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TRANSCRIPT
In my newsletter series last year, I guided us
on a bit of a tour of the geography of the
Amidah. As with most guided tours, our
journey through the Amidah was too short -
it only provided an opportunity to point out
highlights and hopefully spark your interest to
return and find out more. Luckily, unlike a
tour to a foreign country, it is possible to
revisit the Amidah any day of the week, no
airfare required! I invite all of you to continue
the exploration of its depths and peaks on
your own, and share what you discover with
me and with others!
This year's newsletter excursion will be
through the Talmud. Given the vast quantity
of texts in the Talmudic landscape, in contrast
with the more limited size of the Amidah, this
year we will be farther than ever from getting
a full picture of the layout of the
land.... Furthermore, in a Talmudic landscape
there are not only peaks and valleys, but intri-
cate networks of winding trails of argument
with difficult footwork and surprise
switchbacks, so that it can be all too easy to
get disoriented and lost. And whoever in-
vented the concept of not being able to see
the forest for the trees might have had Tal-
mud in mind too. This year, on our first ex-
cursion together through this landscape, I will
aim to guide us on some easier trails that have
overlook spots providing a clearer view of the
forest with all its richness and diversity. But
by doing so I don't want to give the impres-
sion that Talmud is always easy.
So, for the moment, we are going to plunge
into a somewhat wilder spot, a spot that is an
atypical starting point. We will begin not with
a summary of the history and development of
the Talmud, nor even with the beginning text
of the first volume of the Talmud. Rather,
because the High Holidays are already upon
us, I thought I would jump ahead and bring us
directly to take a glimpse at Tractate Rosh
Hashanah.
If one were to pull this volume off the shelf and start
reading, it would not be immediately apparent that
Rosh Hashanah was its primary concern! It begins by
quoting a section of an earlier legal text, called the
Mishnah, which states that there are four New Years:
"There are four periods of commencement of years:
viz.—on the first of Nissan is a new year for [the
computation of the reign of] kings, and for festivals;
the first of Elul is a new year for the tithe of cattle,
but according to R. Eleazar and R. Simeon, it is on
the first of Tishri. The first of Tishri is New Year's
[day] for the ordinary or civil year, for the computa-
tion of the seventh years [or years of release], and of
the jubilees; also for the planting of trees, and for
herbs. On the first of Shevat is the new year for
trees, according to Beth Shammai; but Beth Hillel say,
"it is on the fifteenth of the same month." (By the
way, R. Eleazar = Rabbi Eleazar...)
In brief (or not so brief) then, the new years may be
counted as follows:
* The first of Nissan: for kings and for festivals (i.e.,
Passover, Sukkot, Shavuot)
* The first of Elul: for tithing animals (but some say
this should be the first of Tishrei, which would imply
that perhaps this is not a new year after all, so maybe
there are only three....?!)
* The first of Tishrei: for civil matters, for the jubilee,
for planting trees and herbs (and this is, of course,
the Rosh Hashanah that we celebrate in the Fall)
* The first of Shevat: for trees (but some say it is the
fifteenth of Shevat)
You might notice that this initial text from the Mish-
nah is full of disagreements. Is Elul even a new year
at all? Is the new year for trees on the 1st or the
15th of Shevat? Why do there seem to be two new
years for trees - Tishrei and Shevat? And what is a
new year for kings anyway?! The Mishnah itself does
not resolve these kinds of questions here, which
necessitates further discussion. The Gemara (the
Talmud's commentary on the Mishnah) obligingly fills
that void. Perhaps even over-fills it!
Rabbi’s Message
September, 2013 “The Temple Shofar”
Temple B’nai Abraham
Important Dates
Erev Rosh Hashanah
7:30pm 9/4
Rosh Hashanah
9:30am 9/5
Rosh Hashanah
9:30am 9/6
Hebrew School Open House 10am
9/8
Kol Nidre 6:15pm
9/13
Yom Kippur 9:30am
9/14
Ne’lah
6:00pm 9/14
Shabbat
7:30pm 9/20
Tot Shabbat
6:00pm 9/27
Temple President Rabbi Sarah Siedel Sisterhood President
Charlie Weiss Julie Pfau Randye Bloom
Temple Officers
Temple President
Charlie Weiss
Executive Vice President
Brian Epstein
VP, Finance & Treasurer
Michael Rosen
VP, Religious Committee
Marcia Rosen
VP, Membership Devlp.
