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Gc|trdajv 2<00 |cr Rnoä B~rej`rfv
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Ghà~fdc O~onw Jcràgdc
Rnydwçc
Rnoä B~rej`rfv
^m gj`m`fc ì dovdmdf`fn
Rnoä B~rej`rfv
Onoj~m` |`rvn fnwvn hdyrc |cfnrà wnrrn|rcf~{df` wnm ` `~vcrd{`áçc |räyd` fc `~vcr/
Gcov`vc gcm c `~vcr;e`wvnhcicrvnLam`dh/gcm
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Ndw ` Nvnrodf`fn /////////////////////////////////////////// <9
^m Gj`m`fc ì Dovdmdf`fn ////////////////////////// 0<
C \nwc f` Mdoj` Gr~{////////////////////////////////// 06
@rm`fdhj` Mcrv`h///////////////////////////////////////// 22
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Nz`mdonm-wn/////////////////////////////////////////////////66
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Fdwgd|~h`fc/////////////////////////////////////////////////// 19
Ycgëw( Fdwgí|~hcw( Wçc c W`h f` Vnrr` //////////// :0
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@c rngnbnr c gcoydvn |`r` |rni`gd`r ‘^m Gj`m`fc ì
Dovdmdf`fn”( gcoinwwc p~n mn wnovd gcm|hnv`mnovn dog`|`{fn i`{ë-hc/ Oçc wcmnovn |nh` `md{`fn p~n vnojc gcm RnoäB~rej`rfv( p~n mn vcro` ~m v`ovc w~w|ndvc( m`w v`mbäm|cr gcojngnr wn~w nwgrdvcw n w`bnr f` |rci~ofdf`fn fcwmnwmcw/ @ido`h( gcmc fnidodr c dofnidoíynh3
C màzdmc p~n |cwwc i`{nr( n c i`ác gcm vcv`hwdognrdf`fn( ä fd{nr fc dm|`gvc p~n nwvn hdyrc g`~wc~ nmmdoj` ydf`/ Hdyrc p~n( `hdàw( oçc |cfnrd` vnr ~m vív~hc m`dw`|rc|rd`fc/ ‘^m Gj`m`fc ì Dovdmdf`fn” ä nz`v`mnovn dwvc;
~m `|nhc ~ranovn |`r` ocw `gjna`rmcw( fnwo~fcw fn ocwwcnac( `c gcr`áçc fn Fn~w( `c gnron fn W~` ycov`fn( rnynh`f`nm Grdwvc Knw~w/ Fnwv` icrm`( g`f` g`|ív~hc hnyc~-mn ` ~m`wdognr` dovrcw|ngáçc( o` p~`h i~d gcoircov`fc gcm mdoj`wcbnrb` n hny`fc ` gcowv`v`r ` vcv`h fn|nofëogd` fc Nw|írdvcW`ovc |`r` vr`owicrm`r( g`|`gdv`r n gcof~{dr c mn~ wnr ocg`mdojc p~n fnyc `of`r/
Fn m`ondr` p~n nwvn oçc ä mnr`mnovn ~m hdyrc |`r`wnr hdfc( m`w ~m ynrf`fndrc gj`m`fc fn Fn~w |`r` wnr
`vnofdfc/ Wnofc `wwdm( c hndvcr |nrgnbnrà p~n nwv` oçc ä~m` cbr` fn rà|df` hndv~r`( m`w fn ongnwwàrd` rnihnzçc( o`p~`h wcmcw( |cr fdynrw`w yn{nw( hny`fcw ` |`r`r n mnfdv`rnm ocww`w |r÷|rd`w ydf`w/
@cw p~n gjna`rnm `c ido`h fnwv` kcro`f`( |cwwca`r`ovdr p~n oçc m`dw hjnw |nw`rà c i`rfc f` g~h|` n f`gcofno`áçc/ Nm h~a`r fdwwc( ` gcm|rnnowçc fn p~nm wcmcwnm Grdwvc Knw~w; `m`fcw idhjcw fn Fn~w( p~n ocw gj`m`|`r` ~m` |nrindv` n m`dcr dovdmdf`fn gcm Nhn/
@h`o G`|rdhnw
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Ndw ` Nvnrodf`fn
Fn~w ä nvnroc n doidodvc! Nwwnw fcdw `vrdb~vcw(
dwch`f`mnovn( kà wçc dm|cwwíyndw fn wnrnm gcm|rnnofdfcw
|nhc jcmnm( p~n ä mcrv`h n vcv`hmnovn hdmdv`fc/ @vä |`r`
vnov`r gcm|rnnofnr n fnidodr nwwnw `vrdb~vcw( c jcmnm wn
~vdhd{` fn nhnmnovcw hdmdv`fcw/ Ocww`w |r÷|rd`w |`h`yr`w
dm|þnm hdmdvnw/
\`r` fnidodr ` nvnrodf`fn( |cr nznm|hc( c jcmnm
|rngdw` fd{nr p~n nh` ä oçc vnr |rdogí|dc( onm idm fn fd`w! C
jcmnm oçc gcowna~n gcm|rnnofnr p~n ` nvnrodf`fn nwvà
`häm fn wn~w gcogndvcw fn vnm|c n nw|`ác( n p~n nwvnw
gcogndvcw( vnm|c#nw|`ác( nwvçc gcovdfcw onww` nvnrodf`fn/
M`dw fdiígdh `dof`( ä gcm|rnnofnr p~n g`f` mcmnovc fnwwn
vnm|c#nw|`ác ä ydwvc fn p~`hp~nr |covc f` nvnrodf`fn(
nvnro`mnovn( vd|c ~m idhmn rcf`ofc p~`frc ` p~`frc( cofn
g`f` p~`frc( nwvàvdgc( |cfn wnr `|rngd`fc |nhc Nvnroc(
p~`ov`w yn{nw Nhn p~dwnr/ \dcr `dof`( ä gcm|rnnofnr p~n
Fn~w ä c \`d f` nvnrodf`fn!
Nwv` gcm|rnnowçc nz|hdg`( fn ~m` icrm` bàwdg`( `
|rnwgdëogd` fn Fn~w( W~` gdëogd` n W~` |÷w-gdëogd`(
gcojngdf`w gcmc W~` Codwgdëogd`( fn g`f` i`vc p~n noychyn
vcf` ` W~` Grd`áçc( nm g`f` |covc f`p~dhc p~n gcojngnmcw
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gcmc vnm|c n nw|`ác/ Ä nz`v`mnovn dwvc p~n C |nrmdvn
dovnrinrdr |nwwc`hmnovn nm g`f` p~nwvçc fn ocww`w ydf`w(
gcmc wn iöwwnmcw c ûodgc wnr grd`fc |cr Nhn( wnm p~n vcfc c
rnwv`ovn fc wdwvnm` ‟fnw`ofn–/ Ä dwvc p~n C |nrmdvn gcogdhd`r
W~` wcbnr`od` gcm hdyrnw nwgchj`w fc jcmnm( i`{nofc W~`
ycov`fn wn g~m|rdr `vr`yäw f` |r÷|rd` ycov`fn fc wnr
j~m`oc( wnm m~f`r fn dfäd` ` g`f` `vdv~fn ocww`( gcmc wn
vdynwwn wdfc |nac fn w~r|rnw`/
Fd`ovn fdwvc( wcmcw hny`fcw ` gcogcrf`r gcm c
Wnojcr( p~`ofc Nhn fd{; "\cdw cw mn~w |now`mnovcw oçc wçc
cw |now`mnovcw fn ycgëw( onm cw wn~w g`mdojcw wçc cw
mn~w g`mdojcw" n "@wwdm gcmc cw gä~w wçc m`dw `hvcw fc
p~n ` vnrr`( v`mbäm cw mn~w g`mdojcw wçc m`dw `hvcw fc
p~n cw wn~w g`mdojcw n cw mn~w |now`mnovcw m`dw `hvcw fc
p~n cw wn~w |now`mnovcw” *Dw >>/:-4$/
@wwdm( onww` w`bnfcrd` doidodv`mnovn w~|nrdcr ì
ocww`( Fn~w |rcydfnogdc~( o` nvnrodf`fn( m`w vr`{nofc |`r`
~m` icrm` p~n gc~bnwwn nm ocww` gcm|rnnowçc( c
nwgâof`hc f` Gr~{! N nwv` ä ` icrm` fn Fn~w hdf`r gcm c
|ng`fc! Nhn `vr`d~ vcf`w `w |nwwc`w ì Gr~{( ` idm fn p~n(
`vr`yäw fnh`( icwwn gcow~m`f` ` W~` K~wvdá`; gcofno`áçc(
|`r` p~nm ` rnkndv` gcmc ûodgc g`mdojc p~n hny` ì
rngcogdhd`áçc ar`v~dv` gcm Fn~w( c~ w`hy`áçc( |`r` p~nm `
rngnbn n `|hdg` ì w~` |r÷|rd` ydf` gcmc c G`mdojc f`
Ynrf`fn!
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M`w c |now`mnovc |np~noc n hdmdv`fc fc jcmnm c
hny` ` b~wg`r g`mdojcw `hvnro`vdycw( v`ovc |`r` wn
`|rczdm`r( p~`ovc |`r` wn `i`wv`r fn Fn~w/ C p~n p~nr wn
`|rczdm`r( o` w~` |r÷|rd` icrá`( oc wn~ |r÷|rdc
gcojngdmnovc( `o~h` ` mnow`anm fn Knw~w( fn p~n c Rndoc
Nvnroc fcw Gä~w nwvà |r÷zdmc n p~n b`wv` ` iä o` w~idgdëogd`
f` cbr` fn Grdwvc o` Gr~{( |`r` novr`r onhn/ Cw p~n `wwdm
`anm( fnwgcowdfnr`m ` Ar`á` n wn |nof~r`m o` hnd( wnk` nh`
p~`h icr( `idrm`ofc p~n nwvn ä c g`mdojc gnrvc/ @wwdm(
vnov`m i`{nr gcm p~n ` nvnrodf`fn fn|nof` n g`db` fnovrc
fn ~m hdyrc; p~`hp~nr hdyrc p~n hjnw `|rnwnovn `ha~m` hnd( c~
`hac p~n |cww`m vr`owicrm`r nm hnd!
Kà c p~n p~nr wn `i`wv`r fn Fn~w( oçc |nrgnbn p~n(
`dof` p~n w~b` `cw gä~w( c~( `dof` p~n fnwá` `c m`dw
|rci~ofc `bdwmc( o~og` |cfnrà nwv`r hcoan fc Wnojcr( c
wn~ Grd`fcr! Vnov`( nm yçc( yd`k`r |cr g`mdojcw p~n
`|`rnov`m wnr hdyrnw fn Fn~w( wnm |nrgnbnr p~n Nhn nwvà `hd
v`mbäm( cbwnry`ofc `p~nh` grd`v~r` p~n wn dm`ado` fn~w n
p~n( |cr dwvc( fd{ oçc nzdwvdr ~m Fn~w! Wn |nrfn o` hdmdv`áçc
fn w~` |r÷|rd` y`df`fn( `c doyäw fn wn nogcovr`r o` y`wvdfçc
f` nvnrodf`fn/
‘F`í nm fd`ovn Knw~w gcmnác~ ` |rna`r; ‟@rrn|nof`m-
wn( |cdw c Rndoc fcw gä~w nwvà |r÷zdmc–" *Mv 6/01$/ Nhn oçc
i`h`y` wcbrn ~m` |rczdmdf`fn oc ‘vnm|c”( `hac p~n y`d
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gjna`r hcac( m`w fn ~m` |rczdmdf`fn oc ‘nw|`ác”( `hac p~n
nwvà `gnwwíynh( |cdw Nhn mnwmc ä c G`mdojc |`r` nww`
nvnrodf`fn rn|rnwnov`f` |cr ‟Rndoc fcw gä~w–/ @of`ofc |cr
nwwn g`mdojc `|nrv`fc f`w fdidg~hf`fnw n novr`ofc |nh`
|crv` nwvrndv`( |nh` p~`h w÷ |`ww` ~m` |nwwc` fn g`f` yn{(
oçc ~m ar~|c( |`ww`mcw ` i`{nr |`rvn fnww` nvnrodf`fn(
|crp~n nwv`mcw o`w mçcw fc \`d f` nvnrodf`fn n( fn W~`w
mçcw( odoa~äm ocw `rrnb`v`! N c `rrn|nofdmnovc p~n Nhn
ocw gcbr` ä( `|no`w( p~n ` anovn |`rn fn `grnfdv`r p~n
wcmcw fn~wnw( c~ p~n |cfnmcw gjna`r ` Fn~w `vr`yäw fc
ocwwc |r÷|rdc nwicrác( gcmc Dwr`nh `grnfdv`y` p~n wnrd`!
Dwvc ä ~m gcoydvn |`r` nmb`rg`rmcw nm W~`w
\`h`yr`w( vcm`rmcw h~a`r wcb c Wn~ k~ac w~`yn( noyd`rmcw
ocwwcw i`rfcw |`r` hcoan( `vr`yäw fNhn( n yd`k`rmcw
nvnro`mnovn nm W~` gcm|`ojd`!
\r÷zdm` |`rvdf`( `acr` mnwmc! Ä w÷ ycgë p~nrnr(
gcoid`r n vcm`r c wn~ h~a`r( p~n kà nwvà rnwnry`fc!
Vnoj`m vcfcw ~m` ÷vdm` yd`anm!
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^m Gj`m`fc ì Dovdmdf`fn
Knw~w ocw nowdoc~( c vnm|c vcfc( ` b~wg`rmcw
dovdmdf`fn gcm c Fn~w \`d/ Cw k~fn~w vdoj`m mnfc *n `dof`
vëm$( `vä mnwmc( fn |rco~ogd`r c ocmn fn Fn~w/ @í( `c ocw
nowdo`r ` cr`r( Nhn kà fnmcowvr` p~n fnynmcw ocw fdrdadr
gcm dovdmdf`fn ` Fn~w( wnm mnfcw( gj`m`ofc-C fn \`d/
Oçc w÷ onww` cr`áçc( m`w v`mbäm o` |`ràbch` fc idhjc|r÷fdac n c~vr`w fdynrw`w |`ww`anow bíbhdg`w( `
fnmcowvr`áçc p~n vnmcw ä fn ~m rnh`gdco`mnovc íovdmc fn
\`d n idhjc/ M`w c p~n ä( nz`v`mnovn( ydynr nww` dovdmdf`fn3
Wnrd`( `|no`w( oc mcmnovc fn i`h`r gcm c \`d( c~ p~`ofc
ychv`mcw noynracoj`fcw( gcm c ‘r`bdojc novrn `w |nro`w”(
|`r` |nfdr c Wn~ |nrfçc3
Novnofc p~n nww` dovdmdf`fn ä bnm m`dw fc p~n dwvc/
Ocww` ydf` íovdm` gcm Fn~w fnyn wn m`odinwv`r ` vcfc
mcmnovc( nm vcfcw cw fd`w( `vr`yäw fn ocww`w `vdv~fnw
fd`ovn fn Fn~w n fd`ovn fcw jcmnow/ Onwvn `w|ngvc( ynkc `
|`ràbch` f` ar`ofn gnd`( nm H~g`w 06/09-26( gcmc ~m`
ar`ofn dofdg`áçc |`r` dwwc/
Onww` |`ràbch`( gnrvc jcmnm( p~n rn|rnwnov` Fn~w(
gcoydf` ` m~dv`w |nwwc`w |`r` |`rvdgd|`rnm fn ~m` ar`ofn
gnd` p~n nhn j`yd` |rn|`r`fc/ Cr`( gnrv`mnovn( nwwn jcmnm
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gcoydfc~ |nwwc`w fn wn~ rnh`gdco`mnovc íovdmc( |`r`
gcoir`vnrod{`rnm gcm nhn/ Gcmc nwvn jcmnm rn|rnwnov` `
Fn~w( `w |nwwc`w p~n Nhn gcoydfc~ wçc( jckn( cw grdwvçcw(
`p~nhnw p~n `gndv`r`m c gj`m`fc |`r` wnrnm fdwgí|~hcw fn
Knw~w( wna~dofc Wn~w |`wwcw/ M`w( gcmc fdwwn oc doígdc( o÷w
wcmcw gj`m`fcw ` vnr dovdmdf`fn gcowv`ovn gcm c Wnojcr(
nm ocwwc fd` ` fd`( oçc `|no`w p~`ofc icrmcw |`r` c gä~/
Fnww` icrm`( |cfnmcw novnofnr nwwn gcoydvn |`r` ` ar`ofn
gnd` gcmc wnofc ~m gcoydvn gcowv`ovn( |nrm`onovn( fdàrdc/
M`w gcmc nwwn gcoydvn ocw ä indvc3 @ vcfc mcmnovc(
w~ranm( fd`ovn fn o÷w( `p~nh`w ‘bc`w cbr`w( `w p~`dw Fn~w
fn `ovnmçc |rn|`rc~ |`r` p~n `ofàwwnmcw onh`w” *Ni 2/0<$/
Nww`w cbr`w oçc wn hdmdv`m ì ocww` `k~f` ` |nwwc`w p~n
vnoj`m |`ww`fc |cr ~m` g`vàwvrcin o`v~r`h( ` |cycw p~n
|`ww`m icmn( ` ÷riçcw n ` ydûy`w/ Nww`w bc`w cbr`w wçc
m~dvc m`dw o~mnrcw`w n m~dvc m`dw gcm~ow nm ocww`w
ydf`w( fc p~n vnmcw rn`hmnovn |nrgnbdfc/
O` |`ràbch`( Knw~w wn rninrn ` fnwg~h|`w gcm~ow n
p~n( `|`rnovnmnovn( oçc wçc `vdv~fnw màw( `w p~`dw ~w`mcw
|`r` oçc `vnofnrmcw `c gcoydvn fn Fn~w/ Nhn fd{ p~n
~w`mcw gcmc fnwg~h|`w ocww`w |r÷|rd`w cbrda`áþnw fdàrd`w(
p~n( nm wd mnwm`w( oçc wçc màw/ Oçc ä nrr`fc ocw
gcognovr`rmcw nm ocwwc vr`b`hjc/ Oçc ä nrr`fc g~df`rmcw
fcw bnow p~n c Wnojcr ocw novrnac~ |`r` `fmdodwvr`rmcw/
Oçc ä nrr`fc g~df`rmcw fn ocww`w i`míhd`w/ C nrrc oçc nwvà
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odwwc! C nrrc nwvà nm gchcg`rmcw v`dw gcdw`w `gdm` fn ocwwc
rnh`gdco`mnovc íovdmc gcm c Wnojcr/ Nhn vnm ` |rdm`{d`
wcbrn vcf`w `w gcdw`w! Ä |`r` Nhn p~n fnynmcw chj`r( mnwmc
fd`ovn f`w p~nwvþnw m`dw wdm|hnw fn ocwwc gcvdfd`oc/
Novçc( o` ynrf`fn( Knw~w nwvà fd{nofc; ‘Hnmbr`
p~`ofc `p~nhn mnofdac hjn |nfd~ ~m |r`vc fn gcmdf` n
ycgë fdwwn p~n oçc |cfnrd` `vnofë-hc( |crp~n nwv`y` nm
gdm` f` jcr` fn dr vr`b`hj`r3 Nr` n~ p~n nwv`y` gcoydf`ofc
ycgë ` w`gd`r ` mdoj` icmn fn dovdmdf`fn gcm ycgë! Hnmbr`
p~`ofc `p~nhn yd{dojc hjn |nfd~ c g`rrc nm|rnwv`fc |`r`
hny`r ` nw|cw` `c jcw|dv`h n ycgë fdwwn p~n oçc |cfnrd`
`vnofë-hc( |crp~n ycgë nr` {nhcwc gcm wn~ |`vrdmöodc n oçc
|cfnrd` gcrrnr c rdwgc fn f`odidgà-hc3 Nr` n~ p~n nwv`y`
gcoydf`ofc ycgë ` vnr dovdmdf`fn gcmdac `vr`yäw fc mn~
m`dcr |`vrdmöodc; c wnr j~m`oc! Hnmbr` p~`ofc `p~nhn wn~
|`rnovn icd gjcr`r w~` fcr gcm ycgë n( |crp~n nwv`y`
i`{nofc c k`ov`r |`r` ` w~` i`míhd`( ycgë fdwwn ` nhn p~n
ychv`wwn c~vr` jcr`3 Nr` n~ p~n nwv`y` gcoydf`ofc ycgë `
vnr( gcmdac( ` dovdmdf`fn fn ~m` i`míhd`!”/
C Wnojcr gcojngn vcf`w `w ocww`w cbrda`áþnw( vcf`w
`w ocww`w ongnwwdf`fnw/ M`w ä Nhn p~n w~wvnov` vcf`w `w
gcdw`w |nh` |`h`yr` fc Wn~ |cfnr/ \cr dwvc( p~`ofc ocw
fn|`r`mcw gcm `ha~m` gdrg~owvâogd` p~n fnm`ofn `mcr(
|dnf`fn( oçc |cfnmcw fndz`r fn `vnofë-hC( |cr m`dw ‘w`ov`”
p~n wnk` ` ocww` fnwg~h|`/ Kà p~n Nhn w~wvnov` vcf`w `w
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gcdw`w( `vnofë-hC oçc drà |rnk~fdg`r o`f` p~n nwvnk`mcw |cr
i`{nr/ \cfnmcw vnr ` gnrvn{` fn p~n nm m~dvc m`dw yn{nw fc
p~n dm`ado`mcw( Nhn nwvà ocw fd{nofc; ‘Nwvn ä c g`mdojc(
`ofn |cr nhn n ycgë vnrà dovdmdf`fn gcmdac!”/
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C \nwc f` Mdoj` Gr~{
B~wgc/ Jà m~dvc vnm|c vnojc b~wg`fc m`dcr
dovdmdf`fn gcm c Wnojcr Knw~w/ P~`ov`w yn{nw kà |nra~ovnd;
‘Wnojcr( p~n i`rnd |`r` jnrf`r ` ydf` nvnro`3”/ P~`ov`w
yn{nw h~vnd gcovr` mn~w |ng`fcw( |now`ofc nm `vdoadr
v`m`oj` w`ovdf`fn p~n |nrmdvdwwn `c Wnojcr vnr gcm~ojçc
gcmdac! P~`ov`w yn{nw gh`mnd `c Wnojcr( |`r` p~n Nhn
rnwchynwwn mn~w |rcbhnm`w( ` idm fn p~n n~ vdynwwn
gcofdáþnw fn i`{nr ` W~` ycov`fn! P~`ov`w yn{nw gcofnond
`c mn~ |r÷zdmc |cr nrr`r( cofn n~ nwv`y` `gnrv`ofc( `c
mnwmc vnm|c nm p~n mn nwg~w`y` |cr nrr`r( cofn nhn
nwv`y` `gnrv`ofc! P~`ov`w yn{nw c k~ha~nd( |cr oçc wnr
gcmc n~! P~`ov`w yn{nw c fnw|rn{nd( |cr oçc wnr gcmc n~!
