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Playing with Hearts© - Nicholas Ryan
Foreword
The rages of depression left my body wracked. I needed to feel something again, anything.
I’d been lost for so long. Locked away in my room, shunning everyone. This book isn’t
about therapy, I didn’t write to feel better. I wrote because I needed to feel again. Every
emotion I’d shied away from I wanted to dive in. I wanted to see how much I could hurt
and how much joy I could feel. There wasn’t any area on the spectrum of emotions and
feelings I didn’t want to visit. I wanted to be human again. Please, read, and know that in
every painful prose it’s okay to feel that way. Please, read, and know that for every joyous
account you see, you will feel as well. None of this is good or bad, it’s simply living. We
were meant to feel this way.
Playing with hearts, a year of ups and downs
Copyright Nicholas Ryan 2017
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Lights
Sometimes a waning light is so divine
A heart and hope can intertwine
I want to freeze the moment of that late night window shine
To bottle up perfect sunset like fine wine
But must that last glowing light die?
Lately, I’ve been asking myself why
A utopia stomped on, the grand finale a sigh
My purest fantasy has become a great lie
A campfire crackle, a stargazing debacle
Hopeless romance has become my worst shackle
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I never realized that being an open book meant that other people could also write on me
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California Snow
I’m afraid we’re a California snow. One in a million, but not meant to last. A perfect
memory that not even pain can extinguish. My heart still beats thinking about that
moment when time stood still just for us, yet it passed too quickly. I want to hate, to make
it easier, but somethings are too beautiful to hate. When the impossible happens, I can’t
help but think: will it ever happen again? The longing heart, hoping for eternal rest.
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But why give flowers? Why give an inevitable death and call it beauty? Because the
temporary is beautiful. There’s nothing human about permanency, death is as exciting as
birth. Causing more wonder than the status quo ever could.
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Frozen
I met someone who was an icy lake
Their warm summer sealed by winter’s sake
Sometimes when we were together a crack would appear
And I would get a snapshot of all she holds dear
But the whole picture would escape me
So I’d drill into parts like fishing the ice sea
There was too much to funnel out it all became clogged
Her resistance began to make me feel bogged
No matter how many dinners we’d share over rigatoni
Each glimpse I got would soon be covered up by her Zamboni
I prayed for the summer that never came
Now winter’s whistle whispers her name
I hear it in the breeze and the rustling leaves
The first sign of snowfall she silently grieves
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It shattered me to learn that my favourite star was slowly drifting away from me
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A late summer night in August, warm and sticky
My mother raised me to be honest and picky
The lazy sun highlights your eyes
I’ve let you undress my entire disguise
A feeling becomes a moment, which turns into a memory
I’ve never held a set of hands so tenderly
My mind is at ease only focused on you
I pray there will never be someone else new
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The sky has been orange for far too long
I finally feel what the singers sing in their song
Spilling sour grapes I finally belong
If feeling this way is supposed to be wrong
I don’t think I can be strong
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I’m so - old, yet I’m so young I can’t remember half the lessons I’ve learned, but the sum
doesn’t come close to what there is to know. I’ve seen enough faces to recognize beauty
and charisma, but will I ever find the measuring stick? I can talk to anyone in the world, nor
can I talk to anyone in the world. I can break a thousand hearts, but how many can mine
endure? I’ll die in a blink, yet it’ll be the longest blink I know.
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Heart sighs
From nostalgia, from exhaustion, from romanticizing, from wanting something desperately
to happen
You sigh when you become at ease, when you’re content, after a long day
The word for that feeling you get but never know what to call it, a longing
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We laughed holding each other’s hand
We ran to the edge without abandon
The rest didn’t matter
It was just us
The fall was more thrilling than a thousand roller coasters
But when the water hit me
You weren’t there
I’d gone through all of that for you
And I sank as you watched me from up on your cliff
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Ma told me I’d break a lot of hearts
Never told me how the tears sting
Pa told me ‘bout success
Never told me the right places to look
Bro told me his own path
Never told me he was scared
Girl told me the worst words I’d ever heard
Never told me enough
Teach told me about giving up
Never told me about failing
I told myself I’d die to live
Never told myself how
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2pm, just sorted out all my mistakes from last night
I feel like I’m still drunk
Stumbling through a day that’ll never reach potential
I dread each time my phone vibrates
Can I get a “Sorry, we’re closed” sign?