Kim Aubry
Chair, Religious School
Robin Affrime
Chair, Adult Education
Betsy Ramos
Chair, Building
Neil Nissim
Chair, Fundraising
Linda Osman
Recording Secretary
Susan Giachetti
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comfort, who console. I am
proud to be president of this
wonderful institution, with all
its rich history and heritage. I
follow in the footsteps of a long
list of incredible temple presi-
dents, many of whom are still
members. You will see us all at
the start of the High Holiday
services. It is a special mo-
ment, but only one of many
throughout the year.
At this time of year, Ashkenazi
Jews say L’shana Tova Ketiva
ve-chatima tovah which trans-
lates as "may you be written
and sealed for a good
year." The formal Sephardic
greeting is Tizku leshanim rab-
bot, which means "may you
merit many years." Whatever
your custom, I wish you a
sweet and prosperous year.
Warm regards,
Charlie Weiss
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The summer always goes by so
quickly, but this has been a
great one for B’nai Abraham. It
started with a very successful
set of Congregational Meetings
– my first time leading. Since
joining TBA and attending
these annual meetings, I’ve
always felt there was something
special about getting together
once a year to renew our col-
lective decision to persevere as
a congregation, to budget our
funds wisely, and to invite our
community members to take
on a larger role.
As is tradition, we voted in the
incoming temple board. As you
connect with these representa-
tives throughout the year,
please take a moment to shake
their hand and thank them for
their unswerving dedication
and invaluable service to our
community. And on a similar
note, I would also like to take
After beginning Tractate Rosh Hashanah by
quoting the above Mishnah, the Gemara goes
on to discuss the first case listed - the first of
Nissan, the new year for kings and festi-
vals. The discussion is elaborate and goes on
for several pages or dapim (the word for page
is daf, the plural is dapim).
When I first started reading this volume of
Talmud, I found myself frustrated by this dis-
cussion. I wanted them to talk about Rosh
Hashanah, to offer some guidance and perhaps
even spiritual insight to infuse my holiday
preparations with meaning, but here they were
arguing about how to count the reign of a king
based on which month he came into power!
Comments about predated and post-dated
documents were only the beginning. They dis-
cussed what happens if a king comes into
power on the 29th of Adar, or the 1st of Nis-
san, or what happens if the prior king dies in
Adar but the new king doesn't come into
power until Nissan, or if the prior king dies in
Adar and is succeeded in Adar, or if the prior
king dies in Nissan and is succeeded in Nis-
san.... They jumped back to the timing of the
Exodus story, discussed the timing of Moses'
final speech and Aaron's death, and the life and
death of a foreign king named Sichon....
The convoluted journey seemed to draw ever
farther from the Days of Awe.... And in the
midst if my frustration, I wondered why I was
surprised. I, a Rabbi, well acquainted with the
non-linear nature of the Talmud and its vastly
different historical and social context, had nev-
ertheless come to the text with an expectation
that it should fit with my sense of order and
speak to my current priorities and spiritual
needs. How silly of me!
And this is the first lesson to be learned about
Talmud. It will always surprise you. It will not
be what you expect. Sometimes it will most
definitely NOT be what you want! But what
happens when you let go of expectations for
what the text should be might surprise you. In
the case of my foray into Tractate Rosh Hasha-
nah, well, you will just have to wait until the
High Holidays to find out!
Shanah tovah u'metukah!
I wish all of you a good and sweet new year!
Shalom,
Rabbi Pfau
President’s Message
the opportunity to thank our
outgoing board member – Sid
Morginstin – and incoming
board member – Marcia Rosen
– whose involvement will
gratefully continue beyond
their official capacities.
