1. 1. Do you want to win your ex-girlfriend or your ex-boyfriend back? Then you've come to the right place to find answers. I can provide you all my knowledge available from years of experience as a Life Coach and a Relationship Expert. so that you have the best chance to get your ex back. First and foremost, however, it is important that you feel better soon and Get your partner back! Your boyfriend or girlfriend has left you, you are now at a loss, what you should do? You feel as if you have had the rug pulled from under your feet? We want to give you two things from this article. First, we want to help you get your partner back, get rid of your your heartache and quickly get yourself back to the way you were. Secondly, I will provide you with all my experience of ten years working with thousands of people who I helped get ex back now! Here are 8 common mistakes to avoid when trying to win your ex back. This is the basic prerequisite in order to save your relationship with your partner. Often, there are a series of little things that decide whether you have a good chance to win your ex back. But if you commit these errors, you increase the very risk that you'll lose him or her forever. That is why my recommendation is to initially reduce thecontact between the two of you to keep you strong and to study and plan your next course of action. It is important to keep a clear head and act strategically in this delicate time. These tips and strategies will help you to ease the heartache, feeling of loss and to control your anxiety better. You will be amazed at how far you can come with my very easy to implement get your ex back tips! You will also make a better decision whether you want to win back your ex-partner back at all, and how good are your chances. You can get more great tips at Get Your Partner Back which is the best resource for relationship problems.
2. 2. Do you really want to win back your ex-partner? Almost always it pays to fight for your lost love and, at least to start, a well-prepared plan to get your ex back is always your best bet. Even if it looks like you are not going to get back together, it always pays to fight for the one you love. You were in love with your partner at one time and you probably still are? Think about if this love is worth it again and what are the reason for the breakup, because often the answer is buried under a mountain of controversy and relationship stress, boredom and everyday life. There are a few things you should avoid doing. And on the other hand, there are a few things you should definitely do as soon as possible. The very first thing we will discuss is the 9 most common mistakes to avoid now and when you win your ex partner back! Whether you want your ex partner back or if you still need a little help with your decision - this small survey can help you improve the relationship with your ex considerably and to maintain your dignity and integrity. Even if you find out at the end that you want to win back your ex and he or she does not, you'll probably be happy if you start now to avoid these typical mistakes in the future. What you need now is a good strategy to bring you resolution in the matter and to start in exactly the right place. Here are the 9 most common mistakes you should avoid starting immediately, to win you Ex back:
3. 3. Mistake No. 1: Not Having a Strategy to Get Your Partner Back You must not approach your ex in an aggressive or angry way, take some time to relax and approach her tomorrow. That would be the biggest mistake you could make. The vast majority of people do not know the basic rules which should be strictly followed. It is enormously important, not to add further turmoil. What the outcome will be will depend on the mood and temper of both parties. You do not get your ex back by getting angry, making them cry or shortly afterwords trying to make the ex-partner jealous. If deep down you wanted the separation than things will not work out. Do you know this behavior that is inside of you? It is absolutely deadly and will seal your separation more and more. If you see this behavior in yourself, you should stop immediately and accurately and consistently avoid the errors described here! I can helpbuild a strategy as I have for hundreds of other couples if that is what is needed. Mistake No. 2: Chasing you Ex Another point that is very important and you which will be very hard in the beginning is to seem too desperate. You feel that by trying to be with them or calling all the time it will strengthen the hope of revitalizing your relationship, maybe even falling love again. Unfortunately, however, you realize that it is not working, this is a common mistake made by people! If it is difficult for you not to talk to your partner, then you should just try to email them or even send a letter. You will receive a reply that will clear up a lot of questions you may have. Many of my readers praise emails are always the right choice and are a great help. I have also learned that each case is different and there is always an exception to the rule. Test the waters with an email to see your ex's response, but do not bombard them with emails or texts as you will seem desperate and that is not a good thing.
