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Tradition. Learning. Community

I Nisan/Iyar 5765 May2005 I Celebrating Generations of Jewish Life in Central New Jersey

On :Friday evening, May 20th, we wire

begin our year {ong cerebration to

unvei{ our newry refurbished Temy{e

bui{ding.

P{ease join us on May 20th for the beginning of our

cerebration of renewa{ and

. commitment to "1Jui{ding Our

:future" for our generation and

generations to come.

Sliabbat services at 7:30 y.m.

:festive Oneg to fo{{ow.

Between Us ... The construction is at full speed; the Legacy

campaign is approaching $9 million; we have turned the clocks ahead and are enjoying better weather - and the Temple program continues as we learn Torah, celebrate Jewish life, and challenge each other to build a world that will be better every day.

Soon you will all receive invitations to join us at the Temple on May 20 as we welcome everyone back to our congregation's historic building with all of its changes. The construction isn't finished yet, nothing is on the walls, signs haven't been ordered, and furnishings are still to come. It has been over a year since the demolition and construction began. Our sanctuary was cut in half and we worshipped before a temporary wall and large plastic sheets. It's time to move forward into the future, to begin our tomorrow. So come and join us. Let's celebrate what has already been built and begin to enjoy it In fact, let's begin a year of celebration, after which we will rededi­cate our beautiful building and love coming here, learning here, and growing here for many years to come.

And speaking of tomorrow, I am pleased to report to you that the work of our Assistant Rabbi Search Committee is now complete. After receiving many resumes and interviewing some truly wonderful candi­dates, our Committee has chosen Rabbi Daniel Fellman (please look inside the Bulletin for more on Rabbi Fellman) to be our next Assistant Rabbi. Rabbi Fellman will be receiving his ordination this June from the Hebrew Union College -Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati and will be joining the Temple family beginning July 1. Rabbi Fellman is the unanimous choice of our search committee and I know that everyone in the Temple will enjoy meeting him, will welcome him and his wife Melissa with open arms. We look forward to his being with us for many years. I am sure that he will follow our tradition of wonderful Assistant Rabbis who make their mark here and later go on to success in so many ways.

I want to express my deep appreciation to Steve Satz and Susan Kohn who co-chaired our search commit­tee. To all of the members of the search committee who gave their time, expertise, commitment, and love of Temple to the process, Yasher Koach to each of you. You

deserve OUf deepest tu ~

Please join us on Friday May 6 at 7:30 p.m.

for our Installation of Officers, Trustees &AETYBoard

Officers nominated witb terms expiring 2006 President Steven F. Satz

First Vice-President Second Vice-President

Susan Kohn Deborah Cohn

Financial Secretary Allison Warzala Corresponding Secretary Daniel Wolfson

Recording Secretary Sara Levine Treasurer Marc Rothstein

Trustees nominated witb terms expiring 2008 Russell ,Einbinder David Schaer Craig Mandell Debra Schlossberg Barbara Peabody Marlene Zuberman

Trustee nominated witb term expiring 2007 Linda Rubenstein

Ansbe Emetb Temple Youtb Board

President: Lori Levine Exetutive Vice President: Rachel Hodes

Religious & Cultural Vice Pres.: Noa Nessim Social Vice President: Stephanie Spiegel

Social Action Vice President: Emma Peabody Treasurer: Jesse Stern

.Secretary: Hannah Zuberman-Leibman Publicity: Michael Zahorsky

NFTY-GER Representative: Ariel Schlesinger Publicity: Matt Workman

Anshe Emeth Memorial Temple 222 Livingston Avenue

New Brunswick, New Jersey 08901 (732)545-6484 (732)745-7448 FAX

temple@aemt.info E-mail http://aemt.net Webpage Volume 145 Issue 17 The Bulletin is published bi-weekly from September 1 to June I and one surruner issue. Bennett F. Miller Rabbi Neal D. Gold Associate Rabbi Anna West Ott Gail R. Kroop Claudio Kogan Karen B. Goldstein Harvey Stone

Cantor Executive Director

Rabbi Educator Gan Ye1adeem Director

President Anshe Emeth Memorial Temple is a member

of the Union for Ref orm Judaism.

WORSHIP SERVICES

FRIDAY, MAY6 Kedoshim 7:30 P.M.

Installation of Officers and Trustees & Board of Anshe Emeth

Temple Youth Group Candle Blessing: Wendy Sholk

SATURDAY, MAY 7 11:00AM. BAT MITZVAH OF MICHEllE SHOLK

TORAH STUDY & MINYAN 9:30AM. REUGIOUSSCHOOL TEFILLAH 11:15AM.

FRIDAY, MAY 13 Emor 7:30P.M.

Family Service for Shabbat & Yom Ha-atz-ma-ut

Candle Blessing: Bonnie Saunders Music will be led by the Junior Choir.

SATURDAY, MAY 14 11 :OOA.M. BAT MITZVAH OF ASHLEE SAUNDERS

TORAH STUDY & MINYAN 9:30A.M. REUGIOUSSCHOOL TEFILLAH 11:15A.M.

FRIDAY, MAY 20 Behar

Rabbi Miller will speak on:

"Legacy for Tomorrow" Candle Blessing: Judy Schiffman

SHABBAT LE'LADEEM Music will be led by Makhelat Anshe Ernet.

7:30P.M.

SATURDAY, MAY 21 11:00AM. BAR MITZVAH OF BRIAN SLEPIAN

TORAH STUDY & MINYAN 9:30AM. REUGIOUSSCHOOL TEFILlAH 11 :15A.M.

FRIDAY, MAY 27 Bechukotai 7:30P.M.

Rabbi Miller will speak on:

"Rabbis an.d Congregations: What They Mean to Each Other"

Candle Blessing: Diane Pincus

SATURDAY, MAY 28 11:00A.M. BAT MITZVAH OF STEPHANIE SATZ

TORAH STUDY & MINYAN 9:30A.M.