We also spent the summer
rededicating our efforts to
increasing membership. Special
thanks to Debby Weiss & Brian
Epstein for their endless hours
spent designing our long-
overdue NEW WEBSITE that
our community and visitors will
be able to enjoy beginning this
month. The new website is
more than just a resource and
marketing tool…it’s our first
point of contact where we
have an opportunity to tell our
compelling story.
This synagogue is blessed with
staff and congregants who
reach out, who welcome, who
Rabbi’s Message (continued from page 1)
Get well to Ronnie Zeichner from Elaine and Jay Trackman
In honor of Kim Aubry member-of-the-year from Elaine and Jay Trackman
In memory of Ron Szymanski from Marsha and Joel Dowshen, Michael Scolaro and Randye
Bloom
Get well to Elaine Trackman from Ronnie and Stan Zeichner
Get well to David Caldwell from Robin and Steve Affrime, Michael Scolaro and Randye Bloom
Phyllis Busch for the yahrtzeit remembering Bee Busch
Brian & Maribeth Epstein in memory of Ethel Shipe
Eileen Gale in memory of Marcel Nissim
Betsy Ramos in memory of Bernard Shain
Jack Ross for the yahrtzeit remembering Bonnie Ross
Randye Bloom & Michael Scolaro in memory of Elaine Zeitz
Renee Harrison for the yahrtzeit remembering Harvey Roseman
Rhea Goldman for the yahrtzeit remembering Norman Goldman
Elaine & Jay Trackman for the yahrtzeit remembering Elinor Roth
Brian & Maribeth Epstein for the yahrtzeits remembering Annette Brewis, Jerome Epstein,
Benjamin Epstein
Randye Bloom & Michael Scolaro for the yahrtzeit remembering Selma Bloom
Marcy Schwartz-Shain & Richard Shain for the yahrtzeit remembering Celia Schwartz
“What the
caterpillar
perceives is the
end, to the
butterfly is just
the beginning.”
- Anon
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Sisterhood Officers
Sisterhood President
Randye Bloom
Vice President
Debby Weiss
Treasurer/Financial Scty
Marcy Schwartz
Recording Secretary
Ellen Wehrman
Corresponding Secretary
Patricia Light-Tolomeo
Trustees
Susan Roth
Susan Giachetti
Temple Donations
Sisterhood News & Announcements
Break the Fast
Temple B’nai Abraham and Sarah
Seidel Sisterhood invite your family
and you to join us for Break the
Fast on Saturday, Sept. 14th
(around 7:00 p.m.). Each family
attending is asked to bring a pre-
pared covered dish, which you can
sign up for with your reservation.
You must also volunteer to help
set up or clean up. Cost is $12.00
adults, children 6 - 12 $6.00, and
children 5 and under are free.
Please contact Karen Nissim
(609) 298-4845 or
[email protected] with your
reservations by September 6th.
You can send your payment in
advance to Karen Nissim, 38
Thompson Street, Bordentown, NJ
08505. Please make your checks
payable to Sarah Seidel Sisterhood.
Thank you and L'Shanah Tovah.
We hope that you had a terrific summer and are
ready to jump back into Temple activities. The
first Sisterhood meeting of 2013-2014 will be held
Monday, September 9th at 7:30 pm. We will dis-
cuss the coming year and the cookbook fund-
raiser that is a joint Temple/Sisterhood pro-
ject. Ellen Benowitz will discuss the Jewish Na-
tional Fund [JNF] and her trip to Israel last year
with the organization.
Instead of hostesses that evening, we ask that
each attendee bring an appetizer or dessert to
the meeting. If for any reason you are unable
to bring something, please still come to the meet-
ing- your presence is more important than the
food. We look forward to seeing you on Sep-
tember 9.
The Sisterhood extends sympathy to the Speiser/
Szymanski Family for the loss of Amy's husband,
Ron Szymanski, after an extended illness. Our
thought and prayers are with you and your family.
Have a happy, healthy, and meaningful New Year,
Randye
Memorial & Sisterhood Donations
In memory of Ron Szymanski from Elaine and Jay Trackman, Renee Harrison, Charyl and Sid Morginstin,
Rita Nissim, The Kamer Family
Get well to David Caldwell from Rita Nissim
In memory of Abraham Kaiser from Eileen Gale
Education Director’s Message
“Anyone who
has never made
a mistake has
never tried
anything new.”
