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    Table of Contents

    Social Service Centers………………………………………3

    Food Pantries……………………………………………4

    Domestic Violence………………………………………….8

    Early intervention…………………………………………13

    Preschools/ Daycares………………………………………16

    Parenting Tips………………………………………………19

    Spiritual Guidance………………………………………….24

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    Social Services Quincy Community Action Programs, Inc.

    Main Office

    1509 Hancock Street

    Quincy, Ma 02169

    Phone: (617) 479-8181

    http://www.qcap.org/home

    Services provided:

    Adult Education & Workforce Development

    Financial REACH Center

    Early Childhood Education & Care

    Energy Assistance Programs

    Food & Nutrition

    Housing Programs

    Bay State Community Services Inc.

    1120 Hancock Street

    Quincy, Ma 02169

    Phone: 617-471-8400

    http://baystatecs.org/

    Services provided:

    Prevention & Intervention Services

    Child & Family/Home-Based Services

    Outpatient Services

    Residential Services/Day Treatment

    Interfaith Social Services

    105 Adams Street

    Quincy, Ma

    617-773-6203

    Services provided:

    Counseling

    Emergency food and clothing program, and thrift shop

    Career Closet: clothing aid for low-income women returning to the work force

    *If I did not mention one in the South Shore area you can go on this website to search for more:

    http://www.patriotledger.com/article/99999999/NEWS/301089485/?Start=2

    *If you’re looking for something specific that was not mentioned this website can help:

    http://www.mass.gov/eohhs/utility/catalog-of-services.html

    http://www.qcap.org/homehttp://www.qcap.org/our-programs/adult-education-and-workforce-developmenthttp://www.qcap.org/our-programs/money-management/financial-reach-centerhttp://www.qcap.org/our-programs/early-childhood-education-&-carehttp://www.qcap.org/our-programs/energy-programshttp://www.qcap.org/our-programs/food-&-nutritionhttp://www.qcap.org/our-programs/housing-programshttp://baystatecs.org/http://baystatecs.org/http://interfaithsocialservices.org/http://www.patriotledger.com/article/99999999/NEWS/301089485/?Start=2http://www.mass.gov/eohhs/utility/catalog-of-services.html

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    Food Pantries For more food pantries in other areas you can go on this website: http://www.foodpantries.org/

    *For more information call the number or go on the website.

    Abington

    Harvest House Food Pantry

    127 North Quincy Street

    Abington, MA - 02351

    781-961-4402

    St Vincient de Paul/

    Abington Food Pantry

    455 Plymouth St.

    Abington, MA - 02351

    781-878-6087

    Boston

    Combined Jewish

    Philanthropies of Greater Boston.

    126 High Street

    Boston, MA - 02110

    http://www.cjp.org

    Project Bread - The Walk for Hunger of Massachusetts

    145 Border St

    Boston, MA - 02128

    (617) 723-5000

    http://www.projectbread.org

    Greater Boston Nazarene Compassion. Center.

    130 River Street

    Mattapan, MA - 02126

    617-296-7450

    Braintree

    Braintree Community Food Pantry

    594 Washington St.

    Braintree, MA - 02184

    781-277-1609

    http://www.braintreefoodpantry.org/

    http://www.foodpantries.org/http://www.cjp.org/http://www.projectbread.org/http://www.braintreefoodpantry.org/

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    The Marge Crispin Center

    74 Pond Street

    Braintree, MA - 02184

    781-848-2124

    Bridgewater

    The Food Pantry at Central Square Congregational Church

    71 Central Square

    Bridgewater, MA - 02324

    508.697.6016

    http://www.csccuccbridgewaterma.org/TheFoodPantryatCentralSquare.dsp

    Canton

    Canton Area Helpline

    960 Washington St.

    Canton, MA - 02021

    781-821-8062

    Chelsea

    St Luke's-San Lucas Food Pantry

    201 Washington Avenue

    Chelsea, MA - 02150

    (617)-884-4278

    http://www.lukelucas.org/outreach/food-pantry.html

    Framingham

    St Bridget's Food Pantry

    15 Wheeler Ave

    Framingham, MA - 01702

    (508) 875-5959

    Hope Worldwide New England Inc.

