msm's october 2009 issue

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Volume 1, Number 9

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IntroducingThe Bostonsports nut

Ivania Nicolehas beena busy girl

Make yourown costumethis Halloween

UnrequitedLove

HalloweenEdition

Massachusetts’

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Volume 1, Number 9

U.S. $2.00

IntroducingThe BostonSports Nut

Ivania Nicolehas beena busy girl

Make yourown costumethis Halloween

UnrequitedLove

Honesttruth aboutthe truth

HalloweenEdition


The honest truth about truth

Make your own Halloween costume

insideVolume 1, Number 9 October

2009

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Unrequited Love

Feature CoverMS. IVANIA NICOLE gets busy

09Introducing our sport column


ContributorsJanelle Powers, writer,[email protected] was born and raisedright here in Boston. She attend-ed Hofstra University in NewYork where she studied both

journalism and theatre. She’s had several small actingroles in both film and television, as well as some roles onthe stage. She is currently working as histology techni-cian and lives in Brighton with her fiancé.

Bobby Carr, writer,[email protected] is always looking to utilize hiscreative attributes, which have led him inmany different directions such as starringin the independent horror film Prichardand Silas and now following his true pas-sion to be a writer. Bobby states “My

only unfulfilled aspiration is finding true love, because Ibelieve you are not truly happy unless you can share thathappiness with someone else which is why I am ecstaticabout writing for a singles magazine.”

Mehdy Ogine-Noel,photographer,[email protected] earned his graphic de-sign degree from the Kather-ine Gibbs school in 2003. Heowns RealtoucH, a photogra-phy company. Mehdy has

done photography for weddings, corporate events, andwebsites. Visit him on www.realtouchpg.com

Siobhan Talia Piqué,Staff make up artist

[email protected] her 2 older sisters, Talia hasalways been into the latest fashionand has learned how to applymake-up correctly. Her passion for make-up began withdoing her roommates’ make-up for dates and formals andapplying make up for her fellow cheerleaders prior togames. During her free time, she loves to spend timewith her two year old son, write poetry and volunteer asa member of the Human Rights Commission of Newton.

Ken Joseney, Sport [email protected] is a humble and generous “sports nut” out of theNorfolk county area. He currently works for a large datastorage company as a technical writer. On his free time(which happens less than usual), he enjoys listening tomusic, reading, and most importantly spending time withloved ones. Because of its unpredictability, sports hasalways been something that Ken enjoys tremendously; itis now a privilege to share it with all the MSM readers

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{Editor’s letter}

HalloweenHalloween is one of my favorite holidays. Dressing up

and attending numerous events are the highlight of Fall.This is MSM’s first Halloween and we plan to celebrate thismonth in style. MSM will be hosting an Halloween affairat Club Red in Worcester on Halloween Night. Put on yourbest costume and come join us. In honor of Halloween,

we are hosting a competition for the most creative andoriginal costume. The winner will $100 cash from MSMand will hold the title of most original costume until nextyear. You send us your pictures and we will vote.Last but not least, stay safe this Halloween season becauseMSM values your readership.Happy Halloween,

Marie Stuart NoëlPublisher and [email protected]

MSM’s Halloween ContestIn honor of Halloween, MSM is holding a contest forthe most original costume. Please send your picturesto [email protected] by October 25th. TheMost original and creative costume will receive a

$100 cash prize. There is no fee to enter this contestso start sending your pictures to us now.Winner will be announced on Halloween.


Bobby Carr talks sex, dating and relationships

The Honest Truth about TruthAs passed on by our elders, communication and hon-esty are supposedly the keys to unlocking the secretto successful relationships. With that said, I began toquestion the authors of the so-called relationshiphandbook. Had they actually tested out whether ornot keeping some things from our counterparts wasdetrimental to our well being? When it comes to rela-tionships is honesty always the best policy?

It was Friday night and a fading summer welcomedan approaching fall. I had agreed to meet up with agood friend, his boyfriend and their two friends forsome friendly drinks. As a group of five becamethree, I suddenly found myself stranded at a bar witha feuding couple and an empty martini glass. Notic-ing my drink was finished and the unhappy couple Iarrived with was far from finishing their debate of un-resolved differences, I was offered a refill and an es-cape from an awkward situation by a reserved suitorin suit. A half an hour later my feuding couple hadcalled a truce and headed home, and the conversa-tion with the suited suitor had turned from interestingto intriguing. Extraordinary stories of bar fights, ob-sessive behaviors and even a possible stalking of anold fling had me wondering whether my suitor wasplaying his cards right or playing with a full deck. Ei-ther way, my inability to get behind the wheel had meaccepting an invitation to an afterhour’s house party.

