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Mentalizing as Common Groundfor Psychotherapy:
Educating Patients and Clinicians
Jon G. Allen, Ph.D.
The Menninger Clinic
Baylor College of Medicine
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CollaborationColleagues
Peter Fonagy, Mary Target & Anthony Bateman;Efrain Bleiberg, Pasco Fearon, Toby Haslam-
Hopwood, Elliot Jurist, George Gergely, JeremyHolmes, Linda Mayes, Richard Munich, Lois Sadler,John Sargent, Carla Sharp, Arietta Slade, HelenStein, Stuart Twemlow, Laurel Williams
Consortium
University College London, Anna Freud Centre,Yale Child Study Center, The Menninger Clinic,Human Neuroimaging Laboratory at Baylor Collegeof Medicine
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Books
Fonagy, Gergely, Jurist & Target (2002).Affect regulation, mentalizing,and the development of the self. New York: Other Press.
Bateman & Fonagy (2004). Psychotherapy for borderline personalitydisorder: Mentalization-Based Treatment. New York: OxfordUniversity Press.
Bateman & Fonagy (2006). Mentalization-Based Treatment forborderline personality disorder: A practical guide. New York: OxfordUniversity Press.
Allen & Fonagy, Eds. (2006). Handbook of Mentalization-BasedTreatment. Chichester, UK: John Wiley & Sons.
Allen, Fonagy, & Bateman (2008). Mentalizing in clinical practice.Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Publishing.
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Definitions of mentalizing
mentalizing is a form of imaginative mental activity, namely,perceiving and interpreting human behavior as conjoined withintentional mental states (e.g., needs, desires, feelings,beliefs, goals, purposes, and reasons)
Shorthand attending to mental states in self and others holding mind in mind holding heart and mind in heart and mind
mindfulness of mind understanding misunderstandings
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Part I
Mentalizing as a common factorin psychotherapeutic treatment
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A capsule history of mentalizing
First recorded use of the word, 1807
First appeared in Oxford English Dictionary, 1906
give a mental quality to; picture in the mind;
cultivate mentally
Used in French psychoanalytic literature in late 1960s
Employed in understanding autism in 1989 (Morton)
Employed in understanding developmentalpsychopathology in 1989 (Fonagy) and extended
to treatment of BPD (Bateman & Fonagy)Advocated as a common factor in psychotherapeutic
treatment (Allen, Fonagy & Bateman)
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What is the therapeutic alliance if not an attachment bond?
Jeremy Holmes (2001):The search for the secure base
Much, if not all, of the effectiveness of different forms ofpsychotherapy may be due to those features that all have incommon rather than those that distinguish them from each other.
Jerome Frank (1961):Persuasion and healing
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In advocating mentalization-based treatment we claim no innovation.
On the contrary, mentalization-based treatment is the least noveltherapeutic approach imaginable.
Allen & Fonagy, Handbook of Mentalization-Based Treatment
Mentalizing is the most fundamental common factoramong
psychotherapeutic treatmentsperforce, clinicians mentalize inconducting psychotherapies and also engage their patients in doingso. Allen, Fonagy, & Bateman, Mentalizing in Clinical Practice
mentalizing, even if not always explicit in our language, is implicit in
many forms of psychotherapyAllen and colleagues, of course, havealready said this, when they suggest: Youre already doing it. Andindeed we are, if were doing our job.
Oldham (2008), Epilogue to Mentalizing in Clinical Practice
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Two broad questions
What is distinctive about mentalizing?
as a treatment approach?
as a concept?
Whats all the fuss about?
