the quill of alpha xi delta - spring 2013

Spring 2013

Pink Jams founded by Sister Christina Floresca

Reestablishing Alpha Xi Delta’s Beta Eta Chapter

Sisters helping Sisters after Hurricane Sandy

Pink Jams founded by Sister Christina Floresca

Reestablishing Alpha Xi Delta’s Beta Eta Chapter

Sisters helping Sisters after Hurricane Sandy

ImpactedImpactedby the spirit

of SisterhoodEnriching the bond between

mother and daughter

LetterNational President’s

Dear Sisters,Every April Alpha Xi Deltas gather to

celebrate our Sisterhood at Founders’ Dayevents. This is a time for us to reflect on whatmakes our Sisterhood so special and howmembership in Alpha Xi Delta bridges thegap between generations, distances and lifeexperiences. All of our lives have beenenriched by Alpha Xi Delta and will continue

to impact our journey in life, even when we least expect it. In this issue, we will meet three women who share how the

bond between mother and daughter has been enriched because oftheir Sisterly bonds within their families. Membership in Alpha XiDelta encourages women to realize their potential in the values wehold so dear. These values help us grow and teach us how to developinto a strong and more womanly character. In turn, we pass theseinfluences on to others – our daughters, nieces, cousins, students andother Alpha Xi Delta Sisters.

As members of the Greek community, Alpha Xi Deltas support allGreek organizations and are dedicated to promoting and advancingthe sorority experience. Personally, I have had the chance to developvery meaningful, lifetime friendships with my Panhellenic sisters. Onespecial bond I have is with my niece, Brooke Edwards. She is amember of Pi Beta Phi and was initiated at the University of Kentucky(UK). It’s always fun to chat with Brooke about her sorority experience,our love of all things UK and how she continues to stay in touch with her Pi Phi Sisters since graduation in 2010. Although ourorganizations may have different rituals, we all hold the same corevalues close to our hearts and cherish the sorority experience.

This summer we’re taking Alpha Xi Delta on the road to SanFrancisco for our 50th National Convention. If you’ve never been toConvention, or have been away from our Sisterhood for some time,

Convention is a place to reconnect, rekindle and feel renewed in yourAlpha Xi Delta membership. You can read more about Convention onpages 11-12. We hope to see you there!

Remember to take time to celebrate Alpha Xi Delta this spring, andnever miss a chance to tell others how Alpha Xi Delta has enrichedyour life. You never know what connection you’ll make or who you’llmeet that may also cherish our special bond.

Loyally,

Sandi EdwardsNational President

Family Bonds Enriched By Sisterhood

On the cover: Vikki Gehring, North Carolina - Wilmington ’98, and her daughterAmanda. Amanda is a member of Sigma Sigma Sigma National Sorority.Photo Credit: Sara Bolton, photography major and member of Sigma SigmaSigma National Sorority at Barton College.

Alpha Xi Delta National President Sandi Edwards andher niece, Brooke, recently reconnected at the 85thbirthday party of Sandi’s mother. Brooke is a memberof Pi Beta Phi’s chapter at the University of Kentucky.

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ContentsThe Quill of Alpha Xi Delta is published

three times per year in spring, summer andfall/winter by Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity.®

POSTMASTER: Send address changes to THE QUILL OF ALPHA XI DELTA,

8702 Founders Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268

Volume 110/Issue 1Copyright 2013 by Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity;

all rights reserved.

Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity 8702 Founders Road

Indianapolis, IN 46268317.872.3500

[email protected]

Submission DeadlinesSpring issue – January 23

Summer issue – June 1Fall/Winter issue – September 6

Submission ProceduresText and photographs may be emailed to

the Editor or to the Fraternity Headquartersaddress listed above. Photographs submittedbecome the property of the Fraternity. Digital

images must be taken using the highestsettings on a camera that’s at least 3.2

megapixels.

Address/Name ChangesVisit www.alphaxidelta.org or mail changes to

8702 Founders Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46268.

National Executive DirectorElysia Balster Gallivan, South Dakota ’93

Director of Communications and Marketing Lauren Blankenbaker Felts, Indiana ’03

Communications CoordinatorLauren Fisher, Indiana ‘08

National Council 2011-2013National President

Sandi Edwards, Kentucky ’75

National Vice PresidentsMichele Herbst Evink, South Dakota State ’86

Nancy Fehremann Gainer, Iowa State ’69Gina Willis Hawkins, Jacksonville State ’86Jennifer Emerick Kuntz, Northern Iowa ’92

Wendy Kurtz, Indiana ’90Nealy Patty Wheat, West Georgia ’97

The Mission of The Quill of Alpha Xi DeltaTo inform, inspire and challenge.

To sustain and nurture membership loyalty and interest.

To recognize individual, group and Fraternity accomplishments.

To provide a forum for the exchange of information and opinion.

To be the permanent record for the Fraternity.

of Alpha Xi Delta

In This Issue5 New, Now, Next

6 Housing News

7 National PanhellenicConference News

19 Beta Eta ChapterInstallation

23 Philanthropy News

28 Member News

33 Stay Connected

35 Be The Heart

36 Alumna Profile

37 Tales From The Road

41 Foundation

42 From the Archives

43 Chapter Eternal

45 Living Our Symphony

Realize Your PotentialRead about a Sister’s mission to save lives bypromoting breast cancer awareness and earlydetection among younger men and women.

50th National ConventionDon’t miss the fun in San Francisco, June 30-July 3, 2013

Impacted by A Shared SisterhoodThree Sisters share how the bond between motherand daughter has been enriched because of theirAlpha Xi Delta membership.

A Voice For AutismA Sister shares the story of her brother andwhat she is doing to raise awareness of autismspectrum disorders.

39Sister to SisterThe bonds of Sisterhood prevail in the aftermathof Hurricane Sandy.

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Alpha Xi Ties and MemoriesI am not an Alpha Xi Delta Sister, but my daughter is a memberat Towson University, Theta Delta Chapter, and I enjoy readingher editions of The Quill when they arrive. In 1968-69 I was asophomore from Trenton State College (now The College of NewJersey) who was spending a year as a domestic exchangestudent at Gorham State College (now The University ofSouthern Maine). My roommate, Mary Michaud, was one of thecolony members in the photo pictured above at the end of thethird row on page 45. I recognize Judi Jackson Lord in the centerand can even name many of the other girls pictured. I was amember of a Greek organization back at Trenton State so I wasnot able to affiliate, but enjoyed the company of those girls in an“honorary” capacity for that wonderful year.

Joan Frieder Smith, Friend of Alpha Xi Delta (Trenton State College ’71)

In 1958, I became a Sister of Beta Xi Chapter of ΑΞΔ at MariettaCollege in Marietta, Ohio. After college graduation, I taught highschool in Ohio, The Republic of Panama and for the oil company’sschool in Maracaibo, Venezuela -- all before marriage and movingto Maine. My first teaching assignment in Maine was at Gorham State College as an instructor of Physical Education. In additionto the teaching assignment, I was to meet with several differentcommittees. One responsibility was to advise and monitor agroup of young women who had formed a local sorority.

To make a long story short, this group of college womenmoved from a local sorority to a national sorority via mysuggestions and ΑΞΔ Fraternity Headquarters. I remembernational representatives from the Fraternity were extremely proudto say that “ΑΞΔ was well-represented from Maine to California.”

Time has a way of passing all too quickly. It took thefall/winter issue of The Quill to spark my memory. Sisterhood isa journey that will last a lifetime.

Pegge Jo Elliot McHugh, Marietta ’58

A Proud Aunt and SisterI am proud of my grand-nephew’s ride across America with theJourney of Hope-Push America team last summer. It was a thrillto read Noelle Corrado’s article and know that she accompaniedthem. She is an Alpha Xi Delta extraordinaire! When Tyler Swobreplied to my email that Noelle indeed did represent Alpha XiDelta well and that he was extremely happy with his choice, I wasespecially proud to be Tyler’s aunt and an Alpha Xi, too!

Libby Marshall Hammond, Bowling Green ’56

What’s On Your Mind?Have a comment about an article in The Quill? Drop us an emailat [email protected] or send a note to The Quill, 8702Founders Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268. We reserve the right toselect letters for publication and to edit for style and length.

CONNECT with US!

Keep Up the Good Work!I just read the fall/winter issue of The Quill and was so happy to seethe timeline related to Alpha Xi Delta’s MILLION DOLLARS raised forAutism Speaks! As a parent of a child heavily impacted by autism, itis heartwarming to see this organization’s support of anotherorganization so dear to us. We are involved with Autism Speaks on alocal level and have done the Walk Now for Autism Speaks (Benny’sBuddies) for the last seven years. Keep up the good work and knowthat Alpha Xi Delta’s support of Autism Speaks has made an impact!

Jamee Klein, Northern Iowa, ’90

Alumnae Outing to Miss Mamie’s Cupcakes,Cakes and SuchAtlanta North Metro Alumnae Association members visited MissMamie’s Cupcakes, Cakes and Such on the Square in Marietta,Georgia, for a fun evening of fellowship and to learn how todecorate cupcakes! We were all thrilled to meet Mamie Doyle,Alma ’07, who was featured in the summer 2012 issue of TheQuill for winning Cupcake Wars.

Paige Bushart, Valdosta State, ’80

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Social Media Comments@aligracee: I love when my @alphaxidelta #Quill comes in themail! I’m so proud of all my Sisters all over the globe doingamazing things! #XiLove #TFJ

@Alina1621: pledge Sister @Ahhhh_ItsKpet is in The Quill!!! @alphaxidelta @AlphaXiDeltaYSU #xilove #soproud

@HillaryNadler: In the @alphaxidelta Quill with Rebecca!! So cool :)

@MichelleMarchnd: Spending my evening reading the latestQuill of @alphaxidelta!

@BellaBriBito: Lovely article in #TheQuill @smitley_13!!!

@kahlinmck: @alphaxidelta, you made my night with the@RepresentPledge article in The Quill! This is what sorority isabout. #changetheconvo #missrep

@TeresaNymick: Read the article from the @alphaxidelta#QuillMag written by @smitley_13 about @ParkandMadison.Sweet story about entrepreneurial spirit!

@ally_1121: @alphaxidelta the article by Sandi Edwards aboutthe future in The Quill is just what I needed before moving awayto take a dream internship

@rebeccahirsch: Enjoying the latest issue of The Quill from@alphaxidelta and there’s the MU ladies from @AXiD_ThetaEp!Congrats! #TFJ

CORRECTION: On page 36 of the summer 2012 issue of The Quill, the email address for the Pittsburgh AlumnaeAssociation was listed incorrectly. The correct email address [email protected]. The Fraternity apologizes for this erro r.


Fraternity News

New | NOW | NextNew | New Sisters at Bucknell UniversityIn November 2012, Alpha Xi Delta received and accepted aninvitation to colonize at Bucknell University, located inLewisburg, Pennsylvania. On February 10, Alpha Xi Deltas fromPenn State University, Fraternity volunteers and staff gatheredat Bucknell to celebrate bid day with the colony members. AlphaXi Delta is the 7th National Panhellenic Conference sorority tojoin Bucknell’s campus.

Now | The Inside InkAlpha Xi Delta launched the Fraternity’s official blog, TheInside Ink, last spring. Since then, we have added new featureseach month for our readers. Here are the top five topics tocheck out now!

1. Featured Fridays: Every Friday we feature a licensed vendor.Past product features include Alpha Xi Delta boot socks, TervisTumblers, yoga mats and accessories from Pottery Barn.

2. Throwback Thursdays: The second Thursday of every monthwe throw it back Alpha Xi Delta style with vintage buttons,songs and photos.

3. Member and Philanthropy News: We get photos and storiesfor our member news and philanthropy news sections thatcan’t always fit into our printed version of The Quill. We postall the stories and photos that aren’t printed in The Quill ontoour blog after each issue is mailed.

4. Instagram Monthly Recap: If you’re on Instagram, follow usat @alphaxidelta. Every month we post a recap of Alpha XiDelta in Instagram photos with the special hashtag for thatmonth. We post the hashtag on social media and on TheInside Ink.

5. Playlists: Every season the Fraternity’s staff picks ourfavorite tunes and puts them into a Spotify playlist. Spotify is a free music streaming service that is accessible via the internet.

Next | Alpha Xi Delta colonizing at theUniversity of Nebraska at Kearney this fallLocated in Kearney, Nebraska, the University of Nebraska atKearney (UNK) is one of four University of Nebraska schools. UNK is committed to providing an outstanding education to itsnearly 7,100 students.

Alpha Xi Delta will rejoin the UNK community this fall. A nationalteam of Alpha Xi Delta alumnae will visit campus in the coming weeks to meet with campus administrators and key student leaders. Afull, Fraternity-coordinated colonization effort will occur this fall,followed by a five-year period of extra care as this new chapter’ssuccess is fostered and assured.

Alpha Xi Delta first installed its Delta Gamma Chapter at theUniversity of Nebraska Kearney in 1962. It was the first national Greek organization at Kearney State College (now UNK). In 1969, the chapter became dormant.

Alpha Xi Delta colonizing at the Universityof South Carolina in 2016Alpha Xi Delta announced in February that we have beenselected to join the University of South Carolina’s fraternity andsorority community in fall 2016. The University of SouthCarolina is a thriving campus with more than 23,000undergraduate students. Founded in 1801, the University ofSouth Carolina boasts the top publicuniversity honors program andoffers 324 degree programsthrough its 14 degree-grantingcolleges and schools.


What does it take to build orsignificantly renovate a chapter facility?Whether you are considering building a chapter facility from theground up or updating an existing space, any significantconstruction project requires time, money and a LOT of homework.We spoke with Michael Hug of Hug & Associates, Architects whospecializes in the design of fraternal housing and understands the unique challenges of developing attractive, functional andaffordable chapter housing – about what Alpha Xi Deltas shouldconsider for major sorority housing projects.

NHC: Beyond the “big idea” for a new house or renovation, what’sthe first practical step? MH: Before design begins, engage a cross-section of your alumnaeand collegians in a critical thinking exercise that will set the project’soverall direction. Today’s collegians have different needs andexpectations than past generations; by involving them early, you willensure the chapter facility will attract today’s student. An architectexperienced in fraternal house design can assist with this process.

NHC: What are some basic programming items to consider?MH: Here’s a list – by no means exhaustive – to get you started:• Are there unique features of the existing facility that define the

chapter’s personality? Some examples include swimming pools,private bathrooms, sleeping porches and/or distinctive exteriorfaçade features.

• What are the styles of other facilities on campus? Are mostfacilities contemporary, or do they lean toward historical styleslike Greek Revival or English Tudor?

• Consider multi-use spaces versus specialized spaces. For example,will the dining room double as the chapter room? Could it?

• Are the furniture, walls and flooring durable enough? Chooseoptions that will uphold the everyday wear and tear of a chapter’sneeds. A sofa you put in your own home may not survive thedaily use of 100+ people. Choose commercial grade products tosave time and money in the long run.

NHC: How far ahead should we plan for a major construction project?MH: Each project is unique, but here’s a typical sample schedule:

Note the long timeframe required for fundraising; which often gets overlooked but is, of course, critical to many projects. Total time, start to finish (assuming no breaks in the project):26-38 months

NHC: Let’s talk budget. How do we get our arms around what amajor project will cost?MH: Be as detailed as you can about costs, revenues and cash flow.The number of beds will be the most significant determiner of therevenue you’ll receive from the property, the square footagerequired and the construction costs. Remember that owner’s costsare not included in construction costs. The diagram above shows thedifferent product cost relationships. Pick the two most importantvariables and allow one to vary.