    214 Concord Street

    Framingham, MA - 01702

    617-899-5222

    Pearl Street Cupboard and Cafe

    46 Park Street

    Framingham, MA - 01702

    508-370-4921

    http://www.uwotc.org/pearl

    http://www.csccuccbridgewaterma.org/TheFoodPantryatCentralSquare.dsphttp://www.lukelucas.org/outreach/food-pantry.htmlhttp://www.lukelucas.org/outreach/food-pantry.htmlhttp://www.uwotc.org/pearl

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    Hanson

    Hanson Food Pantry

    228 High Street

    Hanson, MA - 02341

    781-293-1400

    https://www.hansonfoodpantry.org/

    Holbrook

    Holbrook Ecumenical Food Pantry

    322 South Franklin Street

    Holbrook, MA - 02343

    781-767-4656

    Brookville's Basket

    871 South Franklin Street

    Holbrook, MA - 02343

    781-767-0217

    Marshfield

    Marshfield Food Pantry

    1981 Ocean Street

    Marshfield, MA - 02050

    781-837-0359

    Milton

    Milton Community Food Pantry

    158 Blue Hills Parkway

    Milton, MA - 02186

    617-696-0221

    Plymouth

    SSCAC/ Emergency Assistance Food Program

    265 South Meadow Road

    Plymouth, MA - 02360

    508-747-7575

    Salvation Army/Plymouth Pantry

    8 Carver St.

    Plymouth, MA - 02360

    508-746-1559

    https://www.hansonfoodpantry.org/https://www.hansonfoodpantry.org/

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    Christ Church Outreach

    149 Court Street

    Plymouth, MA - 02360

    508-746-4959

    Blessed Kateri Church Food Pantry

    126 South Meadow Rd.

    Plymouth, MA - 02360

    508-746-1568

    http://www.saintkateriplymouth.org

    Quincy

    YMCA/Germantown Neighborhood Food Pantry

    33 Palmer Street

    Quincy, MA - 02169

    617-376-1389

    Southwest Community Food Center

    1 Copeland Street

    Quincy, MA 02169

    617-471-0796

    https://www.qcap.org/our-programs/food-nutrition/#southwest

    Rockland

    12 Church St.

    Rockland, MA - 02370

    781-878-1078

    http://www.firstchurchrockland.org/news.htm

    http://www.saintkateriplymouth.org/https://www.qcap.org/our-programs/food-nutrition/#southwesthttp://www.firstchurchrockland.org/news.htm

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    Domestic Violence

    Programs

    Greater Boston Area

    Asian Task Force Against

    Domestic Violence

    Boston, MA

    Phone: 617-338-2355

    http://www.atask.org/site/

    Casa Myrna Vazquez

    Boston, MA

    Phone: 617-521-0100

    Hotline: 877-785-2020

    http://www.casamyrna.org/

    Elizabeth Stone House

    Jamaica Plain, MA

    Phone: 617-427-9801

    http://www.elizabethstonehouse.org/

    FINEX House

    Jamaica Plain, MA

    Phone: 617-436-2002

    Hotline: 617-288-1054

    https://www.finexhouse.org/

    HarborCov

    Chelsea, MA

    Phone: 617-884-9799

    Hotline: 617-884-9909

    http://www.harborcov.org

    REACH

    Waltham, MA

    Phone: 781-891-0724

    Hotline: 800-899-4000

    http://reachma.org/

    http://www.atask.org/http://www.atask.org/http://www.atask.org/site/http://www.casamyrna.org/http://www.casamyrna.org/http://www.elizabethstonehouse.org/http://www.elizabethstonehouse.org/https://www.finexhouse.org/http://www.harborcov.org/http://www.reachma.org/http://reachma.org/

