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    In the Zone

    And

    Other Sports Essays

    John A. Passaro

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    In the Zone And Other Sports Essays

    Copyright 2013 by John A. Passaro

    Smashwords Edition

    Any reprod!tion o" this materia# by any

    means$

    In who#e or in part$

    %eeds e&pressed written !onsent o" its athor.

    A## 'ights 'eser(ed

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    Table of Contents

    )hy *o +o )rest#e

    ,aybe

    -he Psh

    In the Zone

    oo/ 'e(iews

    Conta!t the Athor

    Other oo/s by John A. Passaro

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    Why Do You Wrestle?

    +esterday whi#e I was on the side o" the mat

    ne&t to some wrest#ers who were warming p

    "or their ne&t mat!h$ I "ond myse#" standing

    side by side ne&t to an e&traordinary wrest#er.

    e was warming p and he had that #oo/ o"

    desperation on his "a!e that wrest#ers get

    when their mat!h is abot to start and their

    !oa!h is a!ross the gym !oa!hing on another

    mat$ in a mat!h that is a#ready in progress.

    ey do yo ha(e a !oa!h. I as/ed him.

    es not here right now. e 4iet#y answered

    me ready to ta/e on the tas/ o" wrest#ing his

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    opponent a#one.

    )o#d yo mind i" I !oa!hed yo5

    is "a!e ti#ted p at me with a s#ight smi#e and

    said6 -hat wo#d be great.

    -hrogh the sonds o" whist#es and ye##ing

    "ans I heard him as/ me what my name was.

    ,y name is John. I rep#ied.

    i John$ I am %ishan he said whi#e e&tending

    his hand "or a handsha/e.

    e pased "or a se!ond and then he said to

    me6

    John I am going to #ose this mat!h.

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    e said that as i" he was preparing me so I

    wo#dn7t get hrt when my !oa!hing s/i##s

    didn7t wor/ magi! on him today.

    I said6 %ishan 8 %o s!ore o" a mat!h wi## e(er

    ma/e yo a winner. +o are a#ready a winner

    by stepping onto that mat.

    )ith that he 9st smi#ed and s#ow#y ran on to

    the mat$ ready "or batt#e$ bt ha#" /nowing what

    the probab#e ot!ome wo#d be.

    )hen yo "irst see %ishan yo wi## noti!e that

    his #egs are "rai# 8 (ery "rai#. So "rai# that theyha(e to be spported by !stom made$ "orm

    "itted bra!es to he#p spport and straighten his

    #imbs.

    ra!es that I re!ogni:e a## to we##.

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    Some wo#d say %ishan has a handi!ap.

    I say that he has a gi"t.

    -o me the word handi!ap is a word that

    des!ribes what one !an7t do.

    -hat doesn7t des!ribe %ishan.

    %ishan is doing.

    -he word gi"t is a word that des!ribes

    something o" (a#e that yo gi(e to others.

    And withot /nowing it$ %ishan is gi(ing s a##

    a gi"t.

    I be#ie(e %ishan7s gi"t is inspiration.

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    -he abi#ity to #oo/ the odds in the eye and say6

    +o don7t pertain to me.

    -he abi#ity to /eep mo(ing "orward.

    Perse(eran!e.

    A )hate(er it ta/es attitde.

    As he predi!ted$ the ot!ome o" his mat!h

    wasn7t great. -hat is$ i" the on#y thing yo

    9dge a wrest#ing mat!h by is the "ina# s!ore.

    %ishan tried as hard as he !o#d$ bt he!o#dn7t o(er!ome the twenty8si& pond weight

    di""eren!e that he was gi(ing p to his

    opponent on this day in order to !ompete.

    +o see$ %ishan weighs on#y ;0 ponds and

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    the #owest weight !#ass in this tornament was

    10

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    wi## on#y be or minimm tomorrow.

    )e wrest#e to measre where we started "rom$

    to /now where we are now$ and to p#an on

    getting where we want to be in the "tre.

    )e wrest#e to #oo/ the seeming#y

    insrmontab#e opponent right in the eye and

    say6 ring it on. 8 I !an ta/e whate(er yo !an

    dish ot.

    Sometimes #i"e is yor opponent and 9st

    showing p is a (i!tory.

    +o dont need to s!ore more points than yor

    opponent in order to a!!omp#ish that.

