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LEAD Session Delivered at NSC 2013TRANSCRIPT
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LEAD India 2013 National Strategic Conference
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Leadership Learning
Innovation
LEAD INDIA: KEY THEMES
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Last time we were together… The Headlines in the 21st Century The leaders that India will need Your own future leadership profile Your own unique strengths Putting our strengths into action
AIESEC INDIA - Grow3
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Grow3 We grow our results by growing ourselves
& others
TODAY
1 BELIEF MORNING
LUNCH
2 BEHAVIOUR AFTERNOON
AFTERNOON TEA
3 PRACTICE LAB EVENING
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PRINCIPLES
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Humanity doing “THE NEVER”:
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Welcome to AIESEC India Space Camp
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Moon Landing
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THE SITUATION • You are a member of a space crew scheduled to
rendezvous with a mother ship on the lighted surface of the moon. However, due to mechanical difficul=es, your own ship was forced to land at a spot 200 miles from the rendezvous point.
• During re-‐entry and landing, much of the equipment aboard was damaged and, since survival depends on reaching the mother ship, the most cri=cal items available must be chosen for the 200-‐mile trip.
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YOUR MOON LANDING CHALLENGE • 15 items are listed as being intact and
undamaged aFer landing (on your handout).
• Your task is to rank them in terms of their importance for your crew, to allow them to reach the rendezvous point.
• Place the number 1 by the most important item, the number 2 by the second most important, and so on through to number 15 for the least important. In column A.
• You have 10 minutes to make your individual ranking now in silence (no talking).
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OUR MOON LANDING CHALLENGE • Form groups of 4 people with those around
you.
• Together you will make a collecFve ranking of the importance of the 15 items.
• Discuss your individual choices and refine them based on the group’s collec=ve thoughts. Record your group’s ranking in column B.
• You have 15 minutes to make your group ranking now (by talking & listening ;)
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HOW DID YOU SCORE? • On the following slide you will see the expert ranking of the
items from NASA which will help us calculate & compare scores. • For each item, copy the NASA ranking onto the far left column
of your score sheet.
EXAMPLE 15
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EXPERT RANKING • For each item, copy the NASA ranking onto the far left column of your score sheet
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HOW DID YOU SCORE? • Now you know the expert ranking of the items from NASA
which will help us calculate & compare scores. • For each item, record the number of points that your ranking
(Column A) differs from the NASA ranking and then add up all the points to record your overall individual score in the final row. Disregard plus or negative differences.
EXAMPLE 9 6 15
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HOW DID WE SCORE? • Repeat the same process, this time record the number of points
that Our Ranking (Column B) differs from the NASA ranking and then add up all the points to record your overall group score in the final row.
EXAMPLE 5 10 15
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So what? What now?
How was the result? Which score was higher – individual or group score? Why might that be so? How was the process? What might you do differently to get a beQer result & experience next Fme? In which AIESEC situaFons might the same apply?
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Grow3 We grow our results by growing ourselves
& others
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Why how we think matters
Putting your minds to the test!!!
How much fat is your brain made of? 1/3 2/3 All of it is fat!
How many thoughts does the average person have each day? 20,000 50,000 70,000
Can your brain change your structure? No, its biologically set In some special people Yes, parts can grow
The Basic Formula
We can change the structure of our brains….
We grow where we place effort & practice
People who play music have been found to have auditory centres that are BIGGER than normal. The ‘sound’ area of their brain grew through practising their music.
The more connections our brain makes, the more we grow them:
LEARNING!
The more connections they make and the more space they dedicate for processing
Our thoughts are just as real for our
brains as our actions – that’s why
they matter
If we want to grow ourselves, we need to help our brains make the best connections by focusing our time
& effort
In her book Mindset, Carol Dweck explains why it’s not our abilities and talent that bring us success – but in which mindset we approach them
So, what is a mindset?
Creates a whole mental world for you to live and operate within
It’s related to your belief
about ability & intelligence
What is my mindset most of the time?
1. Your intelligence is something very basic about you that you can’t change very much. 2. You can learn new things, but you can’t really change how intelligent you are. 3. No maQer how much intelligence you have, you can always change it quite a bit. 4. You can always substanFally change how intelligent you are.
READ EACH STATEMENT ABOUT INTELLIGENCE AND DECIDE WHETHER YOU MOSTLY AGREE WITH IT OR DISAGREE WITH IT.
1. You are a certain kind of person and not much can be done to really change that. 2. No maQer what kind of person you are, you can always change substanFally. 3. You can do things differently, but the important parts of who are you are can’t really be changed. 4. You can always change basic things about the kind of person you are.
