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Roman Catholic Church of St. Mark 105 Randall Road • Shoreham, NY 11786 • 744-2800 • Fax 821-1628 • [email protected] stmarksrcc-shoreham.org WE ARE GLAD TO HAVE YOU WORSHIP GOD WITH US! PLEASE FEEL AT HOME. IF YOU ARE NEW TO OUR AREA, PLEASE REGISTER AFTER MASS WITH AN USHER OR COME TO THE RECTORY DURING THE WEEK. WELCOME TO ST. MARK’S PARISH. THE PASTORAL STAFF REV. MSGR. JEFFREY MADLEY, Pastor REV. THOMAS TUITE, Associate Pastor Permanent Deacons 744-2800 Rev. Mr. Patrick Gerace Rev. Mr. Gino Aceto, [email protected] Office Manager: 744-2800 Mrs. Susan Schena Parish Outreach: 744-2800 Mrs. Jane Fagan, Coordinator, [email protected] Religious Formation: 821-0550 Mrs. Lynn Fein, Director, [email protected] Music Director: 821-8497 Mrs. Carrie Logan, [email protected] Social Committee: 744-2800 Betty Pizza Youth Ministry for 7th-12th graders: 631-821-0550 Mrs. Lynn Fein, [email protected] Mr. John McNamara, [email protected] ACTS 744-2800 Mrs. Jane Fagan MASSES: SATURDAY EVENING: 5:00 P.M. SUNDAYS: 8:00, 9:30, 11:30 A.M. WEEKDAYS: Monday-Friday 9:00 A.M. HOLY DAYS: Vigil 7:30 P.M. (Day) 8:45, 10:00 A.M. RECTORY OFFICE HOURS: Monday thru Friday: 9:30A.M. - 5:00 P.M. Closed for lunch from 12:00 Noon till 1:00 P.M. Saturday: by appointment only Sunday: closed Emergency - Anytime 744-2800 SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION: Confessions celebrated Saturday from 4:00-4:45 P.M., or you may schedule another time with a priest at the rectory. MARRIAGE: Please call the rectory at least 7 months prior to your wedding, and before a date is finalized with the reception hall. WEDDING TIMES: Saturday: 1:30 and 3:00 Sunday: 2:00 and 3:00 (Ceremonies only) PRO-LIFE COORDINATOR: John McNamara - 744-2800 BAPTISMS: The parish community celebrates this sacrament at 1:00 P.M. on the third Saturday of each month. Please contact the rectory before your child is born to make arrangements for the Pre-Baptism program. ANOINTING OF THE SICK: Periodically we have a parish celebration. However if you or someone in your family is seriously ill or going to the hospital for a serious operation, then call the rectory. Anyone going to a hospital or who may be sick at home should inform the rectory so the parish can pray for you. R.C.I.A.: Adults seeking to become Catholic; or adults wishing to receive First Communion or Confirmation please call Mr. John McNamara at 744-9525. A.A.: Meetings held every Sunday Evening at 7:00 P.M. in the Parish Center. PRAY WITH THE PARISH: Rosary daily before the 9:00 A.M. Mass Eucharistic Devotion & Benediction - First Friday 1:00 P.M. to 4 P.M. Miraculous Medal - Mondays after 9:00 A.M. Mass Fatima Devotions - First Saturday after 9:00 A.M. Mass

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Roman Catholic Church of St. Mark105 Randall Road • Shoreham, NY 11786 • 744-2800 • Fax 821-1628 • [email protected]

stmarksrcc-shoreham.org

WE ARE GLAD TO HAVE YOU WORSHIP GOD WITH US! PLEASE FEEL AT HOME.IF YOU ARE NEW TO OUR AREA, PLEASE REGISTER AFTER MASS WITH AN USHER

OR COME TO THE RECTORY DURING THE WEEK. WELCOME TO ST. MARK’S PARISH.

