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Dorothy A. Talbert
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• “Peace in my home is missing.”
Comments from other Mothers
• “I have never really felt loved by my mother.”
• “I’m scared of failure and I’m scared of success.”
• “I have lost my overall confidence.”
• “I want to FEEL real true honest love.”
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• “Love is not enough.”
• “I want to lose the fear and learn to love my children unconditionally. I don’t think I can even comprehend what unconditional love is.”
• “There are very few ‘good days’ in my life.”
• “I truly don’t know what it will take to be happy and fulfilled.”
Comments from other Mothers
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• What are you uncertain about? “The future of my children.”
• What are you certain about? “Nothing.”
• “I feel invisible, powerless, and worthless.”
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• “Love for all my children and love for myself is missing.”
• “Daily peace is missing from my life and an overall sense of belonging.”
• “My connection to myself; I sense a disconnection.”
• “A sense of purpose in life – What am I here for?”
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•Love is not a feeling or an emotion---it is a state.
•Love is simply a way of being in this world.•Being in a state of love is always possible. It never goes away.
You Have It Already In You
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• You already have the answers in you…you just can’t find them because pain and fear are dominating your thoughts and actions.
• This conference is about going more deeply into what you already have and changing your focus.
• The treasure is within you. It is simply a matter of having the courage to look inside.
You Have It Already In You
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As a parent, the only thing that can make you
happy is who you become, not how your
children behave.
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One of the greatest obstacles between
you and your child is you.
The Power of Now
The present moment, love and forgiveness, and new patterns hold the key to
change.
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• At conception, you are complete and whole.
• You are born with access to unlimited love and unlimited happiness.
• As you expressed your needs, some needs were met with negative reactions from your caregivers.• These negative message began to create your “software.”
The Loss of Self
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• “Stop crying.”
• “Be a big girl.”
• “Stop whining.”
• “Stop that…you’re being too silly.”
• “You’re too old for that.”• “Stop dreaming….you have to be realistic.”
Negative Messages
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Prefrontalcortex
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Prefrontalcortex
Mid-Brain(Limbic System)
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Prefrontalcortex
Mid-Brain(Limbic System)
Reptilian Brain
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Prefrontalcortex
Mid-Brain(Limbic System)
Reptilian Brain
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Prefrontalcortex
Mid-Brain(Limbic System)
Reptilian Brain
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SURVIVAL
Prefrontalcortex
Mid-Brain(Limbic System)
Reptilian Brain
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Prefrontalcortex
Mid-Brain(Limbic System)
Reptilian BrainSURVIVAL
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The part of the brain you use gets more blood flow.
Prefrontalcortex
Mid-Brain(Limbic System)
Reptilian BrainSURVIVAL
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Returning Back to Love
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How do you return back to Top Down Control ?1. Expression of the pain at the emotional
level2. Body awareness3. Relationships – being accepted,
understood, and loved4. Learning to anchor yourself in the present
moment5. Learning to love yourself6. Forgiveness7. Finding your voice8. Giving yourself permission to have needs9. Reclaiming your personal power10. Redefining your beliefs11. Learning how to change your state
Returning Back to Love
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Beginning the Journey Inward
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