ooops! i didn't mean it to come out that way
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A presentation by Scott "Q" Marcus on how to handle difficult people and how to stay free of conflict.TRANSCRIPT
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OOPS!I didn’t mean it to come out that way.
Scott “Q” MarcusTHINspirational Speaker & Recovering Perfectionist
707.442.6243 • [email protected]
The Reasons
‣ Shoulds
‣ Disqualifying
‣ Inappropriate Rescue
‣ Perfectionism
‣ Boundary Violation
‣ Selective Viewing6
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Persecutor (“It’s Always Your Fault!”)
Rescuer(“Let Me Fix It For You.”)
Victim (“It’s Not My Fault!”)
Drama!
Assertion
Competition
Avoidance
Compromise
Accommodation
Collaboration
Uniting
Cooperation10
Security
Not Real
Too Complex
Unimportant
Win-Win