THE PASTORAL STAFFREV. MSGR. JEFFREYMADLEY, PastorREV. THOMAS TUITE, Associate Pastor

Permanent Deacons 744-2800Rev. Mr. Patrick GeraceRev. Mr. Gino Aceto, [email protected]

Office Manager: 744-2800Mrs. Susan Schena

Parish Outreach: 744-2800Mrs. Jane Fagan, Coordinator,[email protected]

Religious Formation: 821-0550Mrs. Lynn Fein, Director, [email protected]

Music Director: 821-8497Mrs. Carrie Logan, [email protected]

Social Committee: 744-2800Betty Pizza

Youth Ministry for 7th-12th graders: 631-821-0550Mrs. Lynn Fein, [email protected]. John McNamara, [email protected]

ACTS 744-2800Mrs. Jane Fagan

MASSES:SATURDAY EVENING: 5:00 P.M.SUNDAYS: 8:00, 9:30, 11:30 A.M.WEEKDAYS: Monday-Friday 9:00 A.M.HOLY DAYS: Vigil 7:30 P.M. (Day) 8:45, 10:00 A.M.

RECTORY OFFICE HOURS:Monday thru Friday: 9:30A.M. - 5:00 P.M.Closed for lunch from 12:00 Noon till 1:00 P.M.Saturday: by appointment onlySunday: closedEmergency - Anytime 744-2800

SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION:Confessions celebrated Saturday from 4:00-4:45 P.M., oryou may schedule another time with a priest at the rectory.

MARRIAGE: Please call the rectory at least 7 months priorto your wedding, and before a date is finalized with thereception hall.

WEDDING TIMES:Saturday: 1:30 and 3:00Sunday: 2:00 and 3:00 (Ceremonies only)

PRO-LIFE COORDINATOR:John McNamara - 744-2800

BAPTISMS: The parish community celebrates thissacrament at 1:00 P.M. on the third Saturday of each month.Please contact the rectory before your child is born to makearrangements for the Pre-Baptism program.

ANOINTING OF THE SICK: Periodically we have aparish celebration. However if you or someone in yourfamily is seriously ill or going to the hospital for a seriousoperation, then call the rectory. Anyone going to a hospitalor who may be sick at home should inform the rectory sothe parish can pray for you.

R.C.I.A.: Adults seeking to become Catholic; or adultswishing to receive First Communion or Confirmationplease call Mr. John McNamara at 744-9525.

A.A.:Meetings held every Sunday Evening at 7:00 P.M. inthe Parish Center.PRAYWITH THE PARISH:Rosary daily before the 9:00 A.M. MassEucharistic Devotion & Benediction - First Friday1:00 P.M. to 4 P.M.Miraculous Medal - Mondays after 9:00 A.M. MassFatima Devotions - First Saturday after 9:00 A.M. Mass

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February 18, 2018 The Roman Catholic Church of Saint Mark Page 2

FROM THE PASTOR’S DESK

The Lenten regulations this year are the

same for every year. Fasting (no eating in

between meals) on Ash Wednesday and Good

Friday for anyone 14-59 years of age. No

meat on Good Friday, the Fridays of Lent

and Ash Wednesday.

Enjoy your President’s holiday weekend.

LED lights are being put in the back of the

Parish Center parking lot.

Fr. Jeff

MASSES FOR THE WEEK

Monday, February 19, 2018

9:00 AM Robert Grancio - wife, Rita

Tuesday, February 20, 2018

9:00 AM Sofoklis Boukas - Michael LaFata

Wednesday, February 21, 2018

9:00 AM Marguerite Danielsen - Jane & Dennis Fagan Thursday, February 22, 2018

9:00 AM Lori & Terry Lynch - Ruth Lynch Return to Good Health, Carl Longpre - Michael LaFata

Friday, February 23, 2018

9:00 AM Rose LaRosa - Gerrie & Alex Saturday, February 24, 2018

5:00 PM Sr. Joan Quinlan, OP - Sue & Marty Schena & Family Sunday, February 25, 2018

8:00 AM Vincent Sottile - Rose, Cindy & Theresa

9:30 AM For the People of the Parish

11:30 AM Sara Kaney - Irene McCarthy

St. Mark’s is accepting weekly donations for our altar breads and/or sacramental wine used at all Masses during the week. These donations may be memorialized in whatever manner you may wish.

Altar Flowers You have the opportunity each week to donate the altar flowers in memory of a loved one or for a special intention. Please call the rectory office for details.

