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Page 1: Summer 2008 Helping Hands Newsletter, Visalia Rescue Mission

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RESCUED TREASURES GRAND OPENINGCHRISTIAN DRUG & ALCOHOL REHABILITATIONMENTORING PROGRAM

CVC PAYS IT FORWARDBECAUSE YOU CARE

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2008 has already been an amaz-ing yet very busy year. This Mission has faithfully re-mained true to its calling. We serve

meals, provide shelter, and offer help to the hurting. We do this all for the sake of “Providing Hope and Restoration through Je-sus Christ. “

It is simple to me. If some-one is hungry, feed them. If they are tired and destitute, give them a place to sleep. If they are cold, give them a coat. The Lord has blessed the Visalia Rescue Mission such that we want to pro-vide help for those who need it. We now serve over 530 meals a day and have over 130 men, women and children sleep in our facilities every night. On June 5th we will observe National Hunger Awareness Day. Many in our commu-nity are hungry and we are asking your help. The Visalia Rescue Mission and Pro Cit-rus Network, Inc. will partner with many grocery stores and restaurants in our com-munity to raise food and do-nations for the hungry. I am asking that you would con-sider helping in this worth-while endeavor.

GreetingsTABLE OF CONTENTS2 Danny Little, Executive Director

3 Hunger Awareness Day, June 5-7

4 Volunteer Opportunities

5 Rescued Treasures/Grand Opening

6 Christian Rehab/Work Place Recovery

7 John’s Successful Recovery

8 Women in Recovery

9 Hands of Hope/Maria’s Story

10 1,000 Women of Hope/ Honorariums and Memorials

11 Visalia Naz 30 Hours of Famine/ Pay it Forward

12 Meals - Feeding the Chldren

13 Banquet/Community Center update

13 Christian Drug and Alcohol Rehab

14 Other Ways to Give

15 From the Board - Near Life Experience

16 Because you Care/Board

Danny Little

At the Visalia Rescue Mission we see the hun-gry every day. They walk past our adminis-tration office like clock work at 6 AM, 11 AM and 4 PM daily. At the end of the month more women and children come. As their month ends they are running out of money for food.

A survey done by Continuum of Care of Tu-lare and Kings County show that 49% of those homeless surveyed were women. 41% have been homeless less than six months and 18% have been homeless for up to two years. Of those surveyed, 64% said they had never been homeless before. This is a crisis in our community.

Last year, Alan Dodge of Pro Citrus Network, Inc. contacted Danny Little to become in-volved with the Mission. PCN wanted to do something for the Visalia Rescue Mission by supporting our efforts on Hunger Awareness Day. We had successful food drives ant six grocery stores in Visalia.

This year we are asking the community to get involved from June 5th to June 7th. We are asking individuals, restaurants and grocery stores to participate in bringing awareness to hunger.

• Restaurants and grocery stores can ask each patron if they will donate $1.92 for one meal to feed the hungry. This can be done as they check out of the restaurant or grocery store.• Collect food at your business for the Visalia Rescue Mission and call for a pick up. 559-740-4178 Ext. 14.• Individuals can drop donations to our “Rescued Treasures Super Store” at 2523 S. Mooney.• Call 559-740-4178 Ext. 14 and ask to volunteer.

Letters have been mailed to restaurants and grocery stores asking them to help combat hunger. All proceeds go directly to benefit the programs at the Visalia Rescue Mission and are tax deductible.

Hebrews 13:16Don’t forget to do good and to share what you have with those in need, for such sacri-fices are very pleasing to God.

JUNE 5-7 2008

“HUNGER AWARENESS DAY”

559-735-3100www.pcnbrand.com

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The Grand Opening for Rescued Treasures Super Store was held on March 29th. Lolli and Pop the clown were there to make balloon ani-mals for the children. There were bounce houses and barbeque. There were special guests in attendance, including Mayor Jesus Gamboa and Connie Conway, Chairman of the County Board of Supervisors. The Mayor declared 3/29/08 Visalia Rescue Mission Day! The 17,000 square foot Superstore has opened its doors with quality, gently used merchandise available for purchase by the general public. It is located on Mooney Blvd. in Visalia at 2523 S. Mooney Blvd. To have your dona-tion picked up please call 559-733-3180.

Volunteer Update• On Wednesday April 30th we, held a Chapel Provider Orienta-tion. It is our goal to offer this ori-entation once per quarter. The next Chapel Provider Orientation/Training will be held on Thursday July 31st.