READ EACH STATEMENT ABOUT PERSONALITY AND DECIDE WHETHER YOU MOSTLY AGREE WITH IT OR DISAGREE WITH IT.
Fixed mindset Ability cannot change Growth mindset Ability can change (grow)
Mindsets in moments of truth
How do you get the best out of
your people everday?
LC MOMENTS OF TRUTH
Groups of 4
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You are deciding whether or not to run for a new leadership position in
AIESEC
Discuss: What would you be: 1. Thinking ? 2. Feeling ? 3. Doing and/or deciding ? In your assigned mindset
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Your term in AIESEC is finishing and you need to transition to the next team but they seem quite fresh
and inexperienced
Discuss: What would you be: 1. Thinking ? 2. Feeling ? 3. Doing and/or deciding ? In your assigned mindset
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Your LC’s biggest incoming exchange client has just cancelled all their
trainees for the last quarter.
Discuss: What would you be: 1. Thinking ? 2. Feeling ? 3. Doing and/or deciding ? In your assigned mindset
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GOOD NEWS: We can choose the mindset that
we have ☺
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REFLECT & SHARE IN PAIRS Remember a time / an experience when you were able to think and
act with a growth mindset. It might be from your AIESEC life, studies, professional life, relationships, hobbies, sport, family life….
• Think about:
− What happened?
− How did you show a growth mindset?
− How did it help you to have a growth mindset?
− What enabled/made it easier for you to keep a growth mindset in that situation despite the difficulties you faced?
• Share your story with your neighbour
Growing ourselves is about what we focus on and what we do – our growth mindset
developing our growth
mindset is about building new habits
Growing Ourselves - Habits What you do everyday without thinking
Neuroscience says it takes ______ weeks of doing the same thing everyday to build a habit.
a. 3 Weeks b. 6 Weeks c. 9 Weeks d. 12 Weeks DO IT ONCE, DO IT TWICE, DO IT AGAIN
Its about consistent effort – repeated action
Neuroscience says we can only develop ______ habits at one time. a. 1 -2 only b. 9-10 c. There is no limit d. It depends on the individual
BRAINS CAN ONLY FOCUS ON 1 -2 HABITS AT ANY TIME; MASTERY TAKES PERSISTANCE
What are 1-‐2 habits / behaviours that I want to GROW / strengthen in myself to help me think and act with a growth mindset more of the Fme?
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Leadership Learning
Innovation
Leaders are Learners
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“I don’t divide the world into the weak and the strong…
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“or the successes and the failures…
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“I divide the world into the learners and non-learners”
Benjamin Barber – eminent sociologist
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Mars Mission
Leadership Learning
Innovation
Leaders create the future through Learning
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Mars Mission
Moonlanding was a warm up exercise to show us what was possible and help us
learn …
But the moon is the Past.
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Mars Mission
As we look ahead, what could the future look like?
What are the new frontiers
to discover?
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Mars Mission
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Mars Mission
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Mars Mission
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Mars Mission AIESEC International has created an Intergalactic
Council to drive AIESECs expansion to other planets
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Mars Mission
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Mars Mission We are lucky to have 30
members of the Intergalactic Council here today to help witness & guide AIESEC in India's readiness for this
challenge
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Mars Mission AIESEC Astronauts
WELCOME to MISSION MARS!!!!
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Mars Mission AIESEC Astronauts
WELCOME to MISSION MARS!!!!
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Mars Mission OFFICIAL MISSION
LAUNCH WILL BE AT 16.00
HOURS STAT
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Mars Mission
After lunch to help us prepare for the Mars
Mission you will attend Bootcamp
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Mars Mission
MISSION ALERT
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Mars Mission
Astronauts the future
starts NOW
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Lunch
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Mars Mission
Astronauts: Welcome to Mission Mars BOOTCAMP
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Mars Mission
Our Objectives: • Understand what it means to be Growth Mindset Leaders • Learn key skills to grow ourselves so that we can help grow others
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Mars Mission
After the Bootcamp you will have the
chance to put into practice what you
learn.
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Mars Mission
90 people will be selected as AIESEC astronauts for this pioneering mission
to Mars.
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Grow3 We grow our results by growing ourselves
& others
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What does mindset mean for us as leaders?
Relevant today more than ever…
21st Century Leadership
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We have all experienced fixed mindset and growth mindset leadership
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Groups of 4 (5mins) Share your stories about the fixed mindset leaders you worked with in your AIESEC time – what did they do and what impact did it have on you as a follower?
