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How to build a psychological immune system: how get through tough times and bounce back stronger than ever. Resilience is when something terrible happens but you bounce back—every bit as happy, healthy, and strong as you were before. So what's the one thing better than resilience? Coming back stronger. Psychology writer Jay Dixit on the new psychology of post-traumatic growth.

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How would you react?

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How would you react?

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Trauma

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Post-Traumatic Stress

pain → damage

negative event

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Time

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negative event

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Post-Traumatic

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Post-Traumatic Resilience

pain + time → normal

negative event

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negative event

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pain → growth

Post-Traumatic Growth

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Post-Traumatic Growth

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How to Build a Psychological

Immune System

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1. Practice mind control

events feelings

getting fired depression

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1. Practice mind control

events thoughts feelings

getting fired “I’m a failure.” depression

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2. Rewriteyour story

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2. Rewriteyour story

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You’re the hero

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3. Find meaning in tragedy

• “Maybe I got fired because I’m supposed to start my own business.”

• “My father’s death is what led me to become a doctor.”

• “I believe I got Parkinson’s because I was meant to raise awareness.”

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4. Explain negative events optimistically

personal

permanent

out of my control

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4. Explain negative events optimistically

personal external

permanent temporary

out of my control what I can do

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5. Expect a comeback

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5. Expecta comeback

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Jay Dixittwitter.com/jaydixit

[email protected]

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