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STATEWIDE UPDATE

Utah Foster Care Foundation Offices

Murray5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400Murray, UT 84107Phone: 801.994.5205Fax: 801.994.5206Toll Free: 877.505.KIDS

Ogden3340 S. Harrison Blvd. #200Ogden, UT 84403Phone: 801.392.1114

Orem252 N. Orem Blvd. Orem, UT 84057Phone: 801.373.3006

Price475 W. Price River Dr. #152Price, UT 84501Phone: 435.636.0210

RooseveltPhone: 435.724.0959

Vernal1052 W. Market Dr. Vernal, UT 84078Phone: 435.781.4224

Moab180 S. 300 E., Ste. CMoab, UT 84532Phone: 435.259.3345

St. George321 N. Mall Dr. #B102St. George, UT 84790Phone: 435.656.8065

Richfield201 E. 500 N.Richfield, UT 84701Phone: 435.896.1232

Quarters for Christmas has again made a generous donation for children in foster care. If children in foster care in your home need snow boots, a warm winter coat, clothes or shoes, please contact your regional retention services specialist.

SLV Region: Tina 801.994.5205Northern Region: Kristie 801.392.1114Western Region: Jessica 801.373.3006Manti/Richfield: Marissa 435.896.1232Southwest Region: Diane 435.656.8065Grand/San Juan: Geri 435.259.3345Eastern Region: Faith 435.724.0959

KSL’s Quarters for Christmas

DI Vouchers Happy Holidays

If you have a child in foster care in your home who has not yet received DI vouchers, there are still some available.

Please e-mail: [email protected] or call 877.505.KIDS.

Please note that all DI Vouchers expire December 31, 2010 and no exceptions are made.

Be sure to check the Cluster/Training pages for your region! There are many fun holiday activities for you and your families to enjoy. You don't want to miss them.

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Cluster Concepts P.4

Training Updates P.5

SALT LAKE VALLEY REGION UPDATE

Salt Lake Valley Office

5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400Murray, UT 84107

Phone: 801.994.5205Fax: 801.994.5206

Toll Free: 877.505.KIDS

Area Representative

Dan Webster

Foster/Adoptive Family Recruiters

Amy BoyackChristina LeCluyse

Jordan Ames

Trainer

Liz Rivera

Retention Specialist

Tina Porter

Foster Parents are the “Spirit of Service”A husband and wife who became U.S. citizens after immigrating to Utah from Argentina have been honored for their contribution to the Utah community as a foster family. In September, West Jordan Mayor Melissa Johnson presented Jose Luis and Ruth Gonzalez with the city’s prestigious “Spirit of Service” award.

Jose Luis and Ruth have invested much of their hearts and home for the children they care for. Within the past few years, they have even remodeled their house to make room for more children!

“They have fostered children as young as a few days old, up to teenagers who are getting ready to live on their own,” says Christina LeCluyse, Foster/Adoptive Fam-ily Recruiter for the Utah Foster Care Foundation. “They welcome any and all children. In addition to one biological son, they have adopted a sibling group of three from foster care and they are currently in the process of adopting another sibling group that

includes a 14-year-old, a 10-year-old and a 6-month-old.

The Gonzalezes have also served as foster parent ambassadors in the Foun-dation’s efforts to find more Spanish-speaking foster families. Latino/ Hispanic children represent 25% of Utah children in foster care.

For Ruth, there can be no greater joy. “Children are life’s biggest blessing,” she says.

Congratulations, Jose Luis and Ruth!

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Photo above: The Gonzalez Family. Photo Courtesy Rick Egan, Salt Lake Tribune.

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Misc...November is National Adoption Awareness

Month

National Adoption Day

Help us spread the word about the importance of foster care/adoption. On Novem-ber 20th, an unprecedented number of courts and commu-nities across the country come together to finalize thousands of adoptions of children from foster care and to celebrate all families who adopt. The day brings together hundreds of judges, attorneys, adoption professionals and child advo-cates who are dedicated to creating forever families for waiting children.

2010 Conference on Adoption at UVU

Join the discussion as experts from across the country en-gage in a wide variety of topics and issues surrounding the adoption process. Ideal for birth families, adoptive families, prospective adoptive families, adoptees, adoption professionals, and anyone interested in this fascinating topic.

Sorensen Student Center

Monday, Nov. 22nd, 9am-4pm

UFCF will be presenting a Fos-ter & Adoptive Family Forum at 11am.

Stop by and visit our UFCF booth.

For more information go to UVU.EDU/CHSS/ADOPTION

Thank You

Chas. W. Bangerter & Sons,

INC.

1304 North 400 East

Bountiful, UT 84010

801.295.3056

For providing 425 pump-

kins for the “Meet a Foster

Parent” Pumpkin Festival at

The Gateway on Oct. 15th.

Give Jack Frost the Boot

Are you ready for dropping tem-peratures? If you need a little help preparing children in care for the chilly weather, KSL’s Quarters for Christmas has donated money to The Utah Foster Care Foundation to help purchase coats, boots or warm winter clothing.

Please contact Tina Porter at either 801.994.5205 or [email protected] to submit your request. Ages 0-11-years-old may be approved for up to $100.00 per child and ages 12-18-years-old may be approved for up to $200.00.