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Preview of next Sunday’s Readings

Reading I: Genesis 22:1-2, 9a, 10-13, 15-18 (26B)

Psalm: Psalm 116:10, 15, 16-17, 18-19

Reading II: Romans 8:31b-34

Gospel: Mark 9:2-10

PRAY FOR THE SICK

AND THEIR CAREGIVERS

Susan McFee, Edward Heinssen, Frank

Mordola, Gloria Mazza, Susan Quinn,

Melanie Quintos, Santa Inguanta, Steve

McCune, Keri Lynn Stromski, Ruth

Bradley, Joan Mueller, Ryan Brady,

Roberta Gerish, Rosemary Fleming,

Bernadette Salvador, John Schlauraff, Judi

Lynch, Christine Lopiccolo, Frank Henn,

Dana Jendrzejewski, Walter Simonsen, William

Watson, Jennifer Tomforde, James K. Glennon, Olga

Camero, Joseph Olivo, Kristie Cleary, Ralph Lopez,

Louise Knepple, Frances Roman, Samantha King,

Melissa Black, Pasquale Cervini, Frank Lumia, Dana

Hertzovitz, Kathleen Hynes, Luz Cadena, Diane

Guarnieri, Fran Alvino, Joseph Minerva, Donna

Byrnes, Jeanne Hughes, Donna Mirasola, Rene

Macadaeg, Helen Klopfer, Blanche Simonsen, Joe

Durran, Suzanne Hallock, Carol Rougas, Doreen

Farell, Roger Casey, Mary Sherlock, Sabrina Iori,

Joseph Inguanta, Patrice Brennen, Delores Cogin,

Peggy Molinaro, Caleb Couto, May Ward, Oliver

Camero, Frank Florio.

If you know of any of the above names that should be

removed from the list due to a return to good health,

please inform the rectory office at 744-2800.

Names will be removed on the first of each month,

unless we are notified. Kindly call the rectory with any

updates. Thank you.

February 18, 2018 The Roman Catholic Church of Saint Mark Page 3

FINANCIAL CORNER

By: Susan Schena

SUNDAY COLLECTION OF:

February 10th - February 11th, 2018

$8,111.00

Average Weekly Expenses:

$15,336.35

50/50 CLUB WINNERS

* Weekend of Feb. 10th & 11th, 2018*

1st Prize 280272 $12.25

2nd Prize 280261 $ 7.35

3rd Prize 280281 $ 4.90

When you next update your estate

plan, would you please consider

continuing your lifelong support

of your parish by remembering

St. Mark’s with a bequest?

Altar Servers

We welcome any children in the third grade or older who've received their First Holy Communion to join St. Mark's Altar Servers. It's a special way to serve God, be part of our par-ish community, and fulfill church volunteer requirements for Confirmation.

For more information, contact Carla Silva or Marianne Minarik. E-mail: [email protected]

The Church in Need

This weekend a collection will be taken for “The Church in Need.” The monies collected at this time will be shared among three areas of the world where there is particular need for help:

Church in Central and Eastern Europe - the Collection provides support for basic pastoral programs and makes scholarships available for students studying to serve their local church. These students become vital partici-pants in the renewal of the Church in the region.

The Church in Latin America faces many difficult chal-lenges. Natural disasters in many areas caused lasting damage to the Church, while a significant loss of parish-ioners to migration and to other faiths, the inability to support itself financially, and a lack of priests and reli-gious to help effectively minister to the large number of Catholics continue to trouble the region.

The Church in Africa – the funds will go to assisting African countries where poverty, sickness and political strife prevent people from living in dignity.

Thank you for your generosity.

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Thought for the Week

As we begin the Lenten journey, we all want to come closer to Jesus. None of us are perfect, but we know that

there is a yearning for God in each of our lives. Let’s make it part of our Lenten journey to pray for all those who don’t

believe, for whatever the reason. We do this, not in a judgmental way, but in a loving way, because we want them to

know the loving God we know.

Some people are angry because they think that Jesus wasn’t there for them at some time in their lives.

Some are complacent—they are comfortable in their lives. Everything is ok.

Some offer “logical/scientific” arguments about the existence of God.

Whatever the reason is for not believing, let’s pray that all will come to believe!