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Plakuns Y model: Generic and specific facets
psychodynamiccognitive-behavioral
common factors
alliance
empathic listening
formulation
boundaries
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Plakuns Y model: Generic and specific facets
psychodynamiccognitive-behavioral
mentalizing
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Treatments for BPD
Mentalization-Based Therapy
mentalizing
Implication: extensiveoverlap between MBT
and other treatmentapproaches to BPD
Transference-Focused Psychotherapy
Dialectical Behavior Therapy
relatively single-minded focus onmentalizing process: consistency; a
style of psychotherapy
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Mentalizing: Generic and specific facets
Mentalizing Focus inPsychotherapy
mentalizing
metacognitive approaches
Third-Generation Cognitive-Behavioral Therapies
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)mindfulness practice
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The Menninger Clinic: Historical ContextLong-term psychoanalytically oriented hospital treatmentthroughout most of its history in Topeka, Kansas
Gradual reductions in hospital stays coupled withincreasing array of partial-hospital and outpatient
servicesIncreasing theoretical eclecticism (e.g., CBT, DBT,psychoeducational approaches)
Downsizing to specialty inpatient treatment programs with4-8 week lengths of stay
Relocation to Houston, Texas to partner with BaylorCollege of Medicine
Jump-starting treatment for treatment-resistant patients
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Developing the common factor approach tomentalizing at The Menninger Clinic
Wide range of disorders beyond BPD: depression, anxiety,trauma, substance abuse, other PDs
Professionals in Crisis program emphasizes mentalizing; initiatedpsychoeducational intervention
Clinicians resistance to mentalizing
sounds foreign
already know it all
Increasing desire for conceptual coherence in apsychotherapeutic culture (integrative function)
Belatedly educating clinicians after educating patientsMentalization-Based Adolescent Treatment Program developed in
consultation with Peter Fonagy, Mary Target, & AnthonyBateman
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ComplaintsMentalization has an intellectualizing and potentially
dehumanizing ring to it and must be humanized:
We must keep in mind that the mental statesperceived and the process of perception aresuffused with emotion; mentalizing is a form ofemotional knowing
A grammatical preference for the verb (or gerund)
emphasizes agency, activity, and process;
mentalizing is mental action; something we do
Aspiring to render mentalizing an everydayword rather than a technical concept
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New words
The word in language is half someone elses. It becomesones own only when the speaker populates it with his own
intention.many words stubbornly resist, others remain
alien, sound foreign in the mouth of the one whoappropriated them and who now speaks themLanguage ispopulatedoverpopulatedwith the intentions of others.
Expropriating it, forcing it to submit to ones own intentionsand accents, is a difficult and complicated process.
Wertsch: Mind as action
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Mentalizing emotion (mentalized affectivity)Mentalizing
transforming non-mental into mental
mentally elaborating primitively mental experience
Emotion includes much that is potentially non-mentalized
non-conscious cognitive appraisals physiological arousal
action tendencies and motoric activation
expressive motor behavior
Emotion (affect) is mentalized when felt
Mental elaboration includes understanding and attributing meaning to
feelings, which includes continuous conscious cognitive appraisalsand reappraisals
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Mentalizing in the midst of emotion
Mentalizing while remaining in the emotional state
1. identifying feelings
labeling basic emotions
awareness of conflicting emotions
attributing meaning to emotions (narrative)
2. modulating emotion
downward and upward
3. expressing emotion outwardly and inwardly
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Two impairments of mentalizing (besides misuse):too little or too much imaginativeness
concreteness,indifference,aversion
groundedimagination
imagination gonewild (paranoia)
nonmentalizing
distorted
mentalizingmentalizing
mindblindness excrementalizing
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Overlapping concepts (hairsplitting)
mindblindness:antithesis of mentalizing; employed originally tocharacterize autism
mindreading:applies to others and focuses on cognition
theory of mind:conceptual framework for mentalizing, focuses on
cognitive developmentmetacognition:focuses primarily on cognition in the self
decentering:observe ones thoughts/feelings as events in mind
reflective functioning:measurement of mentalizing in attachment context
mindfulness:focuses on present and not limited to mental states
empathy:focuses on others and emphasizes emotional states
emotional intelligence:pertains to mentalizing emotion in self and others
psychological mindedness:broadly defined, the disposition to mentalize
insight:mental content that is the product of the mentalizing process
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Mentalizing as an umbrella termFull range of mental states
Self and others