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    Renewal House Roxbury, MA

    Phone: 617-318-6010

    Hotline: 617-566-6881

    http://www.uuum.org/?page_id=199

    Northeastern Massachusetts

    Alternative House

    Lowell, MA

    Phone: 978-454-1436

    Hotline: 1-888-291-6228

    www.alternative-house.org/

    Help for Abused Women and

    their Children (HAWC)

    Salem, MA

    Phone: 978-744-8552

    Hotline: 1-800-547-1649

    hawcdv.org/

    Supportive Care

    Lawrence, MA

    Phone: 978-686-1300

    Hotline: 1-877-785-2020

    http://www.supportivecaredv.org/index.html

    Women's Resource Center

    Haverhill, MA

    Phone: 978-373-4041

    Jeanne Geiger Crisis Center

    Newburyport, MA

    Phone: 978-465-0999

    Hotline: 978-388-1888

    jeannegeigercrisiscenter.org/

    Central Massachusetts

    DayBreak YMCA

    Worcester, MA

    508-755-9030

    https://ywcacm.org/domestic-violence/

    http://www.uuum.org/?page_id=199http://www.alternative-house.org/http://www.helpabusedwomen.org/http://www.helpabusedwomen.org/file:///C:/Users/caldweln/AppData/Local/Microsoft/Windows/Temporary%20Internet%20Files/Content.Outlook/W6J0SDHZ/hawcdv.orghttp://www.supportivecaredv.org/index.htmlhttp://www.jeannegeigercrisiscenter.org/file:///C:/Users/caldweln/AppData/Local/Microsoft/Windows/Temporary%20Internet%20Files/Content.Outlook/W6J0SDHZ/jeannegeigercrisiscenter.orghttps://ywcacm.org/domestic-violence/

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    Voices Against Violence

    Framingham, MA

    Phone: 508-820-0834

    Hotline 1-800-593-1125

    TTY 508-686-8686

    Southeastern Massachusetts

    A Safe Place

    Nantucket, MA

    Hotline: 508-228-2111

    TTY: 508-228-0561

    Brockton Family and

    Community Resources

    Brockton, MA

    Phone: 800-281-6498

    Hotline: 508-583-6498

    http://www.fcr-ma.org/

    Cape Cod Center for Women

    North Falmouth, MA

    Phone: 774-763-2222

    Hotline: 508-564-7233

    DOVE

    Quincy, MA

    Phone: 617-770-4065

    Hotline: 617-471-1234

    https://dovema.org/

    Independence House

    Hyannis, MA

    Phone: 508-771-6507

    Hotline: 1-800-439-6507

    TTY: 508-778-6781

    https://independencehouse.org/

    New Hope

    Attleboro, MA

    Phone: 508-226-0415

    Hotline: 1-800-323-4673

    https://www.new-hope.org/

    http://www.fcr-ma.org/http://doveinc.info/https://dovema.org/http://www.independencehouse.com/https://independencehouse.org/http://www.new-hope.org/https://www.new-hope.org/

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    The Women’s Center

    Fall River, MA

    Phone: 508-672-1222

    Hotline: 508-999-6636

    http://www.thewomenscentersc.com/index.php

    South Shore Women's Resource Center

    Plymouth, MA

    Phone: 508-746-2664

    Hotline: 1-888-746-2664

    http://www.thesswrc.org/index.php

    Stanley Street Women's

    Center (SSTR)

    Fall River, MA

    Hotline: 508-675-0087

    TTY: 508-673-3328

    https://www.sstar.org/

    Women's Support Services

    Vineyard Haven, MA

    Hotline: 508-696-7233

    TTY: 508-693-7900

    https://www.mvcommunityservices.org/

    Western Massachusetts Elizabeth Freeman Center Pittsfield, MA

    Phone: 413-586-5066

    Hotline: 866- 401-2425

    https://www.elizabethfreemancenter.org/

    Safe Passage

    Northampton, MA

    Phone: 413-586-1125

    Hotline: 413-586-5066

    https://safepass.org/

    N.E.L.C.W.I.T.

