relationship problems and how to fix relationship problems

Download Relationship Problems And How To Fix Relationship Problems

If you can't read please download the document

Upload: robsmith23

Post on 29-Jun-2015

1.083 views

Category:

Documents


3 download

DESCRIPTION

Relationship problems affect everybody at some point or another. Understanding what causes problems in relationships and how to both prevent them and fix them can help tremendously in saving a relationship.

TRANSCRIPT

  • 1. Relationship ProblemsAnd How To Fix Them
    • There are any number of relationship problems that a couple may experience over the years. Some more unique than others of course but there are many relationship problems that remain universal to us all. And, they can creep up on you when you least expect it or are completely unaware that there was even a problem in the first place. Here are several you may experience over the years, either one at a time or sometimes a combination of them wearing down your relationship. Also, how to begin fixing them once you're aware!

2. Relationship Problem #1

  • Lack of Intimacy in the relationship. This is one of the most common and can really play havoc on a relationship or marriage. Intimacy is an important part of any healthy relationship and shouldn't be taken for granted or used as a tool for personal gain. You and your loved one need to make time for each other no matter what to ensure that you keep this balanced. It's also in both of your best interest to remain up to date on what your loved one considers pleasing, intimate and a overall satisfying experience to benefit the both of you.

3. Relationship Problems #2

  • Lack of time for one another. It can at times seem as if there's never enough time in the day to do everything you needed to get done. But, one thing you should always make time for is your spouse or partner. One of the biggest issues in relationships can be from lack of good quality time spent together and or that one of you never makes time due to job or overwhelming schedules. It's vital that you make time, no matter what. Forget about everything else for a little while and just focus completely on your loved one. It does wonders!

4. Relationship Problems #3

  • Money This problem really happens to everybody at some point or another. Remember to be honest with one another about money. If things have gotten a little rough, make sure you talk it out and not leave it to surprise. Find ways to balance out the responsibility of controlling it, earning it and decision making around it. Making sure you work together on your finances will ensure fair and balanced feelings and actions concerning money.

5. Relationship Problems #4

  • Battle of duties Normally, this kind of works itself out, but it can still become an issue of who does what chore when around the house. There may be times when you do more than your partner and vice versa and some jobs are definitely dirtier than others. Just remember, like all things that it's important to balance them out. If you both can't reach an agreement to do or just can't stand the thought of doing it, hire someone to do it if it means keeping the peace.

6. Relationship Problems #5

  • Perspective This is something that should always be worked on and in your tool belt of making a relationship work. Seeing things through your loved ones or spouses eyes so to speak. Put yourself in their shoes and determine whether something is fair or right. If somethings bothering your partner, and you don't quite understand, do your best to put yourself in their position to fully understand how they feel and why, so you can find solutions to fix it.

7. Relationship Problems #6

  • Playing the blame game. This constant going back and forth between what the two of you did in the past is an ongoing drain on a relationship. Whatever happened in the past, is in the past. Nothing you can do will change it. The only thing you can do is move forward and find new ways to make sure past wrongs don't repeat themselves. There's nothing the blame game or keeping score can do for maintaining a healthy relationship, it only tears them down by chipping away at the love for one another you long to share.

8. Relationship Problems #7

  • Trust In a relationship, trust is probably the number one thing it can't survive without. It's the foundation of everything to be built upon and even the slightest of lies or deceit can ruin it. You have to maintain this trust, because once it is broken, it will cause a lot of other problems in your relationship, resulting in a downward spiral of events that will eventually end your relationship. Make sure you do what you say you're going to do, keep your promises, be on time and consistent and most of all don't lie.

9. Fixing A Particular Relationship Problem

  • There are a number of other relationship problems that come up over the course of time and having a reference or guide on how to fix them can be a life saver for any relationship. It also helps to learn more about the 7 most common that were previously discussed and more specific steps on how to solve them. If you want to know more about fixingyourparticular relationship problems, you can find it here Relationship Problems