- Albert Einstein
Page 4 Temple B’nai Abraham
Shalom Chaverim-
Here we are in summer 2013! Another aca-
demic and Jewish year is steadily approaching
and I’m very excited about this coming year.
First I’d like to take a moment and thank you
all for welcoming me with such warmth and
kindness my first year at TBA. I had such a
wonderful experience I had to come back! I
truly appreciate all the words of welcome and
encouragement as I transitioned into my new
life in Philadelphia, rabbinical school and the
challenge of entering a close-knit community.
I’m excited to continue working with the kids
this year as they continue to navigate Judaism
and their unique identities. Furthermore, I
would like to thank you all for welcoming me
to the pulpit and giving me the invaluable op-
portunity to work on my service leading skills.
Again I am thrilled to return to the substitute
pulpit position again this year!
This year will be filled with new and exciting
topics in the Sunday and Hebrew School.
After meeting with a group of parents, we
decided the focus for this year will be Jewish
identity. While this is a large topic I am happy
to report that I have fine-tuned the curricu-
lum to focus on Jewish time, life cycle and
Jewish holidays.
Sunday school will learn about Shabbat and
the beauty of the day of rest and thanksgiving.
We will spend the year looking at the differ-
ent elements of Shabbat and learn the basics
of a traditional Shabbat. In addition to learning
about Shabbat the Sunday school will continue
to learn and celebrate Jewish holidays
throughout the year. Of course they will con-
tinue to learn their Hebrew Alef-Bet and
vowels so that when they enter Hebrew
School they will be ready to learn beautiful
Hebrew prayers.
The Hebrew School will continue the current
structure of prayer book Hebrew two hours
a week and a service on Thursday evenings. In
addition the second hour of Sunday will be
devoted to Jewish time and life cycle. We will
begin the year with learning the days of the
week in Hebrew, the lunar cycle of the Jewish calen-
dar and the Hebrew months. We will then learn and
discuss Jewish life cycle, from birth to death. Stu-
dents will learn important prayers, practices and
traditions. The older students will be responsible for
creating a mock ritual for each unit, for example: a
mock bar mitzvah when we finish the unit on Bar/
Bat Mitzvah. Each student will have a portfolio in
which they will contribute projects throughout the
year so that by the end of the year they will have a
tangible representation of all their learning over the
course of the year. Similar to last year there will be a
year-long project: famous Jewish people. Each stu-
dent will choose a famous Jewish individual and re-
search how they connect to their Jewish identity.
The students will have class time throughout the
year, in addition to working at home, and at the end
of the year we will have a wax museum where stu-
dents will dress up and give a monologue in the voice
of the person of their research.
This year I will also be focusing on family engage-
ment. Right now there are two family education days
scheduled for the year with a year-end field-trip/
family event. In these family education days the entire
family will come together to learn about a particular
topic so that the entire family can gain a greater un-
derstanding of Judaism and create wonderful memo-
ries as a family. The two topics for this year’s family
education days are: prayer and Shabbat. Families will
learn about different forms of prayer in preparation
for Yom Kippur. Later in the year families will learn
about the beautiful components of Shabbat and will
host a mock Shabbat dinner with my guidance!
I know this year will be exciting, busy and full of
learning! I would love to have parent involvement
throughout the year, with parents either teaching,
leading workshops/ lessons or assisting in class.
Please let me know if you are available to help…all
help is wanted and encouraged!
Thank you again for a wonderful year last year and I
am so excited about the year to come!
B’Shalom,
Kami Knapp
Education Director
Tot Shabbat for 2013-2014
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Tot Shabbat
Friday evenings, 6:00 PM
Coming Up: September 27th
Children ages 6 and under (siblings are welcome)
Tot Shabbat 2013-2014
This year will be an exciting year of new projects and new learning! This year we have a theme for the
entire year: Jewish values. Each month will address an individual Jewish value with a paired craft. Chil-
dren can take their craft home to remind them to practice Jewish values in and out of the synagogue.