P~`ov`w yn{nw( p~`ov`w yn{nw///
Gcmc ä fdiígdh novnofnr ` ynrf`fn f` \`h`yr` fc
Wnojcr( p~n fd{; ‘|crp~n nwvrndv` ä ` |crv`( n `|nrv`fc( c
g`mdojc p~n gcof~{ |`r` ` ydf`///” *Mv 1/06 ‗ ardic mn~$/
M`w( ar`á`w ` Fn~w( c Nw|írdvc W`ovc ocw nowdo` vcf`w `w
gcdw`w/ N( gcm c |`ww`r fc vnm|c( gcm ` nych~áçc fcw
`gcovngdmnovcw( Nhn ocw mcwvr` p~n c g`mdojc ä `|nrv`fc
|`r` `p~nhnw p~n oçc wna~nm ì rdwg` ` crdnov`áçc fn Knw~w;
‘///Wn `ha~äm p~nr ydr `|÷w mdm( ` wd mnwmc wn ona~n(
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fd` ` fd` vcmn ` w~` gr~{ n wda`-mn” *Hg 4/27 ‗ ardic
mn~$/
Ona`r ` wd mnwmc ä `of`r o` ‘gcovr`mçc” fc m~ofc/
Nop~`ovc c m~ofc ocw nwvdm~h` *`vä nzdan$ ` g~df`rmcw f`
ocww` `|`rëogd`( b~wg`rmcw c m`dcr gcoicrvc |cwwíynh(
w`vdwi`{nrmcw vcf`w `w ocww`w ycov`fnw( vnov`rmcw rn`hd{`r
vcfcw cw ocwwcw wcojcw( ~w`rmcw vcfcw cw mndcw fdw|coíyndw
|`r` `hg`oá`rmcw ` ocww` inhdgdf`fn( mnwmc p~n dwvc g`~wn
` doinhdgdf`fn fn c~vrcw( c Ny`oanhjc ocw hny` ` oçc ocw
|rncg~|`rmcw gcm `|`rëogd`( gcoicrvc( w`vdwi`áçc fn
ycov`fnw |nwwc`dw5 ocw hny` ` `brdrmcw mçc fn ocwwcw
wcojcw nm vrcg` fn g~m|rdrmcw ` ycov`fn fc \`d( n ocw
nowdo` p~n c ûodgc g`mdojc |`r` ` inhdgdf`fn |nwwc`h äb~wg`r ` inhdgdf`fn fn Fn~w n fcw jcmnow/
Ocrm`hmnovn( |now`mcw p~n( `c ona`rmcw ` o÷w
mnwmcw( nwv`rnmcw novr`ofc nm ~m` ydf` fn fchcrcwcw
w`grdiígdcw( fn ‘|`a`mnovc fn |rnácw”/ \cräm( oçc ä dwvc c
p~n `gcovngn o` |ràvdg`/ P~`ofc( ynrf`fndr`mnovn( `m`mcw
` Fn~w n `cw jcmnow( c ocwwc fnwnkc wnrà c fn p~n nhnw
wnk`m inhd{nw/ Dwvc p~nr fd{nr p~n( p~`ofc nhnw idg`rnm
inhd{nw( `~vcm`vdg`mnovn idg`rnmcw w`vdwindvcw n( |crv`ovc(
inhd{nw v`mbäm/
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Dwwc `gcovngn p~`ofc( |cr nznm|hc( ~m grdmdocwc
gcofno`fc wn novrna` `c wnojcrdc fn Knw~w/ Oçc dm|crv` wn
vdynmcw |`rvdgd|`áçc onwv` gcoynrwçc( c~ oçc/ C p~n
dm|crv` ä p~n ~m` `hm` icd rnwa`v`f` f`w mçcw fc dodmdac/
Nwv` `hm` nwv`rà inhd{ |nh` hdbnrv`áçc fn wn~ g`vdyndrc
nw|drdv~`h n |nh` |cwwdbdhdf`fn fn nogcovr`r c vnwc~rc p~n
nwvà cg~hvc oc g`m|c/ N ocwwc Fn~w \`d v`mbäm nwv`rà inhd{(
|cr `ydwv`r `c hcoan c wn~ idhjc |r÷fdac ychv`ofc/ Wn
`m`mcw ` Fn~w n `c |r÷zdmc( idg`rnmcw inhd{nw gcm `
inhdgdf`fn fc grdmdocwc n gcm ` inhdgdf`fn fc ocwwc Wnojcr!
@wwdm( nwv` ä ` rngndv` p~n c Ny`oanhjc ocw fà( |`r` `
ocww` inhdgdf`fn; ‘`mnm ` Fn~w n `c |r÷zdmc! Fndznm p~n c
Wnojcr `grnwgnovn v~fc c p~n icr rn`hmnovn ongnwwàrdc |`r`
`w w~`w ydf`w”/
Dwwc ocw hny` ` gcogh~dr p~n( `c doyäw fn ‘|`a`rmcw
~m |rnác”( `c doyäw fn novr`rmcw nm ~m` ydf` fn
wcirdmnovc( p~`ofc fd{nmcw ‘oçc” |`r` `w ocww`w ycov`fnw(
o` ynrf`fn( nwv`rnmcw `of`ofc oc g`mdojc p~n ocw vr`{
inhdgdf`fn/ Onwvn g`mdojc( w÷ drnmcw wcirnr p~`ofc oçc
p~dwnrmcw `brdr mçc fn ~m` ycov`fn ocww`( `c b~wg`rmcw `
inhdgdf`fn fn Fn~w n fcw jcmnow/ Wn n~ oçc `brc mçc fn
gcmnr ‘m`ok`rnw nw|ngd`dw”( yc~ wcirnr m~dvc `c cinrv`r mn~
fdojndrc `c Wnojcr( |crp~n oçc y`d wcbr`r c w~idgdnovn |`r`
n~ w`vdwi`{nr c mn~ fnwnkc/ Wn n~ oçc `brc mçc fn ~m`
|rcar`m`áçc o` vnhnydwçc( yc~ wcirnr m~dvc `c vnr p~n w`dr
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|`r` ‟i`{nr ` cbr` fn Fn~w–( |crp~n oçc yc~ w`vdwi`{nr mn~
fnwnkc fn `wwdwvdr mn~ |rcar`m` i`ycrdvc/ Wn n~ oçc `brc
mçc fn k~ha`r `cw c~vrcw( yc~ wcirnr m~dvc `c vnr p~n
|nrfc`r( |crp~n oçc yc~ w`vdwi`{nr c mn~ fnwnkc fn p~n cw
c~vrcw wn fnnm m`h/ Wn n~ oçc `brc mçc fn gcov`r c
wnarnfc fn `ha~äm |`r` c~vr` |nwwc`( yc~ wcirnr m~dvc `c
wnr rn|rnnofdfc( |crp~n oçc yc~ w`vdwi`{nr c mn~ fnwnkc fn
wnr c ‘fcoc f` ynrf`fn n fc gcojngdmnovc”/ Wn n~ oçc `brc
mçc f` mdoj` wcbnrb` v`mbäm o`w |np~no`w gcdw`w( yc~
wcirnr m~dvc `c wnr fdwgd|hdo`fc |nhc Wnojcr( |crp~n oçc yc~
w`vdwi`{nr c mn~ fnwnkc fn mn `wwnov`r `gdm` fc Vrcoc fn
Fn~w/
N c Wnojcr mn fd{ p~n( |`r` wna~d-Hc( fnyc g`rrna`r `mdoj` |r÷|rd` gr~{( vcfcw cw fd`w/ P~n |nwc dow~|crvàynh!
Chjc |`r` c g`mdojc ì irnovn( nm fdrnáçc `c G`hyàrdc( n nhn
|`rngn oçc vnr idm/ \`rngn p~n oçc yc~ w~|crv`r c |nwc fn
vcf`w `w gcdw`w p~n icrm`m ` mdoj` gr~{/ C |nwc f`w
mdoj`w dok~wvdá`w |`r` gcm cw c~vrcw/ C |nwc f` mdoj`
wcbnrb` dm|rnao`f` nm g`f` `vc mn~; ~m` wcbnrb` p~n
wnm|rn mn hnyc~ ` k~ha`r ìp~nhnw p~n nwv`y`m nm ~m
nwvàadc m`dw `hvc o` iä( `c mnwmc vnm|c p~n mn hny`y` `
fnw|rn{`r `cw p~n nr`m m`dw ir`gcw onh`5 wcbnrb` p~n
wnm|rn mn hnyc~ ` |now`r p~n nr` c mnhjcr göok~an fc
m~ofc( c mnhjcr |`d( c mnhjcr idhjc( c mnhjcr nwv~f`ovn( c
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mnhjcr vr`b`hj`fcr( c mnhjcr `mdac( c mnhjcr gchna`( c
mnhjcr grdwvçc( c mnhjcr nm v~fc///
Ä nww` wcbnrb` p~n mn hny` ` fdwg~vdr gcm cw c~vrcw(
wnm gcowdfnr`r o`f` nm i`ycr fnhnw( vçc wcmnovn( p~n nhnw
nwvçc nrr`fcw n n~ gnrvc/ Ä nh` p~n mn hny` ` oçc `gndv`r c
`rrn|nofdmnovc fn `ha~äm( |crp~n nww` |nwwc` oçc |cfn
wnr m`dw j~mdhfn p~n n~/ Ä nh` p~n mn hny` ` oçc |nrfc`r
cw nrrcw fcw c~vrcw( |crp~n nhnw vëm p~n wnr |nrindvcw gcmc
n~/ Ä nh` p~n mn hny` ` `|rcy`r `hac indvc |cr c~vr` |nwwc`(
m`w `grnwgnov`ofc p~n n~ i`rd` fdinrnovn( |`r` p~n idg`wwn
mnhjcr/ Ä nh` p~n mn hny` ` p~nrnr g~m|rdr ` hnd wcbrn c
|ng`fc fcw c~vrcw( m`w nzdadr ` ar`á` wcbrn c mn~ |ng`fc/
Ä nh` p~n mn hny` ` |now`r p~n |cwwc ‟i`{nr– `ha~m` gcdw`|`r` jnrf`r ` ydf` nvnro`( `c doyäw fn `gndv`r c `mcr n c
|nrfçc fn Fn~w( nm Grdwvc Knw~w gr~gdidg`fc n rnww~rrnvc( n
gcoid`r p~n c m`dw Nhn i`rà/ Ä nh` p~n mn hny` ` |now`r p~n
|cwwc mn w`ovdidg`r( |`r` p~n c Wnojcr Wn `|rczdmn fn
mdm/ @gndv`r ` ar`á` ä gcoidrm`r p~n wc~ dog`|`{ fn i`{nr
p~`hp~nr gcdw` p~n mn k~wvdidp~n fd`ovn fn Fn~w n dwvc ä
gcovràrdc `c p~n mn fd{ ` mdoj` wcbnrb`/
M`w( ar`á`w ` Fn~w( ~m` `~vcrdf`fn w~|nrdcr
fnvnrmdoc~ p~n Wdmçc hny`wwn ` gr~{ fn Knw~w `vä c
G`hyàrdc/ F` mnwm` icrm`( ~m` `~vcrdf`fn w~|nrdcr( Knw~w(
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fnvnrmdoc~ p~n Nhn |r÷|rdc wnrd` mn~ gcm|`ojndrc fn k~ac
n fdydfdrd` c |nwc gcmdac/ M`dw fc p~n dwvc( Nhn fdwwn p~n mn
`hdyd`rd` f` mdoj` wcbrng`ra`( wn n~ vcm`wwn wcbrn mdm c
Wn~ k~ac n `|rnofnwwn gcm Nhn/ @wwdm( n~ `gj`rd` fnwg`owc(
|crp~n c Wn~ k~ac ä w~`yn n c Wn~ i`rfc ä hnyn/ @|rnofnofc
gcm Nhn( Wn~ Nw|írdvc mn |~rdidg` fd` ` fd`( `vr`yäw f` W~`
\`h`yr`( n fnwg~brc p~n c |nwc y`d wnofc `rr`og`fc fn
mn~w cmbrcw/
P~n `híydc vrnmnofc ä nwv`r gjna`ofc fn ychv` ì g`w`
fn mn~ \`d n |nrgnbnr p~n Nhn yndc gcrrnofc `vä mdm( `ovnw
mnwmc p~n n~ gjna`wwn hà/ Ä gcmc ~m bàhw`mc wcbrn ~m`
inrdf` wnovdr c `mcrcwc `br`ác fn ocwwc \`d Gnhnwvd`h( Wn~w
bndkcw `inv~cwcw n W~` dmnow` `hnard` |cr mdoj` ychv` ì W~`g`w`/ P~n |`{ vrnmnof` n~ wdovc `c |nrgnbnr p~n Nhn oçc
p~nr p~n n~ |ná` |nrfçc |nhcw mn~w |ng`fcw( |crp~n Nhn kà
yd~ c `rrn|nofdmnovc nm mn~ gcr`áçc( n onm p~nr m`dw
p~n n~ idp~n i`h`ofc wcbrn nhnw/ P~n `hnard` n~ wdovc `c
novnofnr p~n v~fc c p~n Nhn m`dw p~nr ä vnr gcm~ojçc
gcmdac( p~n n~ oçc w`d` m`dw fn W~` |rnwnoá`/ P~n
inhdgdf`fn ä w`bnr p~n Nhn gcowdfnr` mcrvc c mn~ ‘ynhjc n~”
n w÷ Wn dovnrnww` |nhc ‘ocyc jcmnm” p~n c Wn~ Nw|írdvc nwvà
icrm`ofc nm mdm( `acr`/
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@c `vnofnr `c gj`m`fc fn dr ` Knw~w( vcm`r wcbrn
mdm c Wn~ k~ac n `|rnofnr gcm Nhn( vcfc c |nwc f` mdoj`
gr~{ nwvà wnofc fnwindvc/ Wn~ Nw|írdvc nwvà rn`hmnovn mn
`hdyd`ofc n mn i`{nofc wnovdr ` hnyn{` fn Wn~ i`rfc/ C
Wnojcr vnm( fd` ` fd`( `rr`og`fc fn mdm g`f` dvnm p~n
|nw`y` gcovr` mdm/ Dwvc mn i`{ |now`r p~n( `c fd{nr p~n
fnynmcw vcm`r ocww` gr~{ fd` ` fd` n wna~d-Hc( c Wnojcr(
o` ynrf`fn( p~nr p~n rngcojná`mcw `w gcdw`w p~n |nw`m
wcbrn o÷w( |`r` p~n Nhn |cww` vr`v`r( gcownrv`r( ì mnfdf`
p~n gcogcrf`mcw gcm Nhn n p~n |nrmdvdmcw wnrmcw
mchf`fcw ì W~` wnmnhj`oá`/
Wna~dr `c Wnojcr ä nwv`r gcowgdnovn fn p~n wnrnd
vr`owicrm`fc vcfcw cw fd`w( `vä `hg`oá`r ` |nrindáçc fnw`ovdf`fn p~n mn |nrmdvdrà ynr `c \`d/ Ä nwv`r gcowgdnovn fn
p~n nm mn~w fd`w( `p~d o` vnrr`( |cwwc oçc vnr onm cofn
rnghdo`r mdoj` g`bná`/ Ä nwv`r gcowgdnovn fn p~n c m~ofc
wnrà gcovr` mdm n( mnwmc `wwdm( |cwwc mn `odm`r( |crp~n
c Wnojcr ynogn~ c m~ofc/ Ä nwv`r gcowgdnovn fn p~n |cwwc
|`ww`r |cr doûmnr`w |rdy`áþnw( |cräm( c Wnojcr nwv`rà
gcmdac n o`f` y`d mn wn|`r`r fc Wn~ `mcr/ Wna~dr `c
Wnojcr ä oçc |now`r m`dw nm y`ov`anow |`r` ` mdoj` ydf`(
|crp~n kà oçc wc~ m`dw n~ p~n ydyc( m`w Grdwvc ydyn nm
mdm/ Wna~dr `c Wnojcr ä `of`r oc g`mdojc `|nrv`fc( `p~nhn
g`mdojc cofn oçc g`bn onoj~m` fnww`w ocww`w ycov`fnw/
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Wna~dr `c Wnojcr mn i`{ oçc |now`r m`dw oc |nwc f`
mdoj` gr~{( onm |now`r oc gcoicrvc n o` wna~r`oá` |`r`
mdm mnwmc/ N~ C wdac gcm ` gnrvn{` fn p~n ` mdoj` ydf` ä
c fnw|ckc w~idgdnovn |`r` mdm( |crp~n Nhn w`bn v~fc c p~n ä
ongnwwàrdc |`r` p~n Wn~ |rc|÷wdvc wn g~m|r` nm mdm( wnm
` ongnwwdf`fn *m~dvc mnocw( ` |cwwdbdhdf`fn$ fn p~n n~ C
fdrdk`/ Mn `hnarc gcm W~`w |`h`yr`w; ‘\cdw gnrv`mnovn vn
w`hy`rnd( n oçc g`dràw ì nw|`f`( |crp~n ` v~` ydf` vn wnrà
gcmc fnw|ckc( |crp~`ovc gcoid`wvn nm mdm” *Kr 74/0:$/
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@rm`fdhj` Mcrv`h
‘Cr`( ` wnr|novn nr` c m`dw `wv~vc fn vcfcw cw
`odm`dw wnhy`anow p~n c Wnojcr Fn~w vdoj` indvc/// Fdwwn `
wnr|novn ì m~hjnr; /// oc fd` nm p~n fnhn gcmnrnm( wn~w
chjcw wn `brdrçc( n ycgëw wnrçc gcmc Fn~w( gcojngnfcrnw fc
bnm n fc m`h" *Ao 7$/ Nm c~vr`w |`h`yr`w( W`v`oàw nwv`y`
fd{nofc; ‘Ycgëw vëm fdrndvcw! Ycgëw wçc idhjcw fc Rnd! Oçc
wçc |c~g` gcdw`( oçc! Cofn nwvà ` fdaodf`fn fn ycgëw3
Ycgëw wçc m~dvc m`dw fdaocw fc p~n `|`rnov`m! Ycgëw wçc `
dm`anm fc |r÷|rdc Fn~w( da~`dw ` Nhn!”/
@ha~äm |cfn fd{nr p~n o~og` ‟c~yd~– nww`w |`h`yr`w(hà oc wn~ íovdmc3 Wn ycgë |cfn fd{nr p~n o~og` `w c~yd~(
g~df`fc! Jà ~m h`ác wcb wn~w |äw( p~n wnrà |~z`fc n
`|nrv`fc ` p~`hp~nr mcmnovc! W`v`oàw w÷ |cfn `adr gcm `
|nrmdwwçc fn Fn~w( m`w Nwvn ~w` `p~nhn |`r` ocw
`|nrindác`r( |`r` |rcy`r ocww` iä |`r` o÷w mnwmcw( |`r`
fnwyd`r cw p~n wçc rn|rcy`fcw( noidm( |`r` g~m|rdr Wn~w
|rc|÷wdvcw/
Fnwfn c gcmnác( W`v`oàw vnovc~( gcm ëzdvc( `rr~do`r
` rnh`áçc |~r` n fdrnv` novrn c jcmnm n Fn~w/ @|÷w ocww`
p~nf`( nhn gcovdo~c~( gcm m~dvc ëzdvc( ` ocw `i`wv`r fc
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G`mdojc f` rngcogdhd`áçc gcm Fn~w/ Nhn gcovdo~c~ ` ocw
nowdo`r ` wnrmcw wcbnrbcw! Nhn n o÷w |nrfnmcw c
rnh`gdco`mnovc fn \`d n idhjcw( novrn Fn~w n o÷w( |cr g`~w`
f` wcbnrb`/ N nwvn gcovdo~` wnofc c g`mdojc f` wn|`r`áçc(
mnwmc fn|cdw f` cbr` |nrindv` fn Grdwvc( |crp~n nwwn ä c
g`mdojc doynrwc ìp~nhn p~n Knw~w gcowvr~d~/
Ä iàgdh |`r` W`v`oàw m`ovnr `p~nhnw p~n `dof` oçc
gcojngnm ` Grdwvc hcoan fn Fn~w( `vr`yäw f` wcbnrb`/ Ä c
p~n wn yë |cr vcfc c m~ofc( `vr`yäw fn vcf` ` Jdwv÷rd`! Oc
`iç fn wnrnm w~|nrdcrnw `cw c~vrcw( cw jcmnow wn cfnd`m n
wn m`v`m/ C rdgc p~nr wnr `dof` m`dw rdgc( oçc |`r`
fnwir~v`r fn ~m m`dcr gcoicrvc( p~n w~` rdp~n{` dodgd`h kà
|cfnrd` w`vdwi`{nr( m`w |`r` wn wnovdr w~|nrdcr( m`dw rdgc fcp~n `ha~äm nw|ngíidgc( c~ fc p~n vcf`w `w c~vr`w |nwwc`w/
O`áþnw novr`m nm a~nrr` gcm c~vr`w( oçc |nh`w p~nwvþnw
dfnch÷adg`w p~n |rc|`a`m( m`w |`r` `arna`r `dof` m`dw
vnrrdv÷rdcw `cw wn~w n#c~ fnmcowvr`rnm w~` w~|nrdcrdf`fn/ C
nm|rna`fc novr` nm gcm|nvdáçc gcm wn~w gchna`w( |`r`
|rcy`r p~n nhn ä c m`dw nidgdnovn/ @ fco` fn g`w` nz|hdg` w~`
rngndv` |`r` c~vr` m~hjnr( oçc |`r` p~n nwv` `|rnof`( m`w
|`r` mcwvr`r ` vcfcw p~n nh` ä ` mnhjcr gc{dojndr`( w~|nrdcr
ì ‟rdy`h–/ N( `wwdm( vcfcw wna~nm icrm`ofc ‟dodmdacw– c
vnm|c vcfc( |crp~n ` wcbnrb` fn g`f` ~m oçc |nrmdvn p~n
nzdwv` `hac c~ `ha~äm w~|nrdcr ` wd mnwmc!