The Eucharist

“(Saint) Pope John Paul II says that God is a Father who is ‘always waiting for us to have recourse to Him in

every need.’ Not just big needs, but every need, from gaping wounds to the little scratches that just need a band aid, or a

loving parent to kiss a boo-boo.” (21 Ways to Worship, by Vinny Flynn)

We can come to Jesus at any time—in Eucharistic Adoration, as we receive Him at Communion time, or in our

private “chats” with Him. We should never underestimate the power of His desire to be an intimate part of our lives.

Respect Life

Jesus said, “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them,

for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.” (Matthew 19:14)

Let’s pray that all little ones in the womb be given the chance to come to know Jesus.

Words from Pope Francis

“...the Church ...offers us in the Lenten season the soothing remedy of prayer, almsgiving, and fasting.

...By devoting more time to prayer, we enable our hearts to root out our secret lies and forms of self-deception,

and then to find the consolation God offers.

...Almsgiving sets us free from greed, and helps us to regard our neighbor as a brother or sister.

...Fasting allows us to experience what the destitute and the starving have to endure.

(Message of the Holy Father Francis for Lent 2018)

A Scripture to Ponder

“It is the LORD who marches before you;

he will be with you and will never forsake you.

So do not fear or be dismayed.”

( Deuteronomy: 31:8)

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(Continued from Page 4)

Just a Thought…

A Little Humor…..

ACTS

Adults Coming Together to Share

Jesus gave us two commandments: Love Him, and love each other. The only way we can learn to love each

other is to get to know each other. The only way we can do this is to spend time with each other. We do this when we

come together in small faith-sharing groups. This is what our ACTS groups are all about. If you would like to partici-

pate in this aspect of our parish life, please call the rectory and leave your name and phone number

Haiti Donations

There is a constant need for shoes for our brothers and sisters in Haiti. If you have any shoes that you would like to

donate, there is a box in the kitchen. Our parishioner who goes there several times a year to help out says that their

biggest request is for shoes. Thank you for your faithful contributions to this ministry of love.

There is a box in the kitchen for any of your loving donations.

Blessings on each of your cute little hearts!!

Faithfulness

( the seventh fruit of the Spirit)

“to be trusted; reliable; to be counted on at all times”

Jesus conveys His faithfulness in these words:

“ And behold, I am with you always, until the end of the age.”

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FAITH FORMATION 631 821-0550

[email protected]

Lynn Fein, Director

Our weekday classes are not in session this up-

coming week due to the schools’ winter break. We

resume classes on Monday, February 26. Of

course, our Liturgy of the Word for children(open

to Pre-K through sixth graders). along with the

instruction especially for our Level 1 children is

held each week throughout the year at our 9:30

Mass. I am grateful to the teens who assist me on

a regular basis and to the families whose children

join us each week.

As we come together for Hospitality Sunday this

weekend, we are sure all parishioners join us in

thanking the many families who are so dedicated

to providing this opportunity for us to gather for

refreshments and conversation after the 9:30

Mass. All of us who are a part of St. Mark’s Parish

Family are so grateful to the Alessi, Anderson, Ar-

buiso, Buonconsiglio, Hodun, Krongel, Marfoglio,

Matthews, Ruggero, Schmalzle, Simonetti and

Yantsos families for being so faithful to this very

important ministry.

We are always happy to hear from any families

who would like to find out more about our parish

offerings which enable the children, teens, parents

and grandparents opportunities to increase their

faith and grow closer to the Lord. We offer weekly

formation for children and teens, a Liturgy of the

Word for children at our 9:30 Sunday Mass,

preparation for the sacraments of Baptism, First

Reconciliation, First Eucharist and Confirmation, a

summer Vacation Bible Camp, a Youth Group and

Youth Masses followed by get-togethers for sev-

enth through twelfth graders, service opportuni-

ties for our young people, discussion and sharing

for parents and grandparents and seasonal events

for the entire parish. You are invited to call or e-

mail the Faith Formation Office to discover the

many ways your family can be involved, or to reg-

ister your children for our classes.

SAINT MARK’S YOUTH MINISTRY

FOR YOUNG PEOPLE IN

7TH THROUGH 12TH GRADES

FAITH FORMATION 631 821-0550 OR [email protected]

Our next Youth Group gathering is

February 26. (no gathering on Feb.