While I was questioning one person’s openness, myfriend Ellie was opening up. In a dimly lit restaurantEllie’s overall first date rating on Nick79 was betweena 7 and a 9. She felt comfortable with his attractive-ness and good listening skills and just as Ellie was

about to make a personal bet that there would be asecond time around, she noticed a sudden change incharacter. The attentive listener suddenly becamedistant. Instead of staring into her eyes, he was fre-quently glancing to the side. Ellie continued to con-verse hoping for a confession explaining a medicalcondition in which he needed to reposition his neckevery so often, but no such luck. After heading to thebathroom to hide held back tears, a quick look in themirror made Ellie see the truth. Ironically enough, ona first date, she had literally put herself out there. Aloose fitting top had caused the right side of her tophalf to let loose and there out in the open was noth-ing on her chest. After a quick reposition, Elliestormed out of the bathroom and informed her datethat she was heading home. She figured if hecouldn’t be upfront and honest about something assimple as a wardrobe malfunction, how could shetrust him to be truthful about anything serious in thefuture?

Later that night surrounded by a few people I didn’tknow, I was attempting to figure out who I knew waytoo much about. My suitor’s stories became increas-ingly out there and wild and the more intoxicated andhonest he got, the more turned off I became. As thenight went on, I began to realize his blunt personalitywas not exciting and dangerous, it was the sign of aninsecure “hot mess”. After a comment about discol-ored urine as a result of bad steroids, I faked a stom-ach ache and hailed a cab. On my way, I quicklyrealized that there are definite situations in which thetruth is appropriate, but in most cases, especiallywhen it comes to dating, we should always leave alittle room for mystery.

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Sports nut

Introducing;Boston’s Sports Nut, Ken

October is proven to be one of the mostamazing months for die hard baseballfans around the United States. In NewEngland, it is no different. The so-calledEvil Empires seem to have a firm grip onthe AL East title.

Our own Boston Red Sox has a verycommanding lead to earn the AL Wild Card.Baring a Halloween-like event, the Sox’sopponents in the Division Series is mostlikely going to be the Los Angeles Angelsof Anaheim. Since 2004, these two teamshave met three times in the playoffs, andthe Sox are 3-0.

With Josh Beckett returning to his old selfagain, the Red Sox are one of the favoritesto return the favors of 2004 and 2007.Remember those years? However, it will notcome easy; Josh will need everyone else tojoin in the fun. Look for the Sox towin the Division Series matchup in LA, andearn a spot in the American League ChampionshipSeries.

It will be an October to remember.Whether you stay in to watch it all unfold orjoin in with a few friends, have fun!

Until next time, have a Happy Halloween.-Ken Joseney


Busy, making a name for herselffrom Boston to Worcester.When MSM asked our October cover girl,Ms. Iva Nicole, to wear Halloween costumesfor her feature in the magazine, she wasmore than happy to play dress up. For Iva’sspread, MSM presents; Ms. Iva the sexy sassycop, Ms. Iva the seductive school girl, andMs. Iva the innocent sweet maid. Enjoy!Cop and School girl photographed by Realtouch photographyFrench maid photographed by Snake Eyes PhotographyMake up by Talia Pique of Piquecompany.com

“Don’t sit there andwatch your dream,wake up and live

your dream.”-Iva Nicole


Ivania Nicole known as Ivahas been busy making a name for herselfin the local scene. She is a spokesperson,entrepreneur, model, andactress.

Iva is currently 617 Live TV’s newestcorrespondent. She has been featuredin films such as Business At War,directed by Kemal Gordon. She haswalked the runway of the mostprestigious fashion shows in Boston;BostonBridal Affair sponsored by BridesMagazine, Boston Fashion Week 2008,top designers Betsey Johnson, andMarc Jacobs and Boston Fashion Week2009. Iva has been featured inmagazines (Nulinx Magazine March2009 Model of the Month), articles(www.Fly-coalition.com) and is aMaxim Hometown Hottie.Iva enjoys giving back to thecommunity, being part of the “BeantownBeauty Calendar 2009” to help fightcancer; proceeds go to Stand Up forCancer.org. She is currently hostingan event for Susan G. Komen “Shopfor the cure” on October 25th inWorcester.