5th Annual Adoption 5K Walk with Me

Help spread Adoption Awareness during November and meet us at Liberty Park on Saturday, Nov. 6th for the Adoption 5K Walk with Me- a free event. Prizes will be given for the “most orange”. Registration be-gins at 9:30 am and the Walk starts at 10:00 am. For more information email: [email protected] Sponsored by Families Supporting Adoption

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Portraits: "Teens in Foster Care"

Utah Foster Care Foundation sponsors Portraits: "Teens in Foster Care" No-vember, 6-8 at The City Library Main Branch, Level 2 Canteena, 210 E. 400 S., phone: 801.322.8131.

Reception held:

Saturday, November 6th from 2:00-3:30 pm


Salt Lake Valley Cluster InformationMonthly Cluster announcements for currently licensed foster parents

For in-service training details, see the training pages.

Clusters are groups of foster, adoptive and kinship families that meet together on a monthly basis.

Clusters can help you:

• Obtain in-service training hours

• Meet other foster, adoptive and kinship families

• Get support

• Arrange respite care

• Attend fun family activities

Call the Cluster facilitator nearest you or contact Tina at 801.994.5205 for more information.

For more information on upcoming Cluster trainings, see “Upcoming In-service Trainings.”

What are

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El mes de noviembre nos provee una opor-tunidad para dar gracias y reflexionar en este tema. La reunion va ser un “potluck”.

**Vamos a ofrecer cuidado de niños**

Lugar: 5296 S. Commerce Dr. Suite 400 Murray, UT 84107

Esta plática es dada por el cluster en Español.

Spanish/Cluster en EspañolFacilitator: Jessica Phone: [email protected]

Coming Up:Fecha: sábado 13 de noviembre

2010; Hora: 4 pm—6 pm

Tooele/Adoptive ParentsFacilitator: Maia Phone: [email protected]

Coming Up:Holiday Appreciation

Dinner on Nov. 13th. No

Cluster for Dec.

Facilitator: CamiPhone: [email protected]

South Valley West/West JordanFacilitator: ValeriePhone: [email protected]

Coming Up:Enuresis & Encopresis,

Nov. 8th from 6-8 pm

Sandy/DraperFacilitator: NaomiPhone: [email protected]

Coming Up:Understanding Lying,


Salt Lake MetroFacilitator: Suzi Phone: [email protected]

Coming Up:Working with Your Child’s

Therapist,


Magna/West ValleyFacilitator: LindaPhone: [email protected]

Coming Up:Life Books,

Nov. 12th from 5-9 pm UFCF

KearnsFacilitator: MichellePhone: [email protected]

Coming Up:Strengthening Marriage,


Murray/Midvale/E. Salt LakeFacilitator: TerumiPhone: 801.699.9769

Coming Up:Working with Your Child’s

Therapist,



Salt Lake Valley Region TrainingMonthly training announcements for currently licensed foster parents

First Placement

Date: December 22nd Time: 6pm - 8pmLocation: Utah Foster Care Foundation 5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400

Presented by:DCFS/Liz Rivera

This training is a pre-service refresher as well as a chance to address specific issues with your current placement. We offer this class quarterly in the Salt Lake Valley.

Sessions 1 & 2: Feb. 12th; 10am-4pmSessions 3 & 4: Feb. 26th; 10am-4pmLocation: Utah Foster Care Foundation 5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400

Presented by:Liz Rivera

It is essential to help youth build a solid foundation upon which they can more easily make the transition to living as adults and building life long connections for greater stability.

Required for all foster parents of youth 14 and older.

To Register For Classes:

Contact: Liz Rivera

Salt Lake Valley Region Trainer

Phone: 801.994.5205

Email: liz.rivera

@utahfostercare.org

Toll Free:

877.505.KIDS

Please be ready with your name, phone number & the title of the class you would like to be registered for.

Director of Education Mick Woolsey, LCSW

Phone: 435.229.8808Email: mick.woolsey @utahfostercare.org

Classes one & twoNovember 20th; 10 am - 4 pm

Classes three & fourDecember 4th; 10 am - 4 pm

Presented by:Bruce Parsons, PhD

Art and Science of Love; Strengthening Marriage

The goal of this workshop is to begin by focusing on the couple’s relationship and then translating what we learn to all relationships within the family.

*All classes taught at UFCF Murray of-fice5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400.

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Upcoming Trainings, Etc.

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Murray & WVC Sandy KearnsSVW & W. Jordan

Enuresis & Encopresis

Presented byLiz Rivera

Toileting issues are a com-mon childhood issue. We’ll discuss causes & interven-tions to assist children to at-tain more regular habits.

November 8th

6pm-8pm

12537 South Crossing Dr. (just north of In and Out

Burger)

SVW & W. Jordan Kearns MurrayUFCF

Working with Your Child’s Therapist

Presented byJeff Tesch

Jeff, is a therapist and an adoptive parent. He will offer practical tips to best work with your child’s ther-apist.

November 10th

6pm-8pm

Utah Foster Care Foundation

5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400

Understanding Lying

Presented byAmanda Wiseman

Lying is part of normal child development. Amanda will discuss how to deal with normal lying and how to address problematic lying.

November 11th

6pm-8pm

Sandy Fire Station8186 S 1300 E

Strengthening Marriage

Presented byDarin Griffith

This evening is dedicated to strengthening marriages and families.

