solution to student's suicide problem

s.Youmust have read in newspapers about

students committing suicide. You musthaveobservedhowsomeofyourfriends

arealways indepressiondue toexamstress.And thisdepressionisalsolikekillingyourself.(Chintachitakesamanhai-Worryingisequivalenttodeadbody)

Whydostudentscommitsuicide?

Theirmindwantpeace.

If you go in detail of everysuicide, you will come toknow that students actuallywant peace of mind. Theyknowitverywellthatthisactwillnotprovidesolutionandmake situationworst. Theirmindjustwanttorunawayfrommentalstressdespiteknowinghowtheirparentwillfeel.

Whytheydon’thavepeaceofmind?

1)StupidcomparisonsN a)My cousin brother got admission in IIT & I am

studyinginprivatecollege.N b)Myfriendwhostudiedinlessreputedschool,got

betterrankthanme.HowcanIfacehim?

Anappealtoallthestudents. Please share this article as much as possible.

Youmust have read in newspapers aboutstudents committing suicide. You musthaveobservedhowsomeofyourfriends

arealways indepressiondue toexamstress.And thisdepressionisalsolikekillingyourself.(Chintachitakesamanhai-Worryingisequivalenttodeadbody)

Whydostudentscommitsuicide?

Theirmindwantpeace.

If you go in detail of everysuicide, you will come toknow that students actuallywant peace of mind. Theyknowitverywellthatthisactwillnotprovidesolutionandmake situationworst. Theirmindjustwanttorunawayfrommentalstressdespiteknowinghowtheirparentwillfeel.

Whytheydon’thavepeaceofmind?

1)StupidcomparisonsN a)My cousin brother got admission in IIT & I am

studyinginprivatecollege.N b)Myfriendwhostudiedinlessreputedschool,got

betterrankthanme.HowcanIfacehim?

Anappealtoallthestudents. Please share this article as much as possible.

2)Selfguilt-Iletmyfamilydown”,”Icouldhavedonemuchbetter”,“Iwastedlotoftimeingossiping”.

3)Loosetalk Loose talk by students, parents & relatives withoutknowing how they are killing someone’s aspiration&confidence.N a)“Inourcollege,thereisnogoodfaculty,facility&

placement.Ican’tdobetterinmylife.”

N b)“IsendhimtoKota ,Sharmajiandspend2 lakhrupees.That’swhyhegotrankabove2lakh”

Typical parent to their neighbor in presence of theirchild.

4)Myths-N a)If I do not get this particular college,my career

wouldbefinished.N b)IaminIIT,Iamassuredtohavesuccessfulcareer.

5)BlamingonGod-Iamhardworking&sincere.Idonothaveanybadhabit.ButGoddidhugeinjusticetomebygivingmelessbrain.

Howonecanhavepeaceofmindandtakerightaction?þ 1)Avoidstupidcomparisons-Thereisnolimittostupidcomparisonsandonehastofocusonwhathecandoes.

Lifewillprovideyouendlessopportunitiesanditisyourchoicetograbtherightopportunityaccordingtoyouraptitude&hardworkorwastetime&energyinuseless

comparisons.

Tomakeitmoreclear,let’shavealookonsomemore

stupidcomparisons:Andthelistisendless.

þ 2.)Self-guilt-Youwilldefinitelygetotheropportunitiestomakeyourparentsproud. Just learn fromyourmistakeand takeappropriate actions. If youhavewasted lotof time ingossiping,itisnotbecauseyouarecareless.Youdiditbecauseyouarelackingrequiredskillstogetsuccessinexams.It wouldbebettertobuildappropriateskillswithhelpofbook,teachersorinternet.

þ 3)Loosetalk-Don’tletanyoneincludingyourself&parenttodoloose

Iamjustasingerand I can’t actwell. Actressessare gettingmorepopularity thanme.I s hou ld be t te r commitsuicide.

Ican’tsinglikeLataMangeshkar.Mylifeisuseless.I should bettercommitsuicide.

