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The Voice Newsletter is published once a month by St. Vartan Armenian Church 650 Spruce Street, Oakland, CA. 94610, Phone (510)893-1671, Fax: (510) 893-2102 Email: [email protected] Website: www.stvartanoakland.org The deadline for all articles is the fifteenth of each month.
Archbishop Hovnan Derderian, Primate Rev. Fr. Hovel Ohanyan, Parish Priest and President of All Church Organizations
Parish Council Chair: Barry Toomajian Parish Assembly Chair: Harry Sherinian
Choir Director: Artin Der Minassians Organist: Ida Mazmanian, A. Rodriguez
ACYO Chair: Sevan Jindoian and Tanya Jindoian Sunday School Superintendent: Janet Yeghissian
Ladies Society Chair: Gail Kezerian and Caroline Arakelian Cultural Society Chair: Liz Ojakian
Hokejosh: Nora Hanoian Church Maintenance: Jim Taylor and Arto Yagjian
Newsletter Editors: Arlene Hovsepian and Rachel Harger Wedding Coordinator: Gail Kezerian and Stacey Shartzer
Church Secretary: Rachel Harger Altar Flowers: Carole Chang
Church Custodian: Wartkes Hagopian Divine Liturgy Service—Sundays 10:30 a.m.
“For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will
also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not
forgive your sins.” (Matt. 6:14-15)
One day a while back, a man, his heart heavy with grief, was walking in
the woods. As he thought about his life this day, he knew many things were not
right. He thought about those who had lied about him back when he had a job.
His thoughts turned to those who had stolen his things and cheated him.
He remembered family that had passed on. His mind turned to the illness he had
that no one could cure. His very soul was filled with anger, resentment and frus-
tration.
Standing there this day, searching for answers he could not find, know-
ing all else had failed him, he knelt at the base of an old oak tree to seek the one
he knew would always be there, and with tears in his eyes, he prayed: "Lord -
You have done wonderful things for me in this life. You have told me to do
many things for you, and I happily obeyed. Today, you have told me to forgive.
I am sad, Lord, because I cannot. I don't know how. It is not fair Lord. I didn't
deserve these wrongs that were done against me and I shouldn't have to forgive.
As perfect as your way is Lord, this one thing I cannot do, for I don't know how
to forgive. My anger is so deep Lord, I fear I may not hear you, but I pray that
you teach me to do this one thing I cannot do—teach me to forgive."
As he knelt there in the quiet shade of that old oak tree, he felt some-
thing fall onto his shoulder. He opened his eyes. Out of the corner of one eye,
he saw something red on his shirt. He could not turn to see what it was because
where the oak tree had been was a large square piece of wood in the ground. He
raised his head and saw two feet held to the wood with a large spike through
them. He raised his head more, and tears came to his eyes as he saw Jesus hang-
ing on a cross. He saw spikes in His hands, a gash in His side, a torn and bat-
tered body, deep thorns sunk into His head. Finally he saw the suffering and
pain on His precious face. As their eyes met, the man's tears turned to sobbing,
and Jesus began to speak.
"Have you ever told a lie, He asked?"
The man answered, "Yes, Lord."
"Have you ever been given too much change and kept it?"
The man answered, "Yes, Lord." And the man sobbed more and more.
"Have you ever taken something from work that wasn't yours," Jesus
asked?
Rev. Fr. Hovel Ohanyan November 2015
Teach Me to Forgive
Bible Readings
Nov. 1 Luke 8:17-21
Nov. 8 Luke 8:49-57
Nov. 15 Luke 9:44-50
Nov. 22 Luke 12:13-31
Nov. 29 Luke 13:1-9
Psalm 100:4
Enter his gates
with thanksgiving and his
courts with praise; give
thanks to him and praise
his name.
And the man answered, "Yes, Lord."
"Have you ever sworn, using my Father's name in vain?"
The man, crying now, answered, "Yes, Lord."
As Jesus asked many more times, "Have you ever"? The man's crying became uncontrollable, for he
could only answer, "Yes, Lord."
Then Jesus turned His head from one side to the
other, and the man felt something fall on his other
shoulder. He looked and saw that it was the blood of
Jesus. When he looked back up, his eyes met those of
Jesus, and there was a look of love the man had never
seen or known before. Jesus said, "I didn't deserve
this either, but I forgive you." It may be hard to see how you're going to get
through something. But, when you look back in life,
you realize how true this statement is...
"If God brings you to it... He will bring you
through it."
