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Order of Service Wednesday ~ April 25, 2012 Visitation: 11:00AM ~ Service: 11:30AM Mt. Zion Congregational Church UCC 10723 Magnolia Drive ~ Cleveland, Ohio 44106 Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr., Officiating Organ Prelude ~ Lavert Stuart Processional ~ Opening Sentences Call to Memorial Worship And Invocation Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr. Hymn of Consolation “Amazing Grace” Scripture Lesson ~ Deacons Old Testament ~ Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 New Testament ~ John 14:1-6 Selection “Soon I Will Be Done” Pat Harris Acknowledgement/Resolutions Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr./Deacons Tributes Rev. Chelton Flannigan Pastor, Holy Trinity Baptist Church The Honorable Raymond J. Grabow Former Mayor of Warrensville Heights Obituary ~ Read Silently Selection “Come Sunday” Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr. Eulogy ~ Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr. Benediction Recessional “Going Up Yonder” Pat Harris Organ Postlude ~ Lavert Stuart Obituary Albert Junius Carter was born June 18, 1929 to the union of Robert A. Carter, Sr. and Clara Giles Carter in Wickliffe, Ohio. He had one brother, Robert, A. Jr., and two sisters, Jean and Katherine. Although he was born in Ohio and went to both Bolton Elementary School and Rawlings Junior High School in Cleveland, he subsequently attended and graduated from the historic St. Emma Military Academy in Rock Castle, Virginia. He married Edith J. Butts on February 22, 1952, and had one daughter, Kim Renee, born February 1, 1957. He worked for the Cleveland Transit System (the predecessor agency to the Regional Transit Authority) and the Ohio Department of Liquor Control. He also was an entrepreneur, the operator of the Subway Record Shop, and an investigator for the McCoy adjustment firm. Subsequently, he was employed as a Housing Inspector and Assistant Building Commissioner for the City of Warrensville Heights. Raymond J. Grabow, Mayor of Warrensville Heights, appointed him in 1978 to serve in the position for which he is most well-known –- the Liaison Director, Chief of Administrative Staff, and Assistant to the Mayor - – a position in which he served until his retirement in 2000. He was a member of Holy Trinity Baptist Church. He was involved in a wide-range of activities, such as the NAACP; the Cleveland Urban League; the Cleveland Businessmen’s Association; the Warrensville Heights Democratic Club (serving as Ward Leader for 12 years); the Warrensville Heights P.A.L. Association (serving two terms as Vice President); the Warrensville Heights Board of Zoning Appeals; and the Warrensville Heights Charter Review Board (serving as Chairman). He was a firm believer in the adage that “clothes make the man,” and held the view that the impression given by your appearance can be an important contributor to your success. Thus, he was always immaculately and stylishly dressed, and well-groomed, and, wherever he went, he always carried a new dress shirt and tie in the trunk of his car, so he would never be at a disadvantage if his shirt or tie were accidentally stained. Above all else, he greatly adored his wife, Edith, and daughter, Kim. He was a very loving and nurturing husband and father. He had a very outgoing and gregarious personality, and he enjoyed participating with his wife in many social events and activities. He enjoyed dancing and had a great love of music, particularly jazz and rhythm and blues. Throughout his life, he was an optimistic person, who was always upbeat no matter how difficult the circumstances he faced. He remained positive even as his health issues mounted. He also believed that taking positive action was preferable to not taking action at all. In fact, his favorite saying, which he never tired of repeating to his family and friends, was that: “Nothing comes to a sleeper but a dream.” He was preceded in death by parents (Robert, Sr. and Clara); wife (Edith); brother (Robert, Jr.-wife, Vivian); sister (Katherine-husband, Arthur Redmond); step-son (Alan Butts); and granddaughter (Kasey Foster). He is survived by daughter, Kim Burke (R. Bruce); sister, Jean Kincaid (Richard, deceased); grandsons, Antonio Burke (Taylor) and Alan Butts, Jr.; cousin, LaForne Crumbs; and cousins, nieces, nephews, grand nieces, grand nephews, brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, and many friends and loved ones. “If Tomorrow Never Comes” If I knew it would be the last time I’d see you fall asleep, I would tuck you in more tightly and pray the Lord, your soul to keep. If I knew it would be the last time that I see you walk out the door, I would give you a hug and kiss and call you back for one more. If I knew it would be the last time I’d hear your voice lifted up in praise, I would video tape each action and word so I could play them back day after day. If I knew it would be the last time, I could spare an extra minute or two to stop and say I love you, instead of ASSUMING you would KNOW I do. If I knew it would be the last time I would be there to share your day, well, I’m sure you’ll have so many more, so I can let “just this one” slip away. For surely there’s always tomorrow to make up for an oversight, and we always get a second chance to make everything right. There will always be another day to say our I love you’s, and certainly there’s another chance to say our “Anything I can do’s? But just in case I might be wrong and today is all I get, I’d like to say how much I love you and I hope we never forget, Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike, and today may be the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight. So, if you’re waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today? For if tomorrow never comes, you’ll surely regret the day, That you didn’t take that extra time for a smile, a hug, or a kiss and you were too busy to grant someone, what turned out to be their one last wish. So hold your loved ones close today, whisper in their ear, Tell them how much you love them and that you’ll always hold them dear, Take time to say “I’m sorry, please forgive me,” “thank you” or “it’s okay.” And if tomorrow never comes, you’ll have no regrets about today.

