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Men’s Guide Table of ContentsThe Great (Dating) ParadoxYour Greatest Breakthrough: Profound Universal ParadigmWhy Mom Was Right & What Went WrongPrehistory of Her Empowerment: TraditionFeminism: Double-Edged SwordWhat the Traditionalists are MissingSexual Revolution: A Flock of Seagulls? Pedestal: The Pervasive Illusion of ‘Forced Reality’Global Reality Check and Cultural Differentiation

What Dating Experts & Marriage Counselors are MissingThe Oppression of Modern ManhoodSex Sells: Pussytrance & the Stripclub ProjectThe 40 Year Old VirginsParadox Outlets & The Russian Bride TrendDenying Invisible Forced Reality & Your OppressionCompound Regression & Reclaiming Back Years of Your LifeOpportunities of our Modern Social DynamicsRedening Dating for Your LifestyleSex & the Modern Metro WomanSimilarities Between Average Girls & Models: Take Your Pick Uber Player: AMPNLP, Pick-up Lines & Techniques vs. Your New RealityYour Secret Weapon: IndifferenceReturn to Blue Lagoon

Where have all the Cowboys Gone?Drama Queen: How a Beautiful Woman or Model ThinksTraditional vs. Independent Female PsychologyWhat Women WantBeing a Man & Her Take on “Nice Guys”Down Boy!: Your Emotional Control & Anti-Drama SolvencyThe Ba le of Realities


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Breaking Her Illusory ‘Weapons Grade’ Social PersonaThe Importance of Action & Without FearEvasive Maneuver & TacticsStealing Her Frame

Fast Forward Power TechniqueA Shark Tale: Your Greatest Leverage for Wisdom & ActionMoney & Other Dynamics: A virtual non-issueShy guy? No problemsDiamond Clarity: Leading the DirectionNatural Progression to Sex & Why You’re Already OKTechniques for Further Internalization & GroundingInterdependent Relations with Women EverywhereInternational Player & Interracial DatingPassion or Coincidence?An Objective View of ‘Bitches’ & ‘Ho’s’ In Our SocietyPussy ControlWith or Without Her : Love Song Lyrics & YouSex, Lies and Videotape:When Stars Collide

Long Term Relationship & Marriage DynamicsBa le of the Sexes for a ReasonTaming of the Shrew?50% Divorce RateDivorce PreventionCenter of your universeThe Rules for MenBecoming Congruent with your Own RealityEmpowering Incantations & BeliefsManifestations: Proof of your New RealityBe CoolBe Her HeroA Whole New WorldSocial Bu eryThe World Is Yours: Recap


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The Great (Dating) Paradox:

FRUSTRATED MEN: “What’s wrong with women today? I’m a goodcatch.”

FRUSTRATED WOMEN: “Where are all the REAL men?”

This guide to women I’m going to ip it around all at the start right here.You can have the type of women you want in your life for the kind of rela-tionships you want.

It’s not about ‘them’ it’s about you and your choices and your lifestyle. Youcan get the higher quality of women you always wanted for Dating, sex,

fun, short term relationships, friends, FTF, or even marriage.

This guide is all about empowering you so YOU can have your choice andkind of women. This guide will give you the power to a ract women natu-rally more than hundreds of techniques alone could because I’m giving youthe most profound Universal Paradigm shi�.

I’m going to educate you on why being a nice guy or even ‘great catch’

hasn’t been ge ing you the level of women you deserve or desire.

And then we’re going to look at the reasoning behind this based on histori-cal evidence and profound truths which will open your mind even more.You’ll nally get the global perspective for the rst time on literally every-thing that is going on with our modern society, it’s place in the world, fe-male perspectives, feminism, traditionalism and your right to power.

So again; this book is “Men’s Guide to Women” but what it really is, is allabout YOU and becoming the man you have to be in order to be insanelysuccessful with beautiful women in the United States and all over the world.You’ll realize power that you always thought you knew you had somewherewithin but couldn’t explain.

In fact the modern social dynamics I reveal to you actually allow you tocarry on the life you dream where you couldn’t have before (100 years ago).


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I will show you a new reality that any dating counselor is 1,000,000 milesaway from because they’re in a completely different paradigm. An un-hinged reality that goes beyond the context of even the best dating expertsto date (and 99% of all counselors don’t even have a clue to what’s really go-ing on).

You will have a framework of personal power towards the women you wantin your life so strongly that in many cases you don’t have to say a word oryou could say anything at all to have them doing what you want.

This Guide is about you and once you have your power it’s all about thewomen and lifestyle that you can consistently live to fulll your fantasiesand make it happen with beautiful women from all over the world. If you

accept your mission to become congruent with your new universal para-digm you will experience a level of success with women that extends be-yond even the best dating advice you’ve ever heard to date.

If you use the rest of my advice and any other dating advice on top of thisuniversal context and apply it in action and habitually, you will become oneof the rare secret successes in the world of dating. Your stories will becomelegendary. Your conquests unbelievable to your closest buddies. You will

be a more balanced and fullled man as a byproduct which will extend intoall areas of your life.

The Power beyond ANY other that women don’t want you to have (theyhave the sexual power in America and want to keep that power) but will se-cretly fall for if you have it. What is that power? It’s you. It’s you reclaim-ing the power and taking it back from them. They will be forced to yoursexual gravity instead of theirs. It’s changing the balance back to it’s natural, biological ORIGINS.

The most successful men with ladies are ‘naturals’. We call them ‘naturals’.This in itself is quite the paradox. Weren’t we ALWAYS naturals throughouthistory by our ability to nd a mate and procreate? Aren’t all species alive because they inherently know how to reproduce without being told to hertaught?


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If we didn’t procreate we didn’t further our self-preservation through hav-ing kids. The naturals with beautiful women are just playing their biologi-cal role anyways. WHAT WENT WRONG? Something came into the equa-tion along the line that caused us not to be natural with out counterpartwomen.

I hope you realize that if you’re looking for the ho est pick-up lines, for fan-cy ‘techniques’ you’re not going to nd it here. But you will nd somethingmore powerful than you can imagine and even if you think you know whatit is you don’t. You will nd that everything busy busy that is going on withall the pickup lines and techniques is really just surface material that is cov-ering something up.

It’s covering something up that is deeper and larger in scope other than just‘xing yourself’ or ‘nding what works’...there are universal implicationsand dynamics that 100% of dating experts are missing until now. They can’tsee why they’re doing what they’re doing, they can’t explain it, they ac-cept it and ‘ght against it’. Everything I will reveal to you is the universalcontext in which ALL current dating materials and advice ts WITHIN andalmost becomes useless.

Good news is that although you have been seeing guys you would thinkare less desirable to these women yet they are going out with them; here issomething about those guys. They are the ones who are not being tradition-ally or socially natural (it’s the raw biological process beneath the surface);meaning they aren’t really healthy or balanced if they really are a jerk or a badboy.

You have a lot to offer women and can have some of those elements to ap-peal to her social persona as well but the profound truth is that you (and allof us men, including the 40 year old virgins) really are naturals.

Always know that women are predisposed to respond to you biologicallywhen you start the mating dance; o�en they cannot control themselves and‘don’t know what it is’ about a guy. I will give you the answers to both sidesof the paradox so that both men and women can have mutually fulllingrelationships from which you will choose and lead.


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Your Greatest Breakthrough:Profound Universal Paradigm

I think we’ve all felt that ‘something wasn’t right’ when it came toapproaching and dealing with beautiful women.

If you want the most leverage and change, it’s best to go right to the root ofthe problem itself..and I mean the very root itself in the context that no onehas been aware of. The universal context.

See, many dating experts have decided that it’s just the women and their behavior that is a natural issue we have to deal with so we just have tond techniques that work with them because they’re beautiful and usually bitchy so we treat them differently.

We have to look at what’s going on from about a dozen different angles inorder to see the elusive obvious global context that is even greater in scopethan anything any other dating guru has covered. There are more thingsgoing on than what you realize that are completely invisible to theAmerican man (until now). Why?

Because it has so pervaded our society, this invisible false reality for thepast decades that we can’t see beyond it. Especially with the inundation ofdating this, dating that, online dating, American women all around us, inthe workforce, we can’t really see the greater context or paradigm that wehave been living in existence with.

