Anger is powerful. There are times when

anger is most appropri-ate. Like the time my son came running home to tell us two big boys took his skateboard. We were angry and we got the skateboard back. However, anger can turn self-destructive when allowed to linger unchecked. I think that’s why the Bible says: “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold” (Eph 4:26-27).

Unfortunately, some folks are slow to learn how nurs-ing anger destroys them.

The film entitled The Straight Story tells the true tale of a 73 year-old man who drove his lawn mower over 300 miles to make things right with his broth-er. His journey provides the opportunity to meet people along the road and share his wisdom of experi-ence. The award winning story makes us think about our own lives and whether harboring unresolved anger

in our hearts is really the best choice.

The message on March 26 is How to Manage Your Anger. Managing our anger instead of allowing our anger to manage us has life-saving consequences. Jesus said, “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘Do not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judg-ment.’ But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment” (Matt 5:21-

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Put Anger in its Placeby Pastor Mitch

Forgiveness is Key

“If the wounds of millions are to be healed, what other way is there except through forgive-ness? Jesus, at least, leaves us no alternative. The command is stern. The terms are set: ‘But if ye forgive not men their trespass-es, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.’”—Catherine Marshall

INSIDEDo the Pieces Fit? page 3

The Spirit Descends on page 4

Ginny’s Kitchen on page 5

What’s happening? see pages 6 & 9

Never Give Up is on page 7

Our Church Family page 10

Kid’s Page on page 11

For the members, family and friends of the Downey Adventist Church

Pilgrim’s Problems Small Groups

On Saturday, March 19, we will start a 5–Week Small Group series based on

the book Pilgrim’s Problems. This series will focus on overcoming the troubles that we all face.

There will be opportunities at church to connect with a small group. If you need a small group to join, please talk to Bill A. or one of our other leaders. We’ll make sure you are aware of all the small groups that are meeting so that you can find one that works for you.

The small groups will have their first meetings after church on the 19th (or later in the week if your group doesn’t meet on Sabbath). The series wraps up on April

16th. The following week is Easter. The week after, the 30th, will be our small group celebration. That evening we will have our small group party, An Evening at Harvey’s Broiler.

Be sure to join a group for this series. =

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22a). What’s the big deal about learning to manage our anger? Jesus wants us to enjoy an open relation-ship with him. But, if we do not forgive and confess our anger it will effec-tively get in the way our relationship with the Lord. Learning to manage our anger is a matter of life or death.

On March 5, Bill Aumack concludes our three part series on Youth with a message called, There’s Not an App for That... We live in a society full of instant gratifica-tion and answers. Need to know something, Google it and presto you have the answer. We can even do

that from our phone. We have all kinds of smart phone apps to help us in many ways. But some-

things can’t be solved with the latest app. Sometimes we need to be involved. Jesus said, “Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace.” (Matt. 11:28 MSG). He was involved with the people around him, he demonstrated the

proper way to do it. Our youth need people to give them an example of how to do it. The latest app on

our phone can’t do that for us.

Is it possible to live stress free in today’s world? That’s a good ques-tion we should ask ourselves, because stress touches everyone and is one of the prevail-

ing characteristics in every day’s life in today’s world. There are however, constructive Bible-based solutions we can apply for living successfully in an environment that fosters stressful living. Come and join us to discover those solutions on March 12 as, Gustavo Ortega brings us a sermon entitled, God’s Therapy for Stressful Living.

On March 19 we cel-ebrate Communion. I’m saddened when I hear someone is excusing them-selves from the Lord’s Table because they feel they’re unworthy. The Bible has good news. Communion is for the unworthy. The Bible says, “There is no one righteous, not even one” (Rom 3:10). Was Judas righteous? His heart was committed to betraying the Lord, yet the Lord gave him the bread

and the cup. Prideful Peter received the Lord’s Supper. Oh, yes there is an “unworthy manner” of taking Communion and I want to share what that means to us today. God’s word is good for our instruction in righ-teousness. Once we talk about what an “unworthy manner” means you’ll be equipped to encour-age another brother and sister to come and take Communion next time it’s offered.

