rights & responsibilities when dating what do you think your rights are? what responsibilities...
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Rights & Responsibilities when
datingWhat do you think your rights
are?What responsibilities do you
have?
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Activity
• Think about a romantic relationship that you are in, were in, or a friend is in and list all of the following that apply:– One partner checks up on the other by asking who
they are with, calling frequently, stopping by work, etc.
– One partner puts the other down by name calling or public humiliation
– One tries to control the other (telling them who they can hang out with, who they can see, making them stay home, etc.)
– One says jealousy is a sign of love – One partner blames the other one for mostly
everything
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• Total up number statements that apply to the relationship you were looking at.– 1 low– 2 moderate– 3 high
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Teen Dating & Violence
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I. Teen dating violence often is hidden because teenagers typically:
• are inexperienced with dating relationships.
• are pressured by peers to act violently.
• want independence from parents. • have "romantic" views of love.
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StatisticsYou don’t need to write these
down!
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About one in three high school students have
been or will be involved in an abusive relationship
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Forty percent of teenage girls ages 14 to 17 say
they know someone their age who has been hit or beaten by a boyfriend
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In one study, from 30 to 50 percent of female high school
students reported having already experienced teen
dating violence
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Teen dating violence most often takes
place in the home of one of the partners
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In 1995, 7 percent of all murder victims
were young women who were killed by their boyfriends
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One in five or 20 percent of dating
couples report some type of violence in their relationship
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One of five college females will
experience some form of dating
violence
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A survey of 500 young women, ages 15 to 24, found
that 60 percent were currently involved in an ongoing
abusive relationship and all participants had experienced
violence in a dating relationship
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One study found that 38 percent of date rape victims were
young women from 14 to 17 years of age
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A survey of adolescent and college students revealed that date
rape accounted for 67 percent of sexual
assaults
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More than half young women raped (68 percent) knew their rapist either as
a boyfriend, friend or casual acquaintance
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Six out of 10 rapes of young women occur in their own home or a friend or relative's
home, not in a dark alley
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More than 4 in every 10 incidents of
domestic violence involves non-married
persons
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II. Common clues that indicate a teenager may be experiencing dating
violence: • Physical signs of
injury • Truancy, dropping
out of school • Failing grades • Indecision • Changes in mood
or personality
• Use of drugs/alcohol
• Pregnancy • Emotional outburst • Isolation
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III. Teen Dating Safety:
• Consider double dating early on• know exact plans for evening & share
w/ friends• decreased ability to react under the
influence of alcohol or drugs • Be assertive• Trust your instincts
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Warm up
• Last time I had you write about your best and worst dating moments.
• Look at that journal. Expand on it or complete it. Be ready to share it with the class.
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IV. The Cycle of Violence (see diagram)
• Explains the pattern of violence in relationships
• Typically repeats itself until the victim can escape
• The more the cycle repeats the more difficult it is for the victim to escape
• Repetition brings increased violence
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FAQs
• What kind of abuse occurs in relationships?• What are some early warning signs that my
partner might abuse me?• I get jealous sometimes. Does that mean I'm
an abuser or potential abuser?• I thought my partner must really love me
when my partner gave me a cell phone. Now my partner wants to know where I am all the time. Is this normal?
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FAQs• My partner doesn't get mad very often, but
when s/he does get mad it scares me. How can I tell if this is a warning sign of abuse?
• I've tried several times to end my relationship, but my partner says life would not be worth living without me. I love my partner and don't want to hurt my partner. What should I do?
• I have a friend who I think is in an abusive relationship. I want to help my friend. Is there anything I can do?