• As God leads, be a Mentor for those in recovery. Mentoring training is held on the 2nd Satur-day of every month. Just one hour a week to mentor a person will be a blessing to those in recovery. Please call Robyn at 740-4178 ext. 14 if you are interested in helping out in any way. • We are looking for volunteers to help out during HUNGER AWAR-NESS, June 5th through June 7th.

Thank you to all of our volunteers – past, present and future! We could not do what we do without you!

Contact Robyn at: 559-740-4178 Ext. 14

RESCUED TREASURES Super Store-GRAND OPENING!!!

VOLUNTEEROPPORTUNITIES

Vo lun tee r Op p o r tun i t ie s• M e n t o r i n g• C o m p u t e r Tu t o r• C h a p e l S p e a k e r• C h a p e l S p e c i a l M u s i c• P l a y t i m e w i t h C h i l d re n• R e c re a t i o n f o r re s i d e n t s• Tr a n s p o r t a t i o n• A d m i n i s t r a t i o n H e l p• C a s h i e r s• C l o t h i n g S o r t e r s

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There are several business in our community who support the Visalia Rescue Mission by offering work place recovery. After a resident has graduated from the recovery program, they are able to apply for a position at one of several locations:

• Cal Bennett Office Furniture• Main Street Tire • Provision Foods

This has been a win, win proposition for both the Visalia Rescue Mis-sion and the businesses.

W O R K P L A C E R E C O V E R Y

John’sSUCCESSFULRECOVERY

I moved from Buffalo, NY to Northern, CA at the age of 24 bringing with me 10 years of alcoholism and drug abuse. Playing in a rock band for over 10 years, I was surrounded by drugs and alcohol. Along with it came depression, loneli-ness, physical abuse, guilt and shame. When my third child was born and my second wife and I had been evicted because of my behavior and addictions I realized I needed help. I would go to programs playing the “sober role”, but still “closet using”. When my wife had enough, she divorced me. I remember the feelings of guilt and shame more than anything. The depression, loneli-ness and guilt were nothing compared to the shame I felt when I threw away a job and a final chance at having a relationship with my 12 year old son.

This went on for years. In October of last year, with lots of meth and alcohol and a few boxes of memories, I decided I would end my life. The hotel clerk found me unconscious and called a friend who contacted a Pastor. When Pas-tor Brian came to pick me up, I fell to my knees, uncontrollably crying, thank-ing him, completely ashamed of whom I had become. He drove me to the Visalia Rescue Mission. I remember saying “I don’t belong here with these people”. “Don’t leave me here with these people!” Any thoughts of getting help or agreeing to a six-month residen-tial program were totally absent. I was placed in a detoxification room. Every couple of hours a resident would come in and visit with me, encourage me to stay and join the program and share God’s Word with me.

I was never a stranger to God; I spent many years being angry with God. There I was in detox, full of shame, 6 ft 2, 160 lbs, not physically able to walk around, and afraid. I remember hav-ing thoughts of my 12 year old saying he hates me and doesn’t want me around etc…with the occasional words of God being spoken through various residents in the recovery program. On Nov. 19, 2007 I put the pen to paper and prom-ised God that I would give my life to him, doing whatever was asked of me in the recovery program. Since that date, the fear, guilt, shame, self-pity… all has been made new, replaced with courage, freedom, compassion, and a love to serve and help others by shar-ing my story of hope. On May 12th, I went to work for the Mission as a staff resident.

I’ve always been a believer, that there is a God, a Jesus Christ and a Holy Spirit; but today I firmly testify that I am a fol-lower of God the Father, His Son Jesus Christ and His Holy Spirit.

The Visalia Rescue Mission’s Mission Statement offers us “Hope and Restora-tion through Jesus Christ” this is a living truth in not only my life, but in the life of anyone who chooses to follow, not just believe.

Love in Christ,

John M.

When a man or woman decides to step into recovery, we are here. It’s not easy. Our residents learn that “nothing is impossible with God.” It takes a tremendous amount of courage and work for someone to change. And we’re here to help them on this long road to recovery.

S.T.E.P. for MEn and WoMEn

Our Spiritual Training and Educational Program (S.T.E.P.) was developed to assist those who seek to escape the slavery of addiction and sin. The core program is six months with additional aftercare services available for up to a year following graduation.