—Author Unknown
My Dear Faithful,
Our 63rd Annual Bazaar, Armenian Food Festival is over. Once again I would like to bring the appreciation
and the gratitude of my heart to the members of the Bazaar Committee, chaired by Zaven Kanneian and Harout
Hagopian, all the members of our Ladies Society, Parish Council, Cultural Committee, ACYO, Sunday School,
countless individual volunteers, elders and youth for their humble and priceless service to God and to the blessed
family of our St. Vartan Armenian Apostolic Church.
Your great and hard work is the best evidence of your strong faith and your unlimited love to your Church
and Community. Through your humble service you are making the future of this Church and community stronger
and more active. May the blessings of our Lord Jesus Christ be with all of you forever!!!
Prayerfully, Fr. Hovel Ohanyan
News From Our St. Vartan Family Wedding
Paul Albert Kesinger and Tseday Akliku were joined in Holy Matrimony at St. Vartan Church by Rev.
Fr. Asoghig Jamgotchian on September 26, 2015. Steven Kesinger served as best man. Paul’s parents are
Thomas and Ellyn Kessinger. Aklilu Melaku Retta and Zuriash-Work Zewde are Tseday’s parents. The maid
of honor was Addis Alem Aklilu.
Baptism
Fr. Hovel baptized Erik Matthew Bahneman at St. Vartan Church on October 11, 2015. Erik’s parents
are Joseph and Lynn Bahneman. His godfather is Sevak Jamkochian.
On October 17, 2015 Alexandra Merrin Sparr was baptized at St. Vartan Church by Fr. Hovel. Alexan-
dra is the daughter of Brian and Nicole Sparr. Her grandparents are Mary and Gary Sparr and Sylvia and Rich-
ard Messian. Martin Gil served as Alexandra’s godfather.
Fall Back
On Sunday, November 1, 2015
Daylight Savings Time ends.
Don’t forget to set your clock
back one hour.
Upcoming Event November 11 Veterans Day
November 11 Parish Council Meeting 6:30 pm
November 12 Ladies Society Luncheon 12:00 noon
November 26 Thanksgiving
November 27-29 ACYO Convention
November 28 Convention by the Bay Gala 7:00 pm
December 12 Family Night 5:30 pm
Think About It
A good time to keep your mouth shut
is when you’re in deep water.
No one ever says, “It’s only a game,”
when their team is winning.
There are worse things than getting a
call for a wrong number at 4 am. It could
be the right number.
Holiday Food Drive As in previous years, St. Vartan Church is sponsoring a food drive for the Alameda County Communi-
ty Food Bank. The Holiday Food Drive will take place during the months of November and December 2015.
The food bank combats hunger locally, serving 1 in 6 county residents.
Please bring your non-perishable, healthy food donation to church and
place it in the red bin located in the Church Hall entryway. Let’s turn our grat-
itude for the blessings God has given us toward providing for those less fortunate.
Ladies Society
Fall Luncheon Thursday, November 12
at noon
Delicious Meal
Free raffle ticket for prizes for everyone
Thanksgiving Craft
Everyone is invited
$10 meal ticket
St. Vartan Church Parish Council gratefully acknowledges the following donations: Bazaar Donations
Bazaar Grandma’s Attic Support—Edward Hagopian
Bazaar Containers—Diana Toomajian
Leg of Lamb—Judith Peterson, Al and Becky Adams, Dickie and Seno Garabedian
General Bazaar Donation—Leon Yengoyan, Siranouche Apelian, Jack and Barbara Bousian
Beer—Charles and Dorris Kezerian, Jack and Barbara Bousian
In Honor and Celebration of Suzanne Abnous’ birthday—Nora and Harvey Hanoian (Voice Newsletter),
Pete and Pat Barsamian (Building Fund)
In Memory † Armine Ozan
Alice Gregorian (Orphan Fund)
† Kacheg Topalian Don and Lisa Manoogian,
Harry and Carol Dokouzian (The Voice Newsletter)
ENDOWMENT FUND
In Memory
† Kacheg Topalian Marlene Tolegian
VARTZKERNEET GADAR Hye Café would like to thank and express its gratitude to our dedicated volunteers, who worked dili-
gently during the preparation of the food, serving and, cashiering. With their tremendous help, we had another
successful year!
