how to speak so that people want to listen

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Voice is

an

powerful

instrume

nt we

have. ..

Really powerf

ul

It can start wars!

Or make love….

BUT IS IT THAT NOBODY

LISTENS WHEN YOU SPEAK?

Here’s Why?

There are seven deadly

sins we do while

speaking

Gossip

JUDGING

Being negative

Complaining

Excuses!

Exaggeration

Dogmatism

We should

develop positive thinking

while speakin

g

There are

FOUR foundations for

this

Honesty

Authenticity

Integrity

Lastly,

Love.

YOU CAN’T JUDGE A PERSON ON HOW HE SPEAKS

We can always Change the way

we speak for

betterment.

These tools

help you improve the way

you speak.

Register Add depth to your voice

TimbreSmooth and warm voice is always welcomed.

ProsodyMix up your notes while you speak

PACE.Gush through the matter while emphasis on the details.

Si lence

It never hurts in a talk.

Pitch

Be pleasant to the listener.

Volume

Emphasis. Don’t Shout.

THERE IS ONE IMPORTANT THING TO DO BEFORE YOU COMMENCE A TALK

Warm up your voiceGive your muscles some

movement for better quality.

SO, INSTEAD OF JUST

SHOUTING AROUND

And being a

Noise

Control what you

speak.

Listen consciously

and be listened

consciously.

That is an Idea to share

Recap• Voice is a powerful

instrument that we need to use properly.• Avoid committing sins

while talking to others, be pleasant and positive.• Improve on speaking

skills using various tools that help creating a better conversation.• Do warm up before any

big speaking event or a Talk.

DISCLAIMERCreated by Divij Chopra, NIT Jaipur,

during an internship by Prof. Sameer Mathur, IIM Lucknow.

www.IIMInternship.com