19 due to the holiday) We will

come together on March 5, 12, 19

and 26 and April 9, 16 and 30. All

seventh through twelfth graders

are invited to come and to bring a

friend for discussions, prayer,

activities, service and snacks. We

meet from 7 to 8:30 in our parish

center. Please contact the Faith

Formation Office with any ques-

tions about St. Mark’s Youth

Ministry.

Our next Youth Mass, followed by a

gathering for the young people and

their families, is on Saturday, April

21 at 5 p.m.

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WE HOPE YOU CAN JOIN US FOR A

LENTEN

INTERGENERATIONAL EVENT

Make this Lent more meaningful for your whole family. We invite parishioners of every age group to join us for an opportu-nity for adults, teens and children to grow in their understanding of Lent. An interac-tive presentation and prayer service are followed by activities. Spend time with your family and faith community, learning how to live Lent more fully each day as we gather on:

WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 28

BEGINNING AT 6:30 P.M Beverages will be provided, but we ask

that you kindly bring a snack to share.

Please complete the form below saying

how many from your family will attend,

or contact the Faith Formation Office by

phone (821-0550) or e-mail

[email protected]

_______________________________

(We, I) will be attending our

Lenten gathering on Wednesday,

February 28 beginning at 6:30

p.m.

Name______________________________

No. attending: Adults___ Children__

Phone

No.________________________________

E-mail_____________________________

An offering of $3 per person or $5

per family to cover the cost of our

crafts is requested.

SAVE THE DATES FOR OUR

ANNUAL NORTH SHORE

CLERICUS LENTEN SERVICES

As has been our tradition the churches comprising the North Shore Clericus in our area will once again be conducting prayer services throughout Lent to which all are invited. Various churches will host and will welcome guest preachers from the different congregations. You are invited to bring a bag lunch and join our brothers and sisters in Christ for conver-sation. Each host church will provide beverages and desserts.

Please reserve the following dates on your calendar (all beginning at noon). We look forward to having you with us.

Wednesday, February 21-St. Anselm’s Episcopal Church, Shoreham, Preacher-Rev. Richard Ajer

Wednesday, February 28-St. Anthony RC Church, Rocky Point, Preacher-Deacon Patrick Gerace

Wednesday, March 7- St. Mark’s RC Church, Preacher-Rev. Bob Griffin, Please contact the Faith Formation Office (631 821-0550) if you would be able to assist us with set up or clean up for the hospitality following the service. We are also seeking parishioners to contribute baked goods. Any help you can provide would be so very much appreciated.

Wednesday, March 14-Middle Island Presbyterian Church, Preacher-Rev. Frank Schneider

Wednesday, March 21-St. John the Baptist RCC Church, Wading River, Preacher- Rev. T.J.Turner

Good Friday, March 30-Trinity Evangelical Lutheran Church, Rocky Point, Preacher- Rev. John McGinty, no luncheon on this day.

Our weekly collection will go towards

the Opioid Crisis on Long Island.

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February 18, 2018 The Roman Catholic Church of Saint Mark Page 8

Diocese of Rockville Centre

Healing after Abortion

Day of Prayer and Healing for Women

A Day of Prayer and Healing for Women is an opportunity to experience the loving mercy of God in a safe and

sacred space. The day is directed by specially trained compassionate caregivers, including counselors and

clergy, who have a sensitivity and heart for those who suffer.

Sunday, March 4, 2018 Eastern Long Island Location

For more information visit: respectlife.drvc.org

To register contact: Project Rachel

1-888-456-4673 | [email protected]

All reservations and information will remain confidential.

St. Mark’s Bereavement Group

St. Mark’s will be starting a bereavement group for those who have lost a spouse or adult sibling. This group will meet beginning March 8, 2018 from 1-2 pm in the music room.

The “Lazarus” program is a nine week journey from grief to healing. If you choose to join us, keep in mind that it is a nine week commitment.

You will be given a copy of the New Day Journal, which is an outline that we will follow for the program. It will help us to think, share, discuss, and touch on all our feelings related to the healing process.