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M`w Fn~w Wn rnynh` ` vcf`w `w |nwwc`w! Vcf`w( wnm
nzgnáçc( rngnbnm crdnov`áçc fc Nw|írdvc fn Fn~w( wcbrn c
G`mdojc gnrvc ` wna~dr/ N ä `í p~n W`v`oàw gcmná` ` vnr
vr`b`hjc! Nhn |rngdw` ‟rc~b`r ` wnmnovn–( `ovnw p~n nh`
anrmdon/ Nhn |rngdw` ‟wng`r– ` |np~no` |h`ov`( g`wc `
wnmnovn gcowda` anrmdo`r/ Nhn |rngdw` ‟w~icg`r– ` ar`ofn
|h`ov`( g`wc nh` gcowda` grnwgnr/ Nhn |rngdw` ‟dm|nfdr– p~n cw
ir~vcw o`wá`m( g`wc ` |h`ov` wn vr`owicrmn nm àrycrn/ N nhn
nogcovrc~ ~m g`mdojc p~n i`gdhdv` wn~ vr`b`hjc( ~m` ar`ofn
`rm`( p~n nhn ~w` gcm vcfcw p~n p~nrnm wn rngcogdhd`r gcm
c Wnojcr; ` rnhdadcwdf`fn! Nwv`( o`f` m`dw ä fc p~n c ~wc f`
wcbnrb`( vcf` yn{ p~n fnynrí`mcw ona`rmc-ocw ` o÷w
mnwmcw!
O` mnfdf` nm p~n `w |nwwc`w `|rnofnm ` \`h`yr` fn
Fn~w( W`v`oàw i`{ ~wc fnh`( ìw yn{nw gcm w~vdw `hvnr`áþnw(
ìw yn{nw hny`ofc-ocw ` `|hdgà-h` fn icrm` nrr`f`/ Fd`ovn fn
Knw~w( oc fnwnrvc( nhn ~wc~ ` \`h`yr` gcrrnv`mnovn( m`w
vnov`ofc hny`r Knw~w ` i`{nr ~m ~wc dofnydfc fnh`/ N ä `wwdm
p~n nhn i`{ gcocwgc( p~`ofc |nrgnbn p~n `hvnr`r ` \`h`yr`
oçc w~rvn m`dw nindvc nm o÷w/ M`w( fdinrnovnmnovn fn Knw~w(
m~dvcw fn o÷w vnmcw w~g~mbdfc ` nww` `rm`fdhj` mcrv`h/ N
~m` f`w p~nwvþnw p~n nhn m`dw i`{ ~wc ä ` f` w`ovdidg`áçc/
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Vcfcw cw ocwwcw |ng`fcw nwvçc rnh`gdco`fcw ì ocww`
g`ron; yígdcw( h~zûrd`( mnfc( nzgnvc ` wcbnrb`/ Nwv` ä fn
crdanm fnmcoí`g`( doinro`h/ Kà p~n ` w`ovdidg`áçc( `
|~rdidg`áçc fcw |ng`fcw( ä vr`v`f` nzvnow`mnovn o` \`h`yr`
fn Fn~w( ` m`dcr ‟w`g`f`– fn W`v`oàw icd ~w`r ` wcbnrb`
gcmc |rdogí|dc |`r` `hg`oáà-h`( nm yn{ f` fdydo`mnovn
dofdg`f` w~bmdwwçc ì cbr` fc Nw|írdvc W`ovc fn Fn~w! Nhn in{
c jcmnm |now`r p~n ` w`ovdidg`áçc ä ~m` cbr` p~n g`bn `
wd mnwmc( |cr wnr fdaoc n vcv`hmnovn g`|`gdv`fc ` ninv~à-h`/
@p~d novr` ` w~vdhn{` n ` w`a`gdf`fn fn W`v`oàw;
hny`ofc c jcmnm ` |now`r fnww` icrm`( nhn vnov` `o~h`r
|cr gcm|hnvc ` cbr` fn Knw~w! Doinhd{mnovn( nhn vnm cbvdfc
w~gnwwc gcm m~dv`w |nwwc`w/ Ä m~dvc gcm~m ynrmcw|nwwc`w wn nwicrá`ofc n gcowna~dofc ynognr ~m yígdc( gcmc
v`b`adwmc( `hgcchdwmc( frca`w( |cr vnrnm wn vcro`fc grdwvçw/
Oc nov`ovc( m~dv`w fnh`w oçc ynognm v`h yígdc |cr `mcr `
Knw~w/ Oc mcmnovc fn w~` gcoynrwçc( hjnw ä fdvc p~n ‘`acr`
ycgëw i`{nm |`rvn fn ~m ar~|c cofn v`dw gcdw`w oçc wçc
|r`vdg`f`w”/ N ä nwv` dogh~wçc nm ~m ar~|c ‟nw|ngd`h–( fn
|nwwc`w ‟nw|ngd`dw–( p~n mcyn m~dv` anovn! Ä |~r` wcbnrb`
fn wn `gj`r fdaoc fn |nrvnognr ` ~m` gcm~odf`fn p~n ä
w~|nrdcr `c rnwv`ovn f` wcgdnf`fn( |rdogd|`hmnovn |cr gcov`
fn w~` w`ovdf`fn!
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N c |dcr ä p~n ` gcdw` oçc |`r` |cr `í; fn|cdw fn
‟ynognr– ` gcogcrrëogd` f` wcgdnf`fn nm anr`h( ä ongnwwàrdc
ynognr ` gcogcrrëogd` dovnro` oc ar~|c! N c fd`bc gcovdo~`
wc|r`ofc ocw c~ydfcw f`w |nwwc`w; ‘Ycgë ä m~dvc nw|ngd`h!
Fn~w `m` ycgë( |crp~n ycgë ‟ä c g`r`–! P~`ovc m`dw ycgë wn
nwicrá`r( m`dw Nhn y`d `m`r ycgë( |crp~n ycgë wnrà w~|nrdcr
` nwwnw wn~w drmçcw! @acr` p~n ycgë fndzc~ fn i~m`r( fn
bnbnr( fn ~w`r frca`w( fn chj`r gcm fnwnkc |`r` `w c~vr`w
|nwwc`w( ycgë |rngdw` mcwvr`r p~n ä m`dw w`ovc p~n vcfcw!
P~`ofc novr`r nm ~m` rn~odçc fn cr`áçc( i`á` g`r` fn
|dnfcwc/ Mcwvrn p~n ycgë nwvà noychydfc gcm `p~dhc! Ä iàgdh;
onm |rngdw` nwv`r |now`ofc nm Fn~w( ä w÷ mcwvr`r ~m
wnmbh`ovn vrdwvn! Fda` ` `ha~m`w |nwwc`w( fdwgrnv`mnovn(
p~n ycgë vnm knk~`fc m~dvc( p~n ycgë vnm cr`fc m~dvc( p~n
vnm hdfc m~dvc ` Bíbhd`! N oçc wn nwp~ná` fn i`{nr ~m `r fn
|nw`r( p~`ofc `ha~äm fdwwnr p~n oçc i`{ nww`w gcdw`w gcmc
ycgë! Nzdk` p~n wn hnd` ` \`h`yr` nm |ä( |`r` p~n `w |nwwc`w
w`db`m p~n ycgë rnw|ndv` ` Fn~w m~dvc m`dw fc p~n nh`w
rnw|ndv`m!”/
V~fc dwwc vnm ` wcbnrb` gcmc gcmb~wvíynh( oçc c
`mcr ` Fn~w( oçc c rngcojngdmnovc fc |cfnr vr`owicrm`fcr
fc Nw|írdvc fn Grdwvc! @wwdm( `w |nwwc`w ‟ynognm– wn~w nrrcw
|cr `gj`rnm p~n w~` fdaodf`fn nwvà m~dvc `gdm` fnh`w n(
|rdogd|`hmnovn( m~dvc `gdm` f`w c~vr`w |nwwc`w! Nh`w g`nm
onww` ar`ofn `rm`fdhj` fn W`v`oàw( fn vrcg`rnm ~m`
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nw|doj` oc rcwvc |cr ~m gâognr ydchnovc( p~n gcrr÷d vcf` n
p~`hp~nr |cwwdbdhdf`fn fn j`ynr `mcr ` Fn~w n ìw c~vr`w
|nwwc`w( fn j`ynr ynrf`fndr` inhdgdf`fn n fn j`ynr `ha~m`
gj`ogn fn bcm wnowc! @ dm`anm f` |nrindáçc fn wd mnwm`w
`w gna` vcv`hmnovn!
@|nw`r fdwwc( nww`w |nwwc`w fngh`r`m grnr nm Fn~w n
wn gcowdfnr`m w`ov`w! M`w nwwn Fn~w( oc p~`h fd{nm grnr( ä
dm`adoàrdc! Nh`w fd{nm p~n oçc wçc o`f` fd`ovn fnhn( gcm
|rnvnow` j~mdhf`fn( m`w( nm wn~ íovdmc( |`ww`m c vnm|c
vcfc |now`ofc oc p~`ovc nhn `w `|rcy` n `w gcowdfnr`
w~|nrdcrnw ìw c~vr`w |nwwc`w gcm~ow! N onm |nrgnbnm p~n
icd ` nh`w mnwm`w p~n c Wnojcr fdwwn; ‘O~og` `w gcojngd!
@|`rvnm-wn fn Mdm!”/
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@ Wcbnrb` n c \ng`fc Mcrv`h
‘Fdwwn ` wnr|novn ì m~hjnr; ‟Gnrv`mnovn oçc
mcrrnrçc! Fn~w w`bn p~n( oc fd` nm p~n fnhn
gcmnrnm( wn~w chjcw wn `brdrçc( n ycgëw wnrçc gcmc
Fn~w( gcojngnfcrnw fc bnm n fc m`h–" *Ao 7/6->$
N( novçc( ‘p~`ofc ` m~hjnr yd~ p~n ` àrycrn |`rngd`///
fnwnkàynh |`r` fnh` wn cbvnr fdwgnrodmnovc” n p~n( |crv`ovc(
wn vcro`rd` da~`h ` Fn~w( nh` fndzc~ fn grnr p~n Fn~w nr` c
\`d Grd`fcr( |`wwc~ ` `gj`r p~n nh` wn vcro`rd` ~m` fn~w`(
gcm |cfnr wcbrn w~` |r÷|rd` ydf` n wcbrn vcf`w `w gcdw`w( n
wn~ m`rdfc gcogcrfc~ gcm nh` n |nowc~ c mnwmc wcbrn wd/
@ WCBNRB@
@ wcbnrb` fc jcmnm anr` dogrnf~hdf`fn( p~n( |cr w~`yn{( anr` ` mcrvn fc jcmnm/
M~dvcw ‘`|nfrnk`m” @fçc n Ny`( |cr vnrnm |rcycg`fc
` p~nf` fc jcmnm n w~`w vnrríyndw gcownp~ëogd`w( p~n
cbwnry`mcw nm ocwwc fd` ` fd`( cofn c m`h |`rngn
|rny`hngnr/ Oc nov`ovc( `c hcoac fn ocww`w ydf`w( vcfcw o÷w
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mcwvr`mcw p~n i`rí`mcw c mnwmc p~n nhnw/ @ido`h( `ovnw fn
f`rmcw |nrmdwwçc |`r` p~n c Nw|írdvc W`ovc `k` nm ocww`
ydf`( mchf`ofc c ocwwc g`ràvnr( ocw `|nrindác`ofc( wnm|rn
`admcw gcm ` mnwm` wcbnrb` fc |rdmndrc g`w`h/
Fnwfn gnfc( p~nrnmcw wnr c gnovrc f`w `vnoáþnw(
p~nrnmcw wnr `fcr`fcw |cr ocww`w p~`hdf`fnw n
g`|`gdf`fnw/ P~nrnmcw wnr fn~wnw! F` |nwwc` m`dw i`mcw`
ì m`dw fnwgcojngdf`( f` m`dw |cfnrcw` ì mnocw i`ycrngdf`(
vcfcw `admcw gcm wcbnrb`( wnoçc nm v~fc( |nhc mnocw( nm
`ha~m` àrn` fn ocww` ydf`/
Jà m~dvcw nznm|hcw fdwwc nm vcf`w `w nwinr`w f`
ydf`; p~`ofc grd`oá`w( p~nrnmcw p~n vcfcw |nownm p~n
wcmcw c mnhjcr idhjc( c mnhjcr `h~oc( c mnhjcr nw|crvdwv`( `
grd`oá` m`dw wàbd`( ` m`dw nw|nv`g~h`r! \cr p~ë3 \crp~n
p~nrnmcw wnr `fcr`fcw gcmc fn~wnw! Ä gcmc wn
p~dwäwwnmcw p~n vcfcw wn g~ry`wwnm fd`ovn fn o÷w(
rngcojngnofc ocww` ar`ofn{`/ Mnwmc grd`oá`w ‘p~dnvdoj`w”(
p~n oçc |`rvdgd|`m f` ichd` f`w c~vr`w grd`oá`w( nwvçc
gj`m`ofc `vnoáçc |`r` wd( p~nrnofc p~n vcfcw rngcojná`m
w~` m`v~rdf`fn |rngcgn( c~ p~n wçc gcdv`fdoj`w vr`v`f`w
dok~wv`mnovn n p~n( o` ynrf`fn( wçc mnrngnfcr`w fn ~m
vr`v`mnovc m~dvc w~|nrdcr `c p~n vëm( |crp~n wçc m~dvc
w~|nrdcrnw `c p~n |`rngnm wnr/
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@c hcoac fcw `ocw( nww` `vdv~fn y`d wnofc
`|nrindác`f`( mnfd`ovn ` nz|nrdëogd` fn ydf`( p~n mcwvr`
p~`dw g`mdojcw wçc m`dw nidgdnovnw |`r` nww` gcop~dwv`/
Novçc( wn gjna` ì i`wn `f~hv` gcm ~m` ‘|nrwco`hdf`fn”
icrm`f`; `ha~ow idoanm j~mdhf`fn( wnovdofc |no` fn wd
mnwmcw |cr oçc vnrnm `hg`oá`fc c |`v`m`r fn ydf` p~n
|now`m mnrngnr( `ido`h( wçc fn~wnw! Nwv`w |nwwc`w vnov`m
gcoynradr |`r` wd ` `vnoáçc n ` `fcr`áçc fn vcfcw( |cr
|`rngnrnm iràandw n fdwgrdmdo`f`w( p~`ofc fnynrd`m wnr c
gnovrc fc ~odynrwc/
C~vrcw wn nwicrá`r`m fn v`h icrm`( p~n gcowna~dr`m
wn fnwv`g`r o` `vdydf`fn p~n nwgchjnr`m |`r` wnrnm
w~|nrdcrnw/ Nwvnw( oçc mnfdr`m nwicrácw( `c hcoac fn w~`w
ydf`w( |`r` `vdoadrnm wn~ cbknvdyc fn wnrnm `fcr`fcw gcmc
fn~wnw! @ido`h( c p~n hny` `ha~äm ` p~nrnr wnr c mnhjcr nm
`ha~m` gcdw`3 Ä |`r` c bnm gcm~m3 Ä |`r` bnoniígdc fcw
c~vrcw3 Oçc( o~og`! Ä |`r` bnoniígdc |r÷|rdc( |`r` wnr
`fcr`fc( rngcojngdfc gcmc c w~|nrdcr!