I got just 35marksin maths whereasother are gettingabove 90 marks. Ican not handle itanymore. I shouldb e t t e r c omm i t suicide.

LataMangeshkar ShakuntlaDevi SachinTendulkar

Whatiftheyalsodidmeaninglesscomparisons?

2)Selfguilt-Iletmyfamilydown”,”Icouldhavedonemuchbetter”,“Iwastedlotoftimeingossiping”.

3)Loosetalk Loose talk by students, parents & relatives withoutknowing how they are killing someone’s aspiration&confidence.N a)“Inourcollege,thereisnogoodfaculty,facility&

placement.Ican’tdobetterinmylife.”

N b)“IsendhimtoKota ,Sharmajiandspend2 lakhrupees.That’swhyhegotrankabove2lakh”

Typical parent to their neighbor in presence of theirchild.

4)Myths-N a)If I do not get this particular college,my career

wouldbefinished.N b)IaminIIT,Iamassuredtohavesuccessfulcareer.

5)BlamingonGod-Iamhardworking&sincere.Idonothaveanybadhabit.ButGoddidhugeinjusticetomebygivingmelessbrain.

Howonecanhavepeaceofmindandtakerightaction?þ 1)Avoidstupidcomparisons-Thereisnolimittostupidcomparisonsandonehastofocusonwhathecandoes.

Lifewillprovideyouendlessopportunitiesanditisyourchoicetograbtherightopportunityaccordingtoyouraptitude&hardworkorwastetime&energyinuseless

comparisons.

Tomakeitmoreclear,let’shavealookonsomemore

stupidcomparisons:Andthelistisendless.

þ 2.)Self-guilt-Youwilldefinitelygetotheropportunitiestomakeyourparentsproud. Just learn fromyourmistakeand takeappropriate actions. If youhavewasted lotof time ingossiping,itisnotbecauseyouarecareless.Youdiditbecauseyouarelackingrequiredskillstogetsuccessinexams.It wouldbebettertobuildappropriateskillswithhelpofbook,teachersorinternet.

þ 3)Loosetalk-Don’tletanyoneincludingyourself&parenttodoloose

Iamjustasingerand I can’t actwell. Actressessare gettingmorepopularity thanme.I s hou ld be t te r commitsuicide.

Ican’tsinglikeLataMangeshkar.Mylifeisuseless.I should bettercommitsuicide.

I got just 35marksin maths whereasother are gettingabove 90 marks. Ican not handle itanymore. I shouldb e t t e r c omm i t suicide.

LataMangeshkar ShakuntlaDevi SachinTendulkar

Whatiftheyalsodidmeaninglesscomparisons?

talk.Justtellthem-“YoucanslapmeashardaspossiblebutIwon’tallowyoutokillmelikethat.“

þ 4)Myth-Therearemanymythswhicharespoilingstudent’s career. Remember , you have to buildcareeryourself.Agoodcollegeorbranchcanonlyhelpyou,butitisyouwhohastotakerightactions.

WhatIfthesepersonstoobelievedinmyths.

According to myteachers, I am toostupid to learnanything.Ishouldbetterkillmyself.

Allfilmproducershasrejected me as theythink I am too long&not fair like otheractors.Iamthinkingofendingmylife.

Mr.Einstein,youcansurelygoforsuicide,but before that , please let me knowwhowilltellus-E=

Mr Bachan , youshould definitely goforitbutpleaseletusknowwhowilldotheroleofJayinSholay.

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þ 5)BlamingonGod-Godhasgivenyouinfinitepower.Yourageisnotjust15-25years,inrealityitismorethanthousandsofyears.Youarepartofhumanraceandyouhaveresponsibilitytomakeitbetter.

IfyouarerelatingyourIQwithmarks,thenIadviseyoutoconsultaneurosurgeonandyouwillbesurprisedtoknowthatexamisjustlikesmallinsectinfrontofyourmammothbrainpower.

GettingsuccessinexamisallaboutyourEQ(emotionalquotient)andskills.