If you’d like to join us, call the rectory and leave your name and phone number. Watch the bulletin for further information.

Ellen Masterson and Lorraine Baker will be facilitat-ing this group.

Hospitality

Sunday

Please join us for HOSPITALITY Sunday, February 18th, after the 9:30 AM

Mass. Enjoy a cup of coffee or tea and good-

ies as you meet and mingle with fellow

parishioners.

If you have favorite cookies or a cake you

would like to share, feel free to bring them to our

gathering.

Also, we extend an invitation to all our

New Parishioners to join us!

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Ministry News

by John J. McNamara

Adult Faith Formation Bible Studies---

Wednesday, March 14th: Ecumenical Bible Study (Jewish and Catholic)---The Book of Psalms; 9:30 to 11:30am (St. Mark’s: Meeting Room) Monday, February 26th: The Letters of the New Testament: a study of the First Letter of St. Peter; 8 to 9pm (St. Mark’s: Meeting Room) Thursday, March 1st: The Book of Psalms---an ongoing Bible Study; 10 to 11:30am (St. Anthony’s in Rocky Point: Music Room)

Courses---

Thursday, Feb. 22nd: Meaning: Exploring the Big Questions of the Cosmos with a Vatican Scientist: a study of the

relationship between science and religion led by Dr. Guy Consolmagno, S.J., PH.D., the Director of the Vatican Observa-

tory (by DVD) facilitated by John McNamara; 10 to 11:30am (St. Anthony’s in Rocky Point: Music Room)

To sign up or for more information about any of our Bible Studies or Courses contact: Mr. John J. McNamara, 744-9515x200 or by e-mail at [email protected].

Young Adult Ministry

Monday, February 26th: The Letters of the New Testament: The First Letter of St. Peter and Young Adult Meeting---Bible

sharing and planning of events for our Young Adults; 8 to 9pm (St. Mark’s: Meeting Room)

Virtus Training

Thursday, March 15th: Our next VIRTUS Training (mandatory for all parish volunteers along with the Criminal Back-ground Check and Code of Conduct) will be held on Thursday, March 15th, at 10am or 7:30pm in the All Saints Room at St. Anthony’s Church in Rocky Point. The training will be facilitated by Mr. John J. McNamara (744-9515x200 or [email protected]). To register for this Training, you have to go to the diocesan website (drvc.org) and click on the VIRTUS Training Calendar. After you create a user id and password, you can find the date on the calendar and register for this session.

Lectors

Sunday, March 4th---our Lectors will meet for prayer and discussion at 12:30pm in the Meeting Room.

Respect Life Committee On Wednesday, February 28th, at 9:30am our Respect Life Committee will meet in our Meeting Room.

CARITAS (Christians Against Racism In The Apostolic Spirit) Our next meeting will be held on Wednesday, February 21st, at 10am in Meeting Room #2 in the Parish Center at St. Anthony’s in Rocky Point. Come and join us as we talk and pray about the evil of racism in our churches and in our society.

Special Event On Saturday, Feb. 24th, at 1pm our local CARITAS (Christians Against Racism In The Apostolic Spirit) is sponsoring a special film---Chairman Jones---An Improbable Leader---about a remarkable movement that transformed the educational landscape in North Carolina in the 60s and 70s. This will take place at Christ Baptist Church in Coram (12 Windsor Court in Coram). Come and join us for this special event!

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Gus Alfieri, the legendary St. Anthony’s coach and biographer of coach Joe Lapchick, invited me last October to give the invocation for the Joe Lapchick “Character Award” luncheon in Manhattan.

When I arrived, he also asked me to give some remarks. It was a great opportunity for a former lowly Princeton junior varsity point guard turned Catholic bishop to address New York basketball royalty.

As I thought through my remarks, I immediately went to my CYO basketball coach, Joe Gallick, at St. Augustine’s Parish in Larchmont, N.Y. Joe coached us when we were in seventh and eighth grade (1972-1974).

Joe had been a 6’4” forward for Iona in the early 1970s. He looked like and admired New York Knick Phil Jackson. Joe sensed something great in the character and spirit of Phil Jackson, a marginal but hustling player who turned into a Hall of Fame NBA coach.