Nm vcf`w nww`w gcdw`w( c wnr j~m`oc nz|nrdmnov` f`
w~` |r÷|rd` àrycrn fc gcojngdmnovc fc bnm n fc m`h/ Nm
vcf`w nww`w gcdw`w( c wnr j~m`oc grë p~n w~` `vdv~fn( w~`c|áçc fn ydf`( wn~ |r÷|rdc nwicrác( c vcro`rà wnmnhj`ovn `c
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@hvíwwdmc/ Nm vcf`w nww`w gcdw`w( c wnr j~m`oc fndz` fn
grnr o` \`h`yr` fc Wnojcr; ‘N~ wc~ c Wnojcr( vn~ Fn~w \`d n
Grd`fcr! Oçc jà c~vrc fn~w wnmnhj`ovn ` Mdm!”/ N nwv`
dogrnf~hdf`fn anr` ` mcrvn!
C \NG@FC MCRV@H
Kcçc fdwwn; ‘Jà |ng`fc p~n hny` ì mcrvn” *0Kc >/09$/
N ä bnm |rcyàynh p~n( `c fd{nr dwvc( nhn wn rn|crv`y` ì
|`h`yr` fn Knw~w; ‘\cr nwwn mcvdyc n~ hjnw fdac; vcfc
|ng`fc n bh`wiëmd` wnrçc |nrfc`fcw `cw jcmnow( m`w `
bh`wiëmd` gcovr` c Nw|írdvc oçc wnrà |nrfc`f`/ Vcfc `p~nhn
p~n fdwwnr ~m` |`h`yr` gcovr` c Idhjc fc jcmnm wnrà
|nrfc`fc( m`w p~nm i`h`r gcovr` c Nw|írdvc W`ovc oçc wnrà
|nrfc`fc( onm onwv` nr` onm o` nr` p~n jà fn ydr” *Mv
02/70-72$/
@p~d( c Wnojcr nwvà fd{nofc p~n nzdwvn ~m |ng`fcp~n( donydv`ynhmnovn( hny`rà ì mcrvn( p~`ofc gcmnvdfc/
M`w( wn Knw~w mcrrn~ |cr ocwwcw |ng`fcw( wn ä Nhn p~n ocw
|~rdidg` n h`oá` |`r` vràw fn Wd vcf` ` ocww` dodp~df`fn(
gcmc |cfn j`ynr( `dof`( ~m` |cwwdbdhdf`fn fn gcmnvnrmcw
~m nrrc p~n oçc |nrmdv` p~n wnk`mcw w`hycw3
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Ychv`ofc oc vnm|c( ynmcw c Nw|írdvc W`ovc `idrm`r
`vr`yäw fn Kcnh; ‘fnrr`m`rnd c mn~ Nw|írdvc wcbrn vcf` `
g`ron/// `vä wcbrn cw wnrycw n wcbrn `w wnry`w fnrr`m`rnd c
mn~ Nw|írdvc o`p~nhnw fd`w” *2/2:-24$/ Nr` ~m` |rcingd`
wcbrn c ido`h fcw vnm|cw( m`w \nfrc( nm wn~ |rdmndrc
fdwg~rwc( `idrmc~ p~n nh` kà gcmná`y` ` wn g~m|rdr o`p~nhn
mcmnovc( o`p~nhn fd` fn \novngcwvnw/
Dwvc p~nr fd{nr p~n c Nw|írdvc fc Wnojcr nwvà k~ovc fn
vcf`w `w |nwwc`w( fn vcfcw cw |cycw( fc m~ofc dovndrc/ N
w`bnmcw f` i~oáçc fc Nw|írdvc; ‘hjnw nowdo`rà vcf`w `w
gcdw`w n hjnw i`rà hnmbr`r v~fc c p~n n~ hjnw fdwwn”5
‘gcoynognrà c m~ofc fc |ng`fc( f` k~wvdá` n fc k~í{c”5 ‘nhn
cw a~d`rà ` vcf` ` ynrf`fn”5 ‘hjnw `o~ogd`rà c p~n nwvà |crydr”5 ‘rngnbnrà fc p~n ä mn~ n c vcro`rà gcojngdfc `
ycgëw”( `wwdm gcmc ` fdwvrdb~dáçc fn fcow |`r` ` Darnk`/ N
Dw`í`w nwgh`rngn gcmc c Nw|írdvc i`h` gcm `w |nwwc`w; ‘P~nr
ycgë wn ychvn |`r` ` fdrndv` p~nr |`r` ` nwp~nrf`( ~m` yc{
`vràw fn ycgë hjn fdrà; ‟Nwvn ä c g`mdojc5 wda`-c–" *7</20$/
Nm c~vr`w |`h`yr`w( c Nw|írdvc W`ovc crdnov` ` vcf`w
`w |nwwc`w( nm vcfc c vnm|c/ Nm vcf`w `w c|áþnw p~n c wnr
j~m`oc nwvà |`r` nwgchjnr( c Nw|írdvc hjn fd{ p~`h c g`mdojc
gnrvc ` wna~dr/ Nhn wnm|rn vcro` gcojngdf` ` ycov`fn fn
Fn~w |`r` ` |nwwc`( ` g`f` |`wwc oc g`mdojc f` ydf`/
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\cfnmcw( `vä( vcm`r ` dh~wvr`áçc fcw fnwnojcw `odm`fcw n
fcw idhmnw( cofn `|`rngn ~m ‘`okdojc” n ~m ‘fd`bdojc”
i`h`ofc `cw c~ydfcw f` |nwwc`( gcmc ~m` ida~r` fc p~n
rn`hmnovn `gcovngn/ \cfnmcw vcm`r nwwn ‘`okdojc” gcmc
ida~r` fc Nw|írdvc fn Fn~w ocw i`h`ofc p~`h ` W~` ycov`fn
fd`ovn f` wdv~`áçc nm p~n ocw nogcovr`mcw/ @ fdinrnoá` ä
p~n Nhn i`h` `c ocwwc gcr`áçc( oçc `cw ocwwcw c~ydfcw/
Ä `í p~n gcmnvnmcw c |ng`fc mcrv`h( `c p~`h Knw~w
Wn rninrd~; doûmnr`w yn{nw( bh`winm`mcw gcovr` c Nw|írdvc!
Bh`winm`r ä ~hvr`k`r( dow~hv`r ` fdydof`fn/ Ä dwvc p~n
i`{nmcw( p~`ofc oçc wna~dmcw ` crdnov`áçc fc Nw|írdvc fn
Grdwvc( |crp~n |rninrdmcw gcmnr fc ir~vc f` ocww` àrycrn fc
gcojngdmnovc fc bnm n fc m`h( `c doyäw fn gcogcrf`rmcwgcm c ynrf`fndrc Gcojngdmnovc Doidodvc! Dwvc ä ocw
i`{nrmcw Fn~w ` o÷w mnwmcw! Dwvc ä oçc grnr o` |`h`yr` fn
Knw~w5 ä oçc grnr p~n c Nw|írdvc W`ovc vnoj` c |cfnr |`r`
ocw nowdo`r vcf`w `w gcdw`w5 ä oçc grnr p~n Nhn ä c |r÷|rdc
Fn~w! N nwv` dogrnf~hdf`fn anr` ` mcrvn!
Gcmc rngcojngnr ` yc{ fc Nw|írdvc3 Knw~w fdwwn p~n c
Nw|írdvc W`ovc rngnbnrd` fc p~n ä fNhn n c nowdo`rd` ` o÷w/
V`mbäm fdwwn p~n Nhn gcoynognrd` c m~ofc fc |ng`fc( f`
k~wvdá` n fc k~í{c/ Novçc( ` g`f` |`wwc p~n f`mcw( oc fd`
gj`m`fc ‟jckn–( c Nw|írdvc ocw nowdo` gcmc c Wnojcr `adrd` n
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ocw dofdg` c g`mdojc ` wna~dr; dmdvà-hC! N( wnm|rn( fn
`gcrfc gcm ` \`h`yr` fn Fn~w( f` mnwm` icrm` p~n Knw~w c
in{/ Nhn v`mbäm ocw gcoynogn fc |ng`fc p~n gcmnvnrí`mcw
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ä ` ocww` wcbnrb`( ` p~`h ocw novrna` ì yç dfch`vrd` fn o÷w
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`p~nhn p~n hjnw ä mdwnrdgcrfdcwc” *Ko 2/:$/
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fc Wn~ Nw|írdvc! Gcogcrf`r gcm Nhn( `|hdg`r Wn~w nowdocw ì
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`gndv`ofc Wn~w nowdocw n oçc rngcojngnofc p~n Nhn ä c|r÷|rdc Fn~w( ocw hny` ì mcrvn!
‘Ndw p~n nwvc~ ì |crv` n b`vc5 wn `ha~äm c~ydr ` mdoj`
yc{ n `brdr ` |crv`( novr`rnd nm w~` g`w` n gn`rnd gcm
nhn( n nhn( gcmdac” *@| 7/2<$/
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`grnwgnov` p~n Nhn |r÷|rdc ä ` ocww` w`ovdidg`áçc *0Gc 0$/
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p~n ` hnd icr` dog`|`{ fn i`{nr |cr nwv`r noir`p~ngdf` |nh`
g`ron( Fn~w c in{( noyd`ofc wn~ |r÷|rdc Idhjc( ì wnmnhj`oá`
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nzdaëogd`w f` hnd icwwnm |hno`mnovn w`vdwindv`w nm o÷w( p~n
oçc ydynmcw wna~ofc ` g`ron( m`w wna~ofc c Nw|írdvc” *Rm
:$/ Nm c~vr`w |`h`yr`w( onm mnwmc ` |nrindv` Hnd fn Fn~w ä
g`|`{ fn ocw hny`r ì w`ovdidg`áçc( wnm ` p~`h oçc ynrnmcw c
Wnojcr! M~dvc mnocw( hndw p~n |rcgnfnm fn jcmnow c i`rçc!
Wcmnovn c Nw|írdvc fn Fn~w |cfn i`{nr nww` cbr`!!!
‘M`w gcmc |cfn wnr dwvc3 Gcmc p~n c Nw|írdvc W`ovc
y`d m~f`r `ha~m` gcdw` nm mdm3”( |nra~ov`m `ha~ow/ ‘Wn
n~ oçc fnrrcv`r c |ng`fc p~n nzdwvn nm mdm( o~og`
gjna`rnd `c Wnojcr!”( fngh`r`m c~vrcw/ ‘V~fc bnm( vëm
gcdw`w p~n w÷ c Nw|írdvc |cfn i`{nr( m`w m~dvcw |ng`fcw wc~
n~ p~n fnyc fnrrcv`r!”( nzgh`m`m `dof` c~vrcw/
@m`fcw( wn |~fäwwnmcw fnrrcv`r `ha~m |ng`fc nm
o÷w( gcowna~drí`mcw fnrrcv`r p~`hp~nr |ng`fc( b`wv`ofc(
|`r` dwvc( ` `|hdg`áçc fdinrnogd`f` fn nwicrác |r÷|rdc! N(
`wwdm( c ûodgc g`mdojc p~n hny` ` Fn~w wnrd` ` cbnfdëogd` `
hndw( oçc Knw~w! ‘@``jjj( m`w Knw~w yndc nm wcgcrrc fcw
ir`gcw n c|rdmdfcw/ Cw c~vrcw |cfnm n fnynm h~v`r gcovr` c
|ng`fc n ynogë-hc!”( `ha~äm |cfnrd` `ra~mnov`r/ M`w dwvc
wnrd` ynrf`fn3 Ä c p~n fd{ ` \`h`yr` f` doidodv` w`bnfcrd` fn
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Nwv` ä ` gcowv`v`áçc donp~íycg` fn p~n odoa~äm gcowna~n
wn hdyr`r fc |ng`fc( wn oçc icr |nhc |cfnr fc Nw|írdvc W`ovc!
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p~n n~ Vn |`a`rnd vcf`w `w mdoj`w fíydf`w gcovdac!”( |crp~n
nwv` ä ` fngh`r`áçc fn ~m` mnovn dow`o` p~n fnwgcojngn c
rn`h y`hcr fnww`w fíydf`w n( |dcr `dof`( fnwgcojngn ` w~`
|r÷|rd` gcofdáçc mdwnràynh fn dog`|`gdf`fn fn ynognr c|ng`fc!
Knw~w fdwwn p~n oçc `fd`ov` o÷w fd{nrmcw p~n oçc
m`v`mcw( oçc `f~hvnr`mcw( oçc gcbdá`mcw( |crp~n nwwnw
|ng`fcw nwvçc novr`oj`fcw nm o÷w( m~dvc `ovnw fn wnrnm
c~ oçc gcmnvdfcw fn i`vc! Nwvn ä c ar`ofn |rcbhnm`
j~m`oc fd`ovn fc |ng`fc; oçc rngcojngnr p~n nhn nwvà
fnovrc f` |nwwc`( `dof` p~n nwv` i`á` ~m nwicrác wcbrn-
j~m`oc |`r` oçc gcmnvë-hc fn i`vc( fn icrm` `|`rnovn! N c
oçc rngcojngdmnovc fdwvc dm|nfn c `rrn|nofdmnovc( |cdw `
|nwwc` wn gcowdfnr` k~wv` n k~wvdidg`f` |nhc wn~ nwicrác fn
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oçc gcmnvnr `p~dhc p~n nwvà nogjnofc ` w~` mnovn( c wn~
gcr`áçc! N wnm `rrn|nofdmnovc oçc jà w`hy`áçc!
Nop~`ovc o÷w fdwwnrmcw p~n nwv`mcw oc gcovrchn( p~n
w÷ |rngdw`mcw fn m`dw ~m vnm|dojc( m`dw ~m |c~gc fn
nwicrác |`r` nhdmdo`r ~m |ng`fc( nwv`rnmcw ocw noa`o`ofc
n dm|nfdofc p~n c Nw|írdvc W`ovc `v~n o` ocww` |hno`
|~rdidg`áçc/ C Nw|írdvc fn Fn~w w÷ `an nm o÷w( p~`ofc
novrna`mcw vcv`hmnovn ` Nhn ` rnw|cow`bdhdf`fn fn ocw
hdbnrv`r fc |ng`fc/ Wnm dwvc( Nhn fndz` p~n i`á`mcw fc
ocwwc kndvc( o` ocww` icrá`( `vä gjna`rmcw `c
`rrn|nofdmnovc fn ocww`w cbr`w mcrv`w *nwwnw nwicrácw$ n ì
gcoidwwçc f` ocww` dog`|`gdf`fn fn ynognrmcw/ @vä dwvc
`gcovngnr( o÷w h~v`mcw n g`ímcw( h~v`mcw n g`ímcw( ngjna`mcw ` fnwnw|nr`r fn ocww` |r÷|rd` ydf`/ Gjna`mcw `
|now`r p~n ` w`ovdidg`áçc ä `hac do`vdoaíynh n p~n o~og`
ynrnmcw ` Fn~w/ Ä onwv` jcr` p~n ardv`mcw; ‘Mdwnràynh
jcmnm p~n wc~!! P~nm mn hdyr`rà fc gcr|c fnwv` mcrvn33”/
Novçc c Nw|írdvc W`ovc rnw|cofn; ‘Ar`á`w ` Fn~w( |cr
Knw~w Grdwvc!”/ @í( Nhn novr` oc `ww~ovc n `ww~mn c gcovrchn
vcv`h/ Gcmná` ` ar`ofn h~v` gcovr` ` ocww` g`ron/ Nop~`ovc
Nhn oçc ynogn fnidodvdy`mnovn nwv` h~v`( Nhn |rcydfnogd` |`r`
p~n ocwwcw mndcw fn gcmnvnr c |ng`fc wnk`m g`f` yn{ m`dw
noir`p~ngdfcw( `vä oçc nzdwvdrnm m`dw( c~ p~n nhnw wnk`m
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~w`fcw wcmnovn |`r` c bnm( k`m`dw |`r` |ng`r/ @c mnwmc
vnm|c( Nhn `an o`w |r÷|rd`w gdrg~owvâogd`w fn ocww` ydf`(
|`r` p~n oçc vnoj`mcw m`dw ` c|crv~odf`fn |`r` |ng`rmcw/
Dwvc Nhn i`{ dm|nfdofc p~n j`k` ` cg`wdçc |rc|ígd`( c~ ocw
i`{nofc vnr ockc( `vä mnwmc r`dy`( fc cbknvc fc ocwwc
|ng`fc( c~ `dof`( gchcg`ofc |nwwc`w |r÷zdm`w fn o÷w(
fd`ovn f`w p~`dw wcmcw dm|nfdfcw fn |ng`r( |cr |~r`
ynracoj`/ W~` `áçc ocw mndcw n o`w c|crv~odf`fnw( gh`rc(
w÷ f~r` c vnm|c ongnwwàrdc |`r` Nhn nzvdr|`r fnidodvdy`mnovn
c |ng`fc f` ocww` g`ron/
@ha~äm( ynrf`fndr`mnovn grdwvçc( idg` |h`onk`ofc
m`v`r c~ `f~hvnr`r3 @bwch~v`mnovn( oçc! M`w ycgë `gj` p~n
oçc |h`onk` m`v`r c~ `f~hvnr`r( |crp~n ä cbnfdnovn ì Hnd( c~|crp~n |now` p~n `ar`f` ` Fn~w oçc i`{nofc v`dw gcdw`w3 Wn
ä dwvc p~n ycgë `gj`( w`db` p~n ycgë oçc nwvà |~rdidg`fc
fnwwnw |ng`fcw! Ycgë oçc m`v`( c~ oçc `f~hvnr`( |cr mnfc
f`w gcownpøëogd`w fnwwnw `vcw! Dwvc p~nr fd{nr p~n wn~
gcr`áçc oçc nwvà ynrf`fndr`mnovn hdm|c n p~n fn|nofn f`
`áçc fc Nw|írdvc onhn/ Ycgë nwvà w~wgnvíynh ` gcmnvnr nwwnw
`vcw( b`wv`ofc p~n ycgë vnoj`( `c mnwmc vnm|c( mcvdycw(
cw mndcw n ` c|crv~odf`fn |`r` dwwc!