CHRISTIAN DRUG AND ALCHOHOL

REHABILITATION

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HANDS of HOPE is a ministry of the Visalia Rescue Mission for men and women. It’s a volunteer mentoring program for the residents living at the Mission. House of Hope is a six-month program includes counseling, Bible studies, discipleship and life skills class-es. Hands of Hope mentoring program is an investment of time and self gives from 1-8 hours per week. The mentor-ing relationships last anywhere from six to eighteen months (lasting friendships can last a lifetime). God placed a de-sire on my heart to become a mentor

to help make a difference in someone’s life. My goal is for them to find encouragement, love, strength, hope and restoration in the Lord and help them know their true identity in Christ. I am there to listen, love and support morally, spiritually and emotionally. Some of these women have never had anyone in their lives that they can trust, so I try to build a relationship on trust so they can learn to build and maintain healthy connections with oth-ers. Watching the lives of women changed by God’s love and power has increased my faith in Him and these experiences have changed my life. It has been extremely rewarding for me.

–Mentor, Sheila Blankenship

H.A.N.D.S. of HopeMentoring Program

My whole life I’ve always been looking for myself, feeling as if something was missing, empty inside. At 14 my problems re-ally began with boys and drinking. I started running the streets hanging around with older kids, trying to find myself. It was to the point were I didn’t care about what I was doing to my body and at fifteen, I got pregnant with twins. I slowed down the drug use until the twins were born. Soon after the twins were born, I was introduced to methamphetamine. I started using heavily when I was about nineteen years old. When I was, the only thing that mattered to me was staying high. I would steal, lie and cheat and do anything I had to do to get high.

I can remember clear as day how depressed, dark and gloomy my life had be-come. I can remember my dad telling me frequently how bad he hurt when he thought about Jesus coming and that I would be left behind. I would just brush him off. I remember crying to God and asking him to take the addiction from me. For Him to do whatever it took. I just didn’t really believe it would ever happen. But He was listening and He knew what it would take. I hit rock bottom when they took my kids from me, I finally realized I had a problem. But when He took my children He gave me life, because I now have Jesus. I’ve been clean for nine months, I have my children back and I have a future. There is no longer emptiness and I love my life. I just thank the Lord that He heard me, He changed me, and He loves me. I also thank the Visalia Rescue Mission for everything they do. They are truly an ex-ample of God’s unconditional love.–Sheka

I was born in Mariposa, CA and both of my parents were alcoholics. I started drinking in Middle school and started smoking pot in my fresh-man year of high school. Pot, I could quit, but the alcohol was differ-ent, it seemed it was always available. It started out innocent; I never wanted to become an alcoholic. I always said I would never put my kids through what I went through, but I didn’t know anything about addiction or alcoholism.

This is my second time in treatment. Back in 2000 I went through a 30 day treatment program. I was sober for five years and then in 2005 I relapsed. The whole time my daughter wanted me to quit drinking, the more I drank the more she wanted me to go back into treatment.

I had quit my job, I was homeless and I felt like giving up. I was in so much pain I felt like Satan was literally in me.

I finally called my daughter and told her I was ready and to hurry. She and my older son came and picked me up and took me straight to my counselor’s office. I told him his classes weren’t working and I need treatment and I need it today. The counselor made two phone calls. The Visalia Rescue Mission was the second call, they asked if I could be there that day, I said yes.

Since I have been here I have rededicated myself to Jesus. I now know and have a relation-ship with Him. I am very thankful for the Visalia Rescue Mission, because they are teaching me not only how to stay sober but how to live a different lifestyle, a Christian lifestyle.

–Sue B.

I remember growing up in church all my life; I was not around drugs or alcohol. I never saw my parents fight or anything like that. I remember my family telling me about drugs and what they would do to me, that drugs were no good. At 12 years old I wanted to find out for myself. That’s when my whole life went down hill. I started running away from home just to be out on the streets. The first drug that I used was meth and then that led to alcohol. I was hanging around with my so called “friends”, not realizing, they didn’t care about themselves, how could they care about me? I can remember being strung out on drugs for 16 years of my life…so lost in my addiction. I lost so much dur-ing those years; I just didn’t realize just how

much I had lost. I lost four children to CPS, I lost my mother and my sister. I remember I couldn’t even get clean when they were on their death bed. I now know that God has always been with me, through it all.

After 16 years I finally got tired of it. God was calling me. I got help from the Visalia Res-cue Mission. I’ve been at the House of Hope for eight months. I gave myself to the Lord, I am going to school for my G.E.D., and I am looking for a job. I just thank God for being there with me from the beginning.

