr. Maurice Colquhoun

I am elated to welcome all mentors and mentees

of the UTech, Ja. Mentorship Programme. Regrettably at this time students are

going through university without the right consultation. Students should be able

to have and find mature professionals who may not necessarily have the right

answers, but can be a source of help and encouragement. The Mentorship

Programme exists as the vehicle through which students and industry

practitioners can be paired together for the formation of unique networking

relationships.

My sincere hope is that students will capitalize on this opportunity as the

programme offers a means for professional/personal growth, counselling, and

advice. Additionally, my desire is that mentors will seek to offer themselves and

service for the enhancement of students’ welfare.

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Alumni Relations Officer

message

Ms. Cheryll Messam Welcome to our community of mentors at the

University of Technology, Jamaica (UTech, Jamaica)! We are happy that you

have chosen to support UTech, Jamaica in the personal and professional

development of our students, through mentorship. We are especially thankful to

our mentors who are also alumni of UTech, Jamaica, for giving back to your

alma mater in this act of service.

As mentors, you enter the lives of our students at a critical and vulnerable period

of their life-stage and development. Many of our students, though enrolled in

degree programmes, are still unclear about their career goals, and how best to

make wise decisions relevant to their significant relationships and the demands

of daily life.

As you engage with your mentee, you will serve multiple roles, including

teacher, coach, confidante, comforter, and champion. You will serve as an

example of professionalism and help them to transition with support and greater

confidence into the world of work. Your choice to engage with our students as

mentor will ensure a positive and life-enhancing experience for you and your

mentee.

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We in the Alumni Relations Office are ready to support you in any way we can

to ensure that you have a positively impactful academic year in our mentorship

programme. Thank you for investing in the development of our students, our

University and our nation. We wish for you a strong, vibrant and enduring

mentor-mentee relationship this academic year and beyond.

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The concept of Mentoring

Mentoring is not a new concept. In ancient societies, the passing on of ideas

and ideals of behaviour, was a means of ensuring continuity of societal codes

of conduct. In Greek mythology, Greek gods and goddesses were models of

those societies and each of them had set patterns of behaviour/expectations

that people sought to emulate or appease.

This concept which revolves around the interaction between a trusted friend

or experienced individual and a less-experienced or younger person,

continues today.

In the informal sense, mentoring takes place quite unconsciously. An

individual may provide guidance by virtue of his/her behaviour to a less

experienced or younger person. Likewise, a mentee may select someone

he/she admires and seek to emulate that individual.

Hence some mentors are chosen, some evolve naturally, based on the heights

of their achievements, earned respect and/or their willingness to lead. In

modern times mentoring has been developed as an academic concept where

formulating and measuring progress of the programme is documented.

In whatever format, the objectives of mentoring are the same. Such a

programme provides young people with a trusted friend who offers

direction and support to them and who contributes to their psychosocial

development, guiding them into adulthood and independence.

Thus the shaping of new societies is a direct function of these relationships.

The UTech Mentorship Programme--helping students

to bridge the gap between the University and the world

of work.

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The Nature of the UTech, JA.

Mentorship relationship

There is no single formula for good mentoring!

Establishing a positive mentoring relationship is similar to establishing any

other valued human relationship in a number of respects. In any

relationship, both parties usually have a genuine desire to understand the

values and expectations of the other person, and to respect and become

sensitive to another’s feelings and needs.

The Mentorship relationship at Utech, Ja. differs in an important way from

other personal relationships because it is professional in nature. Mentors

are responsible for conveying and upholding the standards, norms and

values of a particular profession. In addition, they are responsible for

offering support and challenge to their mentees, while the mentees strive to

fulfil the expectations of the profession.

Healthy mentoring relationships therefore, can be viewed as evolutionary

rather than static in nature. These relationships change because the purpose

of the relationship is to enable the mentee to acquire new knowledge, skills

and standards of professional competence. As a mentee’s performance

evolves to new levels of competence under the mentor’s guidance and

support, the relationship will necessarily change. It is important that both

individuals establish a number of objectives that are attainable over the

specified period, as a means of measuring the success/progress of the

relationship.