Shobbot le'1odeetn A special Shabbat Service for Young Children

May 20 at 7 p.m. Babies, toddlers, preschoolers, and K-lst graders are welcome to join us with their families for a Shabbat service filled with music, stories, prayer, and a special Oneg Shabbat in the Gan Pre School room.

Join us for our Keepers of Jewish Excellence speaker

Jonathan Sarna 350 Years of American Judaism Monday, May 23, at 7:30p.m.

Dr. Jonathan Sarna is one of America's foremost commentators on American Jewish history, religion and life. Born in Philadelphia, and raised in New York and Boston, he attended Brandeis University, the Boston Hebrew College, Merkaz HaRav Kook in Jerusalem, and Yale University, where he earned his doctorate in 1979.

Dr. Sarna has written, edited or co-edited twenty books, including The American Jewish Experience; People Walk on Their Heads , a volume dealing with Jewish immigrant life in New York, and Jacksonian Jew, a biography of Mgrdecai Noah. H~s most recent books are entitled Religion and State in the Ameri­can Jewish Experience; Women and American Judaism: Historical Perspectives; and Jews and the American Public Square.

Dr. Sarna has a new interpretive history of American Judaism: A History published by Yale University Press. He is married to Professor Ruth Langer, and they have two children, Aaron and Leah.

Arrangements for Jonathan Sarna made through B'nai B' rith Lecture Bureau.

Worship Services Friday, May 6 -Installation of Officers & Trustees We will install our new Officers & Trustees who will lead and guide us during the year ahead. The Board for Anshe Emeth Temple Youth Group will be installed with our adult leaders. Our president, Steven Satz, will give his installa­tion address. Friday, May 13 -Family ServiceforShabbat& Yom Ha­atz-ma-ut Join US with your family in a wonderful celebration of Shabbat and Israel Independence Day. This is a marvelous way for families with young children to become familiar with the Shabbat experience. Our Junior Choir leads us in song, accompanied by the Awesome Family Service Band. Friday, May 20 - Legacy for Tomorrow Join us for this special Shabbat service as we begin our celebration of our newly refurbished building. Rabbi Miller will speak on this commitment to future generations. Friday, May 27 - Rabbis & Congregations: What They Mean to Each Other Please join us when we honor Rabbi Gold and wish him well as he gets ready to leave for his own congregation in the Boston area.

We Welcome Rabbi Daniel Fellman Rabbi Daniel Fellman is a native of Omaha

Nebraska. He graduated from Colorado College in 1996 with a B.A. in Political Science. He has also earned a Master of Arts in Hebrew Letters from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion and will be receiving Ordination from HUC-JIR this coming June. While at our seminary, Rabbi Fellman wrote his thesis, the subject of which is: "An American Friend­ship: Harry Truman, Eddie Jacobson, and the Establish­ment of the State of Israel."

Rabbi Fellman has served as Student Rabbi in a number of congregations. Currently he is serving Temple B' nai Israel in Natchez, Mississippi. Prior to that, he served for three years at Temple B'nai Israel in Petoskey, Michigan. He has also served at the University of C inc innati Hillel, and summer rabbinic positions in Illinois and Nebraska. During the summer of 1993, Rabbi Fellman interned at the White House in Washington, D.C.

Rabbi Fellman is an experienced and wonderful teacher. Among his various teaching experiences he has served on the faculty at the Yavneh Day School in Cincinnati, Ohio and numerous religious schools. Rabbi Fellman has also served on the faculty of the URJ Kutz Camp for High School students and the Olin Sang Ruby Union Institute in Oconomowoc, Wisconsin.

Rabbi Fellman is an Eagle Scout, was a Japan­U.S Senate Scholar in 1990, and was the founder of the Colorado College Hillel in 1994. He currently serves on the Academic Affairs Committee at HUC-JIR and on the steering committee of the Catholic-Jewish Educators Dialogue of the American Jewish Commit­tee. He is the editor of the HUe MONTHLY and a columnist for The Jewish Press of Omaha, Nebraska.

Rabbi Fellman and his wife, Melissa will be joining our Temple family in July. We look forward to a wonderful and growing relationship with the Fellmans.

Join us for "BOOKS AND BAGELS" Sunday May 15 at 10:30 am

This is our fmal Books and Bagels for the year. Our Book Discussions offer a relaxing but stimulating opportunity to talk about fiction and non-fiction. They are led by group members who begin by briefly summarizing the book, so even those who haven't had time to fmish (or start) the book can participate.

Meet our nominated Officers & Trustees

President Steven Satz co-chairs the Education Committee, is a member of the Finance Committee, the Architecture Committee, the Construction Committee, the Legacy Celebration Committee and is on the Anshe Emeth Softball Team. Steve is a partner in the North Brunswick law finn of Busch and Busch, LLP. Steve joined Anshe Emeth in 1994 with his wife Diane Pincus and two daughters, Juliann (16) and Stephanie (12). They live in North Brunswick. First Vice President Susan Kohn was born into the Anshe Emeth family. Her father Louis Goldstein is a past president and her children are 4th generation Anshe Emeth family. Susan has served as corresponding secretary, treasurer and was the second vice president for the past 2 years. She has chaired the Youth Committee, Fundraising Committee and many other events held at the Temple. Currently Susan is the general co-chair of the Legacy Celebration Committee. She s busy planning our Welcome Back Shabbat on May 20, Rabbi Miller's 30th Anniversary on May 22, and looking forward to our Redidication Weekend in the spring of 2006. Susan is a past president of AETY and was an active partcipant in NFTY, attending Mitzvah Corps (twice) and NFTY 6 Weeks in Israel. Susan has expressed that one of her most memorable and fulfilling experiences was recently serving on the Rabbi Search Committee. She lives in East Brunswick with her husband, Stuart and four sons Brandon (14), Garrett (10), Dylan (5), and Jesse (2). Second Vice President Deborah Cohn grew up at Anshe Emeth and has been a member with her family for 16 years. She has worked on the Religious School Committee, Holiday Celebration, Adult Education, Chavurah, Budget Committee, and most recently was co-chair of the Membership Committee. Debbie served as Financial Secretary for 4 years, and Recording Secretary for one year. She has been teaching the Back to Basics class for 4 years, and sings in the Temple's adult choir. Debbie is married to Joe (whose family has belonged to Anshe Emeth for over 70 years) and is the mother of Beth, who attends the University of Delaware. The Cohns are members of the Joyful Noise Chavurah. For Debbie, "Anshe Emeth is like 'Cheers' - a place where 'everybody knows your name, and they're always glad you came.' I go there for nurturing and support when I need it, and try to offer the same to everyone else.". Financial Secretary Allison Warzala is looking forward to continuing as Financial Secretary. Allison is currently chairing the committee for the design of our new Media Welcoming