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  • Order of Service Wednesday ~ April 25, 2012

    Visitation: 11:00AM ~ Service: 11:30AM

    Mt. Zion Congregational Church UCC

    10723 Magnolia Drive ~ Cleveland, Ohio 44106

    Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr., Officiating

    Organ Prelude ~ Lavert Stuart

    Processional ~ Opening Sentences

    Call to Memorial Worship And Invocation

    Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr.

    Hymn of Consolation

    “Amazing Grace”

    Scripture Lesson ~ Deacons

    Old Testament ~ Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

    New Testament ~ John 14:1-6

    Selection

    “Soon I Will Be Done”

    Pat Harris

    Acknowledgement/Resolutions

    Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr./Deacons

    Tributes

    Rev. Chelton Flannigan

    Pastor, Holy Trinity Baptist Church

    The Honorable Raymond J. Grabow

    Former Mayor of Warrensville Heights

    Obituary ~ Read Silently

    Selection

    “Come Sunday”

    Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr.

    Eulogy ~ Rev. Paul Hobson Sadler, Sr.

    Benediction

    Recessional

    “Going Up Yonder”

    Pat Harris

    Organ Postlude ~ Lavert Stuart

    Obituary

    Albert Junius Carter was born June 18, 1929 to the union of Robert A.

    Carter, Sr. and Clara Giles Carter in Wickliffe, Ohio. He had one brother,

    Robert, A. Jr., and two sisters, Jean and Katherine.

    Although he was born in Ohio and went to both Bolton Elementary

    School and Rawlings Junior High School in Cleveland, he subsequently

    attended and graduated from the historic St. Emma Military Academy in

    Rock Castle, Virginia.

    He married Edith J. Butts on February 22, 1952,

    and had one daughter, Kim Renee, born February 1,

    1957. He worked for the Cleveland Transit System

    (the predecessor agency to the Regional Transit

    Authority) and the Ohio Department of Liquor

    Control. He also was an entrepreneur, the operator of

    the Subway Record Shop, and an investigator for the

    McCoy adjustment firm.

    Subsequently, he was employed as a Housing

    Inspector and Assistant Building Commissioner for the City of Warrensville

    Heights. Raymond J. Grabow, Mayor of Warrensville Heights, appointed

    him in 1978 to serve in the position for which he is most well-known –- the

    Liaison Director, Chief of Administrative Staff, and Assistant to the Mayor -

    – a position in which he served until his retirement in 2000.

    He was a member of Holy Trinity Baptist Church. He was involved in a

    wide-range of activities, such as the NAACP; the Cleveland Urban League;

    the Cleveland Businessmen’s Association; the Warrensville Heights

    Democratic Club (serving as Ward Leader for 12 years); the Warrensville

    Heights P.A.L. Association (serving two terms as Vice President); the

    Warrensville Heights Board of Zoning Appeals; and the Warrensville

    Heights Charter Review Board (serving as Chairman).

    He was a firm believer in the adage that “clothes make the man,” and

    held the view that the impression given by your appearance can be an

    important contributor to your success. Thus, he was always immaculately

    and stylishly dressed, and well-groomed, and, wherever he went, he always

    carried a new dress shirt and tie in the trunk of his car, so he would never be

    at a disadvantage if his shirt or tie were accidentally stained.

    Above all else, he greatly adored his wife, Edith, and daughter, Kim. He

    was a very loving and nurturing husband and father. He had a very outgoing

    and gregarious personality, and he enjoyed participating with his wife in

    many social events and activities. He enjoyed dancing and had a great love

    of music, particularly jazz and rhythm and blues.

    Throughout his life, he was an optimistic person, who was always upbeat

    no matter how difficult the circumstances he faced. He remained positive

    even as his health issues mounted. He also believed that taking positive

    action was preferable to not taking action at all. In fact, his favorite saying,

    which he never tired of repeating to his family and friends, was that:

    “Nothing comes to a sleeper but a dream.”