See you when the church gathers. =

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Webster says “pur-pose” is “some-

thing set up as an object or end to be attained: INTENTION . . . a subject under discussion or an action in course of execu-tion” (Merriam-Webster.com/dictionary).

God says He “works out everything in

conformity with the pur-pose of his will, in order that we. . . might be for the praise of his glory” (Ephesians 1:11-12 NIV).

I recently stumbled upon a unique jigsaw puzzle at a friend’s house. It was sitting on her coun-tertop with only a few pieces in place. Since I was waiting for her, I decided to put her puzzle together. The whole thing looked to consist of less than 20 pieces so I

thought it would be easy. When my friend saw that I was attempting to put the puzzle together, she warned me to be careful, because it was not as easy as it looked. I quickly found out she was right about that. The pieces are made such that they appear to fit into more than one spot. The puzzles are called Triazzles, and they are brain teasers!!! I’ve since looked up the puzzle online and found these words: “The deceptively easy-looking puzzle is really ‘Harder Than it Looks™’” (see triazzle.com). That is absolutely true. I’m sure, given enough time and patience, I would have figured it out, but luckily for me, we had other things to do! I like puzzles. I like empty-ing a box full of tons of pieces and putting them

all together to see how they fit together to make a picture.

Many times life can be like a jigsaw puzzle. Have you ever gone through a time where lots of things happened in your life, but you couldn’t seem to make

heads or tails of it all? The circumstances were mind boggling and, even though you prayed over the situ-ation, you still couldn’t see any purpose. But then, some time later, you looked back and you rec-ognized that God had been in control of everything, but you just couldn’t see it at the time. I think I’m learning that those situa-tions help us to know that we can depend on God, because he has a purpose for everything. It’s God job to put the puzzle of life together, not ours.

One of my favorite authors touches on the subject as follows: “God is too wise and good to answer our prayers always

at just the time and in just the manner we desire. He will do more and better for us than to accomplish all our wishes. And because we can trust His wisdom and love, we should not ask Him to concede to our will, but should seek to enter into and accomplish

His pur-pose. Our desires and interests should be lost in His will. These experiences that test faith are for our benefit. By them it is made manifest

whether our faith is true and sincere, resting on the word of God alone, or whether depending on cir-cumstances, it is uncertain and changeable. Faith is strengthened by exercise.” (The Ministry of Healing, pp. 230-31.)

What could I possibly say on the subject that tops that? Nothing. But there is one more thought that occurs to me, and it is this. Life’s puzzles will likely always be incom-plete while we are here on earth. Imagine what it will be like when we see Jesus, and he explains how everything fit together. That will be AWESOME, to say the least. =

March 5Bill Aumack

There’s Not an App for That...

March 12Gustavo Ortega God’s Therapy for

Stressful Living

March 19Mitch Williams

Communion

March 26Mitch Williams How to Manage

Your Anger

Worship Schedule

God, Webster & You

by Linda Bewley Do the Pieces Fit?

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Before the Father

by Linda FernandezThe Spirit Descends

I am continuing on my quest to go back to the

basics of what I believe. I invited you along on this journey with the intent of getting to know the Bible better. So far we have learned that the Bible is to be our Map and Guidebook in life. Our first introduction was to God himself. We also dis-covered that our Heavenly Father loves us with an everlasting love and wants to be an integral part of our day to day lives. What draws us to God, though? Is it our own sin; a desire to be a better person? Can we come to God on our own, where will we obtain the strength to resist temptation and walk with Him?

Once again, the Bible has the answers we seek. Ps. 143:10 tells us the Holy Spirit will teach us to do his will and will lead us on to level ground. We are reminded in John 3:34 that God gives the Spirit without limit. In Acts 5:32 Paul says God gives the Spirit to those who obey Him. And in Romans 8:14 we have a promise that says, “For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the chil-dren of God.”

