How to overcome your fears and self sabotage

Could you be experiencing self sabotage? Sometimes

as a new business owner gets clear about what they

offer and their marketing message, good things start to

happen. But then, you might hit a bump in the road

where resistance shows up. For example, you might

meet prospects who are excited to work with you, but

they don’t become clients for a variety of reasons.

If you find this happening in your business, here’s

what I recommend. I’m sharing the exact process I used several years ago to clear up self

sabotage for myself. Write down every single negative thing you say to yourself about what it

means to be successful in your business. Also write down any negative beliefs as well as all the

fears you have about your success. Put it all down on paper.

Some typical things that might show up on your list are:

• Fear of your success

• Fear you might fail

• Fear of being overwhelmed

• Feelings of inadequacy

• Fear of jeopardizing your marriage

• Loss of free time

• Worry about your children

• Losing friends or alienating family

• Not wanting to get too busy

All of these fears can be lodged in your subconscious mind and create self sabotage. We all

have these fears. However, these subconscious beliefs or fears that are not congruent with

where you want to go and all the good stuff happening, you can muck up your success. Your

subconscious thoughts need to be aligned with your vision of success, so you don’t create any

self-sabotage that gets in the way of attaining your dreams.

Take your list to a professional who can help you work through the fears and negative

thoughts. Seek out an EFT practitioner, a hypnotherapist or an intuitive healer. I’ve done all

these things and still work with an intuitive healer who helps me figure out the cosmic stuff and

sort out things from the past that might get in the way.

This is the single best thing I did for my mindset years ago to understand what was driving me

or getting in the way. This worked really well for me, eliminating any potential self-sabotage.

The following year, I made a million dollars in my business–so you can see it works!

Your Client Attraction Assignment

If this sounds familiar and you might be experiencing self sabotage, take out a sheet of paper

and start making your list of fears and negative thoughts about success right now. Dig deep and

turn over all the rocks to discover what might be getting in your way. Then select a practitioner

to help you work through these concerns to make way for the success you dream of.

Fabienne Fredrickson, The Client Attraction Mentor, is founder of the Client Attraction System,

the proven step-by-step program that shows you exactly how to attract more clients, in record

time...guaranteed. To get your F.R.E.E. Audio CD by mail and receive her weekly marketing &

success mindset articles on attracting more high-paying clients and dramatically increasing your

income, visit http://attractclients.com