    %o$ %ishan didn7t s!ore more points than anyo" his opponents on this day$ that wo#d ha(e

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    been ni!e$ bt I don7t be#ie(e that was the

    most important thing to %ishan. )ithot

    /nowing "or sre 8 the most important thing to

    him on this day was to wa#/ with pride #i/e a

    wrest#er p to a thirty two "oot !ir!#e$ ha(e a##

    eyes "rom the !rowd on him$ to wat!h him

    !ompete one on one against his opponent$

    gi(ing it a## that he had.

    -hat is what !ompetition is a## abot.

    ,ost o" the times in wrest#ing yo are

    !ompeting against yorse#".

    %ishan is no di""erent.

    -hey say ;0= o" #i"e is 9st showing p.

    %ishan showed p today.

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    e showed p when most o" s wo#d ha(e

    stayed in the stands.

    -oday a## o" %ishan7s opponents may ha(e

    s!ored more points than him$ bt he

    !ompeted.

    e !ompeted against his opponents$ he

    !ompeted against himse#" and he !ompeted

    against #i"e.

    And no matter what the s!ore may ha(e said

    in any one o" his mat!hes 8 he won in e(ery!ase.

    +o #earn #ater in #i"e how important the

    dis!ip#ines o" wrest#ing are to yo in hand#ingrea# #i"e prob#ems$ espe!ia##y when "a!ing a

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    seeming#y insrmontab#e opponent in a

    disease or i##ness.

    I" yo #i(e #ong enogh$ #i"e wi## throw yo to

    yor ba!/.

    And when it does 8 yo are m!h better o"" i"

    yo ha(e had wrest#ed.

    +o wi## /now how to "ight #i/e he## to get o"" o"

    yor ba!/$ to get ba!/ on yor "eet and to

    !ome ba!/ and win.

    Chan!es are that I probab#y wi## ne(er see%ishan again.

    -hat is 9st how #i"e wor/s.

    )rest#ing brother 8 /eep mo(ing "orward.

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    And than/ yo "or the gi"t.

    +o are an inspiration.

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    aybe

    Introduction:

    In 2009 Maverick Passaros sister lost oxygen to her

    brain for 6 minutes and had to be ut in a medically

    induced coma!

    In 20"" #ick Mauriello contracted M$%& and 'as on

    life suort!

    In 20"2 they trained together to 'in a (ounty

    (hamionshi in %uffolk (ounty) #* at "26 + ",2

    ounds

    ,aybe it was that in the ba!/ o" their minds

    #ast year they /new that they were going to be

    pshed by a great "tre opponent.

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    ,aybe that "tre ine(itab#e !#ash dro(e them

    both to prepare to their "##est !apabi#ities.

    ,aybe it was that no great !ompetitor wants to

    see their e#ite !ompetition e(er get hrt or si!/

    instead o" !ompeting against them.

    ,aybe it was the !hi##ing series o" e(ents that

    pt %i!/ on #i"e spport in a medi!a##y ind!ed

    !oma.

    ,aybe it was ,a(eri!/s "irst hand /now#edge

    o" what someone in a medi!a##y ind!ed !oma

    is going throgh.

    ,aybe they both /new what it meant to dri(edown %i!ho#s 'oad heading to Stony roo/

    >ni(ersity and to ma/e a right hand trn into

    the ospita# instead o" a #e"t hand trn into the

    Sports Comp#e&.

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    ,aybe it was rea#i:ing that when yo prioriti:e

    things in #i"e$ wrest#ing is not that important.

    ,aybe they /new that when yo prioriti:e

    things$ wrest#ing is (ery important in #i"e.

    ,aybe they /new how m!h stress a medi!a#

    i##ness !an ha(e on a "ami#y.

    ,aybe they /new how a medi!a# i##ness !o#d

    bring a "ami#y !#oser together.

    ,aybe it was hearing that a strong growing

    boy who on!e weighed one hndred and "orty

    ponds was down to one hndred and twe#(e

    ponds de to his i##ness.,aybe it was the "irst hand /now#edge o" what

    that weight #oss #oo/s #i/e on someone yo

    #o(e.

    ,aybe it was the hope o" the mira!#e re!o(ery.

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    ,aybe it was /nowing how m!h "o!s and

    desire is ne!essary to be ab#e to ta/es #i"e7s

    best !heap shot in the gt and /eep mo(ing

    "orward.

