major sin no 8 showing disrespect to one's parents20150527
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Major Sin No. 8: Showing Disrespect to One's Parents
Weekly Aayah
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]ran^la_ion:
23: And your Lord has ordained that you do not worship anyone except Him,
and treat your parents with kindness; if either of them or both reach old age in
your presence, do not say !" to them and do not rebu" them, and speak to
them with the utmost respect
2#: And lower your wing humbly for them, with mercy, and pray, $%y Lord&
Ha'e mercy on them both, the way they nursed me when ( was young)
VSo`rah Alb^raa cdf: ger^e^ \
Aayah ommen_^ :
]hereore yo` ^ho`l ^erpe _hem a^ _hey i qi_h yo`. `_ yo`r ^erpise i^ no_ et`al _o_heir^ a^ _hey ^`uere a lo_ in vrinwinw yo` `x hoxinw _ha_ yo` miwh_ lipe lonw. n _heo_her han qhen yo` ^ho`ler _heir v`ren^ yo` hoxe _ha_ _hey qill ie ^oon.
Allah _he Mo^_ ziwh ^ay^:
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]ran^la_ion: And *e ordained upon man concerning his parents; his mother bore him
enduring weakness upon weakness, and his suckling is up to two years +
therefore be thankful to %e and to your parents; nally towards %e is the
return-
VSo`rah €̀ tman cdf : ger^e d\
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ehol hoq Allah ha^ a^^osia_e wra_i_`e _o zim qi_h _he wra_i_`e _o _he xaren_^. bvn
Avvaa^ ^ai: ‚]here are _hree per^e^ (Aayaat) qhish hape veen repeale a^^osia_e
qi_h _hree o_her^. ]hey are no_ assex_e ^exara_elyƒ.
Allah _he Mo^_ ziwh ^ay^(1)
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VZد ‰!;( Z7[)X\ ]ran^la_ion:
And obey Allah and obey the .oble %essenger, and be cautious; then if
you turn away, so know that the duty of /ur .oble %essenger is only to
plainly con'ey the message-
VSo`rah Maaiah cŠf: ger^e^ ‹\
]h`^ qhoeper only ovey^ Allah qill hape hi^ oveiense no_ assex_e.
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]ran^la_ion: And keep the 0obligatory1 prayer established, and pay the charity, and
bow your heads with those who bow 0in prayer1-VSo`rah atarah c: ]he oqf ger^e^ \
zense qhoeper xerorme xrayer̂ an oe^ no_ xay Zakaat (if he is wealthy enough) qill hape hi^ xrayer^ no_ assex_e.
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V [)X~!;@( Z7 \
]ran^la_ion: And *e ordained upon man concerning his parents; his mother bore him
enduring weakness upon weakness, and his suckling is up to two years +
therefore be thankful to %e and to your parents; nally towards %e is the
return-
VSo`rah €`tman cdf: ger^e^ d\
Whoeper ^hoq^ wra_i_`e _o Allah an newles_^ hi^ xaren_^ qill no_ hape hi^wra_i_`e assex_e.
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father!s pleasure and the Lords anger is in the fathers anger"#
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Abdullah bin Amr [ reported that a person $ame to Allahs Apostle [ and sought
permission (to parti$ipate) in %ihaad whereupon he (the &oly Prophet [ ) said: Are your
parents li'ing &e said: es# Thereupon he (the &oly Prophet [ ) said: ou should put in
your best e*orts (in their) ser'i$e#
( Sahih M`^lim Š‹ a\
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,arrated -Abdullah bin -Amr [:
Allahs .essenger [ said# "/t is one of the greatest sins that a man should $urse his
parents#" /t was asked (by the people) "0 Allahs .essenger [+ &ow does a man $urse
his parents" The Prophet [ said: "The man abuses the father of another man and the
latter abuses the father of the former and abuses his mother"#
VSahih `khari zai_h No. Š‹\
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§ / ".,arrated Abu &urayrah [:
A man $ame to Allahs .essenger [and said "0 Allahs .essenger [+ ho is more
entitled to be treated with the best $ompanionship by me" The Prophet [said "our
mother#" The man said# "ho is ne2t" The Prophet said "our mother#" The man further
said "ho is ne2t" The Prophet [said "our mother#" The man asked for the fourth
time "ho is ne2t" The Prophet [[said "our father"#
VSahih `khari zai_h No. Š‹d\
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]he ¨roxhe_ [emxha^i^e^ _ha_ _he mo_her i^ _he one qho e^erpe^ m`sh sonsern an_hereore men_ione her _hree _ime^. b_ i^ _he mo_her inee qho vear^ a lo_ o xain^`rinw xrewnansy wipinw vir_h ^`sklinw an son^_an_ly sarinw or _he shil niwh_ an ay.nse bvn ©mar [ ^aq a man sarryinw hi^ mo_her on hi^ ^ho l̀er̂ an makinw _hesirs`mamv`la_ion ro`n _he ªava« _he man a^ke him: ‚¬o yo` _hink _ha_ b ret`i_e herƒbvn ©mar rexlie: ‚No no_ epen a ^inwle sry o her^ `rinw shilvir_h. `_ qell one.Allah qill wipe yo` in re_`rn or a li__le ee a wrea_ reqarƒ.