I swear I’d wear it around like your favourite sweatshirt
I have a lot of regrets so I know I’m living
I don’t want to slow down because I’m already going too slow
When the sun sets I’m energized again is this a sick joke?
I want to fall asleep till the smell of roses wakes me up
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She asked if I was healthy
No, no I’m not
Well are you sick?
No, I’m not that either
Well what’s wrong with you?
Wrong?
Like I’m broken or damaged?
Like I’m a car that needs to be taken in and fixed?
Neither, neither
I’m just not well
She couldn’t grasp it
So she asked again
Then you’ve been hurt?
Not as the football player who breaks their arm
More like the tack board
Does anyone know
How many times
A bulletin board has been pierced?
You can’t see the marks when the pins leave
But I know
Her eyes lit up
Then that’s it!
Someone has hurt you?
No, no
I’m just not well
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Will you stay up with me tonight?
Nothing’s troubling me, I’m just tired
Let’s bathe in the beauty of moonlight
A night, where nothing is required
Listen to the melodies of rain on our window pane
Bask in the warmth of the waning fire
Come closer, sharing a blanket with you keeps me sane
Listening to you is lovelier than any choir
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Leaves may fall, and summer never lasts
Just like a sailboat, without full masts
Somethings are fleeting, deceiving, the opposite of redeeming
But that doesn’t stop us from longing and dreaming
The evergreen stands proud throughout the year
A traditional symbol of so much cheer
Staying in one place the summer becomes cold
But with travel you’ll find the sun never grows old
But what about the sailboat?
A hurricane gusts but won’t keep it afloat
It needs a certain pleasure, a very rare measure
To sail away, and become a true treasure
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Remember that time you called me beautiful? I’d never heard that before
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By her tenderness she began to plant seeds in me. My soil isn’t fertile, and it’s been a long
time since anything grew. Yet her patience and care nurtured me. Without my knowledge,
I became a gardener too. How could I not protect such a beautiful soul? Unconditional
love was our greenhouse, and kept bad weather from causing harm. I’d never allowed
someone in before, and now I was opening like a newborn tulip. I moved towards her as a
sunflower does to what it needs most. The seeds she planted sprouted, and I was
completely blossoming in the company of someone special. No longer could she just be
my sun, but my moon and stars, my entire world. The honeymoon ends just like winter kills
colour, so we traded our bouquet and planted an evergreen forest.
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How come the demons seem worst at night?
Desperate for sleep so I can see light
Time’s the slowest when you want it fast
Darkness awakens memories past
Imperfections loom over my shoulder
It gets harder as I grow older
This feeling is not foreign
May my tears be melatonin
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I thought dating was so special when I was younger
I could be with someone who didn’t know who they were
And together we’d discover what it means to be us
We’d never admit it, but we shaped each other the most
Innocence and naïve hearts, it wouldn’t get better than this
So heartbreak was the appropriate response
When an author in my life chose to go away
Tears stained my blanket at night
Until I met someone who wasn’t a picture book
Everything I thought I knew about women
Was challenged when I ran head into a novel
For some reason, I thought the years had only affected me
Love was growing new meanings
I was becoming lost in the depths of another
I’d only waded in love before
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Otter Lake
Moonlit nights to wander
Endless sights to wonder
The dreamy haze of the sauntering soul
Free falling through Alice’s hole
Barefoot journeys of discovery
What’s the most amazing thing you’ve ever seen?
What the most euphoria you’ve ever felt?
