pua guide to hired guns
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The Ins ider f i les
P U A G u id e t o H i r ed Gu ns
How to become an Insider with waitresses,
bartenders, and bouncers
By
S u pe r f r k
Copyright 2006 by Superfrk
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or
transmitted in any form or by any means without permission by the
author.
Table of Contents
Introduction.................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................1 So What the Fuck is a hired Gun Anyways 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Become an Insider....................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................5 Bouncers and the Red Rope...........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................9 Bartenders, waitress, ect... Now for the babes.................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................13 The Chapter to rule them all The after location..................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................17 Working the Clubs...................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................21 Drugs and club 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I n t r o d u c t i o n
Ok so everyone as of late has been making a big issue
of hired guns as mentioned in the book The Game, and from
Mystery Methods newest work shop. Well while I respect their
knowledge and methods I really do not understand what the
big mystery is. While the term may be somewhat new the ideal
is old school. Drug dealers know about it, the hardcore party
goers have known about it, bartenders, waitresses, strippers,
and restaurant managers know it and, even undercover cops
know about it. Very soon you will also know the secrets to
being an Insider. The reason I call it being an insider is be-
cause they are actually your ins, they are the gate keepers.
They hold the key to a new and exciting world of pick ups and
of social dynamics. So enough of this literary foreplay lets get
down to business and give you what you paid for.
S o W h a t t h e F u c k i s a h i r e d G u n
A n y w a y s
Hired Guns by definition (according to Mystery) are Ex-
otic dancers, hostess, bartenders, waitress, etc. Women hired
by the managers for looks. Now for my definition of what I
consider to be a hired gun. A hired gun is anyone that can get
you into the inside click of any club or establishment that you
wish to run game in. This includes Exotic dancers, hostess,
bartenders, waitress, bouncers, managers, owners, and even
friends, boyfriends, girlfriends of someone that works there.
Now let me explain a little why it is not so important that they
are not the hot chicks that work there. It is because each club,
bar, ect... is like a family. They all know each other; they all
deal with the same environment everyday. So they tend to
bond. Plus on the best party nights they have to work so some
of them do not have that active of a social life and even tend to
date hang out with each other outside of work.
If they see you always talking to the bouncer, or the manager,
or even one of their friends then they will be more comfortable
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and open to getting to know you. Your goal should not be to
get in good with just one person, but to get to know as many of
the staff as possible. All you need to do is to get an in. Once
you have that in you are no longer just a face in the crowd you
start to become somebody to the people that work the club.
This will open up a whole new world of possibilities. There are
clubs that I can go to where I never pay a cover, get free
drinks, and because the staff all knows me I get the VIP
treatment from the time I step in the door, this allows me to
have instant social status. Its all about becoming an Insider.
B e c o m e a n I n s i d e r
To really become an insider does not really take that
much total time, but a lot of it is spaced over a period of
weeks. You can become a regular or insider in as little as 5-8
hours total, but you have to spread that time over many visits
to the club. For example say you visit the club 5 weeks in a
row. Spending an hour spaced out through the night interact-
ing with the staff. By the end of that time you can get a good
foot in the door and become an insider. I will discuss some
quicker and better methods further on in the book
In one night, you can learn enough about the people who
work at a club to start to pass yourself off as an “insider” to
anyone in the club. The key is how to use that information. For
example when you are talking to the bartender bring up a
subject of interest that one of the bouncers or waitresses had
mentioned. For example one of the bouncers at a club in
Tampa, Florida that I used to hang at actually was a part time
ringer for WCW wrestling. Basically one of the locals that go in
and get beat up by the name brand Stars. So while I am
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talking up the bartender I make a point of mentioning it to her.
Now it does not matter if she knew that or not as she will most
likely ask him about it if she did not know anyways. The point
is you are playing it off that you and the bouncer talk a lot. This
makes you an insider and she will now view you as such. I will
go into more details about how and why to open certain people
in the club later on. The main point I am trying to get across is
to make a connection and then use it as a bridge to the other
staff members.