Dm`adon p~n ycgë wn nogcovrn fd`ovn fn ~m` |nwwc`
p~n `g`bc~ fn nw|`og`r `ha~äm p~n ycgë `m` m~dvc/ Nww`
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|nwwc` `dof` vnm w`oa~n( f`p~nhn p~n ycgë `m`( nm w~`w
mçcw/ Ycgëw nwvçc nm ~m h~a`r nrmc( wc{dojcw( n ycgë vnm
~m |crrnvn nm w~`w mçcw/ Ycgë w`bn p~n nww` |nwwc` kà in{
dwwc `ovnw n p~n( gnrv`mnovn( gcovdo~`rà i`{nofc/ Ä `p~nh`
|nwwc` p~n gj`m`mcw fn dogcrrdaíynh/ Ycgë nwvà gcm r`dy`
fnh`( vnm cw mndcw n ` c|crv~odf`fn fn f`r ~m` |crrnv`f`
onh`/ Ycgë c i`rà3 M`w wnk` wdognrc*`$! V`hyn{ nwvn nznm|hc
oçc wnk` `p~nhn p~n mnzn gcm ycgë/ Novçc( dm`adon `p~nh`
|nwwc` fn p~nm ycgë kà wnovd~ r`dy`( nm `ha~m mcmnovc( n
dm`adon ycgë fd`ovn fnh`( vnofc cw mndcw n ` c|crv~odf`fn
|`r` hjn f`r ~m bcm ‘gcrrnvdyc”/ Wdognr`mnovn( ycgë c
i`rd`3
C mnwmc y`hn |`r` c `f~hvnr`r/ Ycgë kà wn dm`adoc~o` wdv~`áçc fn Kcwä( p~n ocw ä `|rnwnov`f` o` Bíbhd`3 Ycgë(
fd`ovn fn ~m` |nwwc` p~n `vdy` vcf` ` w~` hdbdfc/// odoa~äm
|cr |nrvc n odoa~äm |cr gjna`r o`w |r÷zdm`w jcr`w/// wn~
göok~an kà oçc fnw|nrv` vcfc `p~nhn dovnrnwwn nm ycgë( c~(
v`hyn{( ycgë nwvnk` wc{dojc*`$ jà m~dvc vnm|c *oçc wnrd`
`f~hvärdc( m`w icrodg`áçc$/// V`hyn{( w÷ nm hnr nwv`w |`h`yr`w
n dm`ado`r ~m` wdv~`áçc( ycgë kà wdov` `hac `p~ngnofc
fnovrc fn ycgë/// Novçc( ycgë `gj` p~n oçc gcmnvn~ nwwn
|ng`fc( `vä `acr`( |cr wnr cbnfdnovn ì Hnd n( |cr dwvc( vnm
`ar`f`fc `c Wnojcr3
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Mn~w `m`fcw( w`db`m p~n( wn ycgëw oçc gcmnvnr`m
nwwnw |ng`fcw *c~ c~vrcw$ `dof`( icd |crp~n c Nw|írdvc fn
Fn~w cw dm|nfd~( oçc f`ofc ` c|crv~odf`fn |rc|ígd` |`r`
dwwc( c~ oçc hjnw f`ofc cw mndcw |`r` dwwc( nop~`ovc Nhn
c|nr`( nm wn~ gcr`áçc( ` hdbnrv`áçc vcv`h fc |ng`fc! N( wn
ycgëw kà gcmnvnr`m( icd |crp~n ycgëw fdwwnr`m p~n nr`m
icrvnw c w~idgdnovn |`r` rnwchynr c |rcbhnm` fc |ng`fc n
o~og` gcmnvë-hc! Oc mcmnovc f` |rcy`áçc( g`ír`m( |crp~n
gcoid`r`m nm wd mnwmcw( oçc oc |cfnr fc Nw|írdvc fn Fn~w!
Gcoid`ofc oNhn( nop~`ovc wn~ gcr`áçc oçc nwvdynwwn
vcv`hmnovn hdbnrvc( Nhn oçc |nrmdvdrd` p~n ycgë vdynwwn mndcw
c~ c|crv~odf`fnw |`r` gcmnvnr c |ng`fc! Dwvc ä i`vc! Dwvc ä
rn`h! Grnd`m! Oçc fdmdo~`m c |cfnr fc Nw|írdvc fn Grdwvc!
Oçc `|`a~nm c Nw|írdvc!
Grnr odwvc n ydynr fnwv` icrm` ä gchcg`r ocww`w ydf`w
o`w mçcw fc Wnojcr/ M`w oçc |cfnmcw nwp~ngnr( o~og`(
p~n c vnm|c fn Fn~w oçc ä c ocwwc vnm|c! Nhn i`{ ` cbr` fn
|~rdidg`áçc nm o÷w( wdm( m`w ` Wn~ vnm|c/ N( v`hyn{( ` oçc
gcm|rnnowçc fnwvn i`vc ä p~n nwvnk` hny`ofc v`ov`w |nwwc`w
` |now`rnm p~n |rngdw`m( p~n fnynm( wn w`ovdidg`r o` w~`
|r÷|rd` icrá`/ M`w dwvc ä dm|cwwíynh! \`~hc fdwwn p~n p~nrd`
i`{nr c bnm( m`w `g`b`y` i`{nofc c m`h p~n nwv`y`
novr`oj`fc onhn/ Ycgë wn `gj` m`dw ‘w`ovc” p~n \`~hc( c~
m`dw icrvn fc p~n nhn3 Oçc! Dwvc `gcovngn gcm vcf`w `w
|nwwc`w! N ` mnwm` wch~áçc p~n nhn nogcovrc~ nwvà ì
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fdw|cwdáçc fn vcfcw; Knw~w! Nhn( `vr`yäw fn Wn~ Nw|írdvc( ä `
ûodg` |cwwdbdhdf`fn p~n vnmcw fn `hg`oá`r ` hdbnrv`áçc fc
|ng`fc!
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Nz`mdonm-wn
‘Nz`mdonm-wn |`r` ynr wn ycgëw nwvçc o` iä5 |rcynm-
wn ` wd mnwmcw/ Oçc |nrgnbnm p~n Grdwvc Knw~w nwvà
nm ycgëw3 @ oçc wnr p~n vnoj`m wdfc rn|rcy`fcw!”
*2Gc 07/>$
Nwv` ä ` rngcmnof`áçc indv` ì vcf` ` Darnk`; ~m
`~vcnz`mn gcowv`ovn( fdàrdc( |crp~n wcmcw crfno`fcw `
ydynr ~m fd` fn g`f` yn{/ @wwdm( |rngdw`mcw ynrdidg`r c
nwv`fc fn ocww` iä fd`rd`mnovn/ Fn~w ocw vr`owicrm`( fn
ah÷rd` nm ah÷rd`( ì dm`anm fn Wn~ Idhjc( |nhc Nw|írdvc *2Gc
7/0:$/ Dwvc p~nr fd{nr p~n ` ynrf`fndr` iä w`hy`fcr` wnm|rnvr`{ ~m` m~f`oá` o` gcof~v`( oc gcr`áçc f`p~nhn p~n
nznrgdv` ` iä( n nww` vr`owicrm`áçc wn fnwnoychyn ` g`f`
fd`/
Wn c i`vc fn ocw nz`mdo`rmcw gcowgdnovnmnovn
|nrmdvn w`bnrmcw wn nwv`mcw `of`ofc nm iä c~ oçc( novçc
\`~hc nwvà ocw dofdg`ofc f~`w gcdw`w( `p~d( nm rnh`áçc ì iä;
p~`ofc nhn fd{ |`r` o÷w ocw nz`mdo`rmcw( nhn ocw dofdg`
p~n ä ongnwwàrdc vnrmcw ~m` gcoydgáçc nm ocww` mnovn( fn
p~n ` ynrf`fn |rna`f` fnyn wnr `|hdg`f` nm rnh`áçc ` o÷w(
p~n fnyn `v~`r o` ocww` gcof~v`/ N nhn v`mbäm fd{ p~n
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nww` ynrf`fn( p~n c~ydmcw o` |rna`áçc f` \`h`yr`( |rngdw`
anr`r ~m` m~f`oá` gcrrnw|cofnovn oc gcr`áçc/ Dwvc p~nr
fd{nr p~n( p~`ofc c jcmnm ä gcoynogdfc |nh` |rna`áçc n
`fmdvn ` ynrf`fn nm rnh`áçc ` wd mnwmc( novçc nhn fnyn
`|hdg`r nwv` ynrf`fn nm w~` |r÷|rd` ydf`( anr`ofc m~f`oá`
o` w~` gcof~v`/
@w |nwwc`w |cfnm c~ydr bnhcw wnrmþnw wcbrn c |h`oc
fn w`hy`áçc( wcbrn c g`ràvnr n ` wcbnr`od` fn Fn~w n( `vä(
idg`rnm m`r`ydhj`f`w gcm ` ah÷rd` n ` nzgnhëogd` mcwvr`f`w/
Nh`w |cfnm `vä `|h`~fdr gcm nov~wd`wmc n |now`rnm p~n
vëm iä/ M`w( o` ynrf`fn( nh`w oçc vëm onm ~m |doac fn iä
w`hy`fcr`( |crp~n `vä cw fnmöodcw `anm `wwdm( fnwfn p~n
oçc vnoj`m p~n `|hdg`r nww` ynrf`fn nm w~`w |r÷|rd`wydf`w/
Nww`w |nwwc`w *n cw |r÷|rdcw fnmöodcw$ ynnm c
Ny`oanhjc gcmc ynrf`fn( m`w oçc c `|rcy`m( |crp~n nhn
dovnrinrn fdrnv`mnovn oc wn~ nacíwmc/ \`ww`m ` cfd`r `
Fn~w n wn rnbnh`m gcovr` Nhn( |crp~n Fn~w( c wn~ Grd`fcr(
nwvà vcv`hmnovn nm c|cwdáçc ` nwwn wn~ nacíwmc/ Novçc(
nww`w |nwwc`w `gndv`m c Ny`oanhjc gcmc ynrf`fn( wn
`hnar`m nm c~ydr gnrv`w |rna`áþnw n gjna`m `vä ` fd{nr p~n
nwvçc wnofc `hdmnov`f`w |cr nh`w/ M`w( fn|cdw( yçc nmbcr`
n oçc `|hdg`m nm w~`w ydf`w `p~dhc p~n c~ydr`m/
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Vd`ac v`mbäm gcmnov` wcbrn dwvc; "Wnk`m |r`vdg`ovnw
f` |`h`yr`( n oçc `|no`w c~ydovnw( noa`o`ofc-wn ` wd
mnwmcw" *Va 0/22$/ Nm c~vr`w |`h`yr`w( nhn nwvà fd{nofc
p~n p~`hp~nr ~m p~n oçc |r`vdg` `p~dhc p~n `fmdvn wnr
ynrf`fn( noa`o` ` wd mnwmc/
N( `m`fcw( nww`w gcdw`w nwvçc wnofc fdv`w |`r`
|nwwc`w p~n g`rrna`m c ocmn fn grdwvçw/ M`w ` \`h`yr`
gcm|rcy` p~n v`dw |nwwc`w wçc( o` ynrf`fn( jd|÷grdv`w/
@ha~m`w wçc jd|÷grdv`w |cr vnov`rnm noa`o`r `cw c~vrcw(
gcmc cw i`rdwn~w i`{d`m( `vr`yäw fn w~` rnhdadcwdf`fn( w~`w
hcoa`w cr`áþnw( wn~w knk~ow( wn~w fí{dmcw n fdynrw`w c~vr`w
gcdw`w p~n |cww`m vcro`r |ûbhdg`w/ C~vr`w( gcmc fd{ Vd`ac(
wçc jd|÷grdv`w |cr noa`o`rnm ` wd mnwm`w( |now`ofc p~n
wçc bc`w grdwvçw( m`w wnm b~wg`rnm ` w`ovdidg`áçc nm
Grdwvc Knw~w n wnm |r`vdg`rnm cw |rngndvcw bàwdgcw f`
\`h`yr`/
V`ovc \`~hc( p~`ovc Vd`ac( dofdg`m p~n ` ynrf`fndr`
iä y`d rnw~hv`r nm bc`w cbr`w/ M`w nww`w bc`w cbr`w oçc wçc
c g~m|rdmnovc f` hnd( |~r` n wdm|hnwmnovn/ @mbcw `|cov`m
|`r` c g~m|rdmnovc f` nwwëogd` f` hnd( gcmc fdwwn Knw~w(
p~n ä( |rdmndr`mnovn( ` vr`owicrm`áçc fc íovdmc f` |nwwc`(
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i`{nofc gcm p~n nh` vnoj` |r`{nr nm nznrgdv`r k~wvdá`(
mdwnrdg÷rfd` n iä *Mv 27/27$/
Ocww` ar`ofn fdidg~hf`fn( `v~`hmnovn( vnm wdfc ` fn
fnidodr c p~n ä `of`r nm iä/ Vnmcw ocw fndz`fc hny`r |cr
fc~vrdo`w n |rngndvcw j~m`ocw( `c doyäw fn dmdv`r `c |cyc
fn Bnräd` n b~wg`r o`w Nwgrdv~r`w( |`r` w`bnr wn `w gcdw`w
wçc rn`hmnovn `wwdm/ V`mbäm oçc vnmcw cr`fc |`r` p~n c
Nw|írdvc W`ovc ocw nowdon p~`h wnk` ` |nrindv` ycov`fn fn
Fn~w |`r` `w ocww`w ydf`w/ Fnwv` icrm`( |nrmdvdmcw wnrmcw
m`od|~h`fcw |cr |nwwc`w p~n oçc vëm c Nw|írdvc fn Grdwvc n
p~n ocw hny`m ` g~m|rdr invdgjnw rnhdadcwcw( gcmc wn icwwnm
fnmcowvr`áþnw fn iä/
Kà p~n ‘Vcf` ` Nwgrdv~r` ä dow|dr`f` |cr Fn~w n ûvdh
|`r` c nowdoc( |`r` ` rn|rnnowçc( |`r` ` gcrrnáçc( |`r` `
nf~g`áçc o` k~wvdá`( ` idm fn p~n c jcmnm fn Fn~w wnk`
|nrindvc n |nrindv`mnovn j`bdhdv`fc |`r` vcf` bc` cbr`”
*2Vm 7/09-01$( gnrv`mnovn( nh` v`mbäm ocw nowdo` wcbrn c
`of`r nm iä;
Knw~w fdwwn; ‘Wn `ha~äm p~nr ydr `|÷w mdm( ` wd
mnwmc wn ona~n( vcmn ` w~` gr~{ n wda`-mn” *Mv 09/26$/
O` wnp~ëogd`( c Wnojcr fd{ p~n nww` `vdv~fn ä p~n y`d
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rnw~hv`r o` w`hy`áçc f` `hm` f` |nwwc`/ Nhn nwvà fd{nofc
p~n( |`r` wna~dr ` Knw~w *`of`r( ydynr |cr iä$( nzdwvnm
gcofdáþnw n p~n( wnm g~m|rdr nww`w gcofdáþnw( odoa~äm
`hg`oá`rà ` w`hy`áçc fn w~` |r÷|rd` `hm`/ Nhn fd{ p~n `w
|nwwc`w p~n vnov`rnm w`hy`r w~`w |r÷|rd`w ydf`w( c~ wnk`(
dowdwvdrnm nm w`vdwi`{nr c wn~ |r÷|rdc ‘n~” *y/ 2>$( oçc wn
w`hy`rçc f` gcofno`áçc fc doinroc/ \cr c~vrc h`fc( p~nm
`brdr mçc f` w`vdwi`áçc fn wn~w fnwnkcw |nwwc`dw *` wd
mnwmc wn ona`r$( wnrà w`hyc fnww` gcofno`áçc n ydynrà
nvnro`mnovn k~ovc `c Fn~w \`d n Grd`fcr/
@m`fcw( c p~n c Wnojcr Knw~w nwvà fd{nofc ä m~dvc
wdm|hnw( |cräm( ä nzvrnm`mnovn fdiígdh fn wnr g~m|rdfc |cr
o÷w/ Ä fdiígdh( |crp~n wn vr`v` fn ocww` mcrvn( oçc iíwdg`(m`w nw|drdv~`h/ \`r` ocw ona`rmcw ` o÷w mnwmcw(
|rngdw`mcw i`{nr mcrrnr ` ocww` o`v~rn{`( p~n wnm|rn
b~wg` c ocwwc |r÷|rdc bnm-nwv`r( `vr`yäw fn gcoicrvc n
w`vdwi`áçc nmcgdco`dw n iíwdgcw/ Ocww` o`v~rn{` v`mbäm ocw
hny` ` w`vdwi`{nr ` ocww` wcbnrb`( `p~nh` p~n ocw i`{ |now`r
p~n wcmcw mnrngnfcrnw fn v~fc fc bcm n fc mnhjcr( p~n
wcmcw w~|nrdcrnw ` v~fc n ` vcfcw( n p~n wcmcw g`|`{nw fn
i`{nr p~`hp~nr gcdw`( dogh~wdyn fn g~m|rdrmcw |rngndvcw
*rnhdadcwdf`fnw$ p~n ocw fnnm fdrndvc ì w`hy`áçc/
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C p~n c Wnojcr nwvà fd{nofc( nm c~vr`w |`h`yr`w( ä
p~n fnynmcw ocw `rrn|nofnr fn vnrmcw ydydfc( `vä nwvn
mcmnovc( `gj`ofc p~n wcmcw wcbnr`ocw wcbrn ocww`w
|r÷|rd`w ydf`w( n p~n fnynmcw ocw `|rczdm`r( nm
j~mdhf`fn( fc Wnojcr( |`r` i`{nrmcw ~m gcognrvc fnidodvdyc
gcm Nhn!