This paradigm is going to take a while to sink in maybe. Maybe it will hityou right away. But I cannot overemphasize it’s pure, raw power for en-lightenment and freedom from oppression forever with women.

Everyone’s so busy guring out the latest technique or ‘how to respond towomen’ without having a truly GLOBAL understanding of history, biology,other countries views, media propagation, tradition, cultural differentia-tion, workforce integration, competition, American history, marriage reali-ties and divorce statistics, lawsuits, the cause of nagging and dissension,conspicuous consumption control, modern TV. shows, housewife


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commercials, Susan B. Anthony, Biblical purveyance, foundational psychol-ogy, Discovery channel, women’s liberation, sexual revolution, evolutionalpsychology in contrast to today, female empowerment and many more fac-tors down to such as songs “She’s so high above me”.

Your understanding of ALL OF THIS has led to the single greatest powerand leverage you can use to regain your power as a man and be successfulwith women.

Here is the profound universal paradigm which will change your life andyou won’t hear anywhere else unless it’s from me. Are you ready? Here isthe profound universal paradigm:

You have the right to be a man; a BIRTHRIGHT. Sexual favor and choicehas always been in your hands. Today’s independent women and their be-havior is PURELY a product of social and cultural programming in Americathat dees biological, universal, evolutionary, Biblical, inherent, traditional,natural and historical truth & causes.

We have unknowingly empowered and EDIFIED the female beauty andgiven her equal rights and opportunity as men as like never before in

history.

Woman has become stronger than ever in the history of the world within theU.S. and only within the last 100 years and unknowingly has gained MOREpower than men would ever like to acknowledge (and she KNOWS it).

That’s it. Go ahead and re-read it again. > Just look at songs like “She’s sohigh above me”. All of this leading to the wussication of the modern man,

acting whiny, begging and pleading to be with her.

Now I’ll say more:

This is why us men, who are NATURALLY playing our traditional rolewhich always worked through all of time up through our own grandparentsDOESN’T WORK ANYMORE. The power our society has given to womenhas become the fabric of our nation and culture itself.


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We take it for granted. As much as feminists will hate to acknowledge butthis is the real reason why we have a 50% divorce rate. They didn’t use toargue and nag at their husbands when they knew their role of tradition.

Yes there are surface issues which women, media and counselors will blamefor divorce but they can’t see the global context of what’s going on in therst place; women’s power and rise is competing with man’s biological in-heritance.

I’ll go on Oprah and Le erman to stand up for this if I have to so the men inAmerica can take the power back...however I kind of what it to be secret sothat not all of us know how to be effective with them. But then again, it’s a

world of abundance anyways.There’s MUCH more to the universal paradigm here than just a hardcoretraditionalist perspective which you will discover. I’m not saying it’s rightor wrong, it’s just the way things are. SHE IS WHO SHE IS because of howshe was brought up. You can’t tame the shrew without drama in a tradi-tional or 50/50 dating relationship (I will introduce you to AMP).

Our women are acting unnaturally. Their biological urge is to not developa man’s strength but to nurture and care for the kids and family. This may be quite shocking to you and it’s going to piss a whole lot of women off un-til they really understand everything that I have to say which is really justcoming from a Universal perspective of knowledge. Strong, independentwomen are STILL a minority around most of the world.

We believe, we KNOW that we have value and quality to offer women but

can’t gure out what the hell is going on when they keep brushing us off.More power to you to realize that she doesn’t know either that she’s a prod-uct of our society and she’d be a completely different woman if she were born in almost any other country.

She doesn’t know that but she does secretly know that she has power overmen only because of the power that our society has given her. It’s all per-ception. It’s your reality vs. hers.


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Josh Hartne refuses to have sex or even masturbation (the real kicker) for40 days and his female co-workers corner him because he’s trying to takethe power back to men (women know that they have the power and theyDON’T want you to have it).

About 80%+ of Men outside America have the power when it comes to beautiful women and maybe 1% in America (and even less of those who arehealthy like you and me who they REALLY want).

And it’s not because they’re inherently ‘stronger’ than you, it’s because theirwomen are traditionally being women and playing their natural role with-out any illusional ‘added value’ or ‘display of assets’ ge ing in the way orconfusing their men.

You have to show them you’re a man. You have to just BE A MAN in yourreality and o�en that will be enough to a ract women to you because theycan sense your POWER. You have the biological inherent power that theyare a racted to, not the unnatural wussiness of giving them the power.

Basically part of it is that you can’t be fazed by her beauty because it’s justa shield. 80 years ago women weren’t ALLOWED to make themselves look

sexy or pre y except on special occasion. The men understood this maybefor a reason. This kept things in natural order.

Think of her 100 years ago right now today (you know what I mean, workwith me here) and she wouldn’t be looking all sexy and wouldn’t be sodamn ‘look at me, I’m hot’..so if you just see right through this facadeand deny it’s existence you’ll speak straight to the real woman in her thatWANTS to be a racted through the natural biological process that is inher-ent in both you AND her.

You are the one to lead the direction of the relationship. There are a TONof implications and dynamics involved if you’re thinking of marriage witha real beauty or with the rst real 10 that you get with; stay cool, man andmake sure you read my Chapter on Divorce Prevention as it’s imperative tounderstand the universal perspective to prevent future pain on both partiesthrough the decisions you make now or don’t make now.


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Yes it’s true many women wear the pants in the family in America today butthey’re just being who they are and the men don’t understand what’s goingon because they know that they’re supposed to have the power.

If you’ve given average or above average women value to them in the pastthrough sex, making love, making her laugh, experiences to remember, etc.you know you can do it with the most beautiful ones once you internalizethe life giving information here.

These women do need loving too and unfortunately guys who are ‘jerks’ arecapitalizing on this by having strong male archetypal characteristics with-out ‘seduction’ tricks yet it’s the only options she has seen for nding a realman. Do beautiful women a favor and let them have the opportunity to bewith you and what you can give to them instead man. You are probablymore psychologically healthy and sound than a jerk.

It always boggled my mind how much uglier guys than me could score hotchicks but now it all makes sense. If all of us good looking guys spread thisword all the women in America would be like in a candy store of fulllmentand then the ugly guys or unhealthy guys would really have a hard time because women will have the choice of healthier men like us who they morerightfully deserve naturally anyways.

Then the less desirable (socially) guys might be forced to accept the womenwho are more at their level instead. Hey, I know I’m going to piss somepeople off but I don’t care because I’m speaking from a global perspective sothere’s always an angle that balances whatever I say out and cancels what-ever that person’s objection would be; this gives me power.

With this knowledge you also have the power of awareness too to transformyour life from the true inner self on outward (not with gimmicky ‘surface’tricks and techniques that misses the whole point completely of pure powerand natural a raction).

Women are a racted to bad boys like Tommy Lee and Colin Farrell becausethey are living in their own reality and are indifferent to what women really


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think about them.

Ok, maybe I’m assuming more average or less than guys are scoring hotwomen than really are. If you’re average looking and aren’t ge ing hotwomen, you have no excuse now, none. There still aren’t enough real mento go around and if you look at the numbers of hot and usually horny wom-en that are out there it’s like shooting sh in a barrel.

Everything we see is perception. Those perceptions have been inundatedinto our social programming. Men have become very reactive instead ofproactive. Why is it that women want a ‘real man’? These are strong, beau-tiful, successful women and they still want a ‘real man’. What does thatmean?

Why do they always complain they can’t nd a ‘real man’? HELLO...thatcan be you. In fact, it probably IS and you will realize this you once youinternalize this information.

In case you didn’t know, species have always found a way to perpetuatethemselves. We are born biologically with the skills it takes to mate, a ractand reproduce BIOLOGICALLY. But in America today, of course people arereproducing (2 by 2, we make new people) but then look at the bi erdivorce ba les.

What I’m proposing is that men really are men everywhere (for the mostpart..though I’ve seen differently if you know what I mean).

She is still waiting to be swept away by a natural (and I don’t mean granolakid) man who understands the inherent biological process of sexual chemis-try and a raction.

You will continue and begin to learn about the powerful leverage that younow have to make the greatest change in your adult life when it comes to being successful with women.