November 17th

7pm-9pm


5296 S. Commerce Dr.

#400

Art & Science of LoveParts 1 & 2

Presented byDr. Bruce Parsons

The goal of this workshop is to begin by focusing on the couple’s relationship and then translating what we learn to all relationships within the family.

November 20th

10am-4pm



Sibling Rivalry

Presented byTBD

A common parenting dilem-ma is managing relation-ships between siblings. We will discuss ideas of how to reduce conflict and increase cooperation.

January 13th

6pm-8pm


5296 S. Commerce Dr.

#400

Teen Forum

Presented byPanel

Teens in foster care have special needs—but they still need a family. We will have a panel of teens and parents discuss their experi-ences of foster care.

January 31st

6pm-8pm



Helping Children Understand Their Past

Presented bySuzanne Stott

All of us have a past that influences our present. Su-zanne will lead a discussion about how to integrate our children’s pasts in a positive way.

TBD

6pm-8pm





Attachment and Trauma Series

Attachment Class 1 Attachment Class 2 Attachment Class 3

Two of the most common issues that children in care bring is a history of trauma and compromised attach-ment. These two series of three classes each will be offered on an ongoing basis.

Trauma Class 2 Trauma Class 3Trauma Class 1

Introduction to Attachment

January 2011

Class one is a basic over-view of attachment theory and its application to chil-dren in foster care.

DisorganizedAttachment

February 2011

Of all the attachment out-comes, disorganized attach-ment is the most problem-atic, and probably the most common, for children in care. We’ll discuss what it is and how to best support children with a compro-mised attachment history.

Adult Attachment

March 2011

Attachment is not just for children. This class of the series will discuss how our own attachment history can interact with our children’s.

Trauma’s Effect on the Developing Brain

April 2011

How trauma affects the developing brain of a child and the consequences.

Healing Trauma’s Effects

November 22nd;

6-9pm

How we can best support children who have a history of trauma.

Preventing Secondary Trauma

December 16th;

6-9pm

Living with a traumatized child can affect other mem-bers of the family. We’ll discuss how this occurs and how to minimize it.

ALL CLASSES HELD AT: UTAH FOSTER CARE FOUNDATION OFFICES 5296 COMMERCE DRIVE #400

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NORTHERN REGION UPDATE

Northern Region Office

3340 S. Harrison Blvd. #200Ogden, UT 84403

Phone: 801.392.1114Fax: 801.392.1112

Toll Free: 877.392.1114

Area Representative

Brenda Durtschi

Foster/AdoptiveFamily Recruiter

Maryanne McFarland

TrainerBrian Young


Kristie Loock

November is National Adoption Month

This article was published in the National Adoption Clearinghouse, and is entitled “Explaining Adop-tion to Your Children, Family, and Friends.”

Children are growing up in many dif-ferent kinds of families today. There is a blending together and changing of the “traditional” family structure. There are step-parent families- chil-dren being raised by a biological parent and his/her spouse. There are single-parent families-children being raised by one parent. And, there are kinship families – children being raised by a grandparent, aunt/uncle or other extended family member. Adoption is often one of the links bringing families together.

Explaining adoption

Adoption is a sensitive subject. But approaching the subject, regardless

of who is asking the questions, with a clear and comfortable understand-ing of your own personal feelings will ease in the discussion. The more confident parents are, the more willing children will be to share their thoughts and feelings and the more relaxed family and friends will feel.

Dealing with the feelings of others

Discussing adoption with others al-ways provides the opportunity to edu-cate. Dealing with their feelings and attitudes, however, can be challeng-ing. Keep in mind that children learn from the responses and reactions they witness. Honest, calm parent-ing outweighs any negative, external contributions. Some suggestions for reacting to the impressions of others:

• Address misconceptions and preju-dicial comments.

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• Focus on adoption; don’t let the conversation revolve around an individual child.

• Encourage the discussion at a later date (or by phone/email).

• Protect children from and teach them how to respond to com-ments of victimization – the idea of “being saved,” “the lucky child” or “having a better life”’. Take advantage of every opportunity to teach others about adoption.

Conclusion

The Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute conducted a benchmark survey in 1997 examining public attitudes toward adoption. The Institute found that 6 in 10 Amer-icans have had personal experi-ences with adoption, meaning they, a family member, or a close friend was adopted, had adopt-ed a child, or had placed a child for adoption. As the number of families created by adoption con-

tinues to increase and change the view of the “traditional” family, explanations to children, family and friends become more com-plex and even more significant.

November is National Adoption Month (con’t.)

Utah Foster Care Foundation has funds available to meet the special needs of children in foster care when DCFS is unable to meet these needs for any reason. Funds are limited.

Requests MUST include the following:• Child’s first name, last initial and age• Foster parent’s name and home address• Caseworker’s name and contact information• The item being requested and the associated costs• Brief description of how the child will benefit

Request should come in writing by a foster parent, the child in care or the caseworker.

PLEASE NOTE:• Dispersal of funds can take up to 4 weeks.• Checks are mailed to the foster parent’s home address.• Funds are for children in foster care ONLY. • Items covered by the foster care reimbursement or by Medicaid are not eligible.• Only requests previously denied by DCFS are eligible.

VACATIONS:• A child in care can receive vacation funds only ONCE in their lifetime.• Vacations are restricted monetarily & may not cover all costs.