    Greenfield, MA

    Phone: 413-772-0871

    Hotline: 413-772-0806

    http://www.thewomenscentersc.com/index.phphttp://www.thesswrc.org/index.phphttps://www.sstar.org/https://www.mvcommunityservices.org/http://www.elizabethfreemancenter.org/https://www.elizabethfreemancenter.org/https://safepass.org/http://www.nelcwit.org/

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    Womanshelter/ Companeras

    Holyoke, MA

    413-538-9719

    413-536-1628

    https://womansheltercompaneras.business.site/

    YWCA – Arch

    Springfield, MA

    Phone: 413-732-3121

    Hotline: 800-796-8711

    https://www.ywworks.org/

    Transitional Living Programs

    Hotlines :

    SafeLink -- 1-877-785-2020 (toll-free)

    SafeLink TTY -- 1-877-521-2601

    National Domestic Violence Hotline -- 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

    National Sexual Assault Hotline -- 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)

    Alternative House Lowell 978-937-5777

    Casa Myrna Vazquez Boston 1-800-992-2600

    Elizabeth Stone House Boston 617-427-9801 x409

    Second Step Newton 617-965-3999

    Turning Point Amesbury 978-388-6600

    The Women Boston 617-536-5651

    YWCA of Western MA Northampton 413-586-6807

    New Hope South Central MA 508-226-4588

    YWCA of Lawrence Lawrence 978-688-2645 (Helpline)

    978-686-8840 (TTY)

    DOVE Quincy 617-471-1234 (Hotline)

    617-770-4065

    Transition House Cambridge 617-491-6050

    https://womansheltercompaneras.business.site/https://www.ywworks.org/http://www.elizabethstonehouse.org/http://www.thesecondstep.org/http://www.thewomensunion.org/http://www.new-hope.org/http://www.ywcalawrence.org/http://doveinc.info/http://www.transitionhouse.org/

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    Early Intervention

    Allston, Brighton, Dorchester, Hyde Park, Jamaica Plain, Mattapan, Roslindale, Roxbury, West Roxbury; Brookline

    Bay Cove EIP

    105 Victory Road

    Dorchester, MA 02122

    Phone: 617-371-3010

    Fax: 617-371-3044

    Boston Children's Hospital EIP

    75 Bickford Street

    Jamaica Plain, MA 02130

    Phone: 617-919-7872

    Intake Coordinator: 617-919-7881

    Fax: 617-971-2490

    Criterion Boston EIP

    25 Willow Street

    West Roxbury, MA 02132

    Phone: 617-469-3080

    Fax: 617-469-3085

    Dimock EIP 1800 Columbus Avenue

    Roxbury, MA 02119

    Phone: 617-442-8800 ext. 1414

    Fax: 617-442-6762

    Thom Boston Metro Early Intervention Program

    555 Amory Street

    Jamaica Plain, MA 02130

    Phone: 617-383-6522

    Fax: 617-383-6520

    Milton, Quincy, and Randolph

    Step One Early Intervention South Shore Mental Health Center

    500 Victory Road

    Quincy, MA 02171

    Phone: 800-852-2844

    Fax: 617-786-9894

    Braintree, Cohasset, Hingham, Hull, Norwell, Scituate and Weymouth

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    First EIP 574 Main Street

    South Weymouth, MA 02190

    Phone: 781-331-2533

    Fax: 781-340-1337

    Carver, Duxbury, Halifax, Hanover, Hanson, Kingston, Marshfield, Pembroke, Plymouth and Plympton

    Kennedy Donovan Center EIP - Greater Plymouth 32 Crescent Street

    Kingston, MA 02364

    Phone: 508-747-2012

    Fax: 508-747-4898

    Abington, Avon, Bridgewater, Brockton, East Bridgewater, Easton, Holbrook, Rockland, Stoughton, West Bridgewater and Whitman