Implicit (intuitive) and explicit (deliberate) processes
Varying time framepresent
past
future
Varying scope
narrow (e.g., feeling at the moment)
broad (e.g., autobiographical narrative)
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Criticisms of mentalizing
Choi-Kain & Gunderson (Am J Psychiatry, in press)
The concept is broad and multidimensional
The core measure, the Reflective Functioning Scale, yields only a singlescore, is time-consuming and costly, and has limited research
Research should focus on more limited-domain concepts for which (primarilyself-report) measures have been developed (e.g., theory of mind,mindfulness, psychological mindedness, empathy, affect consciousness)
Semerari, Dimaggio et al., Metacognitive Assessment Scale
Separates self and others
Differentiates four facets
Identifying mental states
Differentiating subjective from objective (mental states as representational)
Relating mental states to each other and behavior
Integrating metacognitive knowledge into abstract narratives
Limitations of emphasizing process over content
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Mentalizing: links to other domains of knowledge
ATTACHMENT
EVOLUTIONARYBIOLOGY
PSYCHOANALYSIS
NEUROBIOLOGY
MENTALIZING
THEORY OF MIND
PHILOSOPHYphilosophy of mind
ethics
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Mentalizing: links to other domains of knowledge
ATTACHMENT
EVOLUTIONARYBIOLOGY
THEORY OF MIND
PHILOSOPHY
PSYCHOANALYSIS
NEUROBIOLOGY
MENTALIZING
philosophy of mind
ethics
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Part II
Attachment trauma and impaired mentalizing:
A focus for psychotherapy
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Trauma spectrum
nonhumanagent
attachmentfigure
human agent
impersonaltrauma
attachmenttrauma
interpersonaltrauma
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Attachment trauma: Two senses
Trauma that occurs in an attachmentrelationship, in childhood or adulthood
Trauma that adversely affects the capacityfor secure attachmentthe bane of thetherapeutic relationship
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Dual liability associated with attachmenttrauma in childhood (Fonagy & Target)
provokes extreme, repeated stress
undermines the developmentof the capacity toregulate distress
insecure (disorganized) attachment
impaired mentalizing capacity
impaired self-regulation
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Intergenerational transmission of mentalizing
A mothers capacity to hold in her own mind a representation ofher child as having feelings, desires, and intentions allows thechild to discover his own internal experience via his mothers
representation of it; this representation takes place in differentways at different stages of the childs development and of themother-child interaction. It is the mothers observations of themoment to moment changes in the childs mental state, and herrepresentation of these first in gesture and action, and later inwords and play, that is at the heart of sensitive caregiving, and is
crucial to the childs ultimately developing mentalizing capacitiesof his own [Slade, 2005]
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Intergenerational transmission of mentalizingmentalizing [is] the mechanism by which (1) the mother-childrelationship exerts its influence on the attachment security of thechild and (2) the mother-child relationship influences the childssocio-cognitive developmentsecure attachment is fostered through
accurate and appropriate parental mentalizing of the child, which inturn positively stimulates the development of the mentalizingcapacity of the child. As a result, the mentalizing child is able to forma secure attachment to the parentThe parents capacity to engagein accurate and appropriate mentalizing may be disrupted by avariety of child characteristics, most notably temperament. The
process by which secure attachment is fostered via accurate andappropriate parental mentalizing is therefore likely to bebidirectional. (Sharp & Fonagy, 2008, Social Development)
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High parental reflective functioning (mentalizing)
Sometimes she gets frustrated and angry (child mental state) inways Im not sure I understand (opacity of childs mental state). Shepoints to one thing and I hand it to her but it turns out that's not
really what she wanted (opacity). It feels very confusing to me(mother's mental state) when Im not sure how shes feeing (opacityof child's mental state) especially when shes upset. Sometimes shellwant to do something and I wont let her because its dangerous andso she'll get angry (mother recognizes diversity of mother and childmental states). (Slade, 2005)
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Model of intergenerational transmission and developmental psychopathology
psychosocialfunctioning
emotionregulation
childmentalizing
parental
mentalizing ofchild
childattachment
security
parental attachment
security
parental mentalizingin relation to
childhood attachment
adapted from Sharp & Fonagy(2008) Social Development
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Intergenerational transmission of trauma
Disturbed and abusive parents obliterate theirchildrens experience with their own rage, hatred,fear, and malevolence. The child (and his mental
states) is not seen for who he is, but in light of theparents projections and distortions. The infant
