life after-law
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1. Escape Intro2. Stories
3. 5 minute break4. Workshop
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Life after law
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Amber’s story
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It’s not about figuring out
“what’s out there” – it’s about
re-writing internal scripts.
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We all have behavioral scripts.
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Maladaptive schemas
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http://www.schematherapy.co
m/id73.htm
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APPROVAL-SEEKING / RECOGNITION-SEEKING (AS)
Excessive emphasis on gaining approval, recognition, or attention from other people, or fitting in, at the expense of developing a secure and true sense of self. One's sense of esteem
is dependent primarily on the reactions of others rather than on one's own natural
inclinations. Sometimes includes an overemphasis on status, appearance, social acceptance, money, or achievement -- as means of gaining approval, admiration, or
attention (not primarily for power or control). Frequently results in major life decisions that
are inauthentic or unsatisfying; or in hypersensitivity to rejection.
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“Should” statements
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Black/white thinking
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http://www.legalnomads.com/
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Brene Brown, “The power of vulnerability”, TED talk
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http://www.thecompletelawyer.com/self-assess-before-deciding-to-leave-the-law.html
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Stories
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1. Mark2. Alison3. Nick4. Eva
5. Deanne
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5 minute break
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Workshop
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Which stories resonated?
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How long does it take to
decide what you want to do
outside of law?
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How do you find out
what options are available?
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How do you break through
paralysis?
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How do you marketyour legal skills on
your CV?
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How do we deal with the money
question?
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