My best moments are unscripted
Losing myself made me uplifted
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Let my love be as abundant as these daisies
No more turning friends away with maybes
I’m not hurt, I’m not hurt, I’m not hurt
Trusting again no red alert
The scariness of being open
Overshadowed by the joy of hopin’
Free at last no more cast
Lost fragments of Cupid’s blast
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Cognac
But don’t forget the beauty of the denouement. The thrill of the height isn’t as powerful as
the fall. Why do you cry? We all deserve a special ending.
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I don’t know what’s more tragic
When a loved one dies
Or when a loved one only dies to you
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Why
You still come to me in my dreams?
You’re not welcome
But every night you haunt me
Can’t you leave me in peace?
Wasn’t it enough you left me in pieces?
You caused these early creases
Maybe I enjoy the pain
Missing the profane
Slowly growing sane
She’s a lifetime to forget
But a second to remember
The mind fantasizes about everything that’s wrong for it
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I don’t ask for a lot
I lived on my own without just fine
And if I never experience romance
I’ll go on existing just the same
But if you remind me of being alone
I wonder why we even are
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I never knew winter until that Christmas in Alaska, but I knew the cold, it felt just like you
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Why are a flower’s petals prettier than the whole?
Is it because we fall in love with parts of someone but not the entire thing?
That one part of someone absolutely captivates us to disregard the rest?
So once it dies and the petals pool on the floor
We still reminisce about what we once had
Even though the flower stank and we’re better off that it’s gone
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I don’t have commitment issues... I have problems with committing to nothing at all. I’ll
commit to something, that doesn’t exist. I’ll give my all without reciprocation. But this isn’t
a problem. I lied to you. You think because you’ve been hurt it’s okay not to trust. You
detach yourself from your feelings entirely. But don’t you see? That will hurt you more than
feelings ever could. You forget the reason, the feelings you felt, to allow yourself to get
hurt in the first place.
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Imma drink a cigarette tonight
Create some regrets I can cry about when I see the light
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I love the wind
Gosh I love the abuse
The howling, the shrieking
It matches everything going on inside
As the storm rages I revel in the moment my surroundings match me
The chaos feels like home, and I’ve been struggling to find one for so long
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We’d lay awake for hours
And I’d tell you all my dreams
But your superpowers were to make it seem like somethings are too extreme
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I can’t stand flying
So I wrote to you instead
I wanted to find a new way to say I love you
So I learned to rhyme some words
Four hours I sat, with nothing but you on my brain
And taught myself a whole other art form just to make you smile
I sent it to you the moment I landed
What I had antagonized over till it was perfect
Yet you were indifferent
You hardly responded
Didn’t care what I wrote you
Never saw that the words were just another way to kiss you
No, you could never appreciate
The very first poem, I ever wrote
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I went for a walk in the rain
Just to remind myself I’m human
How you don’t need a reason to do anything
Some people walked their dogs, that was cool
But what stood out to me was how many older people there were
Sure, they may have more time for this
But I’m young
I made time for this
So it’s not an age thing
No, but I think they’d figured something out
There are less constraints in this world than we think
And there’s enough constraints as there are
That we don’t need to impose new ones on ourselves
Walking in the sun would have been more comfortable
But I don’t think it would have been as enjoyable
Numb fingers and wet toes
Aren’t something we get inside
But that’s in a world we created for ourselves
Not in the world created for us
Sometimes I need to be a part of something
Because it’s too easy to think I can do it by myself
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Salt
Anxiety is crushing, and I know you’re scared
Your heart is in your throat, and you’re hoping to be spared
So stay at home, close your blinds, never go outside
Meeting others is the perfect time to hide
Tell the thrilling tale of the time you got a good night’s sleep
Boast to old schoolmates that you’re your boss’ favourite sheep
Remember that promise you made to that little kid at five
That you would grow up and never feel alive
Butterflies are for the sick
To pursue them you’d be thick
Making yourself uncomfortable is a disservice
So I hope, you’ll never be nervous
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I don’t usually write at the beach
I leave that for the waves
The sun writes stories on my skin
And the salt in my hair adds spice
As I float I contemplate throwing my paddle away
Let the ocean take me where it wants
Will I be thrown back to shore?