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/t was narrated from .uawiyah bin %aahimah As34ulami [ that %aahimah $ame to the
Prophet [and said:"0h .essenger of Allah+ / want to go out and 5ght (in %ihaad) and /
ha'e $ome to ask your ad'i$e"# &e said: "6o you ha'e a mother" &e said: "es"# &e
[said: "Then stay with her for Paradise is beneath her feet"#
VS`nan anNa^aai zai_h No. dµ\
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e said to Ali bin Abi Talib [: /nform us about something whi$h Allahs .essenger [told
you in se$ret whereupon he said: &e told me nothing in se$ret whi$h he hid from people
but / heard him say: Allah $ursed him who sa$ri5$ed for anyone besides Allah7 and
$ursed him who a$$ommodated an inno'ator7 and Allah $ursed him who $ursed his parents and Allah $ursed him who $hanged the boundary lines (of the land possessed by
him)#
VSahih M`^lim d‹8 v\
ªav AlAhvaar [ ^ai: ’Allah ha^_en^ _he ea_h o anyone qho ^hoq^ i^re^xes_ _o hi^xaren_^ ^o a^ _o _or_`re him. n _he o_her han Allah insrea^e^ one^ lie ^xan i he i^kin _o hi^ xaren_^ _o vle^^ him.’ ]rea_inw one^ xaren_^ qi_h hono`r al^o ret`ire^ ^`^_aininw _hem qi_h _he lipinw so^_^
qhen _hey are neey.
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,arrated Amr bin 4hu!ayb [:
A man $ame to the Prophet [and said: 0h .essenger of Allah / ha'e property and
$hildren and my father 5nishes my property# &e [replied: ou and your property belong
to your father7 your $hildren $ome from the pleasantest of what you earn7 so en8oy from
the earning of your $hildren#
VS`nan Avi ¬aq` zai_h No. Šµ\
When ªav AlAhvaar [ qa^ a^ke avo`_ _he meaninw o ^hoqinw i^re^xes_ _o one^
xaren_^ he ^ai: ’When one^ a_her or mo_her ^qore an oa_h an he or ^he i no_ `l½l
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i_. When _hey orere him _o o ^ome_hinw v`_ he i no_ ovey. When _hey a^k him or^ome_hinw an he re`^e. When _hey en_r`^_ him or ^ome_hinw v`_ eseipe^ _hem.
bvn Avva^ [ qa^ a^ke avo`_ Ashab Al3 Araaf Vmen o _he zeiwh_^\ an he ^ai: ’A^ or
_he zeiwh_^ i_ i^ a mo`n_ain ve_qeen ¾ire an ¨arai^e. b_ i^ salle ^o vesa`^e i_ o`_look^¾ire an ¨arai^e. b_ i^ al^o sopere vy _ree^ r`i_^ riper^ an qell^. A^ or _he men qho^ei—e _hereon _hey are _ho^e qho qen_ o`_ _o ½wh_ in _he sa`^e o Allah qi_ho`_ _heirxaren_^ xermi^^ion an _hen are kille. ¬ea_h in _he sa`^e o Allah xro_es_^ _hem rom_he zell¾ire. `_ i^oveiense _o _heir xaren_^ exripe _hem o ¨arai^e. ]h`^ _hey qillve on _he zeiwh_^ `n_il Allah j`we^ _hem.
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Á7!£(/ */ ŒR / QT {;X/ ZEŸ / * )*4+ . ¹ ̃R£ ˜ 'D Â ˜ د DAbdur 9ahman bin Abi akrah [ narrated from his father who said:
"The messenger of Allah [said: 4hall / not tell you the biggest of the ma8or sins They said: 0f $ourse+ 0h .essenger of Allah+ &e [ said: to 8oin partners with Allah and
disobeying ones parents!# &e sat up and he had been re$lining and added: and false
testimony or false spee$h# And the .essenger of Allah would not stop saying it until we
said (to oursel'es): / wish that he would stop#"
V–aami`_]irmi—i zai_h No. d‹µd\ Allah a^^osia_e^ ^hoqinw i^re^xes_ _o xaren_^ qi_h qor^hixxinw o_her^ ve^ie^ zim.
’ ! Ž ل X+ {R لع { ل ( ل K 1 ن ( ع +E ‘ ; /ع */ { ل ( ¶ / ; ‘ Eع / ع/ 1د "د/ " 3+ ¿™ ’/ 3د¶= ›(/ن " Lن !̃~ + 3ع !/t was narrated from Abdullah bin Amr [ that:
The Prophet [said: ",o one who reminds others of his fa'ours no one who is disobedient
to his parents and no drunkard will enter Paradise#"
VS`nan anNa^aai zai_h No. ŠÃ\