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Order of Service Wednesday ~ April 25, 2012
Visitation: 11:00AM ~ Service: 11:30AM
Mt. Zion Congregational Church UCC
10723 Magnolia Drive ~ Cleveland, Ohio 44106
Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr., Officiating
Organ Prelude ~ Lavert Stuart
Processional ~ Opening Sentences
Call to Memorial Worship And Invocation
Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr.
Hymn of Consolation
“Amazing Grace”
Scripture Lesson ~ Deacons
Old Testament ~ Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
New Testament ~ John 14:1-6
Selection
“Soon I Will Be Done”
Pat Harris
Acknowledgement/Resolutions
Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr./Deacons
Tributes
Rev. Chelton Flannigan
Pastor, Holy Trinity Baptist Church
The Honorable Raymond J. Grabow
Former Mayor of Warrensville Heights
Obituary ~ Read Silently
Selection
“Come Sunday”
Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr.
Eulogy ~ Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr.
Benediction
Recessional
“Going Up Yonder”
Pat Harris
Organ Postlude ~ Lavert Stuart
Obituary
Albert Junius Carter was born June 18, 1929 to the union of Robert A.
Carter, Sr. and Clara Giles Carter in Wickliffe, Ohio. He had one brother,
Robert, A. Jr., and two sisters, Jean and Katherine.
Although he was born in Ohio and went to both Bolton Elementary
School and Rawlings Junior High School in Cleveland, he subsequently
attended and graduated from the historic St. Emma Military Academy in
Rock Castle, Virginia.
He married Edith J. Butts on February 22, 1952,
and had one daughter, Kim Renee, born February 1,
1957. He worked for the Cleveland Transit System
(the predecessor agency to the Regional Transit
Authority) and the Ohio Department of Liquor
Control. He also was an entrepreneur, the operator of
the Subway Record Shop, and an investigator for the
McCoy adjustment firm.
Subsequently, he was employed as a Housing
Inspector and Assistant Building Commissioner for the City of Warrensville
Heights. Raymond J. Grabow, Mayor of Warrensville Heights, appointed
him in 1978 to serve in the position for which he is most well-known –- the
Liaison Director, Chief of Administrative Staff, and Assistant to the Mayor -
– a position in which he served until his retirement in 2000.
He was a member of Holy Trinity Baptist Church. He was involved in a
wide-range of activities, such as the NAACP; the Cleveland Urban League;
the Cleveland Businessmen’s Association; the Warrensville Heights
Democratic Club (serving as Ward Leader for 12 years); the Warrensville
Heights P.A.L. Association (serving two terms as Vice President); the
Warrensville Heights Board of Zoning Appeals; and the Warrensville
Heights Charter Review Board (serving as Chairman).
He was a firm believer in the adage that “clothes make the man,” and
held the view that the impression given by your appearance can be an
important contributor to your success. Thus, he was always immaculately
and stylishly dressed, and well-groomed, and, wherever he went, he always
carried a new dress shirt and tie in the trunk of his car, so he would never be
at a disadvantage if his shirt or tie were accidentally stained.
Above all else, he greatly adored his wife, Edith, and daughter, Kim. He
was a very loving and nurturing husband and father. He had a very outgoing
and gregarious personality, and he enjoyed participating with his wife in
many social events and activities. He enjoyed dancing and had a great love
of music, particularly jazz and rhythm and blues.
Throughout his life, he was an optimistic person, who was always upbeat
no matter how difficult the circumstances he faced. He remained positive
even as his health issues mounted. He also believed that taking positive
action was preferable to not taking action at all. In fact, his favorite saying,
which he never tired of repeating to his family and friends, was that:
“Nothing comes to a sleeper but a dream.”
He was preceded in death by parents (Robert, Sr. and Clara); wife
(Edith); brother (Robert, Jr.-wife, Vivian); sister (Katherine-husband, Arthur
Redmond); step-son (Alan Butts); and granddaughter (Kasey Foster). He is
survived by daughter, Kim Burke (R. Bruce); sister, Jean Kincaid (Richard,
deceased); grandsons, Antonio Burke (Taylor) and Alan Butts, Jr.; cousin,
LaForne Crumbs; and cousins, nieces, nephews, grand nieces, grand
nephews, brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, and many friends and loved ones.
