is your kid a superstar?!

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IS YOUR KID A SUPERSTAR?!

Let kids be kids…


Or are we ‘helicopter parents’?

Of course we think the world of our kids. If they are good at academics, we see them in IITs and IIMs and if they are good at sports we see the next ‘Sachins’ and ‘Messis’ coming up soon.

There is a thin line between cheering and browbeating the kids.

Which side of the line are you on?


When winning or losing is all that matters…

Sometimes when a game is being played it is difficult to understand from the parent’s attitude whether it is a game or a battle. Often parents end up venting the frustration of their kid losing in a very negative manner, going as far as to humiliate them in front of friends.

This leads to disinterest in the particular sport or subject.

Does winning matter more to the child or to the parent?


What about simply enjoying the activity?

Today a simple game of table tennis assumes war-like proportions for over-ambitious parents. It is all about winning and nothing to do with enjoying the game.

We end up emphasizing more on winning than on building self-esteem. No doubt some kids will end up as stars but right now let us give them a

chance to grow and use these activities as wonderful opportunities to learn, enjoy and build self-confidence.


SO WHAT SHOULD ACTIVITIES TEACH OUR KIDS ABOUT LIFE?

AS A SUPER PARENT HOW CAN YOU MAKE YOUR

CHILD WIN THE GAME OF LIFE?

Find a few pointers that you can use to guide yourchild…


1. Attitude is everything

Be positive. Set high expectations. Picture yourself a winner. Replace negative thinking with a can-do attitude.


2. Get in the game

Anyone can watch a game, but real winners get off the sidelines and play. Don’t let fear of failure stop you from reaching your full

potential.


3. Winning is as much mental as physical

Surround yourself with positive people. Control your emotions. Stay focused and remain disciplined.


4. Master the fundamentals

Practice, practice, practice. When you master the basics, and execute them well, there’s no need to worry about the score. It works like magic.


5. Few things come easy in life

Success is achieved through hard work and determination. If you want something, you have to put your heart into it. It takes many years to become an overnight success.


6. Always do your best

Aim high and never settle for second best. Strive for continuous improvement in everything that you do. As Vince Lombardi once said, “Winning is not everything — but making the effort to win is.” If you try your best, you’ll never have regrets.


7. Be ready on game day

Anyone can talk about playing a good game. What matters is what you do when it counts. There’s no dress rehearsal for life.


8. Remain flexible and embrace change

You can’t control the uncontrollable. So be prepared to expect the unexpected. People get injured. The weather doesn’t always cooperate. The ball won’t always come your way. Go with the flow.


9. View obstacles as opportunities

When barriers get in your way, find a way around them and use them to learn and develop. Don’t feel sorry for yourself. Excuses don’t win games.


10. Know your strengths and the strengths of others

You are only one person, so don’t try to win games by yourself. Trust and support your teammates and they’ll place their faith in you. That’s the making of a winning team.


11. Be a team player Winning takes teamwork. So be prepared to make personal

sacrifices for the good of the team.


12. Keep your perspective

Remain calm under pressure. Competition will test your limits. Be calm, strong, and in control when it matters most. When counting to ten doesn’t seem to work, try twenty.


13. Be a leader Become a good role model. Set high standards of excellence

for yourself and others. Make people feel special and help bring out the best in everyone. Now that’s a superstar.


14. If you can’t play fair, don’t play

Integrity matters. Compete fairly and fully. When you resort to cheating, you’ve already lost.


15. Quitting is not an option

There will be times when things get tough –– and it may even feel as though all is lost. Always keep hope alive and display confidence in the eye of defeat. As Morgan Freeman said, “The best way to guarantee a loss is to quit.”


16. Accept responsibility for your actions

You’re in the driver’s seat. Only you can decide how hard you’re willing to work to achieve your goals. If you succeed, the rewards are yours. If you fail, there’s always another day.


17. Learn to forgive

Be loyal when the chips are down. Appreciate the special qualities of others, including your opponents. Forgive the mistakes of others. It may be your error that costs the team tomorrow.


18. Support others in need

Real friends are available in good times and bad. So offer your teammates encouragement and support, especially when they have a bad day.


19. Look to the future rather than the past

Don’t dwell on mistakes or past defeats. What’s done is done. Learn from the experience and move on.


20. Follow directions Listen to your coach and respect the call of a referee even if

you disagree.


21. Compete against yourself

Competing against others may be destructive if more effort is spent tearing others down than building yourself up. When you compete against yourself, however, you both win.


22. Raise your game

Find a good role model. Don’t be shy to ask for help. Be open to feedback and put it to good use.


23. Say “no” to unhealthy behaviour

Take care of your body. It’s the only one you’ve got. Abuse your body and pay the price.


24. Know that losing doesn’t make you a failure

Be a good loser. Bounce back after a big loss. That’s the sign of a superstar.


25. Be a Good Winner Be a winner on and off the field. Be humble and quietly proud but

never self-satisfied. And never let success go to your head.


Preparing Kids for the Game of Life

Teach your child that success doesn’t come easily. Life is a continuing competition in which excellence wins. Therefore, it’s better to learn how to compete when the consequences are small. So if you aren’t using every opportunity to prepare your child for the game of life, your son or daughter is being cheated out of something very special.


The bottom line is that kids aren’t born with self-confidence or a positive attitude; kids don’t automatically know how to conquer fear, accept feedback, overcome obstacles, or snatch victory from the jaws of defeat; kids don’t always know what it’s like to come back after failure, be a humble winner, or show grace after a terrible loss. These skills are learned.


A SUPERSTAR IN LIFE! So do your child a favour and teach him or her the winning

philosophy of great coaches — because even though it’s great to win the game, it’s even better to be a superstar in life.

is your kid a superstar?!

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