C Wnojcr Fn~w ocw fdrà; ‘Mn~ `m`fc( nwvc~ inhd{ |cr
ycgë vnr c~ydfc n vnr `vnofdfc ì Mdoj` \`h`yr`/ Nwvc~ inhd{
|cr ycgë vnr rngnbdfc c Mn~ Ny`oanhjc n vnr |nrwnynr`fc
|`r` novr`r nm Mdoj` \rnwnoá`/ @acr`( p~nrc i`{nr ~m
gcognrvc gcm ycgë( m`w ä ongnwwàrdc p~n ycgë gcogcrfn
gcm `ha~m`w gcdw`w( ` idm fn p~n ycgë nwvnk`( ` |`rvdr fn
`acr` n |cr vcf` ` nvnrodf`fn( nm Mdoj`w mçcw”/
‘Nm |rdmndrc h~a`r( `m`fc( novrna~n-Mn nww` w~`
rnhdadcwdf`fn( nww` w~` dfäd` fn p~n |cfn i`{nr gcdw`w gcmc
g~m|rdr rnar`w n hndw( c~ i`{nr bc`w cbr`w( |`r` wn k~wvdidg`r
n Mn `ar`f`r/ Nww`w gcdw`w( f` icrm` n gcm ` dovnoáçc p~n
wçc indv`w( wçc dm~of`w n iävdf`w |`r` Mdm/ Gchcp~n dwwc `cw
|äw f` Gr~{ fc Mn~ Grdwvc n hjn f`rnd ` K^WVDIDG@ÁÇC nm
Knw~w”/
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‘Novrna~n-Mn v`mbäm nww` w~` vnov`vdy` doûvdh fn wn
w`ovdidg`r `vr`yäw fc wn~ nwicrác |r÷|rdc( f` w~` |r÷|rd`
g`|`gdf`fn p~n( o` ynrf`fn( oçc c w`ovdidg` fn o`f`( `|no`w
nwgcofn oc wn~ íovdmc `p~dhc p~n fnynrd` wnr `rr`og`fc fn
ycgë( n hjn fc~ ` W@OVDIDG@ÁÇC fnidodvdy` nm Grdwvc Knw~w”/
‘\cr ûhvdmc( idhjc Mn~( Mn novrna~n vcfcw cw wn~w
wcojcw( wn~w fnwnkcw( wn~w |h`ocw( p~n n~ hjn fc~ c |r÷|rdc
Grdwvc |`r` ydynr nm ycgë”/
Nydfnovnmnovn( oçc |cfnmcw `idrm`r p~n c `|÷wvchc
\`~hc( |cr nznm|hc( vnoj` vdfc nwwn fdàhcac gcm c Wnojcr(
m`w w`bnmcw p~n( nm gnrvc mcmnovc( nhn `idrmc~
gcoid`ovnmnovn; ‘Nwvc~ gr~gdidg`fc gcm Grdwvc5 hcac( kà oçc
wc~ n~ p~nm ydyn( m`w Grdwvc ydyn nm mdm” *Ah 2/04-2<$/
Nwv` fngh`r`áçc ocw mcwvr` p~n c `|÷wvchc |`wwc~
|nhc |rcgnwwc fn gr~gdidg`áçc gcm Knw~w( cofn c wn~ |r÷|rdc
‘n~” icd mcrvc fnidodvdy`mnovn/ Dwvc wdaodidg` p~n nhn `|hdgc~
nm w~` ydf` c i`vc fn p~n `|no`w Knw~w ä ‘w`bnfcrd`( n
k~wvdá`( n w`ovdidg`áçc( n rnfnoáçc” *0Gc 0/7<$/
Grnr odwwc n `|hdg`r dwwc nm ocww`w ydf`w ä c
ynrf`fndrc ‘`of`r nm iä”/
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Cbnfdëogd`
Nm vcfcw cw h~a`rnw( vnojc nwg~v`fc; ‘C grnovn vnm
p~n cbnfngnr!”/ @í( |nrgcrrc ` m`r`ydhjcw` \`h`yr` fn Fn~w
n gcowv`vc p~n dwwc ä ~m` ynrf`fn i~of`mnov`h ` rnw|ndvc
f` ycov`fn fn Fn~w |`r` c jcmnm/ M`w( wnrà p~n `
fngh`r`áçc p~n vnojc c~ydfc nwvà nm gcoicrmdf`fn `c p~n
fd{ c Wnojcr3
Vrnmc `c |now`r p~n c jcmnm vnm ~m` i`gdhdf`fn
do`v` |`r` mcfdidg`r `p~dhc p~n rn`hmnovn icd fdvc ` nhn/
Fnwfn c Äfno( w`bnmcw p~n dwvc `gcovngn/ P~`ofc dof`a`f`
|nh` wnr|novn wn oçc |cfnrd` gcmnr fn onoj~m` àrycrn fc k`rfdm( Ny` rnw|cofn~ p~n |cfnrd`( wdm( gcmnr f`w àrycrnw
fc k`rfdm( nzgnvc f` àrycrn fc gcojngdmnovc fc bnm n fc
m`h( nm g~kc ir~vc oçc |cfnrd` onm vcg`r/
M`w c Wnojcr oçc fdwwn p~n nhnw oçc |cfnrd`m onm
vcg`r oc ir~vc f`p~nh` àrycrn/ Fdwwn( `|no`w( p~n oçc
|cfnrd`m gcmnr fnhn/ Nwwn ä c |rdmndrc rnadwvrc fc
hna`hdwmc j~m`oc( fc gcwv~mn fn m~f`r c p~n rn`hmnovn
icd fdvc( gcmc mndc fn idg`r m`dw iàgdh oçc gcmnvnr nrrcw(
oçc fnwcbnfngnr/ @ |`rvdr f`í( c wnr j~m`oc wnm|rn
|rcg~rc~ mcfdidg`r ` \`h`yr` fn Fn~w( `grnwgnov`ofc( c~
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rnvdr`ofc `hac( gcm c ûodgc idm fn vnr ~m` |`rvdgd|`áçc `vdy`
nm w~` |r÷|rd` w`hy`áçc( w~` gcm~ojçc gcm Fn~w/
Doinhd{mnovn( ` Darnk`( jckn( nwvà gcov`mdo`f` |cr
nwwn vd|c fn |now`mnovc/ Cw jcmnow vëm grd`fc w~`w
m~r`hj`w nm rnfcr f` \`h`yr` fc Wnojcr( cofn g`f` vdkchc ä
~m` rnar`( ~m` hnd( p~n vnm |cr cbknvdyc vcro`r `w |nwwc`w
w`ov`w n k~wv`w |cr w~`w |r÷|rd`w cbr`w( |cr w~` idfnhdf`fn n
cbnfdëogd` ` nww` hnd/ Idg`r fc h`fc fn fnovrc fnww` m~r`hj`
wdaodidg` nwv`r w`hyc/ Idg`r fc h`fc fn icr` wdaodidg` nwv`r
gcofno`fc/ M`w dwvc `o~h` gcm|hnv`mnovn ` k~wvdidg`áçc n `
w`ovdidg`áçc mnfd`ovn ` iä nm Grdwvc Knw~w/
C G@MDOJC FN MCRVN
Gcmc ä fdvc nm \rcyärbdcw 06/02( ‘jà g`mdojc p~n `c
jcmnm |`rngn fdrndvc( m`w `c g`bc fà nm g`mdojcw fn
mcrvn”/ M~dv`w gcdw`w wn nog`dz`m onwvn |rcyärbdc(dogh~wdyn( nww` |rnvnow` w`ovdidg`áçc |nwwc`h( `vr`yäw f`
cbnfdëogd` ` m`of`mnovcw fn jcmnow/
M~dvcw w`ovcw( |nhc m~ofc vcfc( vëm wdfc hny`fcw `
cbnfngnrnm `cw |rngndvcw j~m`ocw( gcmc wn icwwnm
m`of`mnovcw fn Fn~w/ \nwwc`w m`h doicrm`f`w n( `vä
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mnwmc( m`h dovnogdco`f`w vëm fnv~r|`fc `w Nwgrdv~r`w(
|`r` m`ovnrnm wcb c wn~ fcmíodc `p~nhnw p~n nwv`y`m
|rcovcw ` fndz`rnm c |ng`fc/ C m`dw dogríynh ä p~n dwvc
`gcovngn( mnwmc fn|cdw fn c |r÷|rdc Wnojcr Knw~w vnr
rngrdmdo`fc f~r`mnovn nww` `vdv~fn( p~n nr` |r÷|rd` fcw
i`rdwn~w( nwgrdb`w n dovär|rnvnw f` hnd/ Nm M`vn~w 27/2:( c
Wnojcr i`h` gcm nhnw c p~n |cfnrd` wnr fdvc jckn( |`r`
m~dv`w |nwwc`w fnovrc f`w darnk`w; ‘@wwdm v`mbäm ycgëw
nzvnrdcrmnovn |`rngnm k~wvcw `cw jcmnow( m`w( |cr fnovrc(
nwvçc gjndcw fn jd|cgrdwd` n fn dodp~df`fn”/
Nwwn g`|ív~hc fn M`vn~w vr`{ ~m` f`w m`dw f~r`w
rn|rnnowþnw fc Wnojcr( wnoçc ` m`dw f~r`( m`w( `dof` jckn(
m~hvdfþnw |r`vdg`m v~fc dwwc p~n icd rngrdmdo`fc |cr Knw~w(fnmcowvr`ofc oçc vnrnm c míodmc vnmcr fn Fn~w/ Ä ~m v`h
fn ‟oçc i`á` dwwc–( ‟oçc gcm` `p~dhc–( ‟oçc vcp~n odwwc–( ‟~wn
nwv` rc~|`–( ‟idp~n nm |ä–( ‟`kcnhjn-wn–( ‟fda` |`r` c drmçc `c
h`fc–( ‟wcrrd`–( ‟|r`vdp~n híoa~`w nwvr`oj`w–( ‟|rcinvd{n–( ‟i`á`
~m |rc|÷wdvc–( ‟nzdk` wn~w fdrndvcw–( ‟fnvnrmdon–( n c~vr`w
gcdw`w m`dw( `hna`ofc p~n v`dw gcdw`w c w`ovdidg`rçc!
Dwwc gcov`mdoc~ fn v`h icrm` ` grdwv`of`fn( p~n
m~dvcw w`ovcw kà `anm fn icrm` hna`hdwv`( wnm |nrgnbnrnm
p~n nwvçc `adofc `wwdm/ M~dvcw novr`m o`w darnk`w( yçc |`r`
wn~w h~a`rnw n( dmnfd`v`mnovn( gchcg`m nm wn~w rcwvcw ~m`
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nz|rnwwçc fn |dnf`fn/ Ìw yn{nw( ingj`m cw chjcw n
mcydmnov`m cw hàbdcw( gcmc wn nwvdynwwnm fnwir~v`ofc fn
ar`ofn dovdmdf`fn gcm c \`d gnhnwvd`h/ Oçc fnwgcowdfnrc cw
p~n `anm nm ynrf`fn n nm nw|írdvc( m`w mn rnidrc ìp~nhnw
p~n c i`{nm |`r` fnmcowvr`rnm w`ovdf`fn `cw p~n nwvçc ì
w~` ychv`/
V`mbäm ä gcm~m `w |nwwc`w gjcr`rnm f~r`ovn c
hc~ycr( oçc |cr wnrnm vcg`f`w |nhc Nw|írdvc( m`w |`r`
f`rnm ` novnofnr p~n wçc/ @|rcyndv`m c ghdm` nmcgdco`h
|rc|crgdco`fc |cr ~m` mnhcfd` n fnrr`m`m hàardm`w( |`r`
p~n vcfcw ynk`m c p~`ovc wçc |r÷zdm`w fn Fn~w/ Fn ocyc(
fdac p~n jà |nwwc`w p~n rn`hmnovn wçc gjnd`w fc Nw|írdvc n(
|cr dwvc( gjcr`m `c wnovdrnm w~` |rczdmdf`fn gcm c Fn~wGrd`fcr/ M`w m~dvcw wçc `vcrnw n `vrd{nw p~n fnynrd`m nwv`r
oc m~ofc gdonm`vcaràidgc( oçc o` Darnk`/
Vcf`w nww`w gcdw`w( |cr m`dw |dnfcw`w p~n |`rná`m(
oçc w`ovdidg`m odoa~äm/ Cw grdwvçcw i`rçc nww`w gcdw`w( c~
oçc( wna~dofc w~`w gcowgdëogd`w( p~n wçc crdnov`f`w |nhc
Nw|írdvc W`ovc/ C Nw|írdvc wnm|rn crdnov`rà `w |nwwc`w `
`adrnm gcm b`wn ocw |rdogí|dcw nhnmnov`rnw fc grdwvd`odwmc(
fn `m`r ` Fn~w n `c |r÷zdmc/ Dm|cr cbnfdëogd` ` nww`w
crfnow ä hna`hdwmc/ O` ynrf`fn( dwwc fnmcowvr` p~n
hna`hdwmc ä m`dw fc p~n ` dm|cwdáçc fn rnar`w( c~ wnk`(
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hna`hdwmc ä ~m fnwnkc fn |`rngnr w`ovc/ Nhn vr`{ ì vco` c
ar`ofn |ng`fc f` dogrnf~hdf`fn j~m`o` o` cbr`
w`ovdidg`fcr` n rnfnovcr` fn Knw~w Grdwvc( |cdw hny` `w
|nwwc`w ` gcoid`rnm nm wd mnwm`w( nm w~`w |r÷|rd`w cbr`w/
C p~n rn`hmnovn wn |r`vdg`( cbnfngnofc-wn ` nww`w
hndw j~m`o`w( ä ~m` vnov`vdy` fn gcm|hnv`r ` cbr` fn
Grdwvc/ @o~h`-wn gcm|hnv`mnovn ` ar`á` fn Fn~w fnrr`m`f`
wcbrn vcfcw `vr`yäw f` gr~{ fc G`hyàrdc/ N `w |nwwc`w p~n
|r`vdg`m nwwn hna`hdwmc( cbnfngnofc ` m`of`mnovcw fn
jcmnow gcm c idm fn |`rngnrnm w`ovdidg`f`w( wçc c fnwvdoc
f` f~r` |`h`yr` fc Wnojcr; ‘Wnr|novnw( r`á` fn yíbcr`w!
Gcmc nwg`|`rçc f` gcofno`áçc fc doinroc3” *Mv 27/77$/
C G@MDOJC FN YDF@
Ar`á`w ` Fn~w( o÷w vnmcw ì fdw|cwdáçc c~vrc
g`mdojc; ä ~m g`mdojc `|nrv`fc( p~n hny` ` ~m` |crv`nwvrndv`( m`w ä ~m g`mdojc fn ydf`!
C Wnojcr Knw~w( |nh` W~` |`h`yr`( vrc~zn vcf`w `w
gcdw`w ì nzdwvëogd`/ N ä |nh` |`h`yr` fc Wn~ |cfnr( p~n Nhn
w~wvnov` ` nzdwvëogd` fn vcf`w `w gcdw`w/ V~fc dwvc( Nhn in{
*n `dof` i`{$ gcm ~m |rc|÷wdvc fnidodfc/ C Wnojcr icrmc~ c
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jcmnm/ O` ynrf`fn( g`f` wnr j~m`oc ä icrm`fc
dofdydf~`hmnovn |cr Fn~w/ N Nhn vnm ~m |rc|÷wdvc fnidodfc(
`c i`{nr dwvc/ Dwwc p~nr fd{nr( gh`r`mnovn( p~n jà ~m
|rc|÷wdvc fdydoc o` nzdwvëogd` fn g`f` wnr j~m`oc n g`bn `
g`f` ~m fn o÷w fnwgcbrdr p~`h ä c |rc|÷wdvc fn Fn~w |`r`
ocww` ydf`/
‘P~n i`{nr( |cdw( drmçcw3 P~`ofc ycgëw wn rnûonm(
~m vnm w`hmc( c~vrc( fc~vrdo`( nwvn vr`{ rnynh`áçc( `p~nhn(
c~vr` híoa~`( n `dof` c~vrc( dovnr|rnv`áçc/ Wnk` v~fc indvc
|`r` nfdidg`áçc” *0Gc 06/29$/ \`~hc nwvà ocw fd{nofc p~n
vcfcw cw grdwvçcw vëm fcow( f`fcw |nhc Nw|írdvc W`ovc( |`r`
nfdidg`áçc f` Darnk`/ Onwvn g`|ív~hc fn w~` |rdmndr` g`rv`
`cw gcríovdcw( nhn fà dowvr~áþnw wcbrn ` crfnm ` wnr `fcv`f`o`w darnk`w( |cräm( o` m`dcrd` f`w darnk`w( nww`w dowvr~áþnw
oçc vëm wdfc cbnfngdf`w/ Nm ~m` ä|cg` o` p~`h wn i`h`
v`ovc nm cbnfdëogd`( ~m |rdogí|dc bàwdgc oçc vnm wdfc
cbnfngdfc/ C p~n c `|÷wvchc ocw rnynh`( `p~d( ä
gcm|hnv`mnovn fdinrnovn f` hdv~rad` `fcv`f` |cr p~`wn vcf`w
`w darnk`w( `v~`hmnovn/ \`~hc i`h` wcbrn ` |`rvdgd|`áçc `vdy`
fn g`f` grnovn nm w~`w rn~odþnw *g~hvcw$/ Nhn oçc nwvà
i`h`ofc wcbrn |`rvdgd|`r gcmc ~m` m`rdconvn o`w mçcw fn
p~nm nwvà( w~|cwv`mnovn( doynwvdfc fn `ha~m` `~vcrdf`fn(
c~ wnk`( cw hífnrnw/ Nhn oçc nwvà fd{nofc; ‘Ycgëw fnynm
i`{nr v~fc `p~dhc p~n cw p~n nwvdynrnm ì irnovn fc vr`b`hjc
m`of`rnm; ycgëw fnynm wcrrdr( p~`ofc m`of`rnm wcrrdr5
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g`ov`r( p~`ofc m`of`rnm g`ov`r5 rn|nvdr ir`wnw |rcov`w(
p~`ofc m`of`rnm rn|nvdr5 wn `br`á`r( `kcnhj`r( hny`ov`r(
b`vnr |`hm`w( p~`ofc m`of`rnm i`{nr nwv`w gcdw`w!”/
@bwch~v`mnovn! C `|÷wvchc nwvà wn rninrdofc ` g`f`
~m fcw grnovnw nznrgdv`r wn~w fcow nm bnoniígdc f` Darnk`/
Nhn nwvà i`h`ofc fn rn~odþnw cofn `w |nwwc`w p~nrnm v`ovc
rngnbnr nfdidg`áçc( p~`ovc nfdidg`r/ Nhn i`h` wcbrn |nwwc`w
w`ovdidg`f`w |nhc Nw|írdvc( g`f` ~m` oc nwvàadc kà `hg`oá`fc(
oçc wcbrn |nwwc`w p~n p~nrnm mcwvr`r p~n wçc w`ov`w/ Nhn
i`h` fn |nwwc`w p~n kà fnwgcbrdr`m p~n Fn~w vnm ~m
|rc|÷wdvc |`r` ` ydf` fn g`f` ~m n p~n |nrmdvnm p~n c
Nw|írdvc W`ovc gcof~{` w~`w ydf`w/ Nhn v`mbäm i`h` fn
rn~odþnw p~n vëm |cr cbknvdyc ` gcm~ojçc gcm Fn~w n gcmcw drmçcw o` iä/ Oçc wçc rn~odþnw |`r` `w |nwwc`w wn
k~wvdidg`rnm fd`ovn fn Fn~w n fcw jcmnow( m`w |`r`
fngh`r`rnm ` w~` k~wvdidg`áçc nm Knw~w Grdwvc( mnfd`ovn `
iä/
Nww`w dowvr~áþnw fn \`~hc mcwvr`m p~n c vcfc( p~n ä
icrm`fc |cr dofdyíf~cw( y`d nznrgnr ~m` doih~ëogd` w`ov`
wcbrn g`f` dofdyíf~c/ N( m`dw fc p~n doih~ëogd` wcbrn cw
grnovnw( wnrà ~m` doih~ëogd` wcbrn cw dogräf~hcw p~n vnrçc
gcov`vc gcm nwwnw w`ovcw/ \`~hc fd{ p~n( p~`ofc ‘novr`r
`ha~m dogräf~hc c~ dofc~vc( ä nhn |cr vcfcw gcoynogdfc n |cr
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vcfcw k~ha`fc5 vcro`m-wn-hjn m`odinwvcw cw wnarnfcw fc
gcr`áçc( n( `wwdm( |rcwvr`ofc-wn gcm ` i`gn nm vnrr`(
`fcr`rà ` Fn~w( vnwvnm~oj`ofc p~n Fn~w nwvà( fn i`vc( oc
mndc fn ycgëw” *0Gc 06/26-2>$/
Nww` doih~ëogd` f` Darnk` wcbrn cw dogräf~hcw v`mbäm
ä `bcrf`f` |nhc Wnojcr Knw~w; ‘Odwvc gcojngnrçc VCFCW
p~n ycgëw wçc mn~w fdwgí|~hcw; wn vdynrnm `mcr ~ow `cw
c~vrcw” *Kc 07/7>$/ Ynk`m c `hg`ogn p~n vnrà ` m`odinwv`áçc
fc `mcr novrn cw grdwvçcw; vcf`w `w |nwwc`w w`bnrçc p~n
wcmcw ynrf`fndrcw wna~dfcrnw fn Grdwvc/ Gnrv`mnovn( ä
`wwdm p~n w`ovdidg`mcw ` Grdwvc n p~n `w |nwwc`w wnrçc
hny`f`w ` p~nrnrnm gcojngnr p~`h ä ` ‘r`{çc f` nw|nr`oá`
p~n jà nm ycgëw Uo÷w]” *0\n 7/0>$/
O` ynrf`fn( nwvn ä c |rdmndrc n ar`ofn m`of`mnovc