    Brockton Early Childhood Intervention Program

    801 Pleasant Street

    Brockton, MA 02301

    Phone: 508-586-5977

    Fax: 508-583-5847

    South Bay Early Childhood Services - Brockton

    1115 West Chestnut Street

    Brockton, MA 02301

    Phone: 508-559-0473

    Fax: 508-427-5361

    REFERRAL LINE: 800-244-4691

    Attleboro, Foxborough, Mansfield, North Attleborough and Norton

    Kennedy Donovan Center EIP - Attleboro

    25 Forest Street

    Attleboro, MA 02703

    Phone: 508-226-6035

    Fax: 508-222-1877

    Beacon Hill, Charlestown, Chelsea, East Boston, Revere and Winthrop

    Harbor Area EIP

    130 Condor Street

    East Boston, MA 02128

    Phone: 617-569-6560

    Fax: 617-569-1856

    Ashland, Dover, Framingham, Holliston, Hopkinton, Natick, Sherborn, Sudbury and Wayland

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    Criterion Middlesex EIP

    651 Franklin Street

    Framingham, MA 01701

    Phone: 508-620-1442

    Fax: 508-875-0806

    South Bay Early Childhood Services - Framingham 855 Worcester Road

    Framingham, MA 01701

    Phone: 508-834-3100

    REFERRAL LINE: 800-244-4691

    Canton, Dedham, Foxborough, Medfield, Millis, Norfolk, Norwood, Plainville, Sharon, Walpole, Westwood and Wrentham

    Enable Inc. EIP 275 Prospect Street

    Norwood, MA 02062

    Phone: 781-255-1817

    Fax: 781-762-8542

    Thom Neponset Valley Early Intervention Program 101 Vanderbilt Avenue

    Norwood, MA 02062

    Phone: 781-551-0405

    Fax: 781-551-9901

    Andover, Lawrence, Methuen and North Andover

    Professional Center for Child Development 32 Osgood Street

    Andover, MA 01810

    Phone: 978-475-3806

    Fax: 978-475-6288

    South Bay Early Childhood Services - Lawrence 360 Merrimack Street, Building 5, Unit F

    Lawrence, MA 01843

    Phone: 978-620-0290

    REFERRAL LINE: 800-244-4691

    Needham, Newton, Wellesley and Weston

    Riverside EI at Needham

    255 Highland Avenue, 2nd Floor

    Needham, MA 02494

    Phone: 781-449-1884

    Fax: 781-449-7972

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    Preschools/ Daycares A Childs View Preschool

    Quincy, MA 02169 | 617-773-5437

    Our day care center in Quincy MA - A Child’s View Early

    Learning Center is located on Washington Street and opened

    in August, 2012. It serves children 3 months thru 5 years of

    age. It is currently licensed for 93 children. It’s open

    Monday thru Friday at 7:00 a.m.

    Focal Early Education Center

    Quincy, MA 02169 | (617) 860-7888

    Focal Early Education Center offers licensed programs for students in kindergarten, preschool,

    and toddler classrooms. We use the award-winning Creative Curriculum®, incorporating the

    latest research and best practices in early childhood education into our multi-cultural program,

    which includes daily language instruction in English, Spanish, and Chinese.

    Little Willows Preschool, Inc.

    Quincy, MA 02170 | (617) 773-6173

    Providing educational preschool and pre-k programs within a happy and safe environment. Our

    goal is kindergarten readiness. Incorporating education and independent life skills to encourage

    your child to learn and grow at their pace.

    Cornerstone Campus Preschool

    Quincy, MA 02170 | (617) 774-0272

    At Cornerstone Campus, learning is a hands-on and creative process that engages children in

    direct experiences, appropriate for their stage of development. It is our goal to create a

    stimulating, emotionally supportive environment in which each child can grow and thrive. We

    encourage children to become independent learners who are confident in their abilities and

    capable of managing themselves.

