parenting your teen in 2012 - cigna...•have you ever ridden in a car driven by someone (including...
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Parenting Your Teen in 2016
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Overview
• Peer Pressure
• Family Pressure
• Depression
• Coping Mechanisms
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Peer Pressure
1. What is peer pressure
2. Who is affected by peer pressure?
3. In what ways are teens pressured today?
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Types of Peer Pressure
Acceptance
and
Fitting In
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Types of Peer Pressure
• Pressure to be Perfect
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Types of Peer Pressure
• Sexual Activity
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Types of Peer Pressure
• Bullying
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Social Media
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Types of Peer Pressure
• Success
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Family Pressure
• Family Expectations
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Depression
• Some Interesting Facts
– 8.3% of adolescents show signs of depression
– More teens die annually from suicide than from
all other illnesses combined.
– 1 in 5 have thought about suicide
– Every year 2 million high school students in the
US make a specific suicide plan
– Girls are 2 x as likely to attempt suicide
– Boys are 10 times more likely to die from suicide
attempts
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Depression
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Biology of Depression
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Physical Symptoms of Depression
• Headaches & Migraines
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Physical Symptoms of Depression
• Back pain
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Physical Symptoms of Depression
• Miscellaneous muscle and joint pain
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Physical Symptoms of Depression
• Chest Pain
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Physical Symptoms of Depression
• Digestive Problems
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Physical Symptoms of Depression
• Exhaustion and Fatigue
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Physical Symptoms of Depression
• Sleep Disturbances
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Physical Symptoms of Depression
• Changes in Appetite or Weight
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Coping Mechanisms
food
alcohol
drugs sex
cutting
Pressure
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Statistics
• More than 100,000 U.S. deaths are caused by excessive alcohol consumption each year. Direct and indirect causes of death include drunk driving, cirrhosis of the liver, falls, cancer, and stroke.
• 40% of all suicide attempts are alcohol-related.
• 80% of all domestic disputes are alcohol-related.
• Alcohol is involved in 50% of all driving fatalities
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Statistics
• In the United States, every 30 minutes someone is killed in an alcohol related traffic accident
• Over 15 million Americans have severe alcohol use disorders.
500,000 are between the age of 9 and 12.
• 40% of all suicide attempts are alcohol-related.
• 54% of all violent crimes are alcohol-related.
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Emergency Room Visits
• 60% of all emergency room admissions are alcohol-related.
• 21.2 percent involved illicit drugs
• 27.1 percent involved nonmedical use of pharmaceuticals
• Cocaine was involved in 422,896 ED visits
• Marijuana was involved in 376,467 ED visits
• Heroin was involved in 213,118 ED visits
• Stimulants, including amphetamines and methamphetamine, were involved in 93,562 ED visits
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Signs Your Loved One is Using • Change in friends • Change in style of dress • Loss of interest in hobbies/activities/sports • Lower grades in school • More secretive-less communication than usual • Increase isolation from family • Skipping School • Mood swings • Money missing/need more money
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Signs Your Loved One is Using
• Loss of interest in family activities • Disrespect for family rules • Withdrawal from responsibilities • Verbally or physically abusive • Sudden increase or decrease in appetite • Disappearance of valuable items or money • Coming home late or staying out without permission • Constant excuses for behavior • Spending a lot of time in their rooms
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Signs Your Loved One is Using
• Lies about what they are going to do • Lies about where they are going • Lies about who they are doing activities with • Finding the following: cigarette rolling papers, pipes,
roach clips, small glass vials, plastic baggies, remnants of drugs (seeds, etc.)
• Loss of interest in learning • Sleeping in school/class/work • Poor work performance • Not doing homework or working late more often • Reduced memory and attention span
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Signs Your Loved One is Using
• Smell of alcohol or marijuana on breath or body • Negative, argumentative, paranoid or confused,
destructive, anxious • Over-reacts to criticism acts rebellious • Doesn't seem as happy as they used to be • Overly tired or hyperactive • Drastic weight loss or gain • Cheats, steals
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Finding Help
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Levels of Care
Detoxification
Intensive Residential
Partial Hospitalization
Intensive Outpatient
Supportive Outpatient
12-Step Programs
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12-Step Groups
• AA
• NA
• CA
• Al-Anon
• APG
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CRAFT SCREENING TOOL
• Have you ever ridden in a car driven by
someone (including yourself) who was
“high” or had been using alcohol or drugs?
• Do you ever use alcohol or drugs to relax,
feel better about yourself or fit in?
• Do you ever use alcohol or drugs while you
are by yourself or alone?
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CRAFT SCREENING TOOL (continued)
• Do you ever forget things you did while using
alcohol or drugs?
• Do your family or friends ever tell you that you
should cut down on your drinking or drug use?
• Have you ever gotten into trouble while you
were using alcohol or drugs?
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Self-Assessment
CAGE
– Have you ever tried to Cut down?
– Have people Annoyed you by criticizing your
drinking/drug use?
– Have you ever felt Guilty about your drinking/drug
use?
– Have you Ever had a drink first thing in the morning
to steady your nerves or to get rid of a hangover?
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What Can You Do?
• Get help/don’t minimize • Talk about it • Don’t enable • If it doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t