the importance-of-failure-self-management
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Who of you have never failed?
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Do I know myself well
enough?
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I am =
a person,
a brand,
a media company,
a business!
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"As you think so shall you will see.“
= BE
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How do I see myself in 5 years?
How do I see myself in 10 years?
How do I see myself in 20 years?
= How do I want to see myself!
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Look into every failure to learn a lesson with it?
What can I learn from it that will make me better?
Failure is part of trying and it is a feedback when you do things?
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Write down 10 goals to achieve in the next 10 months!
What is the 5 goals to achieve in the next month!
What am I going to do / start doing today to reach this?
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the historical moment of time I live
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1. Where you want to be?
2. Where you are today?
3. What are your special qualities, capacities, passions?
4. How can you develop and improve your skills?
5. How can you be in charge of your life, emotional, material, sentimental?
6. And what are the main gaps to get there?
7. Are you doing enough to get there?
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SPECIAL CAPACITIES
WHAT DRIVES ME
WHAT DO I WANT
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What is exactly what I want?
What is the price I am going to pay to get it?
What is my plan to get it?
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Think yourself as a business + a media company-> what do you like to do?-> investment-> reaction-> tracking / analytics -> non-financial impact = ROA – Return on Attention -> financial impact = ROI $ -> emotional impact-> personal impact-> professional impact
Do your own SWOT analysis:
What are your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats?
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How do I protect myself for the failure and bounce
All of life is cycle and trends
What ear general cycles of my life
Be prepared for inevitable down turns
Problem, problem, problem, crisis
How do I respond to a crisis
How do I respond to my problems
Become solution oriented
Define my problem(s)
Write it/them down
The goal is to reach what can have more positive impact in my life?
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Awareness
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A well-defined purpose in life
Resistance and ambition to aim above mediocrity
(Continuous) Education
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7 Willpower Mindsets and What Makes You Succeed
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Will power to Fight (mainly inertia and Procrastination)
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7 Willpower Mindsets and What Makes You Succeed
Capacity to control and to have self-discipline
Capacity to manage the negative energies
Persistence, Persistence7
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Self discipline +emotional control =key!
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Loose the fear of failure!
We are professionals of failure.
Trial and error!
There is no such thing as failure, but feedback!
The biggest failure is the fear of failure.
Look at every failure into something that is not the end of the world!
Find the lesson in failure!
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I have not failed. I've just found 10000 ways that won't work.
Thomas A. Edison