But before we get to the real good stuff, it is important that you understanda li le bit about history and some other things rst. So we’ll continue...


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Why Mom Was Right & What Went Wrong

Throughout all of this, the realization of the macro dynamics and the uni-versal paradigm, I have realized that a man (in context of everything elsethat is included in this e-book) can still be a man but has to consider the

modern dating ritual compared to the traditional courtship ritual.

The reason why our mothers and grandmothers have taught us to go outwith women to nice restaurants, by her owers, tell her how much we loveher, is because this is more of the mating ritual instead of the dating ritual.

What mother wanted you to do was to take a woman out in a more tra-ditional sense that would make her think that you were courting her and

eventually leading to a relationship to possible marriage.

Basically women today have changed because of the modern social dy-namics, which includes the fact that they are now more powerful than be-fore and have the power of choice when it comes to men.

A woman’s reality is now that she has all kinds of men chasing a�er herwith the traditional courtship procedure instead of just being a more social

person and dating her.

This means that there are many other heavy handed implications that areimplied, which is a li le too much for her to handle, considering that she just wants to be fun and free more like a traditional man.

So your mother was probably right in the sense that she wanted a man todo traditional things and be nice to a woman. However because of a man

is now usually under a woman’s spell, he has lost his traditional power as aman for the time that he is around her.

This makes anything he does make him look like a wussy. So not only ishe acting like a wussy unknowingly, he is going a�er her with the wrongapproach of courtship instead of just taking a more social, light dating ap-proach.


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Maybe our mothers and our grandmothers do not realize now that most beautiful strong women would rather not have the traditional weight of amarriage minded mating procedure, especially from a man that is overlyinterested in them because she has the power of choice with any number ofmen.

In a more traditional society, yes the mating procedure would almost seemmore natural of course, but because the power has shi�ed in our society interms of dating you are going to have to play by different rules.

So even though you can be a real and natural man by living in your ownreality and treating her like a real woman and not le ing her get away withdrama that crosses your boundaries, you will have to take a more natural

social dating approach anyways. You can still nd a traditional wife whenyou are ready though.

This of course is to your advantage because it is what a woman is more in-terested in having anyways, and she does not have to deal with theadditional ensuing implications of following the traditional route of court-ing her.

Because you do not have to be as concerned about courting her for poten-tial marriage (this now comes about in modern dating rituals through timein a relationship, for these independent women a�er they have go en timeto know you) at the very start of a dating relationship, you can take a morecarefree approach and she will feel a live less weight on her shoulders.

Of course you may potentially be interested in her for marriage but timewill only tell as you develop a relationship. So just keep in mind that you

really should be taking a more social and lighthearted or fun approach atthe very beginning. And then it can develop from there if there is going to be any potential future between youths.

Now the more traditional women in America, yes they may be looking morein terms of marriage potential with a man, so you may be able to actuallydate her and get away with doing traditional mating practices such asgoing out to dinner every day, buying her expensive gi�s to show your


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affection for her, etc. Just keep in mind that the modern beautiful inde-pendent women today are loving their independent life and their freedom,and if marriage is going to develop its going to be in a natural way througha relationship without a man expecting too much by his actions out frontthrough ‘wooing’ her.

Our social dating and marriage dynamics have drastically changed in thepast couple of decades so that now we have a 50/50 ‘power struggle’ es-sentially because we have had to make concessions for the modern, power-ful woman even though marriage is still ultimately the ‘tradition’ or climax(ahem, in a different way) of a man and a woman’s relationship together orcommitment to each other.

Remember there is the very traditional ‘courtship’ (which doesn’t work any-more on our independent women who are fun focused and carefree as a balance to their worklife), and there is the 50/50 social dating context in ournation today and there is also the AMP (accelerated mating process or ‘pro-gram’).

Just keep in mind historical and traditional dynamics and decide how youwant to lead your life. When it does come down to marriage though, histo-

ry, mom, biology and the Bible was right about keeping it traditional if youwant it to last (choosing a woman who naturally is traditional and not oneyou would be arguing with every day) and best raise a family.

Keep in mind we’re rst talking about these issues in order to fully get youto see why things are the way they are. It is an important part of yourKarate Kid training. It will all pull together as you read the completeGuide.


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Prehistory of Her Empowerment:Tradition

We are going to look at modern mating and dating rituals from all anglesand perspectives in order for you to get the foundational global perspectiveof what’s really going on.

Things used to be traditional and that has everything to do with this con-versation. Traditional seems so boring and antiquated but hmm...let’s seehere. Women used to cook, clean and support their husbands because thatis what they were taught to do (and sorry modern girls but that IS the more

biological thing to do).

Ladies, everything you think and even how you act or react, is mostlycoming from how you were brought up, how society has programmed you(and us).

Really think about this. “Mona Lisa Smile”, “The Stepford Wives”, “Mr.Mom” these are all products of our modern society. In ‘Mona Lisa Smile’(which I only saw the preview to) Julia Roberts plays this empoweredteacher who is inuencing her traditional female students to be indepen-dent in an age where there was the role where she would play thetraditional housewife.

You have to understand that this kind of thing ‘was’ fairly radical at thetime because this was when the centuries old traditions started to change. Of course we all look on it now as of course they should be empoweredand have their own free will but this is important for you to see the biggerpicture if you really want to have full success with women.

Hey, I just want you to be aware of this. It is part of the progression thathas caused female empowerment which I believe is the only main cause ofour high divorce rate (despite other advantages).

But you say, nowadays both the husband AND the wife have to work just


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to make it go. Here’s the deal and this may be a li le harsh; yes times havechanged and the economy is different but the man’s natural role IS the pro-vider and protector. He just may have to provide more or nd an ethicalway to do so.

Have you heard the saying...’Where men are men and the women are mentoo?’ Well, women have taken on ‘traditionally’ masculine roles. Of coursewe seem to accept this but you should be aware of it’s ramications.

And it started slowly, seepingly. Women wearing pants. I remember mymom telling me when this issue started. She was in school at that time.Women slowly opened up to the idea and liked the idea of having their ownsense of stronger individuality and freedom.

It would still take decades though for the real transfer of power to happenthough to now it is common for a woman to think she is ‘the prize’.

And everything, every WAY that women view it is ONLY from her cur-rent level of understanding of the world in which SHE was brought up in.A feminazi herself could never really FEEL or KNOW what it is like to be a‘real woman’.

Go back 80 years and be like that; it would be blasphemy and more thanlikely you would NOT be thinking like this because you would be growingup more traditionally and naturally - period.

Also most cultures around the world are at in this term where we were 100years ago where the relationships are more traditional. You know what?There’s nothing wrong with that.

You want a marriage to stick together? The divorce rates are low aroundthe world and lowest where it comes down to the man being a man and thewoman being a woman in their traditional and dened roles throughout theages.

This is true and it’s even biblical. It is the price America is paying for thepower that women get (our families suffer drama, confusion, arguments) all


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really stemming from this.

The past few decades things have changed and of course being led in Amer-ica. But the femi-nazi’s no...they can’t see this. They don’t understand whatits like to be a woman from another culture where it’s expected that she’ll

raise a family traditionally and that a man will take care of her.

It’s not in a femi-nazi’s reality and she thinks those women are ‘repressed’when actually they are quite happy because I have met and know many ofthem; they don’t have a unhealthy social persona either and they know howto keep a family nurtured. For be er or worse, the femi-nazi is an over-stated voice and the rest of the world is the silent majority. Then I’ll take themedia a ention if I can be a voice for the American man.

So if I can ‘naturally’ a ract beautiful women in other countries, then WTFis going on in America?!?! This is the question I had for a decade. My bestfriend is very aware of this as well.

In the 1960’s we had the sexual revolution and before that we had the baby boomers a�er the winning of World War II.

Look at it this way. Women around the world are inherently looking to raisea family and have kids. It’s really why they were put on this earth and menare here to help with that process of course.

In modern society we’ve been fortunate to climb towards the top ofMaslow’s hierarchy of needs to explore areas just beyond our biologicalinheritance. Still...women and men know that they naturally want to haveli le people that are just like them to keep the cycle going.