We hope you can join us!
If you need any additional information, or would like to volunteer to help clean up or set up, please
contact Kami Knapp at: [email protected].
Sept. 27th Blessing the Home
Craft: Mezuzot
Oct. 18th Welcoming Guests
Craft: House Blessing Plaque
Nov. 22nd Blessing the Home
Craft: Mezuzot
Dec. 13th Giving to Others
Craft: Hanukkah Wrapping Paper
Jan. 10th Remember / Zachor
Craft: Mitzvah Reminders
Feb. 7th Friendship
Craft: Friendship Key Chains
March 7th Study Torah
Craft: Felt Torahs
April 4th Peace / Shalom
Craft: Dove Decorative Hangings
May 16th Care of the Environment
Craft: Watering Can Décor
June 13th
Tikkun Olam / Repair the World Craft: Hand Wreath
“Sweater, n.:
garment worn
by child when
its mother is
feeling chilly.”
- Ambrose
Bierce
“Alone we can
do so little;
together we can
do so much.”
-Helen Keller
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Tikkun Olam / Social Action
Please help us continue our hunger relief efforts in the wider community! There are three ongoing
projects, and no contribution is too small!
Any contributions of non-perishable foods are welcome for the St. Mary's food pantry.
Donations of granola bars and cans of tuna or chicken are welcome for the monthly grocery
bags that are distributed to residential motels in the area. Each house of worship donates a
large number of one or two items, and a grocery bag filled with food is delivered at the end of
the month when food stamps and money get low.
Come along for meal delivery: on the first Thursday of the month, we deliver dinners to the
Pine Motel prepared by the Friends Meeting House in Crosswicks.
It's very rewarding to have been collaborating with our friends and neighbors in the area for the
past EIGHT YEARS (!) in these essential projects to help those in need.
Here is a nice anecdote from our friend Anne Kettner from the Bordentown Baptist Church from
summer delivery of the grocery bags:
"The family whose son has special needs is still at Laurel Notch [another motel whose residents
receive groceries]. Their son really likes milk. Last month when we delivered, we brought them
a bag of powdered milk. Though he doesn't speak, it was obvious he was so happy with the
milk, his mother asked me if it was OK if he gave me a hug. It was like the commercial— pea-
nut butter - $2 dollars, Parmalat milk - $2 dollars, powdered milk - $3 dollars—A hug from a
boy who really can only hug - priceless."
In Mosesʼ encounter with God
at the burning bush he was
instructed thus: “Do not
come closer. Remove your
sandals from your feet, for the
place on which you stand is
holy ground.” The Hebrew
command של , (shal) most
often translated as remove, can
also be translated as “shed” as
a snake sheds its skin. Perhaps
in divesting ourselves
of all but our essence can be
likened to the shedding of the
accumulations of a year, or
even a lifetime, to make possi-
ble this close encounter with
the Holy--for the cohanim the
Holy of Holies. We are blessed
in having this special time set
aside to allow for such encoun-
ters. Let us together approach
these days with awe.
~Kate Cook
Holiday Assistant Rabbi
My decision to leave my previ-
ous career as a general surgeon
and to study for the
rabbinate did not require leav-
ing behind all of the skills I had
learned and developed. As
a surgeon I spent much of my
time caring for people, in the
more routine clinic setting
and during times of crisis. As a
surgeon that care often took
the form of helping by
“doing”. In the rabbinate, I look
forward to giving care in the
form of “being.” In pastoral
work, caring can be as simple
as being present, sitting and
listening. This kind of work
will involve me with “others”--
my fellow humans: friends,
family, clients, congregants,
patients.
During the yamim noraim we all
begin by involving ourselves
with others--righting
wrongs, repairing relationships,
asking forgiveness. However, I
find that these days
Holiday Assistant Rabbi’s Message
also allow us to involve our-
selves with God--to “be” with
the “Other” in a way that is
difficult during our busy lives
the rest of the year--especially
for rabbis. Perhaps this
“being” is more easily accessi-
ble in part because of the work
we have done with our
fellows--being in right relation-
ship with others allows us the
chance to be in right
relationship with God. Espe-
cially on Yom Kippur, we have
the opportunity to step out of
our worldly selves, to leave
human relationships aside for a
time, to divest ourselves of
our usual clutter and chaos,
our outer personae, the activi-
ties of daily living that give us
sustenance, the masks we wear
in our daily lives, even those
things that we feel make
us unique. For this “form” we
have is temporary--borrowed
for a time. We bring our
most simple selves to God
during these days.