Big Thank You to: Elo Markarian, Sara Matossian, Elizabeth and Hagop Tatoian, Maral Kismetian,
Seta and Nazaret Jindoian, Larry Radcliff, Araxi Boghossian, Sue Barsamian, Nora and Harvey Hanoian, Ja-
net Kanneian, Hilda Mener, Steve Donikian, Sylvia Gozurian, Ara Kaprielian, Silva Jindoian, Tanya Jindoian
and Nairy and David Collelo.
We also would like to extend our special thanks to Sara Matossian for her generous donation of 200
homemade potato kufta and set of Armenian coffee pots.
Their love and service to our Church and Bazaar is very much appreciated!
Sincerely,
Cingoz families
A big thank you to all the dedicated volunteers for another successful Bazaar! On behalf of Der Hovel and the Parish Council, Zaven Kanneian and I want to express our most sincere
gratitude to all our volunteers for their hard work to make the St. Vartan Bazaar a success. We would like to
name each of you individually but unfortunately, we would monopolize the entire newsletter. So instead, we
will thank each sub-committee:
Money Counting Admission Booth Food Preparation
Food Line & Servers Khanoot & Take Out Hye Café
Dessert Booth Cafe and Bar Cashiers
Public Relations & Advertising Raffle Bazaar Book & Layout
Graphic Artwork Bar-B-Que Carnival Games
Prize Booth Table Bussing Entertainment
Lighting and Decorations Grandma’s Attic Set Up & Tear Down
Event Cleaning and Maintenance Program
Most importantly, we want to share how proud we are to be part of a community that supports one an-
other and works together with great humility to care for this annual tradition which has become a part of our
culture. It was a hectic weekend and all of the volunteers worked very hard to support each other, treat all of
our guests well, and also find time to have fun with friends and family. Good job, everyone!
—Harout Hagopian and Zaven Kanneian
St. Vartan Annual Food Festival & Bazaar October 2 & 3, 2015
2015 Bazaar Raffle Winners $5,000 Charity Raffle Paul Ohanesian, Walnut Creek
Apple iPad Air David Modersbach, Oakland
49’ers vs. Seattle tickets Gareen Avakian, Oakland
Wine Basket Gloria Kasparian, Sacramento
Pixar Swag Bag Joseph Bezdjian, San Mateo
Pixar Swag Bag Lucine Kroeckel, Hayward
Lake Merritt Experience Lucine Kroeckel, Hayward
The Estuary Experience Dickran Tashjian, Berkeley
Goin’ Downtown Oakland Jessica Schafer, Alameda
$100 Gift Certificate
Calavera Mexican Kitchen Talia Brady, Oakland
$100 Gift Certificate
District Bar & Restaurant Seth Hamalian, Lafayette
$100 Gift Certificate
Bourbon & Beef Restaurant Susan Moxley, Walnut Creek
DECEMBER 12, 2015
Blessing of the Holy Muron His Holiness Karekin II, Supreme Patriarch and Catholicos of All Armenians blessed the Third Muron
of the 21st Century in the Mother See of Holy Etchmiadzin on September 27, the Feast of the Holy Cross of
Varak and called it “The Muron of Victory.”
From the time of the first Catholicos of All Armenians, St. Gregory the Illuminator, the right to bless
the Holy Chrism (or Muron) has been reserved solely for the consecrated head of the Church, the Catholicos of
All Armenians.
From the sacred bema of the holy site of the Descent of the Only Begotten, the Armenian Pontiff ap-
peals for the actions of God on the Chrism which is being blessed, so that the Holy Spirit will bring to life the
sweet scented oil, and transform it to the fountain from where the graces are granted from God. And beneath
the joyful ringing of bells symbolizing the descent of the Holy Spirit, the old Chrism is combined with the
new, as is the tradition of the continuous apostolic chain and foundation of our Church.
The Holy Chrism has been established
by God. When God spoke to Moses on Mt.
Sinai, he said: "Take the finest spices: of liq-
uid myrrh, five hundred shekels, and of sweet
-smelling cinnamon, half as much, that is, two
hundred and fifty, and of aromatic cane, two
hundred and fifty, and of cassia, five hundred,
according to the shekel of the sanctuary, and
of olive oil, a hin; and you shall make of these
a sacred anointing oil blended as by the per-
fumer; a holy anointing oil it shall be. And
you shall anoint with it the tent of meeting
and the ark of the testimony, and the table and
all its utensils, and the lampstand and its uten-
sils, and the altar of incense, and the altar of
burnt offering with all its utensils and the la-
ver and its base; you shall consecrate them, that they may be most holy; whatever touches them will become
holy. And you shall anoint Aaron and his sons, and consecrate them, that they may serve me as priests. And
you shall say to the people of Israel, 'This shall be my holy anointing oil throughout your generations. It shall
not be poured upon the bodies of ordinary men, and you shall make no other like it in composition; it is holy,
and it shall be holy to you." (Exodus 30:22-33)
The ingredients for the Holy Chrism symbolize the perfection of virtues whose fullness and sacramen-
tal unity is our Lord Jesus Christ.