Learn more about Hug & Associates, Architects at www.HugArchitects.com,or call 678.297.2929.

Timeframe Task

3-4 weeks: Predesign and Programming

8-26 weeks: Fundraising Feasibility Study

4-6 weeks: Plan Design

3-4 weeks: Prepare Rendered Presentation Drawings for Fundraising

26-52 weeks: Fundraising Campaign

6-8 weeks: Design Development (finalize design decisions)

3-4 weeks: Pricing by Contractors

10-14 weeks: Preparation of Construction Documents

4-5 weeks: Bidding and Permitting

2-3 weeks: Contractor Negotiation

32-45 weeks: Construction (Try to avoid conflict with recruitment!) Cost

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As an Alpha Xi Delta who is proudly making yourmembership known to all around you, you may be askedfrom time to time for advice -- by neighbors, students,

relatives -- about sorority recruitment. To provide sorority womenwith an up-to-date resource for responding to such questions andto help potential new members (PNMs) navigate the sororityrecruitment process, the National Panhellenic Conference (NPC),the umbrella organization for 26 inter/national women’sfraternities and sororities, has created RecruitmentPREP.

RecruitmentPREP is a step-by-step website that informs,educates and prepares young women for recruitment. Throughthis website, PNMs learn what recruitment is, what to expect each day of recruitment and the myths and facts behind the process.

Why use RecruitmentPREP? In the college and sorority life market, there are numerouspublications about sorority recruitment. Some aspects of thatinformation may be misleading and incorrect. This tool providesPNMs with the most accurate information and is the only

NPC-authorized recruitment preparation tool available to youngwomen who are interested in sorority membership.

RecruitmentPREP is:• An interactive five-step process to prepare young women

for the recruitment process.• A tool that shows a PNM how to be the best she can be

during recruitment.• A meaningful and engaging educational program that

explores the benefits of sorority membership.

RecruitmentPREP is not:• A guarantee that a PNM will become a member of a sorority.• A guarantee that a PNM will receive an invitation to

membership from a chapter that she desires.

To learn more about RecruitmentPREP, visit www.recruitmentprep.com.

For more information about sorority membership, visit NPC’s The Sorority

Life website at www.thesororitylife.com. You can also contact NPC at

www.npcwomen.org.

NewsNPC

PrepPING for RECRUITMENT


By Liala Kaczmarskyj, George Mason ’00

Your PotentialRealize

ROCKS!During my mom’s battle with breast cancer,I was trying to find different ways I could show her my support. I

would often take my mom to her chemotherapy and radiation

treatments, stay with her during hospital visits and help around the

house, as well as spend quality time shopping and enjoying martinis

just to keep her smiling. She would often tell me how much this

helped, but for me, this was not enough. I needed to do more.


One day when I was looking online forsome additional breast cancer researchand outreach programs to get involvedwith, I came across a fashion show forbreast cancer in Washington, D.C. Themodels in the show were all localsurvivors, showcasing local designers,with Betsy Johnson as the headliner. Assoon as I heard about it, I knew I had toget involved and show my support forthis organization. After a little moreresearch, I learned the organization wascalled Pink Jams, which was founded byChrista Floresca, Frostburg State ’94, afterlosing her dear friend Jen to breastcancer in 2007 at the early age of 35.Christa was throwing this event to helpraise funds for the same Avon Two-DayWalk I was signed up for. I decided toemail Christa to see how I could help.Little did I know that the fashion showwould introduce me to not just anamazing woman, but a fellow Alpha XiSister and true friend.

Shortly after my mom passed in 2010,Christa reached out to me to be a part of

the ‘A Thousand Words’ photo exhibit thatPink Jams was co-hosting with Shoot forChange. Survivors, patients andsupporters were asked to take part in the100-photo exhibit. Each person was askedto write a statement on a white boardabout how breast cancer affected theirlives. They would pose with the board fora beautiful black and white portrait. Iremember sitting on the couch, trying tothink of something inspirational and fullof positivity to write. I looked up atChrista, who was wiping away her owntears, and she said, “Just take your time,write from the heart.”

At the exhibit, I had many survivorsand supporters come up and wrap theirarms around me, sharing their storiesand giving me words of encouragement.That night was one of the first nights Ireally felt I was beginning to heal.

While Christa created Pink Jams tofundraise for the Avon walk and to shareJen’s story, she soon realized she wouldneed to expand the primary. When shestarted to support national breast cancer

organizations, she noticed a vital part oftheir outreach programs was missing:The under 40 age group. None of thegroups she was supporting had an under40 outreach and education program. Afterher first event and hearing so manypeople tell their own stories of youngpeople with breast cancer, she knew sheneeded to continue on this journey andraising awareness for those living withbreast cancer under the age of 40 wouldbe the primary mission of Pink Jamsgoing forward.

Four years later, in 2011, Christa’svision became a reality when Pink Jamsbecame a 501(c)(3) charity with themission to save lives by promoting breastcancer awareness and early detectionamong younger men and women (ages18-40). “I realized that in order to reachyoung men and women, and to get themto truly pay attention to our education andawareness message, I needed to find away to engage them using the activitiesthey already enjoy and are comfortablewith,” Christa said. “By utilizing art,

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fashion, dining, social events and livemusic, we are able to deliver a powerfulawareness message in a way that is engaging and non-threatening. The truth is, the discussion of breastcancer is a serious topic, but it doesn’thave to be a somber one.” In addition togrowing a young survivor network andaggressive awareness campaigns targetingcollege-age students, it also providesresources for direct-service charities fortheir patients.

Pink Jams continues to work withlocal celebrities, athletes and youngsurvivors to spread their message. In thefall of 2011, Project Runway winner,Christian Siriano, joined Pink Jams tohost “Pink Rocks The Runway.” Alongwith Christian’s collection, localdesigners created one-of-a-kind pinkdresses, modeled by local breast cancersurvivors. At the event, the survivorsstrutted down the runway and were metwith cheers, applause and standingovations. This past year, Christa andmany volunteers successfully put on

Under:40 Music Marathon, andmusicians from all over the nation playedto support the event, including AmericanIdol winner Phillip Phillips and pastAmerican Idol participant Haley Reinhart.If you ask Christa, she will tell you thatPink Jams has only just begun.

Since its inception, Pink Jams hasconcentrated on awareness in theWashington, D.C. metro area. In the nearfuture, Pink Jams plans to expand theorganization’s programs to other cities inthe region. Additionally, Pink Jams isdeveloping plans to work with collegesand universities to promote breast cancerawareness on campus. When I first metour Alpha Xi Delta Sister, and I heard thepassion with which she told Jen’s story, Iknew this was a woman determined tomake a difference.

I was by my mother’s side for sixyears as she battled four diagnoses ofbreast cancer. As the days got harder, Iknew I could lean on my Sisters. Whenmy mother passed away, Sisters I haven’tseen in years came to hold my hand, sentme cards and called. I cannot stressenough to upcoming students and Sistershow amazing this bond is, and that no onewould ever, ever regret this amazing stepof becoming an Alpha Xi Delta.

It’s been so long since college, beingvery involved in the chapter and thevision that is ΑΞΔ. Along comes thisgreat friendship, with this amazing Sister,that every day makes me realize mypotential. I love my Sisters, and I’m soprivileged to have Christa as one of them.

For more information about PinkJams, visit www.PinkJams.org.

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Make plans now to join us in San Francisco,California, for Alpha Xi Delta’s 50th BiennialConvention, June 30 – July, 3, 2013, at theHilton San Francisco Union Square Hotel. Formore information visit the 2013 Conventionwebsite, www.alphaxideltaconvention.org.

Some attendees will have been membersfor less than a year, and some attendees willhave worn the golden Quill for more than 50years! No matter how long you’ve been anAlpha Xi Delta, no matter your role in theFraternity, you’re invited to attend our 50thNational Convention in San Francisco andcelebrate what makes membership in Alpha XiDelta so special - the bonds of our Sisterhood.

AccommodationsThe Hilton San Francisco Union Square Hotelboasts an ideal location in the heart ofdowntown San Francisco offering easy accessto Nob Hill, Chinatown and fantasticshopping, dining and entertainmentopportunities at Union Square. The Alpha XiDelta Convention room rate is $129 per night.This rate is good two days prior and one daypost Convention.

Registration Online registration is now open via Exclusively Xi. If you are unable to registeronline, please contact Fraternity Headquartersat 317.872.3500 or [email protected] received after May 28, 2013, aresubject to a late registration fee.

Full Convention PackageThis package is required for all votingdelegates. It includes activities beginning on Sunday evening, June 30, 2013, andconcluding with the Rose Banquet onWednesday evening, July 3, 2013. The cost for the full Convention package is $600 andincludes all organized meal functions. Hotelaccommodations and travel expenses are notincluded in this price.

Part-time PackagesThe Celebration Package includes the AwardsCelebration and all activities on Wednesday, July3. The cost for the Celebration Package is $275and includes all organized meal functions.

The Educational Package includes theEducational Sessions, General Session andSisterhood Event. The cost for this package is$185 and includes all organized meal functions.

Individual tickets are available for theOpening Banquet, Philanthropy Breakfast,Awards Celebration and Rose Banquet. Pleasesee Convention registration in Exclusively Xi for pricing.

Getting to ConventionAttendees who are flying to San Francisco canfly to the San Francisco International Airport(SFO), located just 14 miles from the HiltonSan Francisco Union Square Hotel. You mayalso choose to fly into the MetropolitanOakland International Airport (OAK) (20miles from the hotel) or the San JoseInternational Airport (SJC) (50 miles from the hotel).

AttireWith the exception of the events listed below,the attire for Convention is Quill attire.Shorts, halter tops and similar casual clothingare not appropriate.

Welcome Banquet and Awards Celebration:Suitable attire is either a dress or nice pantsuit.

Philanthropy Breakfast: Wear blue to supportour partnership with Autism Speaks™!

Sisterhood Event: Dress is casual.

Initiation Ceremony: White or cream-coloreddress or pantsuit, and white or cream-coloredshoes must be worn for the Initiation.

The Workout: Dress is casual. (Collegians Only)

Rose Banquet: Dress is semi-formal or cocktail attire.

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Other items to pack• Quill badge• Sweater• Sunscreen• Sunglasses• Lip Balm• Camera• Walking Shoes• Umbrella• Money to shop at Xi Boutique

Schedule of EventsSUNDAY, JUNE 30 Marketplace Opens Workout Recruitment Workshop (Collegians Only)Sisterhood EventRose Petals Event

MONDAY, JULY 1 Initiation Delegate OrientationGeneral Session Educational SessionsOpening Banquet

TUESDAY, JULY 2 Philanthropy Breakfast National Chapter MeetingAwards Celebration Afternoon Free Time for Sisterhood Outings

WEDNESDAY, JULY 3 National Chapter MeetingBreakout Educational SessionsConversation Café Rose Banquet

For more information, visitwww.alphaxideltaconvention.org.

Programming and General Session InformationAlpha Xi Delta partnered with Gallup to bringStrengthsQuest to our chapters – a programthat helps members discover and develop theirgreatest talents. Ultimately, StrengthsQuesthelps members learn what they do best andbuild their lives on those talents.

Our general session speaker is Tom Matson,Senior Director of Executive Leadership forGallup Education. During the past 15 years,Matson has spoken to an audience ofthousands each year about leadership, morals,long-range planning and visioning. He iscommitted to challenging leaders to becomeauthentic leaders and fully living out theirstrengths each day.

Over the past decade, Gallup has introducedthe concepts of strengths-based developmentand employee engagement to more than 20million people around the world. Gallup’scomprehensive study of people in more than150 countries has revealed five universal,interconnected elements that shape our lives:Career Wellbeing, Social Wellbeing, FinancialWellbeing, Physical Wellbeing and CommunityWellbeing. Most of our programs at Conventionwill be centered on the five pillars ofwellbeing, allowing Alpha XiDelta to wholly developour members andcontinue to inspirewomen to realizetheir potential.

San Francisco!

Vikki and Amanda proudly displaying their badges.

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Each of us has a story — it is as though our lives are books that are being written andupdated every day as we make choices in life. Some of us think of stories startingwhen we were born, and others recognize that our stories started well before weentered the scene. Three Sisters share how the bond between mother and daughterhas been enriched because of their Alpha Xi Delta membership.

ImpactedBy Vikki Gehring, North Carolina-Wilmington ’87

One of the happiest days of my life was August 30, 1987, myinitiation into the Zeta Chi Chapter of Alpha Xi Delta at theUniversity of North Carolina-Wilmington. I had spent the fall of1986 getting to know these fabulous women and their advisors,and I knew I wanted to be a part of their Sisterhood. I acceptedmy bid in the spring of 1987 and continued to volunteer aftergraduation as life and time permitted.

Then, a glorious opportunity came. Alpha Xi Delta’s Zeta MuChapter was being recolonized at Methodist University in NorthCarolina, and I volunteered with the chapter. When it came timeto install the Methodist University Colony, I was told my mothercould join Alpha Xi Delta through the Fraternity’s AlumnaeInitiate Program. She saw how much Alpha Xi Delta meant to meand jumped at the opportunity to share the experience. Mymother did not attend college, so she experienced college lifethrough my eyes. How exciting it was to be part of the initiationteam (with current NPC Chairman Jane Sutton) that made mymother my Sister!

Years passed. My daughter Amanda was born, and seeminglyovernight, she grew into a young woman.

In 2008 my chapter held a family alumnae brunch and I tookAmanda, who was a high school junior at the time. She had neverexpressed any interest in Greek life, but was not going to turndown a road trip to Wilmington. She ended up falling in love withmy Sisters, and they fell in love with her. My heart was explodingwith pride at the thought my daughter might also become my

Sister! She later told me how wonderful it was to see the instantconnection I had with these collegiate women who I had notpreviously met and to see how quickly they accepted her becauseof me. If this was Sisterhood, Greek life was something shedefinitely wanted to explore.

College applications were mailed and acceptance letters werereceived. Amanda ultimately chose Barton College in Wilson,North Carolina, where there was not an Alpha Xi Delta chapter.My heart was heavy. I seriously considered the possibility of anAlpha Xi Delta expansion, but quickly realized the campus wasnot a candidate for extension. My Sisterhood had such a positiveimpact on my life, and I wanted my daughter to have a similarexperience. I put my selfish desires for a legacy aside andencouraged her to learn about the sororities on her campus to seeif there was a place that interested her. It didn’t take long for herheart to go to Sigma Sigma Sigma, and in Spring 2011, she was initiated.

When the time comes, let yourdaughters follow their hearts, just as each of us has. Support them no matter where life takes them.

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Mary Place (left) and her Sister Claire (right) were founding membersof Alpha Eta at Purdue University. These photos were included inOmega Tau’s petition to Alpha Xi Delta.

So often, it is challenging to keep in touch with our childrenwhen they go to college. But Amanda and I actually grew closer.Because her campus has deferred recruitment, she spent the fallsemester meeting the Greek women and seeing the sororities inaction. She would call and tell me of activities and ask questions.When she signed up for recruitment, she called and we sharedthe excitement. As she went through the nights of parties, sheshared her thoughts with me. I believe I was as nervous as shewas while she waited for bid opening, and I was as excited as shewas when she received her bid.

We continue to share our Greek life. She offers meencouragement and support as I venture off to Area WideTrainings and Alpha Xi Delta alumnae events. I encourage her as she expands her leadership role in her sorority and oncampus. Through our support of each other in Greek life, oursupport for each facet of the other’s life also grows. She claimsthat I continue to inspire her, and she certainly inspires me!