Center. She has been involved in many different pro­grams and committees over the 16 years that her family has been members of AEMT including chair of the Youth Committee, co-chair of our MAP new member program, the Legacy Campaign Committee of 100, Shalach Manot, the Rummage Sale, Membership, Mosaic, Program Board, and the Adult Purim party. In addition to being the reigning Purim Carnival prize queen, Allison has been the stage manager for several temple productions. Allison is the manager of the Infonnation Center at Schering­Plough. She lives in Somerset with her husband Martin and two children Rachel (15) and Jared (II). Their family are members of Delta Chavurah. Corresponding Secretary Daniel Wolfson is co-chair of the Men's Group, the vice-president of CDC. He has co-chaired the Men 's Overflow Shelter. Daniel is an executive vice president and chief operating officer at the ABIM Foundation. He lives in Highland Park with his wife Diane Gonzalez Gandolfi and their son Julian. Recording Secretary Sara Levine grew up at Anshe Emeth and served our community in many different capacities. Sara has been on the board as a Youth Group representative, as a Young Couples Club representative, and as the Day Care Committee liaison. Sara also chaired the Religious School Committee for many years and is currently serving on the committee again as a member. Sara's husband, Stuart and children Lori (Junior), and Sandra (8th grade) have been members of Anshe Emeth since moving back to this area in 1986. Lori recently spent a semester in Israel as an Eisendrath International Exchange student just as her mother did many years ago. This provided both of them with an even deeper appreciation of the Jewish people and their homeland. The entire family returned in D~cem­ber from a wonderful trip to Israel with Rabbi Miller. She is looking forward to serving as an officer of the congre­gation during these exciting years of rededication of the temple. Treasurer Marc Rothstein joined the Temple in 1992. Currently he 's the Recording Secretary, and chair of the Budget Committee. He is a member of the Finance Committee, the Legacy Committee, and Membership Committee. In the past he has chaired many concerts at the temple and has directed the Purimshpiels and was the fonner manager and is a current member of the AEMT Softball Team. Marc's family and he are members of Delta Chavurah He lives in Kendall Park with his wife Shari, and his children Adam and Emily. Marc is a CPA and a Senior Finance Manager at Bristol-Myers Squibb.

TRUSfEF.S: Russell Einbinder has been a member of Anshe Emeth for almost 10 years. He chairs the Ushering Committee and High Holidays Ushering Committee and has coordinated the Purim Carnival for many years. Russ is a regular participant in the weekly 10rah Study and lay-led minyan. Russ lives in Milltown with his wife Nancy and their son Daniel. Craig Mandell has been a memeber of Anshe Emeth since 2001. He lives in East Brunswick with his wife Beth and three children, Zachary (10), Alec (6 ~) and Carli (3 ~). Some thoughts from Craig, ' I am honored to be nominated to the Board of Trustees. Anshe Emeth is such a special place to my family. My wife and children play an active role at the Temple .. now it is my tum! 1 look forward to serving the Anshe Emeth community during this exciting time of growth and rebuilding.' Craig is the owner of Landscaping by Craig, Inc. His mother Susan Mandell was a past cantor of Temple Emanuel in Edison, NJ. Barbara Peabody has been a member of Anshe Emeth since 1987. She is an active member of the Religious School Committee, and worked on the revamping ofthe Hebrew High School program. She is now attempting to coordinate a Parent-Teacher Organization for the religious school called Vaadat Horim. Every winter she joins AETY, our senior youth group, as a driver when they go into New York City for their annual Midnight Run. Barb and her family participate in as many Temple activities as they can. Barb teaches in North Brunswick High School. She lives in South Brunswick with her husband Ken and their two children, Josh and Emma. Her car knows the way to AEMT all by itself! Linda Rubenstein and her family have been Temple members for 4 years. Linda has been active in helping plan Mitvah Days with the Tzedakah Committee and the 2004 Consulta­tion on Conscience with the Social Action Committee. She has also been involved with Elijah's Promise, the Blood Drive, youth group and religious school activities. The Rubensteins live in East Brunswick. Linda is a counselor at the East Brunswick Department on Aging. Ken has an etectrical supply business in Weehawken, NJ. Their children are Emily, Eric and Jason. "We are very happy to be mem­bers of Anshe Emeth and proud to be part of such a caring community."