    Jack N' Jill Chid Care At Marina Bay

    Quincy, MA 02171 | (617) 773-4545

    Choosing childcare is one of the most important decisions a family can make. We at Jack 'n' Jill

    believe that you can change the world when a high-quality childcare enriches not only your

    children; yet, entire families and the community. Jack 'n' Jill has a rich heritage of providing a

    personal touch while caring for children. Our traditions have brought us from 1943 until now.

    Jack 'n' Jill is committed to providing high quality care with core values that are met by utilizing

    communication while responding to the needs of children and families.

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    Quincy After School @ Atherton Hough

    Quincy, MA 02169 | (617) 479-0124

    The purpose of Quincy After School Child Care (QCARE), Inc. is to provide quality school age

    programs in a group setting. Our program focuses on education, nutrition, health and social

    services for children of families who reside in Quincy, Massachusetts.

    Quincy After School @ Beechwood Knoll School

    Quincy, MA 02170 | (617) 984-8957

    The purpose of Quincy After School Child Care (QCARE), Inc. is to provide quality school age

    programs in a group setting. Our program focuses on education, nutrition, health and social

    services for children of families who reside in Quincy, Massachusetts.

    Quincy After School @ Bernazzani School

    Quincy, MA 02169 | (617) 769-9818

    The purpose of Quincy After School Child Care (QCARE), Inc. is to provide quality school age

    programs in a group setting. Our program focuses on education, nutrition, health and social

    services for children of families who reside in Quincy, Massachusetts.

    Quincy After School @ Lincoln-Hancock School

    Quincy, MA 02169 | (617) 773-5559

    The purpose of Quincy After School Child Care (QCARE), Inc. is to provide quality school age

    programs in a group setting. Our program focuses on education, nutrition, health and social

    services for children of families who reside in Quincy, Massachusetts.

    Quincy After School @ Merrymount School

    Quincy, MA 02169 | (617) 770-2252

    The purpose of Quincy After School Child Care (QCARE), Inc. is to provide quality school age

    programs in a group setting. Our program focuses on education, nutrition, health and social

    services for children of families who reside in Quincy, Massachusetts.

    Quincy After School @ Montclair School

    Quincy, MA 02171 | (617) 770-9752

    The purpose of Quincy After School Child Care (QCARE), Inc. is to provide quality school age

    programs in a group setting. Our program focuses on education, nutrition, health and social

    services for children of families who reside in Quincy, Massachusetts.

    Quincy After School @ Parker School

    Quincy, MA 02171 | (617) 471-9918

    The purpose of Quincy After School Child Care (QCARE), Inc. is to provide quality school age

    programs in a group setting. Our program focuses on education, nutrition, health and social

    services for children of families who reside in Quincy, Massachusetts.

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    Quincy After School @ Squantum

    Quincy, MA 02171 | (617) 770-4466

    The purpose of Quincy After School Child Care (QCARE), Inc. is to provide quality school age

    programs in a group setting. Our program focuses on education, nutrition, health and social

    services for children of families who reside in Quincy, Massachusetts.

    Quincy After School @ Wollaston School

    Quincy, MA 02170 | (617) 773-3374

    The purpose of Quincy After School Child Care (QCARE), Inc. is to provide quality school age

    programs in a group setting. Our program focuses on education, nutrition, health and social

    services for children of families who reside in Quincy, Massachusetts.

    Quincy YMCA @ Bethel Church

    Quincy, MA 02169 | 617-481-4477

    Our Norwell Afterschool Programs include before and after school care for students grades K

    through 6 at Vinal Elementary School and Cole Elementary School as well as an after school

    program for students at South Shore Charter Public School. Our Scituate programs include before

    and after school care for students at Cushing Elementary School, Hatherly Elementary School,

    Jenkins Elementary School and Wampatuck Elementary School.