then takes on the parents hatred and aggression,a primitive form of identification with the aggressor
[Slade 2005]
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Trauma broadly construed
AFRAID
unbearableemotionalstates
+
ALONE
absence ofexperience of
being mentalized
feeling abandonedneglected, unloved,
invisible
IMPAIRED
MENTALIZINGCAPACITY
affectivedysregulationDBT:
invalidating environment BPD
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Mentalizing failure in traumatizing behavior
AFRAID
unbearable
emotionalstates
+
ALONEabsence of
experience ofbeing mentalized
feeling abandonedneglected, unloved,
invisible
IMPAIREDMENTALIZING
CAPACITY
mindblindterrorizing
traumatizer
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PTSD and psychic equivalence
psychicequivalence
mindrepresents
world
REEXPERIENCING
flashbacks &nightmares
mind=world
mentalizing
REMEMBERING
as painfulexperience
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The pretend mode: bullshitting
This is the crux of the distinction between [the bullshitter] and the liar.Both he and the liar represent themselves falsely as endeavouring tocommunicate the truth. The success of each depends upon deceiving usabout that. But the fact about himself that the liar hides is that he is
attempting to lead us away from a correct apprehension of reality; weare not to know that he wants us to believe something he supposes tobe false. The fact about himself that the bullshitter hides, on the otherhand, is that the truth-values of his statements are of no centralinterest to him; what we are not to understand is that his intention isneither to report the truth nor to conceal it. This does not mean that
his speech is anarchically impulsive, but that the motive guiding andcontrolling it is unconcerned with how the things about which he speakstruly are.
Frankfurt:On Bullshit
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An ironic mentalizing perspective on self-knowledge
There is nothing in theory, and certainly nothing in experience, tosupport the extraordinary judgment that it is the truth about himselfthat is easiest for a person to know. Facts about ourselves are not
peculiarly solid and resistant to skeptical dissolution. Our natures are,indeed, elusively insubstantial--notoriously less stable and less inherentthan the natures of other things. And insofar as this is the case,sincerity itself is bullshit.
Frankfurt:On Bullshit
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Applications to BPD
Persons with BPD often mentalize adequately but are highlyvulnerable to losing mentalizing, especially when attachmentneeds are activated in the context of insecure attachments (e.g.,distrust; threat of loss or betrayal)
frantic responses to perceived abandonment can be construed asposttraumatic reexperiencing of painful emotional states in thecontext of non-mentalizing attachment relationships
the core trauma in BPD might be the failure to develop robustmentalizing capacities stemming from relative deficiency ofmentalizing in early attachment relationships (with or withoutabuse)
this trauma is associated with impaired affect regulation and impaired
social cognition, especially in attachment contexts (i.e., whenattachment needs are evoked), including in psychotherapyrelationships, which have the potential to undermine mentalizing iftoo stimulating
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Mentalization-Based Therapy for BPDBateman & Fonagy,American Journal of Psychiatry, 2008
Effectiveness of MBT Day Hospital vs. Treatment as Usual 8-year follow-up (5 years post-termination of MBT)
23% versus 74% of patients made suicide attempts
fewer ER visits and hospital days; less medication use
13% versus 87% met criteria for BPD at end of follow-up
Significant differences in impulsivity and interpersonal functioning(including marked improvement in intense-unstable relationships andfrantic efforts to avoid abandonment)
three times longer periods of good vocational functioning
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Minding the Baby: Sadler, Slade, & Mayes
High-risk, first-time inner city parents and infants
Extends from pregnancy to childs second birthday
Nurse home visitation
Infant-parent psychotherapy
promote mothers mentalizing re: the self (e.g., verbalizing
feelings about pregnancy)
promote mothers mentalizing re: the infant (e.g., speaking
for the infant)
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Mentalization-Based Adolescent Treatment Program:
Efrain Bleiberg, Laurel Williams, Carla Sharp
Develop assessment and treatment for emergingpersonality disorder
Assessment
Diagnoses
Mentalizing capacity
Executive and cognitive functioning
Trauma history
Emotion regulation and risky behaviors
Family functioning (parenting style, attachment, mentalizing)
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Part III
Promoting an alliance through psychoeducation
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Psychoeducational Approach
Purposes promote a therapeutic alliance draw patients attention to a natural process
Curriculum understanding mentalizing and its development psychiatric disorders and mentalizing impairments
how treatment modalities promote mentalizing mentalizing exercises (projective, metaphors, role-playing, etc.)Incorporating mentalizing into other psychoeducational groups
Coping with trauma Coping with depression
Articles for patients and family members
Allen, Bleiberg, & Haslam-Hopwood (2003). Mentalizing as a compass for treatment.