Dr. David Schaer will be returning to the Board of Trustees. He has served as Treasurer for six years of the past eight years, and will continue as the Chair of the Finance Commit­tee. He has been co-chairperson of the High Holiday Annual Appeal, the Anshe Emeth Golf Classic, and of the Consulta­tion on Conscience. He has been active on the Budget Committee and on the Steering Committee for the Legacy Campaign. David is a partner in Cardiology Associates of New Brunswick and maintains a busy angioplasty practice at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital. A starting infielder for the successful Anshe Emeth Men's Softball Team, he is considered indispensible to this year 's chances of a winning (and healthy) season. David and his wife Lori live in East Brunswick with their daughter Julia and his two sons Daniel and Andrew. Debra Schlossberg has been a member of Anshe Emeth since 1996. Debbie is returning to the Board after a brief hiatus. She was co-chair of the Social Action Committee and served the Religious School Committee and on the Kulanu Subcom­mittee. Currently she is chairing the Adult Education Committee. Her family participates in our annual Mitzvah Day actitivities. Debbie lives in Milltown with her husband, Shlomo and their two children, Yoav and Noa. Marlene Zuberman and her family have been members of Anshe Emeth for eight years. Her husband, Alain Leibman, and Marlene have lived in Highland Park since 1985. They have two children, Hannah, 16 and Asa, 11 112. Marlene has participated in the MAP program and attended the TAG leadership program as well. She was a student in the Adult B'Nai Mitzvah class and became a Bat Mitzvah in June 2003. She is a member ofthe Social Action Committee and recently attended the Consultation on Conscience sponsored by the Religious Action Center in Washington, D.C. Marlene has also enjoyed many adult education opportunities at the Temple, including the Hebrew language class. She has also been a member of the adult choir for the past two years. In her professional life, she is an attorney specializing in . education law. She served as a Deputy Attorney General in the New Jersey Attorney General 's office for 11 years where she served as counsel to the State Board of Education, the State Board of Examiners and the School Ethics Commission. For the past seven years, she has worked for the New Jersey Department of Education in Trenton.

Please join us on Tuesday, May 3 at 8:00 p.m. at our Congregational Meeting for the election of our slate of Officers and Trustees and on Friday, May 6 at 7:30 p.m. for Shabbat Services and Installation of our newly elected Officers, Trustees and AETYBoard.

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Announces the GRADUATING CLASS OF 2005 Members ofthe congregation who wish to make a contribution to honor individual graduates or the entire graduating class are asked to do so as soon as possible. A card will be sent to the individual graduates selected. Please check the name(s) and a fund. Graduates: [ ] Marissa Brooks [ ]Julia Chazkel [ ] Alex Ellis [ ] Zoie Flaks [ ] Isaac Gabel-Frank [ ] Josh Leibner [ ] Matt Leibner [ ] Meredith Lubin [ ] Rachel Miller [ ] Jennifer Muschinski ( ] Rachel Scales [ ] Max Sharp-Fried ( ] Ilana Stern ( ] David Stuckey [ ] Merin Weitzen [ ] Adam Workman [ ] Andrew Zektzer [ ] 2005 Graduates (Bulletin only)

Funds: ( ] Birnah Flower Fund [ ] Cantor's Music Fund [ ] Caring Community Fund ( ] Children's Special Education & Daycare Fund [ ] Honorarium Fund [ ] Keller Memorial Lecture Fund [ ] Max Marder Youth FelIowship Fund [ ] Ner Tamid Fund [ ] Prayerbook Fund ( ] P.T.O. Fund [ ] Rabbi Miller Chai Fund [ ] Rae Schlesinger Memorial Fund [ ] Rina B. Pakenharn Memorial Fund [ ] Shoshana Parsells Youth Edu. Fund [ ] Special Publications Fund [ ] Tzedakah Fund [ ] Youth Activities Fund

Minimum $10 per individual name or "2005 Graduates" if we bill you.

Please make your check payable to : Anshe Emeth Memorial Temple and send the form and check to: 222 Livingston Avenue, New Brunswick, NJ 0890 I

Enclosed is my check in the amount of$ -------

Sign the card:

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Musical Notes ... It's time to start singing with the Choir. Calling all adult singers! We invite you to a Choir Open House on Sunday, May 1 at lla.m. Makhelat Anshe Emet (formerly known as the Adult Volunteer No-Ringer Choir) is conducting a talent search! Experienced choral singers? We know you're out there. Haven't sung in a choir since high school (or before that)? We know you're out there too. If you have been an admirer from afar of this beloved fixture of Temple life and would like to experience the music and camaraderie for yourself for a short period of time, we are planning an "Open Sing" on Sunday May 1, at 11 a.m. We will schmooze over coffee and nosherei and then share a representative sample of our Shabbat repertoire. Keep coming to our rehearsals on Wednesdays 8-9:30 p.m. and Sundays 11 a.m. - 12: 15 p.m. and you can sing with us at the special Graduation service on Friday June 17.

Hear what other choir members say about what it means to them to be in Makhelat Anshe Emet: "] am generally more relaxed after] sing in a rehearsal. I get involved in the music and forget the day's intensities. There are also those special moments when everything comes together and it feels great, whether it be a rehearsal or a performance. " -Mark Fuerstein

"Singing in the choir is for me a very special commitment to the Temple. Years ago, the choir made a record entitled 'All Who Sing Pray Twice. ' The choir members and the congregation truly believe that." -Bea Adler

"The choir for me has always been a constant, the underlying connection I have to Anshe Emeth. The members are like my extended family, a constant support group through thick ar.d

thin." -Paula Masciulli

Please join the Community Yom HaShoah Memorial Program on Wednesday May 4, 2005, at 7:30 p.m. at Nicholas Auditorium (on the Douglass College/ Mason Gross campus).

This is the annual event sponsored by the Jewish Federa­t,ion of Greater Middlesex County, a moving experience of solidarity and remembrance. The featured speaker will be Bryan M. Rigg, author of Hitler s Jewish Sol­diers, which uncovered a new dimension of the Holo­caust. Also featured will be the Anshe Segulah Men's Chorus of Central New Jersey, directed by Cantor Anna West Ott, a multi-generational and multi-denominational chorus of Jewish men including Anshe Emeth members Gene Corburn, Mark Fuerstein, Jason Goldberg, and Charlie Ott.

Simchat Zimrah (Spring Concert)

Saturday evening, May 21, 7:30 pm

This is Anshe Emeth's 6th Annual Spring Concert, an exuberant celebra­tion of Jewish music that is not to be missed. All three choirs will perfor.m their "greatest hits" of the year with an expanded Awesome Family Service Band and special guests. If you have attended before, you know what the shouting is about. If you haven't - you won't believe your eyes and ears. It is simply The Greatest Night of Jewish Music EVER! Bring the entire mishpocha for a free evening of Havdalah, great music, and great desserts!