Or will the water pull me in; greedily snatching me back for its own pleasure
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She asked what I hadn’t written about
My eyes went wide
“Everything”
How could I be with someone who thinks they’ve seen the world, but has only marvelled at
a drop?
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I don’t know if depression goes away
I just know it always comes back
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I’m so small
All around me
People do things bigger
My voice is just a trickle
I see the world move in tsunamis
I touch a person
And others rescue thousands
I can’t even help myself
Trying to be the impact
Yet I’m the one impacted
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Wigilia
A place at the table
Feelings I can’t label
Porte & fish with paprika
I don’t mean this na zdrowie
Breaking bread because it’s tradition
No speaking because it’s tradition
Confused because I care
A lost childhood isn’t fair
Lessons learned at a later date
What an ironic twist of fate
Never complaining is no advice
Knowing you were pacified won’t suffice
Anger doesn’t help now that you’re gone
You didn’t fight for such a spawn
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But will I see love as an old friend? Or will it come to me as a stranger I’ve never met
before?
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A blank page is so beautiful. To be anything at all, what a thought. That magical point in
time where results don’t have to meet potential quite yet. No dent, not a single impression
has been made. A chance for a dream to be realized again.
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Why do I gaze out my window? Only on the darkest nights? I suppose those stars
symbolize everything I’ve ever wanted. A mysterious magic, unattainable by all. No, not the
supernatural, but a first kiss or Christmas morning. Those feelings that will make all pens
run dry, and still fall short of understanding.
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Girl, don’t confuse that we’re each other’s muse
We are just temporary, we thirst for the contemporary
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Romance can’t be constrained to the spectrum of only between lovers. There’s romance in
a landscape laying under an unblemished layer of snow. When a singer reaches a note no
one else can, the atmosphere is filled with romance. You can’t deny the person lost in their
craft when their work and themselves become one. The sugar of a pristine pastry is
romantic on your tongue. There doesn’t need to be a relationship; romance is not sexual.
How else would you describe lying in a bed of daisies, with the coldest bottle of wine?
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The sunrise or the sunset
For me
The sunrise
But
Only if I’ve experienced the darkness
I need to have creeped through the night
And danced in the moonlight
To truly capture the emotion I get
When the first golden streak pierces the black
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I read the most beautiful thing the other day and was so saddened when I realized I had
no one to share it with
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It’s cold tonight
The air is so wet our skin becomes damp
Or maybe it’s because of the anticipation
We’re not allowed to be
What’s forbidden, is about to be free
I hear voices
We must hide
And I press you against a tree
Moonlight highlights the blue in your eyes
If we get even closer
Maybe we’ll just blend in with the oaken silhouettes
No, we still don’t look like one
So my lips close in on yours
There’s yelling in the background
We’ll kiss till we only hear harmony
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If there is anything more tragic than a broken dream
It’s a dream that never had the chance to be chased
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Hope & Daisys (not a typo)
My heart sighed the other day
What made it so it’s tough to say
If I could pinpoint the reason
That caused my great liaison
It would be clear as a season
And I’d call it a treason
But love isn’t clear
It’s awfully austere
To leave me vulnerable and sheer
My heart sighed the other day
What made it so it’s tough to say
I entered the fray
When my world was grey
Others shaped me like clay
If heartbreak and my name become synonymous
I’d rather stay magnanimous
If in the end I find bliss
My heart sighed the other day
What made it so it’s tough to say
I wouldn’t change the past
Even if it went too fast
Because it gave me a feeling
That I couldn’t achieve without unveiling
My open heart for deceiving
One day I hope, my cracks will align
With another’s, who I can call mine
My heart sighed the other day
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Some dreams are locked up for us
Kept for safekeeping
Others are granted to us
We receive without asking
And then there are dreams we knew nothing about
These are the dreams we live for
You can’t miss something you don’t know
But it is the one thing all your failures lead to
We don’t really know what’s best for us
Reaching for the things that we shouldn’t
Until one day when we close our eyes
And see that all the other pursuits were lies
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The night has lost its power
When you always feel darkness
Starlit streets can’t scare me
I barely noticed the crossover from day to night
I’ve become so familiar with the lonely AM
Some visit it
But I vacation there
No, that’s the wrong word
Because I didn’t choose this
However, it’s not imprisonment either
Far worse, it’s a complete indifference
There’s nothing human about creeping around the moon
Yet I feel as I always do
I desperately need to clutch onto something
But the desire has all but left
I used to crave sleep to put the day behind me
Anything for a fresh start
But now I avoid my bed - because I don’t want a new one to start
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Dear anxiety
What are you good for?