During this series, I have been trying to link each topic with a country song that will help tie my thoughts together. I was surprised to find a Hank Williams song for this par-ticular point, but he sang a beautiful song that paints a picture of hope and peace I would like to share

with you. The title is Let the Spirit Descend. The song is about the Spirit descending upon Jesus on the day He was bap-tized. I particularly like one part of the second verse …If you’ll only trust and believe in His Word, You’ll stand in God’s king-dom and not be ashamed. As I thought about the words to Hank’s song, I found the scripture above that seemed to go perfectly along with it. Paul says

the same thing in Romans 5:5, the hope we find will not put us to shame (even though we may have had a shameful past) because of the love God pours out to us through the Holy Spirit.

So, not only does God love us and want to be part of our lives in order to shower blessings upon us, but He also provides the Guide to lead us on our way to him. How great is that?! I am saddened when I think of all the ways people try to find happiness and content-

ment on their own when God is so willing to pro-vide all that we need. Let’s pray….

Oh Father, thank you for granting us the gifts of peace and

hope through the Holy Spirit. =

And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.

Romans 5:5

If you’ll only trust and believe in His Word, You’ll stand in God’s kingdom and not be ashamed.

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Stuffed Green Bell Peppers

From Ginny’s Kitchen

4 green bell peppers / cut off top and core and remove seeds

1 cup long-grain rice cooked according to direc-tions

2 T. olive oil

1 medium onion/ finely chopped

3 medium size garlic cloves, finely chopped

1 t. Liquid Smoke

½ package (6 oz.) of Morning Star Crumbles

1 cup diced fresh tomatoes

½ cup shredded mozzarella cheese

3 T. green pesto sauce,

found at Trader Joe’s or Fresh & Easy Market

2 cup spaghetti sauce, recommend Hunts Italian canned

1/3 cup Progresso Italian Style bread crumbs

salt & pepper

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees

2. Pre-cook rice and set aside

3. Bring 4 quarts of water to a boil, with a dash of salt. Boil bell peppers for approx. 3 or 4 minutes. Pour off water through a strainer and make sure water is drained off each of the bell pepper.

4. With a heavy skillet, add olive oil, onions and stir to prevent burning. Add garlic and then add Morning Star Crumbles and sauté. At this time pour the Liquid Smoke over Crumbles and only sauté for approx 5 min-utes. Take off heat and set aside.

5. Add rice to veg. meat mixture; add salt and pep-per, pesto sauce, tomatoes and bread crumbs. Fold and mix together.

6. Filling pepper: Place bell peppers in oiled baking dish. Fill each

pepper with 2 T. spaghetti sauce. Then add half the rice/veg. meat filling, add half of mozzarella cheese. Continue with the veg. meat mixture until bell pepper is full. Top with remaining mozzarella cheese and spaghetti sauce. Bake for approx. 25-30 minutes. =

A caller to Christian radio station KLOVE

spoke of the amazing way God restored her strug-gling marriage. On the weekend that she and her husband separated, they each attended different ser-vices on different days at their large, multi-campus church.

For an object lesson, the pastor had purchased three 1,500-piece puzzles and given one piece to each worshiper that week-

end. The woman took hers home and placed it on her dresser.

That Sunday, the hus-band stopped by the house to do yard work. When the woman walked by her dresser, she noticed that another puzzle piece was attached to hers — and it fit. It was the piece her husband had received at church.

The woman said that was a loud sign from God that she and her husband

“fit” together and would be okay. Life and marriage aren’t always perfect, but she framed the puzzle pieces “as a con-stant reminder to our covenant to each other” and to God’s promises.

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Last year my wife and I experienced a very

important milestone in our marriage. We celebrated our 40th wedding anni-versary. (Interestingly, fifteen of those years I have had the privilege of writing this monthly bul-letin.) To distinguish our four–decade landmark, we decided to take a note-worthy celebration vaca-tion through eight central European countries. Since I knew we would travel through these remarkable nation states by bus, rail and boat, I purposely put into my hand luggage four books to read while I waited for the next mode of transportation. One of the books really impressed me. It was a practical and constructive book about marriage entitled: Treat Me Like a Customer: Using Lessons from Work to Succeed in Life. The author, Louis Upkins, Jr., used as his central argu-ment that what is good for the business world; the need to respect and main-tain ongoing relationships with our customers, is much more important and valuable within our per-sonal lives with our mar-riage partner.