Her passion for fashion has given herinspiration in opening her very ownclothing boutique “Exclusives” locatedin Worcester, MA.

“Don’t sit there and watch your dream,wake up and live your dream” saysIva. She has taken her own advice andafter graduating Anna Maria College in2007with a business degree, she decidedin 2008 to become a model.Since her debut into the fashion world,Iva’s been very diligent in her work.This young woman is on her way tothe top and she is not stopping to restanytime soon.

For more information on Ivania Nicole,please visitwww.ivanianicole.com.


Fashion Sen$eMake your own Halloween costume, save money!By Marie Stuart Noel

In honor of our Halloween contest, I thought it be a good idea for Fashion Sen$e to be about homemade Costumes.Take notes because the following costumes might be a way for you to start and be on your way to win that $100.

WomenThe cat woman look is one the easiest homemade costume look to achieve. Your closet (I’m sure) has all thewardrobe pieces.

What you’ll needBlack leggingsTights black shirt /corsetBlack bootsCat accessories from the costume storeBlack gloves

Put them on and wear your homemade costume.Cut your tights (as shown below) for an edgier look.The cat accessory kit from a costume store which completes the look is usually less than $15.

MenThe Dwight Schrute from the show “The office”costume is one of the easiest to put togetherbecause all these items can be found in your closet. If you do not have these items, you canfind them at you local thrift store. Most importantly, there is no sewing involved.

What you’ll needEye glasses which you can buy cheaply anywhere or your prescription glassesSolid brown tieBrown pantsA short sleeved button up mustard colored shirtA wig or have your hair parted the Schrute way (see bobble head)


Written by a woman, for women

Unrequited loveBy Janelle Powers

Unrequited love can be many things, it can be sad, or an

object of fond memories or even an object of obsession.

The burden and blessing of unrequited love is that it can be

anything you want it to be. Almost everyone has had that

one love that got away or the crush that you never had the

courage to ask out, but the question is can anything be done

about it? It there some way to find the lost love or that old

crush that made you all warm and fuzzy inside?

There are a few different schools of thought on the subject

and they each have good points. One of the best things

about unrequited love is that it can be anything you want it

to be. You can have the fantasy of the perfect romance, but

if you choose to act on that impulse to try and find that one

person you may very well be disappointed. That person in

reality may not live up the expectations that you had for

them, and what’s worse is you are setting yourself up for

disappointment right from the start. No one can or should

have to live up to the expectations of others, and with an

unrequited love that’s exactly what your love is made up of;

expectations. In the end, you just may end up with a sour

taste in your mouth for love and a shattered dream. Some-

times it is better to be able to hold on to that fantasy and

never know the real flaws of your lover.

There is however a flip side to this theory. What if you do

finally act on your desires and ask that person out for a

date? Or you track down that lost love from your past and

they are still available. You go on a few dates and realize

that the person is very different than the one you envi-

sioned, or it turns out that the real person is much better

than the one you dreamed about? You just may find that

this person has qualities that you didn’t even know you

wanted in a partner. The reality can turn out to be even bet-

ter than the fantasy. Sometimes you find love in the oddest

places and it can take you by surprise. That is one of the

best things about a relationship, all the surprises that can

happen especially when you take a chance.

The bottom line is this; in love as well as life you need to

take chances. Sometimes you’ll win and sometimes you’ll

lose, but, taking chances is the only way to get what you

want. Life and love are not easy but they can be fun and

interesting, just don’t expect to never be disappointed. Un-

requited love is a funny thing, its’ fickle and can turn out

either way, but if you don’t take the chance then you’ll nev-

er really know.


Serving oneSpider deviled eggsRecipe for 12 deviled eggs:6 hard boiled Eggs (large)3 tablespoons mayonnaise or salad dressing1 tablespoon sugar1 teaspoon mustard1 teaspoon vinegarsalt & pepper to tastepaprikablack olive halves and slices

Directions:

Remove shells from eggs, and halve lengthwisewith a knife.

Carefully remove the yolks, and place in a mediumbowl.

Mash yolks with a fork, and add remaining ingre-dients.

Very carefully spoon mixture back into the eggwhite halves.

Garnish with a light sprinkling of paprika.

Carefully arrange the olives in the shape of a spi-der on top of each eggs.

Chill in the refrigerator for an hour.