Page 7 Temple B’nai Abraham
It is always the season for sharing and giving. Please share with the Temple by purchasing your gift
cards from Acme or ShopRite for your New Year’s celebration.
Please make checks payable to Temple B’nai Abraham and send to: Marsha Dowshen / 502
Farnsworth Ave., Bordentown, NJ 08505 / (609) 298-5306. Your cards will be sent to you the
same day.
Supermarket Gift Card Program
Fundraising
encourage you to put in recipes from your
treasured family traditions. A few guidelines:
Recipes must be able to be made kosher so no
pork, ham, or bacon, and the recipe cannot in-
clude both meat and milk together. That said,
recipes can be adjusted to be made kosher. If
you have a recipe that you would like to share,
but aren’t sure if it is kosher or how it can be
adapted, please contact us. This is a labor of
love and we will be more than happy to help
you.
We encourage everyone in the Temple B’nai
Abraham community to be a part of this fund-
raiser by contributing recipes. In order for this
to be a successful fundraiser and to cover the
first printing, each member or family of temple
and/or sisterhood will be responsible for buying
a minimum of 5 books that the member can
either give as gifts or sell to friends and family.
The exact cost per book is not yet determined,
but we hope to keep it in the $10.00 range.
This cookbook will represent the entire Temple
B’nai Abraham community and family and friends
- so please join in and share your best recipes.
We have finally begun the temple and sisterhood
fundraiser cookbook. The first Temple B’nai
Abraham cookbook was printed in the 1970s, the
second in 1987, and now we will commemorate
our centennial year. We are working with a
company called Morris Press and have the ability
to type recipes directly into the website with a
specific password that denotes our project. Any-
one will have the ability to type their recipes into
the project and then a small committee will re-
view the recipes and do final editing. This will
help us avoid 6 brisket recipes and 20 brownie
recipes. It is important that the book be well
balanced with a variety of appetizers, vegetables,
soups, salads, entrees, and desserts. We might
also want to have a specific area for Holiday fare.
If you are interested in working with Randye and
Robin on this cookbook, please send us an email
to let us know how you would like to help
[Randye: [email protected]; Robin:
If you have a recipe that you would like to be
considered for the cookbook, go to
www.typensave.com and insert the user-
name: TBAS and the password: plate294.
Anyone can contribute a recipe and we highly
EXCITING NEWS!!
Upcoming Oneg Hosts
September 20th Schwartzbird / Gale
October 12th Affrime / Zeichner
October 25th Mitchell / Erickson
November 8th Berson / Fink
November 16th Morginstin / Coleman
“Deeds of giving
are the very foun-
dations of the
world.”
- Jewish saying de-
rived from the
Mishna, Pirkei
Avot 1:2
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Memorial Plaques
Plaques are available for $250. To order a plaque, send the following to TBA: Marcia Rosen, Plaque Chairman PO Box 245 Bordentown, NJ 08505 or: [email protected]. English name of loved one, Hebrew name of loved one and date of death in the English cal-endar. Once the plaque has been installed, you will be billed. Plaques will not be moved from one board to the other.
Old Prayer Books
& Kippot
Old prayer books, Talle-sim, kippot, or other religious items that are no longer needed should be buried. Please place these items into the box (by the sanctuary stairs). Items will be brought to the local Chabad House for burial. $5 donations are appreciated.
