Signs that you need marriage counseling

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1. SIGNS THAT YOU NEED MARRIAGE COUNSELINGEvery marriage is unique and every marriage has its good times and bad. Theproblems in your marriage can be similar to other marriages but never the same.So, how do you recognize the signs that your marriage is in trouble and its time togo for marriage counseling? Thats not too hard. A little bit of adjustment problemis natural but if it turns into ego problem then you should know that things are notas well as should be. That is the biggest problem and most other marital problemsare a result of ego alone.If constant fighting, character assassination and name calling are that onlyway you communicate then your marriage is going through a rough patch.If the two of you find it difficult to solve problems and conflicts by yourselfthen you should consider going for marriage counseling.If you and your spouse do not trust each other and cannot talk about itwithout getting into a massive fight then marriage counseling is your bestbet to resolve the issue.If you are dissatisfied and unhappy with your marriage and do not know howto improve things then you should seek counseling.If you find your spouse tiresome and feel relieved to be away from him/herthen something is very wrong with your marriage.If you have no intimacy whatsoever and your attachment to your spouse isvery low then both of you should look for professional help.If you and/or your spouse are considering separation or divorce then it willbe better to go for marriage counseling before going to a lawyer, you mayyet save your marriage.When you and your spouse spend time together you should be happy, and notangry and frustrated. If you cant stand to be with each other and every attempt atcommunication ends with hurling accusations and constant complains then howcan you live with each other? If all you think about the whole day is the problemsin your home then there is no way you can have peace of mind and you are notlikely to be able to concentrate on your work either. One very serious repercussionof marital discord is infidelity. It is true that sometimes the problems start fromunfaithfulness but more often than not, it is the other way round. Lack of intimacyamong the couple may force any one or both of them to seek love in others. Thiswill be a fatal blow to any relationship. Marriage counseling can help avoidingsuch situations or rectifying the damage done to your marriage from suchsituations. After all whether it ultimately works or not, there is no harm in trying.