our common predicament: a psychodynamic perspective
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Our Common Predicament: a psychodynamic perspective
from Daniel Keeran, MSW, President,
College of Mental Health Counseling
Because of loss of parental caring, we may be attracted to a partner whom we
perceive to be uncaring yet somehow (perhaps unconsciously) familiar to us, and
we may perceive this partner as less caring than they are. One may confuse
unfinished anger toward the uncaring parent with anger toward the perceived
uncaring partner.
Who can deliver us from our predicament if not we ourselves? Remember, the
predicament of the perceived uncaring partner is just as grave, for s/he must
consider why s/he was chosen and also chose the other, as well as the dynamics
of symmetry and complementary interactive patterns in the relationship.
Must we extend grace to each other in order remain in relationship? No doubt,
yet grace does not excuse or relieve us from our predicament and may at times
involve careful reasoned confrontation of ourselves and others.
- a counsellor at WWW.CTIHALIFAX.COM