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Unfortunately, most of us go through the day like this.

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Prefrontal cortex

(the boss)

Left Brain(logic)

Right Brain(emotion)

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What if you’re only

bringing

50% of your mind to

your biggest

work and life

challenges?

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Experience

Select Data

Add Meaning

Draw Conclusions

Take Action

Ladder of Inference

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Experience

Select Data

Add Meaning

Draw Conclusions

Take Action

Ladder of Inference

Interrupting the story.

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Mindfulnessis the

awareness that arises

from bringing clarity and

concentration to your

moment-by-moment

experience.

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Who are you in the space?

Stimulus Response

Conscious Pausing

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The Four Questions For Coming Down the Ladder

1. What am I noticing right now?

2. Can I make space for it?

3. Can I touch this with kindness?

4. What is the next right action?

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Pausing brings you back to the present where you choose your response.

Stimulus Response

HOME ZONE

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BEING

DOING

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“Just being in his presence is transformative--he has an embodied presence of true kindness, attentive, a sense of humor, aware of himself and others, dignity, calm, focused, joyful, authentic, free-spirited, comfortable in his own skin, doesn't take himself too seriously, humble, deeply patient, and also filled with a quiet confidence and a deep understanding and patience for what it means to be a human being and the nature of the human mind. He speaks slowly and carefully and never seems as if he has somewhere else he needs to be.”

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Viktor Frankl

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“Just being in his presence is transformative--he has an embodied presence of true kindness, attentive, a sense of humor, aware of himself and others, dignity, calm, focused, joyful, authentic, free-spirited, comfortable in his own skin, doesn't take himself too seriously, humble, deeply patient, and also filled with a quiet confidence and a deep understanding and patience for what it means to be a human being and the nature of the human mind. He speaks slowly and carefully and never seems as if he has somewhere else he needs to be.”

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“Just being in his presence is transformative--he has an embodied presence of true kindness, attentive, a sense of humor, aware of himself and others, dignity, calm, focused, joyful, authentic, free-spirited, comfortable in his own skin, doesn't take himself too seriously, humble, deeply patient, and also filled with a quiet confidence and a deep understanding and patience for what it means to be a human being and the nature of the human mind. He speaks slowly and carefully and never seems as if he has somewhere else he needs to be.”

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Every interaction is a touchpoint.

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The sum total of your touchpoints =

YOUR CULTURE

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