    ,aybe it was ha(ing the opportnity o" being

    %i!/7s wor/ot partner in the o"" season and

    seeing a re!o(ery pro!ess ta/e shape$ day

    a"ter day$ #itt#e by #itt#e$ in the wrest#ing room.

    ,aybe it was a sb!ons!ios#y !ommni!ated

    pa!t that a##owed ,a(eri!/ to be part o" %i!/7s

    re!o(ery pro!ess$ in e&!hange "or the abi#ity tobe ab#e to be#ie(e in the medi!a##y

    impossib#e.

    %o matter what.

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    ,aybe it was a## o" this.

    ,aybe it was none o" this.

    )hate(er it was 8 it is ndeniab#e.

    -here has been a #i"etime bond that has been

    "ormed between ,a(eri!/ and %i!/.

    %eed proo"5

    A"ter winning the S""o#/ Conty -it#e #ast

    night$ ,a(eri!/ !hose withot hesitation to "ind

    %i!/ ,arie##o$ who was warming p$ ready to

    ta/e the mat "or his own S""o#/ Conty tit#e$and do the one thing that is most sa!red to a

    wrest#er 8 the 1st Ce#ebration hg.

    ,aybe$ 9st maybe$ withot /nowing it$ %i!/he#ped ,a(eri!/ more than he wi## e(er /now.

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    The Push

    It was a gre#ing pra!ti!e$ in a hot basement

    wrest#ing room in the midd#e o" the smmer.

    +o /now the p#a!e.

    -he p#a!e where !hampions are made.

    In this !ase$ the p#a!e where "orteen

    dedi!ated 'a:or E#ite wrest#ers !ame to train

    on this night$ to psh themse#(es and to psh

    their partners to #e(e#s that they didn7t /now

    e(er e&isted.

    -hese "orteen wrest#ers do this re#igios#ytwi!e a wee/$ p and abo(e whate(er other

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    wor/ots$ pri(ate #essons or weight training

    they may be doing on the side to get better.

    -hey ignore a## the reasons why they sho#dn7t

    be wor/ing ot together6 -hey might be in the

    same #eage$ -hey !o#d meet in the

    !onties$ I don7t want anyone to get to /now

    my sty#e.

    -hey do it anyway$ /nowing they !an ne(er

    get to where they want to be by training by

    themse#(es.

    -hey be#ie(e in a be#ie" system that says Iron

    Sharpens Iron$ and -o be the best yo ha(eto wor/ ot with the best.

    So they !ome down and they train.

    -hey train to ma/e themse#(es better and to

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    ma/e their wor/ot partners better.

    -hey train hard.

    I mean they go at it.

    On a norma# night they go 100= a## ot$ a## the

    time.

    On this on parti!#ar night thogh$ there was

    9st a #itt#e e&tra 9i!e in the air.

    Pra!ti!e 9st seemed a #itt#e more intense.

    -he throws 9st a #itt#e harder.

    -he ta/edowns 9st a #itt#e more "ier!e.

    -he brea/s 9st a #itt#e shorter.

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    -he intensity was de"inite#y stepped p a

    not!h. -here were bodies "#ying a!ross the

    room$ hard wrest#ing being done e(erywhere

    yo #oo/ed.

    -here were wrest#ers wi##ing to pt their bodies

    into wa##s be"ore gi(ing p a ta/edown.

    Ea!h wrest#er pshing his partner to #imits that

    neither thoght that he had.

    %inety mintes o" intense #i(e go7s that wo#d

    ha(e made Je"" Jordan prod.

    A"ter pra!ti!e was !omp#ete 8 yo heard more

    than one dad say$ ,an they went at it

    tonight.%o one wo#d ha(e said a word i" a## o" the

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    wrest#ers 9st wanted to go home and go to

    bed.

    t no 8 that7s not what ma/es !hampions.

    )hat ma/es !hampions is being arond

    others who ha(e the same !hampionship

    menta#ity as yo do.

    )rest#ers who ha(e the same goa#s that yo

    ha(e.

    )rest#ers who wi## psh yo to the "inish #ine.

    E(en a"ter a hard wor/ot.Espe!ia##y a"ter a hard wor/ot.

    -he psh !o#d !ome "rom anywhere.

    On this day it !ame "rom ?th grader Ja/e

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    Si#(erstein.

    On this day Ja/e was the gy who set the bar.