My Alpha Xi Sisters hold a very special place in her heart, as this is where she learned about Sisterhood. Her sisters know Iam an active Alpha Xi Delta and appreciate the support I givethem. As a matter of fact, they call me Auntie Xi. I hope they arelearning two larger lessons through their sorority experience: 1.Sisterhood is for life, not just college; and 2. When the timecomes, let your daughters follow their hearts, just as each of ushas. Support them no matter where life takes them. I believe Ihave instilled this in my daughter through example.

Thanks to Alpha Xi Delta, I have an extra bond with both mymother and my daughter. Although we are a “house divided”, weshare Greek unity and can appreciate those conversations whenone of us pauses and says, “Sorry, I can’t tell you that…”

Impacted by a leader's legacyBy Lauren Fisher, Indiana ’08, Communications Coordinator

Mary Ruth Hadley Snyder, Purdue ’50, is another Sister with along-line of Alpha Xi Deltas in her family. The Hadley Alpha XiDelta legacy began in 1921 when Mary Place Hadley, Purdue ’21, and Claire Place Greyer, Purdue ’21, joined Alpha Xi Delta at Purdue University. In fact, these two sisters were foundingmembers of the Alpha Eta Chapter, and their names are still onthe chapter’s original charter.

Mary Ruth was a freshman in high school when her familymoved to West Lafayette, Indiana, and her mother becameinvolved as an alumna member of Alpha Xi Delta. As a volunteer,Mary Place served as the President of Alpha Eta Chapter’sHousing Corporation and caretaker of the chapter house. MaryRuth and her siblings, Arthur and Alice, would spend timeduring the summers in the chapter house on University Street.“She [Mary Place Hadley], as Corporation Board Chairman, feltpersonally responsible for the chapter house, and she did a lot ofactual work at the house, particularly in the summertime whenthe chapter members and house directors would be gone. Afterschool closed, our family would go to the chapter house and dosome cleaning and check to see what needed to be repaired,”Mary Ruth recalled. She remembers redecorating the chapterroom one summer so it could be used as an informal living roomwhen the students returned to campus and the numerous hoursshe spent cleaning up the basement when the chapter houseflooded after a storm. “Whatever needed to be done, we justpitched in as a family and did it,” she said.

In addition to serving as President of the Alpha Eta ChapterBuilding Corporation, Mary Place served as chairman of theNational Finance and Investment Committee, President of theLafayette Alumnae Association and Lafayette Mother’s Club andsocial advisor to the Alpha Eta Chapter. In 1956, she received the

Vikki and Amanda wore matching t-shirts to Barton’s Greek Sing event.Vikki’s shirt says “This Alpha Xi Delta loves her Tri Sigma daughter,” andAmanda’s shirt says “This Tri Sigma loves her Alpha Xi Delta mom.”


I knew that she would value this kind of program – to give

recognition for alumnae service –which I thought exemplified what

she had done with her life.

Like her mother, MaryRuth has remained activewith Alpha Xi Delta asan alumna. She served onAlpha Xi Delta’s NationalCouncil, as Vice Presidentof Alpha Eta Chapter’sHousing Corporation, asa Foundation Trustee andreceived the Fraternity’sWoman of DistinctionAward.

Mary Ruth (left) presented the Mary Place Hadley Award to its firstrecipient, Charlotte Berryman, West Virginia ’18, at the 1965National Convention.

Edna Epperson Brinkman Award for her dedication to theFraternity. When asked what she learned about Alpha Xi Deltafrom her mother’s involvement, Mary Ruth said, “It was a lessonin itself that she felt it was important enough to give all the timeand effort that she did to Alpha Xi Delta.”

When Mary Ruth was ready to attend college, she followed inher mother’s footsteps and went to Purdue University. When itcame time for sorority recruitment, even though Mary Ruthvisited the other organizations on campus, she only had aninterest in joining Alpha Xi Delta. “There was no question aboutit - I definitely wanted to be an Alpha Xi Delta at that chapter andin that house.” When she visited the Alpha Eta house, she worea black dress with a rhinestone pin, a hat, white gloves, shoes andof course, pantyhose. “I remember sitting there in the diningroom being very worried that they might not choose me,” MaryRuth explained.

Mary Ruth was initiated into the Alpha Eta Chapter on May28, 1950, and three years later, her younger sister, Alice HadleyHawley, Purdue ’53, joined our Sisterhood. Both Sisters even had

their wedding receptions in the basement of the chapter house.They were not the only females in their family to continue to

their family’s Alpha Xi Delta legacy. Their cousin, Helen GreyerCzenkusch, Indiana ’46, was actually a founding member of theBeta Pi Chapter at Indiana University. And, years later in 1975,one of Mary Ruth’s daughters, Mary Elizabeth Kachmar, Purdue’75, was initiated into Alpha Xi Delta at Purdue University.

In 1964, Mary Place was nearing the end of her battle withbreast cancer and Mary Ruth decided to contact FraternityHeadquarters about establishing a memorial fund in the name ofher mother. “I knew that she would value this kind of program -to give recognition for alumnae service – which I thoughtexemplified what she had done with her life,” Mary Ruth said.After exchanging numerous correspondences with theFraternity, the Mary Place Hadley Award was approved, andMary Ruth was able to tell her mother about the memorial beforeshe entered Chapter Eternal in 1964.

Mary Ruth was able to present the first Mary Place HadleyAward to its recipient, Charlotte Berryman, West Virginia ’18, atthe 1965 National Convention. She has been invited to presentthe award at every following Convention. “I am very grateful tobe able to do it and be asked to do it. It’s an opportunity everyother year for me to provide that recognition to my mother, and Ialways enjoy meeting the younger women who have qualified forthat recognition,” Mary Ruth said. “I think it’s important for otherpeople to acknowledge their contributions as active volunteersfor the Fraternity.”

On looking back at her story and her family’s experience withthe Fraternity, Mary Ruth said, “Alpha Xi Delta, Greek life andthe college experience are all more important in our family,whether you were actually a member or not, because of therelationships that we have had within three generations of myfamily that have had the opportunity to understand the real valueof Fraternity.”


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Jim Balster surrounded by his mother-in-law Patricia, sister-in-lawTee, daughters Jennifer and Elysia, and wife Kathy, all of whom areAlpha Xi Deltas. This photo was originally published in the Winter2003 issue of The Quill.

Impacted by a shared sisterhoodBy Elysia Gallivan, South Dakota ’93, National Executive Director

In 1964 Jim Balster, an Alpha Tau Omega at the University ofSouth Dakota (USD), became a house boy at the Alpha Xi DeltaChapter House. House boys helped prepare meals, served theladies of the house and cleaned up after meals. It was a great wayfor that farm boy to help with the expenses of college as hispayment was free food at the house. One of the new members ofAlpha Xi Delta’s Epsilon Chapter caught Jim’s eye as he did hiswork. Her name was Kathleen Nearman, South Dakota ’66. It wasnot long before the two crossed paths and a “love affair” began.After several years of ups and downs, twists and turns, Kathleenand Jim were married on the USD campus in the St. ThomasMore Newman Center and held their wedding reception in thebasement of the Alpha Xi Delta house.

Jim is my dad and Kathleen was my mom. I remember growingup with fond stories of college retold in our house. Memoriesshared and moments brought to life detailing the friendships,connections and values that Greek membership brought to them.There was never a question in my mind that I was going to belongto a Greek organization when I went to school.

Fast forward to 1992, and I find myself following in myparents’ footsteps and attending the University of South Dakota.I am that confused freshman walking around campus, bothnervous and excited, as I prepared to enter the first sororityhouse on my recruitment party list. The name at the top of mylist was Alpha Xi Delta.

Those who know me would describe me as driven, perhapsstubborn, and definitely someone looking to make my ownmark. I was convinced that I needed to blaze my own trail incollege, join the chapter that was for me (which I knew wasgoing to be different than my mom and sister. I mean, I wasdifferent than they were, right?) Despite my best effort to be thetrailblazer and strong woman I was known as, I found myselfcompletely drawn like a moth is to a flame to Alpha Xi Delta. Thewomen in ΑΞΔ were women I wanted to become. They werestrong willed, intelligent, beautiful women that made me feelspecial and at home. I can honestly say that the day I chose themand they, in turn, chose me was one of the best days of my life.

My mom and I were at odds most of my youth, not the best ofbuds for sure, but Alpha Xi Delta changed that. Through mymembership, my mother and I grew closer. Whether it wassharing the details of the night I got the best Big Sister ever or

talking about how nervous I was to attend my first date function,we had a whole new chapter of life to bond over. Ourconversations always left me feeling more drawn to my momand ever grateful to have this new life experience to share.

As time evolved I came to realize why I was so drawn to AlphaXi Delta. The more the Sisterhood gave me, the more I realizedthat the values of Alpha Xi Delta were the very values I had beenraised in, and those were the very same values my mom hadbeen raised in (her mom is an Alpha Xi Delta, too!). I felt so athome because Alpha Xi Delta was home on so many levels.

My story continued as I accepted a job to work for FraternityHeadquarters. I remember how excited and nervous my momwas for me to travel across the country visiting chapters as anEducational Leadership Consultant. She made me call her everytime I landed to make sure I was safe. I think she also enjoyedhearing the stories of those I was meeting — her Sisters, too. Italso gave us a chance to connect on another level as my mom wasthe daughter of a Navy man and lived in so many places that Iwas getting to experience now as well. Little did either of us knowthat my journey with Alpha Xi Delta would continue to the roleof National Executive Director.

My mom passed away three years ago this spring. Her battlewith cancer was one of the most difficult times in both of ourlives. Many afternoons we spent together remembering ourstories and reflecting on the paths we chose in life. OurSisterhood gave us the incredible gift of friendship at a new level,and we were so close as a result. My mom knew that our 2011National Convention was going to be in Atlanta, Georgia, and we



created a plan to invite my mom’s sister to join us in membership.She wanted my aunt to see our Sisterhood and experience thefamily connection that my grandma, mom, aunt, sister andmyself were able to experience. My mother never got the chanceto ask Steph herself, but I was able to carry our desire forwardand in July 2011, at Alpha Xi Delta’s 49th National Convention,my aunt became our Sister.

This incredible Sisterhood has given me so many gifts: Sistersfrom coast to coast that genuinely care for me in the toughestmoments of life, mentors that push me to achieve and believe, the opportunity to work daily for the betterment of the Greek

movement and women and a chance to live our vision on a dailybasis. This Sisterhood gave me the gift of friendship, and moreimportantly, friendship with my mother. The values of theFraternity groomed me from the beginning and have flourishedas I have grown through life. I now share these values with myown children and hope that I’ve planted the seeds to makestrong individuals with genuine and caring hearts and hope forthe future.

My story would not be complete without Alpha Xi Delta, and Icannot wait to uncover what the next chapter of my life will bring.

Elysia (left) with her Aunt Steph (middle) and her sister, Jennifer, at the 2011 National Convention shortly after Steph was initiated into Alpha Xi Delta.

The more the Sisterhood gave me, the more I realized that the values of Alpha Xi Delta were the very values I had been raised in…


Beta Eta Installment

On December 9, 2012, after 18 long-awaited years, the Beta EtaChapter of Alpha Xi Delta was reinstalled at the University ofMaryland (UMD). Originally founded on March 3, 1934, the BetaEta Chapter was home to more than 1,100 Sisters until it wasforced to close its doors in 1994.

A look back…Plans to establish an Alpha Xi Delta chapter at the University ofMaryland actually began in 1931 when Mary ThompkinsKanagy, Florida State ’29, and Claire Schley, Bethany ’29, traveledto College Park, Maryland, to meet with Adele Stamp, UMD’sDean of Women. Stamp recommended three young women,Louise Saylor, Dorothy Storrs and Catherine Roe, to helpestablish the Delta Xi local sorority, which would later becomethe Beta Eta Chapter of Alpha Xi Delta. The local sorority wasofficially founded on March 1, 1931, and a few weeks later JeanAdams, Lois Belfield, Anglea Feiser, Irene Knox and JosephineKnox were invited to join the organization. Together, thefounding members of Delta Xi designed a pledge pin, drew up aconstitution and immersed themselves into campus life at theUniversity of Maryland.

Over the next three years, the women hosted a variety of teasand get-togethers in an attempt to expand their membership,

participated in campus athletics, joined honor societies andfound a house on Rhode Island Avenue to rent and call home.When the organization’s third year anniversary rolled around, itwas time to install the Beta Eta Chapter of Alpha Xi Delta, and 24Sisters were welcomed into our Sisterhood.

Bringing Beta Eta Home to UMD

On March 3, 1934, the Delta Xi local sorority was installed as the Beta Eta Chapter of Alpha Xi Delta, making Alpha Xi Delta the5th Panhellenic organization to join the University of Maryland’sGreek community.

On December 9, 2012 Beta Eta alumnae, Fraternity staff and volunteers welcomed 81 women into our Sisterhood and celebrated the returnof the Beta Eta Chapter.

by Lauren Fisher, Indiana ’08,Communications Coordinator


For 60 years following the chapter’s initiation, the Universityof Maryland was the breeding ground for so many Alpha Xi Deltamemories and traditions. A chapter house was built in 1938 andsince then has gone through many remodels in an attempt tomaintain and expand the living space. While the Beta EtaChapter was dormant, the Fraternity maintained possession ofthe house and rented it out to the other Greek organizations oncampus. Now that the Beta Eta Chapter is revitalized, Alpha XiDelta Sisters will once again call 4517 Knox Road home this fall.

A look into Beta Eta’s Recolonization…The Fraternity accepted an invitation from the University ofMaryland to recolonize Alpha Xi Delta’s Beta Eta Chapter in Mayof 2011. In the fall of 2012, Alpha Xi Delta’s EducationalLeadership Consultants, Emily McCarthy, Syracuse ’08, andKristi Ford, Ohio State ’08, arrived in College Park to conduct asuccessful colony recruitment. “We had a wide range of womeninterested in Alpha Xi Delta, including some athletes whobrought teammates along and other women who just wanted tostart something new,” Emily said. “In the end we had awonderful group of women join who became close friends insuch a short amount of time.”

Just weeks after joining Alpha Xi Delta, the colony womenparticipated and placed second in Sigma Chi’s Derby Days andparticipated in UMD’s Homecoming festivities. When asked tocomment on these events, Emily said, “they rocked both of them!”

When looking back at their time spent at UMD, Emily saysone of her favorite experiences included meeting the Beta Etaalumnae. “It was really inspiring to see all of the alumnae fromthe chapter who were overjoyed to have Alpha Xi Delta back oncampus,” she said. “They had waited so long for the chapter tocome back, and it was truly something special.”

Not only were the alumnae proud to see their chapter returnto UMD, but Fraternity Headquarters staff and the colonywomen were excited when it finally came time for theirInstallation Ceremony. “All of the hard work and dedication thatthey had demonstrated this past semester came full circle whenthe women signed the Beta Eta charter,” Kristi said. “Collegiansand alumnae both were anxious, excited, nervous and beamingwith pride knowing that they made this weekend happen.”

A look forward…The Maryland campus is full of Alpha Xi Delta history, and ournewest members are excited to learn about the Fraternity’shistory and write some of their own new and exciting chaptersin the story of Alpha Xi Delta. When asked about the Beta EtaChapter, Alpha Xi Delta’s National President Sandi Edwardssaid, “They took bold steps when they chose to be part of a new

sorority on campus. They have already contributed so much to this campus and our Sisterhood. We know there are manymore great things to come from our women at the University of Maryland.”

