S T Y L E S A N D S K I L L S

EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

• Sterility- the inability to reproduce• Monogamy-having one partner for life• Infatuation- exaggerated feelings of passion• Compromise-a problem solving method in which each participant

give up something.• Self control- a person’s ability to use responsibility to over-ride

emotions.• Relationship-a bond or connection you have with other people.• Harassment- persistently annoying others.• Clique- a small circle of friends, usually with similar backgrounds

or tastes, who exclude people viewed as outsiders.• Abstinence- doing without• Intimacy- a closeness between two people that develops over

time.• Tolerance- the ability to accept others’ differences• Dysuria- pain or burning upon urination• Asymptomatic-people who are infected show no symptoms or the

infections produce mild symptoms that disappear.• Platonic friendship-a friendship with opposite gender where

there is affection• Hormones- chemical substances that help regulate many of your

body’s functions.

Unit #4 vocab

REAL LIFE ISSUES

• Heather’s friend Lisa is the kind of person who always wants to have her own way. When they go out together, Lisa decides where they’ll go and what they’ll do. If Heather offers a suggestion, Lisa dismisses it. Heather wants to stay friends with Lisa, but she is tired of being pushed around. She wishes she knew how to stand up for herself without being rude.

• Write a letter from Heather to Lisa. In it, Heather should discuss how Lisa’s behavior makes her feel. 4 sentences minimum

DATING

• Asking out; Should it be BOYS or GIRLS

• First date

• Aggressive- overly forceful, pushy, or hostile. It may involve bullying or intimidation. Those with aggressive behavior may not pay attention to others’ thoughts, feelings, or needs.

Aggressive

DO YOU KNOW FRIENDS LIKE HEATHER AND LISA?

• PASSIVE- unwilling or unable to express thoughts and feelings in a direct or firm manner. This involves putting others’ needs ahead of your own. People adopt this style to avoid conflict.

Passive

STYLES OF COMMUNICATION

• Assertive- expressing your views clearly and respectfully. This involves standing up for your rights and beliefs while also respecting those of others. Those that adopt this are trying to find the best solution to the problem.

Assertive

STYLES OF COMMUNICATION

WAYS TO COMMUNICATESPEAKING SKILLS-

• “You” messages• Why can’t you show up on

time?• You never listen to what I

say• You always ignore me

when your other friends are around.

• “I” messages• I really don’t like waiting-it makes me feel like you don’t care.• I feel like my suggestions are not being taken seriously.

LISTENING SKILLS

• ACTIVE LISTENING, paying close attention to what someone is saying and communicate.• Practice active listening• Don’t interrupt. Give your full attention.• Show interest. Eye contact, “I see”, “go on”,

“I understand” • Restate what you hear. Summarize the

speaker’s words.• Ask questions. Help clarify the conversation.• Show empathy. Do not ignore the speaker’s

attitude or non verbal actions.

COMMUNICATE

•FIND A PARTNER

DRAWING

DRAWING

SWITCH PARTNERS

DRAWING

DRAWING

EVERYONE DRAW WHAT YOU SEE

NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION

Tone•“Nice hat”•“I’m fine”•“Really?”

What do you think?

NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION

NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION

PARTNER UP

1. Speak calmly and clearly.2. Use “I” messages.3. Show respect and empathy4. Listen carefully and ask appropriate questions.