The Temple's Annual Golf Outing Is . Our Largest Fund Raising Event Every

Year

This year's Outing Thursday, May 19th at Forsgate

Country Club Mayor James M. Cahill

Honored Guest

We need the help of every member of the congre­gation to achieve our fund raising goal.

The Temple and the Anshe Emeth Memorial Temple Golf Outing Committee are counting on you to help.

Even if you don't play golf, you can help us make this year's Golf Outing the BIGGEST and BEST EVER!

For more information, contact Stu Levine at (732)297-3864 .

r-------------------------------------~ Annual 50/50 Cash Raffle

1st Prize = 40% of Prize Pool (up to $10,000)* 5th Prize = 5% of Prize Pool (up to $1,250)* 2nd Prize = 20% of Prize Pool (up to $5,000)* 6th Prize = 5% of Prize Pool (up to $1,250)* 3rd Prize = 10% of Prize Pool (up to $2,500)* 7th Prize = 5% of Prize Pool (up to $1,250)* 4th Prize = 10% of Prize Pool (up to $2,500)* 8th Prize = 5% of Prize Pool (up to $1,250)*

* Based upon Maximum Sale of 500 Tickets at $100.00 each

Drawing to be held Tuesday, June, 7, 2005 at Anshe Emeth at 8:00 p.m.

Ticket Price: $100.00 (Maximwn sale of 500 tickets) (Tickets will be mailed prior to drawing) Yes, I would like to order __ raffle ticket(s) @ $100 each to benefit AEMT. Name: ------------------------------------------------Address:

Phone#: -----------------------------------------------

Mail Check and Reservation Form to: Anshe Emeth Memorial Temple, 222 Livingston Avenue, New Brunswick, Nl 0890 I

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IN REMEMBRANCE: YAHRZEITS FOR MAY

The names listed below are taken from the Book of Life and permanent memorials throughout the Temple. These names, which are posted monthly, are read at the Sabbath service immediately following the date of passing. Anyone wishing to have the name of a loved one read on the Sabbath should call the Temple office at (732)545-8447.

SHABBAT May 6, 2005 DR. ALFRED BRUCKNER HEINRICH WOLFF SELMA WOLFF BERNARD COHEN HINDA RIFKIN KATHERINE MICHAEL BERNSTEIN MANUEL LANDE SYLVIASWIDLER JEANETIE KATZEN MILDRED GILL SPITZ JOSEPH COHN IRVING LEO RUBEN LEIGH J. SINGER JACOB KUSHAKOW MARGARET SHAPIRO KANTWELL ELIAS LYON JENNIE F. WILLNER WERNER W. SCHWARTZ FREDERICKJECK MARTIN MOSCOWITZ ELIAS BRINSTEIN CLAIRE SANDLER LEVINE MORRIS SILVER ERIC WIENER MIRIAM BOVIN LEffiOWITZ FRED GREENSTEIN JULIUS C. HIRSCH MIMI BATES

SHABBAT May 13,2005 LOUIS H. GLUCK FANNIE TUBOWITZ ABRAHAM HAMELSKY ZACHARY CURRAN MARCIA CARCHMAN ANNAL. WALKER SAMUEL POLLINS BERNARD FREEDMAN MERRILLA. STEINBERG TILLIEGRUNDFEST GERTRUDE MAY SAMUEL TEPP DAVIDELKIN ERIC JAY COHEN DAVID SHAPIRO MARTIN GOPIN ABRAHAM TABACHNICK ROSLYN SHAPIRO SHAW

DR. FRANCIS LEHR LEWIS D. BUSCH EDITH NORTON HILL MARVIN LALIN ELSIE MAIER MINNIE MAY HELLTHAL JOSEPH HERTZ AARON LEDERMAN H. WILLIAM FISCH III VNIAN BALTIN ROSENTHAL SYLVIA MICHELSON ELSIE MENDEL DAVIS MORRIS B. LANDIS MARY REIDER EVELYNRUBINFELD SYLVIA KRAUT

SHABBAT May 20, 2005 SYLVIACOHEN BENJAMIN SAMUEL WEBER HANNAH SIMON ANNA ANDER LANDIS ROSE SARKIN GIRSHON BETTY WEINSTEIN ARTHURBARKOE ADOLPH GREENFIELD FLO ROSE HAROLD SKLAREW DEBORAHFLAKS MAE S. STRAUSS MORRIS ROTH HARRY L. KAUFMAN GERTRUDE N. MIRSKY FERDINAND HETIENBACH PHILIP M. KING DAVID ASOFSKY DR IRVING E. RINEBERG ALBERT L. AXEL ALEX EDENBAUM EVACARLYN SILVERMAN ABE HORN SYLVIARASHBA JEROME STRAUSS MICHAEL MlDLER LEMUEL L. STRAUSS N. HARRY MASKIN PHILIP H. BRUSKIN SHEVELIN FISCHER SAMUEL LINSENBAUM

SHABBAT May 27, 2005 ESTHER MOLLY GLADSTONE TESSIE REISS CHARLES SNYDER ABRAHAM RIFKIN ANNIE DEUTSCH RAY BREUER SOLOMON RICHARD EDWARD GOLDBERG MARJORIE GOLDMAN FRIEDA KELTON HARRY SELINGER ABRAHAM GREENFIELD JEANETTE HOFFMAN BUSCH EDWARDG THAU DANIEL FREEMAN TILLIE KRAFCHIK ISABELLE GROSSMAN ROSE LEVIN ARCHBOLD

INMEMORIAM

CHARLES DISTEFANO father of Ina Horn

JULIA FEIST wife of Herbert Feist

ALBERTO GONZALEZ GANDOLFI father of Diana Gonzalez Gandolfi

RHODA LEVINE mother of Stuart Levine

RITA MEYER mother of Susan Millner

JOE RYZEWICZ father of Keith Ryzewicz

ALBERTSANDLER father of Michael Sandler

We extend deepest condolences to their families.

