mentoring another christian training welcome to:
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Mentoring
Another Christian
TRAINING
WELCOME TO:WELCOME TO:
INTRODUCTIONINTRODUCTION
INTRODUCTORY
CONCEPTS:
DEFINITIONDEFINITION
Mentor: ONE WHO BINDS HIMSELF TO ANSWER FOR ANOTHER; ONE WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR ANOTHER’S DEFAULT
BIBLICAL BASISBIBLICAL BASIS
Ephesians 4:16 “From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.”
MENTOR/PROTEGE RELATIONSHIP MENTOR/PROTEGE RELATIONSHIP
Each one equips,after being equipped by one!
THE CRITICAL PATH . . .THE CRITICAL PATH . . .
1. We feel there must be more participation by every Cell Member in equipping others.
2. The Mentor/ Protégé system is effective to bond the new Cell Member to the Cell and to one special helping person.
JESUS’ CELL GROUPJESUS’ CELL GROUP
The group was impacted by:His modelingMutual sharingTeachable momentsMutual learning from one another
ACCOUNTABLE & RESPONSIBLEACCOUNTABLE & RESPONSIBLE
ACCOUNTABLE TO..
RESPONSIBLE FOR..
Not solving his problems
Not making decisions for him
But loving support
STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITYSTAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY
1.GET-ACQUAINTED
STAGE
STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITYSTAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY
2. CONFLICT
STAGE
STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITYSTAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY
3. COMMUNITY
STAGE
STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITYSTAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY
4. MINISTRY &
OUTREACH
STAGE
LET’S TALK ABOUT IT-LET’S TALK ABOUT IT-
What is your view about becoming responsible and accountable?
What are the positives?What challenges will you face?
THE MENTOR’S TASKTHE MENTOR’S TASK
THE TASKS
OF A
MENTOR:
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES
1. A MENTOR
LISTENS
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES
2. A MENTOR
INTERCEDES
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES
3. A MENTOR
MODELS
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES
4. A MENTOR
TEACHES
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES
5. A MENTOR
SETS THE PACE
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES
6. A MENTOR INVOLVES THE PROTÉGÉ WITH OTHER CHRISTIANS
MENTOR/ PROTÉGÉ AGREEMENTMENTOR/ PROTÉGÉ AGREEMENT
Telephone calls?Day and time of weekly meeting?
MENTOR/ PROTÉGÉ AGREEMENTMENTOR/ PROTÉGÉ AGREEMENT
Cell leader to know in confidence about personal mattersScripture memory will be given highest priority
PLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETINGPLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETING
Pray for your Protégé Write down your plansCarefully read the weekly Mentor’s guides
Keep a record of your weekly meetings
PLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETINGPLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETING
MINUTES ACTIVITY15
SHARE
5 REVIEW SCRIPTURE MEMORY VERSES20 DISCUSS MATERIALS
PLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETINGPLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETING
MINUTES ACTIVITY10
APPLY TRUTHS LEARNED
10 INTERCEDE FOR ONE ANOTHER AND
UNSAVED FRIENDS
PROTÉGÉ’S OIKOSPROTÉGÉ’S OIKOS
HAVE YOU MET THE OIKOS OF YOUR PROTÉGÉ?
LET’S TALK ABOUT IT-LET’S TALK ABOUT IT-
TALK ABOUT SPECIFIC MEMBERS OF YOUR OIKOS THAT YOU WANT TO INTRODUCE TO YOUR MENTOR
PRINCIPLESPRINCIPLES
THEPRINCIPLES
OFMENTORING:
PRINCIPLES IN MENTORINGPRINCIPLES IN MENTORING
1. Remember the “hula hoop” principle
2. Don’t solve the protégé’s problems
3. Never give or loan money directly to the protégé
PRINCIPLES IN MENTORINGPRINCIPLES IN MENTORING
4. Help the protégé make final decisions alone
5. Remind the protégé that walking in victory is a choice
6. Explain that “you never fail until you quit”
THE EQUIPPING TRACKTHE EQUIPPING TRACK
THE
EQUIPPING
JOURNEY:
THE JOURNEY STARTSTHE JOURNEY STARTS
A new convert or a believer visits the cell group
The person commits to become a cell member
THE JOURNEY STARTSTHE JOURNEY STARTSThe cell leader presents him or her with a copy of the Journey Guide
The new cell member prayerfully completes the Journey Guide on his own
THE CELL LEADER VISITSTHE CELL LEADER VISITS
The new cell member is visited by the cell leader and a
Mentor,
Prayerfully selected from the cell.
THE CELL LEADER VISITSTHE CELL LEADER VISITS
A “Journey Map” is prepared. The Mentor will help the new member get started on this
Equipping Journey.
If the protégé is a new believer:
Present the Beginning the Journey booklet
Schedule 5 weekly visitsUse the Mentor’s Guide found in the back of Beginning the Journey
EQUIPPING JOURNEYEQUIPPING JOURNEY
• New cell member attends “Spiritual Formation Weekend”• New believer is then baptized
EQUIPPING JOURNEYEQUIPPING JOURNEY
Protégé obtains a copy of the Arrival Kit
Schedule 11 weekly visitsMentor uses mentor’s guide at the back of the Arrival Kit
EQUIPPING JOURNEYEQUIPPING JOURNEY
Protégé now becomes a Mentor of an incoming person
Mentoring Another Christian is obtained and worked through
EQUIPPING JOURNEYEQUIPPING JOURNEY
The Mentor and Protégé now team up as partners to attend the Touching Hearts
Training
EQUIPPING JOURNEYEQUIPPING JOURNEY
WRAP UPWRAP UP
ANY
QUESTIONS
?