The main element which makes up the foundation of the Holy Chrism is pure, virgin olive oil, to which
are combined balsam, and 40 kinds of fragrant incense, flowers, sweet aromatic plants, roots and floral ex-
tracts, as well as different oil and leaf extracts.
The ingredients for the Holy Chrism each have their designated and precise quantities and measure-
ments. The majority of which are brought to Armenia from countries in the East.
The chosen amounts are crushed, ground and mixed with the olive oil, white wine, rose water, and oth-
er floral essences by the members of the Brotherhood of Holy Etchmiadzin, with their offerings of prayer and
incense. Before it is cooked, the Catholicos of All Armenians blesses all of the ingredients for the Holy
Chrism.
So as to protect the sweet scents of the combined ingredients, the lid of the cauldron is sealed with un-
cooked dough, and the entire assemblage is boiled in water in yet another larger cauldron. With prayers and
hymns, the cauldron containing the mixture is heated and steamed for three days and nights. This is all con-
ducted in an atmosphere of prayerful, humble and reverent participation of the Brotherhood of Holy Etchmi-
adzin.
Forty days prior to the blessing of the Holy Chrism, the covered cauldron is placed on the Main Altar
of the Mother Cathedral, so it can receive the prayers, psalms and hymns of everyday life. Upon the day of the
blessing, the Bishops of the Church elevate to the Altar the Armenian Church’s traditional holy relics: the
Geghart - the lance that pierced the side of Christ, the relic from the life giving Cross of Christ, and the Holy
Right hand of St. Gregory the Illuminator, with which the newly blessed Chrism is sanctified, and with which
the gathered faithful masses are blessed. Hymns dedicated to the blessing of the Holy Chrism are sung.
The ranks of Bishops next read from the Holy Bible, the daily readings, and lections dedicated to God:
"Our Lord and our God - Hear the pleas of your servants and send your mercy to the fruit of the olive tree,
which you gave for our benefit and the salvation of your people. And grant that within us dwells the graces of
your Holy and beneficent Spirit, for the workings and fullness of your holy sacraments and rituals, which we
are conducting for your Glory. O God who loves mankind, send your Holy Spirit to your earthly Holy See and
to this oil which is before us, so it may be sanctified and used in Your name, and the name of Your Only Be-
gotten Son."
Upon completion of the readings, the caldron is un-
sealed, and the Catholicos of All Armenians adds the Holy
Chrism from the previous ceremony; old adding to the new,
continuing the unbroken chain of Holy Chrism from the time
of St. Gregory the Illuminator. The mixture is then blessed
and stirred with the traditional holy relics, with prayers, bless-
ings and hymns sung with each one in succession. Upon com-
pletion of the ceremony the faithful come forward to kiss and
to touch the cauldron with cloth.
The grace bestowing sweet-scented oil is received by
all the dioceses and churches from the Pontificate of All Ar-
menians. From ancient times, this has served to preserve the
authority of the Catholicosate of All Armenians, as an excep-
tional covenant with the Armenian faithful. The Holy Chrism
is used during the Sacrament of Baptism and Chrismation,
Ordination of Clergy, Consecration of Bishops, Final Rites of
Clergyman, Blessing of the Water Service, and Consecration
of new Churches.
Contact Information
Please keep St. Vartan Armenian Church updated
with your correct address and phone number.
Send any new information to stvartanoak-
[email protected] or call the church office at
510-893-1671.
Christmas Greetings You can send a Christmas Greeting
in the December issue of the Voice
Newsletter to all your family and
friends at St. Vartan Church.
E-mail the church office at stvar-
[email protected] or call 510-893-
1671 before November 15, 2014 to
place your greeting. This is a great
opportunity to send Christmas
well-wishes to all of your friends
at St. Vartan Church, while
supporting the Voice Newslet-
ter.
Suggested donation for
Christmas Greeting is
$25.
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please contact the church office at stvar-
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1671.
Bazaar Directories Available Pledged Members can pick up their 2015 Bazaar di-
rectory in the church entryway. Non-pledged members
can call the church to request a directory. The suggested
donation for non-pledged members is $5.