radio metaphor 16-1 - third wave psychotherapy · radio metaphor suppose you have this radio. it is...
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AcceptanceandCommitmentTherapyRadioMetaphor
Supposeyouhavethisradio.
ItisanACTradioandtherefore,youknowitisprobablyametaphor.Inthiscase,themetaphoristhatthevolumeoftheradioreflectstheproblemsinyourlife.So,thesoundsfromtheradioarethingslikethoughts,feelings,bodysensations,andproblems.Attimes,theradiocanseemprettyquiet.Atothertimes,itseemsveryloud.
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So,atanygivenmomentthevolumeoftheradioreflectsthe“noise”ofyourcurrentproblems.Youaretemptedtowanttoturnthevolumedownwhenthingsinyourlifegetveryloud.So,yougotograbthehandyvolumeknobandslideitdown.However,assoonasyoudo,thevolumebouncesrightbacktoexactlywhereitwas.Thishappensoverandover.Asmuchaswedon'twanttoadmitit,thisisperhapsthenatureofhowthisworks,isn’tit?Wehavealreadytalkedabouthowcontroldoesn’treallywork,haven’twe?Understandably,though,yougetreallyfrustratedwiththeradioandyoudecidetothrowitoutthewindow.Youpickitup,readytohurl!Thenyouseeanotherknobontheside.
Itismarkedwillingness.Youdiscoverthatthoughyoucan’tturndownthevolume,youcanalwaysturnupthewillingness.Howeverloudthingsget,istheremayberoomtoacceptpainasitis?Howcanyoudothis?Youcanjustacknowledgethesitutationandletthefeelings,thoughts,andbodysensationsjustsit.Youmightsaythingslike:
• Wow.Thisissomestrongdisappointment.• Thispainisthrobbinglyintense.• OK,IguessIfeeldepressed.
Sometimesweareallgoingtobeoverwhelmedanddiveintooursuffering.Whenwedo,wemaybeabletorideoutthestormaswellaswecanandthenafterwardshaveroomtosay:
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• Myemotionsgotthebetterofme.That’sOK.Sometimesthathappenstoallofus
• WeareallbozosonthisbusWhenwedothis,sometimeswecan“createspace”aroundourexperience.Whenwedo,itfeelslikethereisabitofroomtobreatheinsteadoffeelingtotallycrushedbyourproblems.