fc Wnojcr n( v`mbäm( c wna~ofc; ‘Rnw|cofn~-hjn Knw~w;
@m`ràw c Wnojcr( vn~ Fn~w( fn vcfc c vn~ gcr`áçc( fn vcf`
` v~` `hm` n fn vcfc c vn~ novnofdmnovc/ Nwvn ä c ar`ofn n
|rdmndrc m`of`mnovc/ C wna~ofc( wnmnhj`ovn ` nwvn( ä;
@m`ràw c vn~ |r÷zdmc gcmc ` vd mnwmc/ Fnwvnw fcdw
m`of`mnovcw fn|nofnm vcf` ` Hnd n cw \rcinv`w” *Mv
22/71-6< ‗ ardicw mn~w$/ Cr`( cofn jà m`of`mnovc( jà
nz|ngv`vdy` fn cbnfdëogd` ` nhn/ Wn c Wnojcr ocw fd{ p~n
`m`r ä c ar`ofn m`of`mnovc( gnrv`mnovn Nhn nw|nr` p~n
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`mnmcw/ M`w gcmc |cfnmcw cbnfngnr ` v`h m`of`mnovc(
wn c |r÷|rdc Wnojcr Knw~w fdwwn p~n ‘fc gcr`áçc |rcgnfnm
m`~w fnwíaodcw( jcmdgífdcw( `f~hvärdcw( |rcwvdv~dáçc( i~rvcw(
i`hwcw vnwvnm~ojcw( bh`wiëmd`w” *Mv 0>/04$3
@ rnw|cwv` ` nww` |nra~ov` v`mbäm ocw mcwvr` c
ynrf`fndrc g`mdojc |`r` ` cbnfdëogd`; ‘m`w c Gcowch`fcr( c
Nw|írdvc W`ovc( ` p~nm c \`d noyd`rà nm mn~ ocmn( nwwn
hjnw nowdo`rà vcf`w `w gcdw`w n hjnw i`rà hnmbr`r fn v~fc
c p~n hjnw vnojc fdvc” *Kc 06/29 ‗ ardic mn~$/ C Nw|írdvc fn
Grdwvc ocw nowdo` vcf`w `w gcdw`w/ Oçc ä ~m` gcdw` c~ c~vr`/
Wçc vcf`w `w gcdw`w/ Dwvc dogh~d ` cbnfdëogd`/ N( |`r`
cbnfngnrmcw ì crfnm fn `m`r( Nhn ocw nogjn gcm c `mcr
fc \`d Gnhnwvd`h/ Nhn( p~n ocw |~rdidg` fn vcfc c |ng`fc( c~wnk`( p~n( fd` ` fd`( `rr`og` vcf`w `p~nh`w gcdw`w jcrríyndw
p~n |rcgnfnm fc ocwwc gcr`áçc( ocw g`|`gdv` ` `m`r( v`ovc
` Fn~w( p~`ovc `c ocwwc |r÷zdmc/
\`r` p~n Nhn `v~n nm o÷w fnww` icrm`( |rngdw`mcw
ocw rnofnr ` Nhn( ocw novrna`rmcw ` Nhn vcv`h n
ynrf`fndr`mnovn/ N |rngdw`mcw( gcowv`ovnmnovn( i`h`r gcm
c Wnojcr n c~yd-Hc( c~ wnk`( cr`r/ Ä `vr`yäw f` cr`áçc p~n
grd`mcw dovdmdf`fn gcm Fn~w n ä `vr`yäw fnww` dovdmdf`fn
p~n c Nw|írdvc W`ovc `an |cfnrcw`mnovn nm o÷w/ Nww` `áçc
grnwgnovn fc Nw|írdvc nm o÷w( ocw hny` ` cbnfngnrmcw `c
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p~n ynrf`fndr`mnovn ä ` ycov`fn fn Fn~w( ` i`{nrmcw c
p~n rn`hmnovn vnm y`hcr |`r` Nhn/ N ä onwv` cbnfdëogd` p~n
ocw vcro`mcw dowvr~mnovcw ûvndw ì fdw|cwdáçc f– Nhn/
@häm fc `mcr( c Wnojcr Knw~w ocw fndzc~ c~vrcw
m`of`mnovcw gcmc |nrfc`r( rnw|ndv`r `~vcrdf`fnw( wnrmcw
j~mdhfnw( n `dof` c~vrcw/ M`w vcfcw nhnw fn|nofnm fc
`mcr/ \`~hc v`mbäm fdwwn dwvc( p~`ofc wn rninrd` `cw fcow(
mcwvr`ofc p~n nwvn ä ~m bnm p~n fnyn wnr b~wg`fc nm
Fn~w/ Nhn fd{ p~n oçc vnmcw c `mcr nm o÷w mnwmcw n p~n
fnynmcw b~wgà-hc oc Wnojcr( |crp~n( wnm nhn( o`f` vnm
y`hcr *ynr 0G< 07$/ Nhn fd{ p~n oçc `fd`ov` i`{nrmcw `w
gcdw`w m`dw w`ov`w fc m~ofc( wn oçc vdynrmcw `mcr/ Novçc(
fn `gcrfc gcm `w |`h`yr`w fn Knw~w n gcm c i~of`mnovch`oá`fc |nhc `|÷wvchc \`~hc( ä `p~d p~n fnyn gcmná`r `
ocww` cbnfdëogd`/
Wna~dofc nwwn |rdogí|dc wnrnmcw hny`fcw( |nhc
Nw|írdvc( ` cbnfngnrmcw `c Wnojcr nm vcf` ` W~` ycov`fn/
Ä dwwc p~n ocw hny`rà ` b~wg`r n gcojngnr c |rc|÷wdvc fn
Fn~w |`r` `w ocww`w ydf`w/ Fn |cwwn fnwvn gcojngdmnovc(
wnrnmcw hny`fcw ` cbnfngnr ìw dowvr~áþnw fn \`~hc p~`ovc
ìw rn~odþnw f` Darnk`( cofn ocwwc cbknvdyc oçc wnrà m`dw c
fn rngnbnr( m`w c fn f`r/ Oçc drnmcw m`dw ìw rn~odþnw |`r`
rngnbnrmcw ` `|rcy`áçc fcw c~vrcw |nh` ocww` w`ovdf`fn/
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Oçc drnmcw m`dw |`r` b~wg`r `hdmnovc( `|no`w( |`r` ` ocww`
`hm`/ Oçc drnmcw m`dw |`r` rngnbnr rnynh`áþnw( g~r`w(
gcowchc( mdh`arnw n c~vr`w bëoáçcw/ Drnmcw ìw rn~odþnw(
|`r` p~n c Wnojcr ~vdhd{n ` g`f` ~m fn o÷w gcmc Wn~
dowvr~mnovc( `vr`yäw fc p~`h ` W~` ycov`fn wnrà indv`/ @í
j`ynrà gcm~ojçc gcm Fn~w n gcm cw c~vrcw w`ovcw( |crp~n
Fn~w nwv`rà oc mndc fn o÷w/
Grndc p~n ä ` dwvc p~n c Wnojcr wn rninrn( p~`ofc i`h`
fc g`mdojc `|nrv`fc p~n hny` ` ~m` |crv` nwvrndv`/ \crp~n
nww` ocww` cbnfdëogd` ä c rnw~hv`fc fn ~m` gcow`ar`áçc
vcv`h ` Fn~w/ Dwvc dm|hdg` nm `brdrmcw mçc( gcm|hnv`mnovn(
fn p~`hp~nr gcovrchn p~n |cww`mcw vnr wcbrn ocww`w ydf`w(
ocw novrna`ofc vcv`hmnovn `c fcmíodc fc Wnojcr/ Nwv`novrna` i`{ gcm p~n ocw wdov`mcw ir`gcw( wnm g`|`gdf`fn
|`r` i`{nrmcw o`f`/ M`w ` ynrf`fn ä p~n( k~wv`mnovn onww`
jcr`( wnrnmcw g`|`gdv`fcw( |nhc Nw|írdvc fn Grdwvc( `
i`{nrmcw p~`hp~nr gcdw` p~n wnk` fn W~` ycov`fn/ Gcmc
fdwwn \`~hc; ‘p~`ofc wc~ ir`gc( novçc( ä p~n wc~ icrvn” *2Gc
02/0<$/
Jckn( ocrm`hmnovn( vnmcw fdidg~hf`fn |`r` novnofnr
gcmc F`yd |öfn noirnov`r `c ada`ovn/ M~dv`w yn{nw( wcmcw
hny`fcw ` gcowdfnr`r ` j`bdhdf`fn p~n nhn kà vdoj` gcm `
i~of`/ M`w nwvà bnm gh`rc p~n onm mnwmc F`yd wn id`y` o`
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w~` |r÷|rd` j`bdhdf`fn/ Ynk`m c p~n nhn fdwwn ` Achd`w; ‘c
WNOJCR vn novrna`rà o`w mdoj`w mçcw” *0Wm 01/69$/
F` mnwm` icrm`( idg`mcw `fmdr`fcw gcm ` icrá` fn
W`owçc/ M`w nhn oçc vdoj` icrá` onoj~m`! W~` icrá` ydoj`
wnm|rn fn Fn~w/ ‘Novçc( c Nw|írdvc fc WNOJCR fn v`h
m`ondr` wn `|cwwc~ fnhn( p~n nhn c r`wac~ U`c hnçc]
gcmc p~nm r`wa` ~m g`brdvc( wnm o`f` vnr o` mçc” *K{
06/9 ‗ ardic mn~$/ Fn ocyc; ‘Novçc( c Nw|írdvc fc WNOJCR
fn v`h m`ondr` wn `|cwwc~ fnhn( p~n fnwgn~ `cw
`wp~nhcodv`w( m`vc~ fnhnw vrdov` jcmnow” *06/04 ‗ ardic
mn~$/ M`dw ~m` yn{; ‘|cräm c Nw|írdvc fc WNOJCR fn v`h
m`ondr` wn `|cwwc~ fnhn( p~n `w gcrf`w p~n vdoj` ocw
br`ácw wn vcro`r`m gcmc idcw fn hdojc p~ndm`fcw( n `w w~`w`m`rr`f~r`w wn fnwid{nr`m f`w w~`w mçcw” *0>/06 ‗ ardic
mn~$ n( gcm ~m` p~ndz`f` fn k~mnovc( m`vc~ mdh idhdwvn~w/
C Wnojcr c ~w`y`( |crp~n nhn nr` gcow`ar`fc ` Fn~w;
‘v~ gcognbnràw n f`ràw ì h~{ ~m idhjc wcbrn g~k` g`bná` oçc
|`ww`rà o`y`hj`/// |crp~n c mnodoc wnrà o`{drn~ gcow`ar`fc
` Fn~w( fnwfn c ynovrn m`vnroc `vä `c fd` fn w~` mcrvn” *K{
07/>( 1$( icd c p~n Fn~w fdwwn ì mçn fn W`owçc/ Oc nov`ovc(
p~`ofc w~` gcow`ar`áçc icd gcrv`f`( c~ wnk`( p~`ofc nhn
y`hcrd{c~ m`dw ` ~m` |nwwc` fc p~n ` Fn~w( c Wnojcr wn
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rnvdrc~ fnhn *ynr K{ 09/2<$ n nhn kà oçc vdoj` onoj~m` icrá`
|`r` rn`adr ` o`f`/
F` mnwm` icrm`( ä ` ocww` gcow`ar`áçc `c Wnojcr
p~n ocw g`|`gdv`rà ` i`{nrmcw ` ycov`fn fn Fn~w/ Nm
c~vr`w |`h`yr`w( p~`ofc ocw ona`rmcw ` o÷w mnwmcw(
vcm`rmcw ocww` gr~{ n wna~drmcw cw |`wwcw fc Wnojcr
Knw~w( wnrnmcw g`|`{nw fn cbnfngnr/ @ ydf` fc Wnojcr `p~d
o` vnrr` icd ~m` ydf` fn `~vcona`áçc( |`r` cbnfngnr ì
ycov`fn fc \`d/ Icd ~m` ydf` oc g`mdojc `|nrv`fc( wnm
b~wg` fn rn`hd{`áçc fn ycov`fnw |nwwc`dw( wnm b~wg` fn
gcogrnvd{`áçc fn wcojcw |nwwc`dw n wnm b~wg` fn w`vdwi`áçc
|nwwc`h( p~n oçc icwwn ` w`vdwi`áçc f` ycov`fn fn Fn~w/ N
wna~dr c Wn~ nznm|hc v`mbäm ä ~m m`of`mnovc ` wnrcbnfngdfc/
@acr`( |nra~ovc ` ycgëw n ` mdm; wcmcw hna`hdwv`w(
cbnfngnofc ` m`of`mnovcw fn jcmnow( |`r` |`rngnrmcw
w`ovcw `cw chjcw fn vcfcw( c~ wcmcw grdwvçcw( cbnfngnofc
ynrf`fndr`mnovn `cw m`of`mnovcw fc Wnojcr( |`r` wnrmcw
w`ovdidg`fcw |cr Nhn3 Jà ~m` fdinrnoá` nvnro` novrn `w f~`w
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oçc |now`rmcw m`dw fc p~n gcoyäm( ` ocwwc |r÷|rdc
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gcr`áçc n ` mdoj` jnr`oá` |`r` wnm|rn” *Wh 17;29$/ Ä |`r`
c Wnojcr p~n nwv`mcw fn |ä c~ g`ímcw/ M`w nwv`rnmcw fn
|ä( |cdw c Wnojcr ä |cfnrcwc |`r` ocw w~wvnov`r/ Dwvc ä `Ar`á` fn Fn~w( p~n( `vr`yäw fc `mcr( nogr`yc~ ` Hnd o`
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fn i`vc( `|`rëogd` fn w`bnfcrd`( gcm w~` |rnvnow`
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m`w oçc vëm y`hcr `ha~m |`r` rnirn`r cw dm|~hwcw f` g`ron/
W÷ Knw~w ä ` ocww` w`ovdidg`áçc!
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icd rn|rcy`f` |nhc Wnojcr! Nm c~vr`w |`h`yr`w( c Wnojcr
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|nhc Wn~ |cfnr p~n icd m`odinwv`fc `vr`yäw fnwwn jcmnm/
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nm Mdm( `c `adr nm Mn~ Ocmn n `c dmdv`r Mdoj`w `vdv~fnw/
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mn noznra~nd nm p~`wn vcf`w `w |nwwc`w p~n wn |rcinww`m
mnmbrcw fc Gcr|c fn Grdwvc/
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P~`ov`w yn{nw c~yd fn Wn~w mnmbrcw; ‘@ Darnk` ä ~m
gcr|c nm mcydmnovc!”/ N ä ynrf`fn/ M`w c mcydmnovc p~n
wn yë ä fn `~vcfnwvr~dáçc/ C mcydmnovc p~n wn yë ä fn
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oçc ä grdwvçc n oçc vnm c fdrndvc fn fd{nr p~n nwvà wnrydofc
`c Wn~ Wnojcr/ M`dw fc p~n dwvc( ~m ‘|rcíbn” c c~vrc fn `adr
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gcmc g`bná` fnwmdch`f`( chj`m |`r` cw mnmbrcw n fd{nm
p~n nhnw oçc wçc mnmbrcw/
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dogcofdgdco`h fn Fn~w/ C~vrcw fd{nm p~n ä |nh` nhndáçc
|rnwgdnovn( wcbnr`o` n gcofdgdco`h/ ^ow fd{nm p~n cw mdh
`ocw fn rndo`fc fn Grdwvc o` vnrr` ä nw|drdv~`h n kà nwvà
cgcrrnofc( nop~`ovc c~vrcw fd{nm p~n nhn wnrà hdvnr`h n
`dof` y`d cgcrrnr/ ^ow fd{nm p~n c fí{dmc `dof` ä ~m`
cbrda`áçc f` Darnk`( nop~`ovc c~vrcw fd{nm p~n oçc ä m`dw/
^ow `gj`m p~n c Nw|írdvc W`ovc oçc Wn m`odinwv` m`dw gcm
c |cfnr p~n Wn m`odinwv`y` oc |rdogí|dc f` Darnk`( `c |`wwc
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mdhj`rnw fn c~vrcw mcvdycw rdfíg~hcw! N g`f` ~m p~nr |rcdbdr
c c~vrc fn fd{nr p~n nwvà `adofc nm ocmn fn Knw~w!
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|cfn gcmnr n c c~vrc `gj` p~n oçc |cfn/ Oçc dm|crv` wn
~m `gj` p~n vnm p~n wn|`r`r fd`w nw|ngd`dw n c~vrc `gj`
p~n oçc/ \crp~n c p~n dm|crv`( rn`hmnovn( ä wn g`f` ~m grë
p~n Knw~w Grdwvc ä c Wnojcr n |`ww` ` wna~dr Wn~w |`wwcw( `
dmdvà-hC( nm vr`owicrm`áçc gcowv`ovn fn ydf`( |`r` ` jcor`
n ah÷rd` fc Wnojcr( oçc |`r` w`vdwi`{nr ` w~` |r÷|rd`
wcbnrb`/ Nwvnw( wdm( ä p~n nwvçc wn|`r`fcw fn Grdwvc n wçc
gcovr` Nhn! ‘Ndw c wcbnrbc! W~` `hm` oçc ä rnv` onhn5 m`w c
k~wvc ydynrà |nh` w~` iä” *Jb 2/6$/
@vä p~`ofc idg`rnmcw fnmcod{`ofc c wnryc `hjndc(
k~ha`ofc-c( fnw|rn{`ofc-c( gcmc wn nhn oçc icwwn wnryc fn
Knw~w( fc Fn~w @hvíwwdmc3 @vä p~`ofc y`mcw |nrmdvdr p~n `
ocww` wcbnrb` rndon nm ocww` ydf`( `c doyäw fn Knw~w3 \cr
p~n oçc ynmcw p~n ä gcocwgc p~n c Wnojcr nwvà i`h`ofc(
p~`ofc fd{ p~n y`d gj`m`r vcfcw cw ‘dofdaocw” |`r` ` W~`
gnd`( oc h~a`r f`p~nhnw p~n Nhn j`yd` gcoydf`fc
`ovnrdcrmnovn3 P~`ofc hnmcw( c~ c~ydmcw( nww` |`ww`anm
fn H~g`w 06( wnm|rn |now`mcw p~n Nhn nwvà i`h`ofc fcw
c~vrcw grnovnw( o~og` fn o÷w mnwmcw! M`w ä gcm o÷w
mnwmcw p~n Nhn nwvà i`h`ofc( |crp~n o÷w nwv`mcw ocw
cg~|`ofc gcm dfnd`w fn jcmnow( nm yn{ fn `gndv`rmcw c
Wn~ gcoydvn n drmcw nm W~` fdrnáçc! Mcrrnmcw fninofnofc
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|rngndvcw j~m`ocw( m`w oçc `gndv`mcw onm ~m fnwm`dc
nm ocmn fn Knw~w! Fd{nmcw p~n nwv`mcw i`{nofc ` W~`
ycov`fn( m`w ocw nogjnmcw fn ÷fdc wn `ha~äm oçc |now`
gcmc o÷w!
V~fc dwwc ä ydynr ~m` mnovdr`! V~fc dwwc nzgh~d fn
ocww`w ydf`w c `mcr gcm p~n icmcw `m`fcw |cr Knw~w! O÷w
fd{nmcw p~n `gndv`mcw n rngnbnmcw nwwn `mcr( m`w oçc c
rn|`ww`mcw `fd`ovn/ O~og`! @gj`mcw p~n dwwc ä
nzgh~wdydf`fn ocww`/ Cw c~vrcw p~n wn ydrnm |`r` rngnbë-hc/
B`wv` p~n `k`m n |nownm gcmc o÷w( p~n( novçc( nhnw
v`mbäm wnrçc mnrngnfcrnw fnwwn `mcr/ M`w fnwfn p~`ofc
icmcw mnrngnfcrnw fn `ha~m` gcdw` ydof` fn Fn~w3
Onoj~m fn o÷w ä mnrngnfcr fn o`f`( ` oçc wnr fngcofno`áçc nvnro`/ N( `acr` p~n ` ar`á` ocw `hg`oác~(
y`mcw gcovdo~`r f`ofc mcvdycw |`r` nww` gcofno`áçc(
rnkndv`ofc ` Knw~w3 Gh`rc p~n oçc! N~ f~ydfc p~n `ha~m
grdwvçc |rcinwwc rnw|cof` wdm ` nww` |nra~ov`(
gcowgdnovnmnovn/ M`w ä c wdm p~n o÷w nwv`mcw fd{nofc( `c
ocw rcv~h`rmcw gcm ocmnw fn jcmnm n `c rcv~h`rmcw `cw
c~vrcw v`mbäm! @c fdwgrdmdo`rmcw p~nm p~nr p~n wnk`( p~n
|nown fdinrnovn fn o÷w!
