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Palliation and Living Well –

Not a Contradiction

Living Well with Dementia

Conference

Alzheimer’s Australia August 22 2016, Sydney

Frank Brennan

Palliative Care Consultant

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• What is Palliative Care ?

• What is its role in dementia ?

• What are the needs of the person, their families

and carers ?

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• Hope and Dignity

• The importance of living well with an

illness

• Care of the dying person and care of the

grieving

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What is Palliative Care ?

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Bruce Dawe, the Queensland poet, wrote :

White -Water Rafting and Palliative Care

for my late wife, Gloria

If I had understood (when down the river

you and I went swirling in that boat)

that there were those who knew the ways of water

and how to use the oars to keep afloat

– I might have been less deafened by the worry,

less stunned by thoughts of what lay up ahead

(the rocks, the darkness threatening to capsize daily),

if I had only realised instead

that help was all around me for the asking

– I never asked, and therefore never knew

that such additional comfort could have helped me

in turn to be more help in comforting you.

I’d have found it easier then to simply hold you

instead of bobbing to and fro so much,

for it was you who seemed to be more tranquil

and I whom death was reaching out to touch.

If only I had had sufficient knowledge

in that white-water rafting I’d have learned

that there were those around us (with life jackets)

to whom I might have, in that turmoil, turned.

Instead, because I had not thought of rivers,

or rocks, or rapids, and gave way to fears

that seeking help might make a man less manly

and liable to betray himself with tears,

I was less useful then, as twilight deepened,

than I might well have been, had I but known:

however wild the waves that roll around us

– no one needs to live (or die) alone …

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WHO definition (2002)

Palliative Care is an approach which improves the quality of life of patients and their families facing life-threatening illness, through the prevention and relief of suffering by means of early identification and impeccable assessment and treatment of pain and other problems, physical, psychosocial and spiritual.

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“The doctor told us that the only thing

left for mum was palliative care.”

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Sense that all options must be explored

and exhausted before palliative care

should be involved.

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Setting up a contrast

between “Hope” and

“Hopelessness”.

You have crossed the

border into another

country.

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Modern view of Palliative Medicine

A. Early involvement : “There is wide

recognition that the principles of

palliative care should be applied as early

as possible in the course of any chronic,

ultimately fatal illness.”

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B. The concept of concurrent care

: that active care and palliative

care can and should occur

concurrently.

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C. That the introduction of a

palliative approach at the “death

–bed” is a set of missed

opportunities.

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Benefits of early involvement–

- reinforcement of idea of comfort.

- that symptom control is impeccable

throughout.

- establishing a rapport/trust

- demystifying analgesia (opioids)

- introducing idea of Community Pall Care

- helps avoid sense of abandonment

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D. That the palliative approach

involves more than simply pain relief.

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Palliative Care is more than caring for the

dying.

How then can a palliative approach

allow people to live better ?

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Dementia

• Patients

• Caregivers

• Family

• Health professionals

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Needs of the patient

• Physical

• Practical

• Emotional

• Spiritual

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Gradual change in memory and

ability to cope with daily activities

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Over time there will be

physical changes also.

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Speech

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Swallowing

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Appetite

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Walking around

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Continence

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We need to be very conscious

that each change is a loss and

source of grief for the patient and the family.

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These practical changes

are felt emotionally.

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Case

An 89 y.o. woman

Alzheimer’s Disease diagnosed 8 years ago.

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At the beginning

she was independent.

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Over time

things became more difficult.

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• She struggled managing.

• She began to lose interest in things

around her.

• Her family did their best to help.

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Eventually, after much deliberation, she was

admitted to a Nursing Home.

She settled in.

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It is 8 years after her diagnosis.

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• She now needs assistance with all her

daily activities.

• She wants to spend more time in bed.

• Recurrent episodes of aspiration

pneumonia

• Several hospital admissions - treated with

IV antibiotics, fluids, oxygen

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Speech Pathology review –

moderate difficulty with swallowing

consistent with her level of dementia.

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• Family worried about her “starving to

death”

• Should a feeding tube be inserted ?

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Is there a reversible cause for her poor

intake – oral thrush, depression, poor

dentition ?

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For patients with End stage Dementia

there is no evidence that artificial

nutrition/hydration prolongs life

or relieves suffering.

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Loss of appetite is a natural part of the

dying process.

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Symptoms of thirst can be relieved with

meticulous oral hygiene, sips of water,

Aquaspray, artificial saliva

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Nasogastric tube feeding does not decrease the risk of aspiration pneumonia,

Some studies actually show an increase.

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PEG tube insertion and maintenance have

complications.

Patients can suffer aspiration due to lying

too flat during feeding, bolus feeding and an

inability to swallow normal mouth and throat

secretions.