May their memory abide for blessing.

Tributes - May 2005 Jewish tradition encourages honoring loved ones andfriends at special times through acts ofTzedakah. We gratefully acknowledge contributions made to the Temple s Special Funds. We appreciate, but do not publish donations to Endowment Funds.

BIMA FLOWER FUND Bar/Bat Mitzvah of: Stephanie Satz

by Diane Pincus, Steve & Juliann Satz Michelle Sholk

by Wendy, Wayne & Jessica Sholk

SPECIAL PUBLICATIONS Bar/Bat Mitzvah of: Stephanie Satz

by Diane Pincus, Steve & Juiliann Satz Michelle Sholk

by Wendy, Wayne & Jessica Sholk

CANTOR'S MUSIC FUND In Honor of: Cantor Anna West Ott

by Evi Isaacson & Family Maria & Ronald Katz

Gail & Howard Weber on the marriage of their daughter Lisa

by Lorry & Bob Leavitt Carol Adelman on the engagement of her daughter Ricki

by Ellen & Michael Brown Lorry & Bob Leavitt

Linda & Alan Getz on the birth of their grandson

by Ellen & Michael Brown Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth of their grandson Max. Miller Nussbaum

by Lorry & Bob Leavitt Joyce & Roger Nussbaum on the birth of their grandson Max. Miller Nussbaum

by Ann & Steve Cohen Sue & Merv Dickinson Marcia Eisenberg Nancy, Paul, David & Adam Harris Sandra & Sol Heckelman Ina & Gerry Horn Joyce Jacobson Sandy & Jerry Katz Elisabeth & Donald King Paula Masciulli, Scott & Gina, Karen & Adam Alice Rich, Geryl, Todd & lIana Debby & Leon Stark

Speedy recovery of David Schlossberg by Ann, Steve & Natan Cohen

In Memory of: Rhoda Bachman

by Ellen & Michael Brown Sandra & Sol Heckelman

Julia Feist by Bernice & Harold Bruskin Barbara & Malcolm Busch Joanne & Les Katchen Ellen & Karl Rebarber Dr. Norman Reitman

NomeiGelb by Bea & John Adler

NER TAMID FUND BarIBat Mitzvah of: Stephanie Satz

by Diane Pincus, Steve & Juliann Satz Michelle Sholk

by Wendy, Wayne & Jessica Sholk In Honor of: Steve Satz & Diane Pincus on the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter Stephanie

by Roberta & Harvey Stone Gail & Howard Weber on the marriage of their daughter Lisa

by Roberta, Harvey & Alison Stone Julie & Ted Feldman on the birth of their daughter Naomi

by Birdie Lefkowits Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth of their grandson Max. Miller Nussbaum

by Connie & Sam Landis In Memory of: Cantor Robert Cohen

by Elaine & Franklin Simon Charles DiStefano

Thelma Miller Lee, Marvin, & Andrew Zektzer

Julia Feist by Harriet Steinberg

Mitchell Scott Rubin by Elaine & Franklin Simon

Max. Schwartz by Birdie Lefkowits

LffiRARYFUND In Honor of: Bernice & Harold Bruskin on the Bat Mitzvah of their granddaughter Hanna

by Adelaide & Terry Brenner Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth of their grandson Max. Miller Nussbaum

by Leda & Barry Tepp Speedy recovery of Harriet Stoll

by Adelaide & Terry Brenner In Memory of: Verna Adler

by Adelaide & Terry Brenner Julia Feist

by Adelaide & Terry Brenner Estelle & Edgar Rosenberg Ruth & Norman Rosenberg

MAX MARDER FUND In Honor of: Mr. & Mrs. William Kastan on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson

by Bernice & Fred Swidler Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth of their grandson Max. Miller Nussbaum

by Bobby & Bob Stone & Rick Goldman

Beth, David, Marni & Michael Zahorsky Carrie & Jed Nussbaum on the birth of their son Max.

by Rosalind Blinder Ann & Steve Cohen

Speedy recovery of Bruce Frank by Bernice & Fred Swidler

Debra Lotz, Max.el Tov in your new home

by Blossom & Jerry Lowen & Family Bobby & Bob Stone & Family

Special birthday of Harriet Stoll by Barbara & Kurt Nathan

In Memory of: Barbara Brooks

by Ann & Steve Cohen Julia Feist

by Barbara & Monroe Glitzer Sally & Nathan Hindes

YOUTHACT~TmSFUND

In Honor of: Rabbi Neal & Heidi Gold, Best Wishes

by Barbara & Malcolm Busch Gail & Howard Weber on the marriage of your daughter Lisa to Bill

by Lois & Steve Cartmell Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth of their grandson Max. Miller Nussbaum

by Sue & Ira Barkoe & Family Lois & Steve Cartmell Debbie, Joe & Beth Cohn Marcia Eisenberg

Barbara Sigman by Shari & Marc Rothstein

Mark Szachara by Shari & Marc Rothstein

CARING COMMUNITY FUND Bar/Bat Mitzvah of: AriellaAxelbank

by Paula, Rick, Gabriel, Ethen & Elijah Reiss

[n Honor of: Rabbi Neal Gold

by Maria & Ronald Katz Marriage of Teresa Schaer & Eric Arbitblit

by Thelma Miller Arlene Reiter

Susan & Bruce Arbeiter on the birth of their grandson

by Rachel & Michael Silverstein Audrey & Gary Fass on the birth of your granddaughter

by Joan & David Mitzner Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth of their grandson Max. Miller Nussbaum

by Jerry & Doris Kahn Gunsher Barbara & Kurt Nathan Ruth M. Patt

Joyce & Roger Nussbaum on the birth of their grandson Max Miller Nussbaum

by Sydney & Charles Brandwein Florence & Joe Freedman Shari & Marc Rothstein Ruth M. Patt

Speedy recovery of Sue Berlin by Connie & Sam Landis Paula Masciulli Paula, Rick, Gabriel, Ethan & Elijah Reiss

