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WHY DO DIVERSITY PROGRAMS FAIL?Living The Skills of Tolerance

Scott Warrick, JD, MLHR, CEQC, SCP

www.scottwarrick.com “Why Are We Here?

What Is Diversity? Are You Allowed To Be Different?

WHY DO DIVERSITY PROGRAMS FAIL?

Is There ANY Diversity Here?

Living The Skills of Tolerance

• Understand The Human Animal: EI/Tolerance Is REQUIRED!

• Overcome The Subconscious Brain & Resolve Conflict (EPR)

• Identify & Stop Bullying

• Understanding Real Differences vs. Stereotypes

• Don’t Be An ENABLER! SPEAK UP!

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What Do We All Have In Common?

We Are All Human…

Human Genome Project

We Are All Related

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Feet

Have We Evolved?Yabba, Dabba Doo!

I didn’t get

EATENtoday!

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Which is Stronger…Logic or Emotions?

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1.We hear, see, taste, smell or feel a “danger” or stimulus. The brain instantly sends an alarm throughout our parasympathetic nervous system and activates our adrenal glands, one set that is located in our brain and another that is right above our kidneys. We then get that “tightening knot” in our “gut.”

3.The blood in the body is re-routed to the lungs, arms and legs, leaving the frontal lobes deprived of blood and the face “flushed.”

FIGHT OR FLIGHT

2.The adrenal glands release adrenaline into our brain and then throughout our body. This release of adrenaline will then speed up our heart rate. When our heart rate hits approximately 145 beats per minute, we go into full fight or flight.

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Emotional Hijacking

“Normal” Healthy Brain Brain With Reduced Blood Flow To The Frontal Lobes


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DO YOU HUNT FOR WITCHES?

The Two Human Brains

Frontal Lobes:Slow …

But Accurate

Amygdala:Fast …

But Not Accurate

Frontal Lobes: High Road Logic

Amygdala: Low Road Emotions

Closer To Thalamus

Retains Blood Supply in “Fight or Flight”

Further from Thalamus

Loses Blood Supply in “Fight or Flight”

HIGH ROAD vs. LOW ROAD Low Road : 1/17,000th of a secondStimulus enters the brain and

goes to the Thalamus.

Stimulus then goes to the Amygdala and down the VagusNerve to the Adrenal Glands to

stimulate fight or flight.

This all happens in17,000ths of a second.


Emotional Hi-Jacking Low Road : 1/17,000th of a second

Stimulus is finally

sent to the Frontal Lobes.

This takes 2-3 times longer.

High Road : 2 to 3 Times Slower

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SLOW DOWN AND THINK!!! SLOW DOWN AND THINK!!!

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

The Difference Between Success and

Failure is

5 SECONDS.


The Two Human Brains

Frontal Lobes:Slow …

But Accurate

Amygdala:Fast …

But Not Accurate


Can You Control Your EGO & EMOTIONS?


Self-Control

Build Relationships

WHY DO DIVERSITY PROGRAMS FAIL?The #1 factor that will determine how …

SUCCESSFUL

you are & how

HAPPY

you will be is your

EQ … NOT your IQ!

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Why Do Really, Really Smart PeopleDo Really, Really Stupid Things?

Why Do So Many Smart People Do So Many Stupid Things?


Did ANYONEAsk You If All This Change Was OK?

Has The World ChangedIn The Last 10 Years?

WE NOW LIVE IN A DIGITAL WORLD! WHY DO DIVERSITY PROGRAMS FAIL?

Has This Changed The World?

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How Fast Does News Travel Today?

“Do what we say, or we’ll beat the crap out of you.”

What Is Reasonable?

“Pool Patrol Paula” (Stephanie Sebbie Stremple) was fired from Rodan-Fields for using racial slurs,

slapping a black teen and telling him that he“didn’t belong” at the pool.

Adam Bloom was fired from his job at Sonoma Packaging for calling police when a black woman, who had a pass key to a private community

pool, refused to produce identification.

No one else at the pool was required to show identification and she was

the only person of color there.

“Pool Patrol Patti” (Erica Walker) was fired from her job as Property Manager for calling police on the only black man in the pool for wearing socks, which was not a

pool violation, while other whites violated the rules by wearing hats

and shirts in the pool. “Son, bad things don't happen to you because you have bad luck; they happen to you …

because you're a dumbass.”

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AnEMOTIONAL CHILD

ISINTOLERANT

What Do You Think Of

When I Say …

“TOLERANCE”or

“DIVERSITY”?

What Is TOLERANCE?

NOTPersecuting Those Who Are Different! EEOC, et. al v. R.G. & G.R. Harris Funeral Homes,

No. 16-2424 (2018)

Aimee Stephens Thomas Rost

GENDER STEREOTYPING, TRANSGENDER & THE RFRA

TOLERANCE…IS NOT

ACCEPTANCE

Is It Good To Have …

“Older Workers” &

“Younger Workers”

Working Together?

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Does It Make You UNCOMFORTABLE

When Others Challenge Your Opinions?

How TOLERANT

Are You?

DO YOU HUNT FOR WITCHES?INTOLERANCE

What Is A Bully?

BULLYING :

Abusing and mistreating someone

vulnerableby someone stronger and more powerful.

~~ Merriam Webster Dictionary

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AnEMOTIONAL CHILD

ISAn INTOLERANT

BULLY.

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCEReading List:

“Assholes”

“The No Asshole Rule”

“Dear Asshole”

“Asshole: How I Got Rich & Happy By Not Giving a Damn About Anyone”

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCEReading List:

AnEMOTIONAL CHILD

ISINTOLERANT

IS A

BULLYIS AN

ASSHOLE

What Is A“BIGOT”?

BIGOTRY:

Whenever someone is not tolerant

of views, beliefs,or behavior that

differ from one's own.

~~ Google Dictionary

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“But I don’t want to be an

INTOLERANT,BULLYING, BIGOTED,

EMOTIONAL CHILD ASSHOLE.”







Human Are Wired To Be SLOW DOWN and THINK!

Where Did You Get That Idea?

The Mighty Subconscious


Do Babies Cry?


Do Babies Laugh?


The Powerful Subconscious Brain

Hippocampus:Grows In By About

The Age of 3. Amygdala:

We Are Born With These.

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CONSCIOUS

MIND

5% - 10%

SUBCONSCIOUS

MIND

90% - 99%

The Mighty Subconscious

Bruce Lipton Ph.D.

When we do not STOP and THINK …

We have the mentality of an evil 3 year old child.

Priming IN …

How We View The World

(Implicit Bias)

Priming IN … Projection OUT …How We View The World

(Implicit Bias) (Confirmation Bias)

So …How Do We Overcome

Our Subconscious?

1st:

Slow down &

Think:

EPR

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EPREmpathic Listening,

Parroting &

“Rewards”

2nd:

SEEK OUT People Who

Are Different From You.

Do You Seek Out Others Who Are Different From You?

Muslims are

Dangerous!

Black People are

Dangerous!

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Human Are Wired To Be SLOW DOWN and THINK!

We Are Wired ALL To BeEMOTIONAL CHILDREN!

Slow Down And THINK …

Or Burn!

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