As you might expect, each of his chapters used a different situation to com-pare and contrast between the world of business and the world of one’s imme-

diate and extended family, but more importantly with the spouse. He makes it very clear how the exact same principles apply within the interactions of these two relationship worlds. Here are just a few examples from his 18 chapters:

Learning on the job: Just as one learns the ropes in the commercial world so in marriage you must learn on the job what works or doesn’t work as you and your marriage partner establish your new home.

Do you real-ly know your customer?

In the field of sales the best way to gain the competitive edge is to actually understand your client. Likewise in mar-riage, to really identify with your spouse you must truly understand them. To help you do this, ASK YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS; do you know where your spouse would like to vacation next year? What household chore does your spouse dislike the most? Can you name the last book your spouse read? And finally, men what one thing do you do that annoys your wife and what is the great-

est thing that brings her the most happiness?

When your customer gets upset: Here Upkins deals with how your busi-ness clients react to poor service. He compares that situation to moments your wife disagrees with you about the household duties, the children’s prob-lems or the best way to handle the in –laws. One of the chapters that impressed me the most was the one entitled “Never Give Up”. As a pastor I have seen too many couples just give up and let their marriage fail.

Unfortunately, we live in a world where one out of every five marriages ends in divorce. Not only does divorce drag in its wake a great deal of emo-tional pain, but from an economic or stewardship viewpoint, it will affect both partners and their children for the rest of their lives.

Let’s take an average husband who has been married for nineteen years, has two wonderful chil-dren, lives in an elegant home and is director of his department. Suddenly and unexpectedly, he decides he wants to be free of his marriage.

Never Give Up!Stewpot

by Gordon Botting, DrPh, CHES

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“Being a good husband is like being a gardener: You got to give your partner lots of water and sun-shine (Love and support).” — Jack Black, Film Star of Gulliver’s Travels.

“Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing mat-ters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner.” — Amy Bloom

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Although the Christian community is not pro-tected from divorce (one out of five), the Scriptures, both in text and with abundant examples, explains why we need to avoid divorce at all cost. If our average husband decides to divorce his wife, just looking at the econom-ic segment, he is going to lose a great deal of money. According to one dispute resolution center the legal fees alone on an average divorce can run as high as $15,000 or more. In addition, he will have to pay his former spouse child support and healthcare costs until both children reach the age of eighteen. The average annual amount of child support can be $4,000. Hence, the dollar cost for his two children could be $8,000 per year. Whether or not he lives in a ‘no fault’ state or not, the fact that he is the sole provider for his family means he is obligated to provide monthly alimony payments

to his spouse to allow her to continue to maintain her current lifestyle, and that cost is somewhere in the

financial neighborhood of $3,000 a month. Using the same example, the state of California might order the spouse to pay 25% of his annual income to his wife as spousal support. The amount of years this pay-ment will continue is com-pletely up to the judge’s discretion.

But that’s just the eco-nomic segment. There are expenditures that in no way have a dollar value. He will have to share his children’s lives or could even lose custody of his kids. He will not be able to tuck them into bed or offer

a prayer of blessing over them each evening. No longer can he hug and kiss his children awake each morning. All the family traditions will become a fruit salad of misconstrued emotions and confused feelings by both adults and children. Every time he picks up or drops off his two kids he will be forced to deal with their emo-tions as well as his own. He may find one child becomes more aggressive and uncooperative, while the other sibling may with-draw and become disheart-ened and sad. Tragically, the effects of a divorce may continue into the next generation.

Too often both spouses think that separating rather than choosing to work out their differ-ences will bring them happiness. The Institute for American Values con-ducted a sur-vey and found that divorced couples were no happier five years after their breakup than unhappily married adults who chose to stay together. Interestingly, the data shows that if a couple is unhappy the chances of their

being happily married in five years are 64% if they stay and work out their problems, but only 19% if they choose to end their marriage.