    A"ter pra!ti!e$ as e(eryone wiped down and

    dried o""$ and then headed to the s!a#es to

    weigh themse#(es$ there was this se(enty8

    eight ponder in the !orner 4iet#y doing a "ew

    e&tra sets o" pshps by himse#".

    e didn7t say a word 8 he was 9st pmping ot

    hard pshps 8 one a"ter another 8 doing ea!h

    and e(ery one the right way 8 e#bows #o!/ed

    on the way p$ !hest to the "#oor on the waydown$ head p.

    -his went on "or a "ew mintes$ as the other

    wrest#ers were pa!/ing p.

    As ea!h 'a:or E#ite wrest#er dried o"" and

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    weighed himse#"$ one by one ea!h o" them

    !aght Ja/e ot o" the !orner o" their eye and

    !ame ba!/ onto the mats to 9oin him.

    -he bar was set.

    ow many are yo doing5

    200 was the answer.

    And down went the high s!hoo# wrest#ers.

    )ithot hesitation 200 e&tra pshps trned

    into 2;00 in tota# as a## "orteen wrest#ers9oined in.

    +o see a !hampion !an7t ignore the

    !ha##enge o" a psh 8 that7s what ma/es him a

    !hampion.

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    On this day 8 Ja/e Si#(erstein was the gy who

    set the bar.

    In the ne&t pra!ti!e it wi## be someone e#se...

    -hat is the reason yo srrond yorse#" with

    as many !hampions as yo !an6

    So yo wi## be pshed.

    Espe!ia##y a"ter yo thoght yo had a#ready

    pshed yorse#" to yor ma&.

    Champions embra!e the !ha##enge o" the psh"rom another !hampion.

    -hat is what ma/es them great.

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    In the Zone

    I ha(e o"ten wondered why I !oa!h baseba##.

    )hy am I so obsessed abot the sport5

    )hy do I spend and insane amont o" time

    and money 9st to tea!h /ids how to p#ay a

    game5

    )hat is so spe!ia# abot baseba## that I

    (irta##y ma/e it my "ami#y7s #i"e and mine "or

    ten and a ha#" months throghot the year5

    )hat dri(es me to want to dri(e yong

    p#ayers$ to want to !ompete5

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    Espe!ia##y at an ear#y age5

    )e## yesterday I got as !#ose to answering

    those 4estions as I e(er ha(e be"ore.

    @ast night when the "ina# ot was re!orded in

    the 12 aseba## ea(en Championship

    game$ we were on the wrong side o" a 281

    s!ore.

    It was a (ery we## p#ayed game$ (ery we##

    pit!hed by both teams.

    It was a"ter this %on )in as I pre"er to !a## it$that I e&perien!ed my epiphany where a## o"

    my inner 4estions seemed to be answered

    sim#taneos#y$ by a sing#e e(ent.

    One wo#d thin/ that one7s most memorab#e

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    re(e#ation whi#e !oa!hing yoth baseba##

    wo#d o!!r a"ter a !hampionship win$ and not

    a"ter a heart wren!hing #oss.

    -hat is the beaty o" baseba##.

    It tea!hes yo how to dea# with not s!!eeding

    and the importan!e o" drawing a positi(e ot o"

    e(ery part o" the game.

    I" yo a##ow it to$ the game wi## ma/e yo

    better.

    I !ame home a"ter that togh %on )inarond pm in the e(ening$ and no sooner

    than I wa#/ed throgh the door I heard

    ,a(eri!/ p#ead6

    *ad$ a"ter yo eat and sett#e in B !an we go

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    hit5

    I 4i!/#y derai#ed my initia# /nee 9er/ rea!tion.

    -he one that reminded me that we 9st p#ayed

    a game$ that it was pm and dar/ otside and

    that we probab#y !o#d go hit tomorrow and we

    wo#dn7t e(en miss a beat.

    -han/"##y I ignored that rationa#e and #istened

    to my insane inner (oi!e instead.

    +o /now the one B the one that reminded me

    that nothing e&traordinary wo#d happen by

    doing ordinary things.