4. 4. It is fine and even "healthy" to be sad, but please try to avoid at all costs to get sympathy from your ex partner! Maybe you crave "closeness and comfort" from your ex-partner and unconsciously try to get pity from them. Psychologically, the sympathy from your ex-partner is a slow poison for your goal, but you can still win your ex back if the seeking of pity stops! You want to love and be loved and remember love has no mercy! If your ex-partner has the feeling that you are not OK without him or her, or you cannot get along, then your ex, in most cases, will be driven even further away from you, often without even understanding why! You must try to tackle the problem head on and get to the roots of your problems and you will find yourself back together again! Mistake No. 4: Make Accusations and Allegation Please make your ex-partner understand that any past events and accusations are not relevant for moving forward. This is important though as if it we a major issue, it may not be able to be solved. Do not argue about the past. Very important: You also do not blame yourself for certain circumstances, you must turn the other cheek. Who ever is to blame does not give the other person the right to try to power over he other! Take your share of responsibility for the relationship and also for the separation or break up. Your partner is not bad or evil just because he or she currently does not want to be with you. You must respect his/her decision if that is the route they want to take! Mistake No. 5: Try to Play the Jealousy Card Very often comes the feeling of burning during the immediate period of separation. Perhaps you can guess that after the separation your partner may have taken an interest in another person, for example ,maybe a work colleague or an old acquaintance. Do not let yourself be carried away by jealousy as it is not a feature the other wants to see at this critical time! A small amount of concern will show you care, but do not get carried away with jealousy. Also you should not under any circumstances try the opposite and get another partner just to make your ex jealous because this is a game of fire and gas and it is far too risky! Unfortunately, this tactic is often recommended by people who have no clue and no experience in
5. 5. these matters. Please never play this game and try to make your ex jealous just because he/she does not want you back! Mistake No. 6: The Denial of Separation This is especially true if you still live with your ex-spouse or your ex- partner and share a common household or when you have children. Do not try to deny the reality of separation, toy cannot ignore your separation and try to act as a happy couple! Because of the psycho dynamic constitution of closeness and distance you cannot deny facts and it is in the best interest of all parties to get a resolution. Mistake No. 7: Manipulate Friends and Acquaintances so that They Take Sides No matter how disappointed and hurt you are, please resist the temptation to portray your ex as evil or very bad in front of friends, acquaintances and relatives, or even your own children! This is an absolute love killer, which leads inevitably to the fact that you are coming apart as a couple and moving ever further apart, although it may be possible with a few changes in behavior by both sides would to save the relationship and emerge stronger from the crisis! So never bad mouth your ex to people because it will come back to bite you will lower your chances of getting back together with your ex. Mistake No.8: Relationship issues to discuss Do not discuss the separation with the first conversation, talk about the relationship positives and how much fun you have together. This is a very important step, do not lead with your problem when you call your ex- partner. Look at the glass as half full. You want to try to put yourself in the other persons shoes, your ex will find that you often argue with your ex- partner about the same things? Do you think if the argument comes up or is discussed will be beneficial to you to get your ex back? Of course not, you are there to focus on your relationship and not to have a fight with them. If you want to win back your ex it is very important to make sure you lead and discuss with positive feelings rather and meaningless anger
6. 6. and hate, frustration and bad tempers. So, please try to not argue with your ex-partner but if you do, walk away and talk about it when both parties have calmed down! Above all: do not argue about the reasons for separation, instead, discuss your concern for the distance that is between you and how to fix this problem! Very important: I know from experience with my clients to emphasize once again that it is very normal to make these a lot of these mistakes! Those who are interested in winning back the ex-partner, must use as many tips here as possible, use your "gut feeling" to help lead your conversations. Remember, it is absolutely normal and human nature to make these mistakes. There are "tactical errors" and not moral failings. Fortunately, you can compensate for many of these errors by beginning to behave yourself properly and optimally. I know how you feel right now,but believe me ,I have been there and I know without a shadow of a doubt that you can get your lover back. If you want step by step process how to do it ,watch this video
7. 7. and hate, frustration and bad tempers. So, please try to not argue with your ex-partner but if you do, walk away and talk about it when both parties have calmed down! Above all: do not argue about the reasons for separation, instead, discuss your concern for the distance that is between you and how to fix this problem! Very important: I know from experience with my clients to emphasize once again that it is very normal to make these a lot of these mistakes! Those who are interested in winning back the ex-partner, must use as many tips here as possible, use your "gut feeling" to help lead your conversations. Remember, it is absolutely normal and human nature to make these mistakes. There are "tactical errors" and not moral failings. Fortunately, you can compensate for many of these errors by beginning to behave yourself properly and optimally. I know how you feel right now,but believe me ,I have been there and I know without a shadow of a doubt that you can get your lover back. If you want step by step process how to do it ,watch this video