-Happy Halloween


Hannah & The Bloodlines @ Copperfields


Calendar of eventsOctober 1Ivania Nicole’s Octoberrelease cover partyThursday, October 1, 2009 at9:00pmFelt Nightclub533 Washington St.Boston, MAIva Nicole, MSM's Octobercover, will be take center stageas she will be signing copiesof the October issue for partyguests.October 2TOK comes to Club Red1888Friday, October 2, 2009 at10:00pmClub Red Street:41 Pleasant StWorcester, MATOK comes to club 1888 in Worces-terOctober 3Ivania Nicole’s Octoberrelease cover partySaturday, October 3, 2009 at10:00pmClub Red Street:41 Pleasant StWorcester, MAIva Nicole, MSM's Octobercover, will be take center stagein Worcester. She will be sign-ing copies of the October issuefor party guests.October 8Hannah & The Bloodlines@CopperfieldsCopperfields-

98 Brookline AveBoston, MAThursday, Oct. 8th 7:30pm-21+ tickets $8Hannah & The Bloodlineshave the unique opportunity toopen for national sensationRosemary's Garden as theytour through Boston. Hannah& The Bloodlines, who havebeen compared to The Police,DMB, and U2 for their echo-ing guitar riffs and new agesound are said to have one ofthe best live shows in Boston;heck- throughout New Eng-land! Listen to them once andyou'll experience a new waveof music that makes you feelfree.October 25Susan G. Komen Fund-raiser and Fashion ShowCanal cocktail lounge90 Harding St.Worcester, MAShop for a cure, VIP fash-ion show and education ofbreast cancer.October 31MSM and STR8UP Ent.hosts an Halloween affairSaturday, October 31, 2009 at10:00pmClub Red Street:41 Pleasant StWorcester, MAWear your best costume andcome celebrate Halloweenwith us.

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HoroscopesLIBRASeptember 23-October 22Appreciate the smaller things in life today. Make apoint to walk slower and taken in all your surroundings.Admire your friends for their often unnoticed gesturesof kindness. Tell your family how much they mean toyou. Don't let a moment pass where you don't thankyour lucky stars.

SCORPIOOctober 23 - November 21Your dreams can reveal hidden desires you didn't evenknow you harbored. In a journal, write down everythingyou remember dreaming to decipher later. Interpret thesymbols and reoccurring themes in your dreams for abetter understanding of your subconscious.

SAGITTARIUSNovember 22-December 21Listen to others reminisce about the past for inspirationto find romance in the future. Stories of love lost mayinitially seem sad but in fact they teach us valuable les-sons about seizing the moment and taking risks roman-tic risks..

CAPRICORNDecember 22-January 19Feeling good comes naturally to you today. Relish thisspectacular mood. Continue the positive vibes by partic-ipating in activities that make you happy. Invite alongpals who need a fun distraction.

AQUARIUSJanuary 20-February 18Today you may be sidetracked by the appearance ofsomeone who takes your breath away. Before skippingoff to Daydream Alley, remember that the new object ofyour devotion is indeed a mere mortal capable of mis-takes. Don't get the pedestal out from storage quite yet.

PISCESFebruary 19-March 20Your friends miss you. Today is a great time to recon-nect and have some fun. Gather up the gang and hit thetown. Go to your usual haunts, or have them over toyour place for an impromptu party.

ARIESMarch 21-April 19Use positive energy towards others when trying to turna mood around. Instead of focusing on your own prob-lems, sometimes it's easier to help others in need first.You could end up finding solutions in unlikely places.

TAURUSApril 20-May 20It's a good time to implement an idea that might be con-sidered slightly wacky. Tackling a problem from left-of-center could be exactly what you need to find a creativesolution. Someone you want to impress will notice yourcreativity.

GEMINIMay 21-June 21Focus on creative ideas today instead of dismissing newconcepts. When you give into your artistic side it canpositively influence all areas of your life -- career,friendship and love. Be open to wacky and off-kilteractivities.

CANCERJune 22-July 22You have a strong intuition, so don't ignore it! If yourinstincts are telling you someone just isn't right for you,then follow that feeling. Sometimes it's best to go withyour gut instead of your heart.

LEOJuly 23-August 22Show off your creative talents today. Offer to sketchportraits of pals, or cook someone new a romantic din-ner. Write a song about how you're feeling right now, ortake artistic photos of your pet. Give into your artisticside.

VIRGOAugust 23-September 22Everything's mutable including that nagging voice inyour head. When pursuing a new relationship the lastthing you want to do is give into self-doubt. Don't beyour own worst enemy. Ignore the negative worryingand believe in your heart.

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