Complete recovery of Lorraine Levine by Paula Weitzen

Speedy recovery of Paula Masciulli by Deborah & Cary Chern iss

Speedy recovery of Carol Paszarnant by Thelma Shriber

Speedy recovery of David Schlossberg Shari, Marc, Adam & Emily Rothstein

Harriet & Milton Stoll by Fran Susswein

In Memory of: Barbara Brooks

by Jane & Phil Cantor Charles DiStefano

by Tracey & Marc Weingarten & Family Julia Feist

by Florence & Joe Freedman Carol Ginsberg Barbara & Kurt Nathan Ruth M. Patt Thelma Shriber Adelaide S. Zagoren

Tillie & Julie Fetner by Claire & Norman Pemstein

NomeiGelb by Turbi & Paul Smilow Debby & Leon Stark Gail & Howard Weber & Family

Myrl Goldberg by Phyllis & Maurice Michelson & Family

Ben Padulsky by Adele & Jack Borrus

Bert Troll by Florence & Joe Freedman

P.T.O. FUND In Honor of: Susan & Bruce Arbeiter on the birth of your grandson Samuel

by Sydney & Charles Brandwein

RINA B.PAKENHAM MEM.FUND In Honor of: \ Carol Adelman on the engagement of her daughter Ricki

by Roberta & Jordon Brown Michal Feinmesser & Avidor Orr on the engagement of their son Asaf

by Roberta & Jordon Brown In Memory of: Stacey Salomon

by Sandy & Steven Lenger

TZEDAKAH FUND In Honor of: Lori Freedman & JeffAxelbank on the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter Ariella

by Ann & Steve Cohen Marriage of Teresa Schaer & Eric Arbitblit

by Barbara & Malcolm Busch Gail & Howard Weber on the marriage oftheir daughter Lisa to William Rowell

by Ann & Steve Cohen Susan & Steve Darien on the birth of thei r grandson Eli

by Ann & Steve Cohen Marcia Eisenberg

May & Michael Frankel on the birth of their granddaughter Robyn

by Marcia Eisenberg Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth of their grandson Max Miller Nussbaum

by Barbara & Malcolm Busch Diane Pincus & Steven Satz Debby & Leon Stark

Carrie & Jed Nussbaum on the birth of their son Max

by Marcia Eisenberg Joyce & Roger Nussbaum on the birth of their grandson Max Miller Nussbaum

by Barbara & Malcolm Busch Speedy recovery of Sue Berlin

by Linda & Alan Getz Speedy recovery of Paula Masciulli

by Diane Pincus & Steve Satz Speedy recovery of Norman Rosenberg

by Barbara & Malcolm Busch Linda & Alan Getz

Norma Arbit by Gladys Schwartz

Edith Baldinger by Gladys Schwartz

Ruth Bickhardt by Gladys Schwartz

Sandra & Sol Heckelman by Gladys Schwartz

Dr. Jac C. Heckelman on receiving the first annual Gordon Pullock Prize for best article in Public Choice journal by a young scholar

by Sandra & So I Heckelman Hussner Family for your anniversaries & Birthdays

by Fay Sosnick Rose Kenter

by Gladys Schwartz Mr. & Mrs. AI Kislin

by Gladys Schwartz Dr. Norman Reitman

by Gladys Schwartz Birthday of Douglas Rosenthal

by Suzie, Leigh & Abigail Wise Ethel Roth

by Gladys Schwartz

Special Birthday of Iris Zehnaker by Rochelle & Steve Kornfeld

In Memory of: NomeiGelb.

by Marcia Eisenberg Julia Feist

by Sandra & So I Heckelman Rita Meyer

by Ann, Steve & Noah Cohen Irving Schwartz

by Ann & Steve Cohen Paula Masciulli

SPECIAL CHILDREN'S EDUCATION & DAY CARE FUND In Honor of: Rabbi Claudio Kogan

by Maria & Ronald Katz Paula Masciulli on the marriage of her daughter Karen

by Toni & Steve Kozak Rosabell & Michael Abend on the engagement of their daughter Mandy

by Anne Paszarnant Carol Adelman on the engagement of her daughter Ricki

by Toni & Steve Kozak Susan & Steve Darien on the birth oftheir grandson Eli

by Sharon Karmazin & Dave Greene Susan & Philip Fischer on the birth of their grandson

by Sharon Karmazin Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth oftheir grandson Max Miller Nussbaum

by Dorothy & Richard Bruskin Karen & David Goldstein & Family Sharon Karmazin & Dave Greene Anne Paszamant Thelma Shriber

Carrie & Jed Nussbaum on the birth of their son Max

by Sharon Karmazin & Dave Greene Anne Paszamant

Joyce & Roger Nussbaum on the birth of their grandson Max Miller Nussbaum

by Frankie & Mark Busch Karen & David Goldstein & Family Sharon Karmazin & Dave Greene

Speedy recovery of Betty Beitler by Karen & David Goldstein & Family Anne Paszarnant

Special Birthday of Martin Stein by Dorothy & Richard Bruskin

In Memory of: Shirley Panitch

by Anne Paszamant Barry Weisman

by Dorothy & Richard Bruskin

RABBI MILLER'S CRAI FUND In Honor of: Rabbi Bennett Miller

by Maria & Ronald Katz

Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth of their grandson Max Miller Nussbaum

by Linda & Bert Busch Maxine & Marty Chodroff & Family Ann, Steve, Noah, Adam & Natan Cohen Barbara & Monroe Glitzer Glenda & Ken Gordon & Family Nancy, Paul, David & Adam Harris Sandra & Sol Heckelman Joyce Jacobson Sandy & Jerry Katz Elisabeth & Donald King Paula Masciulli, Scott & Gina, Karen & Adam Roberya & Alex Metzger Alice Rich, Geryl, Todd & llana Rhoda Rosenbusch & Family Shari & Marc Rothstein Gail & Howard Weber & Family Lee, Marvin, Carly & Andrew Zektzer

