SELF ESTEEM

TERMS

1. Self concept: total picture a person has of him/herself.

2. Self-esteem: feeling that you have something worthwhile to contribute.

*Self concept is developed early in life.

*Good self-concept leads to high self esteem.

*Children develop their self-concept from what they believe the important people in their lives feel about them.

Self Concept Cycle

As I see myself

Other’s reactions My actionsTo me

As others see me

Practices Likely to Decrease Self Esteem

*Negative

Comments

*Comparing a child to other’s in a negative way.

*Overprotecting or over helping.

Practices Likely to Increase Self Esteem

*Provide successful experiences

*Treat with love and respect.

*Praise

accomplishments

*Avoid competition

Give room to achieve and explore.

*Let children make choices when possible.

*Encourage independence.

*Let them hear you making positive comments about them.

*Remember: building a child’s self esteem is a day to day process, not a one time thing.