Siddur & Tallit
Donations
A new siddur (prayer book) can be purchased in honor of or in memory of someone for $35. A tallis (prayer shawl) can be purchased for $60. Please contact Marcia Rosen at: [email protected]
Morning Services 2013-14
October 12th
November 16th
December 14th
January18th
February 15st
March 22nd
April 26th
May 31st
Brendon Weiskott Bar Mitzvah
June 7th
Rubin Carlis Bar Mitzvah
June 28st
Matthew Kunkler Bar Mitzvah
Yahrzeits for Fall 2013
Sept. 6th Elinore Roth, mother of Elaine Trackman
Frank Schwartz, uncle of Phyllis Chudoff
Sept. 13th
Herman Sternfeld, father of Mildred Josephson
Ida Kushner, mother of Sol Kushner
Bea Schwartz, aunt of Phillis Chudoff
Fred Gutstein, husband of Lillian Gutstein
Molly Schaffer, mother of Rhoda Kessler
Sept. 20th Nissim Nissim, father of Marty Nissim
Sept. 27th Mervin Groveman, husband of Seena Groveman
Oct. 4th
Elsie Sternfeld, mother of Mildred Josephson
Howard Sacks, father of Faith Hupfl
Paul Goldfarb, stepfather of Charyl Morginstin
Oct. 11th Myrna Morris, wife of Ron Morris
Oct. 18th Gertrude Herzog, mother of Madge Rosen, grandmother of Mike Rosen
Walter Harrison, husband of Renee Harrison
Oct. 25th
Selma Densky, mother of Sharon Coleman
Abraham Zackler, father of Marsha Dowshen
Helen Roseman, mother of Renee Harrison
Lillian Brewis, great-grandmother of Brian Epstein
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Date Event Host families
Sept. 20 Erev Shabbat Oneg SchwartzBird / Gale
Oct. 12 Shabbat morning lunch Affrime / Zeichner
Oct. 25
Erev Shabbat Oneg Mitchell / Erickson
Nov. 8 Erev Shabbat Oneg Berson / Fink
Nov. 16 Shabbat morning lunch Morginstin / Coleman
Dec. 14 Shabbat morning lunch K & N Nissim / Lamonsoff
Dec. 20 Erev Shabbat Oneg Caldwell / Rosenthal
Jan. 18 Shabbat morning lunch Schimmel / Eric & Kristi Schwartz
Jan. 24 Erev Shabbat Oneg Osman / Ramos
Feb. 15 Shabbat morning lunch Aubry / Saltstein
Feb. 21 Erev Shabbat Oneg Barman / Chudoff
March 22 Shabbat morning lunch Stupak-Jasielewski / Epstein
March 28 Erev Shabbat Oneg Benowitz / Roth
April 11 Erev Shabbat Oneg B. Goldman / R. Goldman
April 26 Shabbat morning lunch Rosen / Woldow / Sharma
June 20 Erev Shabbat Oneg
Member of the Year Schwartz-Shain / Weiss
Host List for Shabbat Services 2013-2014
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TEMPLE
B’NAI ABRAHAM
Monthly Calendar Shabbat morning services begin at 10:00 a.m.
(when there are B'nai Mitzvah, services begin at 9:30 a.m.)
September, 2013 ~~ Elul 5773/ Tishrei 5774
Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday
1
2 3 4
Erev Rosh
Hashanah
7:30 pm
services
5
Rosh
Hashanah
9:30 am
Services
2:00pm
Tashlich
6
Rosh
Hashanah
9:30 am
Services
7
8
10 am
School
Registration
11 a.m.
Family
Education
9
7:30pm
Sisterhood
Meeting
10 11 12
4:30 pm
Hebrew
School
13
Yom Kippur
6:15 pm
Kol Nidre
14
Yom Kippur
9:30 am
Services
6:00 pm
Ne’lah
7:00pm
Break the
Fast
15
9 am
Sunday
School
10 am
Hebrew
School
10 am
Set up
Sukkah
16 17 18 19
4:30 pm
Hebrew
School
20
7:30 pm
Shabbat
Services
21
22
9 am
Sunday
School
10 am
Hebrew
School
23 24 25 26
4:30 pm
Hebrew
School
27
6:00 pm
Tot Shabbat
7:30 pm
Shabbat
Services
28
29
9 am
Sunday
School
10 am
Hebrew
School
30 1 2 3
4:30 pm
Hebrew
School
4
7:30 pm
Shabbat
Services
5