Did you know…?• Did you know that

the original Delta Xichapter house is stillstanding in CollegePark? It is located onRhode Island Avenue.

• Rumor has it that the road on which the BetaEta Chapter house currently stands (KnoxRoad) was named after two of the chapter’sfounding Sisters, Irene and Josephine Knox.Others suggest that Knox Road was namedafter a small school in Galesburg, Illinois.Alpha Xi Deltas know this school to be KnoxCollege (formerly known as LombardCollege), which is the home to the Fraternity’sAlpha Chapter.

• Beta Eta was home to an Olympian! IreneKnox, founding member of the Beta EtaChapter, was a member of the UMDWomen’s Rifle Team. After winning the 1932 National Rifle Association’s Women’sIndividual Intercollegiate Championshipsand breaking both the men’s and women’srecords, Irene went on to compete in the1932 Summer Olympics.

• Alpha Xi Delta has some famous ties to the Kermit statue onUMD’s campus! AlphaXi Delta Sister, JaneHenson, Maryland ’52,was the co-founder ofthe Muppets with herlate husband Jim. Janeand Jim both attended the University ofMaryland and met while Jane was living inthe chapter house. In fact, when they firstmet, Jim was dating another Alpha Xi DeltaSister, Vivian Turner, Maryland ’54.

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SpeaksAutism

As a recently initiated Sister of Alpha Xi Delta, I am so excited towork with Autism Speaks. For as long as I can remember, my lifehas been impacted by autism. My older brother, Phil, wasdiagnosed with a moderately severe form of autism calledPervasive Developmental Disorder. However, with the help ofour family, friends and educators throughout the state, he hasovercome many of the challenges that come with having a

developmental disorder. Phil has inspired me to discover ways inwhich I can be an advocate for those on the autism spectrum andtheir families.

My decision to join Alpha Xi Delta was one preceded by aseries of events in my life that had an enormous impact on how Iviewed my role in the lives of those living with autism. Having abrother on the spectrum made me more aware of the pieces thatare missing from our full understanding of autism.

Phil, now 22, struggles with social interaction, communicatingwith others and understanding body language, facial expressionsand other forms of communication that we take for granted. As alittle boy, his speech developed at a slower rate and he struggledto find words to communicate with others. His disability may limit him in certain ways but he makes up for it in countlessothers. He has a great memory, perfect eyesight, can make almostany animal call and even has his driver’s license and a job atMenards. Although Phil may be behind his peers academicallyand socially, the state of his heart is far beyond his years. He is honest, trustworthy and most importantly, trusts God ineverything he does.

My passion for individuals on the autism spectrum and mylove for the violin brought me onto the Miss Minnesota stage inJune 2012. You may be thinking, “What do pageants have to dowith autism?” The Miss America Organization requires eachcontestant to have a personal platform. My platform was an easydecision. Having a personal connection with autism opened updoors for me to share Phil’s story while encouraging people to act.Our national government reserves less than one percent of itsresearch budget for autism. Autism leaves a huge economicfootprint on our society and is more common than juvenilediabetes, childhood cancer and pediatric AIDS combined.

Over the past summer, I volunteered my time at FraserSchool, the largest and most experienced provider of autismservices in Minnesota. Each year, Fraser provides diagnosis,treatment and support services to thousands of children,adolescents and adults with autism spectrum disorders and theirfamilies. I worked in preschool and kindergarten music therapyclassrooms where I had the opportunity to share my music withmultiple classes. This type of hands-on experience helped me to

I am a Voice for AutismBy Rebecca Yeh, Ohio Northern ’12

Rebecca with her older brother, Phil.

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understand the importance of early diagnosis and intervention. Ispoke at numerous rotary clubs and service organizations toeducate their members on autism and stress the importance ofcapturing the attention of our national representatives.

One of my main goals through my platform is to encourageMinnesota’s national representatives to join the CongressionalAutism Caucus, a 131 member bi-partisan group that workstogether to promote autism research funding and overcomingobstacles people with autism face in schools, the workplace andsociety in general. Currently, only three of Minnesota’s tennational congressmen are part of this important caucus.Securing the participation of our remaining representativeswould be a significant achievement by mobilizing families whoare impacted by autism. In turn, it would be favorable forcongressmen in an election year.

I was blessed to have come away as first runner-up to the titleof Miss Minnesota. Being so close to winning gave me thedetermination to try once more. I will be returning to the MissMinnesota stage in June 2013, so keep your fingers crossed thatI will have the chance to have a bigger voice for autism as MissMinnesota! I would not only expand the audience I have for mymessage, but there is something about a crown and sash thatcaptures the attention of people in positions of power. Winningthe Miss Minnesota Pageant would be the vehicle I will use topromote my platform and influence political leaders across thestate and nation.

I want to thank my Sisters of the Gamma Tau Chapter at OhioNorthern University for introducing me to the Sisterhood. Aware

of my involvement with autism, one of the Sisters asked if I wouldever be interested in joining. After giving it some thought, Irealized it would be an excellent way to promote Autism Speakson our campus and in the community. In addition, I met some ofmy very best friends and became part of a family I will have forthe rest of my life. I was selected as Philanthropy Chair this yearand am ready to share the pride we have in our partnership withAutism Speaks.

Our first event is Puzzlepalooza, a puzzle-making contest thatallows teams to race one another in the completion a puzzle. Theimportance of establishing a connection between the “missingpuzzle piece” and Alpha Xi Delta is crucial and is used as astepping stone for Autism Awareness Month and the AmaXingChallenge in the fall. As Philanthropy Chair, I am focused on twomajor goals: First, I am looking to raise a total of $1,500 forAutism Speaks by the end of the academic year. Second, I havecome to understand the importance of education. Understandingthe problem, negative impacts and solutions to the growingdevelopmental disorder are the most important. Developing aconnection to autism gives so much more power to those whohave the ability to impact individuals on the spectrum.

Being a Sister of Alpha Xi Delta has encouraged me to realizemy potential as a student, advocate and friend to everyone Iencounter. I am thankful for each opportunity I have had to sharemy story and be an inspiration to others. I will continue to be avoice for autism my entire life and the partnership Alpha Xi Deltahas with Autism Speaks has opened up doors that would haveotherwise been closed.

The women of Gamma Tau Chapter host a Puzzlepalooza AmaXIng Challenge to raise money for Autism Speaks. This event is a contestwhere teams race against each other to see who can complete a puzzle in the shortest amount of time.

In Other Autism Speaks News…


Boise State | Epsilon Psi Chapter held a Football FrenXi event on Boise State’s famous blue turf. Members of the local communitycame out to show their support and watch as 200 students participated in a series of flag football games. At the end of theevent, Sisters raised more than $280 for Autism Speaks!—Jordyn Brown, [email protected]

Alabama | On October 13, 2012, Alabama hosted its inaugural Walk Now for Autism Speaks at Railroad Park in Birmingham, Alabama.The Walk was co-chaired by Megan Givens, Alabama at Birmingham ’05, and Laura Tull, Alabama at Birmingham ’00, and several AlphaXi Delta Sisters served as committee members. With the help of an amazing committee and an immense amount of community supportand participation, the Walk raised $74,487.54 and welcomed more than 1,000 participants. Chapters at Jacksonville State University, theUniversity of Alabama at Birmingham and Auburn University raised a combined total of $42,973.54—Megan R. Givens, [email protected]


Portland Alumnae Association | The Portland AlumnaeAssociation participated in the Oregon Walk Now for AutismSpeaks event at Willamette Park in Portland, Oregon. FiveSisters and one Rose Petal walked at the event. As a result, theassociation raised more than $500 for Autism Speaks. Theassociation hopes to double their efforts in 2013! Picturedfrom left to right: Bonnie Blish, California-Los Angeles ’68,Karen Rosvall, Nevada-Las Vegas ’03, and Laura GarciaShields, Texas ’00.—Karen Rosvall, [email protected]

Kent State | Beta Tau Chapter hosted its annual Xi Mancompetition at Kent State University to raise money for autismresearch and awareness. This year the theme was “Bad to XiBone,” and fraternities and sororities joined together tofundraise for Autism Speaks through donation tables,businesses, families and friends. At the end of the week, thechapter raised $20,800 for Autism Speaks, surpassing theirinitial fundraising goal of $18,000—Madalyn Etzel,[email protected]

DePaul | On January 12, 2013,Iota Rho Chapter at DePaulUniversity held their secondAutism Awareness Night withthe DePaul women’s basketballteam. Sisters had a great timespreading autism awareness, andthe chapter even arranged tohave a sensory room available for children who are on the autismspectrum. Everyone had a funtime and went home with AlphaXi Delta/Autism Speaks stickers and cups.—Samantha Turner,[email protected]

In Other Autism Speaks News…


FLORIDA | Sisters from our Theta Sigma Chapter at theUniversity of Central Florida raised $6,000 for Autism Speaksby hosting their annual Dodgebrawl event at the University of Central Florida. Sisters also volunteered at Orlando’s Walk Now for Autism Speaks event.—Shelbey Lane,[email protected]

KANSAS | Planning for Alpha Kappa Chapter’s first AmaXIngChallenge 5K event began in the summer of 2012. This eventwas the first of its kind on Kansas State University’s campus,and after the event, Sisters were excited to learn they raised $10,000 for our Autism Speaks.—Kathrine Watkins,[email protected]

MARYLAND | Sisters at Towson University participated in theWalk Now for Autism Speaks in Baltimore, Maryland, held apercentage night at a popular sushi restaurant near campusand made a large puzzle piece that says “I support Autism

Speaks with ΑΞΔ” for individuals to take pictures with. At theend of the semester, the chapter raised $5,000 for AutismSpeaks.—Alex Barber, [email protected]

MISSOURI | Epsilon Xi Chapter at the University ofMissouri-St. Louis hosted their annual Leslie Fox Benefit eventon November 10. Sisters made themed gift baskets for a silentauction. Guests enjoyed creative trivia questions about sports, breakfast cereals and Disney. At the end of the event, Sisters raised $3,267 for Autism Speaks.—Krista Liebrum,[email protected].

NEW MEXICO STATE | Sisters at New Mexico State Universityparticipated in the Walk Now for Autism Speaks event inAlbuquerque, New Mexico. As a result, Theta Omega Chapterraised more than $2,500 for Autism Speaks!—Devaney Flores,[email protected]

Jacksonville State | Sisters from the Epsilon Pi Chapter volunteered at Aces for Autism, a gala benefitting the Learning tree, aschool that provides critical services and support to children struggling with autism and other developmental disabilities.—Mary Brittain, [email protected]


Last year, the following five chapters were able to accomplish amaXIng thingsfor our philanthropic partner, Autism Speaks. To determine the top fivefundraising chapters per capita for the 2011-2012 academic year, eachchapter’s total donation to Autism Speaks was divided by the number ofwomen in the chapter. The resulting dollar amount shows approximately howmuch money each woman was able to raise for philanthropy. Congratulationsto these chapters on an outstanding accomplishment!

1. $786 per Sister: Delta Epsilon Chapter at the University of New Orleans

2. $370 per Sister: Theta Alpha Chapter at Millersville University

3. $271 per Sister: Delta Rho Chapter at California State University, Northridge

4. $243 per Sister: Zeta Xi Chapter at Auburn University

5. $231 per Sister: Theta Phi Chapter at the University of Alabama at Birmingham

2011-2012 TOP 5 FundraisingCollegiate Chapters

Theta Phi chapter members pose for a photo with Alabama Senator Cam Wardwho has a daughter on the autism spectrum.

Alumnae AssociationPhilanthropy Spotlight

The Stanislaus Alumnae Association, based in Modesto, California, has an excitingfundraising project with an overall goal ofraising $10,000 for Autism Speaks. TheAssociation contacted a local assistanceprogram for individuals with autismspectrum disorders and asked some of theirprogram participants to draw pictures onpaper, which were then copied onto whitecloth. Sandra Ross, Washington State ’70,lovingly sewed a quilt together using thefabric pictures, stitching in the shape of puzzle pieces in the body of the quilt, and hands with hearts between them on the edging.

The association started selling raffletickets for the quilt in the fall of 2012 and hasalready raised $700. Their quilt has beendisplayed at several events, including thealumnae association’s local Founders’ Dayevent and California’s Central Valley WalkNow for Autism Speaks. They will be holdingthe drawing for the quilt at Alpha Xi Delta’s50th National Convention in San Francisco.

If you’d like to purchase raffle tickets forthe quilt, or if you are in the northernCalifornia area and would like to display thequilt at an event, please call Marianne Russo at 209.521.4925 or Sandy Ross at 209.473.2156.

The artwork on the quilt was drawn by individualsaffected by autism spectrum disorders.

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1. Alpha Kappa Chapter at Kansas State University 2. Delta Chi Chapter at the University of Northern Iowa 3. Epsilon Alpha Chapter at the Universityof Wisconsin-Eau Claire 4. Epsilon Chapter at the University of South Dakota 5. Epsilon Lambda Chapter at Rider University 6. Iota Delta Chapter atthe University of Central Oklahoma 7. Phi Chapter at Albion College 8. Theta Eta Chapter at Western Michigan University 9. Theta LambdaChapter at Southwestern University 10. Theta Rho Chapter at California State University Stanislaus 11. Theta Sigma Chapter at the University ofCentral Florida 12. Zeta Omega Chapter at the University of West Georgia

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Bowling Green Alumnae Association | The Bowling GreenAlumnae Association recently honored three members withthe Order of the Rose and Order of the Pearl recognition. Theceremony followed a salad and dessert buffet held at theBeta Mu Chapter house at Bowling Green State University. It was a very special evening for these three women and the collegiate Sisters who were able to witness this event.Pictured from left to right: Judy Boutelle, Ohio Wesleyan ’58; Evelyn Bachman, Ohio Northern ’59; and Gloria Davis,Bowling Green ‘44.—Jill Bortel, [email protected]

Arlington Alumnae Association | The Arlington, Texas,Alumnae Association and Zeta Lambda Chapter Sisters fromTexas Wesleyan University held their first Rose Petals Tea.More than 55 women and Alpha Xi Delta Rose Petals cameto the luncheon and enjoyed learning Alpha Xi Delta chantsand posing for photos with BetXi Bear.—Katy Rudolphy,[email protected]

Phoenix Alumnae Association | The Phoenix Alumnae Association welcomed new members from Theta Zeta Chapter atEmbry-Riddle Aeronautical University at their annual collegiate chapter and alumnae association luncheon.—Elvira Bencomo,[email protected]

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Illinois | This fall, 19 Sisters from the University of Illinois graduating classes of 1959–1966 met in Page, Arizona, for theirseventh reunion. They worked with Road Scholar, a not-for-profit organization with a mission to inspire adults to learn, discoverand travel, to adapt the program Where Rock Meets Water to their needs. Sisters learned about the Colorado Plateau, walkedthrough Antelope Canyon and enjoyed and observed scenery and wildlife during a half-day float trip on the river. Sisters alsohad time to relax, renew friendships and share memories. On the last afternoon together, 14 fifty-year members were honoredat an Order of the Rose ceremony. Planning for the Spring 2014 reunion has begun. Contact Karen to learn more.—KarenDruliner, [email protected]

Mount Union | Gamma Chapter had a successful fallrecruitment with four recruitment rounds: an open houseround, theme night, philanthropy day and a dessert party.At the end of the fun-filled week, the chapter welcomed 24new members into our Sisterhood.—Jessica DeWater,[email protected]

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West VirginiaWhitney Johnson, Marshall ’10, spends her weekdays living in the Alpha Xi Delta house attending classes andhanging out with her Sisters, but on the weekends she is a Baltimore Ravens cheerleader! Whitney traveled to NewOrleans, Louisiana, with her teammates to cheer on the NFL team in the Superbowl on February 3.—Sarah Stiles,[email protected]

WisconsinAlpha Xi Delta’s National Council recently approved theNorthwestern Wisconsin Alumnae Association’s petition tobecome a formal alumnae association. The association’slargest event took place in Eau Claire, Wisconsin, as theassociation and local collegiate chapters celebratedFounders’ Day. If you would like to get involved with theNorthwestern Wisconsin Alumnae Association, [email protected].