    So I as/ed my son )hy do yo want to go hit

    now5

    -o whi!h ,a( rep#ied6

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    *ad$ we ha(e Cooperstown in a wee/$ yo

    said I ha(e to hit e(eryday to get ready "or that

    tornament B we##$ #et7s start with today.

    e added$ )e !an go down to the %orth

    Street ie#d$ pt the #ights on by hopping the

    "en!e to the !ontro# bo& and we !o#d hit

    tonight. Can we go5

    ow do yo say no to that5

    Espe!ia##y a"ter I promised that we wo#d do

    that ear#ier in the wee/$ bt instead I got st!/

    at wor/ and didn7t get home nti# a"termidnight.

    So withot eating dinner or sett#ing in$ I re8

    #a!ed my snea/ers$ as/ed my son to grab hisyonger brother to !ome hit with s B and o""

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    we were at 630 pm to ta/e some e&tra batting

    pra!ti!e.

    )hi#e we were dri(ing to the "ie#d I thoght to

    myse#" how di""i!#t it is to hit a baseba## and

    that there are rare o!!asions when hitters tr#y

    "ee# #i/e they are in the :one.

    It a#so dawned on me that ,a(eri!/$ in his new

    Co#mbs Stan!e was "ee#ing In the Zone

    and he wanted to ta/e "## ad(antage o" that

    "ee#ing.

    ,a(eri!/s !on"iden!e was rising$ and he wasseeing more and more s!!ess with e(ery at

    bat.

    On this night he 9st wanted to bene"it asm!h as he !o#d "rom being in the :one.

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    Can yo b#ame him5

    It is not e(eryday that yo are in the :one.

    )hen the :one !a##s yo mst #isten.

    +o ne(er /now how #ong being in the :one

    #asts.

    It is a !ardina# r#e B *ou must take advantage

    of every second that you are in the -one!

    E(en i" the :one !a##s at 630 pm on a pit!h8

    b#a!/ night a"ter a %on )in in the!hampionship game when it wo#d be saner to

    be wat!hing baseba## on Sports Center than to

    be p#aying it.

    Sanity has nothing to do with being in the

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    :one.

    ,a( interrpted my thoght pro!ess with a

    4estion and sdden rea#i:ation6

    *ad did yo rea#i:e that was the #ast game

    that we wo#d p#ay on the sma## "ie#ds at

    aseba## ea(en5

    @i/e a ro!/et$ that is how "ast the #ast "ew

    years went.

    +ea$ I /now ,a(. I answered him as the #ast

    "i(e years o" games "#ashed be"ore my eyes.

    *ad$ I !an7t be#ie(e my #ast at bat on the sma##

    "ie#ds was a bntD

    +ea$ a #itt#e bit more to the #e"t and yo wo#d

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    ha(e threaded the need#e. I say.

    +ea$ bt isn7t it a shame that as soon as I am

    ab#e to hit it ot$ that they mo(e the "en!es

    ba!/ 100 "eet5

    -here is more to baseba## than hitting

    homerns. I added.

    +ea$ I /now B it is a#most #i/e starting o(er.

    thogh.

    -here was an e&tended period o" si#en!e$ and

    he "ina##y said$ I !an7t wait.

    %o sooner that he said$ I !an7t wait we p##ed

    into the par/ing #ot o" the %orth Street "ie#d.

    oth ,a(eri!/ and -ra(is 9mped ot o" the

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    tr!/$ ran towards the !ontro# bo&$ !#imbed the

    "en!e and an&ios#y "#ipped the swit!h "or the

    #e"t and right "ie#d #ights$ ha#" ho#ding their

    breathes nti# they heard the b:: o" the

    e#e!tri!ity rn throgh the #ines.

    +o see we ha(e done this be"ore where

    sometimes the #ights didn7t go on.

    )ithin ten se!onds the in"ie#d started to g#ow

    with a s#ight "og rising "rom the grond.

    It was at that moment that I /new that it was

    going to be a spe!ia# night.

    A## three o" s 9st stared at the "ie#d whi!h

    was i##minated 9st enogh to see a baseba##

    on this e(ening and not too m!h whi!h wo#dma/e the neighboring homes !a## the po#i!e.

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    A## three o" s !o#dn7t wait to get in between

    those #ines.

    At that moment nothing e#se mattered.

    -hat is where we wanted to be.

    etween the #ines wor/ing on hitting$ and

    trying to stay in the :one "or as #ong as

    possib#e.

    It was a s!ene ot o" baseba##7s (ersion o"

    riday %ight @ights.

    %e(er had the sight o" an empty "ie#d seemed

    more meaning"#.