Joe was a lot like Phil, both as a hustling marginal player at Iona — he averaged 3.8 points and 4.5 rebounds a game for the Iona Gaels in his senior year (1971-72) — and a collaborative and intuitive coach who asked our input as seventh-and eighth-graders about what was actually happening on the floor and how we should react and press forward aggressively.

Joe was my basketball mentor. He taught all of his players a love for basketball, the

fundamentals and the history of the game. Joe patiently melded together some very spirited personalities with different kinds of games and talent.

In my remarks at the Lapchick luncheon, I decided to focus on how Joe Gallick taught us the full court press of renowned UCLA coach John Wooden. Our team was fast, quick, smart and clever.

A full court press takes heart, stamina, perseverance and tenacity. It was Joe’s character, support and kindness that made us want, even as seventh-and eighth-grade boys prone to distraction, to focus and go all out even when we were tired.

I found myself at the Lapchick luncheon connecting the character, heart and tenacity we learned from Joe Gallick with my life as a bishop, a successor of the apostles, asking the Holy Spirit to lead me in being the point guard of the Catholic

It was Joe’s character, support and kindness that made us want, even as seventh- and eighth-grade boys prone to distraction, to focus and go all out even when we were tired.”

BISHOP JOHN O. BARRES

is the fifth bishop of the Catholic Diocese of Rockville Centre. Follow him on Twitter, @BishopBarres

John Barres (#11) making a layup at Jadwin Gym, Princeton University.

A TRIBUTE TO MY CYO BASKETBALL COACH JOE GALLICK — AND TO ALL CYO COACHES ON LONG ISLAND

YOUR COMMUNITYHOLINESS AND MISSION

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Church on Long Island on a full court press for dramatic missionary growth in our parishes.

There was a deep connection between coach Joe Gallick introducing us to the Wooden press — breaking it down and practicing it with us until it became a part of us — and my daily life as a Catholic bishop. In a mysterious and beautiful way, this experience, with many others in my life, prepared me for a relentless, non-stop, New Evangelization full-court press as a parish priest and as a bishop.

So I would like to thank coach Joe Gallick — RIP — as well as all the CYO coaches on Long Island and around the country for all the life and faith lessons you have taught so many of us.

Thank you, CYO coaches of Long Island, for:

1 Modelling for our players and their families the

connection between the Catholic Mass, vibrant Catholic parish life and community and the parish gym. Your fidelity and that of your family to the Sunday Mass is a great inspiration and critical foundation to the team play and chemistry you teach us.

Never underestimate the witness you give when your players and their families, along with the entire parish, see you consistently and faithfully at the Sunday Mass. It sets a tone. It is “salt and light” to parish life, unity and mission. It is what I expect as your bishop and the point guard of the mission of the Catholic Church on Long Island.

2 Thank you for the character lessons you

teach us in both victory and defeat. Our experiences of defeat are especially valuable since we learn how to bounce back and address positively and constructively the defeats of life.

3 Thank you for the way you model a respect for the dignity of the individual in your sportsmanship

and classy treatment of opposing team coaches and players, referees and the crowds at games. You teach us how to compete with class, character, mature self-possession and charity.

4 Thank you for the way you model sacrifice for the team, radical unselfishness and team chemistry,

unity and spirit. We will take this with us in our educational experiences, career and vocational paths and our future marriages and families. You also teach us the responsibility we have toward the younger children who come to our games and look up to us.

5 Thank you for your halftime talks and game

plan adjustments. You model for us how to recognize problems and issues quickly both in games and in life and how to recognize and address these problems and challenges proactively and effectively. We carry this into every dimension of our lives.

6 Thank you for the friendships between

families that are part of the CYO experience and how families support each other in the practice of the Catholic faith through these friendships.

7 Thank you, too, for the service projects

you connect us to and the opportunity to serve the poor you provide us.

Thank you CYO Coaches and Players of Long Island — together, with the Body and Blood of Christ at the center of our lives and our families, let’s take it to the next level!

John Barres (#11)point guard for

the Princeton JV basketball team.

John Barres, St. Augustine’s CYO

Larchmont, NY 8th Grade, 1973-74

season.

You teach us how to compete with class, character, mature self-possession and charity.”

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