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E-Mentoring

Fostering Local and International Connections

With the help of telecommunications, the programme has been expanded to

include a network of mentoring relationships locally and internationally. In

this new modality, participants communicate with the use of the internet, or

telephone-although where possible, face-to-face contact is encouraged.

The main difference between mentoring and e-mentoring is the absence of

the face to face contact between e-mentors and e-mentees. E-mentors and

e-mentees are subject to the same selection and matching process as obtains

under the regular programme. Interested participants are requested to be

guided by this manual.

This programme is open to third and final year students. The mentee will

continue the programme into the following year with full mentoring with a

mentor who can offer a more personalised relationship.

President Dr Rae Davis officially launched this new feature in September

2003.

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Expectations of the Mentor

CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOOD MENTOR

M- Moral Support----genuine and loyal

E- Emotional Encouragement

N- Nurturer

T- Tutor

O- Observer

R- Role Model---Respectful

PUTTING SKILLS INTO PRACTICE

OPEN COMMUNICATIONS

1. Listen

2. Answer questions

3. Teach

4. Be honest and transparent

5. Share life experiences, wisdom, as well as technical expertise

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EFFECTIVE LISTENING

Careful listening allows you to hear exactly what your mentee is trying to

tell you without being judgemental.

Pay attention to the undertones – attitude and body language. When you

think you have understood a point, it might be helpful to repeat it to your

mentee and ask whether you have understood correctly.

Through careful listening, you convey empathy and understanding of his

/her challenges. When your mentee feels this empathy, the way is open for

clear communication and more effective mentoring.

KEEPING IN TOUCH

Your assessment of your mentee will determine the type and amount of

assistance he/she needs. Do not assume that the only students who need help

are those who ask for it. Even a student who is doing well could need an

occasional serious conversation. Encourage telephone calls and e-mail for

more regular contact.

NETWORKING

You can be a powerful ally for your mentee by helping him/her to build

network of contacts. Advise him/her of the far-reaching effects of

networking on the job, during internships, meetings of professional

societies, service clubs etc. Your mentee may lack sufficient experience to

imagine what kind of work he/she might do as a professional. Networking

may help to clarify.

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The University prohibits monetary exchanges. If you wish to assist your mentee financially, this must be done through the Department of

Student Services.

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GUIDANCE

Never assume that your mentee knows something just because it is obvious

to you. One of your goals is to be a guide to his professional universe. MOTIVATION

Gently probe your mentee's level of interest and provide the necessary

motivation for his/her achievement. If he/she has low self-confidence,

introduce him/her to another student or a colleague who faced similar

challenges; talk with him/her more; build his/her confidence.

ROLE MODEL

You provide a personal window for your mentee to see his/her future. Your

ethical and professional behaviour, as well as a positive attitude towards

your work, will make a strong impression on your mentee. You may even

be a source of encouragement for your mentee to become a mentor someday.

CONFIDENTIALITY

Do not reveal the mentee’s private business to your friends or family

members, especially your children. This is a small world and the mentee may

just hear it again from a third or fourth party. This could devastate the

individual and destroy trust in adults.

PERSONAL DISTANCE

Do not become emotionally attached to the mentee so that you long for his

or her companionship. Keep the discussions on general and non-personal

issues. If the mentee volunteers personal information, do not refuse it but

handle it professionally.

FINDING COMMON GROUND

Establish commonalities between you. This facilitates conversation and

undergirds your relationship. When a problem is presented by the mentee,

respond with a series of questions, answers to which will help him or her to

understand the issue better and arrive at his or her own decision as to how

to proceed.

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DO NOT PREACH, DO NOT SEEK TO CONTROL

Usually the mentee already knows that some actions are wrong. Preaching

will only lower the person’s self-esteem and create a sense of hopelessness.

Provide the necessary encouragement.

ALWAYS INSPIRE HOPE

Encourage positive thinking. Whatever the situation, mentees can become

better if we adopt the right thoughts and attitude toward the cause of their

distress.

DO NOT APPLY PRESSURE

It does not matter how many benefits you perceive that a certain course of

action may have for the mentee, if he or she says, “no,” then, that should be

the end of the discussion.