Carrie & Jed Nussbaum on the birth of their son Max

by Linda & Bert Busch Sandy & Jerry Katz

Speedy recovery of Max Eisenberg by Alan, Gary & Marc Eisenberg

In Memory of: Sylvia Eisenberg

by Alan Eisenberg

SHOSHANA PARSELLS YOUTH EDUCATION FUND In Honor of: Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth of their grandson Max Miller Nussbaum

by Debbie & Marty Friedman In Memory of: Charles DiStefano

by Jane, Steve, Rachel & Caryn Miller Julia Feist

by Martin Friedman & Family Rhoda Levine

by Jane, Steve, Rachel & Caryn Miller

MYRLGOLDBERG MEMORIAL FUND In honor of: Nathan Goldberg on the birth of your great grandson Max Miller Nussbaum

by Paula Masciulli, Scott & Gina, Karen & Adam Sue & Alan Rubinfeld

Rabbi Bennett & Joan Miller on the birth of their grandson Max Miller Nussbaum

by Bea & John Adler Roberta & Jordon Brown Sue & Merv Dickinson Shelly & Brian Dubin Florence & Joe Freedman Sally & Nathan Hindes Ina & Gerry Horn Lorraine Levine Sue & Alan Rubinfeld Roberta, Harvey & Alison Stone

Sandi & Don Sulam Paula Weitzen Marcia & David Zajac & Family

Carrie & Jed Nussbuam on the birth of their son Max

by Roberta & Jordon Brown Shelly & Brian Dubin Sandra & Josh Leibner Sue & Alan Rubinfeld

Joyce & Roger Nussbaum on the birth of their grandson Max Miller Nussbaum

by Roberta & Jordon Brown Sue & Alan Rubinfeld

In Memory of: Myrl Goldberg

by Susan & Fred Bear Ellen & Michael Brown Bernice & Harold Bruskin Dorothy & Richard Bruskin Lois & Steve Cartmell Gloria Cohn & Sam Schmidt Shelly & Brian Dubin Dianne & Norman Finkelstein Sally & Nathan Hindes Maria & Ronald Katz Debbie & Steve Kropf Arlene Reiter Stacey & Adam Rubinfeld Sue & Alan Rubinfeld Lauren Rubinfeld Lee & Lewis Stein Roberta, Harvey & Alison Stone

.MauL 5(W. ... SUSAN & STEVE DARIEN on the birth of their grandson, Eli Erber SUSAN & PHILIP FISCHER on the birth of their grandson Noah Jack MAY & MICHAEL FRANKEL on the birth of their granddaughter, Robyn Rachel PHYLLIS & MAURICE MICHELSON on the birth of your granddaughter Dylan Arielle JOAN & RABBI BENNEIT MILLER and JOYCE & ROGER NUSSBAUM on the birth of their grandson, Max Miller Nussbaum SUE DECKMAN & SANDY DECKMAN on the engagement of their daughter, Rebecca

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ReI. School Closed Read Hebrew America 6:30pm Gen A1ef - 7:30pm ~ NFTY Spring Kallab ~ Beinoni - 6:30pm Lunchtime Talmud 12:30prr Board of Trustees Torah Study - 9:30am

Makhelat Anshe Shulchan Ivri - 6:30pm AETY Board - 6: 15pm Community Yom HaShoah Shabbat Dinner 5:45pm MAP - 9:30am Emeth Open House II am Adult B' nai Mitzvah Congregational & Board of Memorial Program at Shabbat Evening Ser. 7:30pm Back to Basics - 9:30am

Gen Alef Beer & Pizza Party Class 7:30pm Trustees - 8pm Nicholas Auditorium 7:30pm Minyan - 10:40am Shabbat Morning Ser. I I am R.S. Tefillah Ser. I I : 15am

8 9 10 11 12 13 14 SAT Read Hebrew America 6:30pm Pilates & Stretch - 9:45am Youth Committee Pilates & Stretch - 9:45am Shabbat & Yom Ha Atzmaut Torah Study - 9:30am

Beinoni - 6:30pm CDC Family Ser. 7:30pm MAP - 9:30am Shulchan Ivri - 6:30pm

Lunchtime Talmud 12:30pm Makhelat Anshe Emeth 8pm Back to Basics - 9:30am Makhelat Anshe Adult B ' nai Mitzvah

Emeth 10:45am Class 7:30pm MAETY/JAETY Patriots Minyan - 10:40am

Game Shabbat Morning Ser. II am

ReI. School Comm -7 :30pm R.S. Tefillah Ser. II: 15am ~ NFTY Spring Kallab ~

15 16 17 18 19 20 21 Books & Bagelsl0:30am Read Hebrew America Pilates & Stretch - 9:45am Gen A1ef - 7:30pm Pilates & Stretch - 9:45am

Torah Study - 9:30am

Makhelat Anshe 6 :30pm Legacy Campaign Shabbat MAP - 9:30am

Emeth 10:45am Beinoni - 6:30pm Lunchtime Talmud 12:30pm Day Care Comm 5pm Golf Outing Dinner 5:45 pm Back to Basics - 9:30am

Rosh Chodesh Group 7:30pm Shulchan Ivri - 6:30pm Officers Meeting 7pm Makhelat Anshe Emeth 8pm Shabbat Leladeem 7pm Minyan - 10:40am Adult B'nai Mitzvah Shabbat Evening Ser. 7:30prr Shabbat Morning Ser. II am

Class 7:30pm R.S. Tefi llah Ser. II : 15am Spring Choral Concert

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22 23 24 25 26 27 28 Talmud Study - 12:30 pm Shabbat Evening Ser. 7:30pm

Keepers of Jewish ReI. School Closed Makhelat Anshe Excellence 7:30pm Makhelat Anshe Emeth 8pm

Emeth 10:45am Membership Comm 8pm Torah Study - 9:30am

Minyan - I 0:40am Shabbat Morn ing Ser. II am

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