    Greater Quincy Child Care Center

    Quincy, MA 02169 | (617) 773-8386

    Our program is based on the belief that it is imperative to foster the development of the whole

    child; socially, emotionally, physically, intellectually, and creatively. Our dynamic, stimulating

    environment enables growth to occur in all developmental area, while simultaneously supporting

    the individual needs of each child. GQCCC admits children of any race, color, and national or

    ethnic origin to all rights, privileges, programs, and activities generally accorded or made

    available to children at the Center. It does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, national or

    ethnic origin, religion, cultural heritage, political beliefs, gender, or marital status in

    administration of its educational policies.

    Jack N Jill Kindergarten & Child Care Ctr Inc Quincy, MA 02169 | (617) 773-4515

    Our administrative and teaching professionals are carefully screened and selected for their

    experience, education, and ability in working with young children. All of our teachers are trained

    in the area of early childhood education and certified by the Department of Early Education and

    Care. All staff members are CPR, First Aid, and OSHA certified and are required to continue

    their education and training in the area of early childhood. Our staff is encouraged to work

    individually with each child and to provide daily feedback to parents. Activities are interspersed

    with morning and afternoon snacks, lunch, and an afternoon rest period. Families are always

    welcomed and encouraged to attend any of our special activities and events.

    *For more locations check this website :http://childcarecenter.us/massachusetts/quincy_ma_childcare

    http://childcarecenter.us/massachusetts/quincy_ma_childcare

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    Parenting Tips

    Ten Tips to Help Your

    Child Adjust to School

    1. Facilitate your child’s bonding with

    the teacher.

    Kids need to transfer their attachment focus to

    their teacher to be ready to learn. If you notice

    that your child doesn’t feel good about school,

    contact the teacher immediately. Just explain that he doesn’t seem to have settled in

    yet, and you hope she can make a special effort to reach out to him so he feels at

    home. Any experienced teacher will understand and pay extra attention to him for a

    bit. Many teachers assign the child a special job, so they feel connected and like

    they have a role to play each day.

    2. Facilitate bonding with the other kids.

    Kids need to feel bonded with at least one other child. Ask the teacher if she’s

    noticed who your child is hanging with. Ask your child which kids he’d like to invite

    over to play. If he isn’t comfortable with how the other child would respond to a

    playdate invitation, you can always invite the mom with her kid for ice cream after

    school, or the entire family for Friday night dinner. You don’t need anything fancier

    than pasta, and by the end of the meal, the kids will be racing around the house like

    long lost buddies. And who knows? Maybe you and the parents will hit it off.

    3. Give your child a way to hold onto you during the day.

    For many kids, the biggest challenge is saying goodbye to you. Develop a parting

    ritual, such as a hug and a saying: “I love you, you love me, have a great day and I’ll

    see you at 3!” Most kids like a laminated picture of the family in their pencil box.

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    Many also like a token for their pocket, such as a paper heart with a love note, or a

    pebble you found on the beach together.

    4. Calm her fears.

    Most school anxiety is caused by worries that adults might find silly, such as the fear

    that you’ll die or disappear while she’s at school. Point out that naturally people who

    love each other don’t like parting, but she’ll have fun, you’ll be absolutely fine, the

    school can always contact you, and your love is always with her even when you

    aren’t. End every conversation with the reassurance “You know I ALWAYS come

    back” so she can repeat this mantra to herself if she worries.

    5. Help your child laugh out his anxieties so he doesn't have to

    cry.

    Giggling is your child's way of venting anxiety, and any child who is having a tough

    school adjustment is feeling anxious -- fearful -- inside. Give him as many

    opportunities to giggle as possible. If you can spend some time every morning

    playing a chase game in your house, or whatever gets him giggling, you'll find that

    his separation from you at school goes more smoothly. (But NOT tickling, since that

    seems to involve a different area of the brain and may even build up stress

    hormones.) Some games that help kids with separation:

    "Please Don't Leave Me."