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If she has further episodes of pneumonia

and recognising that this will keep

happening

it may be best to stop treating her with

antibiotics and

simply try to get her comfortable and allow

the natural process of dying to take place.

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The ‘living well” in this whole process of

change upon change

requires a meticulous attention to detail.

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1. Communication

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2. Symptom control

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Pain and dementia

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Several studies highlight the poor

recognition and treatment of pain

in Nursing Homes.

Corbett et al 2012; McAuliffe et al 2009.

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Geriatric patients with hip fractures receive

inadequate pain control, especially if

suffering from cognitive impairment.

Feldt KS et al. J Am Ger Soc (1998) 46: 1079-1085;

Morrison R et al JPSM (2000) 19:240-248.

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People with end stage dementia receive less

medications for pain than patients without

dementia.

Australian Pain Society, 2005.

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Cognitive impairment and communication

difficulties contribute to pain being

unrecognised.

Morrison, Siu, 2000

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Why is pain assessment difficult ?

Short term memory loss –taking history of pain or medication effect is difficult or impossible.

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May be very difficult for the patient

to show where it hurts or

describe how much it hurts.

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Distress may be caused by many things

and can be due to the Dementia itself

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What can help : cause

• Overview of the medical problems – could

they relate to pain ?

• For example if known hip arthritis, this may

relate to resident screaming when legs are

moved.

• Peptic ulcer disease or reflux may relate to

discomfort when eating or after meals.

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Always look for pressure areas/ulcers

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What can help : severity

• Does it wake them up ?

• Do they grimace with only light touch or being

disturbed by noise ?

• Do they cry out ?

• Depressed mood, sleep disturbance, decreased

appetite, behavioural disturbance

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What can help : localisation and

radiation

• Person may be able to point

• Skin sensitive to touch in painful areas

• Not moving a limb

• Not able to weight bear

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Painful pressure sores

• Treat any reversible cause

• Topical morphine gel 0.1 % ; excellent

results

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Shingles

• Commence antiviral medication urgently

• Analgesia is vital – early use of anti-

neuropathic pain agents

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Pain etiquette

• ENQUIRE REGULARLY

• RESPOND COMPASSIONATELY

• TREAT COMPETENTLY

• REFER WISELY

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Principles of pain management

1. Always enquire about pain.

2. Treat the underlying cause of the pain.

3. Treat the pain meticulously.

4. Treat the pain proportionately.

5. Constantly reassess.

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Bowels

• Constipation is common in the elderly

• Risk factors – immobility, opioids,

depression, hypothyroidism, autonomic

neuropathy, hemorrhoids

• Treatment – combination of softeners and

stimulants

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3. Support for the family

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Caregiver burden

• Physical burden of care

• Emotional toll

• Frustration, guilt, irritation with other family

members, relative social isolation, the

competing interests of other generations,

exhaustion

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How can we possibly help their situation ?

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Physical supports

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How equipped and able are local services

to set things up at home for carers ?

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Emotional support

“Family caregivers’ impression of having

been listened to by health professionals

improves well-being and clinical outcomes

for both the patient and the caregiver.”

Oxford Textbook of Palliative Medicine, 3rd ed, p.939.

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4. Support for the carers

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Role of Nursing Homes

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Dementia is the main reason

for admission to a Nursing Home.

Van Rensbergen, Nawrot 2010

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Half of all residents in

Australian Nursing Homes

have a diagnosis of dementia.

Australian Institute of Health and Welfare 2009

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What is the level of training in the care of

persons with dementia, support and wages

and conditions of nursing staff in

Nursing Homes ?

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What is the access to, and level of training in

the care of persons with dementia by,

doctors in Nursing Homes ?

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Elements of living well :

1. Communication

2. Symptom management

3. Support for the family

4. Support for the carers

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HOPE

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The preservation and

maintenance of hope

Resetting the focus of care

I agree that there is no hope for

cure, but there is hope that you

will be comfortable and

supported throughout.

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Not be abandoned.

Always be listened to.

All symptoms treated to the best of our ability.

Will not needlessly suffer.

Treated with respect and dignity at all times.

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There are three things that now become

very important for people with dementia :

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Dignity

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Love

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Legacy

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Gilgamesh by Spencer Reece

When we visited your Aunt Annie in the nursing home,

her walker dominated the room like a kennel.

She did not know who I was, her senility rendering me oblique.

Long ago, when your mother died,

your father sent a letter and a photograph of the four children to Killeen,

asking Aunt Annie to come. As she strove across the sea,

she watched the Connemara ponies disappear,

then Knock, Letterfrack, Roundstone, and Cashel Bay blurred,

blurred and blurred until there was nothing but green.

She left Ireland for good and raised you

and your three sisters – Joan, Ann, and Maureen.

In America, she went about her days unseen.

On her day off, she lit four candles for each one of you

at the Shrine of St. Anthony on Arch Street, in Boston.