RESPECT THE MENTEE’S WISHES

If the mentee insists on carrying out injurious actions, you can only point

out the negative implications of such actions. Leave the issue there.

Sometimes people will only learn from their own mistakes. Coercion will

only lead to resentment and erosion of trust. Be there for him or her when the

chips fall. Assure him or her of your care and concern.

UPHOLD MORAL STANDARDS

Despite the situation, do not cooperate with the mentee to become engaged in

immoral acts. Examples of this may be:

Plagiarism

Lying about completion of assignments on time

Taking/dealing in drugs

LEAD BY EXAMPLE

You should be seeking to impart high moral and professional standards. You

yourself ought to be a model of these values and attitudes. During informal

conversations, tell stories of some of the work or socially related problems you

faced and how you applied honesty and integrity in dealing with these problems.

Idealize the benefits gained from the experience and share your commitment to

repeat your principled actions should you be placed in the situation again. Even if

you suffered loss for your principled stance, show how emotional maturity and

learning sometimes come at a great price.

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COMMUNICATE YOUR STANCE ON ETHICS AND MORALS

Make it clear that you do not support socially unacceptable behaviour. Do not

destroy a mentees self-respect by insulting, cursing or abusing; especially, do not

reprimand in the presence of others. Silence can be most effective at times.

YOU ARE NOT A PANACEA

You cannot solve all problems. Identify the ones that are within your competence

to handle and make use of the referral form to refer the others to the relevant

specialists. Be sure to inform the mentee of your intended actions. If he or she says,

“no,” then let the decision be “no.”

REGARD ALL THEIR ISSUES AS IMPORTANT

The mentee will from time to time confide in you some concern he or she regards

as very serious. In your opinion, such a concern may be utterly groundless and

even trivial. But to the mentee, it is all-important. Seek to empathise with the

individual and make suggestions as to how he or she may deal with the concern.

DO NOT ACCEPT IDOL WORSHIP

Be sensitive to needs for guidance but do not allow them to idolize you, place you

on a pedestal or deify you. Explain you are subject to faults and weaknesses like

other human beings.

I T I S I M P O R T A N T T H A T A H E A L T H Y B A L A N C E I S

M A I N T A I N E D I N Y O U R I N T E R A C T I O N S .

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BE BOLD ENOUGH TO SAY YOU ARE SORRY

Be quick to apologize for broken promises or for any perceived emotional

hurt that you may have caused the mentee. Do not make it a habit to break

promises.

DO NOT BE HYPOCRITICAL AND DO NOT DECEIVE

Do not praise when there is need to express disapproval. If a female unwed

mentee becomes pregnant, do not say, “That’s great! When is the baby

due?” Of course, if you are genuinely convinced that the pregnancy is a great

idea there is every reason to express the sentiments.

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The First Move

An effective mentorship relationship is characterised by mutual respect,

trust, understanding and empathy. There is no single formula for good

mentorship. Different mentees will require different amounts and kinds of

attention, advice, information and encouragement.

Show interest in the mentee.

Inform your mentee how you wish to be addressed by him/her.

Discuss with your mentee his/her understanding of the mentoring

programme.

Tell him/her your understanding of the programme.

Set clear guidelines within which you both will operate.

Assure your mentee that whatever you discuss will be kept

confidential except in instances of imminent danger.

Find out more about your mentee - discuss his/her special interests,

career goals, likes and dislikes, hobbies, talent etc.

Encourage your mentee to talk to you - advise of your availability to

him/her.

Explain your professional pressures and time constraints and the

importance of punctuality.

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Expectations of the Mentee

Self-motivated – You must take initiative too. Do not leave it all up to your

mentor. Ask questions, make telephone calls, make suggestions - Use the

knowledge and resources that your mentor passes on to you.

Resilient - There will be moments of disappointment. You may not live up

to the expectations of your mentor or even your own expectations. Brush

yourself off and try again.

Ambitious - Keep your goals in sight and remain focused.

Willing to learn - There are many lessons you can learn from interacting

with your mentor.

Understanding of your mentor’s limitations -Remember that your mentor

is only human. He/she may not have all the answers.