SUBMIT REQUESTS TO:Kristie LoockUtah Foster Care Foundation3340 S. Harrison Blvd. #200Ogden, UT 84403

ORkristie.loock

@utahfostercare.org

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Wishing Well Funds


Cluster Trainings and Activities

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Cluster Family Movie Night

Sign in at 6:15, movie starts between 6:30 – 7:00. Come have a fun evening and it’s free!! Please RSVP.

Cinepoint Theater151 12th St. Ogden

November 8th

Happy Holidays. Enjoy your families.

No meeting this month.

December January 12th

Insight: Legal Expeca-tions for Foster Parents

Presented byLaura Thompson, Sec-tion Chief, AG’s Office

Understanding the legal process, terms, guidelines and foster parents rights and expectations will be discussed.

Clearfield DCFS1350 E. 1450 S.

6:30 – 8:30pm

Weber West

[email protected]

Cluster Family Ice Skating Party

Ice skating assistance pro-vided by the Utah Figure Skating Club. Contact Amanda for info & to RSVP.

Bring a treat, snack or dessert to share.

South Davis Recreation Center

4:30 – 6:30 pm

November 27th




Ask an RFC Night

Presented byDeanna Braunberger,

RFC

Deanna will be here to help explain the role of an RFC.

Bountiful DCFS57 W. 200 N.

6:00 – 8:00pm

South CentralDavis

Amanda801.298.6381david@ davidburkemusic.com

North Davis

Danyelle 801.510.1960 [email protected]


Cache Valley

[email protected]

Box Elder

[email protected]

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Fire Safety

Presented by Logan Fire Dept.

Come make learning about fire safety fun. Please RSVP.

Logan DCFS Office115 W. Golf Course Rd.

6:30 – 8:30pm

November 19th



December January 21st

Post Holiday Dinner and Planning Mtg.

Come enjoy our “After the Holidays Regroup” and enjoy dinner and help us plan the next year of clus-ter meetings and activities.

RSVP to Teri, 435.787.3427 or Laura, 435.753.7232 for child-care. Please bring a des-sert to share.

Logan DCFS 115 W. Golf Course Rd.

6:30 – 8:30pm


Sign in at 6:15, movie starts between 6:30 – 7:00. Come have a fun evening and it’s free!! Please RSVP.


November 8th




The Color Code

Presented byBrian Young, SSW

Life is about relation-ships… Understanding behavior means under-standing what drives it. This class will focus on the “why”… and it’s fun!!

Brigham City DCFS1050 S. Medical Dr.

6:00 – 9:00pm




Sign in at 6:15, movie starts between 6:30 – 7:00. Come have a fun evening and it’s free!! Please RSVP


November 8th

No Meeting

“Blessed is the Season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love.”

Hamilton Wright Mabie

Enjoy the Holidays!


Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder

Presented byLynn Tanner

FASD is an umbrella term describing the range of ef-fects that can occur in an individual whose mother drank alcohol during preg-nancy. These effects can include physical, mental, behavioral, and/or learn-ing disabilities with pos-sible lifelong implications. Come educate yourself about FASD and learn strategies to help these children who have been affected.

Ogden DCFS,950 E. 25th St.6:30 - 8:30

Ogden

Amber @ [email protected]

Level III Catch-up

Presented by Sherrin Weiss

Ogden DCFS950 E. 25th St.

10:00am – 12:30pm

November 18th

Christmas Party

Watch your mailbox for details!

December 16th January 20th

Grief & Loss: Theirs AND Ours

Much time and energy is spent helping children deal with their grief and losses, frequently with little given to our own. This class will focus on how we under-stand and process our own grief and loss, as we help the children do the same.

Ogden DCFS 950 E. 25th St.

10:00am – 12:00pm

Level III

Maryanne801.392.1114maryanne.mcfarland @utahfostercare.org

Foster/Adoption

Janette @ [email protected]

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Northern Region TrainingMonthly training announcements for foster parents

13To register for trainings on this page ONLY contact Brian Young @ 801.475.5537 or [email protected]

Insight: Legal Expectations for Foster Parents

Presented by Laura Thompson, AG Section Chief

This training will be very helpful in understanding the legal process, terms and guidelines, and how they pertain to fos-ter parents. If you’ve ever wondered what your legal rights and expectations as a foster parent are, this is the training to answer those questions.

Clearfield DCFS Office1350 E. 1450 S.

6:30 – 8:30pm

January 12th

“Traumatized children tend to have overactive stress re-sponses that can make them aggressive, impulsive and needy. These children are difficult, they are easy to upset and hard to calm. They may overeact to the slightest novelty or change and they often don’t know how to think before they act. Before they can make any kind of lasting change at all in their behavior, they need to feel safe and loved. Only patient, loving, consistent care works; there are no short-term miracles.”

- Dr. Bruce Perry M.D., Ph.D.

Food for Thought

Presented byJennifer Larson, DCFS Regional Trainer

The Division of Child and Family Services is offering another series of FFY / Level III Trainings. These classes focus on the importance of building relationships, assessment, planning, goal setting, and supporting our youth through these processes. The current Level III training is an extension of FFY, which is currently required for families caring for children 14 and older and encouraged with children 8 and up. If you have a Level III child in your home, you will need to attend both trainings. To register please call Sherrin Weiss, 801-395-5986 or email at [email protected]. · FFY 1 – February 3rd, 2011· FFY 2 – February 10th, 2011· FFY 3 – February 17th, 2011· FFY 4 – February 24th, 2011· Level III – March 3rd, 2011· Level III – March 10th, 2011

Brigham City DCFS1050 S. Medical Dr.