Thank you,

–Maria F.

Sheka’s Story

Sue’s Story

Maria’s Story

Maria with her mentor Sheila Blankenship.

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The Auxiliary:• Offers Birthday parties at the Mission (Some have never had a birthday cake)• Holds Spa Day• Serves Graduation Refreshments

The Auxiliary funds:• Scholarships for child care• Scholarships for Education and Employment• Updating Facilities

The Women’s Auxiliary is organizing 1000 Women of Hope to benefit the Visalia Res-cue Mission’s women’s programs. Headed by board chair Jeannie DeGroot, the auxil-iary has done a tremendous job purchasing much needed items for both the Shelter of Hope and the House of Hope. New beds have been purchased for the Shelter and carpet for the House of Hope.

What is 1000 Women of Hope?1000 women x $100 = $100,000

Commit to be 1 of 100 women. Invite your friends … To be involved contact Robyn559-740-4178 Ext. 14

On April 24th, 32 of the youth at Visalia Naz joined with thousands of other youth min-istries all over the country in the “30 Hour Famine”. This is a ministry whose intent is to make people aware of the physical, spiritual and emotional needs of millions of children in third world countries. The youth raise money for “World Vision” which is an organization that distributes money to families and villages with great need.

There’s no cookie cutter way to do “30 hour famine”. Some youth groups do it over the weekend and stay together the whole time. Some youth groups sleep on the streets, try-ing to identify with the homeless in their area. Some simply spend their 30 hours of hunger doing the things they would normally do, except without food. We chose to have our last dinner Thursday night at the Visalia Rescue Mission, have a service down there and then go on prayer walks throughout the community. One particularly notable occur-

rence was the opportunity for some of our younger girls to pray for a homeless man on the street. He specifically asked us to pray that God would set him free from his addic-tion to drugs. I could see that many of the girls started to see this man as a real person that is hurting, and not just a “bum”. We gave our teens T-shirts that say, “Ask me why I’m hungry” and asked them to wear them to school on Friday.

Did last weekend make any real difference? Did we change the world? Well you never know which drop of grace will cause the landslide of God’s grace upon the world. I choose to think that we did change the world and we can change the world every day that we act justly, love mercy and walk humbly with your God. Micah 6:8

In Christ,–Michael DeBoef

Honorium Barbara & Glenn Miller- by Jane Lightner

Ruth K. Smith- by Sara & Mike Knight

Adrian & Willy Dlepersloot’s 50th Wedding Anniv.- by Jon and Jeannie Van Ryn

Sheila Walter- by Linda and Richard LaFleur Memorials Leana Biederwell- by Vincent & Margaret Barrett

Gerald Lopes- by Eddie & Geraldine Lopes

Richard & Doreen McVaigh- Debra S. Williams

Charlie Pirnstill- Edward & Janette Zisko You can honor those loved ones by donating to the Visalia Res-cue Mission in their name.

Women’s AuxiliaryJeannie DeGroot – ChairLinda LaFleur – Vice ChairJudy Simpson - TreasurerWendy Little – Secretary

30 HOURS OF FAMINE–

Women’s Auxiliary“She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.” Proverbs 31:20

Pay i t ForwardA teenager named Victoria Moore walked into the Mission of-fice, with a donation. Donations are always wonderful things, but when young people make them, it is special.

As a class project, six girls from Central Valley Christian School were asked to raise money for a non-profit organization. Why not have fun while doing it? So…they held a dance . Victo-ria said they chose the Visalia Rescue Mission because years earlier a family member had stayed here. Danny Little, Ex-

ecutive Director, graciously accepted the donation. Pay it forward…what a concept.

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CURRENT MISSION NEEDS

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The Visalia Rescue Mission’s annual banquet, “The “Celebration of Hope”, was held at the Visalia First Assembly of God Church on March 27, 2008. The Visalia Rescue Mission Choir sang “My Chains are Gone, I’ve been set free.” The choir consisted entirely of residents in the recovery programs at the Mission led by Ju-lie Blaswich, Executive Assistant to the Direc-tor. We are thankful for the band Nick, Ryan, Nate, Grant and Angela. The banquet was an amazing evening with excellent food and testimonies of each resident‘s journey to the Mission and how they came to find “Hope and Restoration through Jesus Christ.”