    When you have been reading to him and he starts to get off your lap, pull him back

    to you and tell him how much you love holding him, and to please not go away from

    you EVER and you want to hold him always. Keep your voice light and playful rather

    than needy so he feels free to pull away, but keep scooping him back to you and

    begging hi, dramatically, to stay. The point of this is to heal that fear inside him about

    how much he needs and wants you, by letting him be the one to "leave." Again, go

    for giggles.

    The Bye Bye Game.

    This is a simple version of Hide and Seek that triggers just enough separation

    anxiety to get him giggling. Say "Let's play Bye-bye." Start to leave -- but not through

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    a door, as if you're really going. Instead, open the closet door. But then act like

    you're the one who is scared to separate, and jump back to your child and cling. Say

    "I missed you! Ok, let me try that again!" and start to leave again. But again, come

    back and grab him before you are even out of sight, which should get him giggling,

    especially if you play-act being silly and excessively worried. Keep playing this,

    letting him yell or you yell, as long as he is giggling, to surface his anxieties about

    your leaving him.

    6. Stay connected.

    Start your child's day with a five minute snuggle in bed or on the couch, just bringing

    100% of your attention to loving her. Make sure that every day after school when

    you're reunited, you have special time with your big girl to hear all about her day.

    Make sure to schedule in a long snuggle after lights-out to increase her sense of

    security.

    7. Be alert for signs about why your child is worried.

    Most of the time, kids do fine after a few weeks. But occasionally, their unhappiness

    indicates a more serious issue: he’s being bullied, or can’t see the blackboard, or

    doesn’t understand anything and is afraid to speak up. Ask calm questions about his

    day, listen deeply, and reflect what he tells you so he’ll keep talking. Start

    conversations by reading books about school together; your librarian can be helpful.

    Offer your own positive school stories (“I was so nervous the first week I couldn’t

    even use the bathroom at school but then I met my best friend Maria and I loved first

    grade”) and the assurance that he’ll feel right at home soon. If you sense a bigger

    issue that you can’t unearth, it’s time to call the teacher.

    8. Ease the transition.

    If your child gets teary when you say goodbye, use your goodbye routine and

    reassure her that she’ll be fine and you’ll be waiting at the end of the day. If she

    continues to have a hard time separating, see if the teacher can give her a special

    job every morning to ease the transition.

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    9. Make sure you’re a few minutes early to pick your child up.

    Not seeing you immediately will exacerbate any anxieties.

    10. Downplay the time younger kids spend with you at home.

    If a younger sibling is at home with you, be sure your older child knows how boring it

    is at home and how much the younger sib wishes she could go to big kids’ school.

    11. Create a calm household routine with early bedtimes and

    peaceful mornings.

    If you have to wake your kids in the morning, they aren’t getting enough sleep. Kids

    who aren’t well-rested don’t have the internal resources to cope with goodbyes,

    much less the rigors of the school day. And get yourself to bed early too, so you can

    deal calmly with the morning rush and get everyone off to a happy start.

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    Spiritual Guidance

    In search of a place to worship? Here are a few places in the Quincy, Ma area.

    Wollaston Church of the Nazarene

    37 E Elm Ave

    (617) 472-5669

    Union Congregational Church

    136 Rawson Rd

    (617) 479-6661

    Wollaston Lutheran Church

    550 Hancock St

    (617) 773-5482

    St. Ann's Parish Church

    757 Hancock St

    (617) 479-5400

    Quincy Community United Methodist Church

    40 Beale St

    (617) 773-3319

    Chinese Baptist Church of Greater Boston

    38 Weston Ave

    (617) 479-3531

    Christ Episcopal Church

    1132 Highland Ave

    (781) 444-1469

    And if these are not what you are looking for here is a website to find churches in the

    denominations of your choosing.

    http://www.churchangel.com/

    http://www.churchangel.com/