Also anther great trick is to go to a bar or club when it is slow
so that the staff are actually a little bored. Then all you have to
do is open them like any other set. Anything you do be it cocky
and funny, or tell an exciting story, that helps pass their time
and makes their slow night fun will help to get you the in you
are looking for. Now if it is a Friday night and the place is
slamming you have to do something fun and out there to get
there attention in a good way. What I will do is Step out of the
club to get some air and a smoke and chat up the bouncer a
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little. Then I will mention that I am hungry as hell and proceed
to ask what kind of pizza do you like? He will say what or tell
you. Ether way tell him you are ordering some pizza and ask if
he wants some. Order a couple of large pizzas. Here is the
reasoning not many people ever do this and also it is late and
if there is nothing around the club still open, you just got your
opener for the night. Get the pizza offer him a couple of pieces
then find a table, order a drink and start chowing down. You
will be amazed at how many people open you after the smell
of that pizza starts to spread around the club.
B o u n c e r s a n d t h e R e d R o p e
The rules of the Red Rope are very important as you
have to get in the club before you can get to know the staff.
Make sure you dress like young money, what I mean by that is
to dress as upscale and trendy as possible. Make sure that
anyone rolling with you is also dressed to the part. Remind
them to be on their best behavior because it really sucks to
wait in line then get bounced because one of your group wears
the wrong thing or pisses off the bouncer. One thing you may
want to try if your with a large group is to split up and try
gaming some women as couples tend to get in much faster.
Getting bounced just means you get kicked out of line or you
are not allowed into the club. Red rope bouncers tend to be
just like any normal guy with the exception that they hold the
key to you getting into the club. Never complain in line about
the wait or you will find yourself waiting and never getting in. If
all else fails just walk up to the bouncer calmly and ask about
the wait, put your hand out to shake and slip him some green.
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Make sure you are covert about it and chances are depending
on what you slipped him you will get in pretty quick. As a game
note smile and ask it you can pull a girl in and most cases he
will let you. So just grab that HB and head on in. Make sure
that you do not try to act cooler than the bouncer. Another tip
is to make sure that you are in the proper line some clubs will
have a VIP line and a regular line. While in line, chat and
mingle with women in line. Don't be sleazy and act like you're
picking them up, just be friendly with them. Your goal: to blend
yourselves in with the hot girls in line so that you get in as a
unit.
Now Bouncers and doormen will usually take a little bit of
time to warm up to you. If they see you come around
often and you do not cause them any issues they will
start to warm up to you. One important thing is to try and
get them on the subject of what they do other than
bouncing. Some are going to school, musicians, wanabe
actors, or they just work there for the pussy. Take some
time to find out who they are as a person. For some
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bouncers standing outside the door starts to really suck
as the night progresses so got out for air or a smoke and
just chat them up. This will help break up their night.
Just remember to stay on their good side and in no time
flat they will be happy to see you walking up to the door.
B a r t e n d e r s , w a i t r e s s , e c t . . . N o w f o r t h e
b a b e s
Ok, ok, I get it you want to know how to game the girls
that work in the club. First of all they are still girls so it is not
really as hard as everyone makes it out to be. In some ways it
is even easier as there are fewer steps. Lets look at gaming a
regular girl first so that you can appreciate the main differ-
ences. When gaming a regular girl it would go something like
this. First you will open her this should be done in the first 3 –
30 seconds. Then you must get her attracted with in the first 3
mins. After that you will go into building on attraction or into
the next phase which is comfort building. After that you would
then seduce her. Now with hired guns it takes more time as
they are working, they have to be making money and taking
care of their customers. Also since they are already there to
work and are in the service industry there is no need to open
them at all. In fact guys with good and bad game have been
doing this all night long. So someone that takes a little bit of a
different path will be remembered. So you want to start to
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build attraction with her. The bad thing is she does not have
the time to sit with you while you do this so you will need to run
more of a faster paced game on her and spread it out over the
night or even many nights. One of the best methods for this is
cocky/funny that David Deangelo teaches. If you have not
seen his books or do not know some of his methods I would
highly recommend them for dealing with hired guns hired guns.