I’ve never had a friend give me such bad advice
And you are my friend, because we’re far too close to possibly be enemies
I just don’t see your point
Like a group of friends that do the same thing every week
Isn’t that just work?
But our friendship isn’t work
We live together like the finest couple
Really, we’re best friends
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I’m starting to relate to Jenny
When I was younger I thought she was the worst
Now I understand
She was capable of love
But it didn’t suit her
There was something else she offered the world
Doesn’t everyone grow their hair out at least once?
Well she was the moment you cut it off
That flash of empowerment
Addictive and euphoric but impossible to sustain
What everyone needs
But only temporarily
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The problem was
To me
You were everything I never had
And to you
I was nothing you couldn’t get again
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She never understood why I couldn’t keep both feet on the ground
Maybe it wasn’t because I couldn’t be tied down
Maybe I just wanted someone who was also willing to be vulnerable
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It’s so funny all those nights I thought my life was over
That you were the bookend
When really you were just a book that had too many pages
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I’d like to thank my ex
Because I have a lot of problems
And you helped point them all out
It made me realize I needed this time alone
I had to work on myself
It wouldn’t have been healthy to be with anyone else
And it’s not like I’m going to fix myself and start dating
Because there is no perfection
And fix isn’t the right word
But to think I used to believe I was close
I needed the sudden shatter to my reality
To start living the life I do now
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Mirror mirror on the wall
Who’s the one I’m staring at?
When did the lines under his eyes get so deep?
Are those wrinkles permanent now?
His resting face
I don’t understand it
So much has changed that I recognize the features like déjà vu
Has he given up?
Are the dreams still as colourful in his head?
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And I fight
So I can use the emotion
One day
Instead of it using me
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I let a girl mess me up
I’m still pulling together
So I play a few songs
I hope that you hear them
I grew out my hair
Would you still recognize me?
Cuz I’d hear you if I was deaf
Memorized all the ways I adore you
And I see how you walk in other girls
Seen your smile, and the way that you laugh
But no one can put it together, nobodies’ eyes, are as blue as your own
I can’t eat lasagna anymore
It’s like I’m cheating on you with your favourite
I deleted your number but I could still call you
It’s not easy to forget
What’s a song with no chorus?
I’m certain it’s lost
And you were my perfect refrain
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You hear the saying, “nothing good happens after 10pm,” but also everything happens
after 10pm. So many pivotal moments in life happen during the dying end of the day, or
everything happens at the beginning and nothing after.
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We forget the compliments and emphasize the negatives
Why?