5:30 – 9:30pm

Foundations For Youth / Level III Training


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WESTERN REGION UPDATE

Western Region Office

252 N. Orem Blvd.Orem, UT

Phone: 801.373.3006Fax: 801.373.3004

Toll Free: 877.373.3006

Area Representative

Wendy Bunnell

Foster/Adoptive Family Recruiter

John Thill

Trainer

Nancy Zelenak


Jessica Hanneman

Répondez s’il Vous Plaît &Foster Parenting in the Western Region

What in the world is “Répondez s’il vous plait” and what does it have to do with foster care in the western region? “Répondez s’il vous plaît “is a French phrase that translates to “please respond” and word for word means, “Respond if you please.” It is with this meaning that invitation cards and similar docu-ments are often marked with “RSVP.” It is standard practice to reply to an RSVP request whether confirming attendance or declining.

For those who are not impressed with the acronym’s meaning, RSVP can also be short for “Restricted Seating Verify Participation.” Basically this means the person sending the invitation would like you to tell him or her whether you accept or decline the invitation. That is, will you be coming to the event or not? So what does RSVP have to do with be-ing a foster parent? Many of our Cluster facilitators request an RSVP in order to attend their meetings or parties. Unfortu-nately, when foster parents do not RSVP, there are times when food and seats are less than sufficient, or precious funds are spent on too much food that could have

been utilized in a more resourceful man-ner. The guessing game is like gambling when it comes to dollars and cents.

An RSVP at the last minute is better than none at all! Most helpful is at least 24 hours notice of your intent to participate. This allows time for the host/hostess to prepare for your arrival and ensure your needs are met. In these less than friendly economic times, I ask that as foster par-ents you do your best to RSVP when it is requested. If you forget to respond, don’t let it stop you from coming, but realize that those who RSVP will be considered first, and then be sure to respond for the next event you may attend.

Thank you for all that you are doing and sacrificing to serve Utah’s children in need. You are at the very least, simply amazing! Let us put a little French eti-quette into western region foster parent-ing by taking action to “Répondez s’il vous plait,” or RSVP! Merci!

With Gratitude, Jessica Hannemann, Retention Specialistand your Cluster Facilitators

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Western Region Cluster ConceptsMonthly Cluster announcements for currently licensed foster parents

For in-service training details, see the training pages.

Clusters are groups of foster, adoptive and kinship families that meet together on a monthly basis.




• Get support



Call the Cluster facilitator nearest you or contact Jessica at 801.373.3006 for more information.

For more information on upcoming Cluster trainings, see “Upcoming In-service Trainings.”

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South Cluster Jilean: [email protected]

All areas South of Provo.

Kinship/Adoption Cluster Cayce: [email protected]

See training pages for info.

Central Cluster Beth: [email protected]


Level III Cluster Ami: [email protected]


Timpanogos Cluster Jennie: [email protected]

Co-facilitator: [email protected]

North Star Cluster Shanna: [email protected]

Amanda: [email protected]


Crossroads Cluster Stephanie: [email protected]


Wasatch/Summit Cluster No facilitatorcall UFCF: 801.373.3006


Cluster Facilitator Meeting Info.

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Are you ready for dropping temperatures? If you need a little help preparing children in care for the chilly weather, KSL’s Quarters for Christmas has donated money to The Utah Foster Care Founda-tion to help purchase coats, boots or warm winter clothing.

Please contact Jessica Hannemann at either 801.373.3006 or [email protected] to submit your request. Ages 0-11-years-old may be approved for up to $100.00 per child and ages 12-18-years-old may be approved for up to $200.00.



Western Region TrainingMonthly training announcements for currently licensed foster parents

Save the Placement!

Presented byDCFS Resource

Family Consultants

This training is presented by the RFC’s whom you know and love! They will share insights and ex-periences so that you can be successful!

November 9th6:30pm - 8:30pm

American Fork DCFS861 E. 900 N.

Sponsored byTimpanogos Cluster

Presented bySidnie O’Reilly

Too many of us get overwhelmed by the daunting tasks we face daily. Setting simple weekly goals will help you develop the hab-its for true success.


American Fork DCFS861 E. 900 N.

Sponsored by North Star Cluster


Contact: Nancy Zelenak

Western Region Trainer

Phone: 801.373.3006

Email: nancy.zelenak

@utahfostercare.org

Toll Free:

877.373.3006


Director of Education Mick Woolsey, LCSW

Phone: 435.229.8808Email: mick.woolsey @utahfostercare.org

Did You Know?As of July 1, 2010 there are 2,800 children and youth in foster care in Utah and 1,427 licensed foster homes.

Living With a ChildWith a Mental Illness

Presented byAllies With Families

Mental Illness is manageable. It is not always cure-able. Ideas and tools will be shared to best care for this vulnerable population.

November 16th7:00 pm - 9:00 pmHeber City DCFS

69 N 600 W

Sponsored by: Wasatch/Summit Cluster

Balancing Your Life

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Western Region TrainingMonthly training announcements for currently licensed foster parents

Upcoming In-service Trainings, Etc.

