john weting yec rotary club of marquette, michigan, u.s.a., d-6220 [email protected] central...
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John WetingYEC Rotary Club of Marquette, Michigan, U.S.A.,
Central States Summer Conference, Grand Rapids, Michigan , U.S.A.
July 2007
A Tale of Two Lives!Who is nervous about returning home?Who wants to go home for a month and
return to their exchange life? Vertical relationships vs. horizontal
relationshipsHas home changed or has your perception of
the home and the world changed?Look around you are not in this journey
alone!
The Good & Bad of Going HomeThe Good
Seeing family & friendsRenewing relationshipsEating Favorite foodsBack to educationSpeaking native
languageBeing “special”Freedom/Protection
The BadMissing family &
friendsLosing relationshipsMissing favorite foodsNo more easy school!Speaking native
languageBeing “ordinary”Freedom/Protection
Peaks & Valleys – The Emotional Roller Coaster Ride
Seeing family and friends at homeDiscovering things about your own cultureMissing exchange family and friendsHomesick for your adopted cultureWhen peaks and valleys are opposing
Good Day / Bad Day
I have the flexibility to fit in anywhere. I adapt easily. I feel horizontally rooted.
I am bilingual/multilingual. I can empathize with multiple view
points. I respect cultural differences. I have tolerance for ambiguity. I feel challenged/empowered by new
experiences. I am aware of global issues (news,
politics, media, resource distribution, etc.)
I accept challenges to my lifelong beliefs and values.
I have a more complex/defined sense of self.
I act more socially responsible.
I enjoy a personal connection to the larger world; I feel like a “global citizen”.
I take risks and embrace the unknown. I am curious and eager to learn.
I don’t seem to fit in anywhere. I resist change. I feel rootless.
I am semi-lingual in two or more languages.
I am frustrated by my narrow-mindedness of people at home.
I become impatient with monoculturalism.
I am frequently indecisive. I feel bored my the mundane. I am uninformed about local issues and
unable to apply what I’ve learned about the larger world to my life at home.
I am becoming resocialized into U.S. patterns of thought.
I have a more fragmented sense of conflicting identities.
I act judgmental and self-righteous in the face of others’ social choices.
I feel disconnected/alienated from my home environment.
I feel overwhelmed by the known and unknown.
I feel depressed and reluctant to engage.
Borrowed from Coming Home- Relatio9nships, Roots and UnpackingBy Jim Citron and Vija Mendelson, http://www.transitionsabroad.com
Skills you Gained This Past YearThe following are skills that most of you have
likely gained during your year of exchange:PatienceBroader appreciation of others viewsExpressing your appreciation for others
effortsHelping othersPack these skills when you leave and
remember to unpack them when you get home!
Sharing Your Exchange ExperienceThe novel vs. the short story“What happened here while I was gone?”Be careful of comparing culturesSeeing your country and the world through
different filtersOthers will not likely understand your
passionJealousy and/or lack of understanding
Coping With Re-EntryShare, share, shareCommunicate- E-mail, IM, Skype, MySpace, Post
cards, Letters…Seek out other returned exchangeesHigh school, university… getting on with lifePresentations to Rotary, civic groups, churches…Help your Rotary Club find new exchange
students Get involved with your Sponsor DistrictGet involved in ROTEX
ResourcesLinks available at http://www.csrye.org“Going Home”, by Dennis White, Ph.D. (A good read
for the plane ride home!) and “How I have changed. Available at- http://yeoresources.org/4DACTION/RYD_Find_1?wvTable0=24&wvSearch_Field0=3&wvSort_Field0=3&wvSearch_Value0=Rebounds_-_Rotex
http://www.pacific.edu/sis/culture/ (excellent worksheets)
http://www.transitionsabroad.com The Art of Coming Home, STORTI, Craig 2001Google “Cultural re-entry” 0r “Reverse culture shock”
Thank YouThe world is a great book;
he who never stirs from home reads only a page.
Saint Augustine-Carthaginian author, saint, & church father
(354 AD - 430 AD)
As an exchange student, you have read but one chapter,the book and the world lie before you.
Happy discovering!