Let the smallest flower marvel in their own brilliance
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Depths
The wind disturbs the lake
I stare at the pure blue pool
My reflection is perfect
I’m distraught as the breeze ruins the mirror
Ripples, hazing the image in my eye
Waves roll creating the 3rd dimension
I want to go deeper
Gusts swirl the perimeter
Whitecaps propel the painting in the water
I want more
Myself, so distorted and flawed
A tsunami couldn’t pacify me
Each trough I lose my identity
My repression
Reaches an inferno
I dive in
Depths of myself
Cold and dusty
Water chokes me
Drowning while I learn
My portrait wasn’t perfect
The storm took my shallow layers away
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I’ll weave these words into a blanket, but not for me
For you there’s never any fee
I can’t sing and honestly I’ve got no rhythm
But enough art to never fit a logarithm
Don’t let the sad songs confuse you, I’m a happy soul
It’s just past relationships have taken their toll
Thirsty but not tired I’ll keep soldiering on
Strong even though the girl is long gone
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Kalona
A lonely road, so lost that its curves search for meaning
Tucked away neatly so its presence is seen but not heard
A mantle top piece, for quiet consideration in the evening
Unjustly concealed by its ascribed status
Stalled of its growth like a backyard clematis
Merely a necessity, yet none can question its beauty
Sadly too few wonder if it can do more than just duty
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Sometimes I wonder if you think the same thing I do
One of us would have to pick up the phone
But I don’t know if either of our hearts could handle that
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I’m not sure if sad songs actually help when you’re depressed, but who can blame a
person desperate for comfort?
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But didn’t I save you with this poem?
Are those pills the only cure you know?
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The Thickest Wallpaper
The finest dressed man sat in the corner of the coffee shop
He is wallpaper, so he picked the most interesting design
What is life if ascribed to an empty room?
His passive existence, chained to the life of a spectator
Briefly hoping the intricacies of his appearance would act as a lighthouse, guiding more
souls into his life
Living for the fleeting moments where the words he hears pass the line of the superficial
The introvert’s greatest curse: lacking flint
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Don’t belittle someone’s problem. It may not seem like a big issue to you, but to them it is.
There was once a time when you probably stressed over the same thing, so who are you
to make someone feel worse? Build people, don’t judge them.
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Am I living in the present? Or am I just getting by, pushing through to another moment in
the future I’ve determined more pleasant? Enjoy the joy of everyday
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It would probably be easier if I stopped writing about you
But I dream about the day when my words slowly morph to someone else
And all you are is a couple throwaway verses I keep as a reminder
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The bird soars through the sky, seeing vantages we can only dream of. The sights from
above are remarkable, but can a bird comprehend beauty? Is its flight so routine it
becomes blind? I’ve longed to fly, to feel the wind in my hair as I view the masterpiece
below me. But please, clip my wings. Don’t let me fly. May I dream and yearn and never
allow art to just be a tint on my glasses.
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An old friend visited me today, I should have expected him. He always comes
unannounced, you know someone who always has bad timing? We were enemies for the
longest time, but the battle wore me down. I broke. I lost myself and kept digging. More
content to be in pain than to lose my pride. I lay in a hole with a ladder. At my lowest I had
to reach for him to help. It was weird, all my life I had shunned him, but he didn’t hesitate
to pull me out. I thought his hands would be covered in dirt, but I was shocked to see that
was only true for my own. His ugliness isn’t endearing, but we can function now at least.
The day I became friends with sadness, I conquered my largest beast.
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I can’t date a rose
I’ll always need to improve
While your scent draws me close the thorns pierce
Dooming me to never grow
Instead, let me meet fertilizer
Together we’ll become a garden
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I never knew the time when we were together
I only knew it was never enough
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I have no idea if I am progressing, that’s the hardest part. For all this time I should have
something to show for it, yet now it seems like I’ve barely crossed the starting line. I
changed, but I don’t know if it was a good change. My doubts still scream at me. The
checkered flag is so far away I don’t even know if there is one. There may be no end, and
I’m not sure which reality I prefer.
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I know I’m ready to give from my heart once again
I just don’t know if I can do it more than once
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“Are you sure that’s how you feel?” As if I didn’t wish I felt like anything except this. Ask me
this when I’m healing, please knock me down a step. Then tell me to just “be happy” and
coat the stairs I’m trying to climb back up with grease and tacks.
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My demons visited last night...
