Suicide Prevention 2Laura Meier

West Chester UniversityFall 2011

Suicide is not chosen;

it happenswhen pain exceeds resources for coping with

pain.

Do’sBe yourself.

Listen.

Be sympathetic.

Offer hope.

Show concern.

Don’tsArgue with the suicidal person.

Act shocked.

Promise confidentiality.

Offer ways to fix their problems.

Blame yourself.

Leave the person alone.

Strategies for PreventionWhat to do

Know and recognize the warning signsMake no dealsSeek adult assistancePersuade the suicidal person to seek professional

helpShow concern and empathyDO NOT LEAVE THE PERSON ALONE

#1 Speak Up

Ways to start a conversation about suicide: I have been feeling concerned about you lately.Recently, I have noticed some differences in you

and wondered how you are doing. I wanted to check in with you because you haven’t

seemed yourself lately.

Start the Conversation

#1 Speak Up

Questions you can ask:When did you begin feeling like this?Did something happen that made you start feeling

this way?How can I best support you right now?Have you

thought about getting help?

Ask Questions

#1 Speak Up

What you can say that helps:You are not alone in this. I’m here for you.You may not believe it now, but

the way you’re feeling will change. I may not be able to understand exactly how you

feel, but I care about you and want to help.When you want to give up, tell yourself you will

hold off for just one more day, hour, minute — whatever you can manage.

Words of Encouragement

#2 Assess the RiskThe following questions can help you assess the

immediate risk for suicide:Do you have a suicide plan? (PLAN)Do you have what you need to carry out your plan

(pills, gun, etc.)? (MEANS)Do you know when you would do it? (TIME SET)Do you intend to commit suicide? (INTENTION)

#3 Respond Quickly

#4 Offer HelpA close adult

School counselor

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline1-800-273-TALK (8255)

National Hopeline Network1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)

These toll-free crisis hotlines offer 24-hour suicide prevention and support. Your call is free and

confidential.

#4 Offer HelpNineLine.org

1-800-999-9999

Psychotherapist