How to Talk in an Arranged MarriageMeetingGetting chills before an arrange marriage meet. Here is a guide that can helpyou ease the process of an arrange marriage meeting.

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Decide what kind of girl do you want. House wife, sweet and caring, familyoriented, business women etc

Remember to read the bio data twice or thrice before meeting the girl.

The bio data will give you sparks of what you can ask. Example: why did you dob.com, oh you like cooking, traveling, Did you like extra curricula activities.

Respect her parents. This could depend on local traditions. For example, in Hindufamilies, it may be customary to touch the feet of her parents.

The girl is nervous and so are you so calm down and smile. Make the oppositeperson feel comfortable.

Ask a few simple question like asking her name and then asking what doesher name mean.

Ask her if she really wants to do an arrange marriage or a love marriage.Many times a girl has family pressure to see a guy. Make her feel comfortable so

that she can open up and tell the truth.

Ask her what she wants to be. A house wife, business women or she is willing toplay a dual role.

To narrow down ask a girl whether she like a nuclear family or she like a jointfamily.

Discuss religious faith if it matters in the marriage

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Talk about each others hobbies. What habits are a turn on and what are aturn off. Many girls say that smoking was a big turn off from them.

Ask if the girl is open to change as your today needs may be a businesswomen, 3 years from now the need will be for a caring mom and a caring

daughter in law as your parents will be aging and 5 years from now the need willbe of a house wife. See whether she is flexible.

Girls often ask how free the family is in respect of clothes. Be very honestand tell the truth. Reply the truth of what is allowed at home, what is allowed at

social functions and what will be allowed at outings.

Girls do go to an extent of asking how much do you earn. Reply if it is fixedsalary or profit percentage. Explain if you are not salaried people. You could be

profit oriented. A business family is driven for profits and if it makes losses then it willpledge all its assets to make sure that family name doesn't get spoiled and salary is paidto employees first.

Never ask a girl about her past.

In life girls have fallen for a guy and a lot of girls repent for their mistakeso don't instigate the past details.

Be clear if you expect a girl to do a few duties. If you have grand parentswho are old and parents had been operated twice for health issues and you

wanted a house wife to take care of your parents do mention it. The same way how a girltake care of her parents and a mother take care of her child. Make such a thing clear.

Don't make it a monologue. The meeting should be a conversation.

Try searching her on facebook, or on twitter. It will give you some detailabout her.

Don't agree to marriage after the first meeting. Make sure that you have atleast two or three good meetings before delivering the final decision.

A lot of girls hide the truth in the 1st meeting and may open-up only afterthe second or third meeting.

Make sure you speak to your own family about respecting your marriagepartner once the marriage is finalized.

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22 Request proper respect and privacy from your family in terms of notoverstepping boundaries that are implied within a union of two.

Talk gently.

Never Argue.

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