Here’s the thing, normal traditional women aren’t a racted to jerks outsidethe U.S. They’re primarily looking for someone who can provide and pro-tect but not someone who might even potentially ‘abuse’ them so they steeraway from that. In America these traditional girls still do exist though arestill being inuenced by our social culture and mass media.

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and independent she DOES want someone strong and independent like herthat can thrill her and that isn’t predictable and boring. Most ‘nice guys’ areso predictably boring it kills women; they all have the same ‘neediness’ andapproaches.

The problem just becomes a troublesome and power struggle marriage orlong term relationship in which every day divorces are happening, and canshe really help that? The only solution from one angle is for her to really ac-cept a more traditional role and allow her husband to lead the family.

Healthy, long term ‘nurture’ focused women steer away from the bad boys.There wasn’t even a place for bad boys 80 years ago for a woman unless youwere really outside of society’s standards.

But with so many ‘nice guys’ and men just being confused by women’spower and doing the things they’ll think would a ract the ‘American’woman, it doesn’t work. They are forge ing that she is still a woman inside.

Remember she has power and choice. She can choose many guys, the more beautiful and powerful she is; is ANY of this going to lead to her happiness?LIFE ISN’T FAIR.

If you’re just ‘the next guy’ she may take you or leave. If you go the tradi-tional ‘courting’ or ‘dating’ route then you’re essentially just ‘buying’ heraffection through meals, etc.

Is the fact that she is unknowingly defying biological order, causing some ofthe drama itself that she is so unse led?

An American woman wants more than just a man who can provide for her;nowadays she can easily provide for herself so regular men become boringto her. She needs a li le extra ‘kick’.

She wonders where have all the ‘real men’ gone? Not realizing that she’spart of the problem in the rst place (though through no direct fault of herown). So they seek out a strong ‘real man’ who won’t give in to their de-mands everytime and hand their balls on a pla er.


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Guys, she WANTS to be put in her place once in a while though she’ll nevertell you.

Why? Because she is not biologically supposed to be leading the relation-

ship (look at our 50% divorce rate because the balance of power has shi�ed because of her naturally modern demands leading to debate and higherexpectations of sorts); it is still part of her to be a woman.

However, you cannot really tame the shrew (I say this respectfully and di-vorced men may say worse) because it is who she is.

An independently developed woman is more exciting, interesting, fascinat-

ing, intelligent because she is allowed to have the opportunities that manhas had.

There are some awesome, great women who have added a lot of value toour society which I greatly respect; however with that, when it comes torelationships, etc. there is just something that spoils the traditional nature ofthe biological equation, which leads to the general oppression of men (I seeit everywhere).

The thing is, you can’t make silk out of a pig’s ear (don’t know if that’s theright analogy...). What I’m saying here is, if she’s already so damn indepen-dent and can take care of herself, you’re not going to be able to permanentlytame her. You could try to have taming of the shrew but she’s just going toresent it because you’re crossing ‘her line’ of independence.

This independence and empowerment which she has gained through herlife is not her fault. If she was born in another country, she would be a com-pletely different person. You can’t change her is what I’m saying.

If you want to try to make an unhealthy balance of relationship work andWANT that drama in your life, go ahead.

Hey, it’s great for dating but for marriage. I predict the pa ern, it’s a formu-la. When Rhe Butler ‘took’ Scarle O’Hara up the stairs in ‘Gone with the


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Wind’, he may have tamed the shrew (through sexual biological process) but only for a li le while. At the end of the movie he is being a real man.You can learn from him. Even though she probably will nd him again, it just isn’t in her nature to repress herself down, so drama will be back againas it was throughout the whole movie with them.

That was a predicator for American marriage life to come, except now thereis o�en less passion, eh? I don’t know, I haven’t been married yet.

If you can maintain real friendships or AMP relationships with these wom-en you can avoid all of the drama yet truly experience powerful interdepen-dent and mutually fullling value between the two of you.

The answer? You want a life without unnecessary drama? Just want to re-lax in peace without nagging? Want to have a woman who does things thatyou thought she is supposed to without her complaining about it?

In our 50/50 society today, we just take it for granted. We have grown upin this culture, but do not realize how most the rest of the world is still verytraditional in nature.

Marriages have become a balance of power in the U.S...a give and take.Roles must be known or there will be much more massive ri�s than should be. If you’re dealing with an independent woman, she’s going to haveMANY more opinions (this is a blessing and a CURSE).

She is more developed in all ways but really it’s a ‘traditional’ woman wifethat already KNOWS her expected roles. This kind of woman is NOT goingto complain or nag anywhere even close to that of an independent woman because she knows her ‘role’ - PERIOD.

Here’s the thing with me. I’ve always found these kind of very ‘traditional’American women boring. In fact I take it back to my college days. I wastalking to this a ractive blonde who I was kind of going out with and askedher, “Don’t you want to be someone when you grow up?”

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back on that (I haven’t seen her in 8 years) with the global eyes ofunderstanding and I realize that that is an extremely noble thing for a wom-an to want to do. It takes a LOT to raise and nurture kids. I don’t knowhow most mothers put up with that kind of drama. It is not only admirable but is the natural thing that they want to do.

And all of these in a pen and women know that there’s something that justdoesn’t seem right as they are staying single for many more years, they stillhave the biological urge to be a mother. It’s just that now there are theseother opportunistic or relationship dynamics that have inuenced this andthe modern family.

I’ve always found those kinds of women who are naturally ‘traditional’ in

America kind of boring. Why? Because they’re not cu ing edge, exciting oron my level psychologically as a general rule of thumb.

But you know, they will care for you, nurture and raise a family withoutadditional drama or nagging (of course there will be some things here andthere).

There is a world of a difference between a woman who cooks and cleans

because that’s what she knows to do and WANTS to do and a woman whowill start nagging at the thought of even doing it.

Here’s the thing; I don’t cook that o�en and I don’t have time to clean. That’snot my role. I’m the provider and protector. I don’t and won’t allow nag-ging in my life from a woman.

It is unacceptable and distracts me from my affairs. Now, are the womanI’m really INTERESTED in going to be tamed down? Not likely. There’s toomuch socio-psychological proling and growth beyond her natural instinctsthat it’s covered it up reshaped her natural identity.

So I maintain interdependent relationships with them instead of the dramaof a long-term ‘dating relationship’ or marriage. Of course in modern so-ciety we men have more opportunity than ever before as well, but keep inmind that it is our traditional role to be men and had the household.


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Also. I naturally know that I’m not going to be ‘Mr. Mom’. In fact, I don’tchange diapers. Maybe in certain cases or as a novelty but really, I don’tchange diapers.

And I don’t care if women today want to judge me because of that. Youhave to set up your own boundaries of what you expect from a woman. Ifyou are going to be in a 50/50 relationship with her or a marriage, beprepared. Times have changed and you’re right, things don’t feel accurate.

Make sure you read “The DeWussication of the American Man.”

Since men are so sexual in nature and always thinking about it, throughmuch of time because women were repressed from sexual independenceor freedom; there was a sect of society that has been apparent for centuries“prostitutes”.

Prostitution was a way for men (and those women) to bask in somethingthat was the opposite of sexual repression. It fullled a strong desirethroughout time, but le� these women separated from mainstream society.

That is all that I will say about this issue here other than that the sex tradecontinues. Now, women have their own independence, lifestyles, and canseek out sexual relations of their own if when they want (and they usuallydon’t want it from every single wussy that is at her feet), they want a realman.

Who to blame for our transition from biological, religious, or historicaltradition to where we are today? Make sure to read the rest of the chapters.


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Feminism: Double Edged SwordPedestal: Deance of Universal & Historical Proof

‘Feminism’. What does it mean?

Basically women have the same rights, power and opportunity to developthemselves as men have. Interesting when you consider it’s only happenedin the last century a�er thousands of years of human existence where thingsDID work.

I’m not saying whether it’s right or wrong. I do think it’s great for women tohave that opportunity in the U.S. (which we now take for granted).

The fact is: it’s a blessing and a curse. Most people are not aware of thecurse that it has brought. I’m aware of it and I have real relationships withstrong women but I just cannot accept their level of drama to interfere withme really being me, a man on my path. I don’t want to get divorced 6 timesI’ve been married to an equally or near strong and independent person.