Make a Good First Impression-First impressions are lasting, so ensure

your behaviour and appearance are to the best of your ability.

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Your participation in the programme is an indication of your interest in

learning new skills in preparation for the work world. In this competitive

global economy, the out-of-classroom experiences contribute immensely to

your development and marketability.

It is always important to remember that the mentoring relationship is a

professional one and that your mentor is a volunteer who is willing to

share his/her experiences with you to help make you better prepared for

your transition to the work world. So be guided by the following:

Be honest and detailed- An honest and detailed completion of your

application form will ensure that your mentor understands who you

are and the goals you wish to achieve. This will better prepare

him/her to work with you.

Be open-minded- Be prepared to accept the mentor who is assigned

to you. Do not have preconceived ideas of who your mentor should

be.

Express your understanding of the Programme: At the first and

second meetings, ensure that you and your mentor have a similar

understanding of the Programme and how you both will operate.

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Respect your mentor’s time: Always be punctual and stick to the

times that the mentor has available to deal with you. Should you be

faced with an emergency, do call to reschedule.

Uphold moral standards-Apply moral conduct in your relationship

with your mentor.

Do not request monetary exchanges-nor regard your mentor as a

source for any exchange of funds.

Do not idol-worship your mentor-Your mentor, like other human

beings is subject to faults and weaknesses. Keep the relationship on

an even keel.

Dress appropriately for all occasions-Ask for guidance on mode of

dress required to attend functions when uncertain. As a rule, dress

modestly.

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Spending quality time with your mentor is highly recommended as this

affords you an opportunity to enhance your relationship.

Here are some activities that that you can do together:

Attend Business Lunches

Seminars/Workshops

Meetings

Tour of Institutions/Organizations

Alumni Functions

University Functions

Lectures

Cultural shows

Design a business portfolio

R E M E M B E R T H A T T H E M E N T O R S H I P

P R O G R A M M E I S A P R O F E S S I O N A L

O N E A N D I S N O T M E A N T F O R

P E R S O N A L R E L A T I O N S H I P S .

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Over time and with several occasions to meet and do things together, you

will build trust and confidence in your mentor.

You may find that your relationship grows and far exceeds the time

allocated for the Programme. The mentor and mentee may eventually

redefine their relationship as colleagues, peers and/or friends.

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The Programme Provides:

Professional linkages.

Mentees with a direct reference for the purpose of receiving.

guidance and encouragement.

A bridge to the corporate world.

A role model reference point.

A forum in to which discover weaknesses and showcase strengths.

An opportunity for acquiring new knowledge, skills and standards

of professional competence.

An opportunity for dealing with problems.

An opportunity to develop lifelong relationships.

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GETTING STARTED

Procedure: The following procedures will assist and guide you successfully through the

programme:

Mentors:

New mentors should attend the Mentorship Workshop.

All mentors should attend the official launch of the Mentorship

Opening Reception. Except in extreme case where one is unable to

attend, this must be communicated. (Please disregard if you have

already communicated with us)

Mentors should assist their mentee with creating a career portfolio.

(If requested, a sample portfolio can be provided for guidance.)

Providing or organizing ONE mock interview experience for their

mentee.

All mentors should attend closing function.

The mentee (Student) will do an evaluation of their experience with

their mentor.

Mentors are expected to make contact with their mentee for the

duration of programme when they are available.

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The following procedures will assist and guide you successfully through the

programme:

Mentees:

All mentees should attend the mentee briefing session before

commencing the programme.

All mentees should attend the official launch of the Mentorship

Opening Reception. Except in extreme case where one is unable to

attend, this must be communicated. (Please disregard if you have

already communicated with us)

Mentees should create a career portfolio with assistance from

mentor. (If requested, a sample portfolio can be provided for guidance.)

All mentees should attend closing function online.

The mentor will do an evaluation of their experience with their

mentee.

Mentees are expected to make contact with their mentor for the

duration of programme when they are available.

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BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS

Mentoring is not an attempt to create a clone, but an opportunity to see your

mentee fulfil his/her unique potential.

Effective mentoring does not have to be time-consuming. Lead by example!

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