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Lets hear some real stories in the room
What are our own
experiences of fixed mindset leadership?
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Now share your stories about the growth mindset leaders you worked with in your AIESEC time – what did they do and what impact did it have on you as a follower? 5 minutes
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Lets hear some real stories in the room
What are our own
experiences of growth mindset leadership?
Growth Mindset Leaders
Fixed Mindset Leaders
Blames others for mistakes Avoids risks and failure Stifles critics and rivals Live for ego – it’s all about them Only want to prove themselves Uses power and positional authority
Love what they do; foster others Inner drive to get things done See o\bstacles as opportunities Tackle tough set-backs & failures Confident they will succeed; believe Seek feedback, It’s a way to improve
RESEARCH: What do they do?
Work climate & engagement
Innovation & new ideas
Results in short term
Results in long term
Growth Mindset Leaders
Fixed Mindset Leaders
Positive climate & engagement Generate innovation & ideas Empower greater results in ST & LT
Negative climate; demotivation Innovation; maintain status quo Limited ST task based results Lower performance in the ST/LT
RESEARCH: The impact they have
Feedback as leadership tool for growing others
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Mars Mission
MISSION ALERT
LIVE practical example How do I give feedback in a growth mindset?
Important for missions The Feedback Formula 1. For the sake of what are you giving this feedback? 2. What was the observable behaviour? 3. What was the affect it had on you? 4. How does it make you feel? 5. What would you like to happen?
Lets see it in action
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A recent study of leaders showed the most successful demonstrated one thing in common - a growth mindset
LIVING ABOVE OR BELOW THE LINE
LIVING ABOVE OR BELOW THE LINE
Ownership Accountability Responsibility Blame Excuse Denial
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As leaders our mindset is not static – it changes;
and often in the one day. It can have a big effect on
others and create a culture within our teams/organisation
Look at the 1-‐2 habits you wrote down before lunch If you developed these as a leader; what impact would it have on your team? What might be different?
What skills do we need to know as leaders to help grow others?
Does your team feel motivated? Do you know why your team are in AIESEC? Does your team feel empowered to achieve their tasks? Do you question the capabilities of your team? Do you feel intimidated by others peoples success and want to be the hero of your LC story?
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Questions that matter
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QUESTIONS that matter are a powerful tool for: - growing others - growing results
MORE COMPLEXITY – MORE CHAOS
21st Century Leadership
Our brains respond differently to statements vs questions….
Frontal Lobe
Reptilian Brain: FIGHT OR FLIGHT
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What would a fixed mindset leader think
about asking questions?
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What would a growth mindset leader think
about asking questions?
Millions saw the apple fall, but only Newton asked WHY?
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“If I had an hour to solve a problem and my life depended on it, I would use the first 55 minutes to formulate the right question because as soon as I have identified the right question I can solve the problem in less than five minutes.” - ALBERT EINSTEIN
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A POWERFUL QUESTION… • Generates curiosity and invites creativity
• Focuses inquiry and stimulates reflective conversation
• Is thought provoking and surfaces underlying assumptions
• Touches a deeper meaning
• Is open and does not assume a certain answer
• Is not an opinion disguised as a question
• Helps to reframe the topic
• Shows real interest and is sincere
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ARE THESE POWERFUL QUESTIONS? WHY? WHY NOT? 1. Don’t you think we should buy it?
2. Do you feel appreciated?
3. What does it mean for you to be ethical?
4. Why do you think that?
5. How might that look like?
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QUESTIONS that matter are a powerful tool for: - growing others - growing results
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Mars Mission
MISSION ALERT
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“What do you think?”
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G.R.O.W. COACHING MODEL TO HELP DEVELOP OTHERS
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IN GROUPS OF 4, THINK OF 3 POWERFUL QUESTIONS YOU MIGHT USE IN EACH STEP
OF THE GROW COACHING MODEL
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QUESTIONS that matter are a powerful tool for: - growing others - growing results
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POWERFUL QUESTIONS HELP TO GROW RESULTS BY…
• Helping to create clarity around “the why” • Generate common direction and purpose for
whole team and organization • Invite participation and co-creation of all
stakeholders • Creating space for autonomy and
empowerment • Invite reflection for learning and innovation
POST-MOTOROLA
1. What went well? 2. What did not go so well? 3. What did I learn? 4. What will I put into practice / do better next
time? 5. How did this project help us to get to our goal
and vision ?