I am naturally a racted to strong, intelligent women who are like me (see‘When Stars Collide’). This may be an interesting look at things for you.

But I want to give you all of the universal knowledge that I know right nowso you have the power of understanding and choice.

Her power is not biologically founded and has thrown the natural balanceoff in recourse. When it comes to the initial meeting, women are missingmen that are being a real man. I’m not saying that a man should ever con-trol a woman but just naturally she would know her role of nurturing (andcooking and cleaning if there’s no maid).

Now there’s many that will say a woman should be barefoot and pregnantover the kitchen sink. You see up until now, the American male has beenconfused. He’s thinking that this level right therr is a li le too extreme(unless he’s one of the hardcore traditionalists);


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Well the news is...you’re not going to tame a real shrew. So really, if you’restill single I suggest you look elsewhere for a long term (hey I am) and justhave FUN FUN FUN until then.

The level of understanding and clarity I will give you will help you realize

that you have the strongest power ever. You will nd the answers to whywomen don’t make any sense and why you are confused with what’s goingon between men and women today.

Why do you keep trying and beautiful women keep turning you away?

Well there’s a psychology and something even more powerful than that behind it. You can learn ALL the techniques in the world but if you don’t

understand the dynamics of what is REALLY going on in the big BIGpicture you’re not going to have NEAR the success you could otherwise.

I’ve struggled with this for years and maybe you have also.

I’ve noticed recently also that people are talking less and less to beautifulwomen and those that do are ge ing shot down. This means to me thatwomen are ge ing more and more hardcore independent in their denition

of who they are.

Of course there are benets to feminism which we’ll talk about in other ar-eas as well but it has changed our relationship dynamics drastically.

This newfound power and freedom that women have too developed andlive life in their own way, is really just covering up their natural and basicinstincts. This is what is throwing you off and confusing you when it comes

to relating with women.

You see it’s all perception. And when you can ‘get’ the perception of theREAL reality; you will see the Matrix and it will empower you like nothingelse because it describes the foundation and pa ern of human behavior inwomen and why men aren’t successful with them anymore.

You’re not going to nd it in relationship counselors. What a eld to be in


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eh? A strong percentage of them have divorced as well. They grew up inthis society and they can’t see beyond these walls or the big picture of what’sgoing on.

Is the relationship really going to be resolved, when they are trying to re-press the woman more? No. The man is being oppressed by her inevitablepower, there will always be bickering if they are around each other all thetime unless they have really clearly dened duties or roles.

Bluntly put: The power our society has given to women by empoweringthem has led to the degradation (or ‘role reversal’) of Biblical and traditionalfoundations built around the natural role of family with the man as thehead of the household.

Families are broken. And is it because the man isn’t providing? No, he isalmost always doing his role. It’s usually because the woman is more inde-pendent than her counterpart in other countries or her great grandmotherwas leading to a basic daily power struggle. THAT IS WHY.

There’s nothing wrong with what has led to female empowerment exceptthat it is the main reason why families fall apart and no one can see this. Aman is still being himself and actually being weaker because of her strength,THIS IS NOT THE PROBLEM. It’s the 50/50 nature which is a misbalance of biological inheritance itself that is the consequential strife.

People say it’s money why people divorce. No. Money’s neutral. Money’s atool, a thought. Most people make enough money to cover their family andsurviving, hello. It’s arguing over money.

Let’s see here...independent woman who loves to shop and naturally makedecisions on her own, and isn’t as ‘content’ as her counterpart great grand-mother versus the husband who in most cases is trying to keep it together.

THE REASON FOR DIVORCE ISN’T MONEY. Like I said there’s some-thing invisible going on that no one can see until now. It’s ‘crept’ into ourentire society and way of living.


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Not only that, we’ve gloried this empowerment and most of the men aren’tdoing anything about it except being oppressed because they aren’t beingtheir natural self because the woman isn’t being her natural biological self.

Of course it’s expected an American woman will have her way because sheknows how to ‘take care of herself’. Then comes the power struggle in arelationship because the man knows how to do that naturally so they bicker.And the drama ensues and households are broken.

Let me say again; I love independent women because they are strong likea real man (mentally) except still feminine in their ways. I can ‘talk’ withthem. They have interesting things to say.

We’re on the same level in many ways. Would I marry one? Not unless Iwant to bring SUPER drama into my life. I’m talking unnecessary dramathat would happen over the smallest stupid things that a traditional wifewould handle. I am an alpha male provider and I don’t do certain thingsperiod.

Someone like me should really marry someone who is my opposite and Idon’t mean opposite as equal. I mean polar opposite.

So this means that if you are a strong man with a strong purpose and do notwant unnecessary drama in your life, pick a life partner when you are readythat just isn’t going to bring that up in the rst place (a more traditional, ac-cepting wife).

So if you’re a strong male personality for the LONG TERM it might beeasier on you to get a wifey that will not give you additional drama aboutthe roles YOU expect her to have and do.

A man’s inheritance IS to lead a family and provide for them. Our nation ofwives don’t understand the oppression that the man is going through withall he has to put up with that he just doesn’t feel he deserves.

Do we as guys NAG and COMPLAIN to women about work and our jobsor whatever? For the most part NO. We are doing our biological role. Then


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why in America if men are being men and ‘providing’ without complain-ing are so many of our women just nagging and complaining about everyli le thing? She has born into a society of female empowerment (once againwhich has great pro’s and great con’s).

It IS a cultural thing and I will be talking about this subject a lot in order foryou to fully understand the macro dynamics of our society versus the para-digm of what women really want anyways.

Her independence is so permeated into our way of living that we don’t evensee it anymore. But it just hurts marriages. A woman in America today..it’s just naturally going to be harder for Her to go back to a traditional role because she wasn’t brought up in it.

So much of American marriages really are a power struggle which is takingplace on the instinctual, biological level of deance.

We can start a movement here. We really could. We can bring back powerto the American man. Then what would American women do? It’s not go-ing to make marriages any be er because we have an inherent daily issuehere.

But as a single man, you can take the power back through living in yourreality and living out your destiny without being thrown off by too muchdrama and be responsible for the decisions you make which will affect yourfuture.

I didn’t realize how much power women have (in America)...it’s more thanyou think. Are you aware of this now? Of course it didn’t make sense to me

because it didn’t seem natural but it really is true and most women knowthis. They know that they can get things from men when they want by us-ing their feminine power and beauty.

Marriages that work traditionally you could say we were a 90% to 10% bal-ance, but actually they were 50% with the dynamics as the wife being thenurturing mother and knowing her traditional role, and the man as thehead of the household.


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Popular culture has continued to pervade this reality of female empower-ment to the point that it is now so pervasive, it is in a escapable. From Ma-donna’s “Material Girl” to Destiny’s Child “Independent Women”.

As a man who is wanting to be successful with women in dating or howeveryou dene that, you should really understand everything that I’m coveringin this e-book and apply it to your life how you see t.

The feminist and feminazi’s can be all hardcore but it’s really just the Ameri-can family, marriages and the kids that are suffering because of it. Ameri-can men are confused and know that something doesn’t seem right eventhough they’re doing their part naturally.

If you’re an American man that hasn’t gone out of the country to try yourhand with women elsewhere, try it! BELIEVE ME...you DON’T know whatyou’re missing. You’ll be surprised at how easy it is just to be normal andwomen will actually respond.

You will be in touch with your biological and natural self that you really didhave all along. There only has to be a shi� in your paradigm when it comes

to dealing with beautiful women because you understand this.

The dynamics have shi�ed and vastly changed in America. Women do havea lot of power. And how dare feminazi’s say that traditional women arewhatever they are saying about them (hey, I said the stereotypicaltraditional blonde was boring to me).

Aren’t I just stirring a hornet’s nest!? But now I realize that all traditionalwomen who their main goal is to be a mother, I just really respect that evenif we don’t share other interests.

I know of a lot of families where the woman in the house DOES have thepower. Really..she’s become the head and controls the money and decisions.Is it right or wrong? You can decide where you stand for yourself. Eachfamily for themselves.


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And as long as there is a balance between the two to make decisions andwork things out a marriage between two independent people could workout.