“If Tomorrow Never Comes”
If I knew it would be the last time I’d see you fall asleep, I would tuck you in
more tightly and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time that I see you walk out the door, I would
give you a hug and kiss and call you back for one more.
If I knew it would be the last time I’d hear your voice lifted up in praise, I
would video tape each action and word so I could play them back day after
day.
If I knew it would be the last time, I could spare an extra minute or two to
stop and say I love you, instead of ASSUMING you would KNOW I do.
If I knew it would be the last time I would be there to share your day, well,
I’m sure you’ll have so many more, so I can let “just this one” slip away.
For surely there’s always tomorrow to make up for an oversight, and we
always get a second chance to make everything right.
There will always be another day to say our I love you’s, and certainly
there’s another chance to say our “Anything I can do’s?
But just in case I might be wrong and today is all I get, I’d like to say how
much I love you and I hope we never forget,
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike, and today may be
the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight.
So, if you’re waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today? For if tomorrow
never comes, you’ll surely regret the day,
That you didn’t take that extra time for a smile,
a hug, or a kiss and you were too busy to grant
someone, what turned out to be their one last
wish.
So hold your loved ones close today, whisper in
their ear, Tell them how much you love them
and that you’ll always hold them dear,
Take time to say “I’m sorry, please forgive
me,” “thank you” or “it’s okay.” And if
tomorrow never comes, you’ll have no regrets
about today.
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The TwentyThe TwentyThe TwentyThe Twenty----Third PsalmThird PsalmThird PsalmThird Psalm The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures.
He leadeth me beside the still waters
He restoreth my soul, He leadeth me in the paths
of righteousness for His name’s sake.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the
shadow of death, I will fear no evil
For Thou art with me, thy rod and thy staff
they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the
presence of mine enemies.
Thou anointest my head with oil,
My cup runneth over,
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
all the days of my life and I will dwell in the
house of the Lord, FOREVER.
Interment Lake View Cemetery
12612 Euclid Avenue
Cleveland, Ohio (Drivers, please turn on lights during processional for your safety)
Pallbearers Antonio M. Burke Alan K Butts Jr.
Robert A. Carter III Quentin Kincaid
Preston Parker Kenneth Pinkston
Honorary Pallbearers Paul J. Carter Earvin Coleman
Matthew Cook Jimmy Hutchinson
Leroy Thompson William Parker
Richard Lambert Sam McDonald
Carl Ware Charles Barnes
Flower Attendants Family & Friends
Repast Please join us for a meal following the interment at
Mt. Zion Congregational Church UCC
I Thought About You With Love Today I thought of you with love today
but that is nothing new,
I thought about you yesterday and
the days before them too.
I think of you in silence,
I often speak your name,
now all I have is memories,
and your picture in a frame,
your memory is my treasure,
with which I’ll never part,
I know you’re up there in heaven,
but you’re down here in my heart.
Daddy, I Love You!
Author Unknown
Submitted by: Your Loving Daughter
Acknowledgement
The family of Albert J. Carter acknowledges with deep appreciation the
kindness, the friendship, the companionship, and the assistance provided to
him by his close friends and relatives in his final years. The family would
like to express a very special thank you to Earvin Coleman, Gloria Foster,
Mr. & Mrs. Charles Barnes, and the Honorable Raymond J. Grabow and
Mrs. Grabow.
Final Arrangement Entrusted To:
E. F. Boyd & Son Funeral Home 2165 East 89th Street ~ Cleveland, Ohio
25900 Emery Road ~ Warrensville Hts., Ohio
15357 Euclid Avenue ~ East Cleveland, Ohio
~216.791.0770~ www.efboyd.com
Glen-Cor Publishing & DeZigns (216) 233-7072 ~ “We Dare 2-B Different”
In Loving Memory
of
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