the river rushes on the power of the river making connections and change tom cody, willow sweeney...
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The River Rushes On
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The Power of the RiverMaking Connections and Change
Tom Cody, Willow Sweeney and Paul Bernabei
Top 20 Training’s Mission:
To enable people to discover their inner power to reach their potential and make a positive difference in their lives and the lives of others.
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Why Are We Here?
1.To enhance the lives of children by ourunique power to make connections and
see new possibilities.2.To provide a practical tool that can be applied
in situations where change is necessary.
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A Drop in the BucketMitch Barrett and Carla Gover
It’s a crazy world we live in, bad news all around.Brothers and sisters, if we’re gonna make a differenceWe’re gonna have to stand our ground.
It’s a drop in the bucket, and a bucket in the pond,And the pond fills the river, and the river rushes on.Every river swells a river, until the power can’t be stoppedAnd what becomes a mighty ocean, started as a drop.
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The Frame
What We See Is What We Get
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The Frame
SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
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Making Connections
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SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
WHAT’S BEHIND THE FRAME?
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SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
BELIEFS
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SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
MESSAGES
BELIEFS
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Core MessagesIdentity
Worth
Purpose
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Potential: a power within us
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Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits
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Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated
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Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated so it can come through us to make a positive difference
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Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated so it can come through us to make a positive difference in the quality of our lives, relationships and experiences
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Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated so it can come through us to make a positive difference in the quality of our lives, relationships and experiences and, in doing so, make a difference in the livesof others.
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Potential
TIME
POTENTIAL
Bottom 80’s
Top 20’s T
L
C
= Think
= Learn
= Communicate
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Circumference Messages in the Land of OP
Core Messages
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Circumference Messages in the Land of OP
Core Messages
OPOs (Opinions)
OPEs (Expectations)
OPAs (Agendas)
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Circumference Messages in the Land of OP
Core Messages
OPOs (Opinions)
OPEs (Expectations)
OPAs (Agendas)
POP (Please Other People)
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Our Life Tree
I Matter I am Good Enough
I don’t Matter I am Not Good Enough
GE Messages NGE Messages
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Making Change
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Lanesboro Family Reunion
The Frame
SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
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Black Hills Family Reunion
The Frame
SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
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When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing
80
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When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing2. Change ‘Do’
80
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When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing2. Change ‘Do’3. Blame -Give away power -Become a victim -Stuck in yuck
80
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When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing2. Change ‘Do’3. Blame -Give away power -Become a victim -Stuck in yuck
80
Change See: Get Curious -Ask: How can I see this differently?
20
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RIGHT VS. CURIOUS
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FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE-
SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIF-
IC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE
EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS.
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FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE-
SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIF-
IC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE
EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS.
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Are you sure you are seeing what you think you are seeing?
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Three kinds of Right
Right = Right80
20 Right = Wrong
Right = Right +(Correct but incomplete)
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4. Practice the Lesson of the Crack:Say “Maybe”
How can we see more?
1. Create a crisis2. Ask someone
else3. Change roles
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• We are blind• We don’t know it• We think we’re right• We blame• We lose power• We stay stuck in yuck
• We are blind• We know it• We stay curious• We take responsibility• We maintain power• We make a difference
80 20
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The River Rushes On