South Dakota State | Alpha Xi Delta National President Sandi Edwards took time to attend a South Dakota State Universityfootball game while she visited the Epsilon Eta Chapter house dedication this past fall.


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Purdue | Alpha Eta Chapter participated in “Campus Kisses for the Troops,” anevent sponsored by Cosmopolitan magazine as well as Maybelline, Seventeenmagazine and the United Service Organization (USO). Sisters set up a table in themiddle of campus with pizza, Hershey’s Kisses®, Cosmopolitan magazines and freemakeup samples. Maybelline New York also provided two makeup artists for theevent. Men, women, professors and students all stopped to write a message andkiss a postcard to be delivered to the troops serving overseas. For each postcardthat had a message and a kiss, the participating organizations donated $1 to theUSO.––Kayla Edwards, [email protected]

Georgia Tech | Angela Garland, Georgia State ’86, recently had the honor ofpinning her Quill onto her daughter at Gamma Eta Chapter’s Initiation. Angela’sdaughter, Sarah-Catherine Dannelly, Georgia Tech ’12, joined Alpha Xi Delta’sGamma Eta Chapter in November 2012. This photo is from the chapter’s Parents’Weekend.—Angela Garland, [email protected]


Western Kentucky | Ginny Carroll (second row, center), Western Kentucky ’82, and founder of the Circle of Sisterhood Foundation,traveled to Bowling Green, Kentucky, to spend time with the newly installed Epsilon Kappa Chapter at Western KentuckyUniversity.—Maggie Fletcher

Western Michigan | Sisters from the Theta Eta Chapter atWestern Michigan University attended a Sandy Hook benefithosted by the Western Michigan University StudentAssociation. At the event, Sisters had the opportunity towrite letters and make stuffed animals for the children andfamilies affected by the Newton, Connecticut, shooting.Pictured are Mandee, Alexis, Kristi and Joanna with thestuffed animals they made for the children.—Jenna Lanzetta,[email protected].

Lycoming | Lynette Dooley, Lycoming ’12, and Jenna Baker,Lycoming ’12, traveled to Roatan, Honduras, to study tropicalMarine Biology.—Lynette Dooley, [email protected]

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Alumnae AssociationAlumnae associations host educational meetings andphilanthropic events. They also provide the chance ofmeeting new Sisters and staying active in the Fraternity.

Alumnae DuesYour voluntary dues payment of $20 makes a difference insupporting the Be The Heart Fund, which helps supportthe Fraternity’s initiatives with recruitment, chapterdevelopment, The Quill of Alpha Xi Delta and otherFraternity operations. You can pay your dues atwww.alphaxidelta.org/betheheart.

Rose PetalsThis program is designed for our legacies ages 16 and younger. If you are a mother or grandmother of a legacy, please enroll her in Rose Petals atwww.alphaxidelta.org/rose-petals.

VolunteerThere are many volunteer opportunities available for ouralumnae – including national and local opportunities. Ournational volunteers serve on our National Council andNational Housing Corporation, while our local volunteersserve as Special Officers, Area Facilitators, NationalDirectors and Territory Directors. While certain volunteerpositions are not available at all times, all positions arecrucial to the success of Alpha Xi Delta, and the Fraternityis always looking for dedicated volunteers. Visitwww.alphaxidelta.org/VolunteerInterest to fill out aninterest form. Or, contact Fraternity Headquarters [email protected] or 317.872.3500.

How Can I Become Involved?

1. Update your contact information via Exclusively Xi. Ifyou haven’t done so already, log onto Alpha Xi Delta’smembership portal and update your information. A correctaddress will ensure that you receive your free issue of TheQuill magazine to stay up-to-date on Fraternity news andevents. Sisters are also able to log onto Exclusively Xi andsearch for other Sisters. Don’t miss out on a chapter reunionor other important event just because you haven’t updatedyour information.

2. Join an alumnae association. Alpha Xi Delta has morethan 130 alumnae associations across the United States. Visitthe news and events section of www.alphaxidelta.org to seesome of the exciting things our alumnae associations have planned. This is also a great way to meet new Sisters,especially if you are venturing off to a new city with few contacts.

3. Plan a yearly reunion. Pick a date for you and your chapterSisters to get together for a long weekend. Meet back at youralma mater or vacation on the beach for a fun Sisterlyweekend. Don’t forget to send photos from your reunions [email protected].

4. Become a volunteer. There are many volunteer roles youcan take on. Visit www.alphaxidelta.org/VolunteerInterest tofill out an interest form. Someone will contact you to let youknow of any available positions.

5. Attend Alpha Xi Delta’s National Convention. ManySisters attend Alpha Xi Delta’s biannual Conventions to stayup-to-date with the Fraternity and stay in the loop withimportant Fraternity business. Why not plan to gather upyour chapter Sisters every other year and travel to Conventionfor a reunion? Alpha Xi Delta’s next Convention will be June 30, 2013 – July 3, 2013 in San Francisco, California, and we hope to see you and your Sisters there.

Remember, you may have joined Alpha Xi Delta and found yourSisters during college, but Sisterhood is so much more and goesbeyond the closet raids, hours spent in the dining room, walks toand from class, tailgates and formals. It’s a group of individualswho are constantly by your side for the good and the bad and thesmiles and the tears. Sisterhood is a lifetime, and you can makeeven more cherished memories as an alumna.

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If you could give readers one piece of advice, what would it be:Reconnect with old friends, especially Alpha Xi Delta Sisters.

We know you have been working with other Sisters in NorthwestIndiana to start a new alumnae association. What can you tell us aboutthis group of Sisters, and what fun events do you hope to plan?I hope to contact as many Sisters as possible through The Quill,Facebook, email and word of mouth. We have had two meet andgreets at the University of Notre Dame, and I hope to plan a luncheonin the spring.

What is your most memorable moment from your alumnaemembership in Alpha Xi Delta?I co-chaired and planned our 50th Anniversary Gala for the GammaPhi Chapter at East Carolina University in 2010. I got in touch withSisters I had not seen in 35 years and met Sisters from the pastdecades. It was a fantastic night and a wonderful reunion. A night offabulous women!

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I had a vision that started in 1964. It included matriculatingfrom the University of Colorado and being involved in all theactivities of student life. Then, my father passed away verysuddenly, and this event changed the course of many lives,including my own. My mother was unable to cope with this lossand the new identity thrust upon her. My younger sister lost asupport system, emotionally and financially. During this time,my concentration was challenged and my academic format waschanged. Parts of my vision, including my pursuit for aPanhellenic sorority, were lost.

My new mission was to move forward as best I could. Imarried a gentleman who chose the Navy for his career, and wehad two children. My mission as a mom included Boy and GirlScouts, competitive swimming, changing schools and helping thechildren make new friends. My mission in career building was tocomplete my academic studies. I earned a bachelor of science innursing from San Diego State University in 1986. My nursingexperiences included emergency, gerontology, family health and

being an educator, and Iam very satisfied with mycareer. Navy retirementoccurred in the mid-1980sfollowed by the childrengraduating from highschool. My children arenow grown, happy andsuccessful in their lives,and I am blessed withthree granddaughters.

The course of timecreated new formats. Myhusband passed away, andI learned new dimensionsabout myself. Employmentled into retirement, andmy time in retirement hasallowed me to practice my

vision in community service. My passion continues to be forprograms that empower women.

After all this time, I had not lost my vision to be part of aPanhellenic sorority, and due to the advent of the computer, Ilearned that many National Panhellenic organizations haveAlumnae Initiate Programs. I found myself wondering if it waspossible for me to recapture my vision of joining a sorority, and Idecided I had nothing to lose.

In May of 2012, I was installed as Program Co-Chair ofAmerican Association of University Women. One weekend, myco-chair partner, Barbara Blatchford, Northern Illinois ’70, whowould also serve a two-year term, mentioned she was going to hersorority reunion. When Barb returned, I asked her about thesorority and if it had an Alumnae Initiate Program. She inquiredabout my interest and my quest, and before the end of our visit, Iwas invited to submit an application.

Barbara Blatchford, who is a past National Council member, ismy Alpha Xi Delta mentor. Barb was on Alpha Xi Delta’s NationalCouncil when she signed the charter for the Theta Sigma Chapterat the University of Central Florida. Barb was by my sidethroughout my training and orientation, introducing me to TheSymphony and traditional ΑΞΔ songs. My joy grew when I finallyreceived the invitation to alumna membership from Tobi Curtis,Alpha Xi Delta’s Lifetime Engagement Manager.

Then my moment arrived. On October 14, 2012, with excitedenergy and joy in my heart, I was initiated into Alpha Xi Deltaalong with 45 collegians and four other alumnae initiates. TheInitiation and luncheon took place at the Disney Boardwalk Hotelin Orlando, Florida.

On the bus ride back to campus, the young collegianscongratulated me and felt more relaxed to ask me how I cameabout to fulfill my vision and satisfy my mission at this later datein my life. One collegian said, “Wow, we could call you mom.” Iresponded by saying, “I would be honored.” Though the timing ofthis life event for me is different and unique, my story receivedcompassion and genuine interest.

If you have a friend or family member who has always dreamed ofjoining a NPC sorority, introduce her to Alpha Xi Delta’s AlumnaeInitiate Program. Visit www.alphaxidelta.org, or contact Tobi Curtis [email protected] for more information.

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Experience SisterhoodBonnie Weaver, Central Florida ’12, joined Alpha Xi Delta through the Fraternity’sAlumnae Initiate Program. She shares her quest for sorority membership with us. { }

Bonnie Weaver was initiated intoAlpha Xi Delta’s Theta SigmaChapter at the University of CentralFlorida in October 2012.

COURTNEY PEEK, WEST GEORGIA ’07

You know you are an Educational Leadership Consultant in the midst of recruitment season when you find yourself traveling to four differentchapters in just four weeks. Yes, life as an Educational Leadership Consultant can be pretty hectic, but it has been an amaXIng experienceso far. To help you get a better idea of my life on the road, here’s a look at my daily routine for chapter visits during recruitment season.

7:00 a.m. – I wake up and the first thing I think is… Recruitment is here! There is so much preparation and excitement that goes intoit, and I can’t believe it’s finally here! The first thing I do is read over my notes and to-do list to prepare for the day. Although I am anxiousand have so many things running through my head, I am excited to get started.

8:00 a.m. – After getting myself ready, I start buzzing around the house. I carry around my recruitment essentials: a watch or two,my phone, a clipboard with my lists and notes, several pens in different colors, lip balm, lipstick and mints. I have to force myself to eatbreakfast while I continue to check things off my to-do list.

9:00 a.m. – The house is full of Sisters, half of who are ready to go, half of who arerushing to finish getting ready. I am working with the Membership Vice President (MVP)and Chapter President to make sure everything is ready. Did the pink roses get arranged?Does everyone have their nametag on? Have tables been wiped and mirrors cleaned? It isa stressful hour, but it is fun, too! The house is full of energy, and all of the Sisters areexcited to meet the potential new members (PNMs) who will soon arrive.

10:00 a.m. – It is time to line up! One last lipstick application, and one last time downthe line with a box of mints. The house falls silent, and it is time to countdown.5…4…3…2…1… and the cheering begins! Smiling Sisters, all cheering about their love forAlpha Xi Delta usher the PNMs into the house. After a few minutes, the cheering diesaway into friendly chatter. I walk around with my clipboard, making sure that everythingis going ok. I constantly check my watch to make sure we are on time. When it is time togo, the Sisters begin cheering again, the PNMs leave, the door closes and we prepare todo it all again… 12 more times! It is exhausting, but certainly exhilarating.

8:00 p.m. – Rounds are over and Sisters are given instructions on how to prepare forthe next day. Water glasses are washed and punch is prepared. I can tell people are verytired, but happy because we had a great day. I love hearing Sisters tell the PNMs positivestories about why they love Alpha Xi Delta. Recruitment is a time that bonds a chapter themost, and I love seeing those bonds form. Sharing stories about what our Fraternity meansto them is a great reminder of why we work so tirelessly to make recruitment successful.

10:00 p.m. – Sisters go home to rest their voices and prepare for the next day. TheMVP, President and I still have several hours of work to do, but first, we order somethingfor dinner. During the chaos of the day, we haven’t had time to eat, and we are starving!

3:00 a.m. – Everything is ready and it is time for bed. I set my alarm for 7:00 a.m. andbegin thinking about the day ahead. What needs to be done? What have I forgotten? Oops,I forgot to iron my shirt. I am so glad that we had a great day, and I know that tomorrowwill be just the same. I am excited to spend another day with the chapter and see whatexcitement will come with Day 2.

7:00 a.m. – My alarm goes off. It is time to do it all again!


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Courtney (center) traveled to the Universityof Washington to spend time with our NuChapter. Here she is with the chapter’sMembership Vice Presidents, Tessah Barton(right) and Molly Jenny (left) beforePreference round.

Courtney (center) with Jaclyn Dziepak(right) Sigma’s Chapter President and ErimMcDermott (left) Sigma’s Membership VicePresident during formal recruitment at theUniversity of Iowa.


BRITTANY DONATELLI, SLIPPERY ROCK ’08

During one of my most recent chapter visits, I helped a Chapter Advisorfacilitate Bridges, a program for Alpha Xi Delta seniors, to 15 Sisters whowill be graduating this spring. This program is designed to show oursupport for our senior members during a stressful time when graduation,job hunting and applying to graduate school is the only thing on theirminds. It reminds graduating Alpha Xi Deltas that they are the mentorsand seasoned leaders of their chapters and provides them information onthe alumnae membership opportunities that await them after graduation.

When the chapter advisor read aloud the promise that each Alpha XiDelta woman makes during initiation, the women in the room began to cry.They remembered the first time our beloved Quill was placed over theirhearts, the faces of the women that inspired them to be where they are todayand the journey that has led them to this very moment. It was veryemotional! In addition to remembering their commitment to the Fraternity,I asked each of the graduating seniors to answer the following questions:

• How have past senior classes contributed positively to the chapterduring their final year?

• What behaviors would you like to repeat or emulate?• What behaviors did you observe from past senior classes that you

feel detracted from or caused problems for the chapter?• How are you going to pay it forward into the next generation

of members?• How are you going to inspire members to realize their potential?

All of these questions are designed to help Sisters think about their “seniorlegacy,” and what they want to leave behind when they graduate. If you arepreparing to graduate this spring, ask yourself:

• Do you want to be the seniors who encourage members to do betterthan you have done during your undergraduate experience?

• Do you want to be a senior who completely checks out or a seniorwho lends a helping hand or time to listen?

Take the time to consider what kind of legacy you want to leave behind andwhat kind of chapter you want to come back to as an alumna. I hope youdecide to continue making an impact on Alpha Xi Delta chapters andSisters in the many years to come.