HELP! Working on ResourcesFFY #3

Presented byNancy Zelenak

“Assessing, Planning and Teaming” is part 3 of this 4- hr session. Required training for those wanting to foster children aged 14+.

November 4th10:00 am - 2:00 pm

UFCF Office252 N. Orem Blvd.

Sponsored by Utah Foster

Care Foundation

Helping Youth FFY #4

A Support Group…

Presented byStephanie Larrabee

Come learn how other fos-ter parents deal with the ups and downs of fostering. Please RSVP to the Cluster facilitator!

November 4th6:30pm - 8:30pm4101 Wood Road

Eagle Mtn.

Sponsored byCrossroads Cluster

Relationships with Youth

Presented byBryant Jenks

Bryant is a therapist at WMH. He will examine the building blocks of relation-ships with youth and en-courage you through it all!

November 10th10:00 am - NoonOrem DCFS Office1106 N. 1200 W.

Sponsored byLevel 3 Cluster


Are you a new foster par-ent? If so, you will really benefit from discovering the many resources in our com-munity and how to access them.


UFCF Office252 N. Orem Blvd

Sponsored by Central Cluster


“Goals of Transition to Adult Living” is the focus of class 4. Required training for those wanting to foster children aged 14+.

November 18th10:00 am - 2:00 pm

UFCF Office252 N. Orem Blvd

Sponsored byUtah Foster

Care Foundation

Through the Holidays

Presented byKeena Gallop

POT LUCK and training combined! The holidays in foster care can be quite tough on kids and youth. Learn what you can do to help.

December 8th10:00 am - NoonOrem DCFS Office1106 N. 1200 W

Sponsored by Level 3 Cluster


in this issueJourney Through Foster Care P.18


SOUTHWEST REGION UPDATE

St. George Office

321 N. Mall Dr # B102St. George, UT 84790Phone: 435.656.8065

Fax: 435.656.8071Toll Free: 877.656.8065

Area Representative

Debbie Hofhines

Trainer

Cliff Farnsworth


Diane Callister

Richfield Office

201 E. 500 N.Phone: 435.896.1232

Toll Free: 877.656.8065

Foster/Adoptive Family Recruiter/

Retention SpecialistMarissa Douglas

A Journey of Love Through Foster CareTyson and Lori Borrowman appear to be like any other ordinary Southern Utah fam-ily. A closer look reveals that they’re an ordinary family doing something extraor-dinary. They’ve been foster parents for nearly four years and have cared for nine children, ranging in age from an infant fresh from the hospital, to a 17-year-old teen. Their foster care journey also led them to adoption when one of the young children they fostered was unable to return to his parents. They’re now the parents of one biological daughter (5), adopted son (4); and are fostering a toddler and a teenager.

When they first got involved with foster care, Lori said she was petrified of caring for teenagers and wanted only children under the age of five. Once they became familiar with foster care, a social worker whom they trusted recommended a teen-ager for placement.

“It’s been a good fit,” says Lori. “Not as scary as I thought it would be. Foster care’s been a really good experience for our family (overall). It’s helped my kids be less selfish and judgmental.”

Lori tells people, “foster care is really hard in the beginning and sometimes you don’t know what to expect. But if you hang in there, these kids will become the cute sweet

kids you want them to be, if you give them time to heal and adjust to your home and family. Some people give up too soon, and they miss out on the rewards that come with sticking it out.”

They initially got into the foster care system to adopt, but said they also find satisfaction in seeing kids reunified with parents who’ve made changes and learned to safely par-ent their children. Eight of the nine children they’ve fostered have or will shortly return to their birth parents.

Families are made in many different ways. Children of ALL ages are in need of placement, but teens are more difficult to find homes for. Are you ready for the challenge and rewards of fostering teens? Contact the UFCF or your RFC.

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Cedar City/Beaver Cluster & Training InformationMonthly Cluster announcements for currently licensed foster parents

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Presented by Jenny Arm,

Utah Pride Center

Statistically LGBTQ youth are more likely to be the targets of violence. They are also more likely to become homeless. This training will help us find ways to create safe envi-ronments for these youth.

November 17th

7:00-9:00pm

DCFS Regional Office856 Sage Dr. Cedar City

LGBTQ

Mark your calendar for our

Family Christmas Party!

Monday, December 13th at 5pm

Community Presbyterian Church

RSVP to Amy

Plenty of food, fun, and games.

Come get into the holiday spirit and visit with other families.

Party Happy Holidays

families.


Please contact Diane Callister at either 435.656.8065 or [email protected] to submit your request. Ages 0-11-years-old may be approved for up to $100.00 per child and ages 12-18-years-old may be ap-proved for up to $200.00.

Cluster Facilitator

Contact Information

Have a joyous Holiday Season with your families.

Amy [email protected]

Lisa435.438.2651



Manti & Richfi eld Cluster & Training InformationMonthly Cluster announcements for currently licensed foster parents

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Presented by Cliff Farnsworth, CSW

Come learn how to say goodbye and grieve the loss of a child in foster care.

November 10th

6:00pm-8:00pm

Richfield DCFS 201 E. 500 N.

Goodbye Rituals

Mark your calendar for our

Family Christmas Party!

Saturday, November 20th

2:00pm

RSVP to Nancy for loca-tion.