And by visiting I mean that they set fire to all the progress I had made since my breaking
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Lately, the worlds been in monochrome
I can’t escape this metronome
Trees look like skeletons now
Telephone rings irritate somehow
I don’t shake at the scary reels
There’s no capacity for goosebumps feels
Never eating it all tastes like orange juice and toothpaste
Wanting the reaper to make haste
I’m a stock photo that never got developed
Just another cog that’s been enveloped
Sometimes I fantasize about breaking the fourth wall
Till I realize I’d be as awful as Saul
Rather I let the hoarfrost gather on my features
When spring comes there’ll be no one in the bleachers
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I can’t fall for someone who’s a pack of cigarettes
The high is so brief but I ache when it’s gone
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I’ve given up
I’m always going to love you
I can’t say I don’t care when I do
I’m going to keep loving
And that’s okay
I know one day someone else will eclipse this feeling
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I don’t want to admit that I’m lonely, when I’m trying to be so strong. It’s natural to miss
the comfort of a body lying beside your own. Am I good enough to be by myself? I don’t
think that’s a question. None of us really are, we just manage to get by.
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But do you remember that week we lived at the beach?
The memories are too precious to ever throw away
But when I think about you that’s what hurts the most
I’m thankful there was a moment we loved each other so much
That no matter the pain I’ll never forget how special you are
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“Why did you drink so much?”
Because I woke up without the one I was dreaming about
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I’m never more alive than when I’m surrounded by art
That’s why I choose to be with you
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Will you be my mulligan?
I want it to go right
But I’m not sure I can
Because the others have always left
So let me try again
Just don’t get your hopes up
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I dreamt about you last night
I know that’s nothing new
But it was the first time
I wanted to wake up
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Don’t feel guilty we’re both lonely
I can tell because you cry when you hold me
Who do I remind you of?
How can love mark such a beautiful dove?
Right now you’re broken, filled with despair
What I’d give to be the one to do the repair
Like a gorgeous painting with an awful smear
I’ll add my colours till you become clear
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Those tiny movements
I feel those the most
Because when it all whirls by
I feel like I haven’t felt at all
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It’s not fair, a flower refused its sun
And it’s not fair to let you have hope in something that can never be reciprocated
And it’s not fair to ignore the elephant
And it’s not fair I made you feel this way
And it’s just not fair but I’m going to hurt you one more time
And it’s not fair but perhaps I can make my name into a fog
So one day it’s so hazy you can never recall it back
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Love is better without a lifejacket.
I know you’re scared, and frankly, I’m a terrible swimmer, but there’s nothing for us in the
kiddie pool.
Will you jump off the deep end with me?
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A curious spark lights the introvert
When another comes close enough to touch him
She’s shocked at first how her hand falls right through
He simply whispers, follow me
Vulnerability only exists in intimacy
He lays on the table
And hands her the tattoo gun
She puts the ink in so deep it’s like she never left a mark
But he’ll always know
Even though no one can see
Some feelings, which have been permanently etched, inside
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My world shook
When you said you loved me
Because I hate myself
And to meet a polar made my world turn upside down
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It’s not a drunk text
It wouldn’t have been different if I was sober
It just wouldn’t have been sent
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3rd Degree Burns
I don’t want to kiss your lips, can our souls touch instead? Rather than jumping under the
covers, how about I dive into your mind? Let me swim inside your thoughts, immerse in all
your dreams. Explore my body, but please go deeper. This heart has scars only you can
heal. I can hold your hand or I can hold you up. If we hug will we become one for a
moment? Your body is beautiful, but all I want is to look into your eyes. A galaxy is waiting
there to be marvelled, a world that can’t be mapped. Each day together forms our own
language. Nobody else can speak, nobody else can see.
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Those rare days of happiness remind you of why it’s worth fighting for
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Did you know I waited all my life to write you these poems?
I was committed to you before I even knew your soul
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The worst part about the first heartbreak is that for some reason we believe we only get
one chance at love. Like true love only exists in one person. No, love isn’t an eclipse you
get one chance to see, love is as plentiful as the openness of your heart