To all of our Sisters who are graduating this spring, while you may notknow where you will end up after graduation, know that there are Alpha XiDeltas everywhere and that our Sisterhood will continue to be with youthroughout the next chapter of your life. When you place your Quill overyour heart for graduation, remember what it means to be an Alpha Xi Deltaand the tools that Alpha Xi Delta gave to you to help you go out into the “realworld” and do great things, with confidence, with poise and with all of yourheart sunshine.

Brittany (right) and the past president of the Beta MuChapter at Bowling Green State University spent timetogether when Brittany was visiting the chapter.

At the University of Rhode Island, Brittany (right) helpedthe Beta Upsilon Chapter welcome their new membersinto our Sisterhood.

Brittany and the University of Maryland Colony womenat the Beta Eta Chapter Installation. This event was extraspecial for Brittany since she was able to watch hersister, Ashley Donatelli, Beta Eta ’12, join our Sisterhoodas an alumna initiate.

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When the winds and waters of Hurricane Sandydevastated the East Coast in October, Alpha Xi Delta Sistersproved that the bonds of Sisterhood are stronger. One inparticular made a difference in the New York area.

It’s been 20 years since Tracy Kralik Berges, Binghamton ’89,graduated from college, but when she heard Zeta Phi Chapteralumnae were affected by Superstorm Sandy, she was called to action.

Combining the strength of Sisterhood and the ease of socialnetworking, the former Zeta Phi Chapter President succeeded inraising money and hope for her Alpha Xi Delta Sisters. UsingFacebook, Tracy created a “Sisters in Need from Hurricane Sandy”page. Nearly 100 Binghamton University alumnae responded.

Despite the magnitude of her efforts, Tracy remains humble.“Honestly it didn’t take a great deal of effort, and I was so happyI could help in some way. It really was just a means to facilitatethe help our sorority Sisters wanted to offer,” she said.

In the months followed, she connected 98 Sisters from 11states and collected $8,000. Binghamton alumnae from as far as California, Ohio and Missouri helped six Sisters in New Yorkand Connecticut.

For the three recipients living in Oceanside, New York, helparrived just in time. Flooding destroyed the first floors of manyhomes and their cars. Even worse was the ensuing mold, weeksof uncollected garbage, insurance and reconstruction headachesand the lack of response from local utility companies.

The flooding was particularly harrowing for Susan Eisner,Binghamton ’90. She spent the first night with her family in herattic crawlspace. As the water submerged her second floor, she feared they would die. After enduring the first night, she andher family spent days in a shelter and then weeks living in afriend’s home.

She was without power, or optimism, until the package came.“I opened the box, saw a bunch of gift cards, and closed it rightback up and cried. We are all alone, no family, and I neverexpected anything like that. I had been feeling hopeless, helpless,alone, utterly devastated. That package brought light and hopeback into my life,” Susan said.

For Rebecca Schwartz Benjamin, Binghamton ’90, the floodingwasn’t as severe as Susan’s even though they live only blocksapart. Her first floor was also destroyed. Unwittingly, she heardabout Tracy’s efforts, and was expecting some help. “Evenknowing that, I was still astonished and overwhelmed when thepackage arrived. I could not believe the level of generosity thathad been demonstrated,” Rebecca said.

What was even more meaningful for her was onereconnection. “To me, beyond the generosity, the most touchingthings were some very personal cards I received, most notablyfrom Lara Garofolo, Binghamton ’93, who was one of thefreshmen I had bonded with my senior year,” Rebecca said.

Susan and Rebecca have used the gift cards to replace majorappliances, buy paint, air purifiers, and items such as cleaning

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supplies and paper towels. Sisters sent in “literally hundreds” ofgift cards, according to Tracy, from retailers such as The HomeDepot, Bed, Bath & Beyond and Target.

Additionally, Tracy’s work stems from a struggle of her ownand the philosophy it generated. When her son was diagnosedwith a life-threatening blood disorder, Tracy remembers the helpshe and her family received from others. “We received atremendous amount of support, including the support of many ofmy Zeta Phi Chapter Sisters. Now in gratitude and celebration ofmy son’s recovery, my family is determined to pay it forwardwhenever possible and try to make giving and volunteering partof our daily lives,” Tracy said.

And what a difference she’s made. Lisa Maturando Staffa, Binghamton ’90, also lives in Oceanside,New York. When talking about Tracy and her relief efforts, Lisasaid, “Tracy is one amazing woman for organizing such amassive and generous event.” More than anything, sheappreciates outpouring of care. “The love I received from Tracyand all … is heartfelt, and my family and I are so overwhelmedwith gratitude,” she said.

Overall, the experience helped many rediscover the best thing about Alpha Xi Delta’s Zeta Phi Chapter: the support and love that comes with Sisterhood. Rebecca noted, “Some of the cards came from people I haven't spoken to probably since we graduated. But what needs to be pointed out … is that unlike simple acquaintances, the bonds we formed as a group – who sincerely called ourselves Sisters – resulted in this amazing outpouring.”

Susan Eisner (left) and Rebecca Schwartz Benjamin (right) lookingat the pictures, notes and gift cards that were included in a carepackage. Rebecca was able to repaint her green walls that areshown in the background with the Home Depot gift cards shereceived in her first care package.


Lydia Theurer Mikell Pfund, Stetson ’37, will be remembered byher Alpha Xi Delta Sisters for her contagious enthusiasm,boundless energy and philanthropic passion. While at Stetson,she was president of Omega Chapter as well as editor of theschool newspaper, the yearbook and the literary magazine.Young and vivacious, Lydia was elected to National Council in1947-49 and later appointed to serve as a National CouncilMember at Large from 1957-1962. Her focus was expansion.During her tenure, Alpha Xi Delta installed 22 chapters. OfNational Council service, Lydia said, “Hard work? Yes, butdelightful, too.”

Born in Manhattan on June 2, 1919, Lydia graduated with BAand MA degrees from Stetson University, where she taughtbriefly. Known as a woman who tackles a job with thoroughnessand determination, Lydia had many interests. She was proud tohave served in Miami, Florida, as the founding president of TheVizcayans, a membership group of the Dade County ArtMuseum, as well as first woman community member of the DadeCounty Hospital Advisory Board. She was devoted to traditionaljazz, a member of Knickerbocker Country Club, the Garden Clubof Englewood, Delray Beach Club and Norton Museum Docents.She also served on the Board of Governors of HackensackUniversity Medical Center and its Foundation, and she was a lifemember of the Nature Conservancy and the Owl’s HeadTransportation Museum in Maine.

Lydia passed away in 2011 leaving a $10,000 bequest to thegeneral scholarship fund of Alpha Xi Delta Foundation. Throughher thoughtful consideration and generosity, she leaves a legacyof educational opportunity for the women of Alpha Xi Delta.

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Do you want to ensure the Alpha Xi Deltayou love is strong today and tomorrow?

Support Alpha Xi Delta’s future by including the Foundationin your estate planning. Your planned gift will further AlphaXi Delta’s mission and may also lessen your exposureto taxes or increase your income. Popular plannedgiving options are: bequests, IRAs andretirement plan assets, life insurance, charitablegift annuities and charitable remainder trusts.

Planned gifts may be unrestricted, givingAlpha Xi Delta the most flexibility to use your giftfor priority educational programs and activities. Or

your gift may be designated for a specific purpose such asleadership programming, scholarship or operational needs. Ifyou wish to include special terms with your gift, it isimportant that you consult with the Foundation to be certainyour intent can be carried out within the parameters of the

Foundation’s 501 (c) 3 designation. Alumnae and friends who inform us they

have provided for Alpha Xi Delta Foundation in their estate plans are enrolled in our Society of 1893. Contact Kendra Lewis, Director of Development, at 317.872.3500 or

[email protected] with questions or formore information.

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From the Archives

Hats off to Alpha Xi Delta! This photo, featuring Sonoma State University Sisters KimBauman, Kathy Payne and Jenny Greer, was originally published in the fall 1989 issue of The Quill.

Alpha Xi Delta extends heartfelt congratulations to our recent graduates! We are so proud of the bold, talented women you’ve become, and we wish you the best as you continue torealize your potential in the next chapter of your lives.

Remember, no matter where life takes you, you always have a home in Alpha Xi Delta. Pleasetake a minute to update your contact information via Exclusively Xi to stay connected to theFraternity after graduation.

Memorial GiftsThe Alpha Xi Delta Foundation recognizes

Honor Gifts given from September 1,

2012, through December 31, 2012.

Ann Wilson Allard,

University of Wisconsinby Kathleen Ryan Rice,

University of Wisconsin

Bernice Askey, University of Nebraska-Lincolnby Sheryl Edson Harding,

San Diego State UniversitySue Haverkamp, San Diego State University

Ann Robinson Baird,

Frostburg State Universityby Robin Herman, Towson University

Murray Andrews Barrett,

Florida State Universityby Suzanne Strupp Eno,

Florida State University

Rebekah Blakkolb, Bowling Green State Universityby Rosemary Smet Halas,

Bowling Green State University

Rebecca Russell Breed,

University of Pennsylvaniaby Karen Runninger Barney,

Thiel CollegeDonna Dowling Muzzy,

University of California, BerkeleyLinda Faust Witmer, Iowa Wesleyan College

Ruth Fowler Brown, Ohio Universityby the Giles Memorial Foundation

Gina Marek Bruchac, University of Alabama at Birminghamby the Birmingham,

AL Alumnae Association

Anne Davidson Buck,

Wittenberg Universityby Barbara Stone Badertscher,

Wittenberg University

Harry N. Butler, father

of Angie Butler Ackerman

by Angie Butler Ackerman,

University of South Dakota

Mary G. Rallis Butler, mother

of Angie Butler Ackerman

by Angie Butler Ackerman,

University of South Dakota

Helen Clark, Ohio Universityby Betty Hayes Harden,

Ohio University

Carol Kipp Clulee, Indiana University of Pennsylvaniaby Nicholas H. Clulee, husband

of Carol Kipp Clulee

Eleanor Irwin Cochrane,

University of Michiganby Joan Clark,

University of FloridaBonnie Clark Jefferis,

Defiance CollegeNancy McSwain Phipps,

East Tennessee State University

Shirley Ericson Cowles,

University of South Dakotaby the Pikes Peak Area,

CO Alumnae Association

Jane Hightower Cypra, University of California, Berkeleyby Joan Sample Paulson,

University of California, Berkeley

Elleen Hall Denahy, University of California, Los Angelesby Julie Lambert,

Oregon State UniversityMonterey Bay Area National

Alumnae Panhellenic

Jennifer Kilmer Deponai,

Fairmont State Universityby Janice Falkenstein Denison,

Fairmont State University

Evelyn Gibbs Dice,

Northwestern Universityby Suzanne Petru,

Northwestern University

Judith Mayborn Disney,

University of Mount Unionby Connie Snode Flynn,

University of Mount Union

Virginia Straley Duvall,

Purdue Universityby Nancy Hahn Morgan,

Purdue University

Mother of Karen Elliott

by Karen Elliott, Purdue University

Barbara Elsbury, Purdue Universityby Sara Elsbury Morgan,

Purdue University

Barbara Gaston Fellows,

West Virginia Wesleyan Collegeby Shirley Kincaid Walker,

West Virginia Wesleyan College

Faye Mires Fly, Stetson Universityby Nancy Slater Larkin,

Stetson University

The Orlando, FL Alumnae Association

Shirley Laukhuf Pettit, Bowling GreenState University

Lynn Kohler Gibson, University of Iowaby Sara Coleman, University of Iowa

Eleanor Haak

by Beverly Krick Neihardt,

Indiana University

Ann Williams Hall,

University of Alabamaby Lois Taylor Williams,

University of Alabama

Carol Petersen Hall, Northern Illinois Universityby Anita Petersen Drake,

Northern Illinois University

Jane Ferguson Harvey,

Ohio Wesleyan Universityby Jane Stone,

Ohio Wesleyan University

Ruth Heselton, mother

of Carol Heselton

by Carol Heselton,

University of Northern Iowa

Barbara Reinmuth Holloman,

University of Marylandby Sheila Klase Benac,

Frostburg State University

Jessica Hughes, University of Nebraska-Lincolnby Jacqueline Rockwell Eldal,

University of Nebraska-Lincoln

Joan DeLamatre Kailey, University of Nebraska-Lincolnby Margery DeLamatre Sorenson,

University of Nebraska-Lincoln

Mary Danforth King, University of Wisconsinby Kathleen Ryan Rice,


Barbara Lewis Kuhlman,

University of Iowaby Karen Runninger Barney,

Thiel College

Donna Dowling Muzzy,

University of California, BerkeleyLinda Faust Witmer,

Iowa Wesleyan College

Ruth Coultas Langille,

University of Illinoisby Ruth Thomason Zellar,

University of Illinois

Helen Cruse Lemberger,

University of Wisconsinby Kathleen Ryan Rice,


Jennie Morgan Lombard,

University of Michiganby the Ann Arbor,

MI Alumnae Association

Elizabeth Doman,

University of MichiganJudith Sellevold LaBreche,

University of MichiganJulie Pond Matthews,

Albion CollegeBarbara Libs Murray,

University of MichiganAlveris Bonnell VanFleet Corson,

University of MichiganMarian Sayward West,

University of Michigan

Andrew M Macrina, son

of Catherine Cahill Macrina

by Catherine Cahill Macrina,

West Chester University

Nancy Sines Meckstroth,

Bowling Green State Universityby Barbara Lopacki Sines,


Susan Miller, daughter

of Barbara Stallcup Miller,

University of Oregonby Ellen Wachtel Turner,

University of Oregon

Phyllis Oetjen Moller, Coe Collegeby Denny Moller, husband of Phyllis Oetjen Moller

Sally Old, Albion Collegeby Allison James Green,

Albion College

Walter J. Payne, husband of Diane Johnson Payneby Diane Johnson Payne,



Foundation

Stephanie Peeples,

Auburn Universityby Renee Barnette,

Auburn University

Marthe Purmal,

Northwestern Universityby Jean Grommes Feehan,

Northwestern University

Helen Banda Ralsten,

Marshall Universityby Nancy Miller Lince,

Marshall University

Sheila Saraney

by Carolyn Russell Cunningham,

Old Dominion University

Virginia Welliver Sauer, mother

of Jean Sauer DeFrances

by Jean Sauer DeFrances,

Florida State University

Lucile Marie Laukhuf Shealy,

mother of Shirley Mae Laukhuf Pettit,

Bowling Green State Universityby the Orlando,

FL Alumnae Association

Kelly Sizer, Thiel Collegeby Monica Anderson,

Thiel College

Martha Davies Stone,

Randolph-Macon Collegeby Jane Stone,

Ohio Wesleyan University

Lois Kopper Stump,

Kansas State Universityby Sara Pullis Molnar,

Ferris State University

Marion Taylor

by Patricia Taylor Canavan,

University of TexasMargaret Starr Hirsch,

University of Texas

Barbara Hopkins Turner,

Syracuse Universityby Colleen Damon Everding,

Syracuse University

Joan Turner, University of Charlestonby Catherine Kawash Leikhim,

University of Charleston

Abigail Verhelst,

Kent State Universityby Maranda Mangino,

Kent State University

Catherine Vick, Old Dominion Universityby Susan Morgan Woodcock,

Old Dominion University

Helen Knapp Wade, University of California, Berkeleyby Karen Runninger Barney,

Thiel CollegeCarol Beverly Lindsey, University of California, Berkeley

Reed Webb, husband

of Ruth Henrickson Webb,

Stetson Universityby the Orlando, FL

Alumnae Association

Cathy Brady Weston,

Eastern Michigan Universityby Joy Morrison Farmer,

Eastern Michigan University

Ruth Stuber White, The Ohio State Universityby Mary Anders Adams-Smith,

The Ohio State University

Marie Wilmes

by Shelley Wilmes Grider,

Iowa Wesleyan College

Andrew Witkowicki, father

of Christina Witkowicki,

University of New Hampshireby Sarah Sexton, Friend

of Alpha Xi Delta

Honor GiftsThe Alpha Xi Delta Foundation

recognizes Honor Gifts given from

September 1, 2012, through

December 31, 2012.