    He was preceded in death by parents (Robert, Sr. and Clara); wife

    (Edith); brother (Robert, Jr.-wife, Vivian); sister (Katherine-husband, Arthur

    Redmond); step-son (Alan Butts); and granddaughter (Kasey Foster). He is

    survived by daughter, Kim Burke (R. Bruce); sister, Jean Kincaid (Richard,

    deceased); grandsons, Antonio Burke (Taylor) and Alan Butts, Jr.; cousin,

    LaForne Crumbs; and cousins, nieces, nephews, grand nieces, grand

    nephews, brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, and many friends and loved ones.

    “If Tomorrow Never Comes”

    If I knew it would be the last time I’d see you fall asleep, I would tuck you in

    more tightly and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.

    If I knew it would be the last time that I see you walk out the door, I would

    give you a hug and kiss and call you back for one more.

    If I knew it would be the last time I’d hear your voice lifted up in praise, I

    would video tape each action and word so I could play them back day after

    day.

    If I knew it would be the last time, I could spare an extra minute or two to

    stop and say I love you, instead of ASSUMING you would KNOW I do.

    If I knew it would be the last time I would be there to share your day, well,

    I’m sure you’ll have so many more, so I can let “just this one” slip away.

    For surely there’s always tomorrow to make up for an oversight, and we

    always get a second chance to make everything right.

    There will always be another day to say our I love you’s, and certainly

    there’s another chance to say our “Anything I can do’s?

    But just in case I might be wrong and today is all I get, I’d like to say how

    much I love you and I hope we never forget,

    Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike, and today may be

    the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight.

    So, if you’re waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today? For if tomorrow

    never comes, you’ll surely regret the day,

    That you didn’t take that extra time for a smile,

    a hug, or a kiss and you were too busy to grant

    someone, what turned out to be their one last

    wish.

    So hold your loved ones close today, whisper in

    their ear, Tell them how much you love them

    and that you’ll always hold them dear,

    Take time to say “I’m sorry, please forgive

    me,” “thank you” or “it’s okay.” And if

    tomorrow never comes, you’ll have no regrets

    about today.

  • The TwentyThe TwentyThe TwentyThe Twenty----Third PsalmThird PsalmThird PsalmThird Psalm The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want

    He maketh me to lie down in green pastures.

    He leadeth me beside the still waters

    He restoreth my soul, He leadeth me in the paths

    of righteousness for His name’s sake.

    Yea, though I walk through the valley of the

    shadow of death, I will fear no evil

    For Thou art with me, thy rod and thy staff

    they comfort me.

    Thou preparest a table before me in the

    presence of mine enemies.

    Thou anointest my head with oil,

    My cup runneth over,

    Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me

    all the days of my life and I will dwell in the

    house of the Lord, FOREVER.

    Interment Lake View Cemetery

    12612 Euclid Avenue

    Cleveland, Ohio (Drivers, please turn on lights during processional for your safety)

    Pallbearers Antonio M. Burke Alan K Butts Jr.

    Robert A. Carter III Quentin Kincaid

    Preston Parker Kenneth Pinkston

    Honorary Pallbearers Paul J. Carter Earvin Coleman

    Matthew Cook Jimmy Hutchinson

    Leroy Thompson William Parker

    Richard Lambert Sam McDonald

    Carl Ware Charles Barnes

    Flower Attendants Family & Friends

    Repast Please join us for a meal following the interment at

    Mt. Zion Congregational Church UCC

    I Thought About You With Love Today I thought of you with love today

    but that is nothing new,

    I thought about you yesterday and

    the days before them too.

    I think of you in silence,

    I often speak your name,

    now all I have is memories,

    and your picture in a frame,

    your memory is my treasure,

    with which I’ll never part,

    I know you’re up there in heaven,

    but you’re down here in my heart.

    Daddy, I Love You!

    Author Unknown

    Submitted by: Your Loving Daughter

    Acknowledgement

    The family of Albert J. Carter acknowledges with deep appreciation the

    kindness, the friendship, the companionship, and the assistance provided to

    him by his close friends and relatives in his final years. The family would

    like to express a very special thank you to Earvin Coleman, Gloria Foster,

    Mr. & Mrs. Charles Barnes, and the Honorable Raymond J. Grabow and

    Mrs. Grabow.

    Final Arrangement Entrusted To:

    E. F. Boyd & Son Funeral Home 2165 East 89th Street ~ Cleveland, Ohio

    25900 Emery Road ~ Warrensville Hts., Ohio

    15357 Euclid Avenue ~ East Cleveland, Ohio

    ~216.791.0770~ www.efboyd.com

    Glen-Cor Publishing & DeZigns (216) 233-7072 ~ “We Dare 2-B Different”

    In Loving Memory

    of

    Albert Junius CarterAlbert Junius CarterAlbert Junius CarterAlbert Junius Carter June 18, 1929 ~ April 20, 2012