Party


Please contact Marissa Douglas at either 435.896.1232 or [email protected] to submit your request. Ages 0-11-years-old may be approved for up to $100.00 per child and ages 12-18 years of age may be approved for up to $200.00.

Cluster Facilitator

Contact Information

Have a joyous Holiday Season with your families.

[email protected]

Patty [email protected]

Happy Holidays

Manti

Richfield



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Presented by Jennifer Gardner, UFAFA President

Come Learn how to ad-vocate for yourself as a foster parent and for your children in various settings while working in the DCFS system.

November 6th

9:00am-Noon

St. George DCFS Admin. 359 E. Riverside Dr.

Advocacy

Presented by Jenny Arm,

Utah Pride Center

Statistically LGBTQ youth are more likely to be the targets of violence. They are also more likely to become homeless. This training will help us find ways to create safe envi-ronments for these youth.

November 18th

6:30pm-8:30pm

St. George DCFS Admin. 359 E. Riverside Dr.

LGBTQ Holiday Party

erside Dr.


Please contact Diane Callister at either 435.656.8065 or [email protected] to submit your request. Ages 0-11 years of age may be ap-proved for up to $100.00 per child and ages 12-18-years-old may be approved for up to $200.00.

Cluster Facilitator

Contact Information

Christmas Party/Breakfast

andMemorial Meeting

Presented by:Cliff Farnsworth, CSW

Come learn how to say goodbye and grieve the loss of a child in foster care.

December 4th

9:00-11:00am

Staheli Family FarmRSVP to Brandee

[email protected]

Need respite or babysitting during the day?

Please contact:

Laura Randall, Apple Valley435-877-1202 or 467-1202

Cindy Sullivan, Santa Clara435-673-5772



In the Know...Information and terms for currently licensed foster parents

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Clusters are groups of foster, adoptive and kinship fam-ilies that meet together on a monthly basis.




• Get support



Call the Cluster facilitator nearest you or contact Diane Callister at 435.656.8065 for more information.

For more information on upcoming Cluster trainings, see pages 8-10.

What are

Clusters?


Contact: Cliff Farnsworth

Southwest Region Trainer

Phone: 435.656.8065

Email: cliff.farnsworth

@utahfostercare.org

Toll Free:

877.656.8065


Foundations for Youth

Session 1: December 7thSession 2: December 9th

Session 3: December 14thSession 4: December 16th

Presented by:Cliff Farnsworth, CSW

Foster parents must help youth build a solid foundation upon which they can more easily make the transi-tion to living independently.

This is a four part series that is required for all foster parents serving youth fourteen years of age and older.

All Classes will be held:

5:30-9:30pm

359 E. Riverside Dr.St. George

IMPORTANT:TO REGISTER FOR A TRAIN-ING THAT IS CLUSTER-SPON-SORED, YOU MUST CALL YOUR AREA CLUSTER FACILI-TATOR.

• Approved Trainings- In-service trainings provided and ap-proved by Utah Foster Care Foun-dation.

• Foundations for Youth-FFY is required for families caring for youth 14 and up.

• Community & Partner Trainings- Call your regional trainer for approval prior to attending a class or conference that is held within the community and is not a pre-approved training.

• Approved On-line Training- Families may visit the web site: www.fosterclub.com for up to 2 hours of online training per year.

• Peer Parent Training and Resource Family Consultant (RFC) Training- 6 hours each per year may be used toward licensure. RFC Training must be provided by DCFS RFCs.

REMINDER: Family team meetings do not count

toward in-service

Terms to Know


in this issueHoliday Resources P.23


Partners in Parenting P.25

EASTERN REGION UPDATE

Eastern Region Office

475 W. Price River Dr. #152Price, UT 84501

Phone: 435.636.0210Fax: 435. 637.9702

Toll Free: 877.636.0210

Area Representative

Kobi Marchello

Moab Office180 S. 300 E. Suite C

Moab, Utah 84532Phone: 435.259.3345

Fax: 435.259.2691

Foster/AdoptiveFamily Recruiter &

Retention SpecialistGeri Winkler

Vernal Office1052 W. Market Drive

Vernal, Utah 84078Phone: 435.790.4225

Fax: 435.781.1539

Trainer

Les Harris

Roosevelt OfficeRR 3 Box 8008

Roosevelt, Utah 84066Phone: 435.724.0959


Faith Spencer

Holiday Resources for Resource Families

By: Faith SpencerEastern Region Retention Specialist, Utah Foster Care Foundation

As the holiday season draws closer, we want to make you aware of the various resources available to you and your kids in care. The holidays can be filled with joyful traditions, excitement and memo-ries. For many, it can also be a time of stress with emotional or financial chal-lenges. Your local cluster group wants to help where possible.

In an effort to assist you in meeting the needs of those you love and care for, the following are available to assist you:

KSL Quarters for Christmas FundsChildren in care can access up to $200 (ages 11 and older) or up to $100 (ages 10 or under) for needed clothing, out-erwear and footwear. This includes PJ’s, coats, underwear, winter clothing, boots,

shoes, slippers, and clothes for church, school or play. Funds are available on a first come, first served basis, so don’t delay. See your local cluster page for more instructions that must be followed to access these funds.

Holiday Cluster EventsTo ensure that every child in care has something to open Christmas morn-ing, your local cluster will be distributing donations from generous donors in our communities. A holiday family party may also be planned for your area. Again, check out your cluster page for details on dates, times and locations.