Alpha Kappa, Kansas State Universityby Joan Pool Farmer, Kansas State University

Alpha Xi Delta FraternityHeadquarters Staffby Jacquelyn Lyerly, Alpha Deuteron

Alpha Xi Delta legacies born in 2012by Kati Gray Austgen, Oregon State University

Alpha Xi Delta Sisters past, present, future!by Amanda Donaldson, Idaho State University

Alpha Xi Delta’s work for autism researchby Betty Darnell Nelson, Knox College

Emily Axelrod, Kent State Universityby Susan Axelrod, mother of Emily Axelrod

Pamela McCormick Barkman,Baldwin Wallace Universityby Amy Holobyn, Indiana University South Bend

Donna E. Basso, mother of Geena Bassoby Geena Basso, Monmouth University

Diane Batley, grandmother of Randi Lotzeby Randi Lotze, Western Kentucky University

Peggy Beasley, grandmother of Kalli Beasleyby Kalli Beasley, Western Kentucky University

Keri Beckley, Purdue Universityby Nancy Beckley, mother of Keri Beckley

Amanda Berins, Stetson Universityby Jessica Dowen, Stetson University

Beta Epsilon, Monmouth College,for earning reporting promptnesspoints challengeby Karen Ogorzalek, Monmouth College

Beta Eta, University of Marylandby Sheri Edwards O’Connell,University of Maryland

Kaye Billings, Memphis State Universityby Frances Parr Bradow, University of Michigan

Karah Bogoslavsky, Lyon Collegeby Laura Bogoslavsky, mother of Karah Bogoslavsky

Elaine Bowman Bowers, Bowling Green State Universityby Lorinda Beach Bartell, Bowling Green State University

Juanita Brinsmade, mother of Anne Brinsmadeby Anne Brinsmade, Frostburg State University

Emma Brofsky, Cornell Universityby Laurie & Joseph Brofsky, parents of Emma Brofsky

Catherine Winckler Brown, Alpha Deuteronby Shirley Albrecht Winckler,University of Iowa

Ariel Buchholz, University of New Hampshireby Melanie Holwood, West Chester University

Katie Burke, Florida Atlantic Universityby Bailey Hamm, Florida Atlantic UniversityShelby Sweeney, Florida Atlantic University

April Bussert, sister of Tara Le Pullinsby Tara Pullins, Ohio Northern University

Meredith Butler, University of Nebraska-Lincolnby Stacy Scheuerman Butler,Memphis State University

Ginny Carroll, Western Kentucky Universityby Alyssa Huff, Western Kentucky University

Leslie Carson, Cornell University,October 2012 FVP of the monthby Omega Financial, Inc.

Alyssa Cassidy, University of New Hampshireby Melanie Holwood, West Chester University

Chesapeake, Maryland Alumnae Associationby Sandra Priebe Day, Frostburg State University

Dorothy Harrington Cole,grandmother of Brittany Carlinby Brittany Carlin, East Carolina University

Rachel Coles, West Liberty Universityby Randi Coles, parent of Rachel Coles

Whitney Cook, University of Northern Iowaby Cinthia Cook, mother of Whitney Cook

Randalyn Crain, East Tennessee State Universityby Thomas & Kimberly Crain, parents of Randalyn Crain


Ashley Crowe, Florida AtlanticUniversity, for her engagementby Michele Becker, Florida Atlantic University

Andrea Davila, California State University, Northridgeby Rachel Fishman, California State University, Northridge

Bianca Davis, VirginiaCommonwealth Universityby Jeffrey Davis, father of Bianca Davis

Delta Chi, University of NorthernIowa, for earning reportingpromptness points challengeby Karen Ogorzalek, Monmouth College

Lou Ann La Roche deRoode,Pennsylvania State Universityby D. Fred De Roode, son of Lou Ann La Roche deRoode

Sherri Dill, University of North Carolina Wilmingtonby Esther Dill, mother of Sherri Dill

Lisa Creager Donatini, The Ohio State Universityby Kim Creager Wilver, The Ohio State University

Peggy Martin Dorsey, West Virginia Wesleyan Collegeby Mary Dorsey Taylor, West Virginia Wesleyan College

Dan & Ellen Driscoll, parents of Amanda Driscollby Amanda Driscoll, WesternMichigan University

ELCs 2002-2003by Erin Deggendorfer Borla, Oregon State University

Chelsea Elliott, West Virginia Universityby Jennifer Elliott, mother of Chelsea Elliott

Epsilon Kappa, Western Kentucky Universityby Kristin Stuedle, Western KentuckyUniversity

Epsilon Lambda, Rider Universityby Kaitlin Finnerty, Rider University

Mallori Fahler, East Tennessee State Universityby Meredith Pippin, East TennesseeState University

Jayne Mullen Flaherty, University of Southern Maineby Vanessa Trempe, University of Southern Maine

Allyson Ford, Old Dominion Universityby Beth Ford, mother of Allyson Ford

Gamma, University of Mount Unionby Vicki Schaeffer, University of Mount Union

Pam Gianetti, mother of Crystal Gianettiby Crystal Gianetti, Youngstown State University

Sara Giza, Coastal Carolina Universityby Richard Giza, father of Sara Giza

Chelsea Gleason, Auburn Universityby Pat Gleason, parent of Chelsea Gleason

Sheelah Novak Glovna, Kent State Universityby Amy Trosin, Bowling Green State University

Aimee Gonzalez, mother of Brittney Smithby Brittney Smith, Florida Atlantic University

Meghan Elizabeth Griffith, daughterof Margaret Miesiaszek Griffithby Margaret Miesiaszek Griffith,Western Carolina University

Allison Guggenheimer, Syracuse University, August 2012 FVP of the monthby Omega Financial, Inc.

Phyllis Halcomb, Western Kentucky Universityby McKenzi Halcomb, Western Kentucky University

Bailey Hamm, Florida Atlantic Universityby Madison Liberatore, Florida Atlantic University

Abigail Hammond, Purdue Universityby Yee Yee Hammond Kuhn, Purdue University

Trina Holmsted, Florida Atlantic Universityby Dianna Grimm, Florida Atlantic University

Kelsey Hood, University of Northern Iowaby Katherine Hood, University of Northern Iowa

Megan Horst Foster, IndianaUniversity of Pennsylvania, on her marriageby Jennifer Awrey, University of WashingtonJessica Greyerbiehl, Alma CollegeLynsey Stuart, University of TennesseeNicole Valdes, University of Central Florida

Ridgely Hosser, University of New Hampshireby Melanie Holwood, West Chester University

Savannah Howe, University of Illinoisby James Howe, father of Savannah Howe

Jessica Hughes, University of North Carolina Wilmingtonby Donna Hughes, mother of Jessica Hughes

Sierra Inness, Henderson State Universityby Stephanie Thomas, mother of Sierra Inness

Iota Omicron, San Jose State Universityby Alexis Welch Danford, Eastern Washington University

Susan Jackson, mother of Raelyn Jacksonby Raelyn Jackson, Lycoming College

Kaitlin Johnson, Georgia Institute of Technologyby Valerie Johnson, mother of Kaitlin Johnson

Whitney Johnson, Marshall Universityby David & Polla Johnson, parents of Whitney Johnson

The Jones Familyby Kaeleigh Wilson, University of Wisconsin-Eau Claire

Breanna Jurs, University of Illinoisby Sandra Jurs, mother of Breanna Jurs

Kappa, University of Illinoisby Linda Harmeson, University of Illinois

Andrea Karpinski, University of New Hampshireby Melanie Holwood, West Chester University

Meghan Kelley, University of New Hampshireby Melanie Holwood, West Chester University

Laura Krebs, Coastal Carolina Universityby Phyllis Krebs, mother of Laura Krebs

Julia Kueter, Christian Brothers Universityby Emily Kueter, mother of Julia Kueter

Roslyn LeBon Lacrouts, University of New Orleansby Kelsey Matthews, University of New Orleans

Julie Lambert, Oregon State Universityby Christine Nilsen Marciano, Oregon State University

Jessica Lash, Bowling Green State Universityby Monica Lash, mother of Jessica Lash

Kendra Becker Lewis, Purdue Universityby Jacquelyn Lyerly, Alpha DeuteronBobby Allphin Stanton, University of Kentucky

Kendra Lewis, University of Mount Unionby Elissa Good Smith, University of Mount Union

Gena Loe, Ohio Northern Universityby Steve & Tricia Loe, parents of Gena Loe

Randi Lotze, Western Kentucky Universityby Robert & Kelly Lotze, parents of Randi Lotze

Donna Loya, California StateUniversity, San Marcosby Savanah Shick, California State University, San Marcos

Sue Lynch, grandmother of Meredith Halpernby Meredith Halpern, University of Nebraska at Omaha

Stacey Marten, mother of Elena Martenby Elena Marten, Pennsylvania State University

Maria Martinez, mother of Ashle Martinezby Ashle Martinez, California State University, San Marcos

Debbie Martino, mother of Amanda Martinoby Amanda Martino, Brooklyn College

Heather Mason, Auburn Universityby Susan Mason, mother of Heather Mason

Caroline McClelland, Purdue Universityby Robert & Ann McClelland, parents of Caroline McClelland

Meagan McNeil, University of Texasby Jamie Pross, University of Texas

Amanda Medlock, Auburn Universityby Kathy Medlock, mother ofAmanda Medlock

Kaitlyn Meinert, Kansas State Universityby Robin Meinert, parent of Kaitlyn Meinert

Megan Gustafson Melloy, University of Iowaby Zola Wagner, University of Washington


Foundation

Susan Nazimek, Coastal Carolina Universityby Diane Nazimek, mother of Susan Nazimek

Aline Lacey Neumann, CulverStockton College, for her many years of service to our Fraternityby Diane Harrison, University of Missouri-St. LouisSondra Stonebraker Harrison,Washington University

Olivia O’Connell, WorcesterPolytechnic Instituteby Sydney Baker, WorcesterPolytechnic Institute

Our Many Blessingsby Nancy Norg Maier, University of Wisconsin

Lauren Ouwerkerk, Wright State Universityby Michaela Scholl, Wright State University

Hanah Papp, Albion Collegeby Lydia Dahl, Marquette University

Lauren Partain, Kansas State Universityby Stephanie Peterson, Kansas State University

Paige Pescatore, Elon Universityby Caroline Hallett, Elon University

Marion Peterson, grandmother of Amy Petersonby Amy Peterson, Carroll University

Kelsie Pettit, University of Nebraska at Omahaby Ronald & Signe Pettit, parents of Kelsie Pettit

Phi, Albion College, past, present, futureby Jennifer Price Hegener, Albion College

Pi, Ohio University, 100th anniversaryby Carolyn McLaughlin Cuppernull, Ohio University

Colette Piccari, University of Rhode Islandby Susan Piccari, mother of Colette Piccari

Mckinzie Pierson, Boise State Universityby Allison Yawczak, Boise State University

Mallory Potter, Florida Atlantic Universityby Alexandria Wessel, Florida Atlantic University

Paulette Trumpp Raburn, Bowling Green State Universityby Jessica Raburn Mormino, Bowling Green State University

Rho, University of Nebraska-Lincoln,100th anniversaryby Regina Todero Mangine,University of Nebraska-LincolnAllison Senger, University of Nebraska-Lincoln

Sarah Richards, Ohio Universityby Teresa Robinson, mother of Sarah Richards

Rachel Richart, The Ohio State Universityby Ann Richart, mother of Rachel Richart

Melinda Rodgers, Southeast Missouri State Universityby Julie Robinson, Southeast Missouri State University

Jennifer Rowell, friend of Karlee Sturnby Karlee Sturn, Embry-RiddleAeronautical University-Prescott

Stacy Neuwien Rowland, Auburn Universityby Martha Atkins Magnuson, Auburn University

Cindy Ruben, mother of Ilana Rubenby Ilana Ruben, Pennsylvania State University

Carelin Janicek Ryan, University of Wisconsinby Carolyn Kenney-Carter, University of Wisconsin

Katie Kennedy Schafer, East Carolina Universityby Mackenzie Williams, East Carolina University

Sara Schmidt, University of New Hampshireby Melanie Holwood, West Chester University

Susan Bostwick Shiring, Universityof Mount Unionby Nancy Fehrmann Gainer, Iowa State University

Sigma, University of Iowa,100th anniversaryby Judith Drews Haring-Green,University of Iowa

Charlotte Slate, University of New Hampshireby Melanie Holwood, West Chester University

Mary Ellen Cunningham South,Frostburg State Universityby Margaret Morley Yates, Frostburg State University

Jana Steiner, University of Nebraska-Omahaby Suzanne Steiner, mother of Jana Steiner

Karen Steinhofer, University of Wisconsin-Oshkoshby Phil & Susan Steinhofer, parents of Karen Steinhofer

Meredith Stucin, West Virginia Universityby Kendra Thalman, West Virginia University

Rachael Stueder, Kansas State Universityby Mallory Patten, Kansas State University

Shelby Sweeney, Florida Atlantic Universityby Lisa Bresson, Florida Atlantic UniversityBrenna Romano, Florida Atlantic University

Christina Tascione, University of New Hampshireby Melanie Holwood, West Chester University

Team Texas (University of Texas National Team)by Devon McGoldrick, RochesterInstitute of Technology

Kimberly Teetsell, University of New Hampshireby David & Judith Teetsell, parents of Kimberly Teetsell

Theta Theta, Brooklyn Collegeby Keshia Megie, Brooklyn College

Annette Thill, mother of Nicole Thillby Nicole Thill, California StateUniversity-San Marcos

Amelia Thomas, Georgia Institute of Technologyby Gerald & Loretta Thomas, parents of Amelia Thomas

Lauren Tieniber, University of Delawareby Danielle Jelensperger, University of Delaware

Vanessa Torres, niece of Daisy Torresby Daisy Torres, California State University, Stanislaus

Mackenzie Vance, Marshall Universityby Timothy & Karma Vance, parentsof Mackenzie Vance

Sydney Vandeveer, Alma Collegeby Steven & Jean Vandeveer, parentsof Sydney Vandeveer

Alexandra Welch, Marietta Collegeby Carrie Welch, mother of Alexandra Welch

Alexandria Wessel, Florida Atlantic Universityby Stefanie Scalish, Florida Atlantic University

Jodi White, Coastal Carolina Universityby Rosaria White, mother of Jodi White

Meghan Wilson, West Chester Universityby Nancy Wilson, mother of Meghan Wilson

Susan Winckler, University of Iowaby Shirley Albrecht Winckler,University of Iowa

Emily Wulfkuhle, Marquette Universityby Barbara Bianchi, Marquette University

Phyllis Banker Wunderlich, Indiana Universityby Joyce Banker Stanton, Indiana University

Tatum Young, Texas StateUniversity-San Marcosby Alisen Barton, Texas StateUniversity-San Marcos

Zeta Chi, University of North Carolina Wilmingtonby Jessica Hughes, University of North Carolina Wilmington