Now if you’re an American man and married to an independent strong

minded woman am I suggesting that you all of a sudden start telling herwhat to do and expecting more out of her? No.

There is a balance of responsibility. I really DO think that if you can’t hire amaid, that the woman should do the cleaning and cooking and be a house-wife in a marriage.

Does that account for all of these independent women? No. Mostly they’re

not going to in their words ‘stoop down’ to that ‘level’. If it’s not naturallyin them to do those tasks without complaint or nagging then they’re just go-ing to resent.

So many women now are like, “Don’t cross my line buddy.”

Am I saying that women are supposed to be weak? No. Just naturally as inmost cultures around the world, they know what their role is to nurture the

kids and stay home to take care of the house and to be her biological role of being a mother, so the man can focus on what he needs to do and they willlive a much more happy family life.

I would encourage you to develop an opinion on this (feminism in modernsociety) and take your power back when it comes to dating and living yourlife; it’s up to you.

If you don’t stand for something you could fall for anything. But relatingto women, you have to be able to see that what has been developed is justa shroud over their real biological self which wants a real man more thanever.

Am I proposing a nation of Stepford Wives like a hardcore traditionalistwould?


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There’s so much I can say about that. I strongly recommend you either readthe book or watch the movie. There is a lot going on here.

Ma hew Broderick plays the ‘nice guy’ husband to a strong independentwife ‘Nicole Kidman’. Without saying, she’s wearing the pants in the fam-

ily and the power is swayed her way.

They move to Stepford Connecticut and without giving away all of the de-tails, the main thing going on is this; everything seems perfect. Too perfect.

All of the wives are happy, good looking, respectful of their husbands, sup-portive, stay home to cook and clean, etc. All of the husbands meet at thecountry club.

Eventually we nd out that all of the husbands were ‘nice guys’ and they’rewomen were really strong minded. All of the men were just trying to betheir biological selves and take their power back, which was RIGHTFULLYtheirs in the rst place (evolutionarily speaking ;).

I understand that you shouldn’t in reality change a woman who is reallystrong back down to the more ‘basics’. You just might have to start off with

a woman who never gets all of these ideas of domination in the rst (from just growing up) and then she can grow from there if you want while stillremaining a mother.

But that movie makes it appear comically like the idea of a traditional wifewas just plain wrong when it isn’t and never was with the extreme contrast

between modern ‘accepted’ society and how it used to be 50 years ago.

Who is going to hold a be er house? A nagging, complaining woman (whocomplains about everyday drama) or a more traditional wifey who WANTSto play her traditional role because that’s who SHE is?

You know the answer to that. What we have is really a pandemic crisis inour country. Our 50/50 dating scene leads to the power struggle called amarriage, (which never used to by the way) be a ‘ball and chain.’


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The last of that generation is now disappearing in our honored seniorcitizens, and is there any hope for America a�er that to keep the familiestogether?

My last grandmother is still alive and she talks to my grandfather (who has

passed away). Of course there always smaller issues that were worked out, but how can they stay together beyond death (even when she was the moredominant personality) for over 56 years together when we now have a 50%divorce rate and even some women who will try to take everything a manhas in the divorce?

America is outspoken. And I’ll speak for the probably 1.5 billion house-wives around the world to say that you should be proud of what you are

doing in your of being a mother; it is your biological privilege, right andduty.

It takes a lot to dedicate yourself to raising a family and keeping house. Itis a NOBLE thing and don’t let any American outspoken feminazi tell youotherwise.

Am I also proposing like The Rock says (I almost met him and Seann Wil-

liam Sco once b/c I was in the same VIP lounge as they were), “Know yourrole!”? Well...actually, yeah but it’s trickier than that.

Unfortunately you’re not going to be able to take a developed woman (mindyou, who has very many positive a ributes; double-edged sword) and takeher back down to the basics as happened in Stepford Wives.

So as a single man, these are some heavy issues here but have EVERY-

THING to do with how you deal with women and how you are going tolive in your own reality.

All of these issues must be brought to the table here (such as feminism) inorder to have a full understanding, wisdom and power of biological favoron your side if you really want to be successful with women.

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to be successful with women; and this is not just about pickup lines or tech-niques, this is groundbreaking stuff that is 1000 times stronger.

So feminism does exist, how you view it and relate to it into living your lifeis up to you. There are many advantages as well because you can have re-lationships with women just as friends who are just as intelligent as you aninteresting.

There is no doubt that feminism has brought about a tremendous level ofvalue to all of our lives, from women that were strong and added value tosociety or entertainment.


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What the Traditionalists are Missing

I understand that the traditionalists are biologically correct in where theystand as far as what makes a relationship work and how it should be.

What they are missing is that American women really do have their ownindependence and have these rights, so it is hard to just go ahead and take itaway from them at this point.

Developed, mature, intelligent, smart women have added a lot of value tosociety. Hard-core traditionalists just do not think that any women shouldgo beyond the power of motherhood alone.

There are now independent “Americanized” women not just in the U.S. butin large metro areas around the world. Just name the biggest cities in eachcountry and you have an idea.

Generally there will be more of these strong independent women who aresurviving in the workforce and making it go on their own because all theyhave are themselves. That’s awesome and there’s nothing wrong with that.

This is where I differ from the hardcore traditionalist who just think thatno woman should have power beyond motherhood. Well they don’t knowwhat it’s like when you have to survive.

Especially when you’re talking about single mothers. That’s really a lot ofpressure in America. A single mother who the baby’s dad le� her. And shehas to work AND raise a kid? I have a ton of respect for that.

My half sister is in that situation. Now she did make a decision which end-ed up to be like that but she is making it work. That takes a lot of guts to dothat and she does want to nd a husband who can take care of themeventually but she’s pursuing college education and a career of her own as backup.

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just aren’t as accountable, responsible and willing to commit as they usedto be perhaps. Maybe part of that is because they’re afraid of the women? Idon’t know.

Personally I’m a li le scared of commitment and I think a lot of guys are,

especially when it comes down to ge ing in a ‘ball and chain” position orpower struggle with this type of women.

Actually marriage looks like a decent thing with a very traditional life, with-out all of the making or drama that an independent woman brings to thetable (despite her many positive a ributes) from our cultural experience.

In terms of single motherhood and a man’s responsibility, ge ing a girl

pregnant..that’s a whole different ball of wax. However now I know thatcommi ing to marriage itself won’t be that bad because I have gured outthe formula that works and I think you can see it too.

My weakness is that I always have a roving eye for women and I’m afraidthat won’t change when I get married (but hope it will).

But if you just want to have FUN, independent women who are beautiful

and desired are a great answer. And there are millions of them in the U.S.alone. Don’t ever get hung up on just one woman.

Don’t get yourself trapped into that scarcity mentality way of thinking. Youcan avoid the 50/50 scenario which entails compromising in a relationshipif you are strong, or traditional dating (less sex oriented upfront anyways),and go for the AMP (Accelerated Mating Process) if you want.

AMP avoids all this drama and heavyweighted discussion and gives awoman biologically what she wants (and with contraception prevents theconsequence of becoming a mother just yet until she is ready); to experiencethe natural process of the mating game and sexual a raction and to expressher own femininity and sexual fulllment.

It is biological. So if you can keep the relationship on these terms alone youcan avoid all of the other drama or issues.


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There is a world of abundance. Even if she does turn you down there are somany more that you KNOW want to get with you.

Don’t put too much weight on one outcome. I f you’re going to play the

game, play the game and have fun. They’re out to have fun. The indepen-dent women want someone they can have fun and be themselves with, nothaving someone who keeps calling them 12 times a day.

Hey, I’m telling my Sikh girl-friend in Malaysia (divorced and 35) to go outand use men. Have fun with them. Use them instead of smoking so muchand you can get rid of your habit. She now calls them ‘patches’.

She is a ‘real friend’ to me. It’s a priceless relationship. Of course I have sev-eral independent women who are ‘just friends’. And that’s OK. Strong menwho really know who they are and where they’re going understand thatthis is natural and healthy in today’s societies.

I know again that more ‘traditional women’ are boring to me and I’ve never been excited or fascinated by them however they do know how to make afamily work and don’t bring all the additional drama to the table.

