the joy of reconnecting
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If you have just broken up with your partner you will be anxious to get back with them. This document can help you.TRANSCRIPT
Experience The Joy Of Repairing Your Relationship
Summary
Breaking up with somebody that you love can be one of the most difficult things that you can
ever do. Often only one partner wants the break up to happen and there are ways that the other
person can get their ex partner back.
There have been thousands of books written with regard to getting your ex back following the
breakup of a relationship. Most of these often give very illogical advice of what you actually
need to do in order to get him or her back in your life. It is really very hard to get the right advice
from these books and if you are looking for some good tips then you should pick up an online
publication called “the magic of making up” which can provide the right ideas to get your loved
one back.
Below you find some important tips that you will learn from going through this book. It will help
to enjoy a much more healthy relationship with your ex the second time around.
It is very natural that you may want to rush in with all guns blazing after the breakup but this is
not the right way to deal with it. You should give enough space and time to your ex before
beginning to show how much you love and care about them. You should not contact them too
much but still you have to show that you are always thinking about them without making them
feel that you are obsessed about the whole situation. Phone or text them and ask how they are
doing and you can talk about something that you used to enjoy together. This is the very initial
strategy that you should follow.
It is really important that you do take the blame for any of your actions that could have spoiled
your relationship with your ex, avoid taking well intended advice that others give to you about
what you should do and shouldn’t do in order to make them return to you. Always remember one
thing that you are the person who is going to be the one who has to live with the consequences of
what you do in terms of your life and relationship.
Obviously you should never be fully influenced by what others say or the advice given to you.
Yes, maybe they are trying to share your pain but they don’t really know what could be best for
you and for your ex. It is really important to realize one thing that you are going to take the right
decision in order to save your relationship and here you are alone. So it is your decision and
responsibility and you should do it in the proper way. At the end of the day, you have to accept
the joy or the pain, whatever it be; you are alone to face it.
You should try to avoid your ex initially, instead of talking to them over the phone or texting
them constantly. Use this time for yourself and think what has actually caused the relationship to
end and make a good plan to resolve this particular issue.
Resource
If you are in the situation where your partner has broken up your relationship then it is really
worth reading the Magic Of Making Up and follow the advice there to get them back.