Realising Self Worth in ChildrenDeveloping self-esteem is not as difficult as it seems, as long as you know

what you are doing and how.Self-esteem is being comfortable with yourself and accepting the person you are without

being too judgemental. Likewise, parents always want the best for their child. But, at

times they fail to understand how they can encourage them by building their sense of

worth alone. Well, it is not as difficult as it seems, as long as you know what you are

doing and how.

Engage them in activities: Children learn best when their needs and

requirements are met and they are made to feel good about themselves. From

parents to nursery teachers both play an extremely vital role in developing self-

esteem in children. When adults challenge the kids with interesting activities, kids

automatically begin to experience an accomplishment and thus build their self-

self-reliance. Thus, kids need to be made aware of their potentials and self-worth

other than physical beauty and grades alone.

Be patient and listen to them: Toddlers have their own quirky behaviour, but

that does not mean you condemn them. In fact, you show them more love by

being patient and listening to them. This way, you show that you care and what

they say matters to you. Furthermore, when you are uncomplaining, it gives them

a chance to express their emotions, frustrations and fears to you. So, don’t jump

to conclusions and just be a kind listener. After all, they need your support and

understanding more than any other advice.

Accept them for what they are: Children in

their developing years yearn for

unconditional love. They want to be accepted

for what they are and not be constantly

compared with their peers. Pleasant

conversations and interactions can go a long

way in building a positive self-esteem in

your little one. This in return, can help

children to grow up to be more sociable and

self-confident.

Let them make their own decisions: Self-esteem also helps in making sound

decisions and fair judgment in the face of peer pressure. Besides, it helps the

children to take pride in themselves because of the skill or talent they possess.

Children's self-esteem and buoyancy will only be enhanced and developed when

they are allowed to make their own decisions. It need not be something very

complex, but something simple would do. For example, you could ask them what

they’d like to have for dinner or which book to read, etc.

Let them be stress-free: Your children may be under stress owing to several

reasons like assessments, ill health, performances, friends, etc. Try and take off

their anxiety by discussing the issue with them. Don't force a timetable over them

that is made by you, it will only impede your child's growth and development

Simultaneously, consider the likes and interests of your little one and accordingly decide

the activity for them. In any case, understanding is the chief responsibility for building

self-worth in children.