You want to balance your life out some more? First of all know who you are but then also develop relationships with the types of women you want to at-tract but actually be real friends with them with no other motive than to be‘just friends’.

You can also get used to be comfortable around these types of women asyou go through your shi�ing and aligning your congruency up to your new

reality.

This has it’s benets as well. Think about going out to clubs with them ascompared to with some dudes.

This is an opportunity guys to actually have real relationships with womenwho are at our levels and in some cases ahead of us.


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The traditionalists separate this. They think more on the lines of ‘guysshould ONLY have guy friends and girls should only hang out with girls’.That really is just a li le boring and unrealistic in our modern society today.

Despite all of the negative drawbacks I am supposedly covering, there re-

ally are many positive a ributes that we can experience by having both in-dependent men and independent women.

Today, you can mix it all up. I hope that this viewpoint of understanding both traditionalists and feminists sides of the table, will give you the univer-sal understanding which extends beyond all of them, connecting you direct-ly to your own biological power.

Girls have BECOME interesting as PEOPLE not just as more boring house-wives. In fact, these independent women are FASCINATING. And it’s ok tomake real friends with them. They can tell if you have an ulterior motive ornot.

Once you understand all of this, you NEVER have to let another womencontrol you (ahem, if you’re single) and you don’t have to give into ‘her’reality or her perception of reality based on the type of relationship you

choose with her.

Let her know that you’re not one of those guys (wussy). This is the singlemost powerful thing you can do. BE A MAN. That’s what they’re lookingfor to have fun (and sex) with.

Have the authority to BE yourself. They really don’t want the wussy manthey see on t.v. YOU have to be the answer to their strong womanhood by being a strong man who isn’t deterred by her social persona.

That’s who they’re a racted to. A man who takes care of himself and has astrong reality.

I’ve seen it rsthand, fat pudgy balding men are not only ge ing hot wom-en overseas but they’re taking some of the ho est women in the states aswell. If you’re not one of them are you going to let that happen?


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Here’s the thing..you don’t need to compete against anyone. Just be your-self. It’s a world of abundance. There’s women everywhere.

They are my equal and they should be yours as well. It’s up to you to de-cide. I KNOW that all these hot women are my equals, not above me. I am

the best of what they could want in a man and the most they could everhope for (as long as I don’t stray..).

When that becomes YOUR reality as well and you develop yourself to besomeone these women would want your experience of life becomes a lotricher.

Doesn’t mean who I do choose as my wife is going to be ‘boring’ though.

She will probably be quite traditional though so there won’t be additionaldrama. She would be more like my ‘babygirl’.

There are so many options available today that you should have the powerand choice to live the life that you want to, whether it be combining the 50-50 type of relationship or nding a woman who is more traditional, or moredramatic, it is all up to you for the long-term (and short-term).

If you expect the traditional or according type of relationship with a beauti-ful Americanized woman, you probably will not be around her long enough because she will get rid of you, because it is not what she is generally look-ing for unless you are very rich or handsome.

I can put up with and tame a woman’s drama short term and maybe you’vetried it but a�er a while (or long term) it gets quite exhausting. So under-stand where you are at when it comes to the traditionalist view.

You do not have to discount the fact that Americanized women are inde-pendent, however this actually gives you several advantages when it comesto dealing with them. Understand that there is value in feminism, despitewhat hard-core traditionalists may say.

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Sexual Revolution: A Flock of Seagulls?

When we had the sexual revolution in the 1960s, this actually ended up giv-ing women even more power because it was now OK to go ahead and ex-press ourselves sexually.

It actually became a part of mainstream culture with the social stamp of ap-proval. This did further change the dynamics of male and female relation-ships from the more traditional approach that existed before.

So is the current state of our country going to change? You can see thathard-core traditionalists will argue against what is happening in Americafrom an objective perspective, and you can also see the polarized liberalsand feminists say that this is a good thing.

Either way it really is the media that continues to promote and propagatethe sexual revolution today. Sexual freedom of expression has just become apart of who we are as a nation.

And because of the daily pervasiveness, continued promotion and integra-tion of feminine beauty in our culture and everyday wardrobe and lives,there is not going to be a change anytime soon that would be a backlashagainst what is going on.

Even the traditionalist women have too some degree than the affected bythe changes in our society.

Because women have found their own independence and because theyare not integrated into modern society with equal rights as men (generally

speaking), they will continue to ght for even more rights and will not giveup on their newfound independence.

This empowerment of the American woman also includes the ability to holdthe kind of relationships that she would like without having to be stuck intwo a traditional courting procedure from a man who might be interested inher.


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She has the right to live her life the way she wants to, and this includes hersexuality. Everything she sees in our media further inspires her to continuelooking beautiful and work on her image in order to uphold the standardwhich our society has expected of her.

And this is the, part of her daily life. She knows that she will look good ifshe wants to, and she hopes that this will a ract the type of man that she isinterested in.

Because her women really are empowered and living their own lives withthe ability to express their sexuality they are not going to give up this right,therefore the American men are going to have to deal with this in whateverway they can.

If you look at the byproduct of the sexual revolution, a woman can now dowhatever she pleases and this is only purported in the media le ing herknow that yes it is okay for her to have her own power over her life andsexuality.

Because she really has this now and she never did before in history she isnot going to give it up. If all the men in America stood up to this, it would

just be like taming the shrew in a sense perhaps, because we cannot turn her back to her original traditional self or that of her grandmother.

She is still going to have a lot of independents in her no ma er what you tryto do, and this is now become the fabric of who we are as a nation and it isnot going away anytime soon unless our entire nation goes back to beingvery traditional.

This means that the media would have to stop promoting sex itself. This isvery unlikely to happen because men are now so used to the edication andglamorization of the female body and her energy.

The way we are in America not you are not going to be able to take sexaway from him and the way it is shown to us, because there will always besomeone who will be there to prey on the weakness of man (for prots) toget more and more of this sexual energy which can in no way actually be


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channeled effectively into their own lives.

Woman’s place in American society today will probably only grow strongerand further away from its traditional roots, primarily once again due to thepropagation of the media and the rising rates of women in the workplaceand the realities of single motherhood.

It really is a balance of power now between men and women in America.Women know that they have power and men will acknowledge that they do but rarely stand up to her for being afraid of who knows..?

The way I really see it is, I really respect independent women because theyare more interesting and mature (basically more like me) than traditionalwomen (in America), I would just think twice about marrying one but oth-erwise they are a part of our interdependent reality.

You can choose the types of relationships you want. I like them for AMPand for ‘real’ (yes real) friendships (and I don’t mean the same girls neces-sarily).

Women today are empowered and they are still wondering where the realmen are?! (ahem, that’s you). You’re on the scene and on the prowl becausethe sexual revolution is now under the sheets. This is where it picks upfrom the blueballs promotion of sex in our social programming.

Women are very aware of their sexuality and are dressing very feminine.Because most of them (that are single) are looking for a real man, you canview it as they are dressing up (yes for social approval) but primarily toa ract a strong man like you.


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Pedestal: The Pervasive Illusion of ‘Forced Reality’& why she is the way she is

Throughout this there are going to be many mind stretches that are going to be so profound you may not feel the full impact of them right away.

In America especially we have idolized female beauty. We have put beautyon a pedestal with the beginning of media in the early 1900’s and it hasn’tstopped from there. In fact it’s just been in the past 30 years that it has reallytaken off.

Women have basically realized with the encouragement of popular culturethat with their beauty and bodies, they can have power over most men.

This is because of the development of feminism, the sexual revolution,popular culture, man’s interest to ‘see more’, economics, etc. and is now in-grained into our everyday lives through all forms of media.

Do they want power over men? What they do one is equality, unfortunatelymany men are not acting traditionally or naturally like men anymore.

Where did the women’s movement start? In America of course. I want toput in a li le disclaimer before I get down and dirty; (strong, independent)women have added unparalleled value to our society in nearly all elds ofendeavor.

Could you imagine if there were only male performers? Really, think aboutthat. In fact, the value that women (American women as our focus here andespecially) have added to people’s lives has been absolutely immeasurable.This goes back to the days of Be y Boop and Marilyn Monroe.