    1?1 "eet down the #ines$ 1; "eet into the gaps$and 1< "eet to dead !enter.

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    A 12 year o#d hitter7s paradise.

    I pro!eeded to throw batting pra!ti!e to both o"

    my sons "or ninety mintes.

    I" I was ab#e to high#ight 100 o" my son7s best

    swings in his #i"etime$ a## 100 o!!rred on this

    night.

    -o thin/ that I !o#d ha(e said %o to !oming

    down this e(ening sent a shi(er down my

    spine.

    Imagine that.

    I" I was ordinary$ this night may not ha(e e(er

    o!!rred.

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    a## a"ter ba##$ #ine dri(e a"ter #ine dri(e$ the

    e(ening pro!eeded.

    On#y o!!asiona##y did it brie"#y stop$ a"ter I too/

    a shot o"" o" a body part and needed time to

    hea# "or a "ew se!onds.

    On#y the rea# hard shots o"" o" !ertain body

    parts stopped s "or an e&tended period o"

    time$ as I tried to regain !ons!iosness so I

    !o#d throw again.

    I am getting sed to the rea#i:ation that the

    boys are growing p and getting stronger$ andI am getting o#der and my arm is getting

    wea/er$ whi!h ma/es me ha(e to dangeros#y

    throw "rom shorter distan!es.

    In a prod "ather#y sadomasi!isti!#y way$ I am

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    thri##ed when I get hit. As e(ery deep prp#e

    brise on my body represents a per"e!t swing.

    I" I were to #i"e my shirt at any time there wo#d

    be F8? brises on my body. -he #atest brise

    was a dire!t hit nder my armpit whi!h

    o!!rred when I pt my hands p to shie#d my

    "a!e as the ba## 9mped o"" o" my son7s bat.

    -hat one re4ired a s#ight#y #onger

    re!peration time.

    As soon as I was ab#e to$ I threw again "rom

    the same distan!e and too/ another shot.

    A##$ 9st to stay in the :one.

    *ad$ I "ee# more !on"ident hitting #e"ty than I

    do righty. -ra(is said. I don7t /now why$ bt

    it 9st /ind o" happened tonight.

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    Imagine that$ we may not ha(e e(en been

    here tonight i" I 9st #istened to that other (oi!e.

    -he on#y thing better "or a dad that wor/s with

    his /ids than ha(ing one son in the :one$ is

    ha(ing two son7s in the :one at the same time.

    @i"e !o#d not be better.

    )hi#e we were at the "ie#d hitting$ nothing e#se

    seemed to matter.

    Jst a "ather and his two sons wor/ing on the

    game at 10630 pm at night to get ready "or thene&t !ha##enge.

    -wo brothers "ina##y rooting "or ea!h other.

    -rai(is Oooohed as his o#der brothers shots!#eared the "en!e and Aaahhed as some hit

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    the ye##ow part o" the top o" the "en!e and "e##

    ba!/ into the "ie#d.

    )hi#e ,a(eri!/ "ina##y handed ot a heart"e#t

    !omp#iment$ that has been #ong awaited to be

    re!ei(ed by his yonger brother.

    @ine dri(e a"ter #ine dri(e #e"t the in"ie#d$ an

    inordinate amont o" ba##s #e"t the yard.

    @i"e is good.

    -here is something spe!ia# abot baseba## that

    goes "ar deeper than being a game. It is the"ather8son re#ationship that is bi#t$ the #i"e

    #essons that are taght in the pro!ess o"

    p#aying a game and the abi#ity to o(er!ome not

    s!!eeding a## o" the time and sti## !onsideringyorse#" as a s!!ess.

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    It is the abi#ity to re!ogni:e !hange when it is

    !oming and not to rn "rom it$ bt rather to

    embra!e it.

    It is #earning to hone the best hman 4a#ity B

    to stay in the :one B no matter what yor :one

    may be.

    -here are moments in time that are so

    (a#ab#e that I wo#d not se## or trade them "or

    anything.

    -his night at %orth Street was one o" thosetimes.

    -hat is the reason that I !oa!h.

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    !oo" #e$%e&s

    -here is nothing more rewarding "or an athor

    than to see a reader ta/e the time and #ea(e a

    boo/ re(iew.

    I wo#d as/ yo to p#ease ta/e the time to

    #ea(e a boo/ re(iew on Ama:on.

    It wo#d be sin!ere#y appre!iated.

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