TOILETRY & LINEN ITEMS• White Towels• Wash Cloths• White twin bed sheets• Blankets• Pillows• Chap Stick• Deodorant• Hand & Body Lotion• Large Bottles of Shampoo and Hair Conditioner• Disposable Razors• Brushes• Toothpaste• Tooth Brushes

FOOD ITEMS• Pasta, Pasta Sauces• Canned Vegetables• Instant Potatoes• Canned Tuna• Chicken & Meat• Salad Dressings• Pancake Mi x & Syrup• Flour and Sugar• Cereal (hot & cold)• Peanut Butter & Jelly• Coffee• Mayo, Mustard & Ketchup

LARGE ITEM NEEDS• Lawn Mower• Blowers• Yard equipment

Meals/Feeding the Children

We served over 600 people on Easter. No one went away hungry. Nu-merous volunteers and Crossroads Church helped with the children’s activities. We serve 3 meals 365 days a year. To help serve, call Robyn 559-70-4178 Ext. 14. The Annual Banquet

A TRUE CELEBRATION OF HOPE

Community Center plans are well under way and we are planning for a late summer groundbreaking. The archi-tects, contractors and en-gineers are busy getting the documents to the City of Vis-alia for the needed permits.

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SaveMart S.H.A.R.E.S.Card SaveMart offers non-profit orga-nizations the opportunity to earn cash with our electronic Save Mart S.H.A.R.E.S. Card. The new S.H.A.R.E.S. gift card program is fast and efficient for you to help the Visalia Rescue Mission. All you have to do is agree to use a Save Mart S.H.A.R.E.S. Card to purchase your groceries at any Save Mart Supermarket, S-Mart foods or FoodMaxx store. When you get your S.H.A.R.E.S. Card, (the card has no cash value yet) go to your local store and put the amount you plan to spend on the card, and then use it as a credit card. 3% of your purchase will go to the Visalia Rescue Mission. You refill the card whenever it gets empty.

To get your S.H.A.R.E.S. Card, call Robyn at 559-7410-4178 Ext. 14. Thank you for helping the Mission.

Christian Cinema will donate a portion of all purchases and rentals to the Visalia Rescue Mission if you go to the website www.christiancinema.com/vrm

You have heard of people having a “near death experience”. Well, I think there are many people that are having a “Near Life Experience”. They are living life but that’s it. They are not sure what the true meaning of life is. In our society today

things and stuff are so available and life is so fast pace that it is easy to be confused with why we are really here.

When people come to the Visalia Rescue Mission for help they are often times at the bottom and close to perhaps a real near death experience. Sometimes very

close. As they come to understand what a personal relationship with Jesus Christ is all about and that through Him we have eternal life, they gain an understanding of what “real life” is. Life through Jesus Christ.

Are you having a near life experience? Perhaps your material needs are met but something is still missing? You’re close but not sure what is next. Next is stepping out in faith and seeking the only one that can give eternal life. Jesus Christ. Eternal life is as close as asking Him into your life to be your savior. Seek Him and you will find Him. Romans 3:23

Blessings…–Mark Shelton

Other Ways To Give… Near Life Experience

Tickets Go On Sale June 6th1-888-825-5484 • www.vallitix.com

559-735-3100www.pcnbrand.com

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Alone, our undertaking is too massive.Together, we can bring about and help sustain real change in people’s lives. If you haven’t done so already, please come and see the Visalia Rescue Mission. All our facilities are drug-free and a safe environment for overnight guests, residents, and visitors. One person can and does make a difference, that one person could be you.

VISALIA RESCUE MISSION559-740-4178322 NE 1st AvenueVisalia, CA 93291www.visaliarescue.org

Board of DirectorsJohn AndersonRon BallouJeannie DeGrootWayne IngramBill JordonJohn KosterMurray MinnemaBrad ReendersMark SheltonBruce TylerMark VancielDennis VanderhamRandy Vogt

Danny LittleExecutive Director

Because You Care……we’re serving more and more.

Total Meals Served2008 – 55,678 - up 9%2007 – 156,7462006 – 134,970

Total Bed Nights2008 – 13,9492007 – 39,6932006 – 34,849

Total Number of Graduates2008 – 202007 – 45

Total Chapel Attendance2008 - 9,9322007 – 24,3662008 is proving to be a busier year than 2007. We have already served over +281 additional meals over what were served last year at this time. Won’t you consider helping us feed the hungry?

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