Wishing Well FundsIf your child in care has needs that are not covered under the above resources, Wishing Well funds may be requested. Please see page 26 for more information on requesting Wishing Well funds.

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Cluster Facilitator

Contact Information

Kim @ [email protected]

“I have been a foster parent for

a little over 2 years and have

fostered children between the

ages of 8 and 18 years. I am

currently fostering 3 teenage

girls.”

[email protected]

“I have 3 wonderful children

and I have been a foster parent

for 5 years. Call me anytime!”

Grand/San Juan Cluster & Training InformationMonthly Cluster announcements for currently licensed foster parents

Presented by Les Harris, LCSW

One of the most difficult challenges parents face is motivating teens to per-form daily tasks and ful-fill their responsibilities at home and at school. This training will provide some helpful ideas related to helping teens to remain focused on their goals and objectives

November 10th

6:00pm-8:00pmBlanding DCFS

Motivating Teens

For the Family

Come join us for an eve-ning of food, festivities and fun! Watch for more upcoming details.

December 11th

Christmas Party

Please watch your mail for information about up-coming holiday activities and how donations re-ceived from the commu-nity will be distributed in our area. Please contact your local UFCF office if you are in need of help for your child in care this Christmas.

ATTENTION

Your RFC isAl [email protected]

Family parties

and activities

are frequently

offered through

your local cluster.

Check out what’s

happening this

season on your

local cluster

page.


Carbon/Emery/Adoption Cluster & Training InformationMonthly Cluster announcements for currently licensed foster parents

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For Parents

Presented by TBA

This group session will al-low parents to discuss is-sues they are facing and gain insight and ideas from a licensed counselor and other resource fami-lies.

November 12th6:30 pm - 9:00 pmPrice Four Corners

Mental Heath

Support Group

Please watch your mail for information about up-coming holiday activities and how donations re-ceived from the commu-nity will be distributed in our area. Please contact your local UFCF office if you are in need of help for your child in care this Christmas.

ATTENTION Cluster Facilitator

Contact Information

Wishing you and yours a joyful holiday season!

[email protected]

“Leland & I have been foster

parents for 15 1/2 years. We

have four married children and 13

grandchildren. Feel free to contact

me with questions or suggestions by

phone or email.”

Happy Holidays

Your RFC isTammy [email protected]

Child-specific donations are

requested from the commu-

nity and distributed through

your local cluster.


Uintah Basin Cluster InformationMonthly Cluster announcements for currently licensed foster parents

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Transition to Adult Living


Foster and adoptive parents are essential to helping youth in their care achieve success. This training will provide caregivers with strategies to assist youth making a transition into adulthood.

November 16th1:00 pm - 4:00 pmVernal DCFS Office

Helping Youth



December 1st 1:00 pm - 5:00 pmVernal DCFS Office

FFY #1 FFY #2Cluster Facilitator

Contact Information



December 15th1:00 pm - 5:00 pmVernal DCFS Office

[email protected]

[email protected]

Your RFC isJacina [email protected]

Please watch your mail for information about upcom-ing holiday activities and how donations received from the community will be distributed in our area. Please contact your local UFCF office if you are in need of help for your child in care this Christmas.


Eastern Region Partners in ParentingPartners in Parenting are local businesses that want to show their appreciation for all you do by offering discounts and specials to foster families.

Just present your Fos-ter Care License to take advantage of these offers, and be sure to let these businesses know that you appreciate their support!

While the Utah Foster Care Foundation is sincerely grateful to our Partners in Parenting, we cannot endorse any of the services or products offered. A statewide list and description of all Partners in Parenting is available at our website: www.utahfostercare.org.

Your Foster Care License identifies you as one of our valued foster care providers and allows you to enjoy the benefits and savings from local merchants.

You MUST have your Foster Care License to access discounts from these busi-nesses. Please do not ask for exceptions.

If you are aware of any business that would like to become a Partner in Parenting, please call Faith at 435.724.0959.

All Scrapped Up

Cold Stone Creamery

Personal Reflections PhotographyKFC/A&W RestaurantsBig B Equipment John Deere

RC Fencing

Rod’s Mini Lube

Northeastern Utah Office Supply

Moab City Pool

Gravel Pit Lanes

Slick Rock Cinema

K & A Chuck Wagon

Blanding City Pool

San Juan Theatre

10% discount & free scrapbook class

150 S. 700 E. #Bin Price

10% off

10% off

10% off

10% off all toys in stock

$1 off per foot materials and labor

10% off - see store for details

10% discount

Free swimming w/pass

2-for-1 bowling

Discount passes - call Geri

$4.00/adult & $3.00/child tickets

1191 E. Mainin PriceJennifer801.518.6368130 N. Carbonville Road in Price22245 W. Hwy 40in RooseveltRhett435-790-768111 N. 200 E.Roosevelt only290 E. 200 S.in Roosevelt

181 W. 400 N. in Moab1078 Millcreek Dr.in Moab580 Kane Creek Blvd. in Moab

50 W. 100 S.in Blanding120 W. Center Streetin Blanding

496 N. Mainin Monticello

Free dinner 1x per month w/reservation

Free family pass—contact city offices

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Uintah Basin

volunteers and

parents wrap

Christmas gifts

for kids in care.


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