Now while you are doing this here are the basics you want to
speak clearly to her while delivering your lines and you want to
also never wait for her to reply, this looks needy. Just go back
to your conversation. This works great when she brings the
drinks to you pop off a cocky/funny comment then go back to
your conversation. The reason is you have not paid her yet so
she has to stand there for your attention because she needs to
be paid. So start back into your conversation then if she has
not said anything yet as this should be done kind of on the
quick, turn back and say you still here. Her: yea I need paid for
the drink, Oh yea ect.. then use this for anther cocky/funny
comment. Then back to your buddies. She will start to warm
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up to you as the night goes on and more importantly she will
remember you. Another thing to do is go when the club or bar
is slow. This will give you more of a chance to build some
comfort with her. Just make sure to never get sexual or to be
pushy or needy with them and they will grow to love seeing
you show up at the bar and yes you will be able to take them
home. The best way to do that though is to invite them to a
place outside of the bar or club. Now this should be a public
place where you can build comfort with them. In the next
chapter I will explain places to take them after they get off, or
even to meet them in the first place. This way you will have an
in to the club before you even step in the door.
T h e C h a p t e r t o r u l e t h e m a l l T h e a f t e r
l o c a t i o n
Find the After Hours Location
One good way to further endear your self to hired guns is to
find the After Club hang out. I discovered this little gem in my
days as a drug dealer.
Invariably, once 2:30 rolled around and the club was
closing, the girls would be ready to leave. This means they are
ready to get the hell out of the bar and club and either go
home or they are not ready for that and are looking to hang out
or to go party. Now this is true of strippers, party girls, and yes
hired guns of all types. This is the best location for meeting
and seducing these girls. They are no longer working they are
in fun mode. So know we just need to find where the girls will
be going. You can do this once you get in good with the
bouncer or bartender.
Just ask if there is a 24 hour restaurant or another place
to party that stays open late. If for some reason you have not
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hit it off with them yet usually most towns have a 24 hour place
or a couple of BYOB after hours clubs. Just ask around and try
going to these places. Make sure you game up the staff at
these places too. Remember the more in people you know the
better the information you have will be. If it is a 24/7 town like
L.A. , New York, Or Vagas then your best bet is always a close
by restaurant, bar, or casino. Now these girls are looking for
food, fun, booze, or drugs after a long night at work. The main
thing to keep in mind is that they no longer are working though
they are now able to be gamed just like any other HB. One
note of advice those is at a BYOB it is ok to offer the girls a
drink. Some of them have been working so of them have been
working or out parting and did not get a chance to pick some-
thing up on the way. Some of the girls will have there boy-
friends with them so use your best judgment when
approaching them. Some of the guys that will be with the girls
at the food places will just be customers that the girl took with
them to get a free meal. So usually you can still get in good
with her and leave with her # or even better with her in tow.
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Now I hope you can see the value in this as the girl is seeing
you out side the club setting and you are now not just a cus-
tomer but a living breathing man. If you get in good with the
girl at the after location her whole social circle at the club or
bar will open up to you.
W o r k i n g t h e C l u b s
The best method I’ve found to become an insider has to
be either working at a club, or being close friends with some-
one who works at a club.
Well, when you work a club or you’re friends with someone
who works there, that INSTANTLY separates you from the
customers. You have a reason to be there other than being a
lonely, horny loser who likes to ogle the girls and get drunk.
You’ve got a job to do.
I’ve also talked about how women at clubs have very little
social life outside the club. When you work at the club, you
become part of the small social life they DO have. This gives
you many opportunities that the average chump going into a
club doesn’t have, and makes picking them up much easier.
That being said, working at a club is not exactly the most
desirable profession one could want.
Sure, it can be fun and exciting at first. But it soon turns into a
job. You show up at the club early and have to help clean it up.
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You have to deal with all the problems the girls bring with them
to the club and all the petty drama there is. You have to handle
rude and sometimes violent customers. You have to deal with
drugs anddrunks, and sometimes the authorities. You have to
put up with crooked management sometimes. You have to
break up fights, either between the staff or the customers. You
have to work late into the night and suffer from a great deal of
the social shortcomings most of the club workers do. You also
don’t make very much money unless you’re working at a really
large and popular club or you are bartending.
But in exchange for all that, you get laid.
So you have to weigh the pros and cons of working at a club
and decide if that’s something you really want to do. clubs are
one of the few workplaces where you don’t have to worry
about “sexual harassment” or any other crap like that. But what
you have to deal with sometimes can be much worse.
There are different types of jobs you can get at clubs. There
are jobs in management, in being a bouncer or a doorman, or
in being a DJ or even tending the bar.