She never married. She adored you.

When we visited, she kept saying :

“Paul, Paul, I have to get the cows across the stream.”

Poetry, Volume 196, Number 1, April 2010.

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As things change and become more difficult

decisions may need to be made.

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Ethical issues

Who gives consent to treatment ?

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Should every medical presentation be

treated actively without exception ?

- UTI, pneumonia, hip fracture

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Nutrition and hydration

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• Goals of care – is treatment aimed at cure

of the complication (eg.pneumonia) or

simply relieving symptoms ?

• Cardiopulmonary resuscitation.

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End of Life

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The Terminal Phase

• Care remains important for the patient and

especially the family.

• Their view of the manner of dying and the

care given will have a major effect on their

bereavement and will echo down the years

in the way they view death.

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“I’m sorry there is nothing

more we can do.”

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The Terminal Phase

FOR THE PATIENT :

1. Comfortable bed, pressure mattress.

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2. Cease unnecessary medications.

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3. If patient is not swallowing,

cease oral medications and use sci medications. Consider converting all necessary medications into a syringe driver.

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The Terminal Phase

4. Pain – look carefully for signs of

discomfort on moving and turning.

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5. Agitation/restlessness – Midazolam.

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Terminal Phase

6. Terminal secretions – Atropine drops, Hyoscine,

Glycopyrolate, Buscopan

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7. Mouth care –

moist mouth – water spray; cotton

sticks.

8. In-dwelling catheter

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Terminal Phase

FOR THE FAMILY:

Ensure there is an open comforting

environment for the family.

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Terminal Phase

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT

Physical care of themselves – “Are you

eating ? Are you sleeping ? …Everyday

take a break…You are each other’s

greatest allies. Look after each other.”

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If I had but two loaves of bread I would sell one and

buy hyacinths, for they would feed my soul.

Sheikh Muslih-al Din Sadi, 13th century Persian poet.

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For the

Health Professionals

• Need to acknowledge the cumulative

effect of our work on ourselves.

• Need to take care of ourselves and

each other.

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Grief

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After a loved one dies, waves of grief roll

onto to the shore of ourselves. Those waves

can be overwhelming.

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The grieving will need to speak. They may

not want to speak every time you see them.

But at some time they will want to do so. Be

ready to listen to those that are grieving. To

be listened to is precious. Blessed are the

listeners for they bear the greatest gift to the

grieving.

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Writing in The Irish Times Marie Murray states :

Listening is more than hearing. It is heeding.

It is concentration. It is paying attention…

Listening is silencing one’s own voice to hear someone else.

It is wanting to know rather than wishing to inform.

It is suspension of self in the service of other. It is not giving

advice, providing solutions or solving problems.

It is silent. It is unselfish. It is reverential. It is healing.

[i] Murray M. The Art of Listening. Irish Times, 2007.

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But how often does the opposite happen ?

When comments are said to the bereaved

person : ‘Please don’t upset yourself’, ‘Don’t

dwell on it’, ‘Isn’t it time you moved on’,

‘After his illness it must be a blessing’, ‘Well

that’s life isn’t it ?’ ‘Well, after all, he’d had a

good innings’ or, of you, ‘Surely she must be

over it by now.’

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Well meaning but false, sometimes cruel,

belittling the sheer size of what’s happened,

of what you are going through, of what that

person meant to you.

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And one of the commonest mistakes we can

make is to assume that, simply because the

person who died was elderly or had

dementia, that the family will feel less grief.

Grief is vast, grief is mysterious and grief

does not respect age.

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Memories, language, mortality, grief.

It is right that we think of these things.

We may or may not speak of them but they

are there.

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No one of us are the same. No one of us will

experience this the same way. For we are

both unique and mortal. Therein lies our

sorrow. But therein also lies our grace.

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Other pieces of literature …

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A Very Easy Death

by Simone de Beauvoir

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“I did not understand that one might sincerely weep for a relative, a grandfather aged seventy or more.

If I met a woman of fifty overcome with sadness because she had just lost her mother, I thought her neurotic : we were all mortal; at eighty you are quite old enough to be one of the dead. But it is not true. You do not die from being born, nor from having lived, nor from old age. You die from something.”

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“The knowledge that because of her age my mother’s life must soon come to an end did not lessen the horrible surprise…it is as violent and unforeseen as a plane engine stopping in the middle of the sky…There is no such thing as a natural death: nothing that happens to a man is ever natural, since his presence calls the world into question. All men must die : but for every man his death is an accident and, even if he knows it and consents to it, an unjustifiable violation.”

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Patrick Kavanagh

Memory of My Father

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Every old man I see

Reminds me of my father

When he had fallen in love with death

One time when sheaves were gathered.

Every old man I see

In October-coloured weather

Seems to say to me :

“I was once your father.”

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