Knw~w fdwwn |`r` ocw `m`rmcw ~ow `cw c~vrcw/ C
Nw|írdvc fn Grdwvc fdwwn p~n c `mcr ä c yíog~hc f` |nrindáçc n
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p~n fnynmcw i`{nr c bnm ` vcfcw( NW\NGD@HMNOVN `cw f`
i`míhd` f` iä/ Nhn oçc fd{ `cw f` i`míhd` fcw b`vdwv`w( c~
|rnwbdvnrd`ocw( c~ `wwnmbhnd`ocw( c~ g`v÷hdgcw( c~
qnwhnt`ocw( c~ g`hydodwv`w( c~ `rmdod`ocw( c~ `acwvdod`ocw(
c~ |nh`ad`ocw( c~ fn \`~hc( c~ fn @|chc( c~ fn Gni`w( c~ fn
c~vrc ocmn p~`hp~nr/ Ä `cw f` i`míhd` f` iä nm Grdwvc Knw~w/
@p~nhnw p~n grnnm p~n Knw~w Grdwvc( jcmnm( ä c ûodgc Fn~w
n c ûodgc Mnfd`fcr novrn Fn~w n cw jcmnow/ @p~nhnw p~n
grnnm p~n Nhn mcrrn~ |nhcw |ng`fcw fn vcfcw n p~n icd
rnww~wgdv`fc |cr Fn~w( |`r` p~n vcfcw cw p~n oNhn grnrnm(
wnk`m w`hycw/ @p~nhnw p~n grnnm p~n nwwn Knw~w ychv`rà
|`r` rn~odr fnidodvdy`mnovn ` Nhn( vcfcw cw p~n oNhn grnr`m/
Nww` ä ` i`míhd` f` iä( p~n Fn~w gcowdfnr`/ Nww` ä ` i`míhd`
p~n wnrà `|nrindác`f` `vä wn nogcovr`r fnidodvdy`mnovn gcm
Nhn/
@wwdm fd{ c Wnojcr; "Jckn( wn ycgëw c~ydrnm ` mdoj`
yc{( oçc nof~rná`m c gcr`áçc”/ @ yc{ fc Wnojcr ocw gj`m`
`c `mcr( n `m`r v`mbäm ä gnfnr/ Oçc |rngdw`mcw
gcogcrf`r gcm |rngndvcw vnch÷adgcw fn odoa~äm( m`w
|rngdw`mcw `m`r ` vcfcw n rngcojngnr p~n c nrrc p~n
ynmcw ocw c~vrcw |cfn nwv`r( o` ynrf`fn( nm o÷w! Wn oçc
vdynrmcw j~mdhf`fn |`r` dwvc( ä |crp~n `dof` oçc mcrrnmcw
gcm Grdwvc n g`mdoj`mcw |`r` ` mcrvn nvnro`/ C~á`mcw `
W~` yc{! Wnk`mcw ^m gcm Knw~w( `wwdm gcmc Nhn ä ^m gcm
c \`d!
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Fdwgd|~h`fc
‘\`ww`ofc |cr `hd( yd~ Hnyd( idhjc fn @hin~( wnov`fc o`
gchnvcrd`( n fdwwn-hjn; ‟Wda`-mn–/ Hnyd hny`ovc~-wn n c
wna~d~” *Mg 2/06$
Ndw `í c fdwgd|~h`fc fnwgrdvc |cr gcm|hnvc( fc doígdc `c
idm!
Oçc jà vnchcad`w! Oçc jà gcojngdmnovc |räydc fn
P~nm ä Knw~w! Oçc jà g~m|rdmnovc fn hndw! Oçc jà `|nac
ìw ‘gnrvn{`w” f` ydf` n ì w~` gcmcfdf`fn!
V~fc p~n nzdwvn ä c gj`m`fc |nwwc`h fn Knw~w n `
cbnfdëogd` f` |nwwc` gj`m`f`! Ä dwvc mnwmc; ` cbnfdëogd`
`c ‘wda`-mn” ä c |rdmndrc |`wwc( wnk` |nhc mcvdyc p~n icr!
Cw ny`oanhjcw ocw fçc gcov` fdwvc( `c ocw vr`{nrnm ~m
|c~gc f` jdwv÷rd` fcw fdwgí|~hcw/ @hd( |nrgnbnmcw p~n j`yd`
fdinrnovnw mcvdy`áþnw novrn nhnw( m`w j`yd` nwwn |covc
gcm~m ` vcfcw; ` cbnfdëogd` fn wna~dr ` Knw~w( p~`ofc
gj`m`fcw/
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Nwwn gj`m`fc( p~n wn m`oväm `vr`yäw fc Nw|írdvc fn
Grdwvc( `acr` nwvnofdfc ` vcf`w `w |nwwc`w( gcovdo~` c
mnwmc; ä ~m gj`m`fc ì ydf` wnm ~m rcvndrc |rä-
nwv`bnhngdfc5 oçc jà gnrvn{`w! \nhc gcovràrdc; c p~n nzdwvn ä
~m g`mdojc `|nrv`fc( fn fûydf`w( fn dognrvn{`w( r~mc `c
fnwgcojngdfc!
Ä ~m gj`m`fc p~n ocw hny` ` h`ra`rmcw v~fc c p~n
ydynmcw( `vä novçc( n ` icg`rmcw w÷ n ~odg`mnovn oc Grdwvc(
oc Idhjc fn Fn~w( oc |r÷|rdc Fn~w p~n Wn vcroc~ Jcmnm/ @
mnv`( `acr`( ä wna~d-Hc nm g`f` |`wwc Wn~( `|rnofnofc
gcm Nhn n dmdv`ofc g`f` chj`r( g`f` vcp~n( g`f` `br`ác(
g`f` `gchjdmnovc( g`f` `vdv~fn( g`f` gcm~ojçc( g`f`
|`h`yr`( p~n Nhn i`{ n fd{! @acr`( fnwg`rv`mcw vcf`w `wiörm`w gcojngdf`w( grd`f`w n dm|cwv`w |nhc jcmnm( p~n
vnov`m nog`dzcv`r c Nw|írdvc!
N wnm c ‘Wda`-mn” |nwwc`h fn Knw~w( oçc `fd`ov`
f`rmcw onm ~m |`wwc nm W~` fdrnáçc!
‘Dofc nhnw g`mdojc icr`( `ha~äm hjn fdwwn; Wna~dr-vn-
nd |`r` cofn p~nr p~n icrnw/ M`w Knw~w hjn rnw|cofn~; @w
r`|cw`w vëm wn~w gcydw( n `w `ynw fc gä~( odojcw5 m`w c
Idhjc fc Jcmnm oçc vnm cofn rnghdo`r ` g`bná`/
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@ c~vrc fdwwn Knw~w; Wna~n-mn! Nhn( |cräm(
rnw|cofn~; \nrmdvn-mn dr |rdmndrc wn|~hv`r mn~ |`d/ M`w
Knw~w dowdwvd~; Fndz` `cw mcrvcw c wn|~hv`r cw wn~w |r÷|rdcw
mcrvcw/ V~( |cräm( y`d n |rna` c rndoc fn Fn~w/
C~vrc hjn fdwwn; Wna~dr-vn-nd( Wnojcr5 m`w fndz`-mn
|rdmndrc fnw|nfdr-mn fcw fn g`w`/ M`w Knw~w hjn rn|hdgc~;
Odoa~äm p~n chj` |`r` vràw( vnofc |cwvc ` mçc oc `r`fc( ä
`|vc |`r` c rndoc fn Fn~w” *Hg 4/>1-92$/
Nww` |`ww`anm ä ` dofdg`áçc fn Knw~w wcbrn `
ongnwwdf`fn fc Wn~ gj`m`fc( |`r` wnrmcw Wn~w fdwgí|~hcw/
M`dw fc p~n dwvc( ä ~m` fnmcowvr`áçc f` dow`odf`fn
j~m`o` nm vnov`r wna~d-Hc( wnm p~n Nhn gj`mn( n f`
do~vdhdf`fn fc nm|rnac fn iörm`w c~ hndw gcmc
fnmcowvr`áçc f` g`|`gdf`fn |r÷|rd` fn `of`r nm Wn~
g`mdojc;
Oc |rdmndrc g`wc( ` |nwwc` `bcrf` ` Knw~w n fd{ p~n C
wna~drà ` p~`hp~nr h~a`r/ Dmnfd`v`mnovn( Knw~w fnmcowvr`
p~n nww` |nwwc` oçc vnm ` míodm` ocáçc fc p~n nwvà
fd{nofc; Knw~w i`h` f` dowv`bdhdf`fn n f` dognrvn{` fn Wn~
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g`mdojc( p~n ä nm fdrnáçc ì Gr~{( nm fdrnáçc `c wcirdmnovc
n odoa~äm vnm gcmc p~nrnr dwvc |r` wd mnwmc!
Hcac fn|cdw( ä Knw~w P~nm gj`m` ~m` |nwwc`/ N `
|nwwc` `gndv` c gcoydvn! M`w nwv`( |rcy`ynhmnovn |cr gcov`
f` vr`fdáçc j~m`o` f` p~`h c~yd~ i`h`r( |now` p~n |rngdw`(
|rdmndrc( wn |rn|`r`r |`r` wna~dr ` Knw~w! Nh` `gj` p~n
fnyn( `ovnw fn v~fc( g~m|rdr ` Hnd |`r`( novçc( nwv`r `|v` `
wna~dr c Wn~ g`mdojc/ N Knw~w fd{ ` nh`; ‘Nwp~ná` ` Hnd! Wn~
gcm|rcmdwwc ä gcmdac5 wn~ rnh`gdco`mnovc( `acr`( ä fdrnvc
gcmdac5 N~ yc~ i`h`r fdrnv`mnovn gcm ycgë( yc~ hjn nowdo`r
v~fc c p~n ycgë |rngdw` w`bnr( yc~ hjn mcwvr`r |cr cofn dr n
gcmc `adr!”/
‘Nwv` ä ` `hd`oá` p~n i`rnd gcm nhnw( fn|cdw f`p~nhnw
fd`w( fd{ c Wnojcr; \crnd oc wn~ gcr`áçc `w mdoj`w hndw n
wcbrn ` w~` mnovn `w dowgrnynrnd/ \crv`ovc( |cr ~m h`fc( wn
rnyca` ` `ovnrdcr crfno`oá`( |cr g`~w` fn w~` ir`p~n{` n
do~vdhdf`fn *|cdw ` hnd o~og` `|nrindácc~ gcdw` `ha~m`$( n(
|cr c~vrc h`fc( wn dovrcf~{ nw|nr`oá` w~|nrdcr( |nh` p~`h ocw
gjna`mcw ` Fn~w” *Jnbrn~w$/
\cr idm( c vnrgndrc g`wc( cofn ` |nwwc` v`mbäm fd{
p~n p~nr wna~dr ` Knw~w( wnm wnr gj`m`f`( n fnmcowvr`
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~m` dow`odf`fn `dof` m`dcr p~n ` |rdmndr`; `häm fn oçc vnr
dfäd` fc p~n vnrd` |nh` irnovn gcmc fdwgí|~h`( nh` p~nr p~n c
fdwgd|~h`fc wnk` fn `gcrfc gcm ` w~` ycov`fn( gcm `w w~`w
dm|cwdáþnw( wnm nwv`r fdw|cwv` ` `brdr mçc fn w~` ydf`( w~`
wna~r`oá`( w~`w gnrvn{`w( n |`rngn wcoj`r gcm yd`anow
m`r`ydhjcw`w( gnrg`f`w fn gcoicrvc( wcb ` v~vnh` fn ~m a~r~
p~n drà |rcydfnogd`r vcf`w `w gcdw`w |`r` c wn~ bnm-nwv`r!
N Knw~w rnkndv` dwvc! Gcm W~` rnw|cwv`( Nhn fd{ p~n
oçc |cfn j`ynr o`f` novrn c gj`m`fc( c |r÷|rdc Knw~w( n `
cbnfdëogd`( |`r` p~n j`k` c fdwgd|~h`fc! Oçc |cfn j`ynr
gcofdáþnw n onm hndw novrn Knw~w n c fdwgí|~hc/ Wn jc~ynr(
fndz` fn wnr fdwgd|~h`fc( |`ww`ofc ` wnr ~m |rcar`m` fn
ydf` fn `gcrfc gcm ` ycov`fn j~m`o`! ^m` rnhdadcwdf`fn!
Fdwgd|~h`fc ä gcm|rcmdwwc ûodg` n nzgh~wdy`mnovn
gcm Knw~w! @c ‘Wda`-mn” wna~n-wn c ‘hny`ovc~ n C wna~d~”(
wnm |cofnr`áþnw( wnm p~nwvdco`mnovcw( wnm gcofdáþnw/
Fdwgd|~h`fc ä ocydf`fn fn ydf`( h`ra`ofc-wn c p~n `vä novçc
wn ydyn~! Dwvc oçc ä ~m` `~vcww`ovdidg`áçc( m`w ~m`
m~f`oá` fn icgc( fn |rdcrdf`fnw( fn mnv`! Fdwgd|~h`fc ä
g`mdoj`r gcm Knw~w( `|rnofnofc n wnofc fdrngdco`fc |cr
Wn~ Nw|írdvc!
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Ycgëw( Fdwgí|~hcw( Wçc c W`h f` Vnrr`
‘N~ hjnw fdac p~n ~m` Darnk`( ì p~`h fdrdad vcf`w nww`w
bnm-`ynov~r`oá`w( w÷ |cfn |`rvdr fn ~m` crdanm; ` Gr~{ fc
G`hyàrdc! Ycgëw( fdwgí|~hcw( wçc bnm-`ynov~r`fcw p~`ofc(
\CR MDOJ@ G@^W@( cw dok~rd`rnm n |nrwna~drnm n(
mnovdofc( fdwwnrnm vcfc m`h gcovr` ycgëw/ Rnac{dknm-wn n
nz~hvnm( |crp~n ä ar`ofn c wn~ a`h`rfçc ocw gä~w5 |cdw
`wwdm |nrwna~dr`m `cw |rcinv`w p~n ydynr`m `ovnw fn ycgëw/
\CR MDOJ@ G@^W@ ycgëw wçc rnkndv`fcw( m`w c `vdoadfc wc~
N^ MNWMC/ @w dokûrd`w( `w fdi`m`áþnw( `w |nrwna~dáþnw `vä
ì mcrvn( mnwmc p~`ofc `|`rnovnmnovn ar`v~dv`w( wçc c
mcvdyc f`w bnm-`ynov~r`oá`w n wçc `mcwvr`w fn w~`
gcm~ojçc GCMDAC/
C m~ofc cw cfnd`( |crp~n w~` yc{ j~mdhfn n m`ow` ä
~m` `mn`á` `c m~ofc; ycgëw( fdwgí|~hcw( fçc vnwvnm~ojc
f` dok~wvdá` fc m~ofc( p~`ofc w~|crv`m ` |cbrn{` n c
wcirdmnovc gcm |`gdëogd` n nm wdhëogdc/ Nop~`ovc hjnw fdac
p~n wçc bnm-`ynov~r`fcw( c m~ofc ardv` ‟Icr`( icr`!–( |`r`
ycgëw/ N nwv` ä ` nw|nr`oá` fn ycgëw; p~n( icr` fc m~ofc( c
p~n cw `a~`rf` ä c w`hçc gnhnwvd`h( gcm ~m` ar`ofn gnd`
|rn|`r`f` |`r` ycgëw |nhc |r÷|rdc Fn~w \`d n Grd`fcr( c p~`h
noz~a`rà vcf`w `w w~`w hàardm`w p~n( o`p~nhn mcmnovc(
wnrçc fn `hnard`/ Hà( w~`w inrdf`w n wn~ m`rvírdc vnrçc wdfc
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vr`owida~r`fcw |`r` ~m ocyc gcr|c( kà oçc m`dw ynwvdfc gcm
|ng`fc n `rrn|nofdmnovc( m`w gcm ynwvnw br`og`w f`
Ynrf`fndr` K~wvdá`/
Oc nov`ovc( nop~`ovc nwwn fd` oçc gjna`( ycgëw vëm
~m` mdwwçc o` vnrr`; gcownryà-h`! P~`ofc c m~ofc cw
rnkndv`( vr`{ fnwvr~dáçc wcbrn wd mnwmc/ M`w( \CR MN^
@MCR @ YCGËW( c m~ofc gcovdo~` nzdwvdofc/ \CR MN^
@MCR @ VCFCW( `dof` fnrr`mc mdoj` mdwnrdg÷rfd`( |crp~n
m~dvcw `dof` ydrçc `vr`yäw fc p~n ycgëw fnmcowvr`m nm
w~`w |r÷|rd`w ydf`w/ N dwvc `gcovngn |crp~n ycgëw wçc c w`h
f` vnrr`! Ycgëw oçc vëm c w`h( onm vëm p~n wnr c w`h! Ycgëw
c wçc |cr w~` gcm~ojçc GCMDAC! Ycgëw oçc wnrçc c w`h f`
vnrr` |cr |rna`rnm ` \`h`yr`( m`w `|rnwnov`rçc ` \`h`yr`fn icrm` ydy` nm wn~ gcvdfd`oc( |cr wnrnm c w`h! Ycgëw oçc
vnrçc c w`h |cr fd{nrnm c Mn~ Ocmn( c~ |cr gdv`rnm `w
nwgrdv~r`w gcm |nrindáçc( m`w wçc c w`h p~n |nrmnd` vcf` `
vnrr`( p~n ä ` w~` w~bwvâogd` |rdogd|`h( |crp~n icr`m
`vdoadfcw |cr Mn~ gj`m`fc n wn vcro`r`m Mn~w fdwgí|~hcw!
M`w( |`r` ` vnrr` gcovdo~`r gcownry`f`( c w`h |rngdw`
gcovdo~`r wnofc w`h( |rngdw` m`ovnr wn~ |cfnr fn vnm|nr`r(
fn |~rdidg`r n fn gcownry`r/ Nhn |rngdw` wnr dogcrr~|víynh! Wn
nhn wn vcro`r dowí|dfc( oçc |cfnrà wnr rng~|nr`fc/ Vnrà p~n
wnr h`oá`fc icr`! \crv`ovc( nhn oçc |cfn idg`r a~`rf`fc; vnm
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p~n wnr hdyrn! Nhn oçc |cfn idg`r rnwvrdvc ` rdv~`dw fc jcmnm
|`r` c jcmnm( |crp~n nhn ä ` ydof` fn Fn~w |`r` vcfcw cw
jcmnow!
N ycgëw oçc wçc( `|no`w( c |cfnr doydwíynh fc w`h;
ycgëw v`mbäm wçc c brdhjc ydwíynh f` h~{! M`dw ~m` yn{ N~
hjnw fdac; ycgëw oçc vëm p~n wnr h~{( onm vëm ` h~{/ Ycgëw
wçc h~{! W~` rnw|cwv` `c Mn~ gj`m`fc cw in{ h~{! Ycgëw wçc
` gdf`fn nfdidg`f` wcbrn c mcovn/ Oçc jà gcmc nwgcofë-h`!
Hnmbrnm-wn; ycgëw ydnr`m f` Gr~{! N vcfcw( fc m`dw
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