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Getting a job as a manager in a club can be tough if you don’t
have experience. Also, depending on the club, you have to
deal with various degrees of unsavory elements, like bad
employees, crazy customers, drug dealers, organized crime,
the authorities, and all sorts of other headaches. That being
said, management definitely gets the most out of the girl in
terms of sexual escapades, because every girl is looking to get
favors from the boss.
Being a bouncer or a doorman is not a very rewarding job
either. Though you don’t have the same kind of burdens
management does, you still have to deal with a lot of the same
problems. The pay isn’t all that great either. Sure, you can
make a living doing it, but depending on the club, it might not
be a very good one. So if you get a job in a big club in Las
Vegas, it’s possible to make some good money, especially if
you help hook-up customers and accept tips from them. If
you’re going to college or just out of high school, this might be
a good job to start out
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Just be sure you know how to defend yourself and that you
can take a punch, because at some point you will have to get
rough with someone (that is part of your job, after all).
Being a DJ in a club is probably the best way for an average
guy to get involved in the scene. It takes very little skill to
perform the duties of a DJ in a club. The schedule is really
flexible, and the perks can be amazing, because EVERYONE
wants to be the DJ’s friend. You also meet a lot of customers
who are big businessmen around town, and can make a lot of
hook-ups for special treatment at their businesses.
And the thing about being a DJ is that it doesn’t require any
prior experience. You just show up and say “I’m a DJ!” and
BOOM, there you are. And since all the clubs have their own
equipment, you don’t have to spend any money buying DJ
gear. Occasionally you might want to have a laptop with a
couple thousand MP3s on it that you can plug into the system
at the club and run your own selections, but for the most part
this isn’t necessary.
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Now I am not going to go into bartending too much as there
are schools and plenty of books on the subject and these jobs
are not usually as easy to come by as being a bouncer or a
DJ.
D r u g s a n d c l u b g i r l s
The topic of drugs and clubs almost go hand-in-hand,
So this is a subject that must unfortunately be covered.
There are a lot of guys out there who think that enticing
club girls with drugs will help them to pull the girls from the
clubs. I wish I could say this wasn’t true, but it is. Of course,
this depends on the type of girl, but it can work. I, however, do
not recommend this approach. I will admit I tried using this
approach in the past, which is why I can recommend not doing
it. When you tempt a woman with drugs, you’re going to get a
drug addict. .
You’re never going to know if the woman is with you
because she likes you or because she likes the drugs, and not
only that, but girls who are heavy drug users also tend to be
prone to more sexually transmitted diseases, so you’re putting
yourself at risk. And most of all, you’re contributing to the
destruction of another human being through substance abuse,
which I personally don’t find cool.
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Cocaine and Meth are the club girls drugs of choice. I
learned this when I tried to tempt a club waitress I was at-
tracted to into coming back to my place after the club by telling
her that I had some weed. She looked at me as if I had ran
over her pet dog. She said “Oh my god , I don’t smoke pot.”
Feeling like an ass and like I was about to get lectured on why
I shouldn’t be doing drugs, the girl suddenly pipes up “I only do
cocaine.”
At first I thought she was joking, but she wasn’t. Many
club girls I know do cocaine. It’s the “party drug” that is most
prevalent in clubs. There’s also a great deal of ecstasy that
works its way through clubs, and pot is pretty common too. To
a certain degree, there are some girls who are involved with
heroine and crack too, though it’s not usually done in the club.
When I was working at strip clubs, I’d often see drug
dealers who would come in and hang out, offering to hook the
girls up in exchange for coming home with them. A lot of these
drug dealers would eventually recruit the girls and pimp them
out outside the club. You also have to take into account police
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involvement when dealing with drugs. Too often, there are
undercover cops who hang out in clubs to try and observe
illegal activity. They have also been known to stake out the
parking lots of clubs as well and follow suspected offenders to
their home in order to make a bust.
Drugs are just too much trouble to really consider using
them as a method of pick-up. They will get you the type of girl
who will cause you trouble in the long run, and possibly attract
attention from unsavory elements in society or the authorities.
At the very least, it may get you banned from the club.
T h e E n d
Ok look, I could go on forever telling you stories of
things that I have learned in the clubs, But to be honest I want
this book to be a no fluff, no Bullshit guide so that you can get
the fuck out there and start using it. I hope you have enjoyed
this book and found the knowledge contained to be helpful.
Now go out and put it to use and create your own stories.
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