We need to remind our-selves that this fundamen-tal institution was given to us by The Creator. If rightly understood and practiced, we can not only add dimensions to our lives, but we will become better people as a direct result of the other person’s love and support.

Bottom line: Never give up on your marriage. =

Never Give Up! (cont. from page 7)

The Top 5 Behaviors For Safeguarding A Long And Happy Marriage1—You respect and trust each other.2—You don’t go to bed angry.4—You say “I love you” often.5—You always kiss each other good night.5—You have a good argument once in a while.Reference: Susan Lewis “Se-crets to Long–Lasting Mar-riages Revealedin Senior Survey” Reuters, February 4, 2008, pp. 30, 31

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March Birthdays

Tomas Aispuro – 6 Hatzuko Aispuro – 6 Angela Navarro – 10 Erlinda Garcia – 13 Linda Casillas – 16 Linda Bewley – 20 Darrell Stephens – 25 Humberto Michel – 25

If your birthday is left out in the monthly newsletter, please contact the church office so we can put it in.

Upcoming Events2nd & 4th Saturdays - 3:00 p.m. Pathfinders1st Sunday - 10 a.m. Community ServiceThursdays - 7 p.m. Women’s Prayer GroupFridays - 6:30 p.m. Band Practice

March 13 - Time Change, set clocks one hour aheadMarch 14-25 - Spring Break AUS & SGAMarch 19 - Small Groups StartMarch 25-27 - Pathfinder Campout

The Latest Word deadline is the 5th of the month.

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April 23 - Easter ServiceApril 30 - An Evening at Harvey’s Broiler @ 5:30pm in the Fellowship Hall

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Our Church FamilyCongratulations to

Ethan Morales who was selected to the Junior National Honor Roll Society. Way to go Ethan!

The Pathfinders have been ordering tents and other sup-plies. If you

want to help, you can make a donation by put-ting it in a tithe enve-

lope and marking it Pathfinders.

Thanks to everyone who brought a friend to Friendship Day. We had a great time.

Be sure to invite them again another time.

If you have any Church Family news, please contact the church office so we can get it into the newsletter. =

Thank you to everyone who has been saving Box Tops for Education. That is greatly appreciated.

For the Box Tops for Education, please save the Box Tops coupon.

Please give your labels to Linda Aumack. Thank you for your support! =

Peter Lovenheim was dismayed by the iso-

lation he felt in suburban Rochester, New York. After a murder occurred down the street, he realized none of the neighbors seemed to know — or care — about one another. The mail-man told Lovenheim most people would rather give misdelivered mail back to him than walk it over to the person next door. An elderly woman said she’d once fallen on the street and had to crawl home because no one came to help.

That prompted Lovenheim to engage in a bold experiment: He asked to spend a night at each of his neighbor’s homes. Lovenheim documented the results in the book In the Neighborhood: The

Search for Community on an American Street, One Sleepover at a Time.

As Lovenheim and his neighbors got to know one another, they learned that a single mom was being treated for breast cancer. They took her to appoint-ments, brought her grocer-ies, met her daughter at the bus stop after school and even installed a light over a dark staircase. By searching for community, Lovenheim and his new friends helped create it. =

Who is My Neighbor? Our church website is

now set up to accept online donations. You can pay your tithe and offer-ings online. After setting up an account, you can make donations to various accounts, much like you fill out a tithe envelope.

The donation site is safe and secure. It is run by the General Conference. There are no fees. And 100% of your donations will go to the funds you select.

Naturally, you can still put your tithes and

offerings into a tithe envelope at church. That won’t change. This is just another way that you can choose to give your offer-ings.

The link for the dona-tions is on the left side of our main page at www.downeychurch.org. The first time you use it you’ll have to create an account, but after that the process is quite easy. If you’ve been paying your bills electronically, it will even seem down right natural. =

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