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EMPOWERING OTHERS THROUGH POWERFUL QUESTIONS
HOW creates confidence that it is possible
MIGHT open to possibilities and new ideas
WE inviting participation & collective responsibility
………?
WHAT IF ..…………………………...?
WHAT IF I could put a 1000 songs in my pocket? HOW MIGHT WE build a bank for the poor?
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What is the powerful question
that my team needs to hear
right now?
Does your team feel motivated? Do you know why your team are in AIESEC? Does your team feel empowered to achieve their tasks? Do you question the capabilities of your team? Do you feel intimidated by others peoples success and want to be the hero of your LC story?
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Motivating Others
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Motivation is derived from the Latin word ‘movere’ which means ‘to move’ or ‘to energize’ or ‘to activate’
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Mission ALERT Get into teams of 5 You now have 2 mins to show us
what motivation looks like in action
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You will now watch a video on Human Drives. Get your pens ready to write down notes for the team trivia quiz that will follow WHO WILL BE VICTORIOUS?
The winner will receive a MYSTERY PRIZE!
QUIZ
1. 2. 3. 4. 5.
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Mystery Prize – there is none! We are all winners!!!
Whose biggest motivation was the prize? Who was motivated to look smart in front of others? Whose motivation was for the learning?
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In your groups, discuss what you got from the video: Surprises? ahas? Affirmations? Questions?
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If you had to say; what is the most dominant approach (extrinsic v intrinsic) you use or experience in AIESEC?
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Like we saw in Dan Pink’s Video, extrinsic rewards are limited in growing results and have some real drawbacks
Speedy Brainstorm How can you build intrinsic motivation in your team? 1. Autonomy 2. Mastery 3. Purpose
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Mars Mission
MISSION ALERT
Autonomy Mastery
Purpose
Freedom of the how and the what
Clarity on decision making,
accountability & responsibility
Having a voice and being able to share options
Being allowed to make mistakes and grow
Seeking and receiving feedback
Throwing yourself into more
challenging situations
Finding a deeper meaning
Praised and recognised for effort
Connecting tasks to the bigger picture
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Everyone’s talking & asking questions but do we really listen to each other?
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Listening The Art of
And Building on the Ideas of Others
Do you need to innovate to grow your LC’s results? Do you need to improve your team relaFonships and understand each other beQer?
Do you need to deal differently with criFcism?
Do you open space for experimentaFon and innovaFon?
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The of listening is creating empathy
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Swap partners. Oldest person will be the mirror. Close your eyes. Remember a recent situation with high, intense emotions – positive or negative – how did you feel? How did your body react? Now, without talking, express that recent emotional reaction with your body to your partner, who will mirror your emotion physically as best as they can. Now swap and repeat. Without talking.
LET’S GET EMOTIONAL!
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How was it to listen with your
eyes?
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80% of all communication is
non-verbal
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How well were you able to put yourself in the other’s place?
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How might creating more
empathy with my team impact our
growth?
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But how can we listen to more than one
person at a time? How might we build on the
ideas of others & innovate?
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When we host a conversation we need to know when to DIVERGE
& when to CONVERGE
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What questions might help the group to diverge – create
choices?
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How might we help the team to generate
ideas?
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“The best way to have a good idea is to have a lot of ideas.”
Linus Pauling, Nobel Prize chemist
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Draw a house
30 seconds
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Whose house looks something like this?
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Draw 5 houses
1 minute
HINTS & TIPS:
1. Set challenging goals for number of ideas in certain amount of time.
2. Car + Bird = Aeroplane
3. “Yes, and” vs “Yes, but”
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What if I truly heard and built on
the ideas of my team? What might
be possible?
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Mars Mission
Bootcamp is over. The time for theory is done. The time for
action, mistakes and learning is coming.
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Mars Mission OFFICIAL MISSION
LAUNCH WILL BE AT 16.30
HOURS STAT
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Mars Mission
You have been allocated into mixed
teams (numbers). Each team will be observed by an
Intergalactic Council member.
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Mars Mission
Your Intergalactic Council member will
facilitate the tasks you need to complete &
will nominate 3 people from each team to join
the Mars Mission.
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What kind of people will they be looking for?
• Be a Leader who learns
• Show your growth mindset in action
• Experiment new practices/behaviours learnt in Boot Camp
• Learn and improve approach to the tasks through feedback
• Contributes to the learning & development of others
• Achieve the task – gets results
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Mars Mission OFFICIAL MISSION
LAUNCH WILL BE AT 16.30
HOURS STAT