Jeanette Hoyt Ziesman, Drake Universityby Kelsie Pettit, University of Nebraska at Omaha


Alpha ChapterLombard College/Knox CollegeMarylu Ericson Doyle ’45Mary Ann Reed Ingersoll ’49Betty Lorene Thomas Stumpf ’53

Beta ChapterIota Wesleyan CollegeMarian Peppers Waas ’35Cynthia Jayne Ward ’65Katherine Marie Wait Williams ’54

Gamma ChapterUniversity of Mount UnionGrace Mary Tanney Kish ’45

Delta ChapterBethany CollegeMary Jane Hare Foulk ’39Betty Anne Foley Reddig ’43

Epsilon ChapterUniversity of South DakotaShirley Lucille Ericson Cowles ’52Marian Sheeley Midbo ’36Shirley Ann Gall Steele ’46

Zeta ChapterWittenberg UniversityJeanne Fulmer Kruger ’33Betty Eleanor Sipes Stough ’35

Eta ChapterSyracuse UniversityBarbara Manchester Biederman ’31Joanne Marie Crowley Bonestell ’57Nancy J. Mobus Hood ’50Irene Elizabeth Stafford ’30

Theta ChapterUniversity of WisconsinLorraine Toepfer Craig ’50Dolores M. Kingsbury Sorenson ’48

Iota ChapterWest Virginia UniversityElizabeth R. Morrison Balling ’26Virginia Tait Jones ’48

Kappa ChapterUniversity of IllinoisMary Adelaide Hull Barth ’43Elizabeth Deuchler

Bettenhausen ’44

Lambda ChapterTufts UniversityMary Jane Agnew Harmon ’53

Mu ChapterUniversity of MinnesotaBette Lee Steele Keyes ’39

Nu ChapterUniversity of WashingtonJane Talbot Church ’39Marian Knudson Gruber ’50Ellery Ann Dolan Petlow

Olswang ’50Betty Dean Senneff ’34

Xi ChapterUniversity of KentuckyMelissa Graham Ash ’92Agnes Rose Savage Matthews ’33Louise Swinford Wieman ’48

Omicron ChapterUniversity of California, BerkleyDonna Jean Bacon Leimbach ’39Marie Louise Lewis Matthews ’51Shirley Anne Stone Raney ’53Helen Jane Knapp Wade ’40Helen Louise Waldron Zornes ’41

Pi ChapterOhio UniversityJanet Getty McCullough ’42Ann Lee Channell Olsen-Lavelle ’46Carol Lynn Thompson Walker ’77

Rho ChapterUniversity of Nebraska–LincolnMartha Marie Picard Byrkit ’51Mary Mecke Doty ’49Dorothy Ann Worden Hagge ’49Betty H. Williams Johnson ’50Helen Carolyn Ress Rees ’40Mary Ellen Armour Stone ’44

Sigma ChapterUniversity of IowaBarbara Jane Lewis Kuhlman ’52

Tau ChapterUniversity of New HampshireGretchen Schnare Taylor ’59

Psi ChapterThe Ohio State UniversityBetty May Smith Barnes ’37Carol Griffith Kuhn ’51Elsie Heurich Lieber ’41Kathlyn Mock Smith ’43Mrs. Marilyn Jean Rolfes Smith ’52

Omega ChapterStetson UniversityBessie Faye Mires Fly ’34

Alpha Beta ChapterCornell UniversityLois H Haring Holden ’36Helen E Fellows Naylor ’35

Alpha Gamma ChapterCoe CollegeAlma Arline Armstrong Jennrich ’42Mildred Muriel Vangorkum

Schultz ’45

Alpha Delta ChapterOregon State UniversityBarbara Joanne Cox Carder ’48Sally Anne Niederkrome Newell ’46

Alpha Epsilon ChapterUniversity of MichiganSandra Yat Ngo Jim Chee ’68Eleanor Bruce Irwin Cochrane ’47Jennie Ann Morgan Lombard ’56

Alpha Eta ChapterPurdue UniversityEdith Caroline Hegel Duffey ’29Patricia L Kubkowski

Ruszkowski ’46Madelyn Louise Schroeder

Sundquist ’49

Alpha Theta ChapterNorthwestern UniversityLorraine Marie Jones Hamilton ’52Marthe C. Purmal ’60

Alpha Iota ChapterDrake UniversityWilma Joyce Griswold Bevis ’45Laura Yvonne Walker Chapman ’46Carol Sue Virgen Lange ’57Alice E Barry Sears ’47Grizelda Morse Stute ’28

Alpha Kappa ChapterKansas State UniversityMaxine Marie Brown Cory ’49Earnestine A. Sutter Gibb ’40Barbara Lou Blaine Grothe ’45Joyce Anne Davis Meyer ’49Nancy Marylyn Halderson Olson ’47Georgene Baird Wade ’37

Alpha Lambda ChapterUniversity of OregonOrpha Jane Ager Christenson ’28Frances Sue Schroeder Newsom ’25

The spring 2013 Chapter Eternal includes all the names of Sisters whose passing was reported to FraternityHeadquarters between September 1, 2012 and January 31, 2013. Sisters are listed alphabetically in chapter order,along with their initiation year. To notify the Fraternity of a Sister’s passing, please send an obituary notice,memorial service pamphlet or other written confirmation to Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity Headquarters.


Chapter Eternal


Alpha Mu ChapterOhio Wesleyan UniversityAlice C. Wind Dolphin ’28Audrey June Wilcke Evans ’36Carol Mae Dixon Haught ’54Carol Audrey Lechthaler Hills ’43Margaret Tilby Kellum Northrup ’31Louise McFarland Sams ’34

Alpha Xi ChapterUniversity of California, Los AngelesElleen Celia Hall Denahy ’43Marian Dixon Thomas

Gulbrandson ’29

Alpha Omicron ChapterHunter CollegeLouise Mortel Beausejour Taylor ’34

Alpha Pi ChapterMiddlebury CollegeHarriet Tillinghast Fuller ’41

Alpha Rho ChapterAllegheny CollegeJane Bowman Metz ’48

Alpha Phi ChapterUniversity of PennsylvaniaRebecca Jane Russell Breed ’46

Alpha Chi ChapterRandolph-Macon CollegeEvelyn Goodwin Giles ’28

Alpha Psi ChapterUniversity of DenverRuth Minor Pennell Garrett ’37Ruth Ann Sloat Prince ’36

Beta Beta ChapterWashington UniversityHelen I. Trauernicht Anderson ’46Norma Jean Nickles Graham ’46

Beta Gamma ChapterCentenary College of LouisianaMartha Jean Yancey Koelemay ’43Werdna Rew Baird McClurkin ’31

Beta Delta ChapterDenison UniversityKatherine Mary Collins Cox ’40June Dorothea Ammon Robbins ’37

Beta Epsilon ChapterMonmouth CollegeMary Elizabeth Heighway

Jensen ’40

Beta Eta ChapterUniversity of MarylandAlice Carolyn Thompson Byrne ’48Barbara Reinmuth Holloman ’66Jeanne E. Wirsing Ramsen ’41Lois Lenora Talcott Taft ’35Ellen Elizabeth Talcott ’36Patricia A Hoover Vereb ’53Dorothy Nell Graves Webster ’42

Beta Theta ChapterMichigan State UniversityKatherine Gonso Mitchell ’46

Beta Kappa ChapterBaldwin Wallace UniversityJacqueline Joyc Olds Miller ’41Lois Ruth Stender Rolke ’42

Beta Lambda ChapterPennsylvania State UniversityVirginia Elizab Schar Irving ’52

Beta Mu ChapterBowling Green State UniversityMaria Monachino Cutler ’56Jean Edith Kebabian Liccione ’64

Beta Nu ChapterCulver Stockton CollegeMary Eugena Ellison-Norton ’95

Beta Xi ChapterMarietta CollegePatsy Lou Weihl Brown ’52Joan Garber Scragg ’49

Beta Pi ChapterIndiana UniversityRosemary A. Collins ’48

Beta Tau ChapterKent State UniversityJeannette Ann Green Gaylord ’53Linda Weiler Thompson ’66Fawn Michelle Stager Woodruff ’75

Beta Upsilon ChapterUniversity of Rhode IslandBarbara Macdonald Messinger ’48

Gamma Beta ChapterMarshall UniversityAnn Carolyn Vintroux Morris ’50Jo Ellen Rhodes Rumpler ’52

Gamma Gamma ChapterUniversity of ArizonaMargie Ann Jones King ’52

Gamma Delta ChapterUniversity of Nebraska at OmahaSusan Menzies Hartigan ’78Ardith Reese Stickman ’50

Gamma Theta ChapterEast Tennessee State UniversityFlorence Adele Isaacs Grimaldi ’66

Gamma Iota ChapterLambuth UniversitySusan Jane Hauck ’74

Gamma Nu ChapterSoutheast Missouri State UniversityMelinda JoAnn Rodgers Young ’95

Gamma Pi ChapterNorthern Illinois UniversityLinda Burnell Reinert ’65

Gamma Sigma ChapterThiel CollegeKelly Jo Sizer ’86

Delta Gamma ChapterUniversity of Nebraska KearneyCarol I. Schrepel Cope ’62

Delta Nu ChapterIndiana University of PennsylvaniaCarol Ellen Kipp Clulee ’63

Delta Xi ChapterGeorgia State UniversityNancy Sue Baggett Kornfield ’72

Delta Omicron ChapterFairmont State UniversityDiane Eleanor Lambiotte ’71

Delta Rho ChapterUniversity of California, NorthridgeSheryl Marie Stephenson Payne ’92

Delta Phi ChapterUniversity of CharlestonJeanette Fleshin Alexander ’65

Delta Psi ChapterTexas State University – San MarcosNancy Kay Kelly ’71Jennifer Lynn Vittitoe

McCormack ’96

Epsilon Gamma ChapterWestern Carolina UniversityCarolyn Gail Ferguson Sherrill ’70

Epsilon Pi ChapterJacksonville State UniversityMargaret Dishman Colgin ’74

Epsilon Phi ChapterIowa State UniversityJoan Karol Larson Skolas ’76

Zeta Theta ChapterWright State UniversitySusan Jane Kempton Bollinger ’80

Theta Phi ChapterUniversity of Alabama atBirminghamGina Renee Marek Bruchac ’04

Iota Eta ChapterUniversity of Texas – El PasoJuana Isabel Muniz ’07

Alpha Deuteron ChapterDiewertje Elizabeth Peer ’95


Living Our Symphony

When Katrina struck the Gulf Coast in 2005,Donna Flowers O’Daniels, North Carolina State ’86, and hercommunity were left devastated. The city of Sidell, Louisiana wascovered in nearly 20 feet of water and popular buildings, prominentlandmarks and the natural landscape were washed away. Homes, if they were still standing, were left bare and broken, and manypeople were missing loved ones. It took years for the state to builditself back up, and in the aftermath of the storm, the country cametogether to send donations and volunteers to aid those in need.

Fast forward to 2012, and Superstorm Sandy blows through the Northeast, and once again a natural disaster is the cause ofdamaged homes and uprooted families. After watching the weathercoverage and seeing the unbelievable, yet familiar, scene unfold,Donna knew she had to do something to help.

After talking with her colleague, Kim Bergeron, Donna and Kim decided to organize the Train of Hope, a social media campaign created to collect donations in Louisiana, and send them to those areas of New Jersey and New York that were hit by the storm. “We have been on the receiving end of so many people’s graciousness in the past,” Donna said. “We knew

the generosity of the folks in this area and that they would want to help.” The only trouble was figuring out how to deliver the donations.

That’s where Amtrak comes in. Through the Train of Hope socialmedia campaign, Donna and Kim were able to get in touch with thedecision makers at Amtrak and set up more than a dozen donationdrop-off locations in their local community. A week later, Donnafound herself on an Amtrak train traveling from Louisiana to NewJersey with an 85-foot boxcar filled with donated relief supplies. “Wefilled the boxcar and then some,” Donna explained. “We had severalpallets of supplies also in the regular baggage car and then therewas still some that came on the train the next day.”

When asked what supplies were collected through the Train ofHope, Donna said, “It’s always the same stuff after a storm. You neednon-perishable food items, batteries and cleaning supplies. If youhave babies in the family, you need diapers, baby food and formula.”While these may seem like basic items to most people, after a stormlike this, families return home to find damaged homes and emptygrocery stores. To get an idea of just how much supplies wereneeded in the northeast, Donna recalls her experience working with

Train of HopeTrain of HopeBy Lauren Fisher, Indiana ’08, Communications CoordinatorBy Lauren Fisher, Indiana ’08, Communications Coordinator


Bayonne, New Jersey. “When the mayor of Bayonne heard we werecoming and that we were literally bringing 5,000 D batteries withus – those are the ones that have to go into all of the flashlights,portable radios and all of the things you need when you don’t haveany power – from what I understand, he started crying.”

When the train returned from the Northeast, plans were alreadybeing made to send a second Train of Hope to New York and NewJersey for the holidays. This time, the Train of Hope challenged its followers to collect donations from all 50 states. During thischallenge, Donna’s chapter Sisters from the Zeta Rho Chapter atNorth Carolina State University sent donations from their respectivestates and helped spread the word about the Train of Hope. Sistersand other individuals posted about these relief efforts and sharedinformation through social media. “My experience as a collegiatemember and an alumnae member of Alpha Xi Delta, and as a formerchapter consultant traveling the country, it definitely gave me someof those lifelong friendships and relationships that really mean a lot,and those people really stepped up to help as we were working onthis project,” Donna said.“In some cases, there were people that Iactually hadn’t talked to in years, and we just kept in touch viaFacebook. To have those people reach out and say ‘I want to mail adonation to Louisiana for you to have on the Train of Hope,’ wasreally special.”

When the second Train of Hope was ready to make its journey,each of the 50 states were represented on the train. In addition todelivering relief supplies to the Northeast, the second traindelivered toys to children who might not have had the opportunityto celebrate the holidays this year. Between the two trains, Donnaestimated that about half a million dollars worth of donations weredelivered to areas of New York and New Jersey.

While the Train of Hope does not have any future plans foranother relief trip, Donna hopes and believes that this projectinspired others to keep paying it forward. “Let’s face it, hurricanescome and go every year, tornados happen, earthquakes happen,wildfires happen, and we hope that some of the people we were ableto help in the Northeast will take on their own projects and help dosomething else down the line, “ Donna says. The individuals in theNortheast were inspired by the Train of Hope and the support theyreceived from the Katrina survivors. In fact, many Sandy survivorstold Donna and the Train of Hope team, “You’ve inspired us, and wehave to get through to our own disaster, but we’re going to pay thisforward one day, too.”

For more information about the Train of Hope visitwww.trainofhope.net.

FROM LEFT TO RIGHT: Sharing messages of hope from Louisiana are Louisiana Northshore’s Tanya Leader, Assemblyman Jason O’Donnell,Bayonne Mayor Mark Smith, Louisiana Northshore CEO Donna O’Daniels, Hoboken Councilman Tim Occhipinti and Slidell Cultural & PublicAffairs’ Director Kim Bergeron. When Donna travelled to Hoboken, New Jersey she gave Hoboken councilman Tim Occhipinti a specialgreeting from the kindergarteners at Cedarwood School in Mandeville, Louisiana. In preparation to send the second train to the northeast,volunteers loaded trucks for two days with donations from St. Tammany Parish, Greater New Orleans and the Lafayette area. The Train ofHope was decorated for its second trip in December. This time the train delivered relief supplies and toys for the holidays.

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