You see, there’s no denying the power of sexual energy and hope that a beautiful woman can bring to a man’s life even one that he can only dreamof if he isn’t in a relationship. we do idolize that beauty and hope.

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to carry on.

Being a veteran soldier myself I know the importance and power of thathope or desire has given me because sometimes it was the only thing thatgot me through the psychologically trying times.

We also just cannot deny that sexuality is part of who we are as human beings.

Men used to look to each other for intelligent (sometimes) conversation.Now there are women who are at and sometimes surpassed in our level ofintelligence and other a ributes.

So looking at it from the female perspective. She’s brought up the way sheis and the way our society has taught her to be; makeup, Barbie, nice boy‘Ken’, Mean Girls, fashion mags, etc..

Of course at that certain age, girls no longer have cooties and shortly a�erthat they start exercising their ‘right’ to get favors because they realize it is being offered to them for free from all of the a ention they are ge ing fromguys; this further shapes their perception of their reality.

She will instantly classify him into a category if he does any of the thingsthat she has seen men do before.

The forced reality in which our society lives in, gives women a lot of power because of their ability to express themselves and show off their physical beauty or assets. This really takes the focus and center away from most of aman’s life.

But if a man can really realize and understand that he does live in his realityand that he is interesting and has a life going on and is not going to give into a woman’s physical front, then women will gravitate towards him. Moreon this later.

Women in today’s American society have adapted themselves and taken ontraits which are more masculine in nature so now we nd ourselves as men


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competing with women in the workplace, and it is so apparent to me and Ihope to you that you can see the dynamics of what is going on.

As long as you are aware and really understand why women are the waythey are and how they got there, you will be a long way towards having

true success with women.

Understand that society has forced them into this starting with Barbie whenshe was a li le girl.

If you can remember back to kindergarten and rst grade in the play-ground, you will notice that as a boy you did traditional boy things andsometimes you may be playfully shoved girls, stuck your tongue out at

them, and reluctantly he cited to let them play in your game of wall ball.

In fact it was not really until around seventh grade or so, that you as ayoung boy started to take an interest in though women that were in yourclassroom.

The downfall of the modern man began when women discovered makeupand that she could a ract a ention from men. I remember this quite well,

it was the rst day of eighth grade and I noticed that all of sudden the girlsthat I knew were a lot be er looking and pre ier and I started to take moreof an interest.

Can you remember when this happened to you as well? Can you alsoremember that you were a natural boy before that and that women did notinterest you and you treated them naturally? All of a sudden the table start-ed to turn.

Remember that throughout much of the world today women do not havethe same rights as in America to express themselves with makeup and sexyclothes.

In fact many schools use uniforms for this particular reason; so that men are boys do not take an interest in women and shi� the traditional balance ofpower. Empires have fallen over the beauty of a woman.


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So remember that there was a point in your life when you knew there was apower shi� basically and ever since then that power has only grown stron-ger and stronger. Throughout all of time the opposite sex has been inter-ested in the other.

The traditional opportunity to date between man and women has almost become polarized in that there is all this sexual tension in energy going on between both sexes, yet the people that deserve to match up are not beenmatched up, so this creates a lot of frustration on both the beautied femaleand the frustrated and life directed man.

Women from when they were the age of 13 on up especially, realize that ifthey t the excepted social standards, they had power over most men. Let

me remind you that in most countries around the world this is not true.

In the words of a feminist from our country, she would say that those wom-en are being repressed. Well what she does not realize is that those womenare being traditional.

And traditional is the biological and natural selection process of mating andperpetuation of society in which a man and a woman stayed together usu-ally for their entire lives.

So women and men alike do not really fully realize the global implicationsor dynamics of what is going on because we are so inundated by our mul-timedia social society that perpetuates feminine beauty, continues the blue ball nature of selling sex or almost selling sex itself without fully giving menwhat they want which in turn makes them more frustrated.

And this also makes them week when it comes to dealing with women be-cause they are seeing the same beauty that they see gloried and that asideuniversally on TV, in print, in photos and in movies and music.

A woman’s show of beauty and her newfound independence is a blessingand her curse. It is preventing her from having a real relationships with realmen who are her counterparts. She has so much independence because itis just a part of who she is now (without her knowing that it is only because


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of her societal upbringing) that she can o�en not help arguing, bickering,testing, controlling men in her interpersonal relationships, especially whenthe men don’t stand up to anything she has to offer because they are intimi-dated or just feel repressed and do not know how to handle it (because it isNOT natural).

Naturals are successful with women because they are only doing what is biologically their birthright without le ing any of the forced reality interferewith them connecting with who she really is.

And I am sure that most naturals who are successful with women, wouldnot even be able to explain it like this or even understand all of the globalimplications that you do now. This means that you have at least as muchpower as them as long as you internalize everything and live in your ownreality.

It is important for you to be aware of this perceptional dynamic in our mod-ern culture and dating society, because you will soon nd out more aboutwhat it means.

If you’ve seen the movie ‘Boat Trip’ (it’s not that great but, Roselyn Sanchezis in it), these two guys end up on a gay cruise. Cuba Gooding, Jr. is actinglike your normal pussytranced guy around Roselyn and he pretends to begay just so he can spend time with her.

My favorite part of the movie is when they’re dancing together, anyways.She complains how all of her boyfriends were ‘jerks’ (but obviously she wasa racted to them). Cuba’s acting like a ‘nice guy’ but is really just giving hispower over to her through his ‘gay’ facade to get near her in the rst place.

In the end of the movie when he parachutes back onto the cruise ship, youknow it’s not going to work out because heis still a wussyboy as you can ob-viously tell that even though she kisses him, he has gone under her controland agrees not to screw up. This is all part of pu ing women on a pedestal.

This means that you’re going to have to treat Roselyn different than otherguys do when you meet her; look past the ‘forced reality’ which gives herthe power if you really want to have a chance with her..


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Global Reality Check &Cultural Differentiation

Let me ask you another question which should open your mind: Are all theho est in the world actually bitchy like many American women are per-ceived? The answer is no.

In most cases they haven’t developed a social persona like this, however thistrend is spreading globally in larger cities around the world. However tra-dition still rules.

You really have to take yourself outside of our society (which in itself issometimes hard to do because we are so caught up in our a ention decitmedia co-dependency), just in order to see a larger perspective and to get aglobal reality check.

When you can compare our mainstream dating society to other cultures andrelationship paradigms around the world you could consider this as cultur-al differentiation. It could even be called ‘Macro Sociology’.

You can nd a woman who is just as beautiful in a different way or look inanother country who hasn’t been brainwashed like this and doesn’t live in avirtual bubble of untouchableness.

You can even nd CELEBRITIES from other cultures that haven’t been‘brainwashed’ with a bulletproof social persona like this. You want to knowwho keeps it REAL?

Find yourself a Thai singer or actress and she’ll still want to raise a family atsome point without all kinds of additional drama, because she is foundedon something more biologically sound than a culturally produced socialpersona that denes who she is.

Looking at it from a global perspective you could say a woman is “Ameri-canized”.

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by the fact that they are normal and don’t live in a fake cosmetic centered‘glamour’ reality. Now they may look good of course using those accesso-ries but they are so much more real than the fakeness or front that Americanwomen put on.

Furthermore though, America’s beautiful women are not that bitchy forthe most part once you get past their barriers of illusional ‘defense’. TheyHAVE to have this barrier to protect them from the everyday wussbags thatcome up to them.

Why? Because they just CAN’T take every opportunity with every singleguy. Bitchiness becomes a time management tool for them so they don’thave to feel they owe something back for every leech that pays her a compli-

ment.Unfortunately because of these unhealthy characteristics with our type ofindependent, beautiful women you’re going to be in for A LOT of dramawhatever you do especially if you keep one for long term.

In America there is so much focus on beauty. Oh you might see some ‘realpeople’ advertising campaign come along but it always turns back to the

sexy people.Hey, I’m a proponent of this as a graphic designer and photographer myself.Like I said, I don’t plan on marrying one though. My tolerance for dramais about 0 meters at certain times; otherwise I’ll invite it in for a short whileas long as I have the upper hand just to go along for the ride in a very shortrelationship.

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