Allen, Fonagy, Bateman (2008). What is mentalizing and why do it? (Appendix in Mentalizingin clinical practice)
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Broad scope of mentalizing
others
feelingsthoughts
self
empathy
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Holding mind in mind
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Holding mind in mind in emotional states
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Part IV
Cultivating mentalizing in psychotherapy:
Mentalizing begets mentalizing
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what good therapists do with their patients is analogousto what successful parents do with their children
Jeremy Holmes (2001):The search for the secure base
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Mentalizing as the engine of attachment: Therapists
contribution (in caregiving role)
Fostering an attachment relationship; emotional proximity
Attentiveness to distress (empathy, attunement, responsiveness)
Marked emotional responsiveness: representing the patients emotion tothe patient rather than becoming fully immersed in it
Emotional self-awareness and self-regulation
Providing support, encouragement and help while appraising andrespecting the patients competence and autonomy
Questioning and challenging the patients perspective while providingalternative perspectives
Understanding how attachment patterns are reenacted from childhood toadulthood and in the transference with the caveat that process(mentalizing capacity) is emphasized over content (specific insights)
Note parallels to a secure base in supervision
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Core mentalizing competencies for therapists (and patients)
Affective competence (Diana Fosha)
How affect is handled relationally
The capacity to feel and deal while relating
Neither overwhelmed nor hostile to emotion in patient or self
Requires affect tolerance and affect regulation
Allows therapist to provide an affect-facilitating environment
Note: entails mentalized affectivity or mentalizing emotion
Narrative competence (Jeremy Holmes)
Psychological equivalent of immunological competence
Collaborative and coherent discourse (e.g., as in secure/autonomous AAInarratives)
Balancing prose and poetry, stories and images
Evident in story telling, story listening, story-understanding; story making andstory breaking
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Secure attachment is marked by coherent stories that convince andhang together, where detail and overall plot are congruent, andwhere the teller is not so detached that affect is absent, is notdissociated from the content of her story, nor is so overwhelmedthat her feelings flow formlessly into every crevice of the dialogue.
Insecure attachment, by contrast, is characterized either by storiesthat are over-elaborated and enmeshed, or by dismissive, poorlyfleshed-out accounts[there are] three prototypical pathologies ofnarrative capacity: clinging to rigid stories, being overwhelmed byunstoried experience, or being unable to find a narrative strongenough to contain traumatic pain.
Jeremy Holmes (2001):The search for the secure base
Narrative competence
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Our Humanity: The art of mentalizing
Appeal to special abilities of analysts must not violate thefollowing principle: It must be possible to show that theclaimed capacities are refinements of ordinary humancapacities, and it must be made plausible why under specifiedcircumstances such refinement can actually occur. This can
be called the continuum principle, because it postulates thatthe abilities claimed for analysts must be on a continuumwith ordinary human abilities.
Carlo Strenger Between hermeneutics and science: An essay on theepistemology of psychoanalysis
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Mentalizing as the engine of attachment: patient
contribution to attachment relationships
Selection of attachment figures and appraisal of trustworthiness
Self-awareness regarding needs and feelings
Expression of emotional distress (affective competence) and context(narrative competence); associated emotion-regulation skills
Appraisal of the attachment figures receptiveness, attunement,responsiveness (i.e., the caregivers mentalizing)
Appraisal of the effectiveness of strategies to influence the caregiversresponsiveness
Ability to manage conflicts, understand misunderstandings, and repairruptures
Correcting and updating mental representations of self and others (internalworking models)
Reciprocating caregiving
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Mentalizing in maintaining an internalized secure base
Jeremy Holmes: the secure base can be seen not just as an eternal figure,but also as a representation of security within the individual psyche
Activating mental representations and memories of secure attachmentexperiences
Relating to oneself in an empathic manner, for example, protective,
encouraging, reassuring, accepting, compassionate, approving (mentalizingstance)
Engaging in comforting and self-soothing activities
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Parallel contributions to mentalizing: Meeting of minds in therapy
attachment & arousal
attachment & arousal
mentalizingdevelopmental
history
current
functioning
Patient
mentalizing
mentalizing
mentalizing
attachment & arousal
attachment & arousal
developmentalhistory
currentfunctioning
Therapist
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A patients perspective on Bowlby
John Bowlby: the role of the psychotherapist is toprovide the patient with a secure base from whichhe can explore the various unhappy and painfulaspects of his life, past and present, many of which
he finds it difficult or perhaps impossible to thinkabout and reconsider without a trusted companionto provide support, encouragement, sympathy,and, on occasion, guidance. [A Secure Base]
Jon Allen: The mind can be a scary place.
Patient: Yes, and you wouldnt want to go in therealone!
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The ability to think and talk about past pain is a protective factorleading to secure attachment, no matter how traumatic achildhood may have been. This inspiring finding is in itself an
endorsement of psychotherapy, on of whose main functions, it canbe argued, is to enhance reflective function [mentalizing].
Jeremy Holmes (2001):The search for the secure base
Challenges: Simone Weil
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At the bottom of the heart of every human being, from earliest infancyuntil the tomb, there is something that goes on indomitably expecting,in the teeth of all experience of crimes committed, suffered, andwitnessed, that good and not evil will be done to him. It is this above allthat is sacred in every human being.
Affliction is by nature inarticulate. The afflicted silently beseech to be
given the words to express themselves. There are times when they aregiven none; but there are also times when they are given words, but ill-chosen ones, because those who choose them know nothing of theaffliction they would interpret.
Thought revolts from contemplating affliction, to the same degree that
living flesh recoils from death. A stag advancing voluntarily step by stepto offer itself to the teeth of a pack of hounds is about as probable as anact of attention directed towards a real affliction, which is close at hand,on the part of a mind which is free to avoid it.
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The Mentalizing Stance (mentalizing mindfully)
Psychological aspects inquisitive, curious, playful, open-minded
not knowing (cleverness as cardinal sin)
not creating the capacitybut rather promoting attentivenesstothe activity of mentalizing
Ethical aspects (as in parenting, for example) good will and compassion
acceptance and forgiveness
respect for autonomy
love
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Therapeutic paradox
activating attachment needs underminesmentalizing for patients with insecureattachment
psychotherapy activates attachment needs
patient must learn to mentalize in the context
of intense emotional states in attachmentrelationships
note contrast with mindfulness practice
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General tips on mentalizing in psychotherapy
You are doing it already
Cultivate alternative perspectives
Balance focus on self and others
Maintain an optimal level of emotional arousal
Challenge patients assumptions about your mental statesFocus on mental states in the here-and-now, in current
relationships and in the transference
Avoid attributing mental states to patients of which they areunaware; liable to be taken in as alien or rejected outright[extremely common in our setting with anger]
Use I statements
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Example of I Statements (Bateman & Fonagy)You are angry with me
versus
The way you are frowning makes me think that youmay be feeling angry about something and I amwondering what that may be about
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Mentalizing the transferencevalidating the patients experience of the patient-
therapist interaction
exploring the current patient-therapist relationship
accepting and exploring enactments, including thetherapists own contribution and the therapistsdistortions
collaborating in arriving at an understanding
presenting an alternative perspective
monitoring and exploring the patients reaction
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Transference work: transparency
The patient has to find himself in the mind of the therapist and, equally, the therapist has tounderstand himself in the mind of the patient if the two together are to develop